Why Women Stop Making Effort Once You Like Them Back

[@jeremydiesel7805]

This guy changes your view on relationships in a good way

[@kryptonite754]

This is difficult for me. I just recently left someone because she wasn’t trying hard enough anymore. I perceived this as disinterest and potentially that she was hiding something from me. If someone stops trying like they used to, I lose interest over time to a point where I can’t take it anymore, and move on. I even confronted her about it and she just straight up didn’t respond which was also super hurtful.

[@MyDk2009]

Trust your instincts and always protect yourself. Seems like she mentally and emotionally checked out and was just waiting to replace you. Or, wanted you to breakup because you've already been replaced. Either way, you're good. They are horrible and sneaky. Don't feel hurt. Now you have a lesson learned. Hope this helps. For what it's worth I'm an older guy and thought I should reply.

[@kryptonite754]

@MyDk2009 the thing that makes no sense is she would say things to me like "You're perfect to me" and "I want you forever" and I really don't know if she meant those things or if she was just stringing me along. Like she said those things to me multiple times throughout the relationship and EVEN literally a week before I broke up with her, it wasn’t like it had been a while since she’d said them. She even said "this is my last attempt at any kind of serious relationship," because in her previous relationship she was physically abused and was too scared to date most people. Why jeopardize what she had with me for someone else, if that's truly what was going on?

[@MyDk2009]

@@kryptonite754 This is an easy answer and I can tell you're a young guy so no worries. They are master manipulators and love chaos. They say what they feel at the moment. But, their feelings always change. Never listen to their words but always analyze their actions. And remember they ALL claim to have been @buzed but enjoy dishing it out. That simple. Don't try to figure them out more than this.

[@kryptonite754]

@MyDk2009 thanks for being here for me, stranger of the internet. Yes, I am a younger guy. I have been learning a LOT of hard lessons about women and dating within the last year and a half. I was sort of a late bloomer, everything I know has been built up within the last year and a half because that's the only time of my life I've really dated. I just don't understand how a woman can get princess treatment from me but then give 50% effort back, hell it was even less sometimes. I definitely deserve better than that. I don't believe in 50/50 effort, I see it more as 100/100 in an ideal relationship. I want someone who wants to put in the same effort for me as I do for them. I know at the early stages I am usually left no choice but to put in a little more than a woman and I don't have a problem with that. But the biggest lesson I have learned from this particular women is, in general, if a woman's effort never begins to increase, or it does and then suddenly drops at some point, then I need to move on, because for every woman who doesn't try hard enough there's 10 more that will.

[@Escobaz96]

Women like confusion, Men like certainty

[@vorcus6489]

Bro u have no idea how this is helpful for many 🤍