WHY WOMEN WHO REJECTED YOU TRY TO COME BACK 🤨

[@CoachMelannie]

FREE MASTERCLASS - LEARN THE SAME 5 STEP FRAMEWORK I TEACH MY PAID CLIENTS TO GET THEIR IDEAL GIRLFRIEND 🙌 coachmelannie.com/5-steps-to-your-ideal-girlfriend-masterclass-sign-up/ P.S. Have you ever had a girl reject you and then try to come back? Tell me about it in the comments! 👇

[@brianbcpryor112]

COACH🌹🏆👑MELANNIE....

[@stedbetts5432]

Yes

[@Shahine-c8z]

You're my dream girl ;)

[@14kurtismiller]

Women try to come back because the man may owe her money Melannie. I got friend zoned early in the morning. I was watching the news and this beautiful lady was doing the weather forecast. A'lls I could recall saying was, "this one fine lady right here." I wonder whats her name? All of a sudden she pulled out a remote and changed the channel on my T.V.

[@charlieswank8820]

Please let me know thank you

[@captainkekistan8396]

She didn't want me in her prime. I don't want her when she's a single mom with multiple kids from multiple dads.

[@mansamusa2012]

Checkmate

[@deepdiver849]

I am a woman and in the same situation as you. He didn’t see my value in my prime, now he wants me when he has a baby with an ex narcissist. Although I am still very attracted to him, I just can’t handle the situation he is in now...

[@danielanderson2324]

If they know the dads.

[@keesaa3588]

You’re toxic

[@JesusHernandez-ty2su]

@@keesaa3588 How?

[@williebeaman652]

Women come back because they don't have the same value or their options have dried up. Continue to build yourself into the best version of you.

[@leviathandiabolo6296]

And never settle for any woman! 🔥 Good on ya, bro!

[@hennylo68]

The problem is she's so much younger. She's only 24, she's not hitting the wall anytime soon.

[@robbieanderson227]

Henny Lopez it’ll happen .. sit back and watch the show :-)

[@hennylo68]

@@robbieanderson227 what will happen?

[@robbieanderson227]

Henny Lopez her hitting the wall

[@I_am_Raziel]

Have a little self respect. Never take back someone who cheated or rejected you. Never ever

[@CoachMelannie]

Well said!

[@torokopita2763]

Exactly

[@davidvalenzuela1715]

Amen

[@I_am_Raziel]

@Nobody Well done. I wish you the best. Happily ever after.

[@JesseLBK]

If they cheat once they'll cheat again. It's over once the trust is gone.

[@richardjfromthebay9156]

Womens logic: Reject a guy because hes too much of a nice guy Then gets jealous and enraged when that man finds a new woman.

[@CoachMelannie]

This is true if you are talking about toxic women. Real women don't act this way at all. Here are some videos that will help you kzbin.info/aero/PLsQq0KK7pJ-VyeTDmwCE46a85Pme0uqRA And these kzbin.info/aero/PLsQq0KK7pJ-XV9YGvxOR5T79CbwLhJBKM Thanks for watching!

[@makotonarukami7468]

Men on Strike brought me here.

[@cipryan96]

@@CoachMelannie they all do the same😂

[@anthonylamphier5289]

True story. Been there.

[@steveboone1498]

@@CoachMelannie here's another woman's logic for you: turns down a man simply because he never lost his virginity and gets enraged when another woman offers to be his first.

[@muttilainenakseli6764]

If she friendzones or rejects you. Work improve your self and become man she wants but can not have. So do not take her if she have rejected you before. You do not need her.

[@AB-zo9it]

You've just spoke my mind....I agree100%😄🔥🔥

[@alanguages]

When a person has no self respect for herself or himself, then that person will constantly be treated with disrespect. What you tolerate becomes the standard norm, and you allow to continue.

[@marcellus_taylor]

Yes, that. Exactly. Once rejected or friendzoned by a female and she comes back at you when you have evolved, do not concern yourself with her. It will not help you grow.

[@tevinlim9123]

Woman logic: doesn't want to hurt a man's feelings by rejecting him so she leads him on with a false promise of giving him a time of day.

[@barreldbarclaskking2808]

Real women /toxic women y'all jus choose to be toxic when you young and pretend to be be real women when you old and no more Chad's are available

[@l.siestador7248]

Those girls that friend zoned me when I was younger are still single. They're still waiting on Mr. Perfect to come along. It's too bad. I feel sorry for them now.

[@bomajesty9526]

Don't feel sorry for them...laugh at them

[@thulasmash2195]

Don't feel sorry for them. Show them a bit of you that they missed out on. 😂

[@EmilyGloeggler7984]

You have an ego problem. No wonder those girls rejected you.

[@l.siestador7248]

@@EmilyGloeggler7984 It happened 20 years ago, darlin'. It's called perspective.

[@soapking5478]

@@EmilyGloeggler7984 u have an insecurities issue

[@michaelkeudel8770]

Sorry, once you walk away the trust and respect is gone, theres no coming back.

[@CoachMelannie]

That's pretty much what I say. Thanks for watching! 🙏

[@thevanman4498]

And why would you want to go back anyway? Once you and your ex split especially if you have no kids the break is easy. You should have nothing else to say to her. She will try and return, BUT DON’T ACCEPT HER!

[@leroyhudson3877]

Any women who has rejected and tries to come back doesn't get a second chance with me. If I'm not what they want, that's not on me. I don't have time for head games.

[@r.g6170]

you need to watch pride and prejudice lol

[@wo4091]

Yes, women are indeed the masters of playing games.

[@akholienoho]

the moment i get that she is not interested, i just walk away n why not when there r lots of women out there who will n can treat me right? why stick with someone who shows no interest n be friend zoned? its better to walk away

[@sergiosolis4538]

If the gal reject me, why would I want to get with her when she tries to come back. She had her chance, but she let it go.

[@CoachMelannie]

That's a good way to look at it!

[@robertogonzalez1332]

Once rejected never go back value your self worth don’t give someone who hurt you happiness

[@Pauli-dg2yv]

I rather have a woman see me at my worst and stay with me than just a woman suddenly likes me because I am developed. I want her to be a part of that journey

[@tylerk140]

Facts

[@Ipoop7colors]

Yes

[@xawidcowak9903]

She rejected me because she wasn't ready at that moment , after 2 years she is trying to come back but it's too late now She said she wanted to make it up with me , but there was NOTHING between us because she rejected me LMAO

[@abrahamcoronelbeltran6033]

Nice

[@thulasmash2195]

She wants to come back because the men she wanted probably didn't want her 🤣

[@arunj.gnanarathinam1412]

You're the man!

[@dhrubajyoti14]

You're a man of value 👍

[@torokopita2763]

I’ve never gave a chance to girls who rejected me I do care about my respect .

[@mreighthunnid]

If she pushed you away MAKE her stand on it 💯

[@havatampajewels5945]

I cant even begin to explain how 100% spot on you are about toxic women. All they care about is drama and bullying. Im going through it right now. Thank you for opening my eyes!!!

[@CoachMelannie]

I'm sorry to hear that you are going through this! Have you seen these videos? kzbin.info/aero/PLsQq0KK7pJ-VyeTDmwCE46a85Pme0uqRA They will be very helpful to you. Let me know if you have any questions! God bless! 😀

[@dragonlord1689]

I think of the Rick and Morty quote: You miss the old me. You miss someone that loved you so much you never had to love 'em back.

[@Jonibonie]

Wow, that‘s spot on!

[@rkp61158]

Yes almost all my past girlfriends and wives have tried to come back after a break up , unfortunately for them I am neither that desperate nor that stupid to forgive and forget . There are far to many available women for anyone to put up with cheaters and mind games . Ex's turning up again after walking out is about as welcome as a dose of the flu

[@ronjones2435]

Richard, did your wife(s) cheat on you? How long before they tried to return? Have to stay strong for whats to come

[@rkp61158]

@@ronjones2435 Yes and it took about 2 weeks for the excuses to start . It really isn't a matter of staying strong it's a matter of how bad do you want a disease , a repeat of the same thing later down the road , and the complete loss of self respect because you accepted the worst disrespect possible

[@ronjones2435]

Absolutely thanks She moved out left and moved in with him she left 7 months ago so its been awhile so she hasn't tried to return as of yet.

[@jamesdunning8650]

Had this happen by girls I knew in highschool. They came sniffing around about ten years after graduation. I was in peak physical condition and had a fantastic job. Let's just say, the answer was no.

[@ralph4370]

Bro, I had a friend in High School tell on the girl I had a crush on. She turned around and said "EWWW GROSS!" that was a sophmore in High School. 5 years later after college and job I run into her. I have my first fulltime career job and bought a car. She was working at Staples taking time off from school to save money but take a break. Here she is trying to remember who I am, hitting on me, flirting on me, telling me her schedule to drop on by. I smiled and paid for my items and never returned and ordered online. Karma.

[@jamesdunning8650]

@@ralph4370 men are born poor and die rich.

[@wo4091]

If she rejects you, don't give her another chance!! This is a huge mistake! Move on. You have more options.

[@Royal_G80]

I got rejected by a girl and she came back! She texted me happy birthday, congrats on your job interview and said she wanted to hang out sometime. So I just "GHOSTED" her!!!! Ghosting is a great way to hurt a woman's ego! I mean, why would you take someone back if she didn't see any value in you in the first place?

[@skullymoney4143]

Facts good work my guy 💯

[@some3sharks]

Well done buddy!!

[@SasquatchWithStyle]

A girl that rejected me after I asked her out on a date in high school came to my work and tried to ask me out after she became a single mom. I shook my head no and went back to work.

[@fireblade8905]

No way?

[@garciaR159]

A woman shouldn't try and come back if she rejected you, specially if you're doing good because it's not convenient for us, if she tries and comes back it tells me that she's not doing too well and if I'm doing good. I'm not trying to get somebody to knock me off my track to where I'm getting at, to complete my accomplishments, if she had a chance before she shouldn't have a chance again, no contact means no contact forever that'll make her realize you're worth and teach her a lesson to accept someone for who they are.

[@bradstewart2206]

Been out of the game, and dating is a whole different game now. I have this major sense of urgency to make up for lost time. So rejection is brutal

[@justaguitarplayer2059]

Well said. Same here.

[@chrisbunka]

Yes. There can never be too many videos on how to deal with rejection better.

[@CoachMelannie]

Sounds great! Thanks for letting me know! 😀

[@clarkkent6035]

She rejects you in her 20s then comes back sniffing around for your 401K in her 40s.

[@CoachMelannie]

Oh! Red flag!

[@grumblesa10]

Frankly, I don't want her back. SHE made the decision NOT ME. I see this as part of the abundance mentality: she had her chance (sometimes more than 1).

[@juancarlosshannonmelendez538]

that is true.. good video. it happened to me. i wanted this woman, and I acted needy, so she rejected me harshly. she went off with another guy, whom I told her that he was giving me a bad vibe. she said I just said that because I wanted her. I told her part of it is true, but he still gave me a bad vibe... after two or three months, he used her up and dumped her... later, she tried to come back to me.. but it was too late.. I had moved on.... her loss...women have to remember the bad boy isnt gonna stick around.. if she hadn't done that, we probably would have been married...

[@Flamingboy100]

Such a shame and yet at the same time a tragedy. I guess she'll have to live with that for the rest of her life. Time can be measured by her imput. I moved on with dating multiple girls and then she tried to come back after she went off with another dude. Her loss - totally. This video talks about toxic women and sadly she was. Some girls sadly just never learn. I don't think she ever will.

[@justbeingjake]

Great video and just discovered your content. Guys just be yourself and if they reject you..well it's their loss. Be the best you and don't accept anything you don't deserve. When you meet the right woman they'll put effort.

[@CoachMelannie]

So happy you're here! Have a happy day! 😀

[@mh5854]

Don't be needy, and be yourself don't change urself just to make them laugh, be the best version of yourself and prove that you are the one who loves her forever.

[@Bwh-rm3py]

Seems so complicated, I'm going to just put the effort into being comfortable alone.

[@vaughnamir.6457]

You’ll get all the girls you want when you’re comfortable with being alone:

[@4yajustblazin]

Soooo, she failed at replacing you and the grass wasn't greener after all? Got it

[@The7dioses]

If she rejects you, never look back. If you are a decent man, with higher education than her, higher social status, good looking and financially stable and STILL she rejected you, she is NOT worth giving her a second opportunity. Let her delude herself into thinking that she was above you. Never take her back after she rejected you unless she is a woman of virtue. 99% are not.

[@brandonstillwell9405]

I’d have to disagree with something you said here. If a female really want you, she will keep waiting for you if your moving slower or even faster. And that’s the female you want. That’s the girl that’s gonna give you the world and make your life easy

[@bruht9921]

I love how her stories always end up with them being married in the end

[@marcusinfinity9386]

Fairy Tales

[@deathrager2404]

this proves she is a fraud. cant believe you kids fall for her lies.

[@Chiefland7]

@@deathrager2404 maybe that comment was sarcastic 😂

[@PhotoLabMP]

If any woman rejected you for not having your career yet or money together but later you became successful and well off and now she wants you, you dodged a bullet. You don't want someone that's that shallow. Never accept a woman that rejects you.

[@mjhstyl5364]

No more letting them come back. Thk U Coach❗️

[@CoachMelannie]

You are very welcome! I'm so glad it helped 😀

[@airforcemarkmg]

I have a story to tell 😂 I spent 5 years being friends with this girl I knew. We had a lot in common and we spent time going out for lunch or hanging out. Spent hours on the phone and called me when I got off of work. But in the last year she recently became single and I didn’t wanna force myself on to her after she had a long term relationship so I kept my distance. But after a few months she started to talk to other guys. Guys that maybe were better options. I tried to maintain the friendship but my feelings got the best of me and I couldn’t bare it. I told her how I felt and she just told me to get over it. The worst part is I felt like she was a completely different person and I was just something to pass the time. Once she became more serious and started dating one of the guys, our conversations stopped. We still text her and there but honestly I feel like I holding on to someone I’ll never have. I tried my best for 5 years and it got me no where. I fell into a deep depression and a loneliness that I can’t shake. And I hate that when she starts talking to me again I get excited but for what :/

[@CoachMelannie]

If you’d like to email me I can help you with this. coachmelannie.com/contact-me/ God bless 🙏

[@jotansun4357]

Exactly! They only want validation! Nothing more! I've been working on myself when she left town for two weeks + with her bf. The purpose I was on during her absence made me feel I am worth more. The time I spent being her simping and tailoring to her just dwindled. I was the fixer upper guy whenever she needed help. In other words, an emotional doormat. Be strong my frd, you are worth way more. Walking away is thr healthier option

[@user-yv1fh3fc8y]

Marco, take offense of her antics and games. How can you desire that kind of behavior 🤨

[@prashanthb6521]

Please go to Reddit pages of Intermittent Fasting and Keto Diet. There are many who have come out of depression successfully and gone on to build better quality lives. Please dont ignore it for your own good. My stroy is similar so I feel like helping you out. All the best.

[@billbrown288]

Marco Did her boyfriend know you were spening so much time with

[@elleryhorton8434]

"worked on himself" = got rich "the traits I'm looking for" = 💰

[@CoachMelannie]

Money is very important to men and women. It takes money to live and a lot of money to live well. Those are facts. However, if you find that the women you are attracting want only your money, you are probably attracting toxic women. Here are some videos that will help you. kzbin.info/aero/PLsQq0KK7pJ-VyeTDmwCE46a85Pme0uqRA I hope that helps. God bless!

[@elleryhorton8434]

@@CoachMelannie I don't care about a woman's money. Never have. Never will. That's the difference.

[@paulsanjurjo4390]

If I wasn't good enough when she rejected me, I'm not good enough when I either improve myself or when I move on. I've been in both situations before and I subsequently rejected the two different women who had initially rejected me. I'm personally not into the Elizabeth Taylor/Richard Burton type of relationships. Once and done.

[@skywalker847]

Embrace rejection, you will come to know yourself as others do.

[@Royal_G80]

I got rejected by a girl and she came back! She texted me happy birthday, congrats on your job interview and said she wanted to hang out sometime. So I just "GHOSTED" her!!!! A year and a half later she sends me a friend request on social media. I ignored her and moved on and she decided to block me after I didn't respond to her. WTF is wrong with some women? Can't they get a hint?

[@einherjar8585]

No means no. I only need to hear it once. Never let them do it twice. I dont need a dream girlfriend, I dont need a partner. I have made my own life, made my own way. While a good partner might be nice, a bad one is a total disaster and who wants to deal w the learning curve?

[@tennisfrk123]

Another major reason why a girl will come back around is because she sees you with a hotter girl then her. That is your best chance at getting out of the friendzone/turning a rejection around

[@williebeaman652]

Facts!

[@Richard.Hybels]

I agree. I’ve been hit on when with a woman. Very rare if I’m alone. Once in the midst of a break up I criticized a guy she had a date with and she said “At least he has the chicks”. Of course that meant something obvious.

[@MrPhil309]

Basically if she notices that you are making more money, she comes back. Women since the beginning of time 😂😂😂

[@williamjones7589]

this girl ghosted me for a week after telling me she always have fun with me. She texted me back a week later my teeth messed up and I stink when I just took a shower before seeing her the final time. She told me I just "doesn't care to have a friendship". 2 month later she comes back texting me. I haven't responded and I wont. I talked to this girl for a year and she came on to me saying she wants to be my friend I really liked her but im not falling for that trick again.

[@CoachMelannie]

Sounds like you made the right decision! Have a great day 😀

[@ScotmanUK2000]

Why women come back? Its happened to me twice were women came back but one who came back only done so after 3 of her boyfriend she was seeing over 6 years left, cheated or had health problems. When she did come back. I lost all my feelings for her. The other person who came back after rejecting me was other a few months. I got dumped by email and I chose not to reply to her. She was on my FB and I moved on with my life and forgot about her but she was possibly following what I was doing beciasebfast foward about 9 months later she messages me to get back to me. Its also happned to a couple of my friends but I found out most came back because all their other options were bad or just dried up.

[@CoachMelannie]

I'm so sorry. Sounds like they may have been toxic. Take care!

[@alexanderdelarosahidalgo3092]

Brother that's right they only comeback when they run out of options!

[@mickeymcfly4692]

@@CoachMelannie is “toxic women” your standard go to excuse?

[@mr.goodwrench8273]

Have I ever had a girl reject me and then try to come back ? Yes. However, I did not get upset or depressed about the rejection at all. I was not desperate. Just interested in her. She wound up with a controlling boyfriend. After dealing with that and not liking it, a little while later she broke it off with him. Afterward, she looked at the possibility of getting together with me, and I had already moved onward. It's all good.

[@CoachMelannie]

Good for you! 😀

[@nicekix3038]

Good man. Never be someone’s second choice

[@robbieanderson227]

🤴

[@peterm2152]

She may reject you and certainly TRY Again. Don't fall for it guys. Just "don't CREEP Her Out" and you will be fine. Problem is guys you can never know what behaviour of yours creeped-her-out in the first place. And it could well have been bad LEARNED Behaviour of hers which was really responsible for the "rejection" in the first place. Don't LET THEM Back... you will really be to blame trust me.

[@josedess8823]

If she goes it’s finished forever NO return back. That’s my motto. Thanks.

[@nickmarsala3787]

I've come to the conclusion that it just isn't worth it at all. Pursuing a woman is a waste of time, money, resources and effort when you could being using all that towards something else that is more productive. Also as time goes on it just becomes less and less valuable. If you are over 35 why bother?

[@Feber2001]

I'm a little younger than you but I already gave up and I absolutely have no intention of going back to the "Market."

[@sagarurs8133]

@@Feber2001 Yes, our goals are more important.

[@gregoryjanczak7013]

There is a girl I asked several times in the past but she said she had a boy friend, which she did. Then I found out she broke up with him. I gave her time to recover so to speak and so I asked her out again but this time I said, "so when are we going out?" As soon as I said that, I knew I screwed-up. This video gave me answers that I actually scared her to "back off." However, she kept being flirty with me. For several weeks now I just seem to want her more and I get the feeling she does too, but just didn't know until now if she was just playing me or really interested. I will watch your next video on toxic women to gain even more clarity. Thanks again. I know I am close to either making another move on her or just moving on. Thanks again and God bless.

[@diamonddave16]

76.1K Subscribers! On to 100K. It’s because of the content. And the brilliant, likable person delivering the great stuff. The infectious laughs & snickers also don’t hurt

[@mostreal907]

I don’t understand the pacing thing. You can move too fast too slow. It seems it a very personal thing that is hard to measure.

[@CoachMelannie]

If you'd like to email me I can help you with this. coachmelannie.com/contact-me/ Have a happy day! 😀

[@luisrivera8024]

😂😂😂😂 my old crush from high-school rejected me 2 times during high school. I tried my entire time there to date her, but it seems like I was always hitting a brick wall. Eventually I just stopped and moved on. Fast forward 4 years from now. After 4 years of grinding and working on myself. I was living excellent getting multiple jobs opportunities, I’m on track to graduate from college. I got a good paying job, I’m financing a vehicle, building my credit score. I’m working out. Then one day I got a call. It was her. She said that she’s in town and wants to catch up with her past self. She wants to reconnect, that if I have time she would like to go see a movie. I took her up on her offer. After the movie, she wanted to finally give me the chance. I just laugh it out and walked away. 😂😂😂

[@some3sharks]

😂😂😂😂

[@spd6147]

Revenge, a dish best served cold. Well done playing the long game.

[@dereks7745]

I totally scared a girl away recently. Everything was going good and I think I gave too many compliments one day and her attitude completely changed. We had a great connection and she wasn't used to being treated right but apparently I blew it by being too nice.

[@CoachMelannie]

I'm sorry to hear that happened! It's possible what happened is that she felt a bit smothered by compliments and it came across as needy. These videos will help! kzbin.info/aero/PLsQq0KK7pJ-UMVqc5Y0QDhYxWRW-2yKT8

[@dereks7745]

@@CoachMelannie She basically said "Take it easy, I don't always know how to respond to these." I took it easy after that but then she was done 2 days later.

[@some3sharks]

Don’t worry. It’s all part of the process

[@garyshack3511]

I got rejected by women who are either happily married or in a committed relationship, should I continue to wait or move on to someone else?

[@legendary1231000]

It just seems so hard! 😂 it’s like a course. I’ve been able to conquer tough stuff in my life. Got into a good job field, stronger physically, mentally, spiritually all hard stuff! but not as hard as this 😂 but I’m an optimist

[@mgw4205]

Women created the game, you won't lose if you dont play.

[@CoachMelannie]

If you have been in relationships with women who play games, you are most likely attracting toxic women. These videos will help you to avoid them in the future. kzbin.info/aero/PLsQq0KK7pJ-VyeTDmwCE46a85Pme0uqRA Good women, and they are out there, will never play games. I hope that helps. Have a great day 😀

[@mgw4205]

@@CoachMelannie I've loved em big little short or tall was married for 17yrs and here is my perspective. kzbin.info/www/bejne/gGfRg6GupteKqLM

[@paulmarsy1041]

I am so glad of this, as I really need it right now, and why they accept us back.

[@gazza2933]

Me too Paul. Good Luck! 👍🏻

[@WillS.TheSuperReds.]

Same here. I was stupid and didn't realise i was being to weak and needy with my crush at work , trying to talk to her with too many texts, writing her a note telling her , i just want the best for her , i will support her always , i would like to get to know more about her on a personal level because she matters to me e.t.c. I just didn't and still don't want her to get hurt by some arsehole. So i apologised as she said "you made me a little uncomfortable and can we please stop with the messaging". I know you have good intentions. I think she blocked me on Instagram , because i came across as needy / weak and scared her accidentally. I have learnt my lesson , that is why i will still support her , but just not bother her though. So to hopefully win her back , i have to make sure i respect her wishes , which is wanting more space , stop being needy / weak and work on myself again because when you mess up like this and you concentrate on you then more than likely the women will too.

[@williebeaman652]

You should only do self improvement for yourself only, when you make it about the woman you develop a scarcity mindset. Continue to work on you and more options will come your way.

[@CoachMelannie]

Thanks! So glad you liked it! 🙏

[@abrockman61]

Just make sure she isn't settling, speaking from experience.

[@idanwillenchik3050]

That never happened to me. A woman who rejects me once will never be my friend and she can go to hell and stay there.EFFING C**T!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[@scidamenge]

How about if I was married for almost 8 years and 1 day my wife returned our rings and left me? She is acting like she is not coming back. I did everything in the world for her and her kid and was very used by her and we even owned a home. What can I do?

[@MrAth69]

Been married for 30 years, we're separated, she has new friends, but still keeps me hanging around, can't totally step back as I have family! It's a killer situation! I'm now cutting as much contact as I can!

[@farkinarkin5099]

My take on this? Well let me relate one of the few times girls have approached me (yes, it happened once in in a while). There was this one time, I was totally engrossed with eating a burrito, and this attractive girl (again, yes it does happen) approached me. The first thing I noticed was that she was rather dressed up for Saturday morning. She quickly asked me, “do I have a light?” To which I answered honestly and straight forwardly (like guys) do, “Uh no. I don’t smoke.” Now, before I even had a chance to offer her a seat so we could chat, she beat a hasty walk (really a trot) of shame out of there. What was the lesson? The lesson was that she was so sure of rejection, that she assumed my answer was a brush-off. It dawned on me that she had been observing (I don’t like the term stalking, because it is demeaning and disrespectful) me for weeks and had worked out a plan to pop the question --- I always had a breakfast burrito at that place around the same time every Saturday morning. I checked back a couple of times in the weeks following, but she never showed up again. I wouldn’t recognize this girl if I saw her today, but if I did, I’d tell her that it was all in her mind. I was interested. No. VERY interested. She just assumed the worst… and things never got started. I do not think that most women who “reject” a man are actually saying, “never”. They are just not sure, and “no” is just being cautious. Also, many people misread interactions. If you are really interested in a woman, and you are self-aware enough to have already made yourself worthy, then trust your instincts. She may not really be rejecting you AND saying no is just being cautious (or both of you are too nervous to read the situation correctly). So, if they always come back, it is because they do want to give it (not you, but the both of you) a second chance. Just sayin’

[@14kurtismiller]

She may have thought to herself, if he can eat that burrito with no teeth surely he can eat me.

[@deepdiver849]

Good observation

[@1LastSong]

If she was interested in you, she would have known you don't smoke.. so no point asking for a light... (just my 2 cents)

[@farkinarkin5099]

@@1LastSong LOL. She was interested ---- just didn't have enough data or insight.

[@McComb_T]

I think something like this happened to me bro. But in my case she bought me carrots and offered to buy some broccoli too but I simply said "No" because I didn't know her and I don't take stuff from strangers. Immediately I said no, she just walked off like that and I never saw her again.

[@benw3290]

Lol Peanutbutter Cheesecake!! Soo... #3 is very true! I've learned the old saying "talk is cheap" and untill she shows me my worth my heart is locked!❤ good video

[@CoachMelannie]

I'm so glad it was helpful! Thank you so much for your kind words 🙏

"If you come across as pushy, aggressive, or creepy..." Translation: you aren't attractive enough for her This has been the universal lesson for all guys in every generation.

[@CoachMelannie]

Actually it just means you just need the right skills so you don't come off as pushy, aggressive or needy. It works every time!

[@AussieTrekkie]

What happens with the reverse when the male gets creeped out by the woman and she still acts interested?

[@CoachMelannie]

You don't have to be with anyone you are not comfortable with. Ever!

[@14kurtismiller]

Stop wearing deodorant and ask to borrow money from her. She won't be back.

[@gasoline109]

@@14kurtismiller 😂😂😂😂👏👏

[@jonjonhyper8324]

I liked this girl and was rejected by her. Subsequently, she was dumped and wanted me back. Simple rule of thumb my bros. Love yourself, know your worth, self appreciate yourself! When you love yourself, only then you can have the ability to love others and fill their cups! Alot of the times, rejections are taken very heavily and personal! Overtime, I realized that I thank that girl for rejecting me because her rejection made me reframe my life and my own value! To me, it isn't about 101 ways to learn how to not get rejected again etc simply just, love yourself. Accept your flaws, self appreciate, once that mentality comes. It sub consciously manifest into positive mental health and outcome to your life. With that positivity, ppl around you can sense it! Always remember, ppl likes others with "value". This Value isn't an external validation, or just looking good on the surface. This value is something we give from ourselves to ourselves! Moral of my pt, love yourself because God loves you and you are awesome for reading this! :)

[@gamingis4eva]

Once its a no, it will always be a NO

[@larw0lf701]

If you move too fast, you’ll lose her. If you move too slow, you’ll lose her. If you seem needy, you’ll scare her… if you seem disinterested, she’ll get bored and leave. Genuine question, why is it so often the men that have to modify their behavior?

[@CoachMelannie]

If you'd like to email me I can help you with this. coachmelannie.com/contact-me/ Have a happy day! 😀

[@nyzamhariz]

ikr. why in this world, men that need to change, need to be better, need to be like perfect person. why the women rarely changed themselves even when their partner told her to do that? if men try to change his women behaviour, society will say that " you need to accept her just the way she is blah blah blah "

[@dhrubap-jq6ys]

All of this is bs . She will definitely run for Chad and Tyrone.

[@georgebaez1193]

Modify our behavior for something that keeps getting ran through day after day

[@brianskol5213]

You are smart and insightful. You have a soothing voice. No wonder you are successful. Congratulations.

[@rexharvey1745]

I give a positive response to my well being when I get rejected, that also identifies the excuse / game/ response I have received. Example : I want to get your number to set up a date for next week ? No I am not dating now. A easy let down . My favorite response to rejection is : Thanks for letting me know, someone attractive is just around the corner of time, waiting for me. Live your day. And I walk away. Many times it turns their interest into a reply of oh wait a minute. The choice is yours "MAN" to keep walking or turn around to engage the moment.

[@akramlaklasse5439]

Let's be honest girl reject man because she think she can find somebody better than him,and after years passed she realised she didn't find anybody so she says hmm maybe this guy can save me so she tries to get him

[@joema4844]

I have been rejected, strung along, told I am ugly, played, you name it I got it. I have given up trying as the saying goes 'once bitten twice shy'. Most women now a days are not looking for a nice-loyal-loving man (even if they say it, they don't mean it lesson learned), what they want is the 'Perfect Man' that only exist within the confine of the mind. Sadly in today's dating scene there is no place for the nice-loyal-loving man. For all the nice-loyal-loving men out there you are not unlovable most women today just have unrealistic wants and expectations, concentrate on your goals and dreams (change the world for the better) and you'll be much happier. Take care.

[@CoachMelannie]

I'm SO sorry to hear that's happened to you! It's not right. It's sounds like you've had some toxic women in your past. They will do the very things you've just mentioned. Here are some videos that will help you avoid women like that in the future kzbin.info/aero/PLsQq0KK7pJ-VyeTDmwCE46a85Pme0uqRA Please believe me when I say that GOOD women, women who are not toxic LOVE good men. THAT is what real women are looking for. It's just about knowing how to stop attracting toxic women and instead get the good ones. Here are some videos that will hep you with this kzbin.info/aero/PLsQq0KK7pJ-WuesbR1wpmgbm6busP8kPQ Feel free to email me with questions! [e-mail]

[@jeremyhall1646]

Thing to remember is funny how women say men need to change but never that they need to

[@CoachMelannie]

I would never suggest you change for another person. However, it's very important that we always improve ourselves.

[@jeremyhall1646]

@@CoachMelannie I agree. But you seemed to encourage men to take back a woman who pulled away. What about the woman's accountability,or that's how I took that video, sorry if I misinterpreted. May I recommend a 20/20 video Nora Vincent "self made man" a feminist who lived as a man for 18 months she discovered a lot about both genders. Thank you for replying to the comment have a wonderful day and God bless

[@manofsteelgoodmanll7925]

Some feel terrible and some usually to apologize to you at times or maybe do it because they want stuff from you in my opinion..

[@rafaelclemente5175]

Yes my friend Melannie and have an amazing day!!

[@CoachMelannie]

Thank you so much! Have a great day 😀

[@fredpipsy3692]

Who, after being rejected trying to cope with this?

[@pointuout2020]

Yes, make more rejection videos. It makes me feel worse. So keep them coming!

[@CoachMelannie]

Will do! While I work on that here are some that are similar! 😀 kzbin.info/aero/PLsQq0KK7pJ-VOYPpi4UjSjCpKDxJAS6g3

[@jomarp2623]

This is why you just let them leave and never look back

[@devilsadvocacy]

They come back after the monkey branch breaks; that is, when she exhausts all of her better options. Then, and only then is it your turn. But beware, because she will take the next opportunity to monkey-branch when it presents itself, and that means it is no longer your turn

[@osaroboezekiel1509]

Yes, women tend to accept previously rejected due to fear, and clarity of purpose on the guy' future.

[@Petespans]

What's a "Christian" dating coach, vs a regular coach?

[@billsantospianomore678]

Add together the times I have been rejected by women and rejected for employment, that total is much more than one thousand times, including 414 rejections from women in 18 months with a video dating service. For me, all of those rejections are individual badges of honor of which I am totally proud.

[@rjvtechnologies]

a woman who says/thinks a man is not good the first time, wont really change her mind around, in the previous scenario, is not about the person which was not enough but about something that same person acquired not the person, if a woman, "change" her mind because a men is wearing better garments, better job, went to the gym, etc, is not the type of woman a man would want since what "won" that woman back was everything but the man she previously rejected

[@tubularbill]

I don’t know from what I’ve seen it looks like women really enjoy turning men down. It’s almost like an Olympic sport.

[@abubakarahmad9647]

This is so true coach melanin i can relate

[@CoachMelannie]

Thanks for watching! 🙏

[@fhajji]

Embrace rejection. It can make you more empathetic towards others' plight and pain. It is a wonderful parting gift from her. That is why I love the woman who rejected me almost 35 years ago and never spoke to me again more than any one ever since. First love / first rejection cuts deepest... but maybe we need this to become fully human. If she ever tried to come back... what I'd hoped for so long... I'd feel disappointed. Weird, I know.

[@Mr_BUSINESS_24_7]

Basically everything is going to scare her. Unless your bank account can fight off anything that's frightening.

[@CoachMelannie]

Money is very important to men and women. It takes money to live and a lot of money to live well. Those are facts. However, if you find that the women you are attracting want only your money, you are probably attracting toxic women. Here are some videos that will help you. kzbin.info/aero/PLsQq0KK7pJ-VyeTDmwCE46a85Pme0uqRA I hope that helps. God bless!

[@Mr_BUSINESS_24_7]

@@CoachMelannie Mel, let's be honest. Of course I'm talking about women who don't have money but are happy to beg and nag me to spend all my money on them. And her money is not important to me. I will not ask her to share any of her money with me.

[@Hamzak786]

😂😂😂

[@jacks.554]

The best moments in my life came when I stopped taking all women seriously🙂

[@farscape3100]

i told her how i feel i have shown her the same, she goes away through some complecations on her side that she had, i told her once i can walk away at anytime, and i proved that, i wouldnt hear from her for months then she comes back, and says sorry for doing that , me i just shrugged my shoulders, i do try to romance her, but making it plain if im not wanted the shutters will come down. she does seem to react well to me being confident

[@tabarnakopoulos]

4:04 this story reaches out to me because that's what's happening to me right now! Except we're far from the wedding part, because, we started dating about 13 weeks ago and we are officially a couple since 2 months ago ( in fact 2 months tomorrow ) But I was the one who rejected her, because I didn't feel ready to be in a relationship at the time ( 2 years ans 2 months ago ) and I knew I needed to work on myself for a time before being ready. And in fact I had given up on finding love and was perfectly fine being single and doing my own stuff solo, but fate put her back on my road again and I won her over without even trying and I wasn't looking for a relationship. I was just happy spending time with her again.

[@denfordbacayana2303]

Toxic woman plays. Most of them are narc, if you encounter these gal, run away and never return, they wont change.. period..

[@dossantosjoao5336]

Hi everybody that's very nice to talk and important too... we are all different and we all need love in my case,i ve been rejected cause within the circumstances of my life my reaction towards a beautiful woman was taken by her part probably as i rejected her .but no i didn't...i came to her to see her and i was insecure how she was feeling for me and that... still remains in my heart i would like to be with her, but, there's this gap i can't blame her... i think im gonna do one more try in a different way maybe, we get lucky if she still feel for it good evening

[@felipediazvlog]

what about your crush rejecting you because she already likes someone else, and you didn't know until the moment you confess your feelings to her?

[@CoachMelannie]

I’m sorry that happened! If you’d like to email me I can help you with this. coachmelannie.com/contact-me/ God bless 🙏

[@quaker1874]

I've known this girl at my job for a year. We would say hi and talk about anime, movies, almost anything. So last week she started to show signs she likes me. I waited for about a week to make sure that's what I was seeing. She never behaved this way in the year I've known her. Yesterday, I talked to her for a bit, then asked for her number. She said, "I don't give my number to random people." I said that it's okay. I kept a smile and good attitude, kept my distance, and recommended her some songs. I told her to have a good day. She smiled and didn't get weird. I just found it weird she clearly was interested, and didn't give me her number. Melannie if you have any thoughts, that would be great. All comments are welcome from everyone else.

[@staryoke]

Move on. She likes the attention and validation you're giving her. Once she realized your attention wasn't free (you wanted a relationship in return) she didnt want to "pay" for it. She doesn't think you're time is worth anything.

[@johnbingaman3645]

You're missing the whole point. Her EX she went back to him but she never came back and the relationship's is long over.,,i wasn't needy,,or over pursuing,,,she just wasn't over him...

[@shakarussanders9911]

If I get rejected by a stranger I'm fine with that I probably will never see her again but to get rejected by a female you've known for a longtime is the tuff one! I won't even try because I don't want things to be awkward between us because I value the friendship

[@CoachMelannie]

I understand! Have you seen these videos? kzbin.info/aero/PLsQq0KK7pJ-VOYPpi4UjSjCpKDxJAS6g3 They are all about avoiding rejection. Take care! 😀

[@shakarussanders9911]

@@CoachMelannie I'll check them out! Have a great weekend 😊

[@melitsyt9322]

Actually I'm in this situation thanks alot coach i really appreciated these 😌