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@StudSupreme5 күн бұрын
MUCH HONESTY AND WISDOM IN THIS CLIP!!! "Success is the Best Revenge."
@TheFunkybert5 күн бұрын
Personal experience: what I experienced with my exgf went from “I’m so in love with you” to “you were mean to me” on to literally flipping me the bird when we crossed paths in public after we broke up. When a woman feels scorned, reaches resentment, loses genuine burning desire.. it’s 100% over in her mind. DO NOT engage fantasy that she will somehow change her mind AFTER you’ve improved yourself in a way that she might be surprised to see or learn of. Grow and change for yourself. Be the best version of you.. for you. Great topic of discussion and reminder Mof. Thanks dude.
@moff_unplugged4 күн бұрын
Appreciate that man. Thanks for sharing your first-hand input
@DEBTFREEMIKE7695 күн бұрын
I fell into that trap of changing my life, working out etc… to show an ex what she lost. It was good motivation, but it shouldn’t have been my reason to change. I finally decided I won’t be someone’s second option.
@PermanentHigh5 күн бұрын
When did the realization hit you?
@LeadLeftLeon4 күн бұрын
@PermanentHigh A wise man works hard to attract women. A chump works hard to attract a woman
@DEBTFREEMIKE7693 күн бұрын
@@PermanentHigh i’d say late 30’s
@tomc16475 күн бұрын
Moff absolutely on point here.
@moff_unplugged4 күн бұрын
Thanks man.
@thomv55915 күн бұрын
Man did this message hit close to home
@moff_unplugged4 күн бұрын
Hope you got some value from it
@masterninja40104 күн бұрын
Think Rich found his successor. You’re doing a great job, Moff.
@deepthoughts87-d4s3 күн бұрын
Moff you are killing it!
@MS-19945 күн бұрын
"Prove them wrong" has been a powerful motivator for me my entire life and I really haven't found a downside to it so far. I can imagine going overboard, fixating on the wrong things, etc., but in my case it just has helped me do difficult things the have made me better.
@moff_unplugged4 күн бұрын
Great mindset if you can do it without losing yourself in the process
@SKBottom2 күн бұрын
Don't dig through the trash after you've taken it to the curb.
@deadman120785 күн бұрын
Once it's over it's over. Once she cheats or leaves you. You can never trust them again. There's too much history. If you can forgive her betrayal once. What's to stop her from doing it again? She's already shown what she'll do once.... God, that's only what you know about. She didn't just cheat. She ran her mouth to anyone that would listen. She trashed your reputation too... You have to overcome that too. I've tried to bring the trash back in the house. She'll be doing the same thing a few months later. It's a mindset and she has already tainted your rep with friends and family. You're just a place holder. Move on. Be happy. Don't look back.
@tonydiesel34445 күн бұрын
Just about 100% of men deal with trash most men marry single mothers most men marry 304s most men marry women who have been ran through paternity fraud is probably 50% and all the guys who are married will end up divorced in about 7 to 9 years
@scottverge9385 күн бұрын
The reputation one is huge to me. My ex called me abusive and controlling. So how exactly would we rekindle anything after that? She took back the abusive controlling asshole? And that's leaving aside all the other good reasons to never take her back.
@deadman120785 күн бұрын
@scottverge938 So true. I play games on my exes. I still screw my ex more than most married men. I am what she wanted. I screwed up though. There is no going back. She wants to think she can have me but it'll never be more. I can't trust her. She can't really let people know we're hooking up. She's ruined. She'll never have a relationship again that she'll be happy in.
@eliel14ful4 күн бұрын
Pure facts, the first impression is the forever impression to some people. Change is done to do YOUR LIFE better, it can have the secondary effect of making some people doubt their opinion of you but its like buying a car bc you like the seats
@moff_unplugged4 күн бұрын
1000%
@Tony-p1i5s5 күн бұрын
If she leaves or cheats then leave and find someone better for you and forget her.
@kevinmanning48804 күн бұрын
Great video Moff! Rich Cooper you picked a great guy to do this.
@moff_unplugged4 күн бұрын
Much appreciated
@GettingAlotDone2 күн бұрын
Yup. Resentment is ITS OVER
@ravendronesolutions2 күн бұрын
I had an ex get close to another dude and I dumped her. I slowly began to improve myself and I look better now than I used to. Got married (getting amicably divorced now), and have done many things I wanted. 6 years after our break up she tells me I was her one and only true love. Didn't do it for that reason but I know that she deeply regrets her past behavior.
@dommidavros22115 күн бұрын
Makes perfect sense, everything he said there!
@robertdarr34865 күн бұрын
The "new" you can not include the people that supported/enabled/tolerated the "old" you. Your new life has to exclude the past environment of the old one.
@moff_unplugged4 күн бұрын
Huge point that many miss. One foot in the past and one in the future. Like a ball and chain holding you back
@deepthoughts87-d4s3 күн бұрын
I had an ex date a guy i went to school with he was more popular so it makes sense. They see you as still that person it is what it is. Same with exes find a new woman she sees you how she sees you.
@MrDanielt75 күн бұрын
Meh you take an ex back and its a paradox, the fact you accepted her back will make you seen as a beta.
@DmattOC5 күн бұрын
Well done Moff
@GregMunro11 сағат бұрын
Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her.
@TrentReeves-c2k11 сағат бұрын
its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended, but i couldnt just let her go i did all i could to get her back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring her back
@GregMunro11 сағат бұрын
Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach her?
@TrentReeves-c2k11 сағат бұрын
Shelly renee white , and she is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.
@GregMunro11 сағат бұрын
Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive
@OlimpiaGrecoTomisi3 күн бұрын
I just had a hard breakup. It's been really difficult since my five-year relationship ended a few months ago. My former partner is still very much in my heart, and I can't seem to stop thinking about him. Nothing has worked to get him back, and at this point, it seems impossible to be with anyone else. I know it may seem strange to admit this, but I miss him terribly and think about him constantly.
@marcusrelyea-perry14984 күн бұрын
Where did Moff get that sign?
@moff_unplugged4 күн бұрын
NeonSignsNow
@GymForLifeHD3 күн бұрын
man is loved by performance man is creator
@hablabamosa4 күн бұрын
My biggest goal in life is quality of life. Simple as that. Wanting to impress people and succeding in that is kind of useless if it doesn't improve my life.
@stephaneboivin93595 күн бұрын
If you internalise everything like a ''wise man'' when you ''grow'' well, no Porsche, no Mc Laren, no book, no KZbin channel, no public recognition, no salt, no spices, no mistakes...! Oh boy! How about being truthfull and having fun during the process and do what needs to be done every step of the way! Life is short! Not only women have emotions, men too! And they have a need to exteriorise it as much as women, just differently. So, if you really want a Ferrari and can afford it, because you want to drive in front of your ex Child Hood bully's house, just do it! When you'll get tired of it, sell it, become a wise man and write a book about it :). Seriously, real life is not all black and white. If you get off track a little, don't worry too much about it! Go on and take note, improve and do another stupid ''mistake''. Mea Culpa, write a second book about it and go on... Then die! Not too complicated 😇(Bonus: For every ''mistake'' you'll make, you'll gain more women attention. Not so much, if you hide in the woods with your Pride & Wisdom)
@DBSTH0R5 күн бұрын
Absolutely on point. Well said.
@baja1k15 күн бұрын
Moff you are 100% right
@sugarsgr18935 күн бұрын
Smart man
@lucianadriancordis-zx9vq5 күн бұрын
Great one Moff, thank you.
@VIRGOLEGACY5 күн бұрын
Appreciate you moff 💪🏾💪🏾🙏🏾💯💯
@Kevin-cm5kc5 күн бұрын
Does moff have his own channel as well? I always like appreciate his input
@moff_unplugged4 күн бұрын
Not really. I post some of my Community Meetup stuff on my own channel but my longform stuff is on the TUA channel
@clarkkent69275 күн бұрын
Thats why i prefer animals over humans
@jamesdotson10805 күн бұрын
That is illegal in most places.
@AAJ23801Күн бұрын
Who cares? Move forward !
@ChicaPhoto5 күн бұрын
6:11 Shouldn't good men pursue women who want them? If she's dysfunctional and chases badboys, just leave her alone, simple.
@RichCooperClips3 күн бұрын
All women love the bad boy deep down. It's in their nature. Feel free to come on Ladies Night if you'd like to discuss. - M
@ChicaPhoto3 күн бұрын
@@RichCooperClips Hi Moth. No, I disagree. I think a stronger arguement would be that most women want confidence, leadership and strength in men. Sadly right now, these traits are represented in mainstream media/film/TV even politics by "bad boys" when in reality lots of men have these qualities and they are responsible people. It's deeper than tropes. I agree with some of what you and Rich share. Thank you for the generous invitation! This is a big platform. My public brand won't be about dating, so I will decline on this occasion. I might drop in again, in the comments. Happy New Year and peace to you gentlemen.
@AiresOne5 күн бұрын
You must become an Individual in a world full of the walking dead.
@GinNBoost5 күн бұрын
Good content from Moff but the video title has nothing to do with the subject matter lol
@moff_unplugged4 күн бұрын
Good feedback. Will relay to the editors
@AMETALF805 күн бұрын
yeah
@xcaption13505 күн бұрын
it´s ovER
@jimdandy89965 күн бұрын
Ironically, I had women get disgusted with me and got rid of me for the bad behaviors you say attract women lol
@mikeg24915 күн бұрын
You have to look like Chad or else it doesn’t work. The blackest of blackpills is the dudes who go on Tinder with a fake model profile and tell women he’s a convicted sex offender or some other awful history and it doesn’t phase them
@stinger07725 күн бұрын
Usually means not physically attractive enough. That's the other part of the equation not mentioned.
@dakotaescher15 күн бұрын
Happily married for 27 + years, stocks, money, savings, educated, how about you? Who should you be listening to gentlemen?
@_J2C5 күн бұрын
wut
@TheFunkybert5 күн бұрын
Right, so if you divorced her today you’d be financially set and move on to another broad. Smart investment.
@ChrisSadowski-pp1np5 күн бұрын
40 to 50% of marriages end in divorce, 70 to 90% of divorces are initiated by women. Divorce laws that favor women, including unfair child support and alimony. It's a risk that a lot of men are not willing to take now. Only 6 out of 1000 people are getting married.
@xGarrettThiefx3 күн бұрын
Bot.
@user-strength105 күн бұрын
lmao, bro over here thinking guys really care that much, red-pill has seemingly gotten more emo and ignorant over the last few years..... well thats 8 minutes i won't get back