What ways of being did you used to think was "BAD" but now realize is authentic?
@81Albertine3 ай бұрын
Just saying ‘no I can’t/won’t have time to do that’
@seeyouatsunset3 ай бұрын
Cutting people out of my life that disrespected my time and attention. It’s crazy how when you set up those boundaries for yourself, people who treat you well will just show up in your life and want to be around you. Prepare to be gaslit by those people that you’re trying to cut out of your life though. Whatever you do, don’t give in to the gaslighting and trust that this person that you’re now trying to be is who you truly are.
@ChiNguyen-ui1zo3 ай бұрын
It's funny that people who judge themselves the most are the sweetest people I have ever met 😆
@queenofspeed97883 ай бұрын
Saying no to things that didn't make sense for me
@samanthagillis28053 ай бұрын
@@AaronDoughty44 giving an honest opinion if you don’t like things used to feel like a bad thing. until you realize if people really care about you then they’ll want you to be able to be your truest self. I don’t like bbq for example and used to force myself to eat when family cooked that. I felt so free when I finally stopped pretending to like those dinners 🥰
@ssSkullZzz3 ай бұрын
"other people's tension is not my responsiblty" this belief changed my life
@TinaBUTCHER-ph1ph2 ай бұрын
Other peoples opinion of me is none of my business. That's a gamechanger
@fluffymuffi13 ай бұрын
You mean not being a people pleaser.
@superactive82203 ай бұрын
👌
@SuadOsmanMohamed2 ай бұрын
👨👩👦@@superactive8220
@toylermiyoto19632 ай бұрын
YES MAN
@brentpieczynski2 ай бұрын
@@toylermiyoto1963 Thank you for pleasing me with your comment.
@Jane93meow3 ай бұрын
People are just more attracted to your shadow self. This is so real. If you grow up afraid of confrontation from abusive childhood, it suppresses your ability to speak up and you become a people pleaser. I’ve shed that part of me and have become infinitely more magnetic. Once you get to the point of no longer fearing your authenticity, it changes your energy and shifts you into attractive and empowered.
@trulyinvigoratinglyinfamous3 ай бұрын
Yaaa
@agarrett41312 ай бұрын
Thank God for you Aaron. Thank you for being a vessel my brother..I must say, that I have to disagree about one thing..Dwayne Wade was not a cleaner.😂 Kobe and Michael "the real King" Jordan only🤷🏽♀️
@Lady.Luck.2 ай бұрын
I experienced the same!
@jumpupdown25562 ай бұрын
I failed to shed it and now time and opportunity to try again is gone. Cherish every minute of your success. You overcame something that was a block of iron for me. I could fucking just never be strong. Always felt like a little pus sy and a boy who scared no one and got no respect in return. It's truly sickening to die like this, knowing that I have absolutely failed in every regard.
@misterwise1742Ай бұрын
@@jumpupdown2556your time will come too bro, Don't give up !
@raven91173 ай бұрын
Empaths putting up healthy boundaries. We tend to be bad people for narcissistic personalities
@nolackin606173 ай бұрын
Nailed it
@phoenixrisin22692 ай бұрын
That doesn’t stop them from trying. They see you as someone to add to their notch count. Not today Satan
@assianeu1972 ай бұрын
It's not necessarily narcissist people that don't like boundaries. A lot of people struggle with their own boundaries and therefore the ones of others, and are not at all narcissists
@jameezybreezy90302 ай бұрын
“Empaths” are often narcissistic themselves
@normanheurtematte2 ай бұрын
So much
@marcimccann11093 ай бұрын
One of the most life changing lessons I've learned is that, taking care of myself isn't selfish, but healthy. It was such a shift in reality but it was well worth the effort. I also learned, that what people think about me, is none of my business!!!!
@zaravr3 ай бұрын
Being a people pleaser in life will keep you behind. Saving money and taking care of yourself first is the best thing you will not rely and be a slave to anyone
@rayali98542 ай бұрын
Facts
@Blueocean8812 ай бұрын
And it enables you to be more useful to others. You can’t pour from an empty cup!
@ericlaboratories3 ай бұрын
"The disowned part of the self is what the other one possesses" This deserves to be it's own video.
@Ibegazelle3 ай бұрын
What does this mean?
@ValentinaHaros3 ай бұрын
a smart asz would probably say that opposites attract depending upon the dynamics in relationships in general, tho the figuring out can happen i figured out that I have/had mommy n daddy issues 😐🤓
@mint_soup97432 ай бұрын
Yes! It really does
@susanstevens21432 ай бұрын
Wow, like the skin of a 🐍 snake.. exactly, I’m true to me, every day.. shiny
@starlight3822 ай бұрын
I love that one I'm keeping it 😂
@marmuc74503 ай бұрын
When you're connected to yourself, it's easier to set boundaries, and sometimes words aren't even necessary .
@synthiat69093 ай бұрын
@@marmuc7450 so true!!
@aldowilliams47652 ай бұрын
The life of a person pleaser is absolutely miserable. I wouldn’t wish it on anyone. The journey out of that state and into myself has been so great.
@JoJo-vz5uy3 ай бұрын
I’m an empath who’s been struggling with the heaviness of the world but for animals only. So what I did, I gave up on all people and surrounding myself with wildlife, pets and nature. I feel zen now.
@IllinInfamous2 ай бұрын
There is no such thing as an empath. You are just an empathetic person you are not some special breed of human
@aaronfrl2 ай бұрын
@@IllinInfamousempath just means more empathic then most.. chill u narcissist rofl
@Mystic_Paths3 ай бұрын
You might be expressing the belief that being overly nice, selfless, or accommodating doesn't always command attention or respect. True magnetism often comes from authenticity, emotional strength, and confidence without crossing into harmful behavior. The balance between kindness and strength is key.
@murrproductions96542 ай бұрын
Balance can be somewhat impossible depending on how someone else may perceive your behavior.
@KBlade12 ай бұрын
I learned that very young. As a kid in elementary school, I had my fair share of bullies. Those bullies became "friends" when I didn't take their crap anymore. In turn, I became popular. The savage version of me was looked at as some higher being.
@theophila2143 ай бұрын
6:00 - *choose authenticity over validation or approval* Yup, very crucial.
@ferngoodman70143 ай бұрын
We all come to this earth with lessons to learn and we choose the people who are going to help us learn the lessons hence the reason many of us choose narcissiatic or controlling people. The whole idea for this lifetime is to overcome the challenge and be free.
@kadididucantoo3 ай бұрын
I love how you said they “attracted each other for a certain period of time”. Such a good understanding for our young people to learn as they move through beginnings and ending in relationship.
@samanthagillis28053 ай бұрын
I truly value what others think and learned that should never have an influence over my own thoughts or feelings :) I’ve never felt lighter than when I had that realization
@IfaKslays3 ай бұрын
My condolences regarding your mom 🙏🏽💐
@piciulnostru5753 ай бұрын
Yes I ve been doing this more and more, and it actually become to feel good when I m a villan. When I set boundaries and dont let people treat me any other way
@Hail_king_caesar3 ай бұрын
I clicked fast like my life depended on it
@ceciliamac42833 ай бұрын
Hahah 😂❤❤ Love that
@nuvia_yesenia_writes3 ай бұрын
Same ❤
@Emily_Marilyn3 ай бұрын
me too lol
@Mondo78913 ай бұрын
Me too 😂
@amanda-jl8fx3 ай бұрын
SAME 😂
@Lady.Luck.2 ай бұрын
This video resonates SOOOO much. I was brought up around a very domineering, bully stepdad. I also dated a couple guys like him too and lived like a doormat. Guys werent doing their share of responsibility and i felt i had no other option but to put up with it
@stanijev3 ай бұрын
I suggest reading a book 'Bruce Thornwood: Unveiling Your Hidden Potential' if you want to know how to man up. Just follow everything writer suggests in there, it's one of the best reads I had in a while.
@uncledrey0073 ай бұрын
Nothing helps more than the Holy Bible
@JacksonScully3 ай бұрын
@@uncledrey007 Oh really? Tell me which part helps with assertiveness please?
@oldmanhendo71832 ай бұрын
@@JacksonScullyturn the other cheek?? 😆
@JacksonScully2 ай бұрын
@@oldmanhendo7183 They can never answer simple questions about the book they proclaim is the best book for everything.
@oldmanhendo71832 ай бұрын
@@JacksonScully right lol. Also, when you ask for any proof that any of it is actually credible they quote from the book itself 🤦♂️
@cristinarizzo113 ай бұрын
Perfect timing for this subject to be discussed on the day of a Libra eclipse !!! Thank you , this helps a lot
@DaisyRoseAzalee3 ай бұрын
It's crazy because I just did something "bad" or not necessarily bad but people would say Selfish or Materialistic but it had this massive positive impact that I had no idea about!! But I was just called to do this thing and did it. Always listen to your higher self and not other people.
@sandiessunshine112 ай бұрын
Ohhhh wow only 2 minutes in and I’m having a tearful release and awareness! To this day and I just celebrated 61 years young I feel wrong and extremely awkward when setting a boundary or standing up for myself!! That was an extremely dangerous thing to do as a child and young teenager so I had to surprises it for safety! And it’s still inside me 😢
@mint_soup97432 ай бұрын
I'm at a loss for words... Only want to say thank you for sharing such a profound perspective on what it means to be self assured! I gained a lot from this! Thank you 💖
@CarlosMelendez-n9z2 ай бұрын
people can not get enough of me. i feel extremely magnetic everywhere i go and i think its because of this book i read named unleashing your dream reality by caleb clarkson. if you can find it, give it a read it's amazing!
@tiffanypj3982 ай бұрын
Scam again...
@begcoins2 ай бұрын
Opportunities opened for me when I "stopped caring" what people think about my actions. I know my path is my path and I refused to let anyone keep me from accomplishing my goals. "Bad".
@IMPeace20233 ай бұрын
Gist of it: Speak the language of the universe- it needs to know EXACTLY what you WILL and WILL NOT accept. Therefore you need your boundaries and you can never settle. It's simple when you really think about it.
@romainauberon98703 ай бұрын
You don't need to become a bad person. You just need to stand up for yourself, and to understand some social clues. Check out an e-book called 'Mastering The First Impression: The Path To Seven Dates A Month'. Until I read it, every conversation with women were neutral and I acted like some kind of doormat. The best thing is that it's not a very long read, and author has released new books as well.
@Snapsta1232 ай бұрын
Another scam
@jankowalczyk52882 ай бұрын
Bro it's horrible. I see it on +10 channels and can't say which comments are real and which not@@Snapsta123
@usrr4442 ай бұрын
Get a job😂
@romainauberon98702 ай бұрын
@@usrr444 what do you mean haha?
@KaizenWithRen2 ай бұрын
how much the author paid you to say that
@krystle85343 ай бұрын
"The disowned part of the self is what the other one possesses". Yes! I was just thinking about this the other day, that my ex boyfriend was like my shadow incarnated, and what I represented to him was what he needed to integrate. I wish I could see it at the time. I was so busy being the "good person" and seeing him as the one who needed to be fixed, that I didn't see that I had just as much to learn from him. I couldn't have stayed in a relationship with him because he was abusive, but I can definitely see now that he possessed "bad" qualities that I had disowned in myself, and that's part of what made me vulnerable to abuse.
@Symphonia19832 ай бұрын
We are bad when we are ourselves to the most of 100%, because we release everything that has been stuck in our system. When you release you heal as you become a flow with abundance.
@HeartFeltGesture3 ай бұрын
If raised by a loveless, emotionally immature, narcissistic parent, as a survival instinct you learn to fawn to avoid being hit or treated with loveless disregard and abandoned. This then leads to people-pleasing behaviors in adulthood. The antidote isnt to be bad, it is to be real. If being real is perceived as bad by somebody, or not well received or appreciated, then its a good indication that they are fake and up to no good. Be real, be diplomatically honest, theres no reason to go around hurting people with scathing self-righteous criticism. Just dont let anyone fuck with you, and if they do, either succinctly let them know, or exit their company, or both.
@Seraphim72 ай бұрын
A few min. in this is how I’ve been feeling when I Stand up for myself. But, I Know I’ve been doing the Right Thing, concerning that, Glory to God.
@SlayerSpaz2 ай бұрын
This actually makes a whole lot of sense. I find myself more authentic around my mom where I’m not in this “pleasing” frame and we get along a lot more than when I’m around others where I am putting up a fecade.
@thaddeusvlb3 ай бұрын
NEEDED 2 HEAR THIS‼ THANK YOU AARON THANK YOU‼🛐
@natashakinnersley63272 ай бұрын
We have such a similar story it’s insane. My stepmom was exactly like yours. Very controlling very aggressive very mentally abusive. And my dad was passive and just let it all happen cause he didn’t wanna deal with it. It’s made me a huge ppl pleaser and very afraid to express my emotions or ask for my needs to be met as an adult. Cause as a child I never felt safe to do so. It’s so hard getting past this
@natashakinnersley63272 ай бұрын
He also divorced her when I was 17
@natashakinnersley63272 ай бұрын
Im also the oldest and my mom passed away too. Holy shit the more I listen the more similarities we have
@jankeizer4073 ай бұрын
We have a word for this in the Netherlands and is called "eigenwijs". When translating this Dutch word to English it gives the wrong translation to "Stubborn", which is a totally incorrect translation. This makes me believe there is no same word in English/American. A correct translation would be "own wise". Eigen means own, wijs means wise". Better translation is "Own-wisdom". It actually means "Be (in) your self", Be yourself without taking in anything from others. Most people are raised in the opposite way: taking care of others first before you take care of yourself (second). But actually you can not take care of others when you do not take care of yourself first and sufficiantly 🙏 In the Netherlands being called Eigenwijs is often seen as negative 👉 selfish. There are two ways of selfish but people mixed up the positive selfish and made selfish all negative. In affect not taking care of your mental needs first (structurally) will created fysical illness. And we don't want our koved ones to becone Ill. Therefor Iappreciate people who are Eigenwijs/ self-ish : as I know that taking care of yourself makes true caring of others possible. Positive selfishness makes true boundaries and love possible. ❤
@mariah36542 ай бұрын
I ❤ this! Thank you 😊
@wealthyspaces11312 ай бұрын
Excellent 👌 you see this a lot in health services
@Sasha-K2 ай бұрын
Glad to have come across this video. It’s confirmation that I’m growing in the right direction. For the past two years I’ve been embracing my dark “moon” side out of necessity by choosing not to abandon myself.
@scuffedcomedy48192 ай бұрын
Your ex-mom (narcissist) was magnetically attracted to your dad (empath) as empaths are givers and narcissists are takers
@anamartin53323 ай бұрын
Today this video very much so resonates because saying no more easily is something I need to work on, such as saying no if I'm getting asked too many personal questions on a first date. Enjoying each other's company while letting the sparks fly comes first in my opinion. I don't want to be in a heated debate and have to defend the way I feel especially about politics when I first meet someone (is it just me). Letting those conversations flow naturally, effortlessly, builds more of a life partner than a checklist. Another example I'm working on is not letting someone overstay in my life when my intuition told me I should have left already. It's such a subtle calming feeling when deep down I know my truth and I try to lean into the tension of trusting higher powers and letting my ego retire from trying to control situations. I've learned not trusting myself makes it a longer lesson. Thank you for bringing so much wisdom, speaking on things that need to be talked about, and connecting so many dots for me!
@WholisticMastery3 ай бұрын
I've learnt two very expensive lessons in the last 5 months. Being kind, caring and loving does not make men fall in love with you. Even if you're the whole package. Seems that ultimately my darker side - my tomboy side - my don't f* with me side, attracts much better men. The others just saw me as easy prey.
@Elliecham2 ай бұрын
That's interesting. My kind side I'm invisible, but the aggressive side attracts low self-esteem men
@MahamSuhail3 ай бұрын
May your mum's soul rest in peace, Aaron!! Big hugs. And I can so relate to the things you are saying, this video found me exactly when I was contemplating this: Am I becoming a 'baad person', lately sticking to my boundaries with a few people around, and letting go of others who repeated certain toxic patterns and broke my boundaries more than once.
@frankjrock2 ай бұрын
Your video is 🎯. It’s true, shadow integration is very important for alignment and being your authentic self. Childhood trauma involving unhealthy adults in your life can mess with you throughout your life if you do not do the work. The video should be a huge help to anyone that needs that awareness. Setting boundaries does not make you a bad person. Don’t let others define you. You know yourself well enough to know who you are.
@Joroco-3 ай бұрын
From a spiritual perspective what your saying is not selfish at all, it’s self(ego)lessness. People Pleasing is a “super”ego, compliance, survival strategy, that’s ironically unconsciously selfish, it’s an egoic pattern to feel comfortable and “in control” to try and avoid “rejection” by creating an internal expectation that the other person has have to behave a certain way, so that’s actually selfish, it’s all about our ego wanting to feel safe and comfortable! 🙄 its core to what drives dark “empathy” imbalanced behaviors. Getting people to unconsciously turn on themselves by “threatening” their “conscience” and desire to avoid feeling guilt / shame!
@MOHD-HASEEB832432 ай бұрын
Great video, I would just like to say that the vibe is absolutely great, and the voice is calm and nice, I would like to suggest you to read ethereal keys to manifest, if you manage to find it because it was banned by the government
@Jesusisking235Ай бұрын
So true. For those born with an abusive parent, we oppress our authentic "bad boy shadow" in childhood to become "nice little plastic boys" in order to survive and feel safe, and then grow up and become "nice plastic adult men" who become experts at people pleasing. You will know us as we never have opinions, never stand up for ourselves, and never know who we really are.
@UnlawfulVR2 ай бұрын
Yea you feel bad for not considering others. But it frees your mind eventually. It's like mental illness to always think of others first
@JustAlexVidotto2 ай бұрын
As a heavy empath, with terrible anxious attachment, you help me heaps brother, thank you 🙏
@heureuse85683 ай бұрын
Trauma and darkness is definitely a drive factor.✨👍 I also think fear can be addictive. Like constantly putting ourselves in threatening situations. And problem solving etc. Sometimes I don't pay my rent immediately when getting the paycheck on purpose (buying other things instead), so that I have to travel around and make money for it... Problem solving is one of few things that makes me feel alive for real. Thank you for being vulnerable.🙏❤️
@ReceptiveKing937 күн бұрын
It’s funny that you mention that. I learned this from when I was working in small businesses. When ever the CEO makes decisions that don’t make sense to me or it could have impact on the business down the road. I always ask them why did you make that decision. If they try to gaslight me I ask they to go deeper into what they are saying. This is way I put myself in a position to question them. I put the fear of losing my job behind me in order to get a better understanding of their agenda.
@malorienicole43702 ай бұрын
I almost didn’t watch this, and I’m glad I did! Thanks Aaron you’re always so real and on point! ❤
@anthonyjones51923 ай бұрын
I've been following your work for a while! Good stuff, keep spreading wisdom and understanding ❤
@brandy87723 ай бұрын
You speaking on some things I’m very familiar with, that I’ve went through and am now grateful to be on the other side of it!
@drlarrymitchell2 ай бұрын
Jung said that “Until you make the unconscious conscious, it will direct your life and you will call it fate.” You have to acknowledge your shadow and bring it forth and integrate it with the whole. Imagine what a fellow who is able to do this with his Dark Passenger could accomplish.
@brandyenglish6143 ай бұрын
You are so enlightened. I am Thankful to have social Media, I have been able to find other people like me who understand the depths of vibrations. Which I only felt the things you teach and have never had anyone explain all The things I’ve already known unconsciously the way that you do that make complete sense to me. I know seems silly but I’ve been having people give me things from public restaurants stores and what not and have been told that I have such a great energy it’s crazy. It’s almost like the world just wants to give me things. Crazy!!
@rayali98542 ай бұрын
Wonderful.
@silamunoz65012 ай бұрын
Dear Aaron, than you for this information, I'm completely identified with what you have been through. I have always been confused as to what I'm doing wrong in my life, your videos have woken me up. I feel this could really help me. Thank you so much! 💜
@SpiritDragon8883 ай бұрын
It’s called boundaries
@DrLar3 ай бұрын
As a pisces moon I am very empathetic drawing in the dark and just realizing this and along you come with this video. Thank you Aaron 🙏
@beckmedina3 ай бұрын
big same 🫶🏼
@ScruffyMichaels2 ай бұрын
Automatic like I’m in a season where I’m currently the villain in everyone story while simultaneously breaking free of the matrix. Godspeed Brother ❤
@LateshaRenee3 ай бұрын
I’ve been going past your vids about being magnetic and detached for so long, and now I’m finally in a space where I can receive this message and you’re the perfect deliverer!!!! ❤❤❤❤
@mol48053 ай бұрын
woah!!! As a former people pleaser, questioning my own decisions to finally live for ME, this hit hard!!
@sleepingwhale3 ай бұрын
I needed this message... thank you! This is so true when we are people who are afraid of unpleasant interactions and judgement
@foodconvos19202 ай бұрын
My dad was super toxic assertive & angry everyday that he’d come home & us 3 children in the house & my mom would hide & or stop talking once he entered the house for years… he’d always yell at us and get angry & was in pain all the time… the only time we’d get a break was when he was stationed somewhere else in the Army…he is war hero with a very traumatic childhood but I vowed from age 8 to never be angry again…. This has caused a lot of assertiveness problems I’m fixing now.
@kimberlyshanks19143 ай бұрын
I am learning to lean into the tension now, and it's exciting! Thanks Aaron❤
@xxxxxyyyy-e7t3 ай бұрын
The timing is impeccable. This is something that has been the elephant in the room for me in recent moths. So this morning I woke up empowered and feeling like saying NO and that NOT the avoiding a conflict situation ARE options. I felt like I could do this. And I got a few chances to practice this empowered state. At times I failed, at others - I did not. But I've started. After your video, I will keep being well...relentless with it. Oh and I'm sorry to hear about to your mom...I've been watching you since 2019 but I haven't seen much videos in recent times so I had no idea. : (
@MelpomeneAlchemist3 ай бұрын
This is crazy, cause the past few months I've been feeling like I'm turning into a villian, & I don't care 😂🖤❤️🔥🖤
@gothicckk2 ай бұрын
literally what I said to my best friend today.
@loregomezz3 ай бұрын
yup...saying no does not make you bad, helps you put HEALTHY BOUNDARIES for your own damn good.. the people that really appreciates you and acknowledges you will respect your decisions, and step back. Being nice its not forgetting about yourself, your health your living...
@eaf8882 ай бұрын
I felt I was a bad person all day. Thus brought relief
@erishposhclub3 ай бұрын
My villain arc starts now. Thank you Aaron!
@gertrudmoller94012 ай бұрын
I am a bad person, i Wasn’t before but nowadays I am. I hope it will change and I will become a nice person again. One day when the frustration and anger has gone away, I think I will!
@EdithClaudetter3 ай бұрын
this video’s take really clicks with some of the things I've been reading in ebook magnetic aura from Borlest
@a_um3 ай бұрын
Just stop lying the people dude!!
@kvhowells2 ай бұрын
Thanks for the video……I recently experienced this with some family members ……I think they are shocked I stood up for myself ….l.and they look at me as the bad person …cracks me up because they are the people that did the wrong actions .
@asey_bear3 ай бұрын
I related to this so much wow! As I am also a huge empath and feel guilty if not saying yes all the time but I’ve changed alot in this way 🙏🙌
@prod.gerero2 ай бұрын
You have to live in the center of your own universe, in order to help others at the best way you can, it’s not about either or but rather a balance
@Rockin.Bakken2 ай бұрын
This came at the right time. Spot on.
@adelg66982 ай бұрын
Absolutely brilliantly expressed. Resonates. Light globe moment at crucial time. Understand now why feeling dis regulated for standing up for my values with ppl in my life. Especially in the dating world 🤪 I struggled to understand why ppl keep pushing their own agenda and leaving me feeling frustrated because having to reassert myself. Now understand this is necessary to be authentic 💕
@sinatra91792 ай бұрын
Slowly but surely getting out of being a “nice guy” I’m naturally optimistic but have a dark edge to me i definitely feel magnetic ever sense I’ve started being selfish and caring about myself rather than others a lot
@assianeu1972 ай бұрын
You're so articulated thank you for sharing this intimate yet relatable experience and wisdom
@ForHonorUSMC2 ай бұрын
I think it's book 3 of The Ra Material, Ra speaks heavily on the essence of service to others/ service to self. They explicitly describe the STO path as a path of outwards radiance, and the STS path as magnetic perception. I think it's healthy to dabble in both, and can say that having a radiating perception too long leavese feeling depleted. When I become more magnetic, more 'towards myself' oriented, things come to me easily and without effort.
@kellesabelle3 ай бұрын
Hah love it. I’ve been thinking about going on a villain arc. In a lot of ways I think I haven’t been living as the main character in my own story. I’m changing that now but it does feel a little evil sometimes.
@iNicky7773 ай бұрын
Such good timing for this video, I was really thinking about this a lot for the last month and it really is true.. so many people carry so much resentment in themselves just because of the people pleasing tendencies that never let them relax and it usually backfires and explodes down the line.. great video
@akila96162 ай бұрын
I’m a WWE fan. This make sense. Roman ain’t the big thing when he is the good guy but became the greatest ever currently being the bad guy ❤
@edwardparish66213 ай бұрын
been trying to embrace my dark side lately. It is better to assert yourself from a place of calm but not necessarily easier.
@fazetraining87083 ай бұрын
I resonate with your videos and your spirit so much bro. These downloads are very helpful to me on my current journey as I’m on a path to becoming a better man. I just wanna say thank you.
@DonicaMcArthur3 ай бұрын
Hey, I am deeply sorry for the passing of your Mom. I am sure it must have felt very heavy to hold all of these pieces together and people together. You made a strong choice but I think the right choice. I am the bad guy all of the time. Sometimes it's just hard for other people to see it's tough love. Plus, it is about teaching a lesson.
@sicelomkhwanazi2 ай бұрын
💯 I'm a natural smiler and like to vibe with positive energy but that has attracted disrespect and some ppl to walk all over me but guess what I'll continue to move like that but now with boundaries and examine people first before I Vibe with em. It's crazy out here there are energy 🧛🏽♂️s
@trulyinvigoratinglyinfamous3 ай бұрын
It is true being the bad guy is magnetic but so easy to abuse or go overboard. Balance is everything too
@esotericaowl28873 ай бұрын
YES! Have come to this realization on my own during this past month through personal experience and I totally agree.
@soullooker2 ай бұрын
Ever since I’ve been selfish I’ve been getting what ever I want.
@user-fd7gy9zh8x2 ай бұрын
Can we ever be in a healthy relationship both sides? It seems like so overwhelming hearing this. I just want to have a peaceful and loving fair relationship and happy caring family.
@Steveaky2 ай бұрын
Find a nice kind caring home loving girl that loves her dad and you won’t go far wrong
@volcom053453 ай бұрын
"Sometimes you have to do something not morally or ethically correct to get the things that you want." -Jocko Willink. He said something along those lines. Its ok to do that if in the grand scheme of things, you are fighting for the ultimate good of society.
@zyciebezlimitow2 ай бұрын
Agree 100 % without dark we never experiance the light.
@jasonclifford89513 ай бұрын
You are one of the greats...I have never needed to go farther than free material . Thank you for being you❤🖤🏝 👽💀😎
@THE_WASIF-FF2 ай бұрын
whoever is reading this, just go read rapid manifestation secrets by marie runner. i just keep reading this book in phases
@tiffanypj3982 ай бұрын
Scam
@enidrivero95822 ай бұрын
This was the video I didn’t know I needed! 😁bless you Aaron!
@dennish85523 ай бұрын
This is the truth ,Aaron your doing wonders for my everyday life, thank you so much 🙏
@Lady.Luck.2 ай бұрын
Yes. Giving people free resources does not solve problems
@giuliap22583 ай бұрын
I am exactly in this life moment doing the switch. I was a bad temperamental girl gone good and nice after traumas I blamed myself of. I am now gaining back tons of energy just not blocking it for fears.
@Rodneypridgenjr2 ай бұрын
The good thing about becoming that "bad person" is that you will have developed a higher sense of self-worth, integrity/morality that will not allow you to care what others think of you; therefore, them calling you a "bad person' will not hold any weight.