When you live alone, coming home is the best feeling in the world.
@lturner50785 күн бұрын
I fully agree. So much peacefulness.
@yassymi4 күн бұрын
Yes.. that sense of relief which is called peace.
@Yesican1114 күн бұрын
AMEN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
@lynnettewells41783 күн бұрын
@@BibbityBibbs Agreed
@Krys-n5b3 күн бұрын
Move 3 states away for 5 yrs I visited home once or twice a yr but getting bk to MY OWN HOME . It's magic. I was the most at peace I've ever felt in my entire life. Everyone was so eager to get to know me . I met the most beautiful amazing ppl ... I never found any of that in my "hometown" what's this dr is talking about yall haven't experienced yet. Once yall do omg it's truth.
@c.curtis53906 күн бұрын
Peace is more important to me than relationships.
@macm23732 күн бұрын
Same. A loner to the core. 💙✨
@JustYvette2 күн бұрын
I have to agree😊
@Yesican1112 күн бұрын
@@c.curtis5390 I couldn’t agree more. I’m in the process of ending a toxic relationship after not being in one for 10 years… I gave it a shot only to be abused and manipulated. NEVER EVER AGAIN.
@Yesican1112 күн бұрын
@@macm2373 best way to be
@candiespossible73792 күн бұрын
That part!!!
@artsartemia44267 күн бұрын
I don't live alone, i live with my self ,free to be who i want to be and go where i want to go. My heart is always full of beautiful emotions, and my mind is very creative. People ask me what is my secret and how i can be always happy and strong. Every time a sad memory comes to me, I choose to find a happy thought until I feel butterflies in my stomach. This is like diverting a train that is traveling fast, but you are the one who directs it in the right direction for you. After all, our reality is made of thoughts, and thoughts can be changed. Since I have been living alone, I look ten years younger. I dance alone in my house, I laugh in the middle of the night. When one is capable of laughing alone, this is the most sincere feeling of joy that exists.
@monicaspector23887 күн бұрын
❤❤❤
@munasabdella87017 күн бұрын
I made my day!! After reading your statement, my heart has filled with hope and happiness.
@littleiodine94807 күн бұрын
🎉❤🎉 Myself as well! Although a great belly laugh with someone is lovely! 😂😅
@victoriagold47826 күн бұрын
👍❤👍❤👍❤👍💯
@Mary-zi5jm6 күн бұрын
Love your thoughts,keep posting them!
@Nina521174 күн бұрын
I love being alone. I don’t harass myself. I don’t bully myself. I don’t make fun of myself. I don’t cheat myself. I don’t lower myself in any way. I am nice to myself. I have been self employed for 10 years. I am independent; I do my own DIY projects at home, I cook everything, and I fix my own car issues except the engine and transmission lol. I am fit, healthy, and strong! Thank you Dad for raising me to be this way 🕊️ ❤
@green21473 күн бұрын
That is beautiful 🎉
@Mirpeace933 күн бұрын
Wow! Beautiful!
@cherylvisconti3 күн бұрын
❤❤❤❤❤yes! Thank you Daddy!
@annmariebudyn3 күн бұрын
All of that but I choose to hire tradesmen.
@cherylvisconti3 күн бұрын
@@annmariebudyn that too!❤️
@laureepeoples5572Күн бұрын
Solitude is a gift, not a punishment.
@sheridowney835523 сағат бұрын
💯
@Me_di20 сағат бұрын
Thisssss
@susan741416 сағат бұрын
Nicely said
@mindykittay6 сағат бұрын
Exactly
@briattnybrittany684325 минут бұрын
you got that right 💯
@LolloLou6 күн бұрын
I live alone for the last 10 years. I've never been happier. I have a wonderful life. I'm 55, I have a few amazing friends, I have foster dogs, I do yoga, I meditate every day, I do sport and part time jobs that I enjoy. I eat what I want, when I want. I rely on my self and my intuition, I help my elderly neighbours. I feel fulfilled and I never feel lonely or bored. And best of all I feel the divine energy of the universe, God, in me and all around. I pray for everyone to feel as I do every day.
@jennifermckenziemedium5 күн бұрын
This is fake and it's AI generated. Dr JOe would and has never said anything like this ever in his body of work.
@Freshflowers884 күн бұрын
So inspiring!!! Fulfillment comes in all forms of positive experiences 😊
@iamnotmyhandle4 күн бұрын
@@jennifermckenziemedium Truth is truth.
@increaseyourvibes87033 күн бұрын
@@jennifermckenziemediumI thought this was a strange subject/talk coming from him and seemed to be saying the same thing over and over just using different words 🤔
@jennifermckenziemedium3 күн бұрын
@@increaseyourvibes8703 Discernment is so important at this time, but if people don't know his work they would have no idea.
@wintoby2 күн бұрын
My ex who I left due to cheating & abuse once said to me "you're not like normal people, I think you've been on your own too long" i had been living alone for 14 years since my husband passed when i met the ex. I think he was belittling me, as though being alone was something to be ashamed of. People will envy us, because we are strong & resilient 😊💖
@MrsTruthTeller2 күн бұрын
It’s because men don’t know how to live alone like women do so they project their own misery onto us.
@fibromyalgians21142 күн бұрын
I'm sorry that happened to you but happy you've come through it!
@annripley19642 күн бұрын
I’ve lived alone for over 30 years and my ex says I have it made-lol! Which I certainly do! I wouldn’t change a thing about my life except perhaps starting to live alone sooner!! Every thing in this video is profoundly true! Life is good!
@blackglitteremoji30542 күн бұрын
That also get jealous cans they wanna know how you afford it. I’ve been asked that and I’ve lived alone for 4 years. It’s a weird thing to ask instead of “oh! That’s cool” lol
@whoaskedforthisbsКүн бұрын
He wanted to shame you into believing what you know to be true is untrue solely for his companionship. $5 he's NEVER been single and cannot be alone with himself.
@rashmimathur53183 күн бұрын
32 yr old woman here, single, never in a relationship. Only child of my parents. I did not have a great childhood my mom was very emotionally and mentally abusive. My father never spoke up if my mom was doing wrong by me because he thought silence is better than adding fuel to fire. I was bullied in school all my years. No friends today. My cousins also bully me. Ive maintained a distance from everyone. I like the peace that comes with being with myself 😊 its so freeing. I love having a space to myself. I can do whatever I want in my home. Cook, clean, sleep whatever when ever. Just so freeing. I value myself more now and I know when to leave a crowd that doesnt value me. I deleted social media and also so many contacts from my phone. The less crap to deal with the better. KZbin is my only social media. I love that my heart doesn't race and my breathing is normal. It means im healing
@Woodsandwizdom3 күн бұрын
Sending peace and positive vibes, 🙏
@Kim-oo9vv2 күн бұрын
Yes, indeed!! Those who fly solo have the strongest wings! ❤🎉
@TaDAbyKAT2 күн бұрын
my heart goes out to you as I was singled out of five kids and abused in multiple ways. I have found bliss and healing through rapid transformational hypnosis. I am now helping others. I would love to chat with you. You are a beautiful soul. You are perfect in God‘s eyes
@rashmimathur53182 күн бұрын
@@Woodsandwizdom thank you! Sending you positivity, healing and peace as well 🙏
@rashmimathur53182 күн бұрын
@@Kim-oo9vv very true 💯
@KimberleeStephens5 күн бұрын
I was more alone when in a marriage with a person who did not freely communicate. Now that I'm alone & dont have to decipher aloof responses, I am more confident, peaceful & content within myself.
@mariaamadea70695 күн бұрын
I so understand you.
@lturner50785 күн бұрын
I absolutely concur. It's dreadful living with a non-communicator. Equally frustrating, is a partner that is emotionally daft or detached. Eventually, it just wasn't tolerable or doable anymore. I left and have zero regrets for doing so. Intelligent, honest, open communication, in my opinion, is the literal heartbeat of a relationship. Without it, the relationship becomes void, which tends to cause a lot of resentment toward the non-communicator. It's so stress-free, peaceful, and happy, not having to deal with that frustrating nonsense anymore.
@bibibrin50352 күн бұрын
😂 I love that - you had to decipher. Like WWII codes. Men are convinced they're telepathically communicating.
@P1xi3_72 күн бұрын
Yes!
@ShayB-w3xКүн бұрын
Yes, yes yes
@eggsbeeped7 күн бұрын
I love being alone. 26 yr of living by myself. No regrets at all. Ignore what society says....I AM AWESOME!!! I'm nearly 50yr old now and have never once gotten excited over the prospect of being with someone else. It's just not in my nature!
@HemalinaSamEsabeledinbaro7 күн бұрын
❤me too
@infinity_spirit6 күн бұрын
Don't u get worried if something happens to u and your not able to get help? Or don't u get bored in the night
@allergictomediocre89896 күн бұрын
🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
@TeaRose95 күн бұрын
I’ve lived alone consistently since 2007 and absolutely love it. It’s pure peace, calm , freedom and utter bliss.
@TeaRose95 күн бұрын
Yesss!! Me too!! Love living alone, love me.
@lindaraeder43422 күн бұрын
I've lived alone since I was 18, with a few short exceptions. I'm now 73 and cherish my solitude. I'm in perfect health, still work fulltime, and run 5 miles 3 or 4 times a week. The only validation I ever seek is my own. Cannot imagine living any other way.
@milada3095Күн бұрын
Congrats from Prague, Linda! You certainly are a role model with your jogging routine and energy levels!!! Chapeau!
@PixelPrincess111-b5tКүн бұрын
Hell yeah Linda!
@cooky_2076Күн бұрын
AMEN!!
@NBportofinoКүн бұрын
I envy your jogging as my knees give out.
@peaceandchillz2 күн бұрын
I’m 44 never never married, no kids. Lived alone since I was 32 even upgraded to a much more luxurious apartment. I laugh out loud ALL THE TIME. I cry out loud too and get it out when necessary. I’ve taken myself to Europe on vacation for the past 7 year. Traveling alone is awesome too! I’m happy alone. 😌😌😌 I loved this video! Especially what you said about waking up alone everyday and not having to vibrate off someone else’s mood.
@Nonfiction.Reader7 күн бұрын
I prefer being by myself and not lonely than in a lonely relationship.😊
@CriaAndKiddFW4 күн бұрын
Exactly.
@LesleyMarie4 күн бұрын
Me too ❤
@EarthOceanMoon3 күн бұрын
👏🏽👏🏽
@wolfgirl30812 күн бұрын
Being “in a relationship” and feeling alone, and lonely, is the worst feeling of all.
@AdrienneHall-mn3bnКүн бұрын
Say it again. Been there-done that. ❤
@LesleyMarie4 күн бұрын
I've lived alone for over 22 years and have loved the sanctuary I've created in my home❤
@andreaschmall55606 күн бұрын
It is draining to be around someone on a permanent constant basis. I appreciate and enjoy a close relationship but that does not mean one must live with that person and function in a state of constant compromise and sacrifice.
@yodservant3 күн бұрын
My aunt lived alone since 1966....she was one of the first physicians to graduate from Emory University as a doctor, her sister was similar, an educator and school principal....I followed a similar pattern.....very happy....
@infinity_spirit3 күн бұрын
@@yodservant did u all date anyone or was single that whole time
@brigidlaffey73432 күн бұрын
@@infinity_spirit- Dating is a social interaction. It doesn’t alter your status
@kimbattles239921 сағат бұрын
Hi. Is that Emory in Atlanta?
@stellarhope69544 күн бұрын
Im 71 and still having fun. Im living alone. Or with my dog and cat. I love it 😂
@CarrieLove-p3m2 күн бұрын
Love it, Sending more good vibes😊
@MarinaB637 күн бұрын
I am never alone. I am with my self. ❤❤
@munasabdella87017 күн бұрын
Me too darling. I always feel like I have a best friend and that person is me myself 🎉
@TeaRose95 күн бұрын
@@munasabdella8701same. I love me and who I am.
@michellejennings58875 күн бұрын
Yes!!!❤
@-11_112 күн бұрын
I am never alone. I have GOD with me. ❤🙏 ☮️
@SHB77784Күн бұрын
I am with the Lord. It’s a divine romance😊
@theattractionpower6 күн бұрын
Of course it’s easier to maintain a high vibration when living alone. The true mastery is to maintain a high vibration regardless of circumstances and others energy!
@user-jf9sx8cj1v5 күн бұрын
Maybe living alone ist the needed start, meaning the first step. Learning to think and act all by yourself. And as we know, learning never ends and the Level, in which you operate can Higher...so having others in your day to day and staying accorded to yourself AND the outside needed, too - this surly is a masterclass of ist's own... Are you able to? Any advice w/o a linked video are welcome! ❤
@AnnaWhite-go6nz5 күн бұрын
I think the video explains scientifically the results by living alone allowing for more adaptability to life and people, and less reliable on others to ‘save you’ validate you’ and seek other things like trust, safety , dependency etc.
@helenfraser79493 күн бұрын
Until I lived alone it was near impossible to reach a higher vibration to have a new baseline
@brigidlaffey73432 күн бұрын
Strikes me that this comment is a contradiction on true mastery
@liliuolani2 күн бұрын
I completely agree. Maintaining authenticity and peace in relationship is the true test
@ladyfantastic7654 күн бұрын
a lesson i learned as a young woman in her early 20s: learn to enjoy and appreciate your own company. i love being with myself.
@GlitzyWitch3 күн бұрын
Ive lived with 2 men, both were narcissistic and abusive, as was my childhood. Ive lived alone most of my life with my daughter, who is now a grown woman. I could never live with anyone again. I love my peace, i love not being stressed, i love being able to do what i want when i want. I reached my confidence peake in my 20's, lost it a bit both times i lived with a partner. Now after years alone, it is heaven. This is a great video. Thank you
@LLindsey1427Күн бұрын
I feel you. A lot of us are blamed for who our partners are, but I think there are so many toxic ones out there due to society and more that it is so hard to find decent ones. Its hard to live with someone after living alone for a while and vice versa.
@Pinkflo3635 күн бұрын
I tried to find a partner for 12 years after my divorce. No luck. But it wasn’t because I wasn’t finding good men. It was because I was enjoying the new me. The independent me. The one who is able to do things on her own and it was a wonderful feeling. Finding a match with my new self just wasn’t possible. Also, I want to add that trying to meet a man after independence is also difficult because we’re so used to doing things for ourselves. It’s difficult to allow someone to help us . Or we meet men that underestimate our ability and that’s very frustrating. I suppose maybe one day I will fall in love again, but until then I’m in love with myself. ❤
@wandak188917 сағат бұрын
Hello!!! I’m 100% with you. I was in a 10 year relationship engaged and had to call it off once I realized his momma and sisters were his priority. He was a decent guy but I refused to be in that situation anymore. It’s been 4 years now and I see that a relationship is more than being together it’s stands on loyalty and principles. I’m not looking for love but if the shoe might look good on my feet probably may give it a try.
@johannegallagher21112 күн бұрын
My father gave me advice when I was a young girl. He said you need to take one hour a day by yourself. I have always been able to allow myself that. There have been periods where I lived alone and enjoyed it, getting to know me and there are periods where I shared my life with someone special. Both are experiences I would not change. When I take time to my self and meditate I stay in harmony and balance. Today I had the whole day alone starting with a massage, lunch by myself, a bit of shopping, now enjoying peace and quiet. My partner will come home from work soon. We will talk about the good things in life and our plans for the holidays over a glass of wine and go to bed. Life is good. He’s a good man and I love him. He loves me. I love me too. He loves himself. We have healthy boundaries and have learned how to communicate clearly. All is well. Merry Christmas.
@louiseann_venusandneptune2 күн бұрын
Merry Christmas ❤ sounds like you both have created Christ Energy in your hearts (I’m not religious ) or are now both Noble Gases (Bruce Lipton the honey moon effect ) 😊
@bethdarling94022 күн бұрын
Such a beautiful message - thank you
@goldenazucar37262 күн бұрын
Thanks for sharing. Gives me hope
@johannegallagher2111Күн бұрын
We are trying our best. We have silly arguments every day about day-to-day things but laugh at ourselves. We are lucky to have those silly things to argue about. And we don’t need each other to be happy. I suppose that is the key. We chose to be together but don’t need to be together. It’s still takes work though. Relationships are only as good as the relationship you have with yourself. ❤
@johannegallagher2111Күн бұрын
@louiseann_venus Bruce Lipton is a smart man
@janebrommet79427 күн бұрын
I am 75 and had a busy life woth working with kids and horses. Now for the last 3 years i am alone with 2 ponys, 2 chickens and my cat. I now understand myself better than ever and agree with what you are telling us.. I love my solitude. I need my space and silence and am very gratefull for this opportunaty. I have a nice plot of land and host slow travellers dring the summer. Beautifull engagement and deep meaningfull conversations...
@ritagarretson72787 күн бұрын
Wow. These are my thoughts...not to be drained but caring for animals. This brings me the solutions with solidarity. You are awesome and gave me strength for my plan for gardening and not answering to others that have no interest in me and my goals. Merry Christmas and a blessed New Year .
@janicechu18577 күн бұрын
Wow I like your kind of life very meaningful 😂
@michellejennings58875 күн бұрын
Beautiful ❤
@amandaloxley20123 күн бұрын
Downsizing to upsize ..... I'm in 😊❤.
@barbaralondo2447Күн бұрын
Where is your land? I would love to slow travel and meet you this summer..😊
@SA-ww1ge7 күн бұрын
I’m always suspicious of studies that show u live longer if u have a partner. I don’t buy it. They never say what kind of relationship. It’s a marketing tool to keep women in a submissive partnership w men. It’s Mainstream superficial nonsense. I appreciate ur deeper dive.
@debm4607 күн бұрын
I think it would be more stressful if you are with a horrible person or toxic family / relative. I used to think that people who are married are happy being together. Very few are. If you are happy, you’re very lucky.
@patriciaa29766 күн бұрын
Married men live longer than single men. Married women are less happy than single women. Women take care of men while men take from women 😩
@TeaRose95 күн бұрын
@@patriciaa2976the happiest people are married men and single women.
@harmoniousinfinity65495 күн бұрын
Yes, exactly. Depends on the relationship...
@Tree-thingz5 күн бұрын
I just finished telling a friend married people live longer (statistical data). Marriages fall under multiple categories. What pool did they collect data from?
@brigeseahorse95177 күн бұрын
It's called peace. Love it and won't change it.
@LavettaLuckett4 күн бұрын
Yes
@lynnettewells41787 күн бұрын
I have live alone many years. It used too make me feel lonely at times. But now after I have grown to appreciate it and see it as a privilege and found my peace. Don't have the drama that some women have with men and I don't have to worry about anyone but me. It is so liberating.
@tresjolieme816 күн бұрын
Hard to find a good man
@jennifermckenziemedium5 күн бұрын
This is fake and it's AI generated. Dr JOe would and has never said anything like this ever in his body of work.
@elysejosephs73022 күн бұрын
So now the blanket excuse for everything you don't like, or creates anxiety is "it's AI created"
@nancymaldonado906Күн бұрын
@jennifermckenziemedium even so, it doesn't take away from the fact that most women who live alone are happier
@divifemtv23 сағат бұрын
You can study for yourself and discover why the science validates what is observable if you pay attention .... doesn't matter if Dr. JOE is saying it or not ... @jennifermckenziemedium
@jillyd28075 күн бұрын
Alone, but never lonely! 😎
@michellejennings58875 күн бұрын
Right?!? It’s soo freeing.
@aliharrison27734 күн бұрын
I love living alone. I don't have to consider anyone else and I'm being my authentic self for the 1st time. 😊
@Briana-Mars7 күн бұрын
Crazy, this came up at the perfect time. My 5 year relationship just ended. I've been going through a spiritual awakening, and I've been teaching myself how to handle emotions in a healthy way. This week, I intuited that I was regulating my nervous system by helping myself through my own emotions without relying on others. It has been really intense and difficult to do this, but intuitively I knew it was healing me and worth the temporary pain.
@sbella67197 күн бұрын
I like to say lonely is a feeling that tells us we're disconnected from ourselves. Most try to alleviate that feeling by connecting with another. Alone is a state of being, meaning all+one or wholeness.
@Briana-Mars7 күн бұрын
Yes!! Disconnected from ourselves or the universe aka also us
@ninanedelyay54227 күн бұрын
Precisely 😊
@harmoniousinfinity65495 күн бұрын
@@Briana-Mars 👌🌍
@harmoniousinfinity65495 күн бұрын
@sbella6719 totally ❤
@harmoniousinfinity65495 күн бұрын
@@ninanedelyay5422👌🌱
@margiealeman1289Күн бұрын
I live by myself now because my husband passed away almost a year ago and I developed a whole new set of resilience that I never thought I had. It is a difficult transition and it’s different for everyone; I am learning this new me but even through the pain I feel, I am getting stronger and more balanced in my daily life.
@susantomes67217 күн бұрын
Thank you this has been truly inspiring. I have been married in excess of 50 years to a very dominant man. Recently, he has become ill and I have been taking on a lot of the work that has been previously done by him. I have always dreaded having to do this, as he always made me feel. that I would not be capable of doing it myself. Interestingly, I find myself more than capable. This has been a revelation, your inspiring words have made me realize that I am strong and capable. Thank you. I have subscribed to your channel and feel uplifted and empowered by what you are telling me.
@jennifermckenziemedium5 күн бұрын
This is fake and it's AI generated. Dr JOe would and has never said anything like this ever in his body of work.
@joiab115 күн бұрын
You’re going to thrive when he’s gone. ❤ sending you love and hugs 🤗
@wildflowerwind69415 күн бұрын
Good for you. Strong and capable.
@tiacann25713 күн бұрын
Cleaning my home from top to bottom is top tier peace
@maryherb67384 күн бұрын
I am a 53 year old woman who has aways lived alone except for my children. I tried to make a "traditional" home including thier father but i couldn't afford the expense in bad energy, money etc, so i asked him to leave (no child support expected or received). My children are all grown and ive lived alone for 7 years. It is absolute bliss!
@Repice1Күн бұрын
i've been living with myself for about 33 years and it is peaceful, when your home is your sanctuary it's a totally different world ❤
@barbaramyslinska36255 күн бұрын
I have been living alone for 13 years now and I love it. I have become independent thinker and decision maker. I now own several properties which allow me financial freedom. I live the fact that I’m able to make all my decisions.
@matshedisomohoje69384 сағат бұрын
Beautiful!❤
@Lady.Luck.5 күн бұрын
I live alone..it's never boring! It gives me tons of abundant time to be introspective and creative. I have a small business too. I don't have to use up all my energy taking care of everyone else
@silviabrownell883820 сағат бұрын
Yes, many things have changed in the last few years. I'm much happier and live in peace. Learning many things about myself and others. Still have much to learn but am grateful for the life and opportunity for growth and serving others.
@sheriu71677 күн бұрын
I’m a woman who lives alone for the last 4 years and I’m the happiest I’ve been my entire life 😊
@BibbityBibbs5 күн бұрын
Same here- I don’t have a lot of money, but I feel like I’ve won the lottery of life😁
@Charvi11223 сағат бұрын
I want to summarise this talk into one word : spirituality Only spirituality gives u so much power ❤❤❤❤❤
@michellejennings58875 күн бұрын
I love seeing so many people experiencing this. My life living alone brings me such inner peace.
@dlm2133Күн бұрын
I've lived alone for 20+yrs. I love it! Not all women like living alone. From living with a narcissist father and then husband, I enjoy not dealing with their moods and stinging words. Mental freedom.
@joiab115 күн бұрын
This is a wonderful talk. I understand why I am so happy living alone. I crave more alone time. In 7 years of living alone in my own house, my confidence has skyrocketed.
@Erizou906 күн бұрын
I think that might be true not only for women but also men. I know a man who was living with someone and her kids, being energically swept away by them. Once he started living on his own, things were put into a different, as you say, undiluted perspective and I think it's safe to say that he has invited so much more authentic, tailor-made positivity into his life.
@eveemac3737 күн бұрын
20 years of living alone and this explained so much extremely scientifically. I've always thought that living alone is a flaw of mine, as much as i truly enjoy solitude. This gives me a renewed view and so much love for the kind of live i have. Thank you for posting this vid and thank you, Dr Dispenza for your works😍
@jennifermckenziemedium5 күн бұрын
This is fake and it's AI generated. Dr JOe would and has never said anything like this ever in his body of work.
@sararundlett94265 күн бұрын
@@jennifermckenziemedium do you have any sources for this? I’d love to verify this if so
@jennifermckenziemedium5 күн бұрын
@@sararundlett9426 yes, I am the source, have read all of his books and been doing the work of Joe Dispenza for 11 years and have attended many live workshops.
@LoveGodEternal2 күн бұрын
I absolutely adore living with myself…total heaven!
@etaokha41647 күн бұрын
I choose my peace❤
@Intheuk5 күн бұрын
100% true. I chose it for 12 years .then recently gave in to a relationship convinced by the pursuit - 6 months later exhausted my hobbies and ambitions by the wayside due to his needs and issues!! I have returned to being single and no desire for a relationship again. When I ended it - everything delayed started to pour into my life at incredible speed. Still trying to keep up. I have an incredibly full life that I love. Could not be happier.
@maijuvohlonen53285 күн бұрын
I think the true mastery is staying soveirgn living intimately with others, connected. I feel this empowerement from living alone is a needed phase to solidify the connection to self which can hopefully withstand the energies of others. Being together as separate individuals.
@sbella67195 күн бұрын
That's very insightful. I think the reason why this is directed towards women mostly is because women are conditioned and expected to give up their sovereignty for the same of others.
@kirstenmc6822 сағат бұрын
Yes! Truly connected without losing yourself ❤
@rachelarmel75473 сағат бұрын
Well said! Agree
@verney24317 күн бұрын
I’m ready. I’ve been living alone for a while now and can see some of this but This is who I am. I am whole and complete into myself I can’t stop crying because I feel like I’m home. ❤
@lizmona96797 күн бұрын
💖💖💖💖💖💖💖
@monicaspector23887 күн бұрын
❤❤❤
@Momo-qo7isКүн бұрын
I have been living in solitude for about 4 years. I can hear my breath so clearly when I don’t fight with my negative thoughts. I really agree on the energy.
@CarrieLovesLife.7 күн бұрын
It is because we are Sovereign. In almost all relationships, especially with men, even the most egalitarian relationships, we subjugate ourselves on some level. We make ourselves less, in order to get along. When we are alone we can be the fullest expression of ourselves.
@BibbityBibbs5 күн бұрын
YES! Very well said
@timelyferry8 күн бұрын
Yeah it's way better than getting abused in relationships
@KeeKooKee5 күн бұрын
💯
@kimkrouse16605 күн бұрын
Perfect timing if you want to add to this study. I'm 54yr and will be having discussion to to live alone again after 10yrs with partner. I am only a quarter way thru this epiode and paused to message you. My life has already proved what you are saying true before in my life. Funny.. I have told many.. that I'm the happiest me when I live alone. Not only that but thru this relationship, I integrated with having my own bedroom to sleep. For similar reasons. I'm sure turbulence is coming to get through this separation but I can't wait to feel energetically powerfully free. I already see myself dancing in my home and having so much more energy. I see me excited to take on more projects and so much more motivation! I don't just believe, I KNOW this teaching is true! * 2nd syncrinicity today, that yes, listen to my intuition. Yep, it's a tough action to go through, but.. I'm excited for me more! Authentic Freedom and growth!!! Thank you for being Authentically you and all you do for the whole! Sincerely, I AM... aka Kim
@Luciana71975 күн бұрын
I’m 53 and going through the same as you. Soon I will be free! Married with a good but depressive man and exhausted of his lack of light.
@SonikaKumari-z4v7 күн бұрын
I find the most beautiful person in me , Which nearly impossible to find in this world❤️
@blissfulbaboon7 күн бұрын
To be alone with me Is the way it ought to be To listen to my gentle breath and find true peace before my death
@BibbityBibbs5 күн бұрын
💕
@AlignedAbundanceStudio7 күн бұрын
People who focus ON THEMSELVES are the most magnetic! ❤
@marmaladesunrise7 күн бұрын
The peace of doing for myself without debate is indescribable. My Pupper and Kitty Cat appreciate my decisions without conflict. Amazing. Living in gratitude is the path for the best outcome.
@vjmontanye79027 күн бұрын
After raising a family, and husband passing, dating a few years.. I chose to live my own life alone.. I am so glad I did and honed my development and happiness..thanks Dr Joe !
@Glrowe3332 күн бұрын
I’m 28. I’ve lived on my own since I was 18. I have a sucessful marketing company and I am the team leader at my 9-5. I’ve chosen myself time and time again. I love myself. I love the life I’m consciously and intentionally creating. I love this. I’ve literally created my the life I adore. ❤
@TeaRose95 күн бұрын
I have never felt such peace, love and contentment as now while I have lived alone for years. I have never felt such happiness and satisfaction.
@JanIllingsworth7 күн бұрын
I have lived alone for 27 years. At first I hated it and felt sad and lonely but now I love it and have no desire to ever live with anyone again. During isolation in the pandemic my friends would ask me,"don' t you wish you had a partner living with you?. I laughed! I couldn't think of anything worse, Sorry, guys, than living with some old bloke moaning about the politics and restrictions of the pandemic.
@BibbityBibbs5 күн бұрын
It’s not just that I don’t want someone around, I don’t want anyone to have to put up with me! Even my dog gets tired of me sometimes- if you live with a dog long enough, you can tell when they get sick of listening to you. I had one dog that rolled her eyes when I was getting on her last nerve! I’m only fascinating to myself😁
@CicadaXiiiКүн бұрын
Everyone in the comments! 😍😍😍 I had no idea so many other women feel this way too ❤️
@landyli78136 күн бұрын
I live alone , I am the best friend of myself, I have a date with myself. I always enjoy my solo time since middle school. It is tge free feeling, i can so many things done and achieved my doing,my goals. I keep my energy full and pure when i live and spend time alone. No drama, no exhausting conversations, being with anyone drain my energy. If i date or see any friend, it is better be just a few hours.
@ullalarsson10107 күн бұрын
I live this life. I don't need, I attract. People ask me what I am doing and how. I am free from TV and all kind of mainstream stream and social media. Your video is magnificent 🎇🎆🎇
@BlueJeansandJellyBeans7 күн бұрын
Same. I tuned out of the world and tuned into myself....it is awesome.❤
@prosperityparadigms6 күн бұрын
I tuned out from MSM decades ago & find it offensive. Junk food for the mind. And designed to manipulate. Its so obvious when you remove yourself from it. Don't get me started on social media...?
@TeaRose95 күн бұрын
Same for me. I don’t need, I am content. I haven’t had TV since 2007 and never want it again. I love quiet, peacefulness and being outside in nature. I love the peace and calm of being alone with myself.
@yesterdayseyes4 күн бұрын
This is main stream social media, you are literally here
@fayfleur557 күн бұрын
Happy living alone and independently.I don't even have a pet.I do have friends and social life and belongs to a social club.I chose when I want to be around people and family members. I don't need to live in someone else's pocket.
@2010lemondrop3 күн бұрын
Living alone has been my preferred way to live.. I like to say I am independently owned and operated ;)
@AnnaWhite-go6nz5 күн бұрын
I live alone. I love it❤ I have an active, dedicated daily spiritual practice. Prayers to god, meditation and am at peace with myself, everyone around me. Blessed . I started a business doing what I love, managing to structure it to focus on my health so I can be fit as a 20 year old , live by the beach so I swim, run, do yoga and Pilates and little drills at home . This is all true ❤
@liesbethkuiper59986 күн бұрын
I can definitely accept this as true. When my husband is away I feel a lot more energy flowing in me. However, I’m thinking living alone would be the easy way out for me, in terms of personal development. I mean, I am trying to be emotionally independent while he is around. Observing myself as I tune into my husbands’ and childrens’ needs all the time. And by knowing and seeing myself doing this, transforming it bit by bit. This way hoping to create a strong loving independent energy while taking care of eachother too. Quite difficult to do, but a nice challenge to work on too.
@___.blessed.beauty.___b94469 сағат бұрын
I’ve lived alone since about 17 years old lol… I’m 33 now!!! I used to think something was wrong with that but I love the peace and solitude… It’s gotten soo intense that I barely even watch tv. Or listen to music. Just me on my own in my own thoughts and I’m comfortable with who I am. I don’t hate myself… I do genuinely feel good. This field is also a force field for unforeseen events and tragedy. You are able to mentally plow through dispair and discipline yourself to not crumble in adversity. I love it… all of that is about to change as I’m having a baby and transitioning with my partner so it will be interesting 😂 I don’t enjoy sleeping beside my man when he’s over. lol 😂 I get up and sleep somewhere else. Love him to bits but I just sleep comfortably alone. My grandparents have been married for 60 years and have slept separately for as long as I’ve lived! We need solitude and peace even in marriage
@kristielynn58012 күн бұрын
This is SO reassuring! I've lived alone for 16 years, with my dog for 12 and 2 dogs after that. I was never happier, esp during Covid lockdown. So grateful to have my own space. This makes so much sense because of the emotional entanglement we have with lovers and family. My dogs are my kids. This is really inspiring! I feel so much better knowing Its a good thing! We are not "loners" 🎉
@ingridgrattidge58876 күн бұрын
I love this. I feel this. I live this. Thank you for defining this!
@michellejennings58875 күн бұрын
Yes!!! I truly love my life living solo, being self sufficient. I cherish my freedom and independence. I can’t remember the last time that I felt lonely.
@dinavalerie1302 күн бұрын
I’ve spent most of my life in solitude and alone, and love the clarity, creativity and healing that have come from it. From the loss of my fiancé to the passing of my son. Turning pain into passion which in turn helps us connect with others and become a beam of light! I love my own company and crack myself up. The freedom and joy that can be tapped into without distraction. To break free from the brainwashing and programming that society can have on the masses. Be a free thinker and truth seeker, light emerges when we allow ourselves to dive into the abyss(our soul) ❤🦋 Transformation happens when we live consciously! ❤ May we all find the deep peace and healing that this world so desperately needs! ❤🙏
@agnieszkaschulz296211 сағат бұрын
My neighbour she is around 70 lost her husband (she said he was bad man)and then suddenly lost her son ,lives alone and I always felt for her.But once I talk to her and she said she is fine she love to be by herself rather then surrounded by the wrong people.She said she will never rent a room for a stagger.She loves her peace.
@LauraParkeКүн бұрын
I have never wanted to be married or live with anyone. Having to constantly compromise or submit to someone else is exhausting. So glad Joe sees the dynamics shift and speaks to it. Having to interact with someone when I prefer to be quiet is not peaceful to me. I think marriage is the hardest thing to do on the planet.
@agnieszkaschulz296211 сағат бұрын
After 20!years of marriage I starting to believe that marriage is a criminal institution
@TeaRose95 күн бұрын
I absolutely feel EVERYTHING you’re saying. I couldn’t have explained it better. These words are exactly what I feel and experience. Thank you for saying this so well.
@time4peace7262 күн бұрын
This place of operation of neurological plasticity enhances our spiritual mastery. We are not drained by others- and abused. Im 53 years old and love being alone now after 2 divorces- raised my kids. I needed time to heal and emotional regulation. Im better than I’ve ever been.
@JoMilne-q9r7 күн бұрын
Thank you Dr Joe.. I feel so content living alone.. I love my friends and relationships with others. But living on my own in my own space feels so right ❤ It took me some time after bringing my family up and going through empty nest syndrome to get used to.. it but it’s blissful freedom 😊 💖
@akshe47487 күн бұрын
It’s an AI video. It’s not real
@littleiodine94807 күн бұрын
The info is real! I live it. 😊
@agnieszkaschulz296211 сағат бұрын
I feel like I am going trough this stage.I was stay at home mum for very long time and I loved it but now when my children are out in this world chasing their own dreams ,I feel like I like it too the freedom which comes with it.
@melissadimoush81967 күн бұрын
Love this! I absolutely love being alone. I can literally feel the difference and lack of refining my own emotions in response to another person.
@missmermaid2325 күн бұрын
I've been living with myself for 15 years and it's very self empowering. I felt more alone during 25 years of living with my boyfriend and husband. After living with myself, now I feel that I could keep my authenticity and actually live with someone in the future because of this experience. I can walk into a party and not drink like everyone else. I've walked at night alone, in places around the world, and I've been fine knowing that Love is more powerful than fear. I usually surf alone in the ocean and I Love it. We become more comfortable and less reliant on other people, and more in tune with Spirit's guidance, trusting, and flowing. It's very Spiritual. So after 2 years of living alone, and exercising my intuitive muscles, I started my psychic business.
@judithsmith95822 күн бұрын
The longer I live alone the better I like it!
@iyajeanette22837 күн бұрын
this is true, i am a women living alone after relationships and children...this is an incredible choice....
@sageysage86387 күн бұрын
This was powerful!
@wheelerpat83 күн бұрын
“This is what I want… A slower pace, a more centered existence, and the perfect feelings of happiness to be found in the moments I come home to myself.” I read this on a box of tea bags once. Loved it. Its stayed with me since. Seemed appropriate to share here, in case it resonates for anyone else. Cheers.
@patriciaanndemello46524 күн бұрын
I'm in my 60's and have never been married or had children. I love quiet and having a clean home, doing what I want when I want to do it and pursuing my hobbies. After work, I come home and chill out. It's wonderful. If I feel the need to be with others I just get together with friends.
@solsticelakshmi46397 күн бұрын
You can also achieve the same thing by having strong healthy boundaries and meditating. I have lived with and without people for equal amounts of time. There are benefits and drawbacks for both situations. We are social beings who need connections and we are also spiritual who need solitude. As with everything else, balance between living with and without people. Again it comes down to boundaries and good communication. And this applies to both men and women. We all need time alone and we all need connection. Plus we need more wholeness and togetherness and less separation. Look what happened over the last 4 years. Death rates from sooiside went up dramatically. Again, we need balance.
@debaratibiswas79756 күн бұрын
It depends on whether living alone or living with someone is a choice or circumstantial. People can be lonely in a crowd and vice versa. There's no perfect life.
@BibbityBibbs5 күн бұрын
@@debaratibiswas7975 I could never be as happy as I am if I lived with another person.
@saankamala5477 күн бұрын
Living alone for 25 yrs..❤ i vouch all these.. esp the coherence, independence, high energy happiness and what not😂😂
@dianebaran2658Күн бұрын
So surprised to read how many of us are living alone and thank you so much Joe for reminding us to become the beacon we are meant to be 🙏 The world is ready for our light 🌟
@maslackica127 күн бұрын
He just described my life and realisation ♡
@TeaRose95 күн бұрын
Same exactly.
@BelieveInPower44419 сағат бұрын
Been Alone for almost 2 years and what it has done for my life, Mind, Body and spirit is out of this world. I’ve been able to accomplish and accomplishing everything I set out to do when I was in a relationship. I have never been so at peace in my life.And it’s not just romantic relationships I’ve gotten rid of but also friends and family. I never call anyone unless I’m handling business. It’s allowed me to understand and appreciate the art of change and growth and true self love.
@SA-ww1ge7 күн бұрын
I question the word lonely. I don’t think it’s a feeling. I think it’s what we tell ourselves. I feel my pure feelings & interpret them like fear or peace & wellbeing. Fear is not loneliness. If I feel uncomfortable I dont interpret it as lonely ever. Living alone is easy & happiness. It’s helped to know what feels good & there’s no benefit to associate w controllers, power plays & dysfunction. U can Easily differentiate & no energy in victim triangle. U have the power & don’t give it to anyone anymore. U r the one who has the keys to the cage. It’s not others that control you, you have to give them that power.
@mlcarey1000Күн бұрын
25 yrs of solitude, peace, and acceptance have been blissful. The first 46 years of my life were chaotic & full of trauma. My EQ growth has been astounding & I rely on it every day as I continually live in a state of gratitude😮
@ingridgrattidge58876 күн бұрын
Intuitive accuracy is so spot on combined with research
@bcvc33652 күн бұрын
I’ve been leaving alone since end of 2016 and it is pure bliss. Little by little I’ve been healing and changing my beliefs. I am literally a new person now. I don’t know how I can give this peace up and live with a partner again. This video is so informative! Thank you 🙏
@olivegoddess116 сағат бұрын
Literally everything stated in this discussion is exactly what I am experiencing! I’m 35, owner of an integrative medical practice and an acupuncturist, uninterested in dating or romance. I’ve never been more at peace, and everything is growing and organizing rapidly in my life. And yes, other people, including the others working in my office, are always attracted to what I am doing and creating. I feel so filled and able to be authentic. I am able to fully show up for others as fully recharge at home. Life is fun and juicy.
@Supernatura5447 күн бұрын
I’m married but we have our own little world, we get along well, thank you for this video, I’m proud of the women who live alone , I do believe if we ever go separate ways I will rather live alone with my cats❤️🙏🏼.
@jennifermckenziemedium5 күн бұрын
This is fake and it's AI generated. Dr JOe would and has never said anything like this ever in his body of work.
@rachelarmel75473 сағат бұрын
@jennifermckenziemedium Maybe he hadn't before but there's always a first time. Maybe this is a new insight for him and he finally decided to share it!
@LazygirlLA8925 күн бұрын
John gray, the writer of men are from mars women are from Venus, says that women who are independent live with higher levels of testosterone. He also says if you’re a woman, masturbation will make you fat. While I appreciate John Gray for showing the world how men are different from women, I honestly believe some of his messages are an attempt to get women to settle for marriage and kids. I’ve been alone for almost a decade now and my life is incredible. My life is 100x better than it was in my 20’s, when I was in relationships and constantly trying to find a romantic partner. I can’t imagine having a person in my personal space at all anymore.
@nataliadagonКүн бұрын
Im a married woman. It's a constant battle for your physical, mental and emotional survival....You get diminished every day, you get lied to every day, you are lonely every day, if not lonely -you're abused in some way, you're anxious and depressed, you can't lose weight, you feel low self esteem and can't follow your dreams because you're laughed at everyday..You work, work, work at home and never get appreciated.
@tinkerheck3284Күн бұрын
I watched my mother go through this as a child, because this is what some people consider marriage to truly be and they live that life not knowing they have the right to change it. This is not marriage, this is a convenient relationship for one person and an absolute living hell for the other. I’m not trying to tell you what to do, but I think it’s time for you to consider separation and/or divorce.
@jchiappardi8915 күн бұрын
This should be required listening for widows. Thank you !!!!!!!!!!
@jayajora3 күн бұрын
Agree. Lost my husband March 2022, thought grief would take me. It is lifting, but still scary. I’m glad I ran into this
@TeaRose95 күн бұрын
Love this, and the way you explain this is EXACTLY the way I feel. I absolutely revel in being alone.