Why You Need To Stop Trying | The Law Of Reversed Effort

[@jamielehman4934]

One time in high school, we were bowling for PE, and I tried my best to do well, but I performed below average. Then, as we were waiting for the bus I decided to roll a few more balls, not caring how I did because no one was keeping score. I ended up getting 3 strikes in a row when I didn't care how I did. 😲

[@ashleighrose2332]

I apply this to my relationship. After being in a relationship where every day was a struggle to stay together and keep things going smoothly, I vowed never to try so hard in a relationship again. So whenever things get rocky I let go, stop trying, and every time it works out. He just does the thing naturally what I wanted him to do (whatever it is). And our relationship is just getting easier and easier and happier and happier.

[@aidamanea7393]

I needed to hear this thanks :(

[@JordyBatista3]

This goes well for traditional relationships. Guys don’t want to be told what to do. Just win us over with the conduct of your character and it naturally makes us want to sacrifice for our women more

[@inspiredby-sx7wy]

I think this is a problem in todays society of personal development: We have way too many goals and therefore feel the pressure of them oftentimes we don't get anything achieved because of that. I also see this reverse principle in weightloss!

[@editsdharma108]

yes!

[@FerineKitty]

So true! I agree

[@aryanmishra7555]

I totally get the point you're saying But exactly what are we supposed to do? Keep sulking about all the things we could have or we could be / make an effort trying to achieve them / die trying our best vs regret not working hard enough? What sort of situation is this? I've been working so hard for the last few months to improve my score in a standardized test. I've done everything I possibly can despite all the time constraints. But things don't seem to improve enough for me to feel confident.

[@Earnbotearnings1]

Once you believe everything is easy and only focus on being happy and practicing gratitude, you will achieve your goals so easy. Your subconscious mind already know your goals why are you consciously putting yourself under pressure. Your subconscious mind will find a way easily. Be in nature every day and sit in silence everyday for 10mins.

[@annamoore3129]

OMG this explains something I do at work. When I'm putting myself under pressure to find where something goes, I get frustrated and just put it down to go back to late. Often I instantly find where it goes.

[@prarthana6911]

oh man, you dont have any idea of how helpful this was to me at this point of my life. thanks mate

[@withhasnae7784]

The law of reversed effort is what we simply need to apply in our daily lives. I do sometimes apply the principle of this law in different areas of my life ,and it yields positive results. When I try too hard to achieve something that is beyond my capacity ( studying many hours a day for example) I often do not reach the expected results and I face many obstacles. Conversely, when I relax and try to find balance in my life I end up doing many things and being very productive.

[@bbdn5123]

The title is something that crossed my mind recently. I'll check the video now.

[@losiseneviratne9834]

Now everything makes so much more sense

[@mbhatti1723]

I was linking it with paradoxical intention then suddenly you said "that's where paradoxical intention comes in" Made me Feel Deja vu

[@joeblobyisme3708]

1:47 one thing I’ve (just) learned about sleep is this. When I was young I didn’t know what caffeine was so now I only drink decaffeinated drinks. But if I’m not in bed by 10-12. I’m up all night. Out of this past week when I play on my phone instead of going to bed the moment i get sleepy I wake up in the middle of the night or stay up.

[@colorfulshow33]

Whoever is reading this, I pray that whatever you’re going through gets better and whatever you’re battling with makes your situation better as you’re continuing to be a better person each day. I have faith that you’ll turn out great as your circumstances will change. Have a fantastic day! You got this! 🤗💪🏼❤😍🥰

[@yamatanoorochi3149]

thank you for your faith in the average person

[@adamgohary6292]

Your words made my day

[@listeningtomusicistalentidgaf]

Ayyy this is what i needed the most!!

[@Mavnsocial]

A minute ago I was thinking about it and here it is

[@noahclark7603]

Exactly what I needed for finals.

[@bushra1717]

same here. Hope we both can do well :)

[@the_Guy_who_asked19]

I studied a lot but i am not smart Iso when i dont try i get Screwed but when i try i get slightly better grades what annoys me is ass licking students get extra crédits for no reson

[@dot4207]

I believe Rugby as a sport is a great metaphor for reverse effort. Your body is tempted to jarr into the opposition. However, the ball carrier makes a reverse effort to find a way, a more measured approach, while the rest of the teammates buy time by keeping opposition barred.

[@Karuto-tn5dc]

Thank you so much... I exactly need this today ❤

[@GhostVanguard]

Thanks man, I needed this today

[@Nathan-mx7rj]

Thanks bro this help a lot

[@Fogarasi_Bálint]

Thank you for the video!

[@jakeparkes2453]

thank you so much. ♥️

[@yardknight4953]

We should all share this with George R. R. Martin.

[@ynalenunez3998]

Im an FC 24 player and this helps a lot

[@timr8456]

Reminds me of the book The Inner Game of Tennis 📖

[@dot4207]

Thank you for suggesting!

[@anandapadmanabhans]

Good evening improvement pill

[@dot4207]

If I am not wrong, if one uses reverse effort excessively. I think it pulls them into overthinking again. My body becomes numb. Somehow the response is surrendering, kind of the opposite of being assertive and opposite of reversed effort. If you know about this situation, please make a video.

[@Masteringabundance]

I've noticed with stop lights when I really don't want to get caught in red lights I get caught in all but when I really want to get caught in one to send a quick text I hit green lights everytime it's crazy

[@ShubhamUpreti-mk4wv]

Amazing

[@MrMastera]

Yeah, but there is also a saying that "only dead fish swim with the stream". Effort and struggle makes you stronger. If you tried so hard and got so far, in the end it *does* even matter.

[@GreatWhite7]

Time is a valuable thing

[@nooriany1]

Watch it fly by as the pendulum swings

[@GodoChiara104]

Watch the countdown to the end of the day

[@skincarerainbow]

The struggle and effort shouldn't come from a place of desperation is what this video is saying. Basically put in the efforts but don't be attached to the outcome.

[@mammybelle7302]

Come on everyone...We've all done it at some point in our lives!! "I'll never go back to him or her!" 😂

[@notred1323]

Hi improvement pill how are you

[@anandapadmanabhans]

Nice

[@umairalikhan2541]

What a humman can do only struggle,not to focus on results

[@colorfulshow33]

imagine seeing this video at the night before exam 😳 😅 just give up 😂

[@transcendinghealth8937]

True story

[@David-gj5sg]

I would like to realize synonym accomplish my i played a basketball game of 21 in a gym with 4 other players. i played the most defense, most shot ball from far, and i won the game with a gym wall touch 3 pointer 1 of many examples reversed effort?

[@adrianaforero7956]

Thanks for this content. Top Finanzas channel recommended me your channel. 🙂

[@juliuscaesart]

Pill is still back 👀

[@SCTG4231]

This law just helped me right now as I woke up late for work. Driving frustrated because of how this hiccup shifts everything else in the day. However everything will work out, just a little further down in the stream 😂

[@kh8vn]

Pomodoro X Grounding

[@Battleganz]

Well, I had set an affirmation that I wanted to be the richest person in the world. So I looked at my own life and tried to fined evidence that this was already true.

[@DijitalVizyon10]

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[@ryanreviews8566]

woah, did IP voice change?

[@wildcard9173]

reminds me of the happy place from happy GIlmore

[@Gandmarnewalaophumai]

❤😊

[@jatinthakur455]

Basically, it ain't a big deal

[@Lemonnnluvs]

Let's see if my adhd paralysis goes away with this effort

[@johnedelmann6711]

I'm afraid mindfulness will stimulate it, making it worse.

[@জৌতিৰাজঅসম]

🍅🙏

[@HamzaJatte]

Bro where's the voice we got used for!!!

[@opengestalt]

Plateauing

[@United_Wings]

🎉😮

[@Omar.mn1000]

What happened to your voice?? 🤔

[@ducksdog6601]

I think he hired voice actors I miss his voice to 😢

[@Ali_tawfik.]

First

[@TomAcademy-sk3fs]

i genuinely dont like this new voice of improvement pill

[@carlojayjunio]

I miss the old voice hehe

[@nietzschesmoustache3585]

Nope. Im here to confirm that you actually need to try harder.

[@BossGIsaac]

you got a replacement to narrate?

[@Pouund]

This is false teaching.

[@sidharthrupesh9586]

Hello buddy pls explain why

[@gusklemp3477]

Nonsense

[@williammccallum4760]

Thanks for deleting my comment. Guess it was easier than actually considering an alternative that doesn't conform to the narrative you're trying to convey in this video.

[@inspiredby-sx7wy]

I would be interested in what you said?

[@dot4207]

Yes, sometimes you need discipline. It works in situations where you have to conserve will power into, thinking and improving fundamental systems of your psyche. It demands resilience.