Why you should be social

You should not be scared of talking to others. Get out of your comfort zone and speak with others.
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[@Ehhhidc]

Low key need help. My parents dont let me outside. Cant do shit. Go to school, come home, sleep. Ive tried to do things i didnt want to so i could be social. I skated, smoked, drank. It worled really well and got a couple exes but rn but atm i have nothing and no one. My social skills are pretty good sometimes. My scoail skills low key got killed ever since i saw the fight club movie lol. Made me think that i wasnt rly being myself and was just thinking what would a cool/charismatic/funny person say or do rn. Now im kinda a blank slate that can pop a kickflip. Thoughts??

[@Perperpur]

Yolo do whatever you feel like doing.

[@Nolan_Schmidt]

First of all, never get into drugs and alcohol. I don't know how old you are but, you don't need to do things bad for you or things you don't want to do to fit in. I see this all the time, just because some people you think are "cool" are doing something you know is bad for them, doesn't mean you need to do it and be like them. If you do not get off of drugs I can promise you will be a loser. I would rather be lonely than do drugs or anything against my morals to fit in. As for your social skills and with fight club, I don't really believe in trying to "be yourself" I think it's kind of made up, because "yourself" is just what you are influenced by, so try to be like what you want to be like. Don't try too hard though. Don't be thinking what you said of "what would this type of person be doing" that's just you being socially awkward. Try to talk to new people. Being the same as others makes it less likely to be hated or unliked. But not following others if you don't want to makes you respected and liked by the people you actually should be with. I hope this helps if you are still confused just comment again.

[@Ehhhidc]

@@Nolan_Schmidt yea nah im not honna go past weed. Also i noticed im awsome when im not sober. Like at a wedding my step dad told me to let loose and handed me a drink. Had an awsome time dancing and actually enjoying myself for once. I even got the camera guy to dance with us i was helping people have fun. Im awsome when im not overthinking. As with the being urself. Dont know what really happened my social skills were shittt in the forst half of 9nth grade and then i kinda developed a side character that was "cool". Basically what i thought cool kids were like and it actually worled i ended up smokin carts n shi in class never got caught. The high actually let me be normaland i could conversate with people and make them laugh. Actually got a gf because id get high before the class i had her with. I stopped smokin when we started dating cuz i wanted to be real with her but i was like, shocked that i was actually with a beautiful girl. Like im talkin huge personality(chest lmao). B4 all this there was the coronavirus so i was stuck inside alone for a good 2 years so i grinded with a skatebaord cuz i was tired of being a nerd. Freshman year pops up and im the skaterdude and made friends n shi. By the end of the year i got caught with a chick behind the portables classrooms havin a good time. Anyways after that nothing. No insta no snap no social media. My moms like a overprotective white dad with their daughters lol. Im 17 havent rly done shi n a while. Like skating seems not that fun the only times i practice are when im gonna skate with someone. I sleep thru classes. Like. Cant do jack shit. Im eother socialy awkward now or awkwardly social. Felt good to rant off for a bit thx man. I know im supposed to do what i can like exercise and study but shi everything feels so pointless. Feels dead. Nothing

[@Nolan_Schmidt]

Sounds like a lot of degenerate activity. Happens to everyone, but don't try to think of others opinions of you. You are still you drunk/high or not. I know it helps to relax you, but there are better ways. Take deep breaths, meditate if you don't already, but you will never get over being socially awkward if you don't say "fuck it" and just start talking to people you normally don't. Literally will work best on strangers that you will never see again because it truly doesn't matter what they think of you, or how the conversation goes. If they don't like you, it was embarrassing or anything like that, you can easily move onto the next and forget about the other one. But, I understand you, it's hard to be social in highschool without social media.

[@Ehhhidc]

@@Nolan_Schmidt sounds like a lot of degenerate activity😭😭😭🤟 Anyways yea im like whoever i want to be when im around people im never gonna see again. Cool vibe funny remarks. Imma try the meditation thing and cant rly practice walking up topeople when parents dont rly let me hang out with people my age:p. Il do what i can tho. Thanks man✌️ youre awsome as shi for this. I wish you the best in life

[@EVIN_117]

0:08 agoraphobia

[@doctorgymbro6439]

Man woke up and chose to spit absolute facts. You sir, have earned a new subscriber today 🔥🔥💪🏽💪🏽

[@Nolan_Schmidt]

Thank you for the support God bless.

[@Pxelmir]

You motivated me and i will motivate you from subscribing ;)

[@Nolan_Schmidt]

I really hope I can help you and others. I really appreciate the sub tho.

[@IlahGod]

Are you intovert

[@Nolan_Schmidt]

It doesn't matter if you are "introverted" or not. That's just something made up to make you feel worse. If you think you are introverted you will be more scared to talk to people. I don't think of myself as introverted or extroverted. I'm just not socially awkward/nervous.

[@asteriospoutokas1536]

Really informative and helpful, Keep up the good work G💪🏻

[@Nolan_Schmidt]

Thank you, I wish you the best, thanks for the support. Grateful everyday for people like you.