Why You Should NEVER Give A Man Advice. And what to do instead.

[@nextsteps]

Great Content, Thank you

[@NaomieThompson]

That feels good to know :)

[@Ohanna_one]

This makes so much sense. It feels right to ask your man :I have an idea, may I share it w you ? 💛 I wish everyone would ask this question before giving unsolicited advice to someone, man or woman. Thank you Naomie, your advice and presence for women is priceless ❤

[@NaomieThompson]

@RashmiChopra23 that feels lovely to read :)

[@Ohanna_one]

@@NaomieThompson 💖🙏🏽🌺

[@evelynsoko]

I find this content so helpful because all my life, I have learnt not to rely on anyone, so sometimes I have to remind myself that I have help by my side.

[@NaomieThompson]

Evelyn, I'm so glad This information helped you. What would you like to hear about in future videos?

[@kc17131]

Great advice! Asking for permission says a lot that you treat somebody as they want

[@Xomeok]

You should make more videoes like this♥️ im too much in my maskuline energy.. this helped alot.

[@NaomieThompson]

I'm so glad it helped!

[@bellacampbell-ks9px]

I just wanna appreciate this and you , you’ve solved so many problems with the shortest most useful video …. THANK YOU!!! Please keep going i need you 🥹 your very troubled lil sis

[@NaomieThompson]

@bellacampbell-ks9px Hey lil sis, what a wonderful comment to read! I'm here for you. What would you like to hear in future videos?

[@karenbianco1084]

I just came upon your video, because Im venturing out into the dating world again. Im trying to embrace more of my feminine side. Wonderful advice! ❤️

[@ST-rj8iu]

I agree with what you are saying but some men want to be in the feminine role. Learned helplessness and manipulation. Women can use these techniques but be prepared for him to not step up. At that point, decide if you want to be his mother for the next 20 years.

[@JuneScott-f4g]

I will definitely use your valuable advice of techniques in masculinity and feniminity. Ive been a single mum and have always had to combine all the masculine tasks ss well as the feminine tasks. I had never thought if separating the two. I certainly now understand and it does make sense.

[@NaomieThompson]

June i’m so glad you found this video helpful. Come along and ask me a question live in my #wednesdaylovestream here on KZbin kzbin.infoXSBOVImtYb8?si=pIgs-3uGhy29SZYm Or just listen in to the advice I’ll be sharing 💗

[@TeaLaRee]

How on earth are you not more known?! You're so brilliant and wonderful in your advice for us ladies. As a woman who has struggled with being one lol, you connect so beautifully. Omg, please put more videos out. 🙏💕🩷💕

[@NaomieThompson]

@@TeaLaRee I’m now doing a free live stream q&A every week. If you hit the bell icon on my channel, you will get notified when I go live. 💕

[@tmkng1717]

I wish I’d seen this a year ago. I really feel like my relationship has broken because of this, and I don’t know how to fix things. Might just have to accept that it’s ruined, and better prepare myself for the next one if I find love again. Amazing video. Thank you so much

[@NaomieThompson]

@@tmkng1717 i’m so sorry to hear that your relationship is broken. When we change the way we communicate sometimes relationships can turn around quickly. But I also want you to know that you mustn’t beat yourself up, we can only do our best with what we are equipped with at any given moment. Keep learning and growing darling. 🌷

[@danilaroche1156]

My best friend would give her man advice, thinking she was helping. He'd get very irritated. My cousin would do same with her husband snd he'd get angry. I didn't understand it but I do now! Great video.

[@NaomieThompson]

Thanks for sharing!! Once we know this information we see it happening everywhere!

[@wendiparker9831]

Wow , thank you for this advice...I intend to use it as I want my partner to lead ..I like being in my feminine..We work better together..There are times when I slip back into a masculine side ( was single and independent for many years)...Am going to keep this clip as a reminder..I do believe in him and am learning to trust him more..Thank you again...This helps heaps...🥳🌼.....

[@NaomieThompson]

Wendi I’m glad this helped you. When we’ve had to live so much of our life surviving, pushing, leading and being so fiercely independent is no surprise that it can be challenging to remember to receive let our good man lead the relationship.

[@annahassan7219]

Thanks you amazing video very helpful

[@saniasiddiqui4656]

Wow this was really great!

[@candyclouds5171]

Thanks so much 🥹 please keep these vids coming 💗

[@NaomieThompson]

You got it! What topics would you like me to speak about? :)

[@ayonalovecoaching]

Very helpful advice ...

[@NaomieThompson]

That feels good to hear 🧡

[@hyesunkang3094]

I love it. But is this possible to not give advice or suggestion when you're raising little kids together? Dynamics between my husband and I changed so much since our twins were born and we had to solve problems together, and as a mama bear, I've been feeling so strong about certain things about raising kids and it's really hard (almost impossible) for me to lean back when it comes to kids. Raising kids definitely turned me more of the masculine role. Twins are 4 now. Do you have any advice on that?

[@NaomieThompson]

this is a great question! I'll certainly do a video on this. I've been there and I know what a tricky area this can be. There's a certain amount of letting go of control that needs to happen when co parenting. This starts with noticing your urge to correct him; and instead express a feeling , "i feel concerned about our child eating this" "I feel uncomfortable with this much screen time" Then you bring your husband in as part of the team by asking him what he thinks... Look out for a future video on this. Hit the bell for notifications or sign up for my newsletter to get the video in your inbox. www.naomiethompson.com

[@hyesunkang3094]

@@NaomieThompson Thank you so much for the tips, Naomi! I'll definitely try that and look out for all your future videos :) I feel so relieved that there are ways to stay feminine while co-parenting. I appreciate your guidance so much. 💕

[@msSAN300]

I´m horrible! I always give everyone advice!!

[@msSAN300]

Women also want to feel respected and admired for their ideas. I prefer that to dumping my emotional crap on someone and feel understood and cherished.

[@NaomieThompson]

@@msSAN300 you’re not horrible. How is giving advice working out for you?

[@kingkay8943]

Thank you ❤️

[@soffiahronn6840]

I have a terrible Attatchment Disorder that makes me attract chaos in my love life, even if I don't want it now. It means I am releasing myself from being addicted to highs and lows (A complex trauma reflex after a violent youth). Do you have any power tricks on keeping myself In my 'feminine energy' stronger than before? Because I need to feel safe within myself when someone I find desirable, gets attracted to me? Love, Soffìa 🇮🇸 Iceland

[@NaomieThompson]

Thank you for sharing so vulnerably with me. I'm so sorry you experienced violence in your youth. This is indeed traumatic. The feminine energy tools I work with are about helping you become strong on the inside so no matter what happens in life, you'll know deep down you'll be okay. As your inner strength grows the kinds of relationships you attract changes. They'll become more and more solid and drama free! I suggest you get my free audio training to get you started. naomiethompson.com/freeaudiotraining or the link should be in the description :)

[@firefly198]

Great advice, thanks Naomi. What about if they're talking to you about an emotional problem, something traumatic that happened in their past or with an ex etc, what would you suggest to say here?

[@NaomieThompson]

It’s about striking the balance between your natural compassion and warmth for the pain of another human being and not being not becoming a man’s therapist. And this is also nuanced depending on how long you’ve known someone.

[@linam.4383]

But what if he asking you for advice and then blame you if the think not going well?!Also when I don't wont to give him a advaice,he tells me I don't care abouth him!

[@khanyisilengcobo-1990]

Hi Naomie why will a women attract married man ? What is it inside her that can make her attract married man ?

[@NaomieThompson]

great question. The most helpful way to see it is, that the men we attract are a mirror for what's going on inside of us. So you could ask yourself... if I'm attracting unavailable men what is it in me that is unavailable? How emotionally unavailable for love and intimacy am I? That will shine a light on what needs to be healed. :)

[@khanyisilengcobo-1990]

@@NaomieThompson Im scared to love and to be intimate Im scared i will get hurt

[@NaomieThompson]

@@khanyisilengcobo-1990 I hear you darling. And I love your self awareness! What ways have you used to try to fix this?

[@danilaroche1156]

​Sometimes they're a mirror. Sometimes not. I've attracted narcs as they saw I was confident & took it as a challenge.

[@dianacarolinasilva2328]

❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@RobinSampsonMcCarthy]

Thanks!!😀

[@NaomieThompson]

You're welcome!