Why you should NOT date K-pop idol *SPILLING THE TEA*

[@amandachoi826]

the story just shows that there are so many hidden relationships and we have No Idea abt them like jeez

[@natalias3502]

you should be aware though, we only their job side, they have a life outside and offcamera

[@natalias3502]

know*

[@amandachoi826]

Natalia Silva ok

[@sugartokki3888]

But at the same time, he was a trainee too, but it shouldve been know that there are hella hidden relationships that we don’t know about

[@amandachoi826]

Bambam’s Wife this topic is very touchy because American media is such a different story. Feels like everything is public. Really dawns on you sometimes 🤔

[@lauraviatelaecheverri1009]

I feel bad for the secret girlfriends of the idols.

[@Jaehyunx4]

** me thinking to be one of them **

[@yourbaldwife8843]

Gloria Debbarma lol 😂

[@PatsliTV]

And boyfriends

[@artemis5583]

:/

[@O_Ciel_Phant0mhive]

Or boyfriends

[@athena718]

Chen's wife be saying "You just got the wrong man"

[@nezuko1101]

His girlfriend's decision to get pregnant is so right...

[@fatemahalai5760]

lmao...

[@rouengwenethdugayo1137]

@@nezuko1101 Hahahhahaa lmao

[@zairagutierrez7538]

Chen?

[@athena718]

@@zairagutierrez7538 uhh yes? Why?

[@gal922]

Lessons to learn: -Don’t hate idols gf‘s cause they suffer already -Don’t waste your money for gifts cause you don’t know who get it in the end -Don’t be delulu about your idols image cause you see just what they want you to see it’s an illusion -Don’t love them tooooo much cause you don’t really know them. Love yourself and your time;)

[@vivi-ht8so]

SAY IT LOUDER‼️

[@gal922]

@@sangavinaidu3860 yep but what I want to say was don’t put people you don’t really know before yourself. Some fans go overboard and literally waste their life and money for their idols. Time is precious, pay more attention to yourself and your family. know your values and watch and follow them for entertaining:)

[@phenomonal]

Wow

[@jeorgiemiranda5879]

This really help me too your right

[@usha8979]

Right

[@kkoodumps8576]

"why you should not date a kpop idol" me: i cant even buy an official merch-

[@Enstaar30]

Ikr

[@danaabelle]

I can relate

[@loront8983]

Can't relate. 😂

[@deniaguayo3581]

Hahahahah same

[@user-wp2fu4ck3o]

SAME 🤣

[@imthelettere]

She lived the Y/N life... Edit: WOW didn’t expect so many likes. Thank you everyone!

[@v3nus894]

Rose Smiley loool fr tho

[@هبة-م3ص]

A sad Y/N life

[@baybeetacoo8734]

@@هبة-م3ص what does Y/N mean?

[@sorry5415]

only for like 1-2 months

[@marymargaret2613]

Lolzzzzz

[@vianeyaguilar2436]

Not only did she have a idol boyfriend, she also has kpop friends.

[@haigabavtqqtfafahg]

Vianey AGUILAR exactly what I thought hahahahaha

[@jessicacallender]

Vianey AGUILAR fr like wth

[@hellothere7389]

the biggest f l e x

[@kyufilm]

who are them?

[@hk-ql8zo]

life is better in Korea :(

[@kookknowsme4725]

Imagine going to your idol’s concert and his girlfriend is right next to you and you think hah wow she’s A FAN TOO

[@Mayan10098]

And when you say anything more about idol she's ready there to hit you for nameing his man

[@hyejin_min5513]

I'm worried about BTS duhh..

[@letssmile3564]

@@hyejin_min5513 I think you should be happy when your idol found their love partner 💖

[@Nusuiii]

@@hyejin_min5513 lmao same

[@gem1047]

@@Mayan10098 and she'll get dragged lol

[@Alex-ve6ey]

Why you should NOT date a K-pop idol Koreaboos: *surprised Pikachu face*

[@ayo_hitman_bang_introduces]

😂😂😂😂😂 you made my day

[@candygirl4life]

What is it about that. Pikachu is that like a thing or do they just like Pikachu.

[@shannon2748]

hehehe

[@shannon2748]

@@candygirl4life Actually, Pikachu is a Japanese Pokemon character..hehe

[@m3imeiji]

*Rip koreaboos* *lived since kpop exist*

[@fannyoctavia2319]

I think the hardest thing for being a kpop idol's gf is insecurity..

[@shejustafriend3213]

nahh it cant be. if love is in the relationship, then why would they let insecurities get into their way??

[@sooa2241]

IKR

[@abh1kxa]

It's true. The fear of getting bashed by fans and all.

[@deprimeplatypus490]

idk i think as long as they're confident that should be ok but the problem is saesangs adm cyberbullying i meanif they got exposed they'd have such a hard time

[@surendrachitnawis4963]

And most importantly, *JEALOUSYYYYY*!!!

[@jentlemoni3546]

*After this, im getting a conclusion that some kpop bois don't react to girl group performances on award shows because their secret girlfriends will get jealous.*

[@gabby_.4312]

Not just jealous but get their ass kick 🤘

[@yolandaagustin4812]

OH, THIS SLAPS😂😂😂😂

[@gabby_.4312]

@@yolandaagustin4812 yep (┛◉Д◉)┛彡┻━┻

[@gyuyanna]

No, its a rules from agency. They can't react to another girl/boy group when performing, and talking very carefully about girl/boy group at show or live. Cause some fans didn't like to watch their idol talking or reacting too much abt another group. Sorry for my bad english :'(

[@shreksmain]

@@gyuyanna WhAt!? I actually like it when they react but I can't do anything about it

[@anneb6639]

I admire a Chinese famous actor once said "Please just pay attention to my hard work and like the dramas I film. Don't pay attention to my personal life. I'm just a normal person like you. Not someone special." That is the real truth about the entertainment industry and celebrities. No matter which country. Being a celebrity is just their JOB! Fans are their source of income.

[@mantashakhan8795]

ACCURATE 💓

[@kc_1329]

Yes agree, I also rember a kpop idol I.M of MonstaX also said the facts the truth same what that Chinese actor says

[@mangakuota122]

Also Kim Heechul

[@arissa1467]

True

[@_kuhi_5457]

@@khushithawait7049 yep

[@trexzieplania358]

Topic: *"DATING WITH KPOP IDOLS"* Me: *_I can't even date any normal guy, how much more a kpop idol?_* (why is this still getting attention? it's been a year already 😃)

[@looneyzany]

I know I should be feel sorry for you... But I just laugh out loud reading your comment 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@mintchoco1017]

Sisssssss ikr!

[@shriyamakeupvanity9166]

Same😂😅

[@kharismachandra2874]

Glad to know I'm not alone 😂

[@lilylestari3959]

LOL

[@abigailarmstrong2069]

kpop idols are humans too. not every human being is nice and kind. it's hard for kids to understand that but once you get older you start to realize that things aren't always what they seem.

[@Lavender0810]

Deep comment.

[@winterismyfavseason]

True

[@tot.aamia101]

Facts. Beat that Karen...

[@extradrippypicklejuice]

I’m sure everyone knows that but they forgot that it’s hard to not treats someone who is famous or special kinda in a way so I’m yeah I have no point I do but I can’t explain

[@winterismyfavseason]

@@extradrippypicklejuice Famous people are just normal people who got famous (obviously). If you're gonna treat them like royalty just for their fame then you should treat average people the same way, they're not Gods, just treat everyone nicely and continue on with your life it's not that hard

[@amilydrew5833]

Why you shouldn't date an idol? Chen's wife: that's why I married him instead?

[@billyjean9818]

USVJSBSJSBJSBSJS😭😭😭

[@sumelynooren475]

No one is like chen in this whole world.❣️

[@imalionimaqueen7234]

That girl be living the Y/N life for real

[@marymargaret2613]

Sis got the ring

[@aliffahiman]

•Happy• •Blank• he is one of the main vocal in exo

[@shimla5384]

Her : why you should not date a kpop artist Me : I even can’t buy a ticket for a concert-

[@nicoleann7155]

LMAO

[@Eaglesmusic]

LOL!!!

[@rashmithaprasad9386]

Lol

[@sitthyrizowna9172]

😫

[@sherenesarina7762]

And broke

[@Sarah-zn1mu]

“You shouldn’t date kpop idols because-“ Me: *still picking who in NCT I should marry*

[@christerervina8515]

Samee😂😂😂

[@zvnooo]

AHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA TOTALLY RELATABLE

[@nurfaezzah6814]

😂😂😂

[@madeleinepuela]

Lmao same

[@queenie293]

Same 😂

[@drevianspade7852]

Plot twist: he was actually watching this... Wait- i think he definitely saw this😂😂

[@michin_cleo9120]

I actually wish he saw this 😂 whoever he is 😂

[@tanvikills409]

And I think he he is kim taehyung😂😂😂 because she said angel , and his smile 😂😂, seriously dude is taehyung on tinder😂😂. ?? I m dead😂😂

[@gurpleraven]

@@tanvikills409 ?🙄

[@7teen_wonu]

@@tanvikills409 She said he used to sing songs about break ups and taehyung never did So...🙂

[@tanvikills409]

@@7teen_wonu I was just kidding of course he is not 😹😹😹😹

[@karissabreanned4906]

Plot twist : this is just a huge commercial for tinder

[@ginaghassani3535]

WAIT A DAMN MINUTE- I -

[@putrinurhidayah5190]

WOW why i never think abt that?

[@sk-gi1kl]

Wait did she really date an idol¿

[@aprilitar]

HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAH

[@melanieschulz5615]

OMG WAIIIIT

[@kawiismistake]

*Her: Don't date K-pop idols* *Me: Thank God Suga is a cat*

[@iiii80000]

Me : thank God jungkoook is a bunny

[@Emotionallyunavailable0_0]

😂

[@emiy444]

Someone call animal protection service

[@shofiyzulfah6165]

HAHAHA

[@unitedchampionofindia3475]

My favorite comment I've ever saw 😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@nanapferd925]

First step to date a kpop idol... - being pretty. Me: Can't relate

[@xyh3152]

😭😭😭

[@sramdogara8621]

For each of us „a beautiful person” is someone different. For you shawn mendes can be pretty but for me it's Norman reedus. So saying „I have to be pretty to date xyz” is kinda stupid.

[@queennoralevi3426]

I cried so hard reading this I use to think I'm pretty but Korean skin gives me headache

[@whiffingcream7111]

Queennora levi Maybe because the beauty standards in your country and Korea is different. There’s people that would prefer your kind of beauty. There’s no need to compare yourself to others.

[@loront8983]

Most people can't honestly don't worry

[@justiceforjimin9622]

"Do not date a kpop idol" *me staring at the engagement ring I bought for namjoon*

[@Benamarie]

Omyghadd *relates*

[@theresa4356]

*cries like a koala*

[@christinaaheibam7494]

Girl you 😂😂

[@queennoralevi3426]

Damn girl

[@rosesarerose1530]

Omgggg hahahah

[@sophiaaschw3544]

I actually would prefer to be friended with the idols because they seem funny but i also wouldn't date one Thx for my first 1k likes

[@Luwaloo]

Sophiaa Schw Yh, me too... some ppl think that I’m lying but I’m not, like Minho from Shinee, or J-Hope, I agree that they’re so cute but I would love to be their friends I don’t feel like I wanna date them, but it’s not like they’re gonna notice or love me anyway💀💀

[@ndpd7695]

Finally someone normal

[@sophiaaschw3544]

@@Luwaloo yeah i mean its dumb to think or hope you ever get to date your bias bcs its never happening and i feel like that many girls or boys are setting their conditions in their future partner too high bcs of that thoughts so for me its realistic to hope of a friendship bcs if you do that your lovelife is not going to be impared

[@jhana717]

Same

[@Luwaloo]

Sophiaa Schw Yh

[@beezlegacy]

That is why I have mad respect for Chen and his wife. Maintaining a relationship is not easy and Chen owning up to it despite his fame says a lot about his character.

[@caribbeanstudies5340]

Yup

[@EllaSoh]

Yes! Chen is so brave. I love daddy chen.

[@ifyoudontlovebtsthendontwa1426]

He is a true gentleman even though I was not a fan but his this step made me respect him more then anything ✨✨

[@001AsanohA100]

I still remember on "Knowing brothers" when he said: I take responsibility of my actions. Then when he found out his gf was pregnant stay with her and get married. I still like him and was really sad when fan hate him for that. I would have liked also Bek and Taeyoung would follow that path.

[@alishagul9643]

Jina : you should nt date a kpop idol Chen's wife: EXOcuse me

[@xyh3152]

this is underrated ahahha

[@mahalakshmiganesan5313]

Who is Chen idk about him I am new to army 😭💔

[@Kessho2204]

@@mahalakshmiganesan5313 He's from EXO.Not all people here are army.

[@jaysan2674]

@@xyh3152 laughed harder than i should have ngl

[@fina4340]

LMAOOO

[@vladintsendov885]

I know you are searching through the comment section to find who the guy is -.- .

[@lovingfullsun555]

U know that, dude 😂😂😂 And one of them is me. Lol

[@lululala1535]

Uuuuuhhhh

[@cosmicpop3945]

Someone if you do get the idea who it was, let us know over here

[@boitumelolamola9582]

literally this is me hahaha

[@jacquelinemalowa9626]

Opse.. Busted!

[@jailynshade3027]

I thought I should watch this video. Because in my delusional mind me and Jackson Wang are getting married

[@boitumelolamola9582]

Bruh, I'm like wife to Park Jimin, Lord I must stop

[@stellabella-bello6178]

@@boitumelolamola9582 girl, V baby mama😁

[@jailynshade3027]

Boitumelo Lamola when they actually start dating idk what I'll do😂

[@rosie-o.7762]

I feel this 200%

[@yunikalm]

Me and Lim Jaebeom have been together since winter of 2012 and married for 3 years in my dreamland so yeah, hahahaha

[@nusaibamanifa926]

To the kpop idol who dated her, Watch this video and reflect on how you hurt her so that you do not repeat the same thing all over again with someone else.

[@meghanasamgiskar5407]

Well said I can see her sorrow behind the smile .... Felt bad for her

[@rosalynn_13]

I know 😭 my heart hurts for her 💔

[@yssy550]

true!

[@prithvivasanth3114]

It's better she move on...the idol should marry their own standards...cz she'll always feel insecured...and he always may think I deserve better and that feeling is forever!

[@purple.com_]

💯

[@artemisjane331]

I have no chance with a regular guy , how much more a kpop idol haha hahaha hahaha

[@ijustwantsomemilk2981]

Regular huh

[@yermsquirtle2404]

Same

[@giovannabeltrao5588]

Me too

[@erickaquiatchon7604]

OMG SAMEDT GSGDHDH

[@sarahfitarony2627]

Same

[@izaya6606]

Her story is really sad cause like she is there when that "kpop idol" is just a trainee and reaching his dream to become an idol, but when he finally reach his dream he just like broke up with jina and forgot everything about them its just so sad :( some kpop idols are not allowed to date publicly cause like it could end their careers, and their fans will get angry at them and throw hate to them. Some fans are really obsessive and delusional so they can't accept the fact that their idols are dating. They're humans too so we should respect their decisions in life and If ever that they are dating we should be happy for them because thats what makes them happy. :)

[@funnygummy5370]

Right? Like they arent even real fans tbh if they dont support their celebrity crush and their partner:// I hope no one attacks me for this:((

[@jacksonwangsbaby9537]

funnygummy 5 No❤️

[@kawaiiology]

it’s so crazy to me bc like western celebs date all the time and people get jealous or whatever but they don’t seem to face backlash like idols do 🥺

[@danicabrice4205]

That’s actually really crazy that their careers can end because they’re dating someone😭😭like we don’t even do that over here in the US or any western country. It’s actually very sad how the kpop industry works over there.

[@m34nismind9]

That was jungkook did too

[@dopecactus8513]

Imagine this Idol seeing this video bow being like: 👁👄👁

[@stherru360]

actually those who's not that bad be like @chen HAHAHAHAH jist joking around

[@swaglala7589]

Jin cult!💜

[@shaillamaeb.revilla7949]

He better be.

[@vickyangel8510]

I WAS THINKING THE SAME LMAO HAHAHHHA

[@larissa8326]

hahaha I just kept thinking about it

[@littlevoicesinsidemyhead]

Sometimes i just want to have a k-idol friend so that i may know all the things happenings in the kpop industry

[@chkienuggets]

Sameee🦖

[@PiscesEnfp]

Me too

[@dattebayo6617]

True. I wanna know the tea. 👀

[@shanetridanio3736]

Same hereee

[@noraadedeocansey6987]

Same here

[@Tiffany-ov2jf]

hmm... let's see why we shouldn't date idols -dating bans -hate from 12 yr old fans -unwanted popularity -nosy papparazis -saseang fans *I wonder why we shouldn't* 🤔

[@jadesx96]

Sasaeng fans are also a pretty big nOPE

[@Z5Z5Z5]

Yeah not ideal at all. I would hate to be famous and never be alone and everyone knowing who you are

[@Tiffany-ov2jf]

@@jadesx96 I'll add saseang fans to the list

[@kookiecream7259]

Hmm I can't find the reason too XD

[@rosaqiangweiluvr]

ツTiffany Delusional fans, like IDOLS ARE HUMANS TOO.

[@flowergogh9685]

Why does everybody think it’s Tae, when she clearly told us it’s not someone from BTS

[@importantbusinesseu3680]

yea finally someone commented about thissss 👍🏻

[@sanskrutimali2010]

8:41 she said on his Instagram I could see him hanging out with other friends... And tae don't have an ig account

[@rose-qk1xy]

@@sanskrutimali2010 but he can have a private secret IG account (who knows)

[@sanskrutimali2010]

@@rose-qk1xy do you think he will post smg on his private secret ig account and army will not find that out

[@bell-ns3qo]

fr

[@anyachalack]

Fans: give gifts that are probably expensive to their idols The idol: gives it to his girlfriend

[@kimchitaekimio8993]

I dont want anything else, just their true love

[@ericanozak4544]

Ultimate plot-twist

[@rizkia1094]

yeah mostly like that....

[@poorvalele9761]

That's why if I ever meet them I'll give them a drawing or something 🙂

[@coldmilk2786]

@@poorvalele9761 good idea😁

[@markzenoftheyear3631]

The hardest pill to swallow is that idols are just normal person and could hurt you as much as normal persons. Some have attitude problems, commitment issues, etx but you of course cant see it on tv. So if you have a chance to interact with one, or befriend an idol, it’s better to stay friends than just pursue a relationship with them.

[@shinryujinanswermycalls6648]

Right

[@armyshope]

I'm aware of that

[@armyshope]

@@KlaineAnimals No it won't and you aren't the one who should be telling people what to do in their lives

[@asmrlowkey5043]

@@KlaineAnimals I prefer to know them so that i can snap myself back to reality and remimd myself that they're just regular human beings with flaws in their personality

[@lo_Ovung]

Hmm Bambam really wasn't joking about the tinder thing huh? Edit: It's a joke 🤦🏻‍♀️

[@user-iv104-29lvr]

Oh shit I forgot about that lol skkskskskksks

[@user-mc4ve6yh8d]

OH SHIT HAHA

[@Kt-cn2rq]

😂😂😂

[@anayansisj7824]

OMG

[@SPLOOOOOOOOOF]

Haha lol

[@montaine7692]

“why you shouldn’t date a kpop idol” me: i'm ugly

[@g.s.5447]

And poor and probably a foreigner

[@Annie-ik8rg]

Lmao same

[@somebodyotherthanyanda1557]

bro same

[@bhumikac9412]

@@g.s.5447 why you gotta call me out like that 😔

[@yesiyoongster1175]

We Are One 🤡

[@stephanie5843]

I can imagine that there's a lot of idols that broke up with their girlfriends/boyfriends because of their company. But then there is Hyuna and E'dawn breaking the rules 💖

[@omtypofficial1747]

and they lived happily ever after.

[@bangtanstay3603]

I thought they broke up?

[@stephanie5843]

@@bangtanstay3603 did they?

[@andreahl3494]

Don't romanticize it too much. Seeing them as heroic rebels who fought for their love. They are just people too and they were blinded by their emotions that time (that they revealed it even if it's against the rules). Their relationship is not more special, it is just as sweet and/or chaotic as other relationships. They might even had depression or regrets for a while because of what it brought to them. Just support them on whatever they do from here on forwards.

[@stephanie5843]

@@andreahl3494 I wasn't romanticizing. Fan culture there needs to change because they act like dating is a crime.

[@freyjaahura4832]

"why you should not date a kpop idol" thank god, Seokjin is a moon.

[@katherinemembreno5256]

HAHAHA our moon

[@dldiva1864]

Ikr 😂😂😂💜💜

[@UniverseIsUnknown]

Ikr. Our moon

[@ArmyBangtanFam]

Thank God Namjoon is a koala 🐨

[@nikole9642]

WE ALL LOVE HIS SONG😭💜

[@ezracua6391]

"I met him to TINDER" me: *starts downloading tinder* pls be got7 or exo----- jk HAHAHSHSHSHHS

[@marykazumifr]

PLS BE EXO DJDBDBR

[@passiondimi8068]

If I fell on any Got7 members I will be so happy 😭(mostly on Jaebeom)

[@jungminjeon6250]

this was literally me,, after she said it i downloaded tinder app 🤣

[@rinrinchandesu]

UNLESS

[@heeyitsrin4103]

@@passiondimi8068 samee 😭😭😭

[@СтаниславаСтоянова-л4л]

Jina: Don't date idols Also Jina: he was so cute, his smile was so cute, he was such a good kisser, his lips were so soft

[@roginamaeespiga5745]

Lol did you even watch until the end of the video? She was fuming mad 😂

[@claranguyen2738]

Trash_aesthet :3 I think it doesn’t apply for every idol. I feel like she’s generalising.

[@baybeetacoo8734]

@@roginamaeespiga5745 sue was fuming cause the company stopped her from dating her

[@lovemylifebeauty2090]

Every man are not perfect 🙃

[@Vaishushi]

I remembered jimin abd lips part

[@xoxobtsbpjimin6153]

_I feel bad for her_ , _when you have fallen for someone who isn't feeling the same anymore_ ╥_╥ _Jina deserves to have a better boyfriend that really love her_

[@rosesarerose1530]

Yes i agree

[@tahshams.k3695]

Lydia jamir ..i agree

[@MC-ko2mx]

All these K-Pop idols professing they *never* date. Then you, and Grazy Grace come along, and spill the tea LMAO

[@katakana1268]

😂😂😂😂

[@michellegarcia5337]

And so much more that we don't know. Some other are spill the tea too about peculiar chats idols have to find other thing. Specialy in gay idols. Because.....yes theirs gay idols too. They are as nomal as people around you......but with money of course🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@MC-ko2mx]

@@michellegarcia5337 I don't doubt it. I just wish LGBTQ+ individuals could be out, and still be part of mainstream K-pop.

[@shaneanngelasque2501]

her: that's why you shouldn't date a kpop idol me: thank God NCT are vloggers

[@ioanateona913]

I'm dying 🤣🤣🤣

[@100wangyirenbiased2]

😂😂😂

[@keysi4967]

🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@chenlele7126]

The accuracy 😌

[@ru_dahldell]

😂😂😂

[@far.9398]

"Dont date a kpop idol" Im grateful that TXT are tiktokers

[@masochisticdoll]

😭😭 & clowns

[@j-hopeshamburgerandspriteu7086]

(•̀ᴗ•́)و

[@formula1fan542]

Yeyyy. I foung Moa's. Can I ask you guys some things? Like........ I am a new moa. And I want to know more..

[@masochisticdoll]

@@formula1fan542 sureeee

[@far.9398]

@@formula1fan542 ofc,you can

[@autumn_fell_385]

I lost it when she got lots of gifts from him that were actually from his fans jsjjsnsjksnxixjskn

[@e_g07_gillacoyryzhrikaella47]

It's true tho... I have a cousin, he's part of a trio here in our country, they're group is not famous, but they have fans... And some of the Fan's gifts were given to me lol

[@e_g07_gillacoyryzhrikaella47]

Their*

[@autumn_fell_385]

Well isn't it nice to receive presents LOL

[@e_g07_gillacoyryzhrikaella47]

@@autumn_fell_385 it's really nice tbh... But I'm also a fan so I'm not fully enjoying those things...

[@autumn_fell_385]

@@e_g07_gillacoyryzhrikaella47 ofc it's understandable

[@istanygfamily3106]

When the part came how jina suffered through her secret relationship after his agency found out that he was in a relationship . I was thinking what did exo Chen's wife have gone through with much scary entertainment which is really naive in handling dispatch

[@instalover4532]

It's not about agency Chen loved his lover genuinely That's y he got married Otherwise he could dumb her

[@EllaSoh]

Imagine what chen's wife had been through. Mad respect for daddy chen for being so brave. I love you daddy chen

[@CosplayerCelty]

Unpopular opinion: This just shows that ordinary people CAN date their kpop idols. Thank me later. I have no plans to date Suga but I want to cheer you up so here you go.

[@AinishGhost]

True

[@fizariaz9170]

Yeah but not international fans, so its verryyy low to date a kpop idol near to impossible. And dont cheer us bcs it is impossible but some doesnt think that and turn into sasaengs like that Josh who has a cruch on nayeon and even followd her on thr plane

[@priscillalee5233]

Tbh as an ordinary person, I have no intention to date them because I think it'll be very depressing. So I just see from far

[@isratjahan-qu5ro]

@Snigdha no a lot of kpop idols wants to date international peeps including bts

[@isratjahan-qu5ro]

@@fizariaz9170 no a lot of kpop idols wants to date international peeps including bts so country doesn't matter😊

[@AliahSufitaMuntasya]

Me during 18 minutes video : trying to figure out who's that idol 😝

[@honganh1750]

Have u?

[@rahmamukyala1851]

MeToo

[@andreadaay]

Me too lol

[@naritruwireve1381]

same here lol but she said it's a long time ago and I only got into kpop a few years ago

[@susanshuws]

Me during the video thinking if V could be like this 🤔 and thinking if it's him, but I don't think he is. Looks like she was talking about someone older than V.

[@lydiabuhril4349]

Every youtuber who said “I dated a kpop idol” Also “this video is not about bts, no” haha

[@aethynaa]

Ly Dia i havent watched the whole vid yet but did she say this vid was not about bts in the video??

[@azrael3376]

Athirah izham lmao and even if it was one of them, watcha gonna do

[@aethynaa]

petrichor sg. um if it was one of them i wouldnt even care at all lol they have their own private lives why would i care about that?im just curious if she said that in the video 🙄 chill

[@azrael3376]

Athirah izham sorry if I offended you in any way, I didn’t mean to sound rude

[@army4ever512]

Yeah of course...our boys wouldn't break hearts like that idol did to this girl😭

[@morallygay9355]

"Why you should not date a kpop idol" Me: Thank God BLACKPINK is a color

[@tuscno]

😭💀

[@picachoooo5388]

🤣🤣🤣

[@lovelyferr]

No you did not just-💀

[@tahreemfatimaj2344]

I-

[@liplonnylovegood4505]

I-

[@rubicolin4692]

Jina: do not date a Kpop idol. Me: I pray every day so the lord could give me the opportunity to even see him in person.

[@mishall_j4fri]

Same XD I just NEEEEED to see Mark in person 0-0

[@sk-gi1kl]

@@mishall_j4fri IF U ARE TAKING MORK CAN I HAVE TAEYONG PLS LSKELWMAJS

[@mishall_j4fri]

Liu YangYang SuRe! NOW WE JUST NEED TO PRAY

[@alexandraanindyaayukartika1072]

Same

[@hanscheesecake4200]

Liu YangYang S HDJDHSJ I REMEMBER LAST YEAR AT THANKSGIVING I WAS MARCHING IN THE THANKSGIVING PARADE AND I SAW SOME IDOLS ON THE FLOAT BEHIND ME (the parade didn’t start, and yes we were allowed to walk around as long as we didn’t get separated from our groups) AND I HAD NO IDEA WHO IT WAS AND IT WAS NCT 127 AND I STAN THEM NOW AND I HATE THIS KSVSKGSJS

[@sabina3046]

this video makes me feel more confident that many kpop idols are actually secretly dating with someone, and the fans are so innocent believing everything what their idols saying...

[@saloni8603]

And I'm so happy for them.

[@aiki5435]

Fans should set boundaries from their idols. In the end of the day, we (us and idols) are still strangers. Fangirl responsibly! Haha

[@imalionimaqueen7234]

I wish there weren't so many delusional fans out there who think the idol they like belongs to them.

[@palmmandy]

This happening makes me happy for them.. I hope they are loving their women in a healthy way even in secret💜

[@shirin3166]

I always thought that lol In my imagination Another um let's just say my imagination were making different kinds of story In this story The idol has a girlfriend and I'm just a friend joking around with an idol lol

[@Rita-ri4jq]

They broke up but she’s clearly still in love with him *hiding the pain* stonks

[@ellya2941]

ya ikr. its became unforgottable coz he made her felt so worthless. i hate those kind of human

[@caratmoa5081]

I feel so bad for her. She was with him when he was nothing and he left her when he got famous. I hope this sweet lady find a better man who would love her forever

[@everykelmemeiscanon3712]

@@caratmoa5081 feel the same way, I hope she finds a forever partner.

[@onlyfrog]

she isn't necessarily in love with him, people can talk about past things and express pain about those memories because they lived it. if you remember a past relationship, maybe you gonna be sad, but it doesn't mean you still love that person.

[@_ulie]

As a good detective as I am (lol), I tried to search for more information to try to at least have a hint of who could possibly be her ex. I thought about a few things that she said in the video, plus some more info that I searched online (guys, have in mind that I did this just for fun, and not trying to harm anybody, or anything like that). Info that I analyzed: - She said "it was a long time ago" - Tinder started in 2012 BUT got to Korea only in 2015, so I guess that the history happened around this time (2015-2016); - If he was on Tinder around that time, it means that he was not under age, cause you need to be an adult to use the app - so, he was at least 19-20; - She is around 33 y.o. by now, and she never said that they have a huge age gap, so I think that the guy must be around her age (maybe 29 - 33); - She said that he was from a big company BUT, she said back in 2019 that it was hard to still see him on TV, which means that he was still active, at least until 2019; - All of this means that it was a guy who debuted quite late, when you think about the age that idols usually debut in Korea - besides the fact that she said that to be able to debut was his dream, cause he trainned a lot for it - which kinda confirms my assumption; - The groups that debuted around this time (2015-2016), that were/are from a big company: Monsta X, N. Flying, DAY6, Seventeen, iKON, UP10TION, VAV, Astro, Imfact, KNK, NCT 127, NCT U, Pentagon, SF9, Victon. - Analyzing what I said, about the age, I think that the guy (probably) was born before 1992, so, the options that we have are, finally: Shownu (Monsta X), Seunghyub (N. Flying), Jae (DAY6), St. Van & Baron & Ace (VAV), Jino (Pentagon). What was REAL interesting about searching for all of this was, I suddenly remembered the part where she said that she got his attention on Tinder saying "Hello" in 4 languages (Spanish, Korean, English, (...)) AND, Jae, from DAY6 was born in Buenos Aires, Argentina (Spanish language), grew up in California (English language) and went to Korea around 2012 (Korean language) 👀 And, as a DAY6 fan myself, I know a lot that Jae never got really used to the Korean culture around K-pop and stuff, and the fact that he left JYPE last December kinda proves me right. Maybe he put this info on his profile on Tinder (about the languages, or whatever).

[@lelenimat684]

Guh damn. You did your homework. I enjoyed reading that. Detective shit.

[@_ulie]

@@lelenimat684 Thanks? 😂

[@leeminhwa738]

Such a detailed investigation,you truly are a good detective 😄

[@charliegabriel788]

Yeah. Interesting.

[@Ilrosh]

14:58

[@nanikore9349]

This sounds like a whole ass fanfic with a Y/N and everything Tysm for 1.2k likes :0

[@mellperle4934]

But this one has a sad ending

[@anjeliesponilla1535]

Right! 😂

[@Chrsttata]

Me

[@nanapferd925]

I am not sure if its really true or if she is just talking

[@tammythomas-dazen8057]

your profile is so cute

[@png7725]

*Why you should not date a Kpop idol* As if like we're even gonna meet one. 😂😭😂😭😂😭😂😭 Edit: WOW! So many of us connect on a spiritual level😂 Let's make a toss for the idols who will be our boyfriends forNEVER! Cheers🍻

[@kenanena1]

😭😭😭😭😭😭

[@ayeeon9926]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@lesliej1479]

MOOD !!!!

[@kalistavanderhoof1555]

MOOD😭😂

[@nobody-hn4yg]

As IF 😂😂😂

[@beeautie1729]

i don't understand how fans think theyre gonna be with their idols, its ridiculously funny .

[@クレア-p3c]

It must have something to do with how much fan service the idol is giving to them. I mean, it might truly depend on how the idol act with his fans. As an example, some idols treats their fans so dearly (just as if they were their girlfriend) like a major part of NCT as far as I know (the flirtuous line up at least), and so much more idols. If you look at Mamamoo, they are acting freely and use this "open-minded" image so fans will obviously feels so happy for them to be in a relationships. (But more or less, girls band have way less problems to be accepted by their fans as a couple than boysbands /if girls don't date any other male idol i mean ovb/) So yes, fans will react that way because this is how companies makes money. This is litteraly a business and idols will gives fan services so that those crazy fans will still buy a lot and a lot of things from this group. And since the majority of fans in kpop are female (even for girl groups), of course male can give "romantic" thought to them and girls can be a sort of model for them to grow. (I don't know for others but as a Choi Yoo Jung stan, I'm so excited to see who will be the soulmate of ma girl, and it's kinda like that for girl groups stan) Anyway, this is very bad but the main culprit of that attitude is the company itself.

[@raine93]

😂😂

[@emo_weeb_stanie1019]

fr like wtf kinda crack f2f are u on

[@KIMTAEHYUNG-qo6kw]

IKR 😂😂 it's so funny lol

[@goldeneyes581]

Fr fr

[@doyochii127]

Key points √ Don't give gifts to your idols √idols DM famous and pretty girls √Entertainment company will interfere √Many beautiful Artists/idols in the industry √Dating an idol is very expensive √emotional turmoil √don't believe what your idols told on television. ~~ Dating an idol for us normal people is just a dream. ㅋㅋㅋㅋTime to wake up.

[@luandanuredini6168]

Like how she just assumed we ever are gonna get the chance to even MEET a kpop idol

[@leasteenberg392]

Luanda Nuredini facts

[@lovekxtri]

well we can always download tinder and match with a trainee...🤷🏻‍♀️

[@ReptilianTeaDrinker]

Exactly. I'll probably never get the chance to. lol

[@luandanuredini6168]

@@lovekxtri WHY didn't i think about that? What the hell that's genius

[@lovekxtri]

@@luandanuredini6168 like the video legit starts with the story of matching with a trainee on tinder XDD

[@ddaranghaet131]

Yeah. This video should be spread to every kpop fans out there. It's ok to be a normal fan. You'll be happier. Seriously.

[@hunniebee4636]

ᄋᄉᄋ경이 kpop fans are normal fans ? ?

[@aecha_kim2473]

Yup. Just cheer and support your idols but don't be too fanatic. We can be sad if they date, cause we're humans anyways and your idols are one of your fav people in the world. BUT, don't cause any harm towards yourself and others just because you're sad. Just, maybe cry it out and move on.

[@AGPostarStudios]

Aecha_Kim they shouldn’t be one of your favorite people in the world. That should be people you actually know and people who legitimately care for you. You don’t personally know idols, and they only “care” for you because ur they’re fan. We’re all just numbers they can never personally get to know all of us and we can’t to them either

[@cosmicnae]

We are normal tho wtf???

[@aecha_kim2473]

@@cosmicnae I think she meant for the 'abnormal' fans who thinks they owned the idol.

[@ann1iu]

“why you shouldn’t date a kpop idol” me: THANK GOD SEVENTEEN ARE COMEDIANS

[@aishikwon]

I was gonna write this

[@kimh.8176]

Ahhaahah I love this but SVT treat us like we are their friends which is so cute. Cuz I prefer them than romantically

[@ncteentiffy4770]

EXACTLY CARAT

[@elvirajaga635]

Yeah, carat can marry them😂

[@namjoonslostairpods7486]

THIS RIGHT HERE

[@alevillegas7005]

I think something we kpop idol forget is that we’re not really in love with them. We’re in love with the image their giving to us, which is not always true. In reality your fav idol can be someone completely different and maybe if you even met them as how they really are you wouldn’t even like them anymore as the image they are giving us it’s not true, it’s all marketing. And I know this is so sad I’m in love with hongjoong ateez but in reality I dont really know him at all 🤧

[@jishaabraham8304]

True 😭

[@noraadedeocansey6987]

The accuracy

[@breecheeze3432]

Someone finally said it

[@breecheeze3432]

Can I please borrow your comment

[@alevillegas7005]

@@breecheeze3432 yes ofc!

[@xoxogossipgirl444]

"why you should not date a K-pop idol" ~laughs in wattpad~

[@hisuiii_i1737]

You Killed me

[@xoxogossipgirl444]

Some of the fanfics kill me. So, I had to 😂

[@hisuiii_i1737]

Give me some name please i have nothing to do during this quarentine hihi

[@xoxogossipgirl444]

@@hisuiii_i1737 Okay so, I'm a Namjoon stan so I read "I'm here". You can also read "Gangster X Reader". Both are epicc.

[@hisuiii_i1737]

I think I will start gangster x reader in first because i Like gangster fanfiction ( so funny) and its okay personnaly namjoon is not my bias but i realy like him

[@aishac9301]

Jina: I ask my other K-pop idol friends for advice Me: I don't even have regular friends

[@lilcorgipuptato7722]

Aisha Cean What is this thing you call friends??🤨🤨

[@celestinnicolefacistol1876]

What is friends???

[@shameemabashier1698]

@@celestinnicolefacistol1876 what?u dont like friends 😢😢😢😢😢

[@celestinnicolefacistol1876]

@@shameemabashier1698 i do know what is friends but the friends in my past are just.... I dont wanna say it so yeah.

[@yameenpepco3572]

@@celestinnicolefacistol1876 awwww I can be your friend if u want too

[@이6월]

Who else is scrolling down the comments to find who Jina's talking about??

[@gopikas.240]

lol meeeee

[@gabby_.4312]

Mee

[@Ritchieee]

Me🙋🏾‍♀️

[@aj.davis08]

Me lol

[@zoeygjakovska581]

Me 😂

[@Talis1717]

I feel like I’m sitting at a girls night with these two talking about our Ex’s Very entertained

[@lazydamsel]

True!

[@jamesbateman2686]

the lesson is : don't date K-pop Idols

[@jamesbateman2686]

thanks for the heart jina . sorry I missed your live stream 😭😭😭😭

[@winterismyfavseason]

Can I ask what's the little icon besides your name?

[@jamesbateman2686]

@@winterismyfavseason It's a badge for Jina Kim's top members.

[@winterismyfavseason]

@@jamesbateman2686 ohh how did you get it?

[@jamesbateman2686]

@@winterismyfavseason I think you go to her main channel page and go in to memberships and become a supporter.

[@teasea4879]

Lesson learnt: Tinder works guys, Tinder works...🌚

[@youngforever1445]

Sayz Shaterida 😂😂

[@adelalazur3341]

Only if you pretty

[@teasea4879]

@@adelalazur3341 well, there's photoshop and make-up haha😜

[@igrashsyimintv1346]

@@teasea4879 TRUE😂😂😂

[@ellaausr5411]

Mah friends kept...telling me to download it....okay now i get it ....oof

[@WHAT-pv8pt]

She looked and sounded really hurt. I wonder how old she was at that time. I feel bad for all idols gfs out there tryna keep the relationship going even tho they only seem to be like shadows or something.

[@soyaaa_4385]

In the comments someone wrote that she was 25 then

[@WHAT-pv8pt]

soyaaa _ oh i see. Thank you so much. :)

[@EpikNotEpic]

I feel so sorry for her :(( She’s so brave for enduring what she’s been through, and I hope she finds someone better for her 💗

[@kimberlylaranio2138]

This vid made me more proud of Chen. He is such a big star but then he manage to keep and protect his girl and even informed his fans. Huhuhuhu Whoever that idol is I hope he would change so he could not hurt other girl like you. Update: I am so sooo happy and proud that MANY of the fans accept and love Chennie, Our Sunshine despite of what had happened. LET'S CONTINUE SUPPORTING EXO NO MATTER WHAT!

[@savanna8103]

it's crazy because when i got into kpop, i saw this thing where fans suggested that exo kick chen out and here I am thinking that he did something horrible. however, it was literally because fans "felt betrayed" that he got married or was dating. some fans are just crazy, but I'm glad chen stood his ground.

[@marzansartscrafts8441]

yea right and before I just love him because he is my favorite vocalist now I am loving him more now I know he can be so brave for his love and loyal, responsible person. He is respective man .

[@michellealicia8810]

Chen is amazing , i really hope that he will me a great husband and father

[@kimberlylaranio2138]

@@michellealicia8810 He is. That's why I am so proud of him.

[@Nina-nf4pc]

Wow so much respect for him 👏🏻👏🏻

[@karinalee7990]

What people don’t realize is that if you were to date a kpop idol and like dispatch or something found out, your whole private life would be invaded, and it could actually put you in danger (from like insane sasaeng and stuff)

[@pnym]

learn from wattpad y'all,, dON'T DO IT

[@arbn6898]

Dispatch only exposes celebrity couples

[@ImmaRokstar]

you should be on the idol’s and s/o’s end, no. Dispatch and sasaengs have no lives and are to blame

[@WAFFLEDOM]

Yeah,many people doesn't realize that you would have to take so many dangerous risks if you were to date an actual idol.Don't think that you're Y/N and be happy and safe with the idol that you'd be dating.

[@allyzaunabia4817]

@@pnym what story? Lol HAHAHHAHA

[@patricia-bz2hk]

“you should not DATE a kpop idol” me: kim seokjin, i’ll MARRY you.

[@navelynmoses3703]

Hahahaha lmao

[@teamblueassure1098]

AYYYYY

[@sk-gi1kl]

Me: I will Marry Them. My brain: yes I agree and ur gonna marry Them in your dreams

[@sunlion7]

Yaaaaas😂😂😂😂😂😘😘😘

[@piyumikajayamali5615]

Girl,At least you picked Seokjin. Still Idk how to pick one out of those 7.

[@roseannare]

“You should not date a kpop idol” “He was so cuteeeeee” “His lips was so softttttt” 🥲

[@lovelyferr]

@@seca3247 but there’s plenty of cute k-pop idols like Jimin from BTS, Hueingkai from TXT, Hoshi from SVT, Jaemin from NCT dream but there’s plenty of more🥺

[@seca3247]

@@lovelyferr 😔😂

[@Ariss_.754]

@@lovelyferr it can't be jimin as she told it's not BTS and I don't think it's Kai I mean he is small

[@kpopdaebak1948]

@@seca3247 it's definitely not hyunjin i mean he's too young and i think the idol he's talking about is from 3rd gen so 4th generation can't be one because they're still very young and as she said it was years ago so..

[@seca3247]

@@kpopdaebak1948 not saying that i think its hyunjin just wanna say hes cute and his lips are soft lol.

[@ibranazir]

"why you should not date a kpop idol" Me: *thanks god that band pd nim is not a idol*

[@whotf7666]

Same sis. He's too handsome

[@ayeeshakatee]

WHAT U WANNA SAY THAT AGAIN KID

[@kimikar2494]

*sips tea SIS ! YOU GOT THE TYPE

[@bread3458]

BYE LMAO😭

[@samirahsanchez6182]

Yesssss

[@sugarmilk28]

After the whole scandals in K-pop...I've been so disappointed. The ent. Industry is so dirty and some idols are just as dirty. Worse is that when they get popular their ego shoot up....sad

[@sugarmilk28]

@Black To Grace but some humans in some circumstances tend to be more manipulative....being human is not an excuse to hurt others

[@ReptilianTeaDrinker]

@Black To Grace Being human does not give the excuse to hurt others. If someone is a scumbag, they're a scumbag and there is no excuse for them to be.

[@neonpanda6054]

And I am glad to be an army

[@enpury3310]

Agree

[@enpury3310]

@Bettina Puskás well I'm not sure about this but it seems like only the Korean Entertainment Industry-probably not all Korean agency-only has this NO DATING RULE and i find that rule unhealthy...,

[@ヴェロニカ-e3b]

To summarise: idols saying they're too busy for dating isn't an excuse at all. It's all up to them what do they decide to do

[@raisulislam2328]

Yes you are right. We should love someone who really love us and respect our fellings as well. It's not important to get crazy about our idol's all the time. Sometimes it's just a fantasy

[@ヴェロニカ-e3b]

@@raisulislam2328 this. moreover, maybe that's kinda controversial but I really do think if an idol knows he or she is definitely too busy at this moment of life, isn't it better to stop looking for a date for this time? it's really better to wait for the time you know you won't be that busy than trying to date despite being busy and hurting the person you're dating because of lack of time believe me, time is very, very important in relationship. people who can deal with talking to their partner very rarely and stand seeing their loved one once a month or even rarer are minority, let's be real. that's sad as hell idols have it so difficult to date, not only because of crazy fans but also because of their schedules that sometimes don't let them sleep enough

[@EXOistheStandard]

@@ヴェロニカ-e3b I wanna give you one secret, one secret. Make a standard for yourself that if you are not ready for marriage you are not ready for dating that's all. Otherwise you are dating for what? For fun. If you wanna have fun get a hobby. If you wanna have fun hike Badger mountain. If you wanna have fun get swimming lessons.If you wanna get fun get a job. If you wanna have fun get a dog. You don't use another person's heart for fun. I saw a person saying these lines on tiktok and i believe if we all follow this our society will change for better. I believe in these lines that's why i never dated anyone cuz i am not ready for marriage.

[@ヴェロニカ-e3b]

@@EXOistheStandard that's so true but remember not everyone needs marriage. the point is to speak about your expectations openly, so that the other person can be sure about your intentions. there's nothing wrong with not getting married. there's nothing wrong with casual dating. the only thing that is wrong is making someone think your intentions towards that person are different than you portray idk, maybe I'm oversensitive, but as I remember jina's story, I had a feeling that idol did nothing than using her. she trusted him that he treated her in a serious way, she put an effort in that relationship, she started to treat him seriously but he didn't really care he didn't pay her enough attention. I guess he was an adult, so he probably knew he was busy at that point of his career and it would be almost impossible for him to date someone seriously. so, he could at least tell her or find someone else who would accept that kind of dating instead of pulling the wool over her eyes, if he really couldn't wait with dating till he had enough time for his relationship

[@ヴェロニカ-e3b]

@DIFFERENT ME I meant, many idols are actually a little too busy to be dating at some moments of their life. shit happens, that's not the only job that makes love life complicated. but everything is up to a specific idol, if he or she decides to date anyway, even if there's a risk of hurting somebody or getting hurt

[@UniverseIsUnknown]

"Why you should not date a kpop idol" Thank god Namjoon is our President Thank god Seokjin is our Moon Thank god Yoongi is our Meow Meow Thank god Jhope is our Sunshine Thank god Jimin is our Mochi Thank god V is our Bear Thank god Jk is our Kookie

[@nikole9642]

Please 😭💜👑

[@D_Space]

💜 they are not humans ..they are angels 💜💜 and yes idols have to be like that to protect their girlfriend not themselves!!! If crazy fans got to know about his girlfriend they won't leave her at ease😌!! So idols have to do this!!

[@pinkysingh570]

How can people be so dumb

[@armyshope]

@@pinkysingh570 In what sense?

[@armyshope]

@@D_Space no they are human

[@embodyinnerg]

We all know BamBam is on tinder so I believe you Jina 👀

[@lensyvaliente9599]

oooop

[@CC-mc3zf]

OMG REALLY?? I STAN

[@ariarum2584]

seriously????

[@sevaraa.r.m.y5849]

Who?👀

[@aileneparaon4934]

Whaaaaaaat

[@hg.2820]

See y’all Our kpop boys aren’t waiting to date us They have lives Let them date who ever they want We can’t control their lives

[@iamagirl8056]

Finally a mature commnt

[@rinafiles]

exactly

[@sharlene.e]

Break my heart... 😭

[@sharlene.e]

Because I LOVE THE BOYZ. Even flaws.. I’m lovesick & watch them Everyday, I even dream about them in my sleep.

[@ivyvianni8609]

Totally agree

[@m3imeiji]

1 reason: He's always busy ㅜvㅜ

[@m3imeiji]

@@itsjinakim sadness ㅠㅠ

[@Yasminh-]

Now he asked his other bandmembers to dislike as well. Haha

[@shannon2748]

Yep...I don't like "busy" guys.

[@immariamokay2323]

@@elisdeliofa5570 wtf she literally said one word and youre already offended lmao

[@hopstepjump69]

@@elisdeliofa5570 bruh please shut up and get ur koreaboo actions outta here. He had breaks but he was always at parties or with his friends, in conclusion fame got him bitchy and left her. Not her fault .

[@yasmineosm2228]

11:11 The Chinese fan who give the wallet and watching this video be like: 👁👄👁

[@aa_809]

dont worry, chinese fans cant access youtube

[@talithameyer2077]

She is still in love with him , she can’t stop touching her hair thinking about him .

[@baybeetacoo8734]

Unfortunately it's still a soft soft spot for her. The worst part is that he is an idol so she really cant move on easily cause he is still everywhere no matter how much she wanna move on. He could also be her first love and them mofos are hard to get rid of

[@abeautifulmess9647]

I wish I knew what iteans to love someone so I could relate to all of you. I just dont. I've read so many comments about people crying over their crush not liking them back, but when it happened with me I was fine with it. His family even showed an interest in my sister, and yeah I cried initially once but I accepted it. Why is it such a big deal?

[@therhythmictale5574]

It could also be a sign of uncomfort, but I’m not sure

[@alessiab426]

I think thst when you remember the times you were in love you remember the feelings too. I think her memorise made some of her old feelings rise amgsin for little time. Hence I think this is normal when remembering memories, and it doesn't mean thst she is still in love with him. If she is able to tslk cslmly abput the break up without anger and resentment pr such it meams that she has moved on. But these are just my personal opinions amd toughts...

[@TheCratsky]

Some people touch their hair when they're nervous or uncomfortable. It's a sign of self comfort. Your assumption is amusing.

[@FrostyxFairy]

As much as I've fantasized about dating a K-Pop idol, when actually thinking about it, I wouldn't be able to handle it anyway. Reasons: -Stupid selfish childish obsessive/possessive fans -Dating bans -Annoying paparazzi -saesang fans -Not being able to go out on dates in public -Having to hide our relationship -Not being able to meet often -Unwanted attention from media (if relationship were to be discovered) I'll stick with supporting the K-Pop idols I like as a fan. Also I'm an international fan, so it wouldn't be possible to date a K-Pop idol anyway lol.

[@emitheorbit1118]

Same for me :[

[@mybbacjk2377]

👌👌👏👏👏

[@FFFuji]

And also the fact that he could likely nurse a panic/mental disorder due to not having enough sleep, food, training too hard and always subjected to immense pressure. Imagine him being that busy, continually feeling under the weather, and even if you don’t complain about not seeing him, he would certainly feel guilty about not being able to provide you with more support. If his mental health is poor, he can’t take care of himself, let alone a girlfriend. And as girlfriend, even if he’s had a bad day, you would be powerless to do anything other than comfort him through words because risking meeting him and getting caught, his fans will go into such a rage and cause so much drama (and possibly him breaching his contract with company) it could end his career. That helplessness will take a toll on your mental health as well. That being said, I really do love my bias Leo from VIXX (who has said panic disorder). But the best thing I can do for us both is to love him from afar, thank him quietly for his existence and keep him in my thoughts, always.

[@taetaebeargukk7490]

Same, even if I dont even stand a chance lmao. Watching them from my phone is enough for me as an international fan.

[@luluorenge]

Sasaeng you mean

[@fayepinol3641]

High chance most kpop idols don’t date foreigners

[@seth3161]

Many, if not most, are interested in foreigners. What does that have to do with this video?

[@bela1832]

MEANWHILE, I'm a foreigner lmao

[@fayepinol3641]

K Jas nothing I’m just saying

[@fayepinol3641]

Shaziaayaz Ayaz Probably but you never know

[@fayepinol3641]

K Jas I’m just saying that if anyone thinks they have a chance it’s quite low but you never know

[@user-ib1is7ny7r]

i’m just thinking how many of them got secret girlfriends like this, kpop obssesive fangirls currently having a stroke

[@suhyungkim7041]

All then Chinese fans trying to remember if they gifted a wallet to their male idol 😂😂😂

[@saanvipaul2005]

Seriously 😂😂😂

[@rjsjjvj613]

😅🤣

[@k-poploveeee]

😂😂

[@dee29vee__58]

Yeah hahahha😂😂

[@preetaexoxo376]

Lmfao 🤣

[@jesskesmayass7727]

“Y/N in real life” HHSHXHDHDH

[@winnie2881]

This is legitly true!!!!

[@arianadeloria1074]

dats right

[@chulsoopasta]

Lmao authors are shaking

[@veevv]

Am I the only one who is going through the comment section hoping for someone to say who is the idol she dated? I'm really curious!!

[@gabbymast663]

Same!

[@BBaby-gl3ot]

Me too.....very very curious 😅😅😅

[@isag.s.174]

Me too but all we get to know is big company and singer

[@engenesv1668]

@@isag.s.174 just check and list all kpop idol *singers* who made a sad song about a break up then see if it connects to what she said..

[@samihatahsinesha5644]

same

[@SNS23456]

she is smiling but you can feel her pain. She seriously was in pain. Don't forget that celebrities are also human so they can be nice or bad too. They can use you too. Please protect yourself and your mental health

[@lac1769]

Jina: *don’t date KPOP id-* Me being a foreigner, no chance in hell: *adds another dress to my jungkook wedding Pinterest board*

[@namjooniesdimples4906]

Lol.

[@purpleheartedkpopsoul]

✋🏼😂💜

[@Shkuess]

That’s me trying to memorize their hard ass choreography to impress Hobi. I am failing miserably lol.

[@krishajaiswk6431]

I'm trying to connect to their personalities, but no chance.. that's impossible

[@perrytheplatypus3229]

Don't be delusional kids XD

[@shhball2730]

The chances of me dating an idol 0% The chances of me seeing my favourite idol 0% The chances of me being friends with an idol 0% The chances of me getting a C- on my test 100%

[@anisaa4664]

omg so truee can't relate moree 😂😂😂

[@haninabied9518]

Make it an f

[@SariennMusic73]

Always go for the 100% positives in life and dont worry on the unattainable. Do the best you can and be proud of what you accomplish. ❤️

[@michellemartinez6295]

Mood

[@architabhaduri6894]

True...🤣🤣

[@anniexing9093]

Jina: so, this is why you shouldn't date kpop idols. Me: thanks god kris wu and zitao aren't kpop idols anymore. 😳🙏

[@reeha....7734]

Ur comment made my day😂💜

[@aishworyadhami7946]

Yaaa

[@jessicagarcia6833]

😂😂

[@shadma0302]

Z.tao is my first bias from kpop and I kinda have crush on Kris ... Now comment is making me feel 💓💘👀

[@cassandraservo]

HAHAHAHA YAS GURL

[@Jay23487]

Ty so much for spreading this meaningful message out in the world cause literally all girls are so in love with popular idols they have dreams that they can't fulfill it's time they know reality before jumping into conclusions and doing something stupid.

[@shreekim942]

Imagine going to a concert and your bias’s girlfriend is next to you cheering for him, that’s gonna be insane if you find that out

[@armygirlforever9677]

I will take a pic with her and tell her to take care of armies world

[@hitishawaghela5183]

Koreaboos :I'm gonna marry a kpop idol in future Me:lol half of them are just going to settle with Korean girls.

[@ahana2912]

*almost all of them

[@tot.aamia101]

@@ahana2912 true

[@hitishawaghela5183]

@1234 1234 yeah 🤣

[@hitishawaghela5183]

@1234 1234 we never know

[@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj]

Hitisha waghela It depends on the person and I can tell you about a conversation with my Korean friend. She was telling me how her Korean friend from Korea was going to marry a white guy and said it was disgusting. I was disturbed by her statement and told her that you should marry who you love and your race/ethnicity should not matter. I am westernized so have a more open mind than her. Then she said she would not mind marrying an Asian guy(but I know she married a Korean guy) but not a white or black guy. I bet many Koreans think that but of course not all of them do. It is based on fate...

[@androsamu6709]

I saw in jina's face that she was remembering her memories abt him. She was sad and was like crying inside I guess. That's what I think I saw throughout the vid. I felt bad for both of them.

[@anushasweety79]

I gree ,I hope ,he see this video ,felt sad for her

[@jessicacallender]

Andro Samu yh she looked as tho she was fighting her tears too

[@sptc37]

She really loved him. 🥺

[@ashlingotoole4011]

"Don't date a k-pop idol" Me, living in Ireland: Damn, there goes my hopes and dreams of having a meetcute J-Hope 😔

[@syraimnida9565]

Hi I stan who stan Our sunshine J-hope.. Saranghaeyo 😘