Why You Should Stop Caring About What Others Think

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@damndanieI
@damndanieI 2 ай бұрын
Best thing I have done in the recent years was completely getting rid of all social media. I don't care about opinions aswell and it's such a relaxing life
@fragr33f74
@fragr33f74 2 ай бұрын
I agree, dude. Getting rid of Twitter and Twitch has helped normalise my brain so much.
@DJNefarious447
@DJNefarious447 2 ай бұрын
​@@fragr33f74 I have Twitter still just for a weekly news update but that's about it
@GloomRng
@GloomRng 2 ай бұрын
Best thing i ever did , the freedom is awesome. People from the past having no idea what im doing or what i look like is great. i enjoy being mostly disconnected. got rid of reddit a month back and that was a tough one ! but much happier without it
@AvinDov
@AvinDov 2 ай бұрын
I finally deleted Instagram 3 days ago and the past 3 days have already been so much better, I’m not seeing things which make me compare myself to others as much and I’m also wasting way less time
@thecoleslaw
@thecoleslaw 2 ай бұрын
Although KZbin is also social media, I agree. KZbin is all I use as far as social media goes now. At least I can learn things on KZbin if I want to.
@rossedwardmiller
@rossedwardmiller 2 ай бұрын
I wish gaming youtubers would stop saying "i was wrong" about games they switch up on, and start saying "i changed my mind"
@gauravvarma3645
@gauravvarma3645 2 ай бұрын
Australia passed a Right to Disconnect law last month which barred employers from contacting their employees outside of business hours. Maybe the great, free USA should follow suite
@SumPixelz
@SumPixelz 2 ай бұрын
Getting rid of social media and stopping to care what others think is a golden combination.
@bocogaming
@bocogaming 2 ай бұрын
You bring up a great point. And I think it's a sign of maturity to be able to think for yourself when the crowd is telling you what to think. But I will say, getting rid of Instagram, Facebook and Twitter was one of the best decisions I've made. So much happier without them.
@M0mzSpagheti
@M0mzSpagheti 2 ай бұрын
Getting rid of social media was a god send. Too many people are too attacked to social media and they let it control them.
@joshfoustcommunity8928
@joshfoustcommunity8928 2 ай бұрын
I never cared about what other people think, I always kept my interest my own! If someone asked for advice on something, I always give them the best advice!
@ttin0
@ttin0 2 ай бұрын
I've been avoiding reviews for a while, trying to play and really make up my own mind. As soon as I finish a game, I write my own thoughts and then watch what people think of the game. Really helped me on a ton of stuff
@whosaidthat84
@whosaidthat84 2 ай бұрын
Preach! Everything you said is spot on. As a kid, I used to hide my opinions because I didn't want to get ridiculed for liking something dumb. Keep in mind, I was the youngest among my brothers and cousins so I felt ashamed to like things that were unabashedly "kiddie." When Last Action Hero came out in theaters I freakin loved it! But because of the reviews and everyone hating it, I had train myself to despise that movie otherwise I would feel dumb for liking a bad movie. I've grown far beyond that now. I only pay attention to reviews if I'm somewhat iffy. I usually go more in depth rather than just go by a number or letter score. What was good? What was bad? Sometimes what may be a negative to one person, maybe positive to another. I've seen reviewers criticize Wukong for being too linear but that sounds like a plus to me. I like open world games but not everything needs to open world. And glad you used TOTK as an example. Lately there's been a ton of negative discourse surrounding the game, saying it's really not that. Sure, there are valid criticisms but I don't care. It's my favorite Switch game and one of my favorite games ever! Probably right up there with Ocarina of Time.
@HoboWithAShotgun
@HoboWithAShotgun 2 ай бұрын
Same. I love TOTK
@Estupendomagnifico1
@Estupendomagnifico1 2 ай бұрын
I've never watched this channel before, but I liked the title of this video so I clicked on it. I really appreciate your honesty and level-headedness.
@JustJack4268
@JustJack4268 2 ай бұрын
When it comes to the hive-mind mentality a wake up call for me was when Starfield was getting destroyed online. And yet I was playing it everyday and loving it.
@fragr33f74
@fragr33f74 2 ай бұрын
What's so weird is that I had the opposite thing happen. I saw the initial reviews be positive, and my IRLs really enjoyed the game, and I am a Bethesda RPG enjoyer, but when I got the game, it just didn't click with me. It was another reminder for me not to buy into the hype and marketing of things.
@nitewriter7
@nitewriter7 2 ай бұрын
I Initialy liked starlield, then everybody hated it and I went into the game turning my Brain on and saw just how laughably bad it is, then I reinstalled and just explored and did side missions and I enjoid it again. BUT recently I am HATING it AGAIN.
@thecoleslaw
@thecoleslaw 2 ай бұрын
I had the same experience with cyberpunk 2077. Didn't really experience much of glitches or anything like that on release.
@elk3407
@elk3407 2 ай бұрын
I had that experience with fallout 76 rage 2 and cyberpunk 2077 However, I just couldn't do Starfield. I went in with the thought "I got this free with my new CPU, even if I'd be a little upset for full price any and all fun for free is a win" and I just fucking hated it despite being a massive Bethesda fan. I love just wandering around their game worlds and discovering things, but that was just gone. So I bought BG3 instead and that was awesome
@falscherkim3033
@falscherkim3033 2 ай бұрын
@@elk3407damn man, I grabbed rage 2 in 2022 for 10 bucks on psn. And yes it’s a really bland open world, but for 10€, I played the hell out of it! The fps gameplay is just so nice.
@colethornton6716
@colethornton6716 2 ай бұрын
I've been feeling this since playing and absolutely loving Star Wars Outlaws. The game is truly amazing to me and I almost didn't play it because of the online reception. From now on, I will play what looks interesting to me regardless of what others say.
@chalkedonthetrack
@chalkedonthetrack 2 ай бұрын
I managed the same with TotK, stayed completely social media blind the whole way though and it made the experience so much better, felt like I was exploring a whole new world even after BotW! Does make me miss the days before socials where I had to find out everything myself, may yet try deleting everything that I don't need haha
@Cole_Zulkowski
@Cole_Zulkowski 2 ай бұрын
this what i keep telling others to do yet im ignored in the majority in this world now as i am just enjoying my own games and im just so wanting to play games back in 2004 again even games without being online. and i jsut want to enjoy games without others opinion on it as well which is why im slowly leaving social media behind bit by bit
@madebyarmadillo
@madebyarmadillo 2 ай бұрын
This is one of my favorite videos you've ever uploaded. I deleted all of my social media (except KZbin, obviously) about 3 years ago and my life has improved measurably in almost every way. I can read for fun again, I've put more time into learning piano, I started working out... I think it causes a ripple effect when you realize how much time you've wasted comparing your life to other peoples'.
@Marathon5151
@Marathon5151 2 ай бұрын
I’ve stopped caring what other people think a few years ago and love it. If people think I’m crazy with how hard I workout and my lifestyle, then I’m doing something right.
@TheLotroNerd
@TheLotroNerd 2 ай бұрын
Its exhausting because you have to think twice once for what the other person is saying and then a second time to think whether it actually applies or whether someone is just projecting their own paradigm.
@ryancherney6277
@ryancherney6277 2 ай бұрын
I've had that feeling in the past 2 weeks after a week long break of, "Maybe this just isn't for me" with games and anime. Also in those 2 weeks I've started Doom Eternal and Vinland Saga. Anyone who has played or watched one of these knows that these are the perfect type of game/show to remind you of what you like. Their themes are unapologetically violent and badass. Most importantly this severed the connection between games I knew I had no interest in, and allowed me to listen to myself again. I can be confident in the fact that Ill never be unsure if the stuff I hid in my steam library was for me or not. On the flip side of game releases, Space Marine 2 has been flooding my feed I was already hyped for it by the time the first gameplay trailer dropped at the Xbox Games Show. My hype is very much there but I am not paying for early access despite everyone playing it right now. I also have stayed away from any reviews at all. I am very excited and I have 2 days off by happenstance to soak it all in.
@aTuberYou
@aTuberYou 2 ай бұрын
I got told that i only play shitty games so many times that i eventually stopped caring what people say and i just play the games that i think are fun even if many might consider them to be mediocre or bad
@andreitapuc7080
@andreitapuc7080 Ай бұрын
Dude… I just have to say I love your Chanel more and more… been following you since 2020 ❤ cheers from Italy
@7Write4This9Heart7
@7Write4This9Heart7 2 ай бұрын
I don't have any social media, never have, and have no notifications on my phone at all besides calls, texts, voicemails, and credit card. I love the internet, but I DO NOT want to be plugged in or looking at social crap 24/7. It's not healthy. People need to remember what it's like without this stuff! Have some alone time! It's good for you! lol. Good for you, OP!
@Giorshiv53255
@Giorshiv53255 12 күн бұрын
@@7Write4This9Heart7 yea. I remember myself being more happy before I start using social media more often. When i was a kid, i was watching funny KZbinrs on my mother phone and nothing else.....maybe i must start using social media rarely
@markdevis721
@markdevis721 2 ай бұрын
I was a kid in the 90s and gaming was this huge enigma. Unless one of your friends had a subscription to a games magazine, there were so many surprise games and moments of joy. Going to blockbuster on a Friday to rent a game and just have a blast on something average on the Sega Megadrive/Genesis with my brothers was awesome. The world is different now, and better in many many ways, but don’t let trends take away your joy
@WCCXtra
@WCCXtra 2 ай бұрын
Yeah, you had to wait about a month between news bursts due to gaming magazines being released monthly. I liked walking into an arcade and just seeing a game I had no idea was in the works just sitting there (Mortal Kombat 2 and Killer Instinct come to mind).
@MrBlamed
@MrBlamed 2 ай бұрын
This is me when Cyberpunk 2077 released. And same thing with Dead Island 2 and Starfield. Best thing was that I didn't expect anything from those games and that's why those blew my expectations. Especially Dead Island 2. I haven't played game that felt so finished and mostly bug free game, and it felt so incredibly and everytime I played the game, I get that "omg this game is so well put together and great" feeling which is so rare these days.
@fardinhasan2947
@fardinhasan2947 2 ай бұрын
Thanks alot for this commentary video because I really loved it. Suddenly stumbled upon your channel and quite possibly a good thing that I did.
@TheRetroDen
@TheRetroDen 2 ай бұрын
I don't really any specific advice when it comes to this topic, but if I had to take anything from this video and the recent orientation of your channel is that you're doing pretty good. I love your content and you always sound and speak very genuinely and I love the stuff you've been putting out.
@ek3jay828
@ek3jay828 2 ай бұрын
this is so true and is exactly how I feel at times, social media is soo toxic when it comes to videogames like I really enjoy helldivers 2 since launch but seeing everyone on Facebook moan to high heavens about a nerf or something silly and I'm here like let me enjoy the game and stop putting negative thoughts in my head. also another reason why I'm replaying devil may cry 1 and crash bandicoot wrath of cortex on ps2 it just feels right as todays modern gaming just feels mind numbingly boring
@melvinsantana9371
@melvinsantana9371 2 ай бұрын
Really great video. Nowadays I don't even care about peoples opinions on games, like if I think a games looks cool I am going to get it for myself and no else. I don't let reviews deter me from things because if you don't give things a try you will never know what your missing out on. Things were so simple before social media became so mainstream
@6lu5ky86
@6lu5ky86 2 ай бұрын
I believe that a lot of bitterness has grown due to how connected we are. "If it's out of the bag then it's out of the bag."
@caiosanti4045
@caiosanti4045 2 ай бұрын
Awesom topic for a discussion! I'm really happy to see someone thinking the same way about all this noise while I just want to have a great time watching a movie I really want to see it or enjoying some time playing a game I like
@icy1172
@icy1172 2 ай бұрын
I’ve felt this exact feeling. I remember when SpiderMan 2 came out, and there was generally a positive reception towards it. But there was also a fair amount of weird takes on it that I simply did not agree with, but because I constantly saw it thrown around, it almost ruined the game for me at times. I consciously had to remind myself “this is my experience, and enjoy it if you do, or stop it if I don’t.” Overall, one of my favorite games to this day that I still get an itch to replay it despite playing it through twice already.
@Giorshiv53255
@Giorshiv53255 12 күн бұрын
Yea some people had soooooo much expectations and when the game released and the hype ended they begun to talk bad about the game and it feels like the game has more haters than fans right now
@icy1172
@icy1172 12 күн бұрын
@ I feel like pretty much all the people who enjoyed the game have moved on. The ones left playing are more hardcore, thus likely why we see more hate towards it. I’m likely going to play the game soon again. It’s just so fun!
@Giorshiv53255
@Giorshiv53255 12 күн бұрын
​​@@icy1172yea the gameplay is what makes the game great (for me) and is what keeps me in this game.I have 220 hours in this game!!!!Also yea the game sure had many fans but sometimes it gets hate for no reason. Maybe i will stop caring about what other thinks about a game that i liked
@icy1172
@icy1172 12 күн бұрын
@@Giorshiv53255 Definitely a good way to live by. Learning that myself
@Ty-douken
@Ty-douken 2 ай бұрын
One of the best things I've done recently is decouple myself from trying to keep up with a friend who has way more free time than me. We normally play games in coop, but his pace just makes it impossible to keep up even with Singleplayer games were both interested in. Over the years he's gotten more free time & I've gotten less. I wouldn't trade places completely but I'd really like to have some of the free time & energy that he has available to him & it kinda sucks. We both have played tons of games regularly our whole lives despite not meeting until our early 20s almost 20 years ago, but I had to take back gaming for myself vs being beholden to his time-line. He wasn't doing anything to pressure me outside of asking to always play coop games & my game time had now become mostly coop time, which is a choice I need to make to say no. Unfortunately I love coop games too, so it gets hard sometimes. My hope is that now that I've spent time organizing my life a bit ill be able to get back to playing more games & completing personal projects that hsve been on hold for way longer than I planned.
@hunterwood8918
@hunterwood8918 2 ай бұрын
This video really helped me out. I have pretty bad adhd and I’ve always cared about others opinions on me or just thing I’m interested and lately I’ve been trying to change this and it’s nice to see others struggle with it to. Also I enjoy halo 4 campaign lmao. That’s my hot take for the day
@JustJack4268
@JustJack4268 2 ай бұрын
One thing that may help is setting a screen time limit on your phone and disabling some notifications
@NamasteBeloved
@NamasteBeloved 2 ай бұрын
I've been wanting to create a gaming channel for years... It's hard for me to get past the negative judgement from others towards gaming as a "Man". I just think it would be so cool to build a community through my love for gaming, and eventually be able to live in a van, travel, and game with starlink.
@robertmayberry3598
@robertmayberry3598 2 ай бұрын
A lot of fantastic points.
@tripps_on_knives
@tripps_on_knives 2 ай бұрын
I have been trying really hard to do what you mentioned with totk for years. If I see a game I think I can really get into this. I immediately stop looking it up. Don't join the subs. Not watching update trailers. I find I have been enjoying a lot more game more frequently since I started doing this. Around 2015. Sometimes I'm still weak and watch development of games and joining the conversation. Often that's a conscious choice on games I know aren't super important to me. Edit: example, cyberpunk I played on launch on pc. I never sought out info or hype for the game leading up to release. I thought it was a middling 6-7/10. After a while I saw every one else saying it was 4-5. I won't deny it was very rough and not polished as much as it should have been.... but I didn't have a visceral hate towards it.
@nomadicstrength
@nomadicstrength 2 ай бұрын
Hell yeah. Imma watch this and go walk the dog.
@sawsandra_
@sawsandra_ 2 ай бұрын
I love Splatoon 3 in my personal opinion, but people want to put negative opinions, and trash Splatoon 3, like the Grand Festival is gonna be hyped, that’s why I quit Twitter 6 years ago, and I quit other socials, except for KZbin and Discord. I had my personal opinions that I like or don’t like in gaming. Like “I hate Fortnite” “I praise for Splatoon 3”
@MuscledRMHv2
@MuscledRMHv2 2 ай бұрын
I own Tears of the Kingdom but barely played it lol. Feels like I just don't make the time / got the patience to start.. I always feel like oh I just have an hour or so lets play a shooter.
@GrannyDryden
@GrannyDryden 2 ай бұрын
I’ve felt the same way for a long time. I remember when everyone was crazy over Skyrim, it was everywhere and no one spoke negatively about the game. I felt the hype and bought it ( pun intended). I remember starting the game, making my character and then being dumped into a world, that felt 2 dimensional, boring, dull color palette and very much lackluster. It don’t grab me at all. I thought for a long time that the problem must be with me, but I realized that this game simply wasn’t my genre. I played the Fallout games to death and loved them. I now play the games that I want to play, rather than the games that everyone else, tells me I should be playing.
@crowstray
@crowstray 2 ай бұрын
Thats how I felt too with Skyrim. I loved Oblivion to death and Fallout 3, but couldnt get into Skyrim.
@Wishmaster145
@Wishmaster145 2 ай бұрын
Exactly me! i never played it, melee weapons and medieval setting wasn't and so far isnt for me! But beside never touching fallout 76(bc no friends playing it) , i loved f3 fnv f4
@Zy.Blurish
@Zy.Blurish 2 ай бұрын
I have not used a phone since i've gotten 18 so it's been 8 years now without a smartphone.. Unfortunately being mainly a PC Gamer i've slowly been drawn into social media over time and i've also noticed my mental health deteriorate quickly by doing so. Luckily i've catched myself before falling too deep and i wasn't even that deep since i was mainly just on youtube so no twitter, reddit or whatever. KZbin alone had a strong negative impact on me and i think because i've been so "detached" any small step into any direction can have a strong impact. I'm simply not able to handle "the noise" well which is why i've made the decision in the first place but i also saw so many people including my friends around me with their phones out half of the time and with time i just couldn't stand the sight of it anymore. You, Jaywood and melodysheep are the only content creators i watch content from and since then i feel a lot better. Your content has helped me a lot to notice these changes happening so i could adapt and i'm very grateful for that. Wish you the best and hope you can stay reasonably sane in this.. chaos
@dandyboytv8204
@dandyboytv8204 2 ай бұрын
I love this gaming channel because it’s so real. Gaming but grounded is how I would describe @BBKDRAGOON
@joshfoustcommunity8928
@joshfoustcommunity8928 2 ай бұрын
I’m definitely going through some stuff like the war overseas, and the upcoming election, there’s a lot of pressure that’s happens because we don’t know what’s going to happen, I’m definitely taking a break from other games because of this reason, it’s not just you man, we’re all going through a lot right now, life is hard, and we need to do stuff just to get through it!
@joshuamoorexyz
@joshuamoorexyz 2 ай бұрын
loved this.
@danielfranya4138
@danielfranya4138 2 ай бұрын
Here's a tip I got that has been really helpful for me. Stop telling everyone else what you're doing. Obviously there's some people you need to share with, but every single coworker doesn't need to know what game you're playing or book you're reading or show you're watching or thing you're planning to do. Not even your friends need to know. I shared EVERYTHING and I found that it really just "transferred" my excitement for the thing to the person I was telling and next time I go to pick it up I'm not interested. Rinse and repeat. Once I stopped, the things I enjoy I enjoy simply because I do, not because I have 20 people to talk to about it. It actually increased my focus on completing said thing as well. Hope this helps!
@calebhager9315
@calebhager9315 2 ай бұрын
Comparison is the thief of joy.
@freeshipping7
@freeshipping7 2 ай бұрын
i also feel this need to slow down and i love that you're hopeful that things are going that way. But it really is hard, this feeling of being jaded but still wanting to be a part of a community, and any divervent opinion is met with overwhelming hostility, everything is treated like a gigantic cataclism and oh god oh no! Still i'll do my best to join you in your hope, it always ends up being worth the effort :)
@levi22es
@levi22es 2 ай бұрын
I’ve long had a practice of not watching trailers for movies I know I am going to see so I don’t get anything spoiled for me. I want to go in as blind as possible. I think for games, it’s a bit different as it’s a larger investment both from a money and time perspective, but again if it’s a game I know I want to play, I’ll avoid internet discussions about it.
@michaelbfishing4385
@michaelbfishing4385 2 ай бұрын
Hey dragoon, from what I've seen, a lot of people get their self-worth and identity by going with the crowd and whoever makes the loudest noise. I think it comes from where we find our identity. For example, mine comes from my faith in Christ, so if my opinion goes against the loudest or most popular people, it doesn't really bother me like it did before hand. Just my thoughts
@FeiYenHunting
@FeiYenHunting 2 ай бұрын
As a fellow content creator, I really appreciate your thoughts. Being bombarded by content and opinions can really wear you down and rob you of your joy and passion, what matters to you is what counts and we need to do more of that. Cheers mate!
@hafizmazuki2443
@hafizmazuki2443 2 ай бұрын
I just bought gundam breaker 4, first day. Best decision i made in a long time. It made me fall in love again of assembling gundam plastic model kit, yesterday i picked up a SD sinanju & let the magic happen, like old times 😊
@Lady_Brook
@Lady_Brook 2 ай бұрын
I managed to escape the hype train about every new game by playing it way after it gets out and make my own mind about it. I really hate this new consumption pattern where we're captivated by a game just to forget about it 2 weeks later. I'm so bitter that people's opinions have no effect on me but I'm not sure it's a good thing 😅
@GageDiekevers
@GageDiekevers 2 ай бұрын
Loved this video and these friday videos in general. Super good stuff to hear headed into the weekend!
@thomrl
@thomrl 2 ай бұрын
I enjoyed the Borderlands movie despite all the bad talk there is about it, but then again I could never get into the games. I tried both the first and second game, but none of them could hook me. The movie was a good watch, not a masterpiece but enjoyable
@jpbiker3107
@jpbiker3107 2 ай бұрын
Great video , allways Nice to ear you😁✌🏻
@PiXELIGHTofficial
@PiXELIGHTofficial 2 ай бұрын
Thanks man. I needed that
@evrensaygn1017
@evrensaygn1017 2 ай бұрын
I have got rid of social media and I am light as a feather. Problem with people who always criticize others and think everybody else is stupid/loser etc. are they are trying to satisfy their own self-loathing issues day by day with their sick addiction to social media. People don't need constant criticism or constant drama. People want an organized, happy life. That's it.
@thetechnosaiyan
@thetechnosaiyan 2 ай бұрын
I actually enjoyed the suicide squad game and the hate was exhausting 😢
@Terron29
@Terron29 2 ай бұрын
Great upload. Agree with a lot of this. To quickly make a comment on your MGS 2 comment, I will say that even though I LOVED mgs 2 I do prefer mgs 1 largly because I much prefer playing as snake as opposed to raiden but also I got fed up of the big shell location. The mgs series is fantastic though and the one big exception to cutscene heavy games. I normally hate when there are a lot of cutscenes in games and indeed mgs can take the piss a bit but I get so obsorbed in the stories and characters ans voice acting and even the immersive camera work and music that it never bothers me in mgs.
@KAYTRIOX
@KAYTRIOX 2 ай бұрын
To me it is very easy to completely disconnect from the opinions of the majority because I can easily remove it from my feed whenever it pops up if I don't see anything interesting on social media I just put my phone down and people's opinions is on the list of things that disinterest me. But unfortnately not everyone can do that which is understandable we are human beings we do stuff subconsiously sometimes. Elden ring is a perfect example I'm not interested in any of the discussions online behind the game but one of my real life friends I asked him for his opinion on the expansion and he always goes back to the reviews, awards, online disscusions on it and I'm like okay thats cool but what is your opinion on it? I hate it when people can't think for themselves.
@thestormwar
@thestormwar 2 ай бұрын
This was a good commentary topic. Something I've been thinkinng about for awhile as well. I hope you enjoy Deadpool Wolverine when you see it! I liked it 😂🧡
@evolgenius1150
@evolgenius1150 25 күн бұрын
I used to be very self conscious. I still am to some degree. Now that I’m in my 40s… I stopped caring. Firstly, the external world will NEVER validate you enough. You will never feel right until you learn to love yourself and be secure in that. No amount of degrees, no amount of friends, likes, sex or money will do that or prove it to you. You can only fool others that you have if they haven’t figured that out themselves yet. That’s why the world wants to shove some “identity” down your throat but it’s a false one based on superficial criteria - usually one that requires you to hold fast to some sense of victimhood. Sadly this world wants to deny us of the fact that no matter who you are, we are ALL divine image bearers who have the choice to become full fledged sons and daughters of God thru Christ, and rest secured in that divine nature/identity. They know it’s because that’s the only way. When you learn to truly believe that the ULTIMATE reality loved you first, and has the true opinion on who you are - that’s when something spectacular happens and this black hole 🕳️ that we try to fill with anything… everything… finally starts to shine with light ❤
@aye4anaye
@aye4anaye 2 ай бұрын
I think it’s a matter of time after being exposed to so much noise and misinformation from social media that people realize it’s not that valuable. Sure, some posts can be informative and help you formulate an opinion on something you’ve been debating, but; overall, it’s hard to tell which content is honest. It’s important to value what people think because it can help you grow if utilized correctly, but you need to be very careful what you listen to because of all the incorrect info out there. However, listening to everything and actioning all the notifications is exhausting and not worth doing. I deleted Instagram and TikTok because it brought 0 value to my life and literally wasted my time and I feel it was a great decision. My job doesn’t depend on keeping up with modern trends, though, and maybe as a content creator you kind of need to, depending on your material. Good luck man, sounds like you have a great mindset about how to treat social media and all its verbal diarrhea
@NaderVaderYT
@NaderVaderYT 2 ай бұрын
I think it depends, its more about making sure you don't hate something just because someone else does but rather you hear what they say, think about it and form your own conclusion. Not something to hard for me, since I like to keep things as objective as possible mostly. So I tend to analyze the persons takes and say " hmm is this truly valid?" with the acolyte watched the first bit it instantly sucked imo and I dipped with the borderlands movie saw a channel review it and I agreed from what I already have seen and heard online that it was dogshit. so its valid to go with the mold sometimes but other times not so much, the same youtuber acted like the final shape sucked but it was a great Destiny expansion, and I didn't really mind most of it, loved it my first time through.
@whosaidthat84
@whosaidthat84 2 ай бұрын
Agreed. It's never good to just go off a metacritic score, but rather to go off the specifics of each review. Plus we can watch gameplay now thanks to KZbin. I remember the days where we only had magazine screenshots to go off of. Certain games I'm buying no matter what. Other games, I'll wait until discount. But yeah, read up on the good and the bad and form your own choice conclusion.
@NaderVaderYT
@NaderVaderYT 2 ай бұрын
@@whosaidthat84 yeah absolutely man!
@scottparrott5674
@scottparrott5674 2 ай бұрын
I feel like this is just something that comes with age. I’m 37 now and when I was younger and almost up to my 30s I always just cared what everyone thought of me and when you hear stuff like this person doesn’t like you and blah blah it upset you and you would be like questioning why. As I got older though I stopped giving a shit and if someone said that to me I would just be like feelings mutual as it generally was lol. You just realize that people are going to like and not like you no matter what you do. Even if you’re too nice or whatever people will not like you for that so focus on the ones that are worth it and who cares about the rest.
@TheLotroNerd
@TheLotroNerd 2 ай бұрын
You have to think for yourself.
@chepecheapy308
@chepecheapy308 2 ай бұрын
Watching this on a friday night :)
@E1iteWolf
@E1iteWolf 2 ай бұрын
I’m not a good source for tips as i’m home with a work burn-out right now. But I would get rid of any phone connection with work if possible. I’m not important enough to need a work phone. If i did have one I wouldve burned out a long time ago. The hardest part in work for me is dealing with unfairness due to incompetent management. My workload has increased over the years and had new coworkers who just wouldn’t do their job and it would go unpunished. In the end their work ended up with me and hence the burn out. I already said no to many things, but going forward im going to say no way more. For my own health.
@Le0byn
@Le0byn 16 күн бұрын
Great video, thanks !
@TJB-Gaming
@TJB-Gaming 2 ай бұрын
I don't know how to feel about this. I started making game reviews because i loved the idea of sharing my opinion. But not that i realize, it can influence other people's opinions... I don't know how to feel.
@christianreaves2462
@christianreaves2462 2 ай бұрын
These videos are the best!!!
@ducalien
@ducalien 2 ай бұрын
Thank you
@vans2548
@vans2548 2 ай бұрын
Whoa it's already Friday!? Enjoy the weekend!
@asullygoose
@asullygoose 2 ай бұрын
You deserve a TED talk bud 💯 ❤.... Not that you should care about my opinion 😊
@BALI409
@BALI409 2 ай бұрын
I'm enjoying mgsv with qol mods so much, it's really fun, maybe wildlands too but it lacks mods
@quatreraberbawinner2628
@quatreraberbawinner2628 2 ай бұрын
I don't care what anyone thinks, i just thought everyone should know
@TheLotroNerd
@TheLotroNerd 2 ай бұрын
Safe people and trust by Dr. Henry cloud are great books.
@xiAlpha_Zero
@xiAlpha_Zero 2 ай бұрын
Stop? Hell I never started, I've been enjoying life everyday for years not giving a fuck what anyone thinks. Yall need a reality check and get off the phones and truly go outside.
@painuchiha2694
@painuchiha2694 2 ай бұрын
I appreciate your video while you play a very peak game indeed 🙂‍↕️
@MithrándirOfMiddleEarth
@MithrándirOfMiddleEarth 2 ай бұрын
You know, i recently came to this conclusion recently. As a result, ive decided im gonna dye my hair silver like ive always wanted, but never have done because of worrying about wjat other might think of it.
@GoGo10170
@GoGo10170 2 ай бұрын
Im soo early the bots are already here XD
@Capper_Bra
@Capper_Bra 2 ай бұрын
And people still lie to themselves saying “i put these Nice clothes on for myself” while Its not for you but for others. You would not dress that way if you were the only person in the world
@David-jw1zh
@David-jw1zh 2 ай бұрын
Philippians 1:18 But what does it matter? The important thing is that in every way, whether from false motives or true, Christ is preached. And because of this I rejoice.
@SuperWiiGuru
@SuperWiiGuru 7 күн бұрын
Try the cat22 flip phone it runs android and it is like a nice minimalist phone and it is $60
@aegisleague4053
@aegisleague4053 2 ай бұрын
I don’t think there’s going to be any changes anytime soon. The people who exercise proper self care are still a minority.
@Tescardinator1
@Tescardinator1 2 ай бұрын
nice video
@AntiRiku
@AntiRiku 2 ай бұрын
Whatever, I don't care what you think
@hyperdude144
@hyperdude144 2 ай бұрын
6:52 Somehow, THAT was legitimately saddening to see. You were SO close.
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