WHY YOUR SILENCE IS THE KEY

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[@lonewolf1556]

It's so nice when toxic people stop talking to you .its like the trash took itself out

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you for sharing this 🙌🙌

[@kellimoran8402]

Your so funny and so true!!❤️

[@msfitbrown48]

This the one🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯

[@sandym8787]

LOL

[@nycstarport8542]

🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@MAJENMOTHER]

Silence is truly key. It’s taken me a long, painful time to realize that after all the “talks” I was never being heard fully or understood. Only one viewpoint mattered in the relationship and it wasn’t mine. Being silent has given me strength to move forward and it’s ok that they don’t get to hear about your feelings. They were never listening in the first place!

[@shivmc4466]

This is true they only care about themselves they use people to a stuiped extent very needy, always drama so they come unstuck in the end and people see the true narcissistic behaviours not to mention strange that's because they have high anxiety...

[@Barbie.Boo1961]

I hope I am as strong as you, I realize it and I will not let myself down for a fourth time. I am so glad and feel hope thru this channel.

[@MAJENMOTHER]

@@Barbie.Boo1961 it’s a daily struggle for me and some days are stronger than others. Being free and happy is the end goal and we just can’t give up. Each day I learn more and I see more. Now, I’m learning how best to handle these times. Many thanks to Andrew for the enlightenment that’s helping me.

[@Barbie.Boo1961]

@@MAJENMOTHER thank you for your encouragement.

[@Chris-tc8sm]

Oh they listened. They listened well and learnt more and more what hurt you and how to hurt you more. Any information you give them they use to hurt you.

[@zulemaflores8796]

Love this Bible verse: Ecclesiastes 9:17 The quiet words of the wise are more to be heeded than the shouts of a ruler of fools.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

🙏🙏

[@deniseelsworth7816]

Perfect quote.

[@Jerry-jb3mc]

The is No one Worthy of taking our Light....My Father told me long ago use your ears Boy...I'm taking that advice of Him and Yourself Andrew always God Speed .. JCH

[@John-sk8cm]

There's some great stuff in the Bible. I'm realizing that more & more.

[@zulemaflores8796]

@@John-sk8cm The more we read God’s Word, the more revelation we find! The Bible is God speaking to us! And it’s Inspired by the Holy Spirit, and we definitely need the Holy Spirit in our life, because He, The Holy Spirit, reveals God to us in the spirit-realm.

[@bloodymary8540]

Silence and ignorance are killing them..responding to them is killing u

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Excellent insight thank you bloodymary..💯🙌💪

[@SherryONeill]

Good One!!

[@betsyroycedean121]

Nailed it! I am going to write it down so I see it whenever I have the urge to break it. Namaste

[@jennwilson8106]

I ❤️ this!!

[@1010QUEEN7]

You ain't never lie about that 😂😂😂

[@dianaaiello588]

I had to go Silent , it was for my own mental health . It’s so true !

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

💯💯🙌🙌

[@BluntlyHonest12]

I'm headed there

[@NKRAIEM]

Yes, I did the same. Best thing ever. But I reached a point where there was no other option. I was just stunned at the final lie... I literally dropped the phone, and couldnt communicate again... but in truth, she lied and her kids accidentally exposed her, and then she started to scold and guilt-trip them for exposing her... so before I made my exit, I demanded she apologize to her children and explain to them what happens when you lie- God exposes you. After I got her to apologize to her children, I exited and never made contact again. 2 month ago...

[@Chan71222]

Same here!!!

[@deb2319]

Yes It works so good for detaching and mental health forward healing!

[@judithhetherington6029]

It just made sense. “If I don’t feed the demon, it will seek its food source elsewhere.”.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

😉💯💯

[@truffaut650truffaut6]

Hopefully

[@2Tim1.6]

If someone is disrespecting you it is a gift that they walk away.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

💯💯

[@michu2888]

Silence STARVES these energy vampires! And in a weird way it is fun. Thank you Andrew ;)

[@christine11347]

I agree its a very empowering tool 😊💪💪💪💪

[@jenniferellis9249]

It is even though its not in our nature to be vindictive,it works honestly,being totally unavailable,silence says so much that we don't seek revenge.x

[@jenniferellis9249]

@@christine11347 very,its saved my life but took 3 of my empathic friends,domestic violence.x

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome Mi Chu..🙌🙏💪

[@christine11347]

@@jenniferellis9249 I really love that your absolutely right it does say we don't take revenge, we are calm and composed and stoic in our silence. They have no idea what any of that means or feels like as I saw play out first hand yesterday. It's great because with no supply they get and leave to go get it from someone else. It's truly a blessing 💯💪

[@warriormom5843]

That’s the absolute turning point, Andrew. When you FINALLY realize this “person” is completely unfixable, and doesn’t have a decent bone in their body. They are 100% your enemy, and have no good side to find, or reason with, at all. Then you can go against your natural communicative, empathic, analytical, “there must be a solution” way, and go SILENT! You must be on-guard AT ALL TIMES with these creatures, which is exhausting and why one must leave. Then you have to pray that they don’t stalk you in your continued silence. Complete nightmare.

[@manwithanamethystheart]

Yes! I am learning about narcs not having a decent bone in their body. Unless it's someone elses🤣

[@SunnyBeetle1922]

Warrior mum. I've had this from the narc. I blocked her two years ago. I then had to change my online identity when she and her fly monkey friends came after me. She even googled my name and wrote to me on every platform including etsy yet I only had two way conversations on fb and blocked her very soon after I first met her. Silence is the only way and staying safe!!! Its what we all need to do. ❤❤❤

[@warriormom5843]

@@SunnyBeetle1922 so glad you’re rid of her and let it stay that way!! Full support!! 😇🙏🏼

[@LATSRN]

So right!

[@cee1164]

@@manwithanamethystheart I had to laugh at this statement. Unfortunately, it's both witty AND true. 🥴

[@BarbaraMerryGeng]

Silence is golden Time to detach from toxic relationships..

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Absolutely beautiful insight 😉🙌❤️💪😉

[@jessparsons8515]

It’s lovely being away from these people no more stress

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

💯💯😌

[@1S1S1S]

This is so important. Ignore the projections/smear campaigns, hoovers and flying monkeys. Zero contact and zero emotion.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

🙏💯🙌

[@craigsmith1365]

Silence is golden...

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Absolutely 🙌🙏

[@treelover1050]

LOVE YOURSELF FIRST AND LISTEN TO WHAT YOU FEEL AND WANT IN EVERY SITUATION. YOU DON'T WANT THE NARCISSIST.

[@latrinamilton1357]

🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

[@l.8612]

For 8 mounts i stalked him for anwsers and confronting him. Now one year i am no contact. Eventually i went no contact.

[@Jessica-zf2df]

I agree...as long as they are not silently aggressive.

[@donnas411]

You made some good points. Thanks Andrew.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Glad you enjoyed it🙌💯🙏

[@maryperrysmith5815]

ABSOLUTELY BEST ADVICE EVER !!!! Silence is golden so shut up and get yourself back. Your worth it.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

😉😊💯

[@michellespuck67]

After 5 years, the narc ended the relationship with a text and immediately hooked up with someone else. I never responded to the text nor looked back. I moved away and began a new life. I agree you can not give them any more of your energy. Thanks Andrew. Silence is golden.

[@yowhatupmain]

Damn that is crazy mine did after 2 years and it has finished me

[@JH-td4mn]

I got the text after 2 years too, after pretending they wanted to retire with me. Think you can be with a Narcissist for 3 months or 30 years and it still hurts. Everything they do is designed to hurt their "prey" 😈 I wish you all the best on your healing journey. I am over 2 years out and life is so much better.

[@josiah5776]

Excellent advice! The key thing that broke the 50-year cycle of abuse from my narcissistic mother was my complete silence. Once I knew what she was and that she would never change, I had the "permission" to simply walk away. She was no longer my responsibility. Sadly, I also had to go silent with the legion of flying monkeys she recruited, which included my son and almost 50 members of the extended family. I'm still estranged from all of them, even after the narcissist's death. So be it. The peace is worth it.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Beautiful Joshua 🙏🙌💯

[@ZiVa.WA136]

Sorry for what you are going through but peace ✌ of mind is so worth it.cool

[@WhaleCommunicators]

Congratulations on your complete freedom. Good work. It's hard when relatives and more players involved and judging you. You have done very well and you broke the cycle of abuse in your family (whether anyone else in your family ever gets it doesn't matter) but this was no small feat when a soul does this in the Spirit World with God.. This is the hardest thing one can do - BREAK THIS CYCLE OF ABUSE WITHIN THEIR FAMILIES. I don't see meeting with any of them (my blood relations) again . . . brothers or cousins. If you are not there for the BIG things in someone's life or you sit by and watch someone be taken down without ever speaking a word in their defense . . . then you are not a friend or a loved one; much more like a traitor. Blissings & Many Successes 2u & all of us survivors of abuse

[@susane2398]

Completely heart breaking but congratulations for having the strength to walk away.

[@wallymarcel1]

I’ve had to do the same. It helps to remember most of them never did a goddam thing for me anyway.

[@Cool_Change]

Absolutely silence is gold 👍👍👍

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

☀️😊💪

[@angelacahill9083]

A peace comes back to you, when you go silent. It is a choice. We bring honour back to ourselves. We are whole again, created in the image of God, to walk in peace. Our boundary surrounds us once more and we're sending a very clear message, that we've moved on and are healing. We validate ourselves much more than we need them in our live, when we maintain no contact.. Stay strong and thank you.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Beautiful message..🙌🙏☀️💯💪

[@kimberlyturmel5538]

Silence is Deafening!! I knew thats exactly what needed to happen.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Absolutely correct 💯💯

[@michignamymichigan]

Going NC I noticed things. I saw they had given me the silent treatment over the years. I also saw some of my coping moves clearly, some good some not so good.

[@shirleyvanderheijden5934]

The peace that surpasses understanding is God given!

[@joyceyarnell6969]

We literally have to do nothing. Stay silent. So away. No holes in our walls. I love this. We have total control. We move forward with strength and self love.

[@tootienottoofruitie1726]

Silence=cutting your ties with the parasites

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Yes ..💯💪🙌

[@treelover1050]

YES. AND MAINTAINING YOUR BOUNDARIES AND WALKING AWAY FROM ANY CONTACT WITH THE NARCS.

[@prettynikki3667]

Been over a year of silence after 2 decades together.. left cold turkey no contact blocked on everything! Silence is the best peace for healing I'm a warrior 💪🏾 congratulations to all warriors stay strong!

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you for sharing Pretty Nikki…🙏💯🙌

[@prettynikki3667]

@@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone 💜🙏🏾

[@kimgordon3695]

Just be careful not to mirror their ongoing emotional abuse; out of vengeance. That is not Healthy!

[@prettynikki3667]

@@kimgordon3695 I Can not mirror anything when I simply left and moved on peacefully which is healthy spiritually, mentally & physically...

[@Mike_Cosentino]

This video aged like fine wine. Congratulations Andrew for reaching the pinnacle of indifference. I am eternally grateful to you for all your hard work and dedication to this narcissism epidemic. namaste 🙏

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

😌💜🙏

[@universallove280]

I counted about 50 narcs in my life. They hate me bc I’m the Kryptonite maybe bc Silence has always been my “weapon”. They cannot play you if you don’t respond

[@francespeto3305]

🎯

[@lavimusique]

Wow, 50!

[@cherylt2348]

I may as well be in Costa Rica as far as the Narc is concerned. We are 4 miles apart and the chapter is closed finally. I am proud of myself Silence is the key 🔑

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Beautiful message Cheryl..🙌💯💪🙏

[@davidcoppotelli3957]

I'm with you Cheryl, I Walked Away from my Ex Girlfriend 15 Years. Now going on 9 Months of NC. My Silence and my Absence is my Gift to her. We are 4 miles apart I never see her anywhere. She may well be with her New Supply Hope he is a NARC as Well. Stay Well Cheryl.

[@universallove280]

When they open the door, shut it again

[@brianhenderlong6186]

Silence is golden!

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

😉😉

[@stacyprettyman5756]

We can’t underestimate what our silence does to a narcissist. Hardest thing I’ve ever done, best thing I’ve ever done…by far. I filed for divorce after taking time to make a plan, blindsided him…still going through the divorce, haven’t spoken since. Blocked his entire family and anyone else who could contact me on his behalf. Came close to caving in several times, we lost 3 of our 4 parents through Covid , and he has become very ill himself I’ve learned through my attorney. My compassionate side wanted to comfort and support him, thankfully my logical side won out. Remained silent..

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Maintaining boundaries and moving forward is the path 💯🙌💪💪

[@rue258]

Wow I did the same went no contact since September and filed for divorce in January. My lawyer is handling my case he was caught off guard thought I would go back to him after I left the marriage. I also cut contact with his whole family by blocking them and him too. No contact for 5 months now still growing strong.

[@vanessahogan2837]

How did you get out

[@vanessahogan2837]

@@rue258 what was your plan for getting out

[@paulag7108]

When I was discarded I read that the best thing you can do is No Contact! Was the best advice for me!!Thanks so much 👍

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome Paula 💪💯🙏

[@jessparsons8515]

Silence is powerfull

[@overcomer4060]

This is true but it's been the H A R D E S T thing for me; takes every bit of restraint I have, especially when our split was new it about drove me insane because I wanted to be heard. But I'll tell you the one thing, no, two things that's helped me stay quiet most is the realization that #1 THEY. DON'T. CARE. and #2 ANY type of response is supply to them... I don't ever want to give him supply in any way shape or form. Those realizations help the most, but I can't lie--it is the hardest thing in the world for me on the days I feel any anger. I've recently started lifting weights again and that also helps to stay silent whenever I feel angry...***sigh!!!***

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

I understand Overcomer.. 💯🙌🙏💪

[@jenniferellis9249]

Well done,its the lost self of the narc parent or parents that make us a magnet to further abuse,at some point we realise,come into the light and become our own parents,if we are not tought to grow with love and bounderies a sence of self we head for disaster with abuse,healing leads to growing ourselves up with bounderies and independence,no contact is so much easier when loving ourselves, I promise you all that.x

[@michignamymichigan]

Yup. No need to defend or explain to them. I've had to remind myself, they never cared to hear me and respect me before. Why would they care now?

[@Kelly-oe8kr]

I understand the need to be heard but it's like talking to a brick wall with these people, try writing a letter to the narc that you will NEVER send. You get to say your piece without the narcissistic rage, invalidation and gaslighting.

[@bloodymary8540]

U say u wanted to be heard by the Narcissist...but The Narcissist will never hear u darling no matter what.. It doesn't matter how many times u speak with him and if he tells u sorry... He wont hear u, he won't listen to ur message..he won't even recognize...hes doing it all for fuel.. This is the only thing that matters to him...he doesn't know and feel real love and they never ever will so go No Contact because this is the only language they understand...

[@martytrain]

She tried a hoover recently, I remained silent Next I saw how it got rude and nasty and the messages became toxic and full of rage but I remained silent. I had to laugh to myself, she sounded desperate. Silence is golden. Good video Andrew,thanks.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome Marty..💯🙌🙏💪

[@Kelly-oe8kr]

Silence is the best revenge

[@SaiMugga]

I’ve been silent. She still wants me to help her take out the Christmas tree I got her which is a 9ft tree and get my gift. I don’t want to be around her or near her ever again though

[@SherryONeill]

There Now I am Actually Shocked That Hoovering Has Started Cuz I Seriously Thought he Would Just Leave me Alone Until I Can Get All my Things The Manipulation Has Started I Have NO ABILITY TO RESPOND!! I Have Silence In my Bones Now Guess We Will See What Happens

[@lifeslessons9889]

Ohhh I know that feeling 😊…..but unfortunately it took me too long to learn it . Shame on me 😄

[@user-fh6hv4eb56]

You ain't lying! Do things that make you feel good as long as it's not harming you and anyone else.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

💯💯😉

[@carol-xk3lq]

Silence is a language they actually do understand.🙃

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

😉💯

[@cathycpon5832]

SILENCE is the best ANSWER to someone that doesn’t VALUE ur words

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

😉💯💯

[@buy.to.let.britain]

nice comment

[@nickdesmone]

Over the years I’ve realized any package, note, “important voicemail” from them is never ever necessary for me to consume - you truly just let it all go and the illusion fall to pieces 💙

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

🙌💯😉💯

[@gerrimiller3491]

I feel stronger and feel wiser when I'm listening and staying silent. I keep my peace of mind without exposing all my life to an evil heart.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Great progress 🙌💯🙏

[@barbarathomas5048]

I fell down on my goal of silence and saying NO. It has made me feel sick inside. I came to the library of Andrew!!! And this is exactly what I need. This has been a good reminder💖💖🌺🌺

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

💯🙏🙌

[@AgustinaFigueroa-e2z]

Thank you for your great advice your speeches about narcissistic are impeccable

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you..💜😌🙏

[@blossom3468]

There is MUCH said in SILENCE.. it's all in the unsaid remember this!! Onwards and upwards guys 💯💯💯

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Amen 🙏

[@kimgordon3695]

Just be careful not to mirror their ongoing emotional abuse; out of vengeance. That is not Healthy!

[@Pinkdiamond12]

Silence is golden 🌅

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Amen 🙏

[@dawnsmith4311]

thank you~ 🌅

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

You're welcome 😊

[@munchey99508]

That’s exactly how I started thinking when my narcissist discarded me and I told him if he left again I would not allow him back into my life. Nothing he does or says matters anymore. He isn’t a normal, healthy person. He’s a liar, a cheat, a thief and a manipulator. That’s what I know to be true and I’m no longer justifying/rationalizing or accepting that behavior in my life from anyone. Thank you for sharing your knowledge in order to help others. 💖🙏🏼🌈

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome 🙏🙌💯☀️

[@annaclaire9927]

Sound advice, silence is key Enjoy your day, Andrew. Namaste

[@dylannaenzo9737]

When the narc goes into a rage..... be silent; the silence is deafening, because the mask is off.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Excellent point 💯🙌😉

[@jannlewandowski5540]

Good morning Andrew. I went back in time to find some of your older videos, and I stopped at 1 year ago. I don't recognize many of the names, but people drift all the time. The "silence" is the key. My ex would not stop talking. I can't tell you how many Tylenol I took back then. I also realize that you CANNOT take "things" to heart. If a person doesn't want to associate with you, let it go! I know one thing for sure, and I will NEVER take sides again. If cruel people want to TRASH someone, i will turn away. My parents were empaths, and they raised me to be kind to people. Knowing me, I took some things out of context, but learned from it. You learn something new everyday, no matter how much you THINK you know, you still have a long way to go.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

😌🙌🙏

[@jannlewandowski5540]

Thank you for listening. ❤️

[@lisadawson6981]

I got my Christmas hoover . Thank God I was gone. I came home to cheesy Christmas gifts and notes in bags. I walked all of it straight to the trash can. Thank you Andrew No contact is key 👍

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Beautiful insight Lisa..🙌🙏💯💪

[@briansaiditsoitmustbetrue4206]

Make sure the NC (No Contact) is 100% bomb-proof.. You should NOT be getting texts and emails/ phone calls from the Narcissist These should ALL have been blocked. The Narcissist will always use this method first to try to hoover you. Do NOT make the Narcissists life easy. Kind regards Brian

[@Sky_Star-hq6bx]

Same here . Every so called 'gift' and reminder of her went straight to the Dumpster ! Very Freeing !

[@loribennett2757]

I still deal with my ex, but I have the power now to stop him in his tracks! Stay strong people!!

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

💪💯🙌

[@callumhaigh8233]

My ex girlfriend won’t win. One of my friends said that you can’t change a person like that and they’re always going back to what destroys them in the end. It’s a downward spiral

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Great insight 💯🙌🙏💪

[@jenniferellis9249]

Yes let it be.x

[@kimgordon3695]

Wow exactly. Heartbreaking 😢

[@dizzyd3670]

Luckily, my ex narc did not contact me over Christmas. Even though I spent the day alone with my dog and cat, I was happy and didn't have her ruining the holidays again. After I called her out months ago, she discarded me and I have not heard from her since, except to get the divorce papers the day before Christmas. I know she timed that to try to inflict the most hurt on me but it has backfired. when my family saw she had me served divorce papers over Christmas they all believed me about how evil she was. It was the best Christmas gift I have ever received. Funny how things work out that way.😂😆

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you for sharing this.. you are doing great Dizzy 💯🙌🙏💪

[@oceansoul3694]

Dizzy, I spent Christmas without people, thank God, but with my horses, dogs, chickens & cats. I hauled firewood, I cooked a duck, I spent the best day outside working on my farm. Total peace, and no talking all day. Magnificent! Congratulations on getting free from the poison filth!

[@dizzyd3670]

@@oceansoul3694 That's so awesome ocean soul! Thank you so much for sharing💪😎🙋‍♂️

[@stevegiu4232]

Good man

[@dizzyd3670]

@@stevegiu4232 Thanks Steve.👊💪

[@gracious6461]

Real talk

[@sandracolon3759]

Thank you for your kind support toward victims of domestic violence. Thank you for the message of SILENCE. Thank you.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome Sandra..🙌🙏💯😊

[@fin1shingtouch1212]

Silence is Golden!👍☺️

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Absolutely 💯🙌😊💪

[@KristinaWilczak]

As always, amazing info. TY Andrew!

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome..😌💜🙏

[@jarmalofamerica]

So glad I found your channel. I left my toxic relationship of 15 years (I'm 37) in 2019. We ended up back together in Oct 2020. And it didn't take long for old behaviors to return. The gaslighting, passive aggressiveness, shaming etc. Over the last few months, she was taking things out on me that had nothing to do with me, picking fights, then saying she did nothing wrong. Our last interaction, she was talking to me very rudely. I let her know that and was hit with "No I'm not" and became more upset. Then proceeded to convince me of how wrong I was And said "you clearly must be upset about something" WHAT?!?! So after more gaslighting and now insults and purposely twisting what I was saying, I reacted very poorly. And my reactive abuse was the catalyst to me leaving in 2019. I'd get baited, shamed and pushed to my emotional limits by her. It's been a week now and I've bee staying in a hotel and at the house when she's not there. We have children so that makes it even harder. I'm now being hovered. She said "lets go to therapy and fix it " but I am the one that goes to therapy. And offered couples therapy. I'm just sick of this and I'm so glad to have found your channel

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome to the community.. thank you for sharing this insight 🙏💯🙌💪☀️

[@angelalopez3701]

Hi I’m just watching this video for the first time and I came across your comment. It hit home when you said it had only been a week and that you were in a hotel. It’s been about 2 weeks for me now. I hope your still hanging in there. Hopefully you’ve turned that corner and are feeling the love of life again.

[@jarmalofamerica]

@@angelalopez3701 Hi Angela. I have been in my own place for over a month now. Things are so much better. I hope things are going well for you. Make a plan and stick to it, YOU GOT THIS!

[@angelalopez3701]

I’m so glad to hear. Thank you for your response. I know for myself it’s the most difficult situation to endure but I also know if I can pull through I’ll never make this mistake again.

[@washedbytheblood1738]

🙏🏽 This too shall pass! No condition is permanent! 🤍🌸

[@clarerameka1462]

Thankyou so much. The narcissist always turns up every 3 to 4 years. I appreciate your help so much.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome 🙏🙌💯

[@Dudenbroboth]

I’m an introvert, I used to be good at sports and school, then hung around the wrong people re drug misuse, now I’ve found myself, and I’m now a magnet to toxic people, narcissists, bullies etc… gotta stand up for myself more that’s my new goal start small then get big

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Building boundaries is the path 🙌☀️💯💯

[@hollyharte7831]

I hear you. Stay strong. 💜💜💜🕊

[@hhsg11]

So true Andrew. Still sharing the same house until moving out day is confirmed, but I rarely speak to him now. I sit in the living room reading a book or listening to music on my iPad with headphones on and it drives him insane..😂. He comes in and offers me a cup of tea, glass of wine or brings me in a plate of food or piece of cake and literally I do nothing for him now. I go up to my bedroom early evening and shut the door and watch a movie or something on KZbin, he’s in the house with his dogs and I leave him to it. I have noticed in the last month or so that my silence is killing him, he’s taken up whistling or playing music on his laptop, both of which he’s never done. His mobile phone is constantly dinging either with texts or WhatsApp from when he gets up until he goes to bed, I’m watching him literally falling apart in front of my eyes. Karma really is a b**ch.

[@devapoole4117]

Thanks Andrew...tough when a narcissist uses the scriptures to take from widows...God will repay

[@baconbacon3967]

Thanks, Andrew! Going No Contact with my brother brought me some immediate relief. No more rage calls, texts, etc. Much more peace without that noise. xo

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Beautiful growth and progress 💯🙌💪

[@leandraherring1824]

Yesss the silence is the key I've went silence and no contact a year in a half now and I'm at peace no going back to the person that tried to destroy me thank you Andrew!!!

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome Leandra.. 💯💯🙌🙏💪

[@Anon-pc7vt]

Me too

[@donnaevans7361]

The new supply is in danger with my ex..as always thank you I'm glad I found this channel 6 months ago..I'm free now

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome..💯🙏😌

[@esh3333]

You’re the best. I’m having some hints of great days lately. Feeling confident yet cautious. Silence works. It not only keeps the hoovering at bay, it’s also nice to have peace from my own internal anxiety. When I started on this channel, I was holding on for dear life. Today I feel more like Rocky Balboa listening to his coach while training. Grrrr.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Beautiful Teshla.. you are doing this..🥊 💪💪💯

[@lisakaler4121]

Great analogy Telsha! Listen to coaches on these channels. They steer us in the right direction! They know what it's like. Blessings to all and Thank you Andrew!

[@georgiabertram5930]

Hahahaha 😊😊😂😂

[@Indy__isnt_it]

I like your "confident, yet cautious" quote. I had a small glimpse of when i felt peace and energy at the same time, it made me think how much sadness is in our world due to this BS they control so much. No one talks much except here and other channels like this, but never in real life.

[@vanessahogan2837]

I'm barely surviving I don't know how to get out. I can only hope and pray for my inner rocky to appear some day

[@teresafraser3049]

Silence is definately the golden key that unlocks your prison cell and offers you FREEDOM from the Narcassists 👌

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Amen 🙌💯

[@jees8128]

I’m comparing notes with you and agree all the time 😊

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

🙌🙏💯

[@kimfield1735]

When I blocked my narc he jumped straight onto dating apps etc. I didn’t say that we were over and when I blocked him it was because I just didn’t have anything to say to him and I couldn’t listen to one more lie. Yes, nearly 30 years together and nothing. Instant discard because I blocked him. Nine months later, I’m stronger than ever and looking forward to a new life. Love to you all and Andrew 💕🙏🏻💕

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

🙌☀️💪🙏💯

[@joycebarrett5111]

after four years of nonsense... it all is starting to make sense.. thank you 🙏 moving forward to peace and balance within!

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome 🙏

[@carlymcfarly6447]

‘Cesspool of desperation where the narcissist lives’ 👌🏼👌🏼

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Yes 🙌 💪

[@kimgordon3695]

So true

[@treelover1050]

I AM NO CONTACT FOR 2 YEARS. HE HAS NOTHING BUT LIES AND CHAOS FOR ME. STILL HE TRIED TO HOOVER ME SEVERAL TIMES. I AM SILENT BUT THEY STILL WANT TO TRY TO DRAW US BACK IN. SO DON'T BE SURPRISED IF THEY HOOVER. HAPPY NEW YEAR ANDREW. TAKE CARE.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you Tree Lover…🙏💯🙌😊

[@treelover1050]

@@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone YOU ARE WELCOME.

[@jenniferellis9249]

Holiday hoover,yes,I've had it too after 2 yrs n contact.x

[@treelover1050]

@@jenniferellis9249 HI. AVOID THE NARC AND MOVE FORWARD.

[@pouspathompson4991]

I did not know this before. But with my experience that my experience was not comfortable to him. He would run around and do things to have my attention. Thank you.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome 💯🙌🙏

[@juliechurch1799]

Can't argue with fools . Silence best weapon !

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Amen 🙏

[@Lucida1818]

I find you calming to listen to Andrew. Yeahh I am great at silence 😊in fact I’m brilliant at it. Yes I have been hoovered already in the last two months. I have not responded to their phone calls.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you 😊🙌🙏

[@maryloumckinney9270]

I've been in this type of relationship for almost 30 years, what brought me to the brink? Money that took me 4 years to save, new bathroom- new kitchen cabinets- new flooring- new windows- these are the things our home needed and I felt so good about contributing towards the reality of making any one of these needed home improvement's possible. It was a bomb going off in my head when I realized that he had spent every last dime on his grandsons and himself without my knowledge or permission. I had done without so much in order to, (at this point in my life) upgrade so as to make life a little easier in my old age. I work my ass off keeping our home beautiful w/limited resources, I've looked forward to not having to work so hard and now that vision is gone--wind let out of my sails. COMPLETELY LET DOWN, and he doesn't seem to care or understand. I've listened to him complain about me spending too much for years. I'm through--put my senior housing application in for Alaska and in a few short months he won't even know what hit him. i AM THROUGH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you for sharing this 💯🙏🇺🇸🇨🇷🙌

[@hollymelville462]

Wow. A while back I watched you for the first time. It was something about when the narcissist realizes what they lost. My relationship with someone like this (I can't really diagnose, but many of the hallmarks are there) was what I thought was a close friendship, not a romantic or familial relationship. I cut ties eight years ago, and the memories of that time are still pretty tough. Anyway, he reached out to me via text out of the blue after eight years of no contact. I responded, then he sent me another text saying he would like to reconnect but would leave next contact up to me. At first glance the texts seemed like he was making amends of some sort, until I realized there was not even a hint of an apology or accountability about what had happened between us. I did not reply. Then I saw your video and thought, hmmm, that feels like what just happened! It made things really clear, and made me really glad I had not engaged further. Then I saw this video about silence being the key, which further validated my decision to stay silent. BUT WAIT, it gets better: mere hours after I watched THIS video, he texted me again! I did read it, and it was total bullshit, of course. "I know I said I would leave contact up to you...but I need help with blah blah blah can you help me?" I did not respond and going forward I will not even read his texts, as you suggest. I just wanted you to know how both of these videos popped up right when I needed them. I think it is amazing how you do this every day to work through things yourself and to help others work through this very difficult process. I am (mostly) on the other side of healing from this, but your posts still help. Your manner, your insight, and your supportive words make you a positive force out there in the world!

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome always 🙏💯🙌💯

[@awildadavila4142]

Silence is golden!!!

[@itsover7803]

Yes silence is the key they cannot control you anymore. You become grounded within thyself. You begin to except this was/is an assignment of healing. By experience this was a test for thyself to know thyself to love thyself and become loyal to thyself which is the whole of the law which is love. Love the message, keep going❤️🙏👏👍🎉

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

🙏💯🙌

[@deborahsmith-clemmons5484]

I'm currently divorcing a narcissist. A dear friend sent me your video. I find your videos to be of great importance to me and I wish I had seen your videos long ago. It's been a long road, but I am in charge and strong. I will certainly look forward to hearing more of what you have to say. THANK YOU SO VERY MUCH!

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Sending healing energy and strength 🙏💯🙌

[@janiebutterfly5251]

Thank you with all my heart absolutely AMAZING you are saving me I'm in a dark place 🙏🙏🙏👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏💜💜💜💜

[@livingforfree2]

First 1😄~ silence is golden...

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Yes you are💪🙏😊

[@craigsmith1365]

Diddo...

[@brendanperrett8248]

Silence is golden so the saying goes

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Yes Brendan..💯🙏🙌💪

[@kimgordon3695]

Just be careful not to mirror their ongoing emotional abuse; out of vengeance. That is not Healthy!

[@childofthemosthighGod777]

Thank you Heavenly Father for opening my eyes WIDEEEE open before marrying a narcissist! Praise the LORD Almighty 🙌🏼

[@deecherrie4121]

I really needed to hear this today. Thank you for confirming what I already knew. Validation is huge to keep on the path of healing!

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome 🙏

[@karenzilverberg4699]

Thanks so much, Andrew. Apathy set in and became my amazing ally. A while back, I had made a list of what I wanted or needed in my life to make my life nicer. The narcissist(s) had already become an irritating distraction from my list. Since there has been more than one bottom feeding carp, I have been handling each one accordingly. Some of this has been tougher to overcome than another. Progress, tiny-bit-by-tiny-bit is slowly happening. I do see the proverbial light brightly flickering at the end of the tunnel. 🎶👍❤🙏🏼🎶

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome Karen..💯🙌🙏😊💪

[@christine11347]

I think your comment helps me really understand that alot of us are dealing with more then one of these bottom feeding carps which is such an amazing way to put it. I am finding that some will be tougher to overcome for me then others also. What I always love about the comments is everyone has their own beautiful insight and you never know what may resonate with someone at that moment. Your comment definitely reminded me today that I'm not alone in my feelings about different narcissists in my life and the importance of handling each one accordingly. Thank you 💯💪💡🎆✨

[@tootienottoofruitie1726]

Karen... you go girl ‼️😊♥️

[@karenzilverberg4699]

@@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone 🙏🏼🎶🙏🏼

[@karenzilverberg4699]

@@christine11347 I wish I could reach in there and hug you. I believe in you. You are strong.

[@nrosa4051]

Silence is the key !!! Block everything and especially the flying monkeys.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

😉😉💯

[@nrosa4051]

Block delete ignore

[@gionagrace6279]

Thanks so much Andrew!! Spot on my friend!!! Survivors.....silence drives narcs nuts!! The cannot stand it!!

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome Giona..💯🙏🙌💪

[@jenniferellis9249]

Lol they really can't.x

[@treelover1050]

THEY WILL HAVE TO ACCEPT IT BECAUSE WE DECIDE THEY WILL NOT BE ALLOWED IN OUR LIFE. THEY DON'T WANT TO TREAT US WITH RESPECT. THEY ONLY WANT THEIR WAY. SO GET AWAY SILLY NARC.

[@damienwelch9067]

Silence is 🔑

[@CD-gr3mk]

Thank again Andrew, you are so right! I love you too and God bless you always! You are a light that shines so bright with truth and love, you really are amazing! 🦋⚘🌈💗🦄

[@samgibson684]

I remember when she told a friend that I was reactive..... Reaction is part two.... When you finally get it.... It all becomes crystal clear

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

🙌💯🙏

[@clairemcilroy4052]

Hi Andrew hope you are well the narcissist when was in my life was my mum and I only discovered the word Narcissist 16 months ago , I'm 44 years old and started to educate myself on narcissism, I've been no contact now for 12 months and I'm still learning

[@clairemcilroy4052]

I think you are fabulous

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you for sharing Claire 💯🙏🙌

[@maybee...]

Silence is healing.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

😊☀️🙌

[@samelaaben8885]

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[@samelaaben8885]

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[@samelaaben8885]

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[@emilynambuli9128]

I thank God for taking me out of the toxic relationship. Thanks Andrew for your channel. You are amazing. 🙏🏼🙏🏼

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome always 🙏💯🙌

[@Lailat854]

Thank you! You are so calm that listening to you is like meditating❤

[@davidcrowley1985]

This is such an important message. All the education re the narcasist leads us to acceptance of what they are and what the relationship really was...we reach the end of hope. At this point the installation of a strict No Contact regime has to be a conscious choice...and it's difficult! ONLY with no contact can you heal..recover and look inward to change yourself by learning to say no...to set boundaries...change your self talk and listen to your inner voice. No contact is the key as you say to your freedom to your healing and a brighter future. No contact is your victory over these malevolent entities. Take the win people DC

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Beautiful insight DC..💯🙏💪

[@jenniferellis9249]

Our childhood is the key.x

[@davidcrowley1985]

@@jenniferellis9249 I couldn't agree more. Part of the second stage of healing is looking inward and taking responsibility for our part in the relationship. We must confront and process the childhood trauma that has been buried for so long that made us vulnerable to such a relationship. This leads to healing via change. Its a tough road to the new you!

[@christine11347]

@@davidcrowley1985 this comment is definitely spot on and really highlights that the healing path is in stages. Thank you for sharing this insight it definitely helps me put things into perspective on where I am at in my healing path. 💯💪💡🎆✝️🕊️

[@carol-xk3lq]

Very well put in words, thxs💫💫💫

[@edjust7645]

This is as difficult as when I quit cigarettes..! That’s how difficult it is for me…

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

One day at a time.. moving forward always.. you are doing this Ed..💯😉🙌🙏💪

[@balozhende5727]

They never change. They will try to get you back in but do not let them.

[@annieb550]

on point once again. thank you. I know I speak for others when I say you make us stronger. thank you.

[@jenniferellis9249]

Yes.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Welcome Annie 💯🙌🙏😊

[@eurokay4755]

I occasionally have to be in the presence of my malignant overt narcissistic older brother at family gatherings. The ability to have complete indifference to him - no curiosity, no emotion, only single syllable responses when necessary - is amazing.

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Education is empowerment..beautiful growth 💯🙌💪💪

[@kimgordon3695]

That's growth 💝

[@GaryPotocki82]

Apoligies, I had narcissistic siblings do that to me at Holiday's luckily I don't have to see them anymore. They acted so innocent victims yet a cold cynical Heard at Best. It's one thing to be an empath and another to be a narcissist but when you have a narcissistic family nuclear unit that scapegoat one child and then blame that child and perceive that child to be a narcissist dumping your toxicity onto them and making them carry your trash out eventually their trash can breaks narcissists are extremely warped individuals a black sheep cuts himself off from his entire family it's the only way to survive that was my experience

[@susanhaydon6203]

Yes silence is definitely golden

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

🙌☀️💯

[@kathywalker4766]

Mine screwed around on me and gave me a present for the rest of my life, yet have not heard from him for 5 months and just Christmas Eve, left me a message telling me how he thinks about me all the time and still lives me!!! If I would not of accused him of screwing around we could still be together!!!!! They are just sick, evil, demonic, parasites!!!!!!

[@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone]

Thank you for sharing this Kathy 💯🙌🙏💪

[@mamiesews123]

Today is groundhog day.I woke up to a New day with New way!@@no more contact