Wife Cheated on Me Multiple Times! (Is Our Marriage Over?)

[@jeffkelly9197]

Who would want to get back with someone's who cheated on them multiple times. Move on and leave her for the streets.

[@texan903]

Low self-esteem and feeling like you won't find someone new is what leads to this. Some people feel that having someone, even if they are distrustful, is better than being single and having no one.

[@rhettfreeman8186]

She belongs to the streets

[@Somegirl3602]

Men cheat multiple times and women always take them back for the sake of the kids to have a father figure. Now when the tables are turned then everyone is like he should leave.... I honestly believe no one should stay

[@texan903]

@@Somegirl3602 women leave too, don't get it twisted, or they stay but carry on affairs in front of their children.

[@knowthyself8233]

The streets she's from, the streets she shall return.

[@williamhall1659]

As the young folks say she is for the streets, let her go.

[@milana2020]

Loll “young folks”

[@Chris-gh6ux]

@@milana2020he’s not wrong tho lol that term is fairly new

[@Illtechnica]

Forget that, she's for the sheets. 🤢 🤮

[@tomnohmy1273]

I was him, I get it, stayed in a bad marriage for 15 years until I finally couldn't do it anymore. Over 7 years post divorce, still single much happier.

[@blueseptember2174]

How do you deal with the loneliness that creeps in?

[@tomnohmy1273]

@@blueseptember2174 I'm a unicorn, rarely if ever lonely, prefer the calm of my solitary life.

[@blueseptember2174]

@@tomnohmy1273 I get that. I like solitude as well. I guess I just miss the sharing laughter and intimacy. Then I remember the lying and cheating and arguments and then I think I'm probably traumatized for life anyway. Lol

[@tonymarin909]

@@tomnohmy1273 im same way as you

[@littleme3597]

@@tomnohmy1273 Ditto. Love my alone time. Introvert. lol.

[@lisamccall4960]

If she's cheated multiple times she will continue to cheat. Go ahead and free yourself from the person who isn't truly committed to loving you. Get into counseling, heal and don't feel rushed to be with someone.

[@jengable4888]

I would agree !

[@Traumatised311]

Multiple times 😁😁🤐🤐

[@victoriasograteful3405]

Bingo! You hit it on the nail.

[@Originalman144]

He likes being the side dude in his own marriage. SMH

[@ThomasSDavis-mc9of]

The words of a woman are written in water. Never sign a contract with someone to whom it benefits to break it.

[@MyPasture]

It’s not about giving her another chance, but rather giving yourself a chance!

[@arfriedman4577]

Great statement.

[@cjlive5182]

When my ex cheated, it was like he had cooties - He was revolting. This guy is tough to put up with that.

[@johnnychandler325]

Weak and afraid is more like it.

[@benmyers9030]

This guy is cuck to put up with that

[@maylynbayani]

I agree. I would feel disgusted in ever touching a cheating spouse.

[@budgiebirdy]

He wants to leave her, but he's scared of the life changes it's going to bring. He's scared of of the life changes it's going to bring his kids. He doesn't really want to make this relationship work. He feels like he's stuck. But he deserves someone better. She's a cheater; she doesn't deserve his trust.

[@OliveOyl12590]

He can't do anything until she stops drinking. He wants to forgive her but HE won't change.

[@budgiebirdy]

@@OliveOyl12590 He doesn't need to forgive her, he needs to dump her and find someone worthwhile.

[@OliveOyl12590]

@@budgiebirdy He needs to stop drinking, period.

[@budgiebirdy]

@@OliveOyl12590 He needs to stop drinking while filing for divorce from someone who's a serial cheater.

[@adrianjeffrey2897]

@@budgiebirdy 😂 at this point he is in an open relationship

[@Landmantx]

I would say you don’t have a marriage without a faithful spouse.

[@ElimEx1]

Marriage is nothing more than a financial, contract between 2 people. Equating romance, love, lust with marriage is what makes people get married and divorced multiple times. Throughout history, those 2 functions were separate and only puritains made it something it was never supposed to be. One person cannot be everything for their partner. It's ridiculous to think it can.

[@thegenxgamerr]

Run FOREST RUN!!!!!!! Move on from her and build a new life ASAP.

[@lizaw.7313]

He sounds so broken hearted and let down. I hope he finds a woman who will treasure him and be trustworthy with his heart.

[@basednwhitepilld]

This man’s loyalty is so beautiful. I hope he doesn’t lose that for his next relationship 🤞

[@MrBellyman128]

He will lose it

[@Brandiisbeloved]

Why can’t I find a man like this

[@williamhall1659]

@@Brandiisbeloved A man who will let you cheat on him??

[@patrickd2651]

Its not loyalty its insecurity and desperation

[@seanporter6431]

U call that loyalty, he is a weak man, his wife sensed his weakness and that’s why she started cheating on him. Woman don’t respect weak men.

[@cheesebear3353]

Short answer YES

[@mustangthings]

Long answer is also yes.

[@iammaximus614]

She Belongs to the Streets…..🥾….💥 🔥

[@btowhidi_1713]

Long answer is Yessssssss

[@myleshamilton6342]

Cheating in any situation is in my book an instant end of relationship. Regardless of the other factors such as a house, children etc… poor guy! Sorry to hear this! Keep going mate!

[@ElimEx1]

You are right, it's the end of a relationship but it's not necessarily the end of a marriage. Love, romance, lust is not what marriage is about. Marriage is a legal contract between 2 people to share finances.

[@Illtechnica]

I wouldn't say it's automatically over. My best friend cheated on his wife in year 2 of their marriage. He called me the day after it happened, and I had never heard him that emotionally distraught. He was so disappointed in himself and confessed to her and their Pastor immediately. They went through counseling at their church for a good period. That was 21 years ago, and they've been great since. However, some people, like this woman, do not care when they cheat or lie. She's been willfully leading a double life. She's unremorseful and unrepentant unless she gets caught. That's when I press "eject" from the marriage.

[@n3rdpl0w]

My ex wife 2 affairs and I tired for 2 years to fix things and she didn’t care! Once a women checks out. She gone! Focus on bettering yourself and focus on the kids! You’ll find true love! Heal first. You gotta love yourself first

[@Traumatised311]

Sounds like you disrespected her or cheater on her

[@jaylenflenaugh7992]

⁠@@Traumatised311how exactly did you come to that conclusion? You sound stupid. Classic victim blaming you must be a narcissist

[@n3rdpl0w]

@@Traumatised311nope. She cheated on her affair partner with now new husband so sounds like her problem. Good try though

[@ChristianMotivationMedia]

“Who can find a virtuous wife? For her worth is far above rubies. The heart of her husband safely trusts her; So he will have no lack of gain. She does him good and not evil All the days of her life.”Proverbs 31:10,11,12

[@zeal4god402]

HALLELUJAHHHHHHHHH KEEP SEEKING AND DONT SETTLE WHEN YOU KNOW YOU HAVEN'T FOUND HER

[@kalimbaayinde25]

@@zeal4god402most men ruin these women.

[@betsyr4724]

My sister in law cheated on my brother while our mother was diagnosed with a terminal illness. She wanted him back, but he was a no go. You need to leave her bud

[@naraendrareddy273]

Sounds like he unfortunately doesn't see options at the moment.

[@deuteriumjones]

I can forgive someone for cheating. What I couldn’t do is forgive myself if I let myself get treated that way. Healing, friendship, co-parenting, you got it. You just don’t get to be “wife” anymore.

[@terriesmith2616]

💯% agreed with you. You can forgive the person who cheated on you but that doesn't mean you have to continue to stay with them. By continuing to stay, you are doing yourself a disservice and you're allowing the other person to continue to cheat on you. *"In life, we don't get what we deserve, we get what we are willing to tolerate"* ~Tony Robbins.

[@AT-cy9uh]

Like that

[@l-train7876]

This is the most painful truth.

[@rodneyjones1990]

You need to forgive yourself too in order to be able to properly heal.

[@ireneangelucci3733]

You are most likely going to have to forgive yourself in order to truly forgive someone else

[@1740ryguy]

You guys went to counseling, you tried to make it work man, more then most people would of. But she is clearly not someone you want to spend the rest of your life with. She tried to hide a whole other life from you. It's time to put your foot down and say enough is enough.

[@OliveOyl12590]

If I was your spouse and you drank like him I'd be hiding more than just another life. I'd hide the money then the guns then the kids and finally I'd leave with divorce papers and an order of protection for you to stay away.

[@tmac326]

@@OliveOyl12590 It’s called ending the relationship if you’re not happy and it’s not working. It’s about having boundaries. Going and cheating multiple times is the exact opposite of having boundaries.

[@OliveOyl12590]

@@tmac326 Exactly. Boundaries start at home. If she runs over you in your own building, she tramples you everywhere else.

[@Testing123-lz7cx]

​@@OliveOyl12590 Correct me if I missed something but he mentioned drinking, but I don't recall him ever indicating a drinking problem like you're making it out to be. Did I miss him say that or are you projecting something about your own experiences with alcoholics without knowing if this guy even is one

[@truckingwithtobee]

That guy needs to leave her. He deserves to be with a good woman. Poor man.It’s nice that he’s admitting to what he did to to possibly have started some of this. But all he can do is apply that to his next relationship and not do those things and move on. Cheating one time is one thing but cheating multiple times is on a whole other level.And Dr.Delony is right staying in a relationship like this does not help the kids it hurts the children so much more than we all know. I know this because I was one of those children.

[@andysommerlot5123]

I agree with everything you say, except that "Cheating one time is one thing"...??? So, what is that thing??? No. It isn't. Don't sit there and try to give allowances for breaking trust. There isn't justification for it.

[@Originalman144]

Why do you say he deserves to be with a good woman? He might deserve what he is currently getting.

[@truckingwithtobee]

@@andysommerlot5123 Try being married for 30 years. Since I was 16 y/o. Two children. A home. Money. It’s NOT that easy to walk away. Until you e been through it. Be quiet. I thought exactly like you. Then it happened to me.

[@zone453]

@@truckingwithtobee So you stayed in a marriage where your wife cheated?

[@onsetaugust]

@@truckingwithtobee I have too much self respect to stay with a cheater.

[@TheAck201]

How did this turn on the husband 😂😂😂😂

[@multimeter2859]

From the streets she came....to the streets she shall return.

[@MeloFloww]

What the eff john? Their marriage is over.

[@emmaandgeorgie2006]

If we're a man John would be telling her to run and take everything.

[@hannahalexie5158]

Yikes, she has some demons. For Paul, a marriage only works when BOTH individuals grow up and work for it. Sounds like you are but she isn't.

[@Brandiisbeloved]

She needs Jesus. Straight nasty to keep sleeping around

[@theforeignerinamerica1817]

Yes it is over. Respect is #1 in a marriage. When one person stops respecting the other, the marriage is over. Cheating is a form of disrespect. Good video!

[@Traumatised311]

Like men have been disrespectful towards their wives for one thousand years or more Now one woman cheats n u say all women cheat

[@katrinaisalwayscorrect]

I agree, emotional relationships, pornography, innapropriate opposite sex friendships, etc... all put downs to your partner and the love they have for you. Me. And women need to demand more from ourselves and who we pick as a partner. No one is perfect, but adultery is the ultimate disrespect.

[@crazeekids9744]

When do you call it enough? The first time someone cheats is when you call it enough.

[@AT-cy9uh]

Hearing this makes me so happy I broke up with my ex. This poor guy didn’t see the signs but I’m glad I did. Stay strong brother. You deserve better. You deserve love and loyalty. Be single, work on yourself for a few years and learn to love yourself.

[@fars7463]

Agree 1000 %🙏🙏

[@rosarioalvarez4020]

For sure

[@mikedoyle5901]

Call it enough. You described a selfish women that doesn’t love you!!!!

[@VivPhotography]

It sounds like he wants out, he's just too afraid to make the move. He's afraid of all the changes and disruptions it will cause in his life and how it will affect the kids. He sounds like a great guy, and I hope he finds the strength he needs to do what we all know he should do.

[@Wyo2Wis]

Simping is heavy here.

[@ejbatu]

I was thinking about the same thing... A Woman cheating is different than a man exercising his opinions.

[@knowthyself8233]

To heavy

[@ianforsythe3878]

Dr Delony's ability to look at things from an objective standpoint, be patient, and compassionate is Godly. That kind of practicality is inspiring to say the least. You're a good man, Johnny D!

[@ThatFlippingFamily]

This just makes me sick to my stomach, 🤦🏼‍♂️ clearly she is just fine lying to you. You deserve better.

[@chrishansen3514]

She's for the streets bro

[@kamarwashington]

It’s always harder when kids are involved. Poor guy.

[@jengable4888]

I would agree !

[@seanporter6431]

Weak man

[@carsonsmith8607]

It's not. If there's infidelity, divorce should be the next immediate step.

[@same.7939]

Wait, did I catch this correctly - wife cheats on him and John tells him to ask the wife to forgive him. What?! These Ramsey personalities are always so soft-pedaling when a female is the culprit. Everytime.

[@TheAck201]

Welcome to the simp Ramsey show

[@jaylove3487]

💯 I don’t recall him ever having asked a female how she contributed to her husband cheating

[@GabrielMartinez-sd8pc]

Under no circumstance, if a person has an affair, do you go blame yourself. Do not even ask or consider it’s your fault. This is bad advice. My ex-wife cheated on me and I was told to do this and it made me more depressive, sad, and shameful. It took a wise man to tell me it’s not my fault and from then I filed and left. It is ALWAYS the other persons fault.

[@djpuplex]

Men stay single. Love how it's still blamed on him.

[@apiscold]

That’s what society pushes. Even if it’s the woman’s fault completely somehow it’s still a mans fault to

[@sakurisake4201]

He should work on the divorce papers asap.

[@ZoomerAdvice]

I love how John managed to turn this call around on the guy and make him confess his sins of "pushing her away" and "going out with his friends." I'm sure he would have questioned a woman who called in about her unfaithful husband in the same way.

[@OliveOyl12590]

But he did nothing to dealing with his drinking.

[@jonathanduran3814]

Bruh it’s insane! Johns such a hypocrite.

[@johnsmith-kt7ef]

This is why they should have never gotten back together. It’s almost impossible to open up to that person again, especially if you are a closed off person to begin with.

[@ineedhoez]

@@jonathanduran3814 cuz he understands relationships. Especially, when the person wants to stay. His job is to help them rebuild the relationship.

[@katrinaisalwayscorrect]

I have seen him grill women also.. lots of the callers are garbage humans or married to garbage humans. Acceptance of abuse and abuse are both bad, there is usually underlying reasons why people don't leave crappy relationships, it's important to get to the bottom of it.

[@savvmoreland3595]

I want happiness for this man, cuz he has been miserable for a long time. You can tell he allowed this women to break him.

[@LRS11B]

She never considered herself married. Cheating women maintain a single's mindset.

[@n3rdpl0w]

No simping bro! LEAVE HER!!!!!!!! Also KZbin “affair recovery”

[@Lianne459]

She isn’t happy with him but seems she never told him and he can’t take the hint. It would be more humane of her to just leave him already.

[@aliolivi]

BINGO

[@budgiebirdy]

HE should leave HER. He deserves better.

[@aliolivi]

@@budgiebirdy But she's clearly holding the reins, so she needs to let go.

[@budgiebirdy]

@@aliolivi Nobody holds the reins in a relationship when deciding whether to end it or not. It takes both individuals to make the relationship work. If either individual doesn't make it work, it's over. He is just as responsible for making or breaking the relationship as she is.

[@aliolivi]

@@budgiebirdy Ideally, yes. This isn't ideal.

[@amyismail8604]

This is heartbreaking 💔. The amount of disrespect this woman has towards her husband. You can tell she has broken this man’s spirit. I wish you the best Paul. Time to find your dignity and move on. ❤

[@fightsportspace7327]

Dr John never has this energy for Women who call in about their unfaithful boyfriends/husbands. It only took five minutes and he’s inserted that the man made his wife cheat by making her feel unsafe. Absolutely ridiculous

[@weepingangel6805]

I’ve noticed this too. He’s not a man’s man he’s disloyal.

[@willyfisterbottom6246]

Been threw the same exact thing. It’ll destroy a man.

[@burntblonde2925]

This is not all on him, she cheated multiple times. There is nothing to save.

[@shadowofanubis6669]

Like most men, he's probably terrified of dating in this dating market. It's so wild that you'd consider keeping a partner who's been cheating on you repeatedly.

[@richthepup]

He kicks himself everyday for not walking away after the first divorce not 2 years into this marriage. Cause I agree with his hesitancy now that he has kids.

[@tigerak02]

Simpin' ain't easy

[@willak79bud90]

It was over the first time.

[@redguitar69]

I forgave my wife 2 times the third time I could not! Leaving was the best thing I ever could have done but the damage to my body can't be undone but I saved my life, remarried and I am so fulfilled in a healthy loving marriage..... Bro don't for your children YOU ARE SHOWING YOUR CHILDREN AN IMITATION OF WHAT LOVE AND MARRIAGE SHOULD BE.... SO GO AND SHOW THEM THE REAL THING.

[@darrylharden203]

Curious. What did you mean by damage to your body?

[@standground8284]

*Cheaters are all the same regardless of gender. A cheater does not care about you, your thoughts, opinions, ideas or feelings regarding their conscious decisions to betray you. Cheaters already know that their decision to cheat could ruin the relationship and they concluded that it was totally worth risking losing the relationship. Cheaters are cowards, sneaking around living a lie, pretending to be someone else (regardless of gender).* *Cheaters should not seek monogamous relationships but we all know honesty is not a cheater’s strong suit. Seek to forgive them and no longer remain with them. Ultimately a cheater should be thankful that you’re simply letting the other person have them instead of being that whiny confrontational “why me?” person or someone who’s lame enough to actually fight with or to remain with an admitted cheater. Cheaters only thrive because the consequences of them cheating aren’t detrimental enough for people to fear being a cheater.*

[@adrianjeffrey2897]

My friend wrecked his new car then he got it repaired by the auto body shop. then I noticed it was gone, he had sold it. I asked him what happened to it he said he sold it. Said it just didn't drive the same. That's kind of like a relationship that loses trust. You know how it once drove and even though on the outside it looks like it's been fully prepared on the inside you know that it just doesn't drive the same. There's nothing wrong with wanting a relationship or vehicle that drives like new that hasn't been wrecked by trust

[@jarey9222]

Cheat once and I’m gone I don’t care how long I’ve loved her for that’s something I cannot tolerate

[@ropete33]

She's checked out. Went down to the front desk with her bags, turned in the room key, and paid for any incidentals. Don't stay for the kids, it's worse for them if you do you're essentially telling them cheating is acceptable behavior.

[@theshunnedBandersnatch]

I really hope that Paul decides to move on. He and his kids deserve that. I hope he calls with an update in a few months.

[@naraendrareddy273]

It's hard for men to find a new partner.

[@sangaryamara5487]

Did he just said.. He want to get his marriage back on track.. When was his marriage on track..

[@AntiquatedApe]

Stop telling people to look at themselves for the actions others took. That is really bad advice that just leads to people blaming themselves for their spouses cheating on them. It's nobody's fault but the infidel.

[@jvilla2294]

He should’ve left her after the first time

[@claudemartelly7421]

When you stay in a relationship after your wife cheats is the ultimate simp move. I understand you have kids, but your life is not over man. It’s not worth it living a horrible life just because you have kids. That’s not what having kids mean. You have to leave your wife so therefore you can have mental peace. Your kids will understand and they will have there own life to live. Everybody has one life to live and make sure you live it to the fullest!

[@haileeroxana]

Yet when husbands cheat on their wife it’s expected for her to forgive him

[@GabrielMartinez-sd8pc]

@@haileeroxana it’s actually not.

[@Brandiisbeloved]

@@haileeroxana right women have to tolerate it but men don’t

[@cpeacenlove]

I love this. Men value themselves and won't tolerate disrespect. I wish women loved themselves enough to know this as well.

[@Raina430]

He said he trusts her. But then says he still has doubt. So he doesn’t trust her because she’s broken the trust. That’s why it’s good to talk to a therapist like John! You get clarity about what you truly feel. ❤❤❤❤

[@Chris-Devine]

This hits really close to my heart. Same boat, so hard to give up on someone and to fight for yourself again. Owning your own faults is one thing but taking all of the blame for her actions is crazy. Hardest worst thing I've ever been though. I will always be the constant parent in my kids life. Fighting for myself is hard but its also not allowing me to be a door mat provider for a selfish women anymore.

[@knowthyself8233]

This is sad man. You need to respect yourself bro. Leave her. Be a father to your kids. She do not respect you. Forget about her, about that marriage. Make peace with yourself and move on.

[@jasminebaby3375]

I’m totally up to giving a second chance but cheating on you on multiple times is absolutely are NO NO!!

[@calidreams5379]

Both her and the brother, drop them, period. The brother is even worse, he’s family, someone he was supposed to love and trust. Absolutely disgusting.

[@JustinCase780]

Sadly it sounds as if the ship already sailed on this relationship. He needs self love and independence. Hard for the horse to run again after a leg has been broken. He sounds like the kind of guy that plenty of women would love to date and his past will only make him a much better partner when he is ready. And, if you chose to move on it's not a failure.

[@aliolivi]

He's incredibly passive. She clearly doesn't respect him, and after being accepted back over and over again why would she? They need to separate ASAP so their kids don't absorb anymore of this. How terrible.

[@COINsimp2024]

You tried, let her go.

[@el676]

Staying with someone after they cheat one time is saying to yourself: “I hate you”. Love yourself man, at least respect yourself enough to walk.

[@adrianjeffrey2897]

There in an open marriage

[@cpeacenlove]

There's a loooottt of people who hate themselves then...

[@blondegiraffe2023]

Depends on the heart of someone after they cheat. It's possible to repent, to repair and to build something else together if both are willing. Other factors to consider are loving your family, loving the other person, being committed... it's not always about someones own self.

[@RobRikerTechChannel]

Handled completely wrong. Dude, you gaslit him. She cheated on him several times. I'm all for forgiving myself for allowing that to happen, so that I can move on, but having a serious conversation with her is pointless. She doesn't respect him, if she did, she wouldn't be having sex with other men as a married woman. Sounds like she doesn't want to lose the security of the relationship, but the moment Chad or Tyrone give her tingles, she's on her back with her panties around her ankles and ankles near her ears. She's not wife material. He needs to get out. The vision of marriage the kids will have is this, I should know, I saw it first hand. Trying to keep a man with his cheating wife is making him more beta than he already is. He needs to get self respect, self esteem and self worth, without them, no woman will see any value. Move on dude, she's not worth any effort. Get a divorce, figure out custody and child support, pay the alimony have to, but while your doing all of the BS, she's gone for your life as a partner and wife. Be single for a while, get a hobby, get into the gym, make yourself feel good. She has made her bed, now she can lay in it. If my wife did 1% of the BS yours did, she'd be a single mom real quick.

[@enaibee1661]

Before it start the video, the marriage is over if you want it to

[@kennethfluker3777]

I love johns advice but the bias against men is just crazy. I just watched a video of a woman calling about her husband cheating in a similar fashion and it’s always the mans fault, there’s never any question on if the woman pushes her husband away and it’s always just leave the guy.

[@ekaski1]

Huh? He wasn't on this woman's side and he certainly didn't support staying with her.

[@AA-wy3wb]

When a woman cheats she’s always justified. Hubby pushed her away or he ignored her. Etc. When a man cheats he’s a son of a beach! Definitely a double standard! 😡

[@fightsportspace7327]

@@ekaski1 No one said he was on the woman’s side. But within 5 minutes Dr John victim blames by assuming the wife cheated because he pushed her away or that he made her feel unsafe. We never see this energy when a woman calls in about a cheating husband or Boyfriend. We love to absolve women of accountability, even if it’s just a grain of it.

[@fightsportspace7327]

@@ekaski1 And then he tells the victim to ask his cheating wife for forgiveness. Pathetic

[@LalienX]

She's for the streets

[@OliveOyl12590]

And he's a candidate for AA and liver cancer.

[@freebein]

You can't edit someone's character. And you can't expect someone to fix themselves when all they've shown is the same thing year after year. Stop doing this to yourself man.

[@kalilikescheese]

Sometimes you gotta know when to love yourself. RUN PAUL RUNNNNNNNN

[@David-wo9un]

They were divorced, he was out; why in the world did he go back? Let the ex-coworker have her. My money says she will continue to cheat because she knows you will put up with it.

[@humansvd3269]

He didn't think he could do better.

[@JohnSmith-cb5nk]

Sadly women wrote the book on shenanigans… men think they run that arena and they will never compare to what a women can and will get away with .. stay strong sir god bless

[@messyties]

When she cheated once it was already over

[@Raina430]

I love John. He’s so kind and supportive to everyone. ❤❤❤

[@two-wheels7397]

Powerful episode! Helped me understand some things about me.

[@braziliannigga]

Bro is a walking doormat

[@beinghonest9433]

most men believe in the lie of "love".

[@Shay-yg7nm]

Its better to be single and have your self respect then in a relationship and have no self worth.

[@ryankelly8077]

John brought up a few good point, but he steered the conversation so inefficiently & ineffectively

[@chocolatte8301]

Time to go, she likely will not change and if she does it will be for the short term only. You have two red flags 🚩 of why you should leave but all go back to the broad topic of mistrust. Whether it be financial mistrust or infidelity, she can't be trusted and she will likely continue to hurt you.

[@aliolivi]

I know this will sound terrible but a financial betrayal to me is almost worse than a physical betrayal. After how hard I've worked, to have a spouse potentially wreck through money and make my access to money challenging in the future would give me the worst anxiety.

[@Melissa.712]

@@aliolivi women are professionals when it comes to doing that, more than men are.

[@aliolivi]

@@Melissa.712 My opinion isn't gendered.

[@Melissa.712]

@@aliolivi going off what's in the video.

[@anthonywebster8638]

It's always over if she cheats.

[@theresidentteacher2438]

How did I fing this channel?!?! SUBSCRIBED BIG TIME!!!!

[@sds6303]

She is clearly narcissistic and needs excessive amounts of validation from others. It’s not the husband’s fault at all for her decision to cheat

[@Maremare680]

Hahahah, I’m a macho man with the horns of a yak😂

[@Drifter-tw4kt]

Lol..... he's delusional if he thinks he's macho. Lmao

[@earth20331]

Lol no way I’m getting married.

[@conorpitterl5260]

I dated someone from 19-25 6 years of dating and constant cheating. What I learned from this early mistake in my life was that people can change, but their traits don't. I am so grateful to have gained this wisdom at 25 years old. I worked in beverage distribution in Milwaukee Wi at that time and Big Ray in the warehouse taught me these golden words, "can't turn no Ho into no housewife".

[@vjs4539]

If you are with a person who has committed adultery, you commit adultery every time you're with them.

[@sandyshealingjourney]

Yeah but they also tell you if you divorce you are living in adultery. So if you are basing the decision on Christian standards, either way you are effed.

[@vjs4539]

@@sandyshealingjourney haha 😄 I guess you're right. But what I'm saying is it's actually wrong to stay with a person who cheated on you. If people looked at it that way, they wouldn't be trapped in these awful relationships.

[@sandyshealingjourney]

@@vjs4539 yeah, I agree.

[@302ec]

Throw the whole wife away. 😀

[@whiskersredwood7903]

These videos are great for single people who are wishing desperately to be married.

[@texan903]

He's better get his affairs in order for when she cheats on him again. The next time he'll be more deeply invested financially and worse off than he is now, if he waits to leave.

[@Mysterious_Moon]

Ya'll don't argue anymore because you're both indifferent. It's far, far over.

[@knowthyself8233]

Voilà

[@crzyruskie86]

I'm so glad he called. It hit hard for me.

[@brookesmith1550]

John you are not a macho guy at all! I would say more of a dorky guy!! 😂🤣😂

[@joepatrick3092]

😂 😂 😂 😂 The dude is a certified lover boy( simp).

[@Melissa.712]

😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@theresidentteacher2438]

Right now I'm journaling. He's right. It's hard as a guy, BUT it's been REALLY GOOD FOR ME. It's not the first time I've done it, but I NEED to do it MORE. It is VERY relieving, and allows you to check progress and GROW.

[@BlkFrieza]

In the name of the great Wayne " If she cheats, it's over. No exceptions."

[@lilsamantha1]

This actually made me cry....paul sounds very very sad.

[@richthepup]

Caller: I’ve been cheated on several times John: You need to ask your wife for forgiveness 🤨🙄 can’t make this mess up

[@humansvd3269]

Blue pilled feggorty