Wife Cheated With Her Gym Trainer, Demanded Half of Everything in Our Divorce. But She Didn't...

[@Rj-ij6ko]

I will NEVER understand how the law gives a spouse half of all the assets when there’s proof of infidelity. It’s ridiculous

[@SupaSnupak00pa]

Well you can thank no fault divorce for that. Initially when everything was at fault then the party who committed adultery was the one to lose out. In the case of women this meant being out on the streets with nothing. But no fault’s premise was to first split all marital assets evenly, then make adjustments. It was a means to speed up the divorce process but you can see how that turned out

[@sydverstappen]

my entire country is a no fault divorce, its either not contested or contested

[@andrewdavis7620]

Thank liberals for that one

[@DreamyBlox0812]

I get where you're coming from-it does seem unfair when infidelity is involved. The law often tries to balance things out, but it can feel like it doesn’t always account for the emotional side of things.

[@TaleToast]

Agreed, it’s crazy how someone can get half even with proof of cheating!

[@gorenchick]

He pulled the same trick as that famous soccer player. He put everything in his mom's name and his wife didn't get squat in their divorce. Good move dude.

[@justinjohnson9617]

Tom Brady did the same thing and it paid off too.

[@alwinsanthosh6878]

Achraf hakimi's mom gon save millions of men now

[@a.m.5973]

​​@@justinjohnson9617 Gisele was worth about 2x Tom Brady. She has always made more money. And that asset split thing you mentioned was a unsubstantiated rumor, but her and his net worth isn't. And they coparent amicably, like one big weird happy family; hard to do that when there are sharks for lawyers swimming around. Her fame is international. His fame, well I read the headlines where it said "Gisele's husband won the championship for an American sport." American football isn't Football (soccer) that is known throughout the world. Tom Brady isn't a Lionel Messi, Christiano Ronaldo, nor even someone like Michael Jordan and Kobe Bryant as basketball is also an international sport, played in the summer olympics too.

[@hereticalheretic5569]

@@a.m.5973she’s not gonna f you bro

[@eyesofnight]

And women called her anti woman for helping her son

[@ReaIHuman]

This guy's dad deserves all the love and admiration for protecting his son.

[@levimartireese5221]

you seem like a nice real human you know?

[@Ez.Modeletsgo]

I don’t really have faith in marriage anymore but if I’ll ever get married I’ll do exactly what OP did

[@hexmaniacciaran]

get those prenups written

[@Kenz-f6f]

​@@hexmaniacciaran exactly👍

[@oh033]

@@hexmaniacciaranThey get thrown out. Especially if the spouse claims that they signed it under duress

[@Scorpion-2010]

Same, and I hope I'll never marry anyone in my life.

[@Xrk-krx]

For me marriage is just a way to be a father

[@Rinefi]

So Reddit. aita for guarding my own money, from my cheating wife?... like, what?

[@albertszilveszter6718]

White knights and feminists would say he is, and she deserves 80%, or at least 50%

[@CandiiANDToastii]

Believe it or not, but people in real life are a lot more delusional than redditors..- it’s unbelievable that some people would call him an asshole in this situation

[@jeromejomon9311]

There is a subreddit dedicated to mocking these types of posts called r/amitheangel

[@CTE-6000EagleVeryHeavyFighter]

Entirety of reddit and 97% of the human population is made up of simps. It is unreasonable to expect anything else.

[@GrandSupremeDaddyo]

AITA, like most other things on the internet, is just there for people to validate themselves.

[@thousandyardgavri2785]

She's been played😂😂😂... Imagine being mad that the person you're scamming refuses to get scammed??

[@extended_e]

It is normal behaviour for scammers and thieves, I have dealt with both and they most of time behave like that. It is sort of self protection to distance them from evil they are doing and not psychologically collapse

[@sthrcnx]

Damn, Hakimi the story looking great. I love this kind of story. The OP isn't a doormat. And the villain got their juicy karma.

[@SillyBanjo]

Well its fake as shit so it should look great

[@mikewall8798]

@@SillyBanjo this is actually based on Tom Brady cause this is legit how his divorce went down

[@SillyBanjo]

@@mikewall8798 citation needed then.

[@rebelcobra5099]

This story is fake

[@TaleToast]

Hakimi’s move was legendary! Love seeing a story where the bad guy gets what’s coming to them.

[@DraxXThanos]

at least no wacky background story about how they met, just straight to the point.

[@DOG-mm3sg]

FR!!!!!!!

[@rdcdragonar4726]

Yup I hate when they do that it's not necessary and if it is necessary bullet point it. Also I find it funny how when they make up a story they don't bother checking details such as there is no jury during divorces.

[@Sagasofbetrayal]

Yeah, it’s refreshing to get straight to the point without too much unnecessary backstory!

[@Steve_Raglan_aka_William_Afton]

OP's ex-wife doesn't deserve anything at all.

[@Ez.Modeletsgo]

Yeah ofc but the justice system is corrupted, many times the women can just lie and win without showing evidence, they’re required to present evidence only when the accusations are too serious like murder, a man on the other hand have to present evidence all the time, it’s not fair but at least more and more courts are taking it to account, more and more women are being exposed as liars and it probably wouldn’t take long before they have to bring evidence to support their accusations, but it’s sad that women like these making the lives of true victims both men and women hard

[@SnowyWolborg]

The way that she claims she quit her career in order to support his is such a prepared response. I guarantee she had been waiting to pull that one out when the eventual topic of divorce came up.

[@lk66kiflebon]

Its a false story lmao, there is not jury for a divorce its not penal

[@TaleToast]

100% agree, she didn’t deserve anything after what she did.

[@Sagasofbetrayal]

Agreed, she walked away with exactly what she deserved-nothing.

[@AmazonianMorgan]

As an accountant, hiding assets is nothing new. He knew once he started making money with no prenup everything was going to be split. Now he will have to pay an unnecessary inheritance tax. Should have put it in a trust.

[@slimslendy2591]

Maybe, but it's still better than losing half of everything

[@lk66kiflebon]

Its anyway a false story, there is not jury for a divorce its not penal

[@TelManothHexperax]

​@@lk66kiflebon yeah like a jury , witness ... for a 2 years divorce without kids ? come on

[@Happypowerup]

I heard in some stories, you could lose the trust

[@DreamyBlox0812]

You make a solid point about trusts and inheritance tax. It’s true that hiding assets can be a common tactic, but in this case, it looks like the proactive approach of putting assets in a parent’s name was a smart move. While trusts could offer additional benefits, OP’s dad’s foresight definitely saved the day here

[@Yazevski]

"I'm not leaving her with nothing, she's the one leaving me." lol

[@The4Tifier]

It should honestly be a law that a cheating spouse isn’t entitled to the other’s marital assets, and must pay all legal fees in divorce court.

[@Cywren]

im pretty sure there is no jury for divorce

[@MizumD]

You are correct.

[@SillyBanjo]

@MizumD in very very specific situations. This isn't one of them

[@reivenne]

Yup, its incredibly rare. Fake story is fake, as always.

[@surfninjafishing8297]

​@@reivenneAI voice AI STORY

[@JimboTheCrackSmoka]

Dad will always protect his child, whether with his hands or his brain

[@GenGamesUniverse]

She is a grade a narcissist.

[@DreamyBlox0812]

It’s impressive how OP managed to stay calm and strategic despite everything. Sometimes, the best revenge is living well and making sure that integrity and smart planning win out in the end. Glad to see justice served and a fresh start for OP

[@PoipoleEntertainment1987]

OP should have filed for a restraining order against Kathy after the divorce and should have used her victim card against her

[@tejuscoulagi9427]

Best way to protect finances? DON'T GET MARRIED! 😂

[@asobacleanenergy]

Marriage is the best tool for protecting assets across multiple generations. The issue isn’t marriage, the issue is the development of political ideologies that support and enable treating spouses like disposable underwear in pursuit of hedonism. Our culture in general has a massive accountability problem, and accountability is one of the core traits required for successful marriage.

[@Bickdickrandy]

@@asobacleanenergyjust for women though. When a man does something wrong he is the devil himself but when a woman does the exact same things it’s “just a mistake”.

[@tejuscoulagi9427]

@@asobacleanenergy yep laws in divorce courts need to change otherwise more dudes are gonna go MGTOW

[@JojoReference-jr2007]

​@@asobacleanenergy discrimination against men in all areas of laws is what's wrong

[@hugosinclair6798]

putting everything in your dad's name is just as much a legal loophole as putting everything you own in your dead mother's maiden name, pure genius XD

[@Demonoicgamer666]

If she requests to stop working as soon as the marriage begins I think that’s a massive red flag. Honestly op is lucky his father is savy about how bias the law is otherwise op could have lost everything.

[@beverlyarcher546]

Red flag about moms parents? Demanding mom move back closer to them dads dad said are you sure you want to do this? This guy was smart he knew what moms parents were like the old hag was controlling over mom and dad and us kids to the point it was brainwashing and abuse meanwhile moms siblings and cousin that grandparents had guardianship of were the stupid evil golden children mom had to be over at that house when she wasn't working we had to go help when we weren't in school and parents go out EVEN as adults the hag wanted us to go over there she wanted mom to drop me off when mom went to the store about 5-7 minutes away the hag literally was diagonal to us lets just say left up to me when she got cancer I would have dumped her in a nursing home WHERE SHE BELONGED theres more to the story but that's to long oh and the Christian crap

[@the83rdtrombonist60]

OPs father is a freaking genius!

[@catswolo421]

Bro did the hakimi

[@Buldogg345]

Exactly what I was thinking xD

[@MiaShadowStorm]

OPs dad is a certified GOAT.

[@TokPkjNa]

If I was the father… I would be internally laughing throughout the whole ordeal

[@jacobmiller9145]

They don't have kids no one sacrificed nothing she just cleaned up her own messed all day and lived for free

[@AngelAmyJ]

There's a jury in a divorce case??? 😆

[@jaynoir8937]

Since when does divorce court have a jury?

[@rainerfantasie9573]

They don't. Just like 75% of the great dramatic AITA stories are made up.

[@Megagatlingpeareal]

I like cheese

[@SteveJones313]

So profound.

[@GromDarkwater]

What kind?

[@richman-d8d]

i fuck cheese

[@Alex_The_Barbearian]

I like cheese too

[@thefiretailedweasel6206]

Same omg

[@The4Tifier]

The fact that she left her job immediately after getting married, especially when she wasn’t pregnant, meant that she likely had this planned from the start. Because she knew he’d be entitled to half of whatever she owned from the divorce as well, so having no active income after the marriage meant that she would have no marital assets to share with him. She planned to use him financially and get out when the time was right from the start. Because if she didn’t have that plan, why would she so willingly allow her phone with her cheating partner’s number on it to be out and visible right where he’d see it?

[@MrsEpps-hi2nk]

Bro she tries to ruin his repution just because she can’t claim anything from him? Grow up💀💀💀

[@williamj.dovejr.8613]

You only have to play out the clock and wait until she has exhausted all of her financial resources, she can't afford to pay her attorneys, and she can barely make ends meet.. exhausted, broke, and broken...then... strike.

[@xSonamy]

W Op W dad W lawyer W friends and coworkers who believe him W judge! ❤

[@PaNiC_RR]

Never think emotionally when it comes to money. W dad, either he is generally a genius or he saw what happens in a rough divorce

[@anthonyparisella7224]

This happened to my cousin. He married a chilean immigrant. Within a year she was cheating and wanted a divorce. Unlucky for her the house was in his dad's name so she got absolutely nothing. She went from a lavish life back to struggle street

[@jones4150]

304s staying 304s

[@caleclown8122]

I feel like deep down op's dad knew Katie was for the street

[@snidecommenter7117]

Maybe he had experience from his own family. Mother? Sisters?

[@pirlie]

Never marry someone without talking about all money related stuff, a prenup contract, both having their own bank accounts besides the shared one, and an agreement for paying the stay-at-home partner caring for household and/or children a salary and pension savings! So important for every gender! I also dont think the guy in this story is only a victim. I bet he did his fair share for her not being in love with him anymore. He is malicious to not be open about assets and money. She was naive.

[@fallters]

She’s gonna have to hold that L

[@cedricl.marquard6273]

>Cheats >Requests divorce >Accuses partner of leaving Jup sounds about right.....

[@dvdvideo1234]

2:13 well women just being women again

[@DeMarcusFountain-sv6fi]

Father knows best. He protected his son like the best dad's do

[@MrJaggy123]

So to be clear.. a jury trial.. for a divorce case.. and the judge is the one who decided the verdict, so the jury was.. ornamental? An entertaining story, but with holes.

[@cropduster123]

The judge is the 13 juror. They can and have overridden the jury.

[@fearedjames]

​@@cropduster123Yeah but there wouldnt be a jury is the issue. Story is pretty clearly fake

[@xyzanonymous9971]

File a defamation against her. Also claim compensation for legal expenses.

[@jones4150]

Sounds like a lot of money for mid level accountant.

[@xyzanonymous9971]

@@jones4150 Yeah but I don't think he us living in a big city like NY, LA. Or some of his money must be inherited.

[@Gnerko123]

If the wife didn’t cheat, but just wanted to divorce because the marriage didn’t work for her anymore, would we still side with OP? I wonder.

[@johnwilson5743]

If they don't have children then why is she a stay-at-home wife? Why? What the hell does she do all day while her husband is working? Is she a ladies-who-lunch type? No wonder she has time to have an affair. Five years of doing NOTHING. The husband was a total wimp for allowing her to manipulate him like this. She could have been working and building funds for retirement... or for wonderful holidays/vacations each year. Yes, I know some teenage moron who has no understanding of the Law, probably wrote this story in creative writing class. If the House was technically owned by the guy's father, then they are tenants and must be paying "Rent". Plus, any Investments and Savings would have been funded from the marital money (his income) so even if the Bank accounts were in his father's name (which is obviously ridiculous), the funds were sourced from marital income and she owns half of it. It's the same as if he was ending money off to an offshore account or to a Trust. It's still marital income that is funding it, so she gets half. Dumbo the husband, being an accountant, would know all this.

[@Sagasofbetrayal]

Man, I can't believe she thought she could get half of everything! The dad’s plan to keep assets in his name was genius!

[@justasnowman5791]

All he had to do was show proof of her infidelity. The divorce will be her fault and she would get nothing. Y’all be doing the absolute most for something so simple.

[@TheKadanz]

If only she would've fought as hard for her marriage as she did for her 'big divorce payday'.

[@MrTeodoro]

It is so good when justice is served!

[@Photon_Collector]

The jury? For a civil case?

[@SpookyGhostHippy]

I love when these entitled cheaters get nothing! Ha

[@williamj.dovejr.8613]

The soccer player and Tom Brady did the exact same thing and won ! Every man should do this.

[@TheCodeHunter]

big shoutout to the father for protecting his son from the worst

[@stephilove6]

Ngl, I thought that she was gonna try and jump either OP or the judge after being (rightfully) told off

[@Balgees24]

Imagine cheating on your husband and expect to get half what he owns.

[@jamaalrichardson4966]

Imagine being like "Man I'm so conflicted. I loved this person who so very obviously hated me enough to not only betray my trust but also, in the midst of the betrayal, demand I give her half my stuff." Like, bro...what? FTB both now and forevermore.

[@joannacarpenter6438]

Dad didn't have any faith at all in his sons abilities to make personal and financial decisions. He wasn't even mature enough to disagree with his father.

[@mtesar8379]

See the thing is people keep telling me these are fake but i dont care at all

[@captaincold5481]

Same idc care if they fake there funny to listen too

[@tarikchadili9696]

This dad is a genius

[@Katlick]

They definitely don't have juries for divorce Court 😂 But otherwise good juicy story with good details

[@__.AV.__]

It's not a bad idea to protect your finances like that. But after listening to reddit stories like this for a while, I had a constant fear of hearing: "And then my Dad gambled away my house." or something like that... Thank god that wasn't the case, because in this story the Dad is the mvp!

[@THSieben]

"Jury" in a divorce court

[@Kinsfire]

Because those courts assume that there was a reason for the cheating based on the other partner. "They wouldn't have cheated if STBX didn't give them a reason." Also, those laws tend to be passed by the very people who are cheating on their spouses because they can, and want to end up taking everything that they can from them.

[@supermanic3320]

Kathy: I want half of everything and I know I'll get it Also Kathy: the system is unfair

[@yourlocalkpopfan_0]

If you catch your partner cheating,do the following steps.(i watched a lot of these and this is what you should do. 1.screenshot all the texts and airdrop it to your phone 2.get a lawyer(a good one) 3.act like nothing happened and continue on with your day 4.(do this if the house isn’t yours)pack your stuff and move to parents or friends house 5.let your lawyer handle the divorce With the proof you have,you’d probably win the case btw voice record every time that your partner calls you,and get a restraining order if they get physically(record how are they being physically) (Btw I’m only a teen so i don’t know much in divorces)

[@9ine-fd6zc]

When it started with, "I am 35 male an accountant" I knew things arent going to go well for her

[@thecursed01]

there is no jury in a civil case

[@kevinquigley8656]

The forensic accountant wasn’t able to see regular payments going into his dad’s accounts for years? How stupid do they think we are lol

[@spidermangoblin4411]

Bro your dad is a seer he knows everything of you, ps I am happy for you congratulations 🥳

[@davidstroud185]

I love the half of zero equals zero stories.

[@The1980Philip]

The father must have known his son very well. The son had probably been a mild mannered doormat his entire life, and the father knew that would eventually turn off any woman the son ended up with.

[@magicalgirl867]

Sue her now for defamation.

[@Scrantonicity2]

Outstanding move king, out effin standing 👏👏👏, the system really is broken it really needs to do more in protecting the betrayed but be fair to both sides, remember people prenups are key, even if you don’t have much.

[@rebelcobra5099]

This woulnt actually work

[@everyonethinksyoureadeathm5773]

The worst thing to happen to society was no fault divorce. If no fault is going to stay, then an addenem of proving fault should be allowed. Meaning if the husband or wife can prove their spouse was cheating it goes into at fault with no exception.

[@Goldie789]

The second this OP said there was a jury in the courtroom, I was like... 😳🤔🙄😬 That sounds really suspicious.

[@nextgenstatus]

He didn't think much of a "I can't wait to see you, babe" text on his wife's phone from another man? Tf? 😂

[@Tamara_Middleton]

I mean, Cathy was right about OP. He was hiding his money ….

[@cammorgan6996]

2 steps ahead. I am always 2 steps ahead

[@jordanforsha4306]

I wonder why a slander case was never brought up. Especially with her showing up at his job, baseless accusations and falsities can impact his work performance and future opportunities. I feel like he could have made an additional case to sue her for slander, throwing her further into the financial downward spiral provided he has the money to sue

[@requiem4391]

Dude asked “Am I the asshole?” in a situation where HE got cheated on…

[@blainepearson522]

Protect yourselves Kings 🫡

[@BadDad420]

I would be careful of the validity of this story, there isn't a jury in divorce court

[@Clown_Pot]

Is that a W Father right there?

[@Notthechosen]

I am 100% doing what OP did with his dad if I ever get married

[@rebelcobra5099]

And you would be screwed - bc hiding assets in others names will get you into trouble

[@Muppetmonkee]

Yeah I'm 99% sure that this story is horse shit, because there's no way that putting it in his dad's name would be legal in most countries, especially any savings from when they were married. They didn't state how or when the house was purchased, so if they were married when they did, it's as much her property as his regardless of who's name it's in, and saying his dad was the owner is sketchy

[@ilovesports5468]

He better hope his daddy don’t keep all his money and house in his name

[@asobacleanenergy]

Yeah, that’s why you put the assets in your moms name instead

[@requiem4391]

Its so sad that he married and loved someone that instantly turned on him at the drop of a hat. The nerve of her to talk about “narcissistic partners” and “liars” when SHE cheated. Geeeesh.

[@deni140492deni]

Dad is the MVP.

[@iamnotapotato.5]

Pretty sure there’s no jury in divorce cases lmao

[@SRKStar]

That’s why you always get a prenup folks! 👋🏻

[@ronbutler3431]

There was a jury (very unusual in divorce cases) but the judge 'handed down the decision'? Ah, AI!

[@nicholasmunroe8989]

Damn this is the SECOND TIME I’ve heard Kathy being a cheater!

[@skystreem4860]

Bro pulled an Ashraf Hakimi (dad edition) 😭😭🤣🤣

[@Faygootfootlusta]

Dudes a god in my eyes, outplayed.. skill issue

[@TaleToast]

Wow, that moment when Cathy realized there wasn’t much in your name must have been priceless. Glad you were smart about protecting your assets!

[@robertlowrie8446]

"I was all set because I was hiding assets." "They kept accusing me of hiding assets!"

[@Nelex5000]

this is what happens when the tolerance period slips up and she starts cheating so much that she gets caught lol. only happens to oofy doofies, never chad

[@lexi1337-r6s]

A Jury in a divorce case. You are such a bad AI writer.

[@DarkEinherjar]

It is actually a thing in some states in the US.

[@elihallford8783]

Lexi, I understand. Trust me, I didn't know either until I found out Georgia is a state that actually has Jury in a divorce case

[@penguinZ85]

I know it’s not a real story, but I enjoy some entertaining fiction from time to time.

[@KingSosa-of5oe]

7:20 at that point if I was the ex husband… I’m gonna say “I agree with everything your saying and I’m fully on your side.. but unfortunately your making arguments that aren’t doing anything your still getting half of what I have there isn’t anymore to argue for so save your breath”

[@EarlyMourningg]

This has to be fake there’s no such thing as a jury in divorce court

[@travissatinsky4551]

And then they all clapped