Wife Reveals That She's Pregnant But I Know I’m Not The Father, Because I’m Sterile. So I Play Along

Wife Reveals That She's Pregnant But I Know I’m Not The Father, Because I’m Sterile. So I Play Along...
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[@johnbrill7909]

The best part is the father-in-law apologizing for the conduct of his daughter and being otherwise supportive.

[@Woobieeee]

The best part is the story is fake af

[@kyletheobald3952]

How anyone can possibly believe this story is real is beyond me.

[@greasycheese8095]

@@kyletheobald3952 why people like you think every story has to be real is beyond me

[@kyletheobald3952]

@@greasycheese8095 it's being presented as real, you absolute chungus.

[@greasycheese8095]

@@kyletheobald3952 oh yeah? Where'd they say that?

[@MrMK211516]

Mad respect for this man. He carried a revenge but also didn't stoop to their level when there was an innocent child.

[@Sgt_Sot]

Except that he did; Had he confronted his wife sooner the child wouldn't be brought into the world (I'd presume), so he's the reason this happened. Of course divorce would be better but to be fully vindictive he brought a life into this world that will suffer just to screw over his wife. But then again what do I know this story is fake anyway

[@MrMK211516]

@@Sgt_Sot everything with a grain of salt. Abortion? I'm not against people doing it, but I would NEVER consider it an option myself. The real dad is a loser and the mom is a loser. Actions have consequences. They deadbeat model can pay whatever little he has and the mom too.

[@aetius7139]

​@@Sgt_SotWell if he did that while she still pregnant. Thats even more make it look like a$$hole. He was patient enough to wait for the slut to birth ot first. At least he was being civil no drama, no shouting. He calmly said since the baby wasnt his and have safely born. He wanted a clean divorce. He even dont mind paying alimony that clearly the slut didnt deserve.

[@inminteaunuicopil]

@Sgt_Sot "He is the reason this happened" - sorry sir, but the reason this happened is because the woman fucked another man. I'm not sure if she'd be up for an abortion if he had confronted her sooner - as stupid as she sounds in this (probably fake) story, she may have continued with the pregnancy and still try to squish money out of ex husband's wallet. We're not certain if she would or wouldn't abort the child if he'd confronted her first, but we know for sure that she is at fault for fucking another man.

[@hamster6827]

​@@Sgt_Sot yes blame him for the wife cheating all she had to do was not cheat and the baby wouldn't have been there at all💀

[@jaspervermeer659]

The wife was mad at him for lying to her the whole time... while lying to him the whole time?

[@Random_Banshee]

yees

[@Papabear4564]

the shameless hypocrisy of women

[@CrimpyPlate]

Cheaters will perform serious mental gymnastics to make themselves out to be the victim

[@T3n50r]

@@CrimpyPlate 100% agreed. Also important to note that cheating usually doesn't just happen, it goes through stages of convincing oneself that what they're doing is ok as to not think of themselves as a bad person. Once the cheating is done they've basically fooled themselves into making themselves the good guy, and the other the villain. It takes a bit of realizing the situation, experiencing consequences and seeing themselves for what they are with time to understand they were the problem and not the other way around. Sometimes people like this just ain't able to do so either, but that's a whole other chapter of messed up. Also most likely isn't the first time she has cheated on someone even if it's the first time she's cheated on her husband. Like you say, people perform serious mental gymnastics like this to put themselves in a good light, or have "friends" that help them out with it by saying "you deserve this" or bullshit things like "your significant other can't satisfy you so it's ok to get it somewhere else" while communicating nothing or trying to better the situation at all. I have 0 respect for people like this.

[@youngviet408]

Some people don’t like the taste of their own medicine.

[@sinisterhunter]

Shame OP is sterile, he has the spine and heart to be a father

[@Jesusl0v3r776]

he could adopt

[@raziel710]

There is also always the option of using a donor if he remarries. It might sound strange but he could even ask his father or brother to donate so that his future children would still be closely blood related to him.

[@arthurwintersight7868]

@@raziel710 - I also think most men would just be inherently more comfortable raising a kid that's not theirs, if it's a blood-related niece/nephew or sibling, even when it comes to adopting a kid. Most people have a nepotistic impulse to provide help and support for family above and beyond what they'd provide for a stranger.

[@claytonfitzgerald782]

This dude is the kind of person that should be a foster parent.

[@dakotamartinez8310]

He could just adopt a child.

[@humble.pie.]

IF THIS HAPPENS IRL; as soon as you find out, consult an attorney ASAP. Supporting her through the pregnancy, the court could see this as you taking responsibility and you are the legal parent even if you are not the biological parent.

[@ulyssesthedm]

That was after he had the evidence of her cheating. It was not circumstantial, and it is not a he said she said thing. It is there in black and white.

[@JamesCrimson43]

@@ulyssesthedm Some judges wouldn't care about that.

[@nadogrl]

In many (if not all) U.S. states, the husband is considered the legal father, despite paternity.

[@FingerinUrDaughter]

@@nadogrl yeah thats not how it works. the man who signs the birth certificate is the legal father.

[@ImpendingJoker]

This is only if there is no proof of paternity. If there is proof the child is not his and there is no court in the US that would say, "It's still your kid."@@nadogrl

[@juliearmfield2634]

Shes mad that she played herself. Lol The neighbor is just mad because now he has to be a daddy and it's going to cost him

[@T3n50r]

And he's unemployed, lmfao. Good luck paying child support on top of his already shitty financial situation. Dude fucked over more than OP, dude fucked his wife and himself over as well.

[@shortangel333]

The neighbour doesnt have to do a thing. She wants child support? Well give her the choice between an alive healthy child and no child support or no child and no child support.

[@T3n50r]

@@shortangel333 How tf is there going to be no child and no child support when she's already in labor? By grabbing the umbilical cord and use it as a slingshot to yeeeet the baby out the window?

[@shortangel333]

@@T3n50r Lets just say the no child is going to be in a box for a long time

[@Betty121Boop]

​@@shortangel333are you insinuating murder, you freak?

[@SheerLunaSea]

OP is far better than me, I would not have rushed over to help her, I'd have called cps and reported a homeless newborn. Or at least called her dad without having run over to play hero. OP has one heck of a golden heart. Stupid woman lost it for a man who would push his own baby and baby mama out the door by force. Karma.

[@bazyl3357]

He rushed to help the poor innocent baby, if it was just her without the baby he wouldn't give a crap.

[@noobyman333]

At the end of the day it's about being able to live with yourself. In this situation I really don't think either would be right or wrong, he simply decided what stayed true to himself and who he wanted to be.

[@thousandyardgavri2785]

its all good because she's gonna realize she's lost a good man.

[@MynameisBrianZX]

@@thousandyardgavri2785 Will she though? She looked at a younger man who let her cheat and scheme for alimony instead of coming clean to start a real relationship in the face and thought he was a better man. Dude almost left over the pregnancy (which is half his fault for hitting it raw) and she still thought he was a good man to have a family with. Her moral compass was broken from the start.

[@T3n50r]

@@MynameisBrianZX There's a reason the saying "love makes you blind" is a thing.

[@feministawry1600]

She didn't want him to call the police, still carrying a torch for her baby daddy lol.

[@spambot_gpt7]

Super dumb...

[@SquirrelGamingProductions]

10000% Couldn't be clearer

[@arkhaan7066]

Might not be the baby daddy. She is seriously in danger of losing her child to CPS if to much happens. Homeless, domestic violence (due to the pushing out the door), and if her parents refuse to take her in or support her, she might lose the kid and I can see that being a motivator to avoid the police report.

[@Eye_Of_Odin978]

​@@arkhaan7066 Lets be real though, absolutely zero percent of that has ANYTHING to do with her actually loving her child. She's just concerned about reputational damage to HERSELF within the community should the police take her child. Nothing more, nothing less.

[@arkhaan7066]

@@Eye_Of_Odin978 probably true, but I try to optimistic.

[@juanhaines7295]

This is why mandatory paternity tests need to be legal.

[@ezonplays2260]

Okay now I know this is a bot.

[@juanhaines7295]

Sure dude believe whatever you want.

[@Mcdonaldsbag]

​@@juanhaines7295Why would getting a paternity test to see if its actually yours or not is illegal? That's utterly ridiculous why try and hide the truth?

[@MrNebelschatten]

Guess he means the German or French model where you need both "parents" consenting to a paternity test. Mandatory testing after birth wouldn't create situations were a cheating wife would protest the paternity test and the father would be only able to find clarity through illegal ways which then would open him up to attacks by state and wife. I personally am in favour for mandatory paternity testing after birth. Makes both men and women accountable if you create laws to punish both deceivers for adultery or birth fraud or whatever.@@Mcdonaldsbag

[@hansimgluck6789]

@@Mcdonaldsbagbecause in certain states the husband is always the legal parent and it can’t be changed unless u have proof that u are not the father. But the only proof is a parental test, which the mother has to allow in most cases.

[@lukasjensen4770]

Being able to look at yourself in the mirror every morning is something to be proud of.

[@mgntstr]

yeah.. Never "get talked into" marriage. yikes

[@PurePain_1]

as someone who hates mirrors to the point where I even removed the one in my bathroom because I hate looking at myself, thank you for your kind support

[@romaboo6218]

​@PurePain_1thats rough buddy

[@G-mansp3aks]

@@PurePain_1how can you eventually reach a stage of loving to look at yourself, if you don’t have a mirror to see what it is that you want to change?

[@PurePain_1]

@@G-mansp3aks by accepting that I don't want to love to look at myself

[@chessieray1465]

Hopefully the child has a great deal of resilience.

[@T3n50r]

Seems like the child has great grand parents, and the mother may see her wrongdoings and fix shit up from here on out when she realizes the consequences of her actions. That's what I'm leaning on at least

[@kyletheobald3952]

This child could be anything -- because they, nor this story, are real.

[@tek512]

​@@kyletheobald3952Can you prove that?

[@Katt1n]

@@tek512 Yes, It's from Reddit, and Redditors are friendless, kissless neckbeards.

[@bek7562]

Just a reminder to everyone out there even if a doctor says you can't have children/impregnate someone just...double check cause sometimes it still happens

[@SilentPsychopath]

Definitely. I work in the registration of births, and I still remember when I first started having to submit a statement from a mother explaining why she registered as unmarried after her husband started divorce proceedings and verbally abused her because he thought he was sterile, only for it to turn out the child was in fact his after all.

[@Jorendo]

A former employer of mine had cancer, he survived, had the whole treatment but was told he couldn't have children anymore due to the treatment. After his divorce (not related to the cancer and they split up peacefully) he got a new girlfriend, she was 45 already, and him early 50 when they got pregnant, against all odds cause the older women get the harder it will be to get them pregnant and him being fertile, but still it happened, and yes the child was 100% his. Even with less then 1% of a chance, he still managed to get her pregnant.

[@bek7562]

Holy...that is absolutely insane @@Jorendo

[@bek7562]

@@SilentPsychopath Half of the "I didn't know I was pregnant" episodes have some level of this involved where doctors told them they were sterile when it was just a very low chance of conceiving, which resulted in them thinking "Nah, I can't be pregnant". As my favorite OBGYN Mama Doctor Jones always says "if one of you has all the parts required to carry a baby and the other has the ones required to impregnant someone...always take a pregnancy test"

[@Mansory811]

​@@SilentPsychopathOK, thats harsh for both of them lmao, but sounds like it eventually ended good

[@Henry.25]

As a lawyer, I need to say that this OP did some things kinda wrong, he continued to support his wife even after discovering the betrayal, from a legal point of view this could be considered as him accepting and forgiving his wife, so be careful. There are some states that if you sleep with your partner after discovering the betrayal, it is enough to consider that you have forgiven them. I'm not saying this will happen every time, but the fact is that a case like this can turn into a legal battle. And the evidence of cheating needs to be complete, but a DNA test is the best way, in fact, I've seen cases where the man was considered infertile and still managed to get his partner pregnant.

[@I.m_glad_you.re_here]

I’m not a lawyer, but I had the same feeling that being with her for the whole nine months was a bad thing.

[@Stormyy6310]

As usual you "literature guys" miss the bigger picture : everything he did was strategical and an integral part of his revenge and specifically the wait for the wife to have labor, if he had just pressed contacted a lawyer and divorced her the moment he discovered the betrayal then the wife would still have had enough time for abortion, waiting for labor was an absolutely genius move for this very reason

[@Henry.25]

@@Stormyy6310 Look, everything I said is just to put the real life context, where every action has its consequences and that even if you are the victim, you can still get screwed by the law. Btw, I'm talking about *condonation* and it can happen.

[@I.m_glad_you.re_here]

@@Stormyy6310 you made six mistakes in the phrase “petty move”.

[@datuputi777]

​@@Stormyy6310 Indeed it's a good thing the baby wasn't aborted imagine how many actual innocent lives were lost because of bickering beetween grown up children.

[@alice20001]

Nah, as soon as you found that out you should have e-mailed yourself and a trusted third party (like an attorney) and set everything up for a divorce immediately. Any delay and the opposing council will latch on to everything you have done and said between the time you found out and the time you left. They could drag this through the courts for years.

[@hypezar]

Agree. He would be in the worst situation if it wasn't for her probably couldn't afford a good attorney or don't have the knowledge that she can hire any attorney and make him pay for the service.

[@DanielMorales-ye9yw]

She is broke... she is not stalling in court

[@maxaxe1941]

Western laws are so complicated and meaningless Logically this particular case needs only two things : 1- a Dna test the show whether or not he is the father of the child 2- a medical test paper to prove that he is indeed unable to produce sperm

[@yudistiraliem135]

99% chance of this reddit post just made up revenge porn stories. Anyone with half a brain and a lawyer will got told that the whole thing is bad idea. And having revenge in your heart while being greatest husband ever? Fat chance of that

[@friendlyneighborhoodshinigami]

How is anyone gonna prove when he found out?

[@nikkim.a7081]

In Florida he would still be considered the father of the baby even be put down on the birth certificate just for the fact that he and the wife are married when the baby was born …. Which completely sucks and he would have to take it to court to get it removed

[@irmazamora4679]

Lol hire attorney vera bergmann.. she will allow baby daddies to sue married woman.. 😂😂 dumbest attorney ever.. but you are 100 percent correct

[@MrTurbo_]

Well he filed for divorce so, should that be worth something?

[@Eye_Of_Odin978]

​​@@queenbutterfly1586 So the woman lied and cheated, then CLAIMED "mUh AbUSe" to try and hurt him even more? Cry me a river, toots. I don't care. Y'all ladies need to start learning what "accountability" is if you're all supposedly "equal" to us.

[@nereus2929]

Helping the woman in the end was a great move but I would never, I'm way too petty, I'd open my door with food in hand and watch the show

[@voidroad]

its the best move EVEN if your goal is to be petty. Making her realize what she lost is going to hurt a lot more

[@christophermoore6110]

You’d let the baby suffer? That’s not petty, that’s evil

[@flamingrage100]

@@christophermoore6110the child can’t be out side for a few moments? How is that suffering?

[@raziel710]

​@@flamingrage100 "a few moments?" The story clearly states that the father-in-law lived over an hour away, you do not take a newborn outside for over an hour without proper supplies. I don't think there was any mention of where or when this took place but either way hot, cold, or direct sunlight are not good for a newborn for that long.

[@LeBronyaJames]

@@christophermoore6110If anybody’s evil, it’s the man and woman who made the baby in a terrible scenario they both made. Unlike the man who’s sterile, they’re forcing the baby to grow up majorly disadvantaged.

[@SneakNationCEO]

Him comforting his ex-wife and her child was a great move. He could curry a lot of favour during the divorce proceedings by giving an example of his solid character. I guess she finally learned her lesson and at least left the saint of a man he was, be, and accepted the consequences of her actions.

[@noobslayer6915]

To be honest, i feel like it's a bad move. She's already proven herself to be psychotic....she'd probably just tell the courts that you pushed her and the baby or something out of revenge.

[@William-Howe]

and they would believe it too the courts are biased against men@@noobslayer6915

[@samuraitadpole5459]

​@@noobslayer6915exactly

[@devinfleenor3188]

@@noobslayer6915Sometimes you do a bad move because you would rather be an idiot and live up to your standards then to be smart and disappoint yourself.

[@SneakNationCEO]

@IonRuby sorry, English isn't my first language so I get my words mixed up sometimes

[@winkertinkerbell]

14:01 "I haven't touched alcohol since" 7:35 "I spent the rest of the day watching television and drinking beer:"

[@someonesomething5336]

Oh....nice catch. Wtf.

[@someonesomething5336]

I will say story is suspiciously framing him as a good and noble guy despite the fact hiding that for 9 months is also fucking weird. The noble thing would've been to get it all taken care of immediately, the kid will get the repercussions of this more than either two adults.

[@donathomas]

Wasn't that because he was like sad and betrayed to find the wife cheating some people are like that when these kinds of things happen and he drank because he was in the motel ¿¿?¿???? 😅

[@johnmoss4624]

yeah the thing to remember about these stories is that they are going to be told from a particular perspective, even if the author is doing their best to be objective. entertaining perhaps.

[@att6484]

Probably meant he stopped drinking when they were trying for a baby then drank again when he discovered the affair

[@adamb89]

So a friend of mine had a vasectomy done after his third child was born, and his wife got pregnant with a 4th. He was absolutely convinced she'd cheated, but she agreed to the paternity test and guess what...he was the father. His vasectomy came undone I guess somehow, or wasn't done properly. He spent a few months in the doghouse for that one but eventually they patched things up, and he went in to get the procedure completed correctly. Unfortunately he'd repatriated to the US at that point and trying to go after a doctor in Japan for malpractice is a pain in the ass.

[@jamesryan099]

damn... a doctor who fucks up someones procedure to become sterile should then be forced to have one themselves and their license revoked that shit isn't something to mess around with.

[@kawaibakaneko]

My boyfriend is going to get a vasectomy, in my country, months after the operation, the sperm is tested to see if it worked. I guess the test is not mandatory in Japan

[@samuraitadpole5459]

He's a better man than me

[@burtreynolds8030]

@@jamesryan099I wouldn’t blame the doctor, from what I understand the procedure just isn’t a 100% cut and dry procedure, medicine isn’t advanced enough for it to be 100%, I’ve heard of this guys story a lot

[@jamesryan099]

@@burtreynolds8030 while it's true that nothing is ever 100% and people can get pregnant even with birth control injections or pills it's still something you can take legal action for I have heard stories of people getting big money for that 0.01% change that they got preg on birth control so the same should clearly apply to a guy who get's his physical body altered for the same thing just more permanent then a medicine and less than tubes being cut on a woman. every pregnancy is dangerous and not every one is ready or willing to take that chance but even though preventive measures are taken some get screwed over and are forced too because a doctor fucked up or their shit didn't work.

[@cabassuplays]

I'd have stood on my porch while he was pushing her out, sipping coffee smiling and waving.

[@mshake7056]

Same but I guess some guys are so dumb they can't help but be white knights that get themselves in trouble. I feel like all this is going to bite him in the ass what a fool. Just stay away and stay out of things once it's over its over!!

[@lharchmage6908]

With coffee and popcorn

[@thousandyardgavri2785]

... Just think that in her mind, she lost a genuinely good man.

[@tumultoustortellini]

tf2 scout laugh emote

[@neotimekeeper6592]

​@@tumultoustortelliniyeah, while saying, "women ☕"

[@smorphous8928]

It’s hilarious how the wife and the Neighbor gaslit the situation like it’s Ops fault when she’s the one that cheated.

[@MrSkaDan]

It's fairly common. I had a gf who made out with some other dude, then tried to say that it was my fault. I laughed so hard at her that she hung up the phone xD

[@C45p3r]

@@MrSkaDan Good to hear you saw it for the bullshit it is. I once fell for that crap. It's not fun.

[@Eye_Of_Odin978]

Men are often treated like this when their women are unfaithful. Its just another gross facet of our misandrist society.

[@droganovic6879]

Not gonna lie, when he ran out at the end i instinctively yelled _"IDIOT!"_ 🤣 I was sure she'd somehow try to worm her way in, saying he's taking a parental role or something I'm glad it all worked out for OP in the end. Well, kinda anyways 😕

[@MynameisBrianZX]

On a practical level, this demonstrates good character that goes in his favor in divorce proceedings. Her living with the biological father was already enough, getting kicked out just bolstered it, so I guess it wasn't really necessary for him to take the high road.

[@ResidentWeevil2077]

You clearly have no character and lack empathy. You're evil, as are those that upvoted your comment. I hope one day you realize the error of your words and actions, but knowing just how much arrogance people like you have I doubt this very much.

[@droganovic6879]

@@MynameisBrianZX you're probably right. Tho I've heard enough divorce stories to not really have any faith in divorce court I suppose he stuck by his principles, which is good I guess. Honestly, I was half afraid he was going out there to fight the neighbor on her behalf when he started that segment 😅

[@terickastidbits2342]

@@MynameisBrianZXno it doesn’t. In most cases his actions would have worked against him. His character during the divorce doesn’t really have any legal standing. He’s extremely lucky he didn’t get screwedb

[@ClockworkGearhead]

@@MynameisBrianZX No, it doesn't. The courts can and will slant this into making him responsible for a cheater's child.

[@Brometheus420]

She 100% was cheating by the time she wanted a baby. Concocted her scheme of running away with alimony and child support so she'd continue to not have to work and trade her old dog in for a new one. Pretty evil. Her constantly berating him while they were trying to conceive was a tell tale sign. My ex could be sweet when she wanted, but she started acting downright cold and callous moreso than ever, to the point where I finally threw in the towel and ended our 9 year relationship because she was just downright unpleasant. Found out after ending it that she was already on tinder having fun. It happens when they get a 'new boyfriend' and you become 'the guy she fucks for stuff' in my case it was because she didn't want to have to move back in with her mom while she scoped out new prey to sink her talons into

[@squarecracker]

I'd be in prison

[@sailor5853]

​@@squarecrackerWhy be in prison because of a harlot? Be strong, brother. You are better than that.

[@squarecracker]

@@sailor5853 because if you let people disrespect you you are in an open air prison

[@Draxis32]

Fanfic mostly. You would have to be a sociopath to take all of this in pure cold nerves. Being the one that provides fully. Model neighbor inside your house. Finding the laptop at the day she made the reveal party. It's most likely a very well made fanfic.

[@TheSoleil1999]

What would she even be able to press charges against? Getting kicked out of a house that wasn't hers?

[@raziel710]

Getting physically pushed out could constitute assault and it sounded like he didn't push her out with her belongings, just her child, so theft could also be on the table. Also it is HIS newborn he is throwing out into the elements with no baby supplies so probably a few charges there including child endangerment. Lastly suing for child support could also be included.

[@jamesryan099]

@@raziel710 pushing her while she had the baby in her arms alone is child endangerment and possibly attempted murder charge since the intent could be to make her drop the baby and typically front doors have cement right out side of them if not on a wooden porch which would still probably kill a baby if dropped on the head or neck especially.

[@Roddy556]

​@@raziel710ummm, it isn't his newborn.

[@raziel710]

@@Roddy556 ummm, yes it is.. At the end of the story it was the baby daddy that was pushing the mother out of his aunt's house.

[@JohnDoe-og2bt]

​@@jamesryan099To unpack that a bit, you can't shove someone out of a house unless they refuse to leave when told. She resisted physically with a child in arms, that's where the endangerment comes from, holding a baby doesn't give you a free pass to do anything you want with no "pushback" As for someone mentioning theft, no you can kick someone out and they have to come back with police to watch them and mediate making sure they ONLY grab their property.

[@NeIIy]

This is so fake, but entertainment is entertainment

[@Jorendo]

Why did this guy stay with his wife to begin with when she was mean to him before? Belittling him and all? I would have dumped her long ago.

[@cold4882]

Op is a better man than me, I’m too petty to help someone who betrayed me like that

[@raziel710]

I get where he was coming from. I too would be too petty to help the person who betrayed me but the child is innocent and leaving a newborn outside for the hour it takes for the grandfather to get there could be dangerous so helping the mother by association would just be a necessary sacrifice to protect a newborn.

[@thezyreick4289]

I mean being sterile is not a guarantee that you cannot be a father or mother. For starters, those tests can be inaccurate, second, it is important to know what the tests actually mean as well. They measure sperm count per volume of liquid, and if it is under a certain threshold then you are considered sterile, but that implies there is still living active sperm in that liquid, it is not as if there is none at all. Many people who are supposed to be sterile have been known to have kids, including women. I have an aunt who got cancer in her uterus and had to have 80% of her uterus removed surgically, due to that and the chemo and other issues, she was told she was completely sterile and could never have a kid at all, that there was no chance. Well she met a guy who was also supposed to be sterile, and they were together a while, but low and behold, she ended up pregnant, despite having most of her uterus gone, despite being sterile from radiation, and despite her boyfriend being sterile. I have also known people who are completely fine, and healthy, and fertile, who struggle to have kids no matter how often or hard they try, they cannot conceive. So just being sterile does not mean you cannot be a parent and is not valid enough reason to automatically assume your significant other is cheating. You should verify if they are through other methods, always. It is stupidly hard to hide a double life from someone who is actually looking for it, no matter how good you are at it, nobody is capable of keeping it a secret long.

[@jonp1952]

I mean the guy found way more than just him being sterile.

[@TheBilly]

@@jonp1952 I'm not watching this but I gather she cheated really brazenly. That still doesn't decide the issue 100%. He could have gotten very unlucky. A paternity test, however, is highly accurate, so you'd know for certain.

[@jonp1952]

Her entire plan was to sleep with him to have his baby, and then take his baby to get money from him, so she could live comfortably with the guy she was cheating on. This plan was found in an email conversation between her and the guy she was cheating on. She wasn't getting pregnant by him, but then randomly comes up to him all excited saying she's pregnant, immediately after he found out he was sterile(she didn't know this). Whether he was "the father" or not, he would never have gotten to see that child so it essentially wouldn't have been his to begin with, and everything he did was fine in my book. @@TheBilly

[@xz569]

They are not sorry for the act, they are just sorry they got caught. Never forget that. This goes for both sides.

[@Dhruv_Dogra]

He did not confront the man because divorce would have damaged him financially. He knew he could be a father to the child and he could never have his own. He focused on minimizing the damage before freeing himself with the least indignity.

[@chanayplease]

I just feel bad for the poor baby caught up in all of this, I hope he'll be alright and live a happy life despite having shitty parents ://///

[@Jawsomest]

I'm 90% Sure this is a story made for FUN, not an actual one, unless he just took this reddit story and didn't credit the creator at all, and then editted his own username over OP's.

[@poetsrear]

Tough times make strong people

[@lumberluc]

Even after this harpy of a wife tore his heart up because she was unsatisfied, he still has a heart to not let an innocent get caught in the crossfires

[@Eye_Of_Odin978]

That's the difference between men and women tbh. Men understand duty and doing what's right solely because its right. Women only understand their feelings and do whatever makes them FEEL good (which often is incredibly selfish and sociopathic things because society never expects them to put their own desires aside EVER)

[@frycarson]

I think the fact you didn't become violent is a testament to your character.

[@bluebutterflywellness2273]

Hope this man is now or will be happily in a relationship with someone who deserves him.

[@myem0459]

If I had a dollar for every guy who said they were ‘sterile’ and fathered children, I would be rich. However, I am a fan of paternity tests for newborns

[@netheritesalt5708]

Major respect for helping her at the end

[@jackchop1576]

❤❤ All women are heroes!! ❤❤

[@yenisketches6047]

@@jackchop1576as a woman my self… no.

[@someweebboi6628]

​@@jackchop1576 simp

[@SheerLunaSea]

@@jackchop1576 As a woman, lol no we 'all' arent. Heros are heros. Period.

[@sharkeatinpizza]

​@@jackchop1576spoken like a naive moron

[@789blackops]

Press charges for what? Kicking people out of HIS home? 😂😂

[@anders8204]

Probably for child endangerment or somesuch, but who knows. Men usually get really fucking combative with other men instead of the actual people that cheat on them for some godforsaken reason.

[@TheStraightestWhitest]

@@anders8204 Simping is a disease.

[@nurulmidah8710]

Child support?

[@789blackops]

@@nurulmidah8710 pressing charges you go to the cops, that’s not where you go for child support 😂😂

[@789blackops]

@@nurulmidah8710 not trying to defend the guy leaving his son and son’s mother but it’s stupid to say to press charges.

[@kira68200]

this man, is the definition of a chad, a champion and a legend, he's done everything right and has even shown humanity and kindness when didn't have to, what a man

[@helloman3676]

He’s a cuck 😂😂😂

[@davedammitt7691]

Sounds like you have absolutely no idea what a Chad is...

[@cbb5102]

More like a cuck. Letting the neighbor put a baby in his wife

[@Saberfighterx]

@@davedammitt7691no no I think he understands what it means very well

[@charlieb9064]

​@@Saberfighterx Not at all. The male model in this story better suits the description of a chad, someone a woman will risk everything for. The husband is a good man, a sigma even, but not a chad.

[@gauravjyala1002]

This is an evil world we live in 🗿

[@Leftrightandthetruth]

It ain’t evil but the world is fine but the humans are evil no world is evil it’s the alive that are evil

[@ck8579]

dudes ex wife is evil and deserves nothing😂

[@Moonlit_Vibes]

You know what, hope that kid lives a good life because that's a rough way to enter the world

[@potatoheadpokemario1931]

14:41 I mean he's not wrong about calling her every name in the book

[@AZ-su1zg]

He should have told her right away. He’s just doing tests, tests aren’t always full proof and the dr might be interested to know that she got pregnant. The only test they really need now is a paternity test.

[@angelav9838]

Idk I had a cousin who had her tubes tied, and her husband had a vasectomy. They still had a kid, and it was his. Totally unplanned.

[@EKho-ko8tv]

Oh my, I hope the couple sued the doctors.

[@angelav9838]

@EKho-ko8tv Nah, she lucked out because he was rich, and she got hella child support when they divorced. I felt like it was the only reason she didn't terminate the pregnancy.

[@Khayran]

I was thinking something similar. There's definitely a possibility it's his. There was a woman who the doctors told couldn't get pregnant because she couldn't ovulate and she had a cryptic pregnancy years later

[@TheStraightestWhitest]

How the hell is that possible? Not disputing your story, I'm just baffled.

[@unoriginalhazard]

​@@TheStraightestWhitestto quote Jeff Goldblum in Jurassic Park "life uhh finds a way" :)

[@Wombatsgone]

NINE MONTHS? GODDAMN BRO RESPECT ON THAT 0-0

[@dinok7630]

wouldnt be able to look her in the eyes

[@sunfire65ph]

The part i find unbelievable about the story is who would stay with their cheating partner for nine months just to get revenge and see "the look on their face". It's nine months.

[@arigato7788]

The serendipity of getting the fertility test results mere days before being told about her pregnancy is absolutely INSANE. That's the uncontested keystone of this whole story. Honorable mention to the guy sticking to his plan for so long. His balls may be sterile, but damn they're massive. Also massive is the brainfart from her not securing her laptop properly despite hiding proof of her evil machinations on it... This yielded enough evidence and info to really get the revenge to the next level.

[@scottsommer9843]

You know, even being sterile is not a 100% guarentee. I have people get told they are sterile and some how were still able to have a kid. Genetically related too. Not throigh cheating.

[@someonesomething5336]

Yeah, there is a threshold for sterility.

[@Wasserkaktus]

If your wife doesnt know youre sterile before you marry or if you don't immediately tell her once you learn, that marriage is a failure.

[@runerocker3194]

Fake af and I really hope it stays that way.

[@milomaster1959]

this might be the best one of these videos ive ever seen... not because of the actual story, but because the guy is actually kinda good at minecraft

[@adeyimikaogunyemi8699]

You are not ok hoo for all os this Minecraft is what you learnt 😅

[@Zivin]

Bro handled that terribly, what an idiot. He could’ve done way better for revenge.

[@LyteMo]

Yeah this was pretty tame

[@Averymindset]

Turn out that OP IS STERILE is the BEST THING IS HIS LIFE. He wouldnt suspect a thing as the wife act so well. And right now he would have divorced and have to pay child support. *i hope that there is a law that force baby to do dna test in every divorced case with a child. Since cheating rate is so damn high rn

[@Solinarum]

Are these just creative writing exercises?

[@PoipoleEntertainment1987]

The OP shouldn’t have ran to his ex after the AP kicked her out of the house with the baby as it would have been a perfect way to show her that actions have consequences, the OP’s ex is just mad that she isn’t getting her alimony and child support that she wanted and her dreams were crushed by OP. I’m glad OP came out on top at the end but he shouldn’t have paid her any alimony after the accusations she made about him being an alcoholic during the marriage

[@voidroad]

but helping her at that moment hurts a lot more 1) she realizes even more that she picked a cunt over a good man 2) her father will remind her in the future that she lost a good man it will be much more painfull.

[@princessqueen6881]

No. That's bs. Even if she's a bad person letting a baby suffer is something I wouldn't let slide and would have punched him cause making a baby suffer is where I will draw the line,she's a cheater okay I get that doesn't mean she and her baby should die should it? That's not fair on the kid but your right about everything else. I mean she's a a$$hole but doesn't mean I'm willing to watch her and her baby being hurt,cause what if he have harmed her or the baby? Now we in court again for child murder and or child abuse or assault And op Is a witness so it's gonna be a long few months in that court room. I don't blame him at all for helping her cause that could have gotten ugly quick which is why I think op ran over to her I think when he helped her ex finally realized how much a b-tch she was when even after all she did he still helped her and a baby she was trying to trap him with. He's a good guy.

[@user-mh4ry5of5l]

then take care of every damm child on this earth . You doesn't understand what he is going trough .@@princessqueen6881

[@terickastidbits2342]

@@princessqueen6881he’s an idiot. It’s not his job to take care of her or her child. This woman deliberately set out to commit paternity fraud. Him taking care of her and her bastard child in any other case would result in him being responsible for taking care of this child for the next 18 years.

[@TheStraightestWhitest]

@@princessqueen6881 You're a woman. You can't understand. It'll always be YOUR child. That's not the case for us.

[@kingblackdragon69]

almost all of these stories are fake and are written by the same person, using the same style of language.. is this not obvious?

[@tarrantwalter524]

most reddit stories are fake. but tv is fake too and thats still enjoyable.

[@corvoattano9303]

1. Paternity tests need to mandatory by law. You should probably also get a second paternity test some time after the first test just to double check. 2. Repeal all government entitlements that incentivise infidelity.

[@KyranSparda]

Welp, the amount of horror stories about infidelity on the internet scared me away from ever getting married. 😅

[@Shadow-jw1kt]

So the statistic is 1 in every 25 men are unknowingly raising a child that isn’t biologically theirs. That’s a pretty staggering number.

[@voidroad]

that why a lot of men want mandatory paternity test

[@moxee33]

where did u read/hear that❓ I'd really like hearing real verified numbers.

[@voidroad]

@@moxee33 we're in 2023 for god's sake. Open google type "1 out of 25 men raise a child that isnt their own" congratulation its the first website with the article from the guardian talking about the study. again , we're in 2023 you should know how to use google.

[@terickastidbits2342]

@@moxee33well the DNA Diagnostic center reports that 33% of all men tested are NOT the father. And only a small percentage of men are ever tested in the first place

[@TheStraightestWhitest]

It's not 1 in 25. It's 1 in 3 bro. 31%.

[@mtae5]

A real man will always step up and raise his wife's black son.

[@NiechoBGC]

A paternity test should be a given, just should be part of the whole childbirth / birth certificate process-- not just for the sake of record keeping, but also for medical reasons and genetics. Our government makes car insurance mandatory, so why not!? It can be helpful at times. And the only ones who would have an issue with it or the ones who'd be inclined to cheat or don't have the integrity to see how devastating infidelity can be not just to the spouse but to the resulting kids.

[@TheKwiji]

Looks like the model guy was manipulated as well. He didn't seem happy about her being pregnant so I guess he was told she was on birth control... She was scheming and plotting the whole time.

[@czkmeister]

This truly is one of the stories ever.

[@MrMmbosu]

First mistake letting another man in your house, second letting her cook for another man

[@a_diamond]

Yeeeaaaaaahhhh I wasn't supposed to be able to get pregnant either.. I'd *still* like to introduce that doctor to my kids. Just sayin' I get your relationship had trouble to begin with and that having kids was never going to fix it (yours or otherwise) but um .. doctors can also just be wrong sometimes..

[@nimmha6708]

nice try

[@HeyItsRicki85]

I'll take "things that didn't happen" for $500 Alex

[@evantorkelson6181]

The fact the dude put up with his wife for 9 months is crazy. I can't imagine the kind be of thoughts that went through this guy's head. Mad respect bro.

[@Pun116]

Infidelity is so difficult to actually prove in the court of law, but her pregnancy and his sterility is gold for getting out of alimony. She's for the streets.

[@Briskeeen]

None of this happened

[@dennissimo7546]

Do not sign at the hospital that you are the father

[@skyskynomnom4674]

Pulling that right before the birth was very dangerous, though. Any amount on extra stress on mother can harm both her and the baby. Don’t really care about her much, but that put an innocent child at risk

[@moxee33]

if that was true there would be more mothers dying while giving birth in prison or anywhere else there is extreme stress.ie war zones, famine etc

[@voidroad]

can't wait too much , can't have his name on the birth certificate

[@terickastidbits2342]

Not his child not his concern. She literally created this stressful situation on purpose to commit paternity fraud. So any stress created is on HER not HIM

[@ClockworkGearhead]

It's not the medieval ages anymore.

[@samuellevesque7997]

That and forcing the baby to grow in an "unstable" environment when she could have had time to prepare her new life. Sure, the cheating wife didn't deserve it. Her baby still did. Like, she might have aborted it or looked for other lifestyle options (new work, education) before going into labor.

[@fdumbass]

Just a heads-up, you can get yourselves tested and get told you're sterile, but its not 100%. My dad and mom went to several doctors and were told my dad not only couldn't have kids, but was also very incompatible with my mom. I have 4 siblings.

[@Caterpillartears]

Exactly 😂 this would make OP a psychopath

[@Woobieeee]

Ill take things that didnt happen for 500

[@SkipPyP00S]

This story sounds like a revenge cuck spy novel...

[@xtlm]

I like how he let the baby be born and let the baby grow without the mother being stressed. In a way, he protected the innocent child in all of this and that makes me happy. Whether it was intentional or not.

[@NicksFitnessYT]

OP is a fucking saint

[@mikylanortje7957]

Okay but I've heard of men being sterile and still somehow conceiving with their wives. Same with women who were told they were sterile.

[@f687sNFM]

Small fear that op will reconcile with wife now that he cares for the baby

[@doyouwatchanime58]

She seemed very happy and I am equally shattered

[@szepi79]

I take 400 for "things that didn't happen" this is one so fake. it was kinda believeable up until the party. 1. who disappears in the middle of a party he is hosting for half an hour, an nobody notices? 2. he keeps lying to not only his wife, but HIS own family. why would you be so cruel to your parents, who are expecting a grandchild? who did nothing wrong? 3. he probably keeps f***ing her wife as well, as part of keeping up the whole charade. this is exhausting. and he helped her through the pregnancy? why? wouldn't it be a better revenge for her to be on her own? 4. why did HE leave the family home? kick the woman out. this will weaken his position in court. any capable lawyer would have told him that. 5. he is only "HOPING" that the lawyer will be able to get him out of the alimony. 6. the FIL apologized. yeah, sure. 7. and finally the cheater realized what treasure she lost. I mean, I have seen Disney movies that have less fairy tale elements. the only thing missing is the cops arresting the neighbor and the clapping in awe of OP

[@michaelsegal3558]

I like how it said the boot of my car as opposed to the trunk of my car

[@matheusgamer678]

bro this AITA scenarios piss me off sometimes like wtf do u mean u are the A ? obviously not

[@anders8204]

It's all about validation and internet clout, some people just want to brag about a story, others are literally making them up for an audience as writing exercises; both for personal reasons and/or to gauge how the audience reacts to certain tropes and scenarios. At the end of the day, people often just enjoy strangers on the internet telling them that they're actually in the right and that they agree with the author of the stories; because other people taking your side feels nice.

[@someonesomething5336]

14:01 "I haven't touched alcohol since" 7:35 "I spent the rest of the day watching television and drinking beer:"

[@denzo3882]

This is far beyond disgusting, at least the wife learnt the lesson.

[@Gra.cie_peters]

This is my life now 😭

[@Homiloko2]

Being cheated by your wife or watching reddit? lmao

[@mgntstr]

Was talked into marriage?

[@Gra.cie_peters]

​@@Homiloko2Reddit 😂

[@MoonmanJamo]

I guarantee it all hit her like a thunderbolt when she got booted from her AP and pushed out and the ONLY one to help her and her baby was the guy she hurt the most. Wow

[@peeonthe3rdrail414]

Bro, proofread your scripts. The beginning of update 3 isn't right.

[@youtubeenjoyer36]

He has it all automated. Its not only read by AI but some stories are rewritten by ChatGPT or something similar. I tried to search one post up and every sentence was basically the same but in different words. I wish I had this idea. Imagine how much money he makes by pulling stories from the internet and feeding them to AI. When it says (43m) it reads it as meters lol. But I get it he can start working on quality once his channel has grown bigger. Hes playing it smart by pumping out story after story.

[@anders8204]

Just start doing it yourself with different subreddits. Sex might sell really well, but so does stories about revenge and making people suffer for doing as they tell you to, which all speak to core values of our person. (NuclearRevenge and MaliciousCompliance respectively.)@@youtubeenjoyer36

[@TheWiggl3ztube]

Im glad he didn’t get his family invoice with the drama. Once he explain what happen, they understood. Just imagine thinking that your own son or brother would just leave his wife and the baby by themselves.

[@ronaldgartner3700]

If this was real, your wife would know you are sterile. Unless you lied to her this whole time.

[@MegaHarvickFan29]

Glad OP helped his wife and the baby when the AP threw her out. Wife got to see firsthand what she threw away

[@andromacdonald5216]

Big respect for being a decent person to the ex in end by helping her get the child to safety with father in law

[@user-nn5qw5mu4m]

He said he hadn't had any alcohol since quitting drinking when they began to try for a baby but also said that he was drinking beer at the motel on the day of the birth. If his story is true she's a POS but I feel there's more to it than he's willing to admit.

[@ericpratt984]

Seriously, why is it always the women who do something evil like this?

[@vanessazee265]

Maybe because men can't exactly do this particular evil thing...

[@Zeysteria]

yeah but they could do something similar to this but its still fucked up whoever does it@@vanessazee265

[@voidroad]

yeah , seem like women being the cheater is so much more common in these stories . We have a very bad generation of women to be fair , 0 accountability and onlyfans

[@alext9320]

Men statistically cheat more often than women. It's just that when women cheat there's this opportunity for them to be genuinely disgusting about it, since you can't exactly trick a woman into thinking that an affair baby is hers...

[@gothic_nix]

Tbf statistically men cheat more than women. It doesn’t excuse women who do cheat though but it also doesn’t mean cheating is something only women do. Anyone can cheat regardless of gender.

[@undead9999]

Mandatory paternity tests upon birth should be a thing. You want alimony? Good. Prove the child is mine then

[@BraveryWing26]

I love this OP, he doesnt take crap lying down.

[@MeiaBombaofc]

In Brazil we have a popular Saying, an it can be perfect used for this 14:25 "The clown's joy is seeing the circus burn." The Husband, the one she believed be deceiving and fooling like a clown in a circus for her joy. Watching the New House burn down like a Circus created by her. Beautiful, this is poetry in practice! 😂

[@ColinTherac117]

Bad move waiting until after the birth to get the divorce. He could have ended up paying child support for a baby that wasn't his. Also the bio dad is the absolute worst. It is one thing to not care for the hoe that cheated to be with you. It is another thing entirely to reject your own son. That is utterly evil.

[@potatoheadpokemario1931]

He didn't, he already had the divorce papers ready and only waited until she was at the hospital with her boyfriend to give it to her

[@danielflin3877]

​@@potatoheadpokemario1931Wasn't talking about the husband.

[@voidroad]

bro he's a litterature major so he's obviously jobless. He should have used a condom but the wife probably told her they're trying to have a kid just so they could do it raw. He's an ass but he never thought he could possibly have to take responsability for the kid or he'd probs have used protection

[@someonesomething5336]

what's funny is sterile doesn't mean completely zero chance. Wouldn't it be a funny twist if it was his baby?

[@potatoheadpokemario1931]

@@danielflin3877 yes he was

[@paladin2021]

Imagine if he is actually the real father. Even if you are sterile, there is a slim chance you could still be the father. Why was there no DNA test done? The wife could have pushed for child support anyway if there wasn't a DNA test to disprove it. Why didn't he lawyer up to make sure he had enough evidence? Just taking some photos of emails and that's it? Why didn't she get more money? Even though she cheated, she was still a partner and contributed to the household. Being a stay at home wife still means she worked that helped him focus on his job. Do you really think he would lie to all his friends, family, and coworkers for 9 months that he was the father? "Sorry you aren't going to be a grandparent/uncle/whatever and all those baby names you suggested and plans we had for my kid was just a lie we both told you lol oh well."

[@Yusuf-og5mh]

Mad respect for playing for 9 months, that's just a whole new level of determination

[@EridianX]

He essentially made sure to bring a kid into the world with the deck stacked against them. The child is the real victim here.

[@Yusuf-og5mh]

@@EridianX yea. But that's the norm in America. I'm sure there must be some government aid to take care of these kids.

[@LordGrape]

Child is unfortunately going to suffer, but its wild that it takes all this to not get stuck with child support and alimony for a cheater. Shows how stacked the family courts are against men lol.

[@ggburnitup4055]

Kenjaku levels of dedication lmao

[@Helmutlozzi]

Beautiful ending to the story ❤ So happy for this dude.

[@Rizik1986]

Fake.

[@Michael-yb7jh]

Honestly if I found emails like that from my wife I'd turn into Mike Tyson lmao