WILD CONTACT ORDER VIOLATION HEARING!! DISRESPECT THE COURT … GO TO JAIL!!

A wild contact order violation hearing…yet another example of what our judicial system deals with every day…
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[@NewfieLawNerd]

When your attorney AND the judge tell you to STFU you should definitely STFU!

[@purplelisa1960]

🤣🤣🤣

[@keeper6458]

🤣🤣🤣

[@freeman0048]

Numerous times

[@rossthef0x]

AMEN...

[@jenniferherrick9326]

💯 🤣🤣

[@ED-es2qv]

“I’m not incriminating myself at all your honor, I just want to explain that I was breaking the contact order because I was willful and heartbroken and trying to keep my family together (against her will).

[@GoodnightJLH]

Yes. And I was trying to do so even though I’m the victim. And we all know how victims harass and threaten their abusers….

[@Christopher-dd1ph]

Like fucking immediately incriminates himself lmao. Like world record time.

[@DollarDude]

I will never understand the level of narcissism it must take to think you can defend yourself in court better than an attorney can.

[@girloffaith16]

And she legit told him to shut up TWICE

[@mattdeaver6850]

Not even an actual attorney would do that. Having a passive voice in your defense is important.

[@mattdeaver6850]

@@iquitnow you seem to be projecting

[@Wildcat221]

Spot on. They are the only people, besides maybe just idiots in general that think they can do better than someone who’s gone to school for 5+ years at a minimum to do this exact career… they study laws and procedures for years!! And these narcissists think they can jump in and do better because they truly believe themselves superior. It’s quite sad and it usually works out terrible for them.

[@ericsneary5430]

@@iquitnow LOL

[@acisner1]

I see right through that crap. I've known manipulators like this all my life. He is passive-aggressive and thinks his righteousness makes him immune to consequences.

[@kathleendobens6648]

The face and hand motions. Thats a dangerous nut.

[@danshotguns4226]

You people don't even know him at all? You don't know her? At all you're. Not in their lives? Every. Day? The bottom line is you're not qualified to judge somebody based off of one video in a scenario where the man gets batted around like a chew toy, regardless of the facts. Didn't they say he is the main caretaker of this child? That tells me something.... My point is that in this situation men feel like no matter what they do, they will lose. More often than not that is the case. People like you judge a man based off of one interaction during a emotional moment in his life. And then you just run with that judgement. It feels to me, like she is toxic and is manipulating this scenario, perfectly

[@danshotguns4226]

Sorry for my punctuation errors my voice texting is glitchy and it keeps adding punctuation

[@gudemeneely]

​@dan shotguns look, you are correct. Today's society is all about judging without knowing everything. In this case, the main concern I have is why he didn't take his attorneys advice. I understand that he doesn't feel like his side of the story is being heard. However, he hired an attorney for a reason. If he doesn't feel like they are competent enough to relay his feelings to the court why hire them. He dug his own hole on this one.

[@therealtimc08]

He has a penis. She has a vagina. He has to understand that even if she is the aggressor, even if she is the abuser, she will always be viewed as the victim and he will always be viewed as the perpetrator. Even if he’s completely right he has to be smart in the way he fights it.

[@leondraw1766]

No matter how emotional you are you have an attorney for a reason. Just sit there and let him/her do their job because anything that comes out of your mouth CAN AND WILL BE USED AGAINST YOU. Some folks just can't help themselves. And, for the record, his attorney was doing an excellent job for him.

[@Matein13]

At no point should we ever even know what the defendant's voice sounds like. If we do, you've already lost.

[@anraegodley-cooper6321]

NAILED IT

[@pashminaaa]

I agree. I feel like his attorney probably would have gotten him out of bond revocation had he shut up!

[@davidohara7669]

Bingo!

[@aeromedical6776]

⁠​⁠@@pashminaaa- he point blank violated the order. He didn’t do himself any favors by continuously interrupting the judge. My feeling is that the judge was going to revoke his bond regardless as his clearly violated after explicitly being told what he could and could not do.

[@christinerobbins6426]

Imagine what it's like to talk to this guy if you aren't a judge with authority over him. Wow.

[@danyellfeeley5822]

Sounds like a nightmare to me.

[@alvaroq2024]

Just bring bear spray with you.

[@debfox]

I’m glad she got out! I worry about the child.

[@user-sk7yr9zo1i]

He understands perfectly fine... trying to gaslight the Court the way he does his Wife.

[@Sapioso]

I'm imagining him as a water polo commentator. He's gotta be pretty intense on the microphone.

[@tiffbeevachou108]

"As a victim, I figured if I screamed loud enough, someone would come save me!" - that is the narcissist motto in court proceedings

[@dannythompson1948]

I nearly shat when he actually said that.. I thought you were just extremely funny...

[@debfox]

Exactly! If you know, you know! It sounds like you had the lovely pleasure of dating an idiot like this. I can relate!

[@livinlovelee2683]

And on tuk Tok, KZbin, insta, and every sm now. I can't stand all these types of ppl.

[@kenhutcherson5639]

I’m not sure he is a narcissist. I’m positive he doesn’t have a set.

[@wanderingdrifter3163]

There ain’t no way I’d ever open my mouth in a courtroom without my attorneys consent.

[@JustDiane71]

Sad thing we all know their attorneys told them never to speak, but they all do!

[@addie_is_me]

@@JustDiane71 Is it really sad?? Lol

[@dilligaf1009]

I had a court thing and only spoke when I was spoken to and it turned out good. It works!

[@mineduck3050]

I am in a very similar case myself. I talked finances and not just visitation exchange as was ordered, however the finances were making visits impossible. They hinged on a massive child support bill to the mother which was not matching our finances (since rectified to the tune of my complaint). I had no home to afford, and she could recind the father's visits if she doesn't approve of the home. I could not afford a home, and this was all things she was stonewalling about and refusing to discuss so it became an argument, but more like a string of emails arguing and pleading to look and face reality and stop it, since it's all on her choice. she can adjust it or remove it at anytime. It was a legitimate issue. Anyway I maintain my innocence, my talk of finances were the expression inside the visitation discussion. I have the freedom to talk about what I can only talk about. I had restrictions of law and court order not my free expression. I did not break the court order, it was a visitation discussion. My lawyer hates me, and refuses to strategize for me, but this video is a PERFECT example of why being contrite is the absolute wrong thing for me to do.

[@ce707f]

Good morning sir. *confers with attorney* Good morning your honor. *attorney nods*

[@MooseMaunu]

I can't imagine the frustrations that go along with a divorce...BUT, the biggest mistake I see people making in court is they believe it's a conversation. It's NOT. It's, you sit back and let your lawyer speak for you and you keep your yap shut unless asked a specific question.

[@destroyerinazuma96]

Comparison might sound weird but this comment reminds me of Chris Hansen going to speak to this guy and guy assumes Hansen is a therapist and they have a whole afternoon to discuss why guy has invasive intrusive thoughts about going after underage individuals.

[@ginmar8134]

​@@destroyerinazuma96 Those guys always have excuses for them pursuing little girls. They've had tragedies and traumas, that's somehow to justify the attempted molestation. Is it therapy for them? It's all about them, though. The girls or boys? They're just......symptoms of HIS.

[@Tracy-zr9mg]

Amen

[@stevesand8845]

he’s at court cause he couldn’t stop talking to her, and he loses court cause he can’t stop talking period…. if he ever commits a murder he’s confessing the first night…. he might confess even if he didn’t commit one

[@valsmith6231]

😄

[@GoodnightJLH]

Nah. He will talk nonstop and change his story multiple times but all his stories will be manipulative lies.

[@CarlaHanson68]

Oh my gosh, this guy couldn't get out of his own way. Don't try Judge Simpson's patience because you will regret it. Smh 🤦

[@loopslytle]

Amen!!!

[@ginmar8134]

He's been manipulating people his whole life, this abuser. He's quite the gaslighter.

[@Mr.Vicious]

Totally! When the system is used to punish abuse victims it just... you love to see it AMIRITE?

[@brentfarvors192]

"I dont get angry; I revoke bonds, instead..." Dude was doing great until he opened his mouth...Simpson was on board with the defense until that moment, then, gave the dummy as much rope needed to hang himself...Pull yourself together, idiot!!!

[@Mitzoplick]

I am always fascinated by the type of people that seem incapable of controlling themselves when it comes to remaining silent.

[@cambiata]

From watching Judge Judy, it seems to me that the people most likely to behave like this are also the most likely to have committed a crime like stalking, throwing punches due to road rage, verbal abuse, etc. Judge Sheinlen even explains it to them directly: your inability to control yourself in a COURTROOM makes it obvious that you wouldn't be able to control yourself with the plaintiff. They're used to letting their rage win things for them, so they don't know how to turn it off when they're in a courtroom where that behavior is a strong detriment. The defendant in this case is trying to use tears to look like a victim, when he wasn't able to control his anger to the point of taunting his ex-wife over text (while she was able to remain silent!) It's obvious to me he's the sort of person who thinks his anger should automatically win every argument.

[@oqlus]

Judge Simpson: “So, who wants to go next?” Everyone on Zoom: [thinking] “Not it.”

[@vikingmama93]

🤣

[@TacoNYoshi]

Psh, I would go next. I would look like the golden boy of innocence after that guy acting up

[@lyric2439]

I saw a case with Judge Simpson and after he laid down the law, he called the next case, the defendant in that case said he didn’t want to be next. Judge Simpson laughed. 😂

[@jinjia5896]

Lol I said outloud "not me"

[@raintree3383]

@@jinjia5896 I did too !!! Hahahahaaaaa

[@jenn_x.]

Mansplaining, gaslighting and playing the victim. All that was missing was a string of pearls for him to clutch. Seriously, though, the fact that he couldn't keep it together in front of the judge spoke volumes about his volatile personality.

[@hotsoup1001]

Look at it this way: If you can't even control yourself enough to not let yourself be drawn into breaking court orders, that's all the more reason you need to avoid any contact whatsoever with the person whom you claim is the actual abuser in the relationship. If your ex is truly so cunning and manipulative, you'd better get smarter.

[@gd8681]

I love how he kept trying to gaslight the judge and project onto the judge and the judge kept shutting down the pathetic tactics.

[@ernestjohnson9564]

What's sad, his attorney really wanted to help him with this matter. He hurt himself.

[@gregwessels7205]

I got the idea she didn't want him to speak but she can't stop him from doing so, very unfortunate for him.

[@JasonDrennen]

What did he do that was that wrong? Everyone knows on zoom there's a second delay. The judge needs a quit getting his dingleberries stuck together every time someone talks. If you listen he waits for a pause and starts speaking then the judge says a half a word and start yelling at him. Sometimes it's best if you look at it from both points of view because Simpson is bad about having to be the king. Also judge Simpson punishes you when he gets mad and he can't say otherwise. He does it all the time. Somebody could be in front of him for beating a child and as long as they slob his knob Simpson treats them like gold. But if someone runs a stop sign and says a word while Simpson is talking he'll turn it into a felony.

[@wiredforstereo]

​@Jason Drennen No, when you're told to shut up, you shut up. When the judge pauses between sentences, that doesn't mean it's your turn to talk. Do not speak unless told to by the judge. It's so painfully simple. But this dude, right or wrong, fully believes if he just complains hard enough, he will prevail. Not how courts work.

[@carltonbanks5470]

@@JasonDrennen At this point Mr Brandon has had multiple court order violations after being given multiple chances NOT to do it. You lose your ability to have people "look at it from both points of view" when you behave like a child and can't STFU.

[@ginmar8134]

​@@wiredforstereo Yeah, the "courts" are dominated by old white guys who give custody to abusive men because they believe sexist crap about women.

[@angelah.3402]

This guy scares me! He's the type that will take his whole family out & himself because he feels like his life is over!!

[@ImThePrizeXY]

If u don't want to be scared then don't provoke him

[@ginmar8134]

​@@ImThePrizeXY Yeah, no. You sound like an abuser yourself.

[@ginmar8134]

He's falsely accusing his ex.

[@ImThePrizeXY]

@@ginmar8134 Sometimes women don't tell the truth

[@Heathen.Deity.]

@@ImThePrizeXY though I’m not saying women always tell the truth (folk lie all the time), I’m getting strong ‘abuser playing the victim’ vibes off this guy. Judge Ced holds all the power here, so the guy can’t handle it and buckles like a spoiled child, while when he’s communicating with the ex in the messages seen by the court, he’s the exact opposite.

[@barnabyaprobert5159]

"I don't have an excuse." Proceeds to list endless excuses.

[@ryansturm4484]

Being married to that man had to be pure misery. As I always say; when someone has a personality disorder and is manipulative and narcissistic, they absolutely cannot hide it. It always comes out and they show it loud and clear during these court proceedings. He is a miserable human being and blames the entire world for his problems.

[@MusicGamesEverything]

yup. Looks like covert narcissism.

[@bobdrooples]

She was the one physical with him and also not fit for primary custody . Sometimes both people are awful.

[@Mr.Vicious]

Instantly assumes the man is an abuser even as he breaks down sobbing out of pain and frustrating You: "That's just further proof of his guilt! Sure sign of a manipulator that!"

[@bobdrooples]

@@Mr.Vicious I can see it, and she was the supposedly violent one...but she asked for an order and he didn't.

[@sw7833]

​@@Mr.Vicious he's clearly a manipulative narcissist! Even if you want to believe he's been abused by his ex, you just have to look at his treatment to the judge and his lawyer, he thinks he's smarter than them! I grew up with an abusive narcissistic mother so it may be easier for me to recognize when it's happening!

[@FCWW87]

“So who wants to go next…”. Love that man.

[@OSGCourtWatch]

crickets in the courtroom 🤣🤣

[@torigriggs1694]

You know what I’m gonna take the warrant on this one and click out. I’ll try again another day 🤣🤣

[@debfox]

As a DV survivor, I’m glad the judge saw through his crap. Even down to the fake crying without any tears! I feel so bad for his ex. Normally accusations by Narcissists are often admission. He probably hurt her!

[@marilynglazier9794]

I absolutely love Judge Simpson. He screams, "I'm not angry" love it.

[@joelrodriguez2152]

The da n the judge are biases bc the so call victim has a criminal record. They ignore that. N they ignore the fact the she shouldn’t stay in his house. How does that work. Then.

[@marilynglazier9794]

@joel rodriguez maybe you should actually pay attention. They are going through a divorce, those issues of who should stay in the house will be handled through the judge overseeing the divorce. Judge Simpson is simply handled the criminal case, you know the one where this gentleman broke the law by contacting her.

[@ToyotaTom04]

Guy should have shut up. Simpson made a bond revocation determination based on him being mad at being interrupted, not on the facts. The proper course is to charge him with contempt for interrupting multiple times and set a contempt hearing. Then make the bond issue determination on the facts and arguments. Poor form all the way around.

[@Mr.Vicious]

I too love it when judges scream at abuse victims.

[@tsize869]

I love his voice.

[@fredastaire5300]

He isn't spoiled he is a manipulator. A manipulator that has encountered that which cannot be manipulated: a calm, rational, and intelligent judge. Another commenter accurately stated that he is the type to take his kids and himself out as a last resort rather than accept things not going his way in this. The most compassionate people are often NOT the ones that ACT the nicest and defintely not the ones who act the weakest. Some of the most compassionate things I habe ever been told hurt my feelings at the time but I needed to hear them. This guy only hears himself

[@PFMediaServices]

That observation about compassionate people is so important to realize.... And the people who need to realize it the most are those least likely to. Thanks for sharing with us! ✌️🍍

[@mdquaglia]

If you want to help yourself, you tell people what they want to hear. If you want to help people, you tell them the truth.

[@julielasater2448]

Dude, all you had to do was listen to your lawyer's advice about not saying anything, but you just had to keep interrupting the Judge! And the tears, really??

[@carllennen3520]

This man is showing the court that he has ZERO self control. These are dangerous types of people. Even if she is manipulating the court system to bury him, his behavior shows that he cant be trusted to deal with it in the proper manner. Hes an emotional child.

[@susanengel-ix8bl]

Right on!!

[@alunchurcher7060]

Blame everyone except himself and interrupt the judge constantly many judges would hold his ass in contempt, but he's being locked up anyway.

[@ToyotaTom04]

Simpson should have charged him with contempt separately and then considered the bond revocation. That didn't happen. He revoked the bond on emotion. Bad way to be a judge

[@Mewse1203]

He is so used to gaslighting people that he tries to gaslight Judge Simpson. his faux crying reaction to Simpson asking him MULTIPLE TIMES to stop talking is CLASSIC pity party gaslghting behavior. He tries to assign the Judge an emotion and make him feel like a big old meany for "attacking" him. It is also done to make peoole stop being upset when they're RIGHT to be upset. My sister calls it "the poor me, pity party manipulative bullshit." There's also: "I'm trying to answer the question, but it keeps changing." No, the question didn't change. He asked, you answered, and he asked ANOTHER question to dig in. He doesn't like when behavior is called out, and I bet that works on the partner you've gaslit for years. Not on Simpson, though.

[@tonettesherman4323]

It was the “or do you want me to come get you” for me 😳 that judge does not play.

[@Formoneyclicksandviews]

Why would an abuse victim try to tell his "abuser" about his alleged abuse? It's telling when they won't be quiet, send antagonistic messages yet claim to be in fear, are first with tears and stories of woe. If his abuser was so abusive it would have at least been a two way conversation. From what is shown it sounds like the "abuser" ignored all the "victims" messages.

[@GoodnightJLH]

Exactly. The guy was trying to gaslight Judge Simpson. He picked the wrong judge.

[@gibbons9599]

All the flags of an abusive coward. When up against a superior opponent like Simpson he completely buckles.

[@rbell7666]

They are afraid of men and they hate women.

[@katoyoyo6454]

100%. He reminded me of an abusive ex of mine.

[@Mewse1203]

Agreed. His whole demeanor gave me abuser vibes. He is used to manipulating people, but can't manipulate the judge.

[@kwp973]

Well said Gibbons! 💯

[@stephaniedison4878]

100%

[@ginmar8134]

"Heartbroken, & reckless & defiant....." He's describing himself like a romantic novel hero. "Through therapy I realized ex wife was to blame for everything while I am a wounded vulnerable sensitive warrior stallion poet trying to heroically defend my family."

[@katelarsson6625]

Great post

[@resipsaloquitur1832]

Client should really listen to their attorney when they tell them to stop talking. This guy made the case for the prosecutor. If he had just kept his mouth shut, things might have gone differently? Not sure about that? This guy needs some lessons on listening. No wonder his marriage failed. He can’t listen. You have to be able to do at least that in order to have a good marriage. Great post Mr. Squishy! Thank you.

[@dock_yard1149]

Agreed. WHY don't clients on zoom realize they can use another device to silently REQUEST their attorney speak to whatever new point they want spoken about? Just TEXT your attorney, idiots... And keep your mouths SHUT for your own good.

[@DJRenee]

He had to get the Last word.

[@testfire3000]

Ladies, imagine being married to this guy.

[@katelarsson6625]

What a horror

[@Lori_L]

Oh, he hasn't seen judge Simpson angry! 🤣

[@jamiecook4557]

I had that same thought! 😂

[@OSGCourtWatch]

too true!

[@mrjones2721]

It’s fascinating to hear an abuser explain his logic clearly and plainly. It’s rare for them to be that explicit.

[@betting4life948]

Well considering you aren't there and haven't been in the.presence of him and ex wife, you can't.make that determination.

[@andrewvelonis5940]

@@betting4life948 The only determination that MrJones made was that the guy explained his logic clearly and plainly, and that you can see from the video. As for the comment "it's rare for them to be that explicit", maybe that indicates that he is not the abuser after all. And I'm not defending the guy or claiming he is innocent, I'm just suggesting the possibility.

[@mrjones2721]

@@betting4life948 Found the concern troll.

[@VictheChick]

@@mrjones2721 Yup. Or someone who's still bitter over their divorce 😂

[@davidohara7669]

@@VictheChick Bingo!

[@angeladiane5026]

So who wants to go next? Best line ever. 👍

[@france2949]

I answered him shouting: CERTAINLY NOT ME !!!! 🤣

[@loopslytle]

I want to be next after this idiot! In the Navy, I learned to always stand next to the biggest slob at inspections. It makes you look even better.

[@marilynglazier9794]

I love it when he says that, every defendant on the zoom call typically looks scared to death.

[@mrjones2721]

You can hear the wave of buttholes puckering. Subsonic squeaks up and down the Zoom call. Jesus himself could be planning to reveal his second coming, and he’d think better and put it off for 15 minutes.

[@indelyn7143]

It’s a “drop the mic” moment

[@wjatube]

How to go from a one week adjournment and warning to sitting in jail in one easy step.

[@kristinrad]

I could watch Judge Simpson for hours. He just manages to balance funny and stern so well while upholding the law.

[@VikingFireProject]

You literally could! There's hours on hours of him on here

[@dbeazrn3934]

He’s one of my favorites. I like Judge Alex Manning as well - especially when she’s dealing with SovCits & Karens. Law Talk with Mike channel shows “interesting” court proceedings as well. Many blessings!!

[@michaelleitner1245]

And he has a soft spot, too. He gives to each their due.

[@purplelisa1960]

Judge Manning: PREtrial!

[@livinlovelee2683]

I couldn't agree more! I love Judge Simpson

[@darkphase7799]

I work in a mental health role and this isn't a diagnosis but for sure sounds like so many people I have supported who have borderline personality disorder. They often feel like they have been abused, but when you unpack the situation they blow it wayyyyy out of proportion. Honestly BPD to me is the hardest condition to support.

[@cashette]

Dated a guy with BPD for 3 years and can confirm this. The emotional manipulation, black and white thinking, making me the bad guy.. I needed therapy.

[@Xezlec]

Man, I think I might have it. Except fear of abandonment. Don't have that piece.

[@chrlpolk]

My ex-wife had been diagnosed with BPD, and I can affirm its difficulty. It’s not narcissism, at all, even though it looks like it on the surface. The big difference is that BPD sufferers get trapped in their self-fulfilling prophecies - in trying to combat the situations they fear, they end up creating those very situations. In this man’s case, he likely broke his wife’s spirit with neuroticism and then became aggressive with controlling behaviors, which led to the PPO’s, which in his view is just everything going bad for him because no one can understand his POV. That’s why he felt compelled to talk here, against his lawyer’s advice, because he just needed the judge to understand. And by “compelled” I mean a OCD level urge, people with BPD really can’t stop themselves at times.

[@cashette]

@@chrlpolk Sounds about right.

[@slantos2668]

Agreed, 100 %

[@nicolataylor8135]

Oh he don't like been told anything does he. He is trying to control her even in text messages but crumbles into a cry baby when a better man confronts him . Yeah got it . Absolute nightmare of a man trying to play victim while victim blaming . SMH Edit well done judge Simpson for see the game he is playing.

[@MarySmith-bc7mf]

Yes he’s very scary

[@stevesand8845]

lol throughout his attorneys very cleverly worded statement, he JUST needed to sit there, but from the minute the prosecutor started talking he kept raising his hand because he can’t STAND not being completely in control

[@davidohara7669]

bingo!

[@MusicGamesEverything]

yup! He is a narcissist and one of the things that they absolutely cannot stand is not being in absolute control

[@Mr.Vicious]

Or the dude was a victim of Domestic violence? Notice how badly he wanted to make connection with his abuser? If that was a woman going back to her abuser for the 97th time you'd be like yup, that's how abusive relationships work. But a dude does it and he's a monster. The double standard is amazing.

[@QUIETEVE]

​@@Mr.Vicious Hmm, I'm failing to see how the two examples you used even compare. He has a 'no contact' order where he was told in the first hearing to 'NOT' contact his ex-wife at all and in the second hearing with a different judge, he was to only have contact for emergencies or time sensitive issues for their kids. He used that opportunity to try and trip her up by sending messages outside those guidelines. To me he wasn't trying to get back with her, he was trying to get her in trouble to save himself. He tries to justify his messages it at first, but when that doesn't work accuses the judge of asking the same question differently. After he realises that's also not working, he decides to play dumb, the victim and interrupting the judge. I fail to see how violating two judges orders to prove a point is the same as a woman that returns to her abuser for the 97th time.

[@Mr.Vicious]

@@QUIETEVE You know women who go back to boyfriends who best the ever living isht out of them? Over and over and over again? If getting beaten nearly to death doesn't stop them from finding their way back to an abuser do you think a court order would stop them? Or would the psychological grip their abuser have on them drive them to return again and again anyway? Would you then turn to her as she's sobbing in the court room and with cold indifference punish her? No, of course you wouldnt. You'd trip over yourself to excuse the behaviour. You'd shriek from the highest mountain tops of the injustice of compounding the abuse victims suffering. But it's a dude so you argue in favor of the abuser and accuse the victim of being the monster. Without a shred of self reflection.

[@artomies1972]

You REALLY need to listen to the judge and respect the court. Even if you have the facts on your side, there is a way and time to show them to the court.

[@csh43166]

I was thinking the exact same thing. You have to follow what the court says, whether you like it or not. There are ways to approach it if you don't...

[@63076topher]

If the facts were on his side he would not have a ppo issued against him the other person would.

[@MaryBruflat]

Respect the court 🤣. Since when has the court respected anyone???

[@63076topher]

@@MaryBruflat He does not respect anyone what should the court do bend over and kiss this abusers butt.

[@OneIroNauT_1]

​@@63076topher - Your comment is not even remotely accurate. Lots of people get Unneeded, unnecessary and unwarranted PPOs put against them. Especially in Divorce/Custody cases or Domestic situations where there is a shared residence. It's sad that it is a reality, but our courts rarely work as intended. I have no idea if this dudes ppo is warranted, but it sounds like he has multiple issues, is manipulative, (or attempts to be) etc. In either regard, there are plenty of unwarranted ppos issued, just watch zoom court or look them up.

[@econley1088]

Wow…. Just wow. He’s the victim in this. It’s always interesting to see that type of person explain their own lunacy

[@mzzbrowniez]

I call “ BULL$H💩IT” The “over the top” behavior of the “battered spouse” looks scripted! We’re starting to see this kind of “viral video fishing” more and more. If that’s what this guy is doing, he’s doing it in the WRONG courtroom and in front of the WRONG judge!

[@nrdalrt15]

This judge is excellent. He doesn’t miss a thing.

[@vanguard9067]

Judge Simpson is excellent. It is definitely worth watching other videos of his court activities, either live every day or after other people post them. Fair, tough, compassionate, and a sense of humor.

[@purplelisa1960]

He’s a gem!

[@nrdalrt15]

@@vanguard9067 I love how the defendant keeps trying to tell him how he is feeling. “I’m sorry to make you angry” “ I’m sorry to agitate you” the judge is like “I’m not angry” “I’m not agitated”

[@jpolowin0]

@@nrdalrt15 Simpson certainly appears to be *frustrated!*

[@loganbrown1010]

Power hungry

[@joshntn37111]

14:20 The guys facial expression in the bottom right while waiting to go in front of judge was priceless. He was like "oh shit"... 😂

[@IGNANT4LIFE]

lmfao! good spot.

[@serusse]

It is difficult to keep yourself from speaking up in court. I've been once in connection to my husband's case and I spoke up when I shouldn't have. But then I shut my mouth after that. Once was enough for me.

[@dock_yard1149]

WHY don't clients on zoom realize they can use another device to silently REQUEST their attorney speak to whatever new point they want spoken about? Just TEXT your attorney, idiots... And keep your mouths SHUT for your own good.

[@mrjones2721]

A friend of mine sat through an in-person restraining order hearing where she had to sit silently as her ex let off volley after volley of lies and self-pity. Her lawyer patted her arm and whispered to her to hold tight, she didn’t have to say anything. The lawyer knew her business: My friend’s ex talked himself into a restraining order.

[@jowens197]

Yeah, I was thinking that it has to be easier said than done to be quiet. But it really is best: as shown here..

[@GoodnightJLH]

I’m sure it’s difficult to keep your mouth shut in court. But Judge Simpson is very patient about that. He gave several gentle admonishments before he got stern. This guy has no respect. And it is quite a stretch to believe that the person who bombarded someone else with harassing and threatening text messages is the victim.

[@Mewse1203]

This guy... even IF she has assault charges, that doesn't preclude HIM from later assaulting her. Plus, his behavior was very clearly harassing, a violation of the order, and his entire demeanor gave me abuser vibes.

[@63076topher]

She did not have charges or she would be in court not him.

[@Mewse1203]

@@63076topher he said she had a conviction assault...

[@GoodnightJLH]

@@Mewse1203 He said lots of things that weren’t true. I would believe it if the Judge or one of the attorneys said his ex had a conviction assault. This man tried to claim he only texted his ex when he needed to get ahold of her urgently and she wasn’t answering him on Our Family Wizard about their child. The ADA showed that he was lying about that by submitting multiple text messages. Liars gonna lie…

[@mrsangelafisher]

​@@GoodnightJLHyou know this couple? What's going on in the situation?

[@mrsangelafisher]

​@@Mewse1203what are "abuser vibes" exactly?

[@FCWW87]

Love it!! What a loon. I’m only 30 seconds in and I have him figured out. He’s a loose cannon man-child.

[@centexan]

Poor little guy. He is sure he doesn't have to follow the orders of the court. He is just too important.

[@holald9113]

That guy is a spoilt brat. He tried to manipulate he ex wife by emailing and texting her messages which weren't urgent in the hopes that she would respond in a way that would paint her in a bad light. When the judge revoked his bond the wimp whinged "oh she's won again" , he's blaming his ex even though his bond was revoked because he disobeyed the court. The way he got up and stomped his feet at the end shows just how spoilt he is.

[@dock_yard1149]

Attach this video to Webster's definition of a clearly PASSIVE-AGGRESSIVE person.

[@rolux4853]

@@dock_yard1149 thats not passive, thats clearly ACTIVE-AGGRESSIVE, to use your words..

[@stevesand8845]

@@rolux4853 no it’s pretty much the. wet definition of passive aggressive, using a soft voice and saying things clearly intended to be accusatory, and then when being confronted, he acts like he’s being picked on without using those words “ok then i guess i’m just stupid judge for thinking that you would not side with my attacker” he’s accusing the court of being bias by framing it as an insult to himself…. textbook passive aggressive…. he probably acted like this in his marriage like “yeah it’s my fault i should be home every single night and never leave your side, it’s my fault for thinking i could have a beer with my friends one time” i mean you are clearly accusing her of being controlling, by saying that it’s your fault, but in a way that makes her seem insane

[@NKdidit.24]

Spoiled brat is the perfect description of him!

[@mineduck3050]

OK dad, come back and speak after years of being in family court. You know little and that's going to be your direction in life apparently. Talking crap is not a crime, I fat there's even first amendment protections for interpersonal relationship conversations. Even if hes being a dolt, unless he commits a crime while doing so texting is not a crime, we all can block. It is a violation of court order, he is not a criminal.

[@perspgold8945]

8:23 gaslighting a judge, what can go wrong

[@patriciastrang8747]

Wow, its really hard to believe he is the victim where he is so anxious and won't shut his mouth! Why on earth would you want to contact your batterer for anything??? He comes across to me as a major control freak..AND is out on bond..

[@OneIroNauT_1]

He was trying to entrap his soon to be ex wife. That's not at all uncommon in Divorce cases. Unwarranted PPOs aren't uncommon in Divorce/custody cases and In Domestic cases where a shared residence is an issue. Thank shitty corrupt Divorce attorney's for that, then thank asshole abusers next. Rushing to be the 1st to the court house for a PPO has become SOP (standard operating procedure) these days. I'm not stating it's unwarranted in this case, as this dude can't keep his mouth shut to save himself and was violating the ppo regardless of its need or not. Once issued, smart people will abide by the orders of the court or end up like this idiot.

[@keeper6458]

It's terrifying

[@croaton07]

Women contact and often stay with their batterers quite often. It's a lifestyle that, although they hate it in one way, they get use to it and like it in another way. Not saying they enjoy abuse necessarily, but they get scared of a life change. Not sure this guy is any kind of victim though

[@ginmar8134]

​@@croaton07 They "like" it? No. Not at all. Read Lundy Bancroft. Stop & think about what you just said.

[@missolesoul]

I think he is trying to say that sometimes the unknown is scarier than the hell they are experiencing.

[@mouseandryforever6848]

All abusers want to 'do better.' This is their typical 'go to' whenever they get caught manipulating and abusing.

[@ginmar8134]

EXACTLY. I notice all the dudes defending this guy dismiss actual experts like Lundy Bancroft and embrace little-known or outright unqualified quacks.

[@Tsiri09]

And they're always 'sorry' when faced with authority but act bold as bulls when alone.

[@neverdive1059]

The ONLY answer to Judge Simpson’s question was “It does not”, then say “ I am sorry”. Better yet, DONT SAY ANYTHING like your lawyer told you.

[@williamwilliams293]

After watching a lot of these videos I’ve come to the conclusion that if your guilty you need a lawyer, but if you’re innocent you REALLY need a lawyer.

[@rossigrace5031]

"who wants to go next?" No-f*cking-body, your honor. Not after that 🤣💀🤣

[@Timmichanga361]

It is the most difficult thing to keep composure and think things through when you are dealing with child custody. You cannot step outside of the court orders and you cannot lose your cool

[@adamabele785]

This guy tried to manipulate the judge and make his wife look as the bad guy. This tells us he is delusional, he thinks he is right, he thinks he can change the rules, he thinks he can control the narrative, and he will not listen and does not take responsibility for his actions. This guy can learn only the hard way. In the end he blames his misery on his wife, but he totally has brought it over himself, by ignoring the court's order in every possible way.

[@Cranberryopah]

This.

[@davidprince1138]

My thoughts precisely. Absolutely an obsessive liar and manipulator.

[@my2cents320]

He’s volatile and scary and I’m glad he’s going to jail.

[@Meanie74]

And likely abusing his wife. Classic Darvo

[@ginmar8134]

Sounds like Depp.

[@doreendaykin6693]

Honour & respect for Judge Simpson! Bravo..great upload! Thank you OSG🙏🙏💙

[@melodywilliams9124]

I wanna see his bond hearing.

[@DeplorableTroll]

Finally a judge that doesn’t take a whole bunch of bs

[@Asta-gs8pt]

He's STILL TALKING! 😂😂😂

[@aeromedical6776]

Basically, he didn’t agree with the parameters of the no contact order so he gave himself permission to violate it. There is no question he was contacting the wife in attempts to coerce her into potentially dropping the protective order.

[@TheMoochiecat]

That was some pretty poor acting....he needs to work on his sweating and snot production if he wants to convince people that he's actually crying.

[@musherjune1]

There's a LOT of court videos out there, but when I see one from Old Squishy, I KNOW it's going to be the best! Thanks so much 💓

[@Annie1962]

He's a nervous wreck and not helping himself. He's scary.

[@dock_yard1149]

I was smelling 2 things in the offing until he was ordered to surrender himself ... Either 1. He was going to perpetrate violence on his estranged wife ... Or 2. He was going to perpetrate violence on himself. This dude is one ANGRY mofo and is one snap away from exploding in some bad way.

[@purplelisa1960]

Got a creepy vibe from him.

[@BrakShowPkt]

Yet a woman sitting here crying and saying she was the victim of abuse and desperate to avoid jail and see her children you'd feel similarly? I hate some of these because you do not know what the context and underlying facts are because these are just bond hearings, not actual fact finding hearings

[@VictheChick]

@@BrakShowPkt This ain't about gender, it's about enforcing a PPO. If a *female defendant* violated a PPO against her and tried to explain it away in the same manipulative language as this teary little -b!tch- defendant, I most certainly WOULD side with the Judge in hauling her butt to jail. (Because that's how violating a Personal Protection Order works, mmmkay?) Got it now? 🙂

[@Annie1962]

@@BrakShowPkt yep. Let's not make assumptions shall we? I have little sympathy for mums who are in this situation too. Drugs are taken voluntarily. The judge sees through this man too. Pity you don't

[@HWilhelm516]

He had the right to remain silent but he didn't have the ability 😂

[@kimberlysmith1282]

In the words of the great and hysterically funny, Ron White!!!

[@jasa_TheRealOne]

GET HIM, Judge!

[@kristenshafer2262]

Best part is Judge Simpson asking who wants to go next.🤣🤣

[@skullketon]

14:55 "How is this possible in America?!" With all due respect, even if the defendant is telling the truth about the DV, he majorly fucked up by not going through the proper channels. He's done this to himself.

[@bytchesagainstbullshyt3696]

Yep, either Pride or ignorance but he is where he's at because of his actions or lack thereof

[@63076topher]

If he was telling the truth they would not have filed on him but her.

[@andrewvelonis5940]

@@63076topher Bull. He might very well be telling the truth, and they would automatically blame him for everything. It happens.

[@bytchesagainstbullshyt3696]

@@63076topher it doesn't sound like he went through the proper process, whether calling the police, or filing right away, something is missing, but it's quite possible he told his story and wasn't believed, we have to take the stigma out of men feeling like they are weak if they report abuse, just like the push that was done for women, Men are abused and not believed all the time, it looks retaliatory now because she has filed against him and sadly he is in a hole that he just keeps digging deeper with his present actions, he has ZERO self control

[@63076topher]

@@bytchesagainstbullshyt3696 He shows NO signs of being abused but CLASSIC signs of a abuser. Another Michael McDonald who refuses to follow court orders or listen to a judge. Only likes to claim I AM THE VICTIM.

[@SuzA8110]

I love Judge Simpson - he always gives everyone a chance.

[@purpleandred7]

Omg, this guy drove me crazy .. and crying? He can't even fake it good.

[@Cateyes81377]

😹😹😹 He was trying to cry 😆

[@purpleandred7]

@@Cateyes81377 yup, you are exactly correct

[@Rodgerwilco91]

Perfect example of why you should always listen to your lawyer lol

[@davidohara7669]

Dad can't lie worth a shit. Simpson is much smarter than daddy thinks he is.

[@Alternate_Titles]

People like David are the reason the system is so badly broken in your country. The data proves that women in the US commit roughly half of all DV. Often, the woman commits DV and the husband loses access to his children.

[@davidohara7669]

@@Alternate_Titles People like Lincoln would buy into daddy's BS. Why is it too much to ask that you let your attorney do the talking instead of burying yourself. How smart is that? Lincoln, having a tough time accessing your kids?

[@Alternate_Titles]

@@davidohara7669 You have no idea if it is BS. At no point in this video is anything discussed by anyone about anything except him having texted his ex wife. Your country has a 60% divorce rate, 85% of divorces are initiated by women, 90% of those cases give custody to the woman, but 50% of domestic violence charges are against women. I realize that counting is difficult but even for an American this should be easy. Your legal system gives children to abusive women. And if the woman wants, they will put the man in jail for text messaging her. You defend this system. Because you are not a smart person.

[@davidohara7669]

@@Alternate_Titles Your lack of comprehension far exceeds any problems I might have with math. The judge expounded on some of the text messages. Have someone explain that to you when you don't have your head up your ass. You are not the sharpest pencil in the box.

[@101Mant]

​@@Alternate_Titles so you are proposing that after being told by the courts to only contact his ex in a specific way for a specific purpose when he, by his own admission, breaks that nothing should happen? The judge agrees it's threaten and harnessing, he ignores his council, ignores the judges warnings and has noone to blame but himself. I curious what your agenda is that you would try and spin it into some "poor men" narrative. Also check your math wome are twice as likely to be victims of domestic violence as men.

[@4runit654]

Wow. That was so satisfying to watch. That man literally just hissyfitted himself into jail. I'd love to hear how he tells people his version of this story

[@leofredette19]

If you don't bother listening to the judge, thingsare going to go bad with you.

[@connieblackmon3932]

why do people have so much trouble being quiet? So many of these folks make their situation 10 times worse because they think they can convince the judge that their stupidity was warranted. It never is you're paying for a lawyer let them do their job.

[@leondraw1766]

The look on his defense attorney is priceless.

[@fredhanosky6176]

I never could understand a defendants insistence to talk even after the attorney told them not to say anything. I guess they think they can convince the judge better than the attorney and instead a deeper hole is dig.

[@justanothersmith6012]

🙋🏻‍♀️ I would like Judge Simpson to read them all aloud and have dad explain them. 10:08

[@purpleandred7]

@Just Another Smith, same!

[@gregwessels7205]

It's very rude for Judge Simpson to interrupt the person interrupting him. Why hire a lawyer if you are not going to listen to her?

[@judycook1918]

I can not imagine being married to a man who behaves that way. I have the deepest sympathy for his wife and hope she does well through the divorce.

[@RayStraiter]

One thing I have learned from watching these Court YTs is to avoid being in front of a judge. Another is to let the lawyer do ALL the talking. The wife is smart enough to remain silent, even if she married a wimpy abuser.

[@mrjones2721]

@@RayStraiterNever interrupt your enemy when they’re making a mistake.

[@barnabyaprobert5159]

Sadly, there are some women who mistake arrogance for confidence.

[@AuntieWolf]

I was married to someone who behaved that way. He would hit me then go to work and tell everyone he hit me and it was all my fault. They are always full-on narcissists.

[@davidohara7669]

@@mrjones2721 Simpson never interrupted the douche.

[@JP_IN_TX]

Find some dignity and pull yourself together. This is shamefully embarrassing.

[@thomasb7347]

This dude is a brand new Michael McDonald

[@BakerStudiosIndy]

By the power vested in me by the court of public opinion, the defendant's man card is hereby permanently and irrevocably revoked.

[@theeJZ]

👏

[@VictheChick]

🤣😂🤣😂🤣

[@chelseamae7191]

Judge Simpson rocks!!❤🤘

[@xxCrazyIzzyxx]

"I AM NOT ANGRY!!!" Dumbledore said calmly.

[@kinsley7777]

Why is it that I can’t help but think his Mommy was just off camera 🤔 thank YOU, OSG 💕

[@barbatloosenutproductions2027]

I can say (in my heart) I only feel sorry for the defendant, because he felt, he knew more than his attorney. Hopefully, this will be his wakeup call! Never doubt your attorney, just shut your mouth, and let the professionals handle it. Your not as smart as you think! 😖

[@GarretMartinn]

OSG!!!! Breadcrumb Gallery approved!

[@Abstracted_]

Thanks. You’re still the best. That guy proved he has zero control of himself.

[@donnalittle1507]

I know he had everything coming to rain down on him but, still, watching it had me flinching. Simpson don’t play with abusers.

[@ZombieBiohazard]

Typical small man narcissist - he spent his whole marriage trying to control his family and when he tries to regain that control the court stomps it out before he knew what hit him.

[@bakerman10]

Best clip in a while! That man has serious issues.

[@ElizabethMillerTX]

I've appeared in front of many dozens of judges. This guy is top notch.

[@marlinmealer6506]

Judge Simpson!!!

[@artistjoh]

"Who wants to go next?" Everyone instantly wants to hide because no one wants to face a riled-up judge that just put a man in jail.

[@tzerpa9446]

How many times does he have to be advised not to say anything before he gets it?