WILD Goodwill Storytime, Recent Pick-ups, and My New Fragrance // I'M SUING!

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madeyoulooks

madeyoulooks

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@leolovsen1448
@leolovsen1448 2 жыл бұрын
being genderfluid my body image is hella weird, but I've learned to put my focus on appreciating the things my body can do (breathe, walk, smell flowers, play instruments etc etc). not so much focusing on how it looks, but the things I am able to experience because of it. it's really rad when you think about it!!
@madeyoulooks
@madeyoulooks 2 жыл бұрын
functionality over everythingg
@ray.t.georgi
@ray.t.georgi 2 жыл бұрын
That’s actually helpfull, awsome advice!
@abouncyfrog
@abouncyfrog 2 жыл бұрын
I'm turning 32 this year, and my whole life I've struggled with body image issues! One thing that has helped me keep things in perspective is I look back at the "old me" and I remind myself how much I hated the way I looked. It makes me realize how good I've looked and how I wish I could have known how well my body worked and functioned before it was gone. So now I try to appreciate my body because in ten years I'll look back and think, "I looked so good! I wish I had known it then." Don't let that be you! Pretend you live in the future and you see yourself now with your good skin and not sciatica and a size 30 waist! Damn girl, you looking good! Remember this: to anyone old you are young and beautiful. 🤗🤗🤗
@painttheoceanonyx
@painttheoceanonyx 2 жыл бұрын
I’m 27 and I’m nonbinary. Most of the time, i feel disconnected to what i look like. I don’t even look at the mirror directly sometimes. Some days when i like how i look. Dysphoria do be sucks. I love your channel, Jade. I have been building up my wardrobe style bit by bit. Not exactly androgynous, but more like a tomboy femme and witchy femme (i like wearing a lot of black). Changing how i wanted to look like really helps, it made me feel a little bit better about myself.
@arijeanz
@arijeanz 2 жыл бұрын
jade PLEASE make a vid on how to wear men's pants as a female bodied person... i have this beautiful pair of japanese vintage boys jeans but i cant wear them due to the dreaded Crotch Tent fr i look like im packing something down there. i need tips!!!
@heythisisK
@heythisisK 2 жыл бұрын
Do they still fit if you pull them up a little higher like high-waisted pants? That's what I usually do.
@carligirrl
@carligirrl 2 жыл бұрын
Explaining a fragrance by if it were a color somehow actually makes so much sense and gives me a perfect idea. As someone who used to have CK1, I agree that it'd be ice blue. If you talk about other fragrances in the future, I'd love a similar, color description! : ) Also about the Dickie's pants, YOU TOTALLY HAVE A GOOD CASE!
@blueheffalump5293
@blueheffalump5293 2 жыл бұрын
Hey girl, me too! The other day I just looked at myself properly for what feels like the first time since the pandemic started, and it was so weird
@quiqui6424
@quiqui6424 2 жыл бұрын
me too part 2! I literally could not remember what my face looked like without a mirror for years. i've always had some level of disconnectedness from my body, i just didn't realize it until i was depressed. i'm feeling a lot better now, but my body still feels like this pet rock / sweatsuit / baby? that i'm obligated to bathe, feed, and walk just cause i technically live here (in a body)
@Mariah.Rayne.Personal
@Mariah.Rayne.Personal 2 жыл бұрын
The bins are freaking wild. I saw a fight at one in FL one time. 😅 Haven't been back. Anyway. You won with the sweater but I really like the brand.
@sambradley3179
@sambradley3179 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for talking about the body struggles cause… girl, same
@neugrowf
@neugrowf 2 жыл бұрын
Damn those shorts are nice! Didn’t know I wanted jorts but it’s giving Cheryl Dunye in watermelon woman and I stan. Gonna have to stalk some thrift stores.
@phosphenevision
@phosphenevision 2 жыл бұрын
i think calvin klein is like ~ exotic ~ because there's a lot of like references about the brand in american media and we consume it in LATAM so we know of it but there aren't many CK stores down here I think. it's also has a more luxury appeal as with many other imported brands just on the fact that they are imported, even zara is seen as an expensive brand
@ruthnk6575
@ruthnk6575 2 жыл бұрын
i have never been this early
@mariahmccann1103
@mariahmccann1103 2 жыл бұрын
only recently i put a mirror up in my room- it’s been years. i’ve been working to look at my body more intentionally and approach it with love, which has been quite the experience.
@10byrdie
@10byrdie 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing your recent feelings about you body. Been disliking my body and hating how clothes look on it. Really trying to get to the place where I like by body at every weight but it’s challenging.
@hottrot08
@hottrot08 2 жыл бұрын
This was dope! love the way you talk about clothes
@zucchinigreen
@zucchinigreen 2 жыл бұрын
I 👏am👏here👏for👏the👏 fragrance 👏 content! Great job Jade, I've been asking for this since you started this channel lol. Now I know you mess with Replica fragrances. Love it!
@madeyoulooks
@madeyoulooks 2 жыл бұрын
coffee break is my faveeee
@ashb5556
@ashb5556 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you Jade! Luv you and your humor and openness. Oh so much dealing with body stuff these days too. Age related and covid related stuff I think! Gratitude and luv to you
@elfi_666
@elfi_666 2 жыл бұрын
Just realized my pleated pants might look awful on me because of the non-existing waistband. Thx Jade 😄 I recently gained a little weight, all my clothes do still fit, im still thin and yet I was kinda feeling shitty about it. Might have spent way too much time comparing myself to the insta girls 😅😅😅
@madeyoulooks
@madeyoulooks 2 жыл бұрын
thicker waist bands hold you IN honey, dickies are good for that but there's little room in the butt area
@blooppoopoo
@blooppoopoo 2 жыл бұрын
Girl I’m on the same boat, I even thought about getting breast augmentation but I’m going to work on working out and getting this body the way I would want it before I start truly thinking about any surgeries. Hopefully it helps because I also don’t like looking at myself nakey. I tend to look away or feel as if I’m looking at someone else’s body.
@noovernightguests
@noovernightguests 2 жыл бұрын
I gained back my college 20 in my 30s. I’m working on dressing the body and me I am right now. I was making style decisions out of habit and societal expectations. Y’all… I was legit dressed like a middle aged woman from the 90s when I was in admin. Blouse, slacks. Every day of the week. Now I consider my moods and physical comfort.
@MxrmGxrl4
@MxrmGxrl4 2 жыл бұрын
Hey Jade, lovin’ the videos as always 🔥👌 Recently I’ve been a bit frustrated with my style ngl. Idk if it’s just bc of the panini we’ve been in or my weight gain, but I literally have like 5 outfits that I wear interchangeably bc I do everything at home, and I’ve ended up placing comfort over everything. Obviously I know it’s important to feel comfortable in what you wear, but I don’t want to place it safe with my style anymore so I’m tryna figure out what that would look like 😅
@talbrun
@talbrun 2 жыл бұрын
Love your videos! I have had so much fun at the bins and kind of miss going there great for crafting supplies, cute fabric scaps, whole skeins of yarn, cute clothes for trying new trends on a budget and many other random things.
@karengil4067
@karengil4067 2 жыл бұрын
Haha I’m Mexican born and raised and I’ve been wearing CK one for years, I don’t like super sweet and vanilla scents, I like the freshness of it 🤷🏼‍♀️ but I’m about to change it I’m kind of tired of it
@arijeanz
@arijeanz 2 жыл бұрын
"DRAG NAME: PAM DEMONIUM" i CACKLED
@anticapitalisthomedesign
@anticapitalisthomedesign 2 жыл бұрын
I'm at such a weird place with my body rn too. I'm trans / genderqueer plus I have a history of e*ting d*sorders, trauma around having my presence seen / acknowledged, and all sorts of relatively-ish severe mental health stuff, so it's all over the place. Like a lot of us, I've literally just been sitting in my home for the past two years, so I really haven't been moving my body as much as I know it wants to move & I feel pretty icky bc of it, both in terms of how my body feels & also how it looks (and I've also been avoiding mirrors, you're definitely not alone in that). But also, for the first time in my life, I've actually, finally been figuring out how to care for my body (bc why on earth would my parents have taught me this stuff when I was still developing lol ). I've been washing my face, dry brushing my body, moisturizing everything, brushing my hair, doing fake gua sha but with my fingertips instead of the actual tool bc money's tight rn, etc. I know breathwork & bodywork are the next big steps in my healing / body / spiritual journey (both excited & terrified for those), but I'm not quite there yet. Also, unrelated, I don't know your personal financial situation so I'm not trying to tell you how to live your life specifically, I just thought this might be an appropriate place to add for anyone else who sees this that a lot of poor folx - myself included - rely on goodwill & goodwill outlets, and that the normal goodwills (at least where I live) have been getting so much more expensive over the past two years to the point where I can't really afford / justify it, so my only option is the goodwill outlet (the bins where everything's priced by weight, aka much cheaper), which isn't even particularly accessible to me (I'm autistic & it's way too loud / chaotic in there), so I just don't really have much for clothes aside from old things that don't fit either my body or my gender presentation. Please don't go to goodwill & buy the nicest things if you know you can definitely afford to go other places & you don't need the gender neutral dressing room aspect. Poor people deserve nice things too.
@Scarly373
@Scarly373 2 жыл бұрын
Girl, I go to the bins occasionally! I'm an ebay vintage (mostly) reseller. It can get cray there, the regulars are cutthroat.
@madeyoulooks
@madeyoulooks 2 жыл бұрын
VERY
@leeleeskiski
@leeleeskiski 2 жыл бұрын
I relate to turning 30 and fixating on your body. When I was turning 30, I realized all the weird feelings I had about my body my whole life was because I'm nonbinary. Right now I'm in a good place but still have those moments where I look in the mirror and things don't match up with what I think I look like.
@bossyboots5000
@bossyboots5000 2 жыл бұрын
I think you should wear "shanked by a pair of Dickies" as a badge of honor: you survived the Goodwill Bins. 😉 I've been to the bins once and it was indeed chaos and grabbing. The one here prices by weight so you get serious discounts, but you kinda have to psych yourself up for the experience bc of the grabbing. Lol I loved both pairs of grey pants, they fit you really well. Never can have too many grey pants, IMO. They're a nice alternative to black and I think they work beautifully dressed down or up, and they go with anything. I'm sorry to hear that you're feeling sort of ambivalent about your body. That can't feel good from a mental health perspective. 🤗 When I was 30 I was in the best shape of my life - though I didn't appreciate it fully bc I was too busy comparing myself to the exercising anorexic women in one of my classes, not understanding that they had such muscle definition bc they had no body fat left as a result of the disorder (using the term clinically, as in they were unfortunately literally suffering from the disorder, unbeknownst to me at the time). But I noticed that when I was active, like doing a sport I liked, I had a better relationship with my body. Not in the sense of being a particular size or shape, but bc I felt a stronger connection with my body in a positive way having seen what it could do and I liked being in my skin when I feel strong and powerful. I don't know if that helps you. I think you mentioned before that you love to dance. I think dance is a great way to be active and get some endorphins, and just appreciate what your body does and how good it feels to move. Perhaps doing more Spontaneous Dance Breaks (TM) might help you feel more connected and positive about your body. Maybe even journaling about how you feel may help you understand why. Unfortunately now I'm disabled so I have a very complicated relationship with my body, which is a whole other topic. But I noticed I still feel more positive about my body as a whole when I can be more active (which for me means being able to clean or go for a long walk). And I feel better when I dance regularly, even though just one song's length will tire me out. On the flip side, I do veer towards depression when clothes I love don't fit (too small or too big) bc my weight can change VERY quickly and often without warning. So being able to be inside the clothes that make me feel good def makes me less contentious about my body too. FWIW, YMMV.
@madeyoulooks
@madeyoulooks 2 жыл бұрын
❤️ def gotta dance more, good luck with the journey!
@Joshua-re3xw
@Joshua-re3xw 2 жыл бұрын
Where can you get that zip up hoodie I’m from London 😩😩😩😩😩😩
@tajjie_taj
@tajjie_taj 2 жыл бұрын
Lmao "crinkle CRONKLE"
@29juuni
@29juuni 2 жыл бұрын
the pants looked so so good omg, i gotta look for some too
@archwayofcesar
@archwayofcesar 2 жыл бұрын
I'd show up to the goodwill bins wearing a jacket covered in spikes. Hopefully that'll do something to ward off the grabbing hands. 😁
@taylorstep8135
@taylorstep8135 2 жыл бұрын
A lot of vintage resellers go to Goodwill bins I seen fights breakout in the parking lot.
@Taylors19
@Taylors19 2 жыл бұрын
Those grey pants looked amazing, reminds me of a pink mens pants I found at the thrift store on base.
@miaella9703
@miaella9703 2 жыл бұрын
aahhjihihdihcihdk im so proud of the hillfox merch!! its amazing ,anyway same with my body it has its days but I like it,also I'm leaning into my masculine androgynous energy and I need some pleated suit pants and lighter colour jorts ,thanks for this
@WuhLuhWriting
@WuhLuhWriting 2 жыл бұрын
My body and I have a very complicated relationship. I’ve been overweight most of my life, so now I’ve been kind of losing weight and I’m not to my ideal yet but I’m not as large as I was before. I’m also 5’3 and always felt like that didn’t help me being larger. So all the feelings tbh. I can’t stand my body on most days. I like my face A LOT. But I can’t stand my body….until it gets smaller.
@madeyoulooks
@madeyoulooks 2 жыл бұрын
felt
@emelynzacarias9730
@emelynzacarias9730 2 жыл бұрын
The bins are no joke. They pulled out new bins and had is wait behind a line, then counted down like we were starting a race in Mario cart. Hands grabbing everywhere, could have all but been trampled there. Def goin back tho
@abigailr.7487
@abigailr.7487 2 жыл бұрын
The goodwill bin in NYC was one of the scariest thing! People really out here pushing and shoving like gurls whatttttt!
@CallMeOdaliz
@CallMeOdaliz 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for making content like this! 🙌
@jazzey16
@jazzey16 2 жыл бұрын
I just turned 30 too I’m still getting us to my body I think I’m bigger than I am and so I thrift bigger clothes or something over-sized I’m just now buying smaller clothes but nothing too form fitting
@AP.lovetoAll
@AP.lovetoAll 2 жыл бұрын
State of your body is a state of your mind in general terms of health. Aaaaand Carry on folk
@Sara-uq6km
@Sara-uq6km 2 жыл бұрын
Oh shit the crochet-outfit is fire
@waterrat6915
@waterrat6915 2 жыл бұрын
What r the Goodwill bins ?
@imanixbrooklynn
@imanixbrooklynn 2 жыл бұрын
An asmr moment with the cheez-its haha On the topic of body image, I feel like the minute I hit 30, my body changed so quickly that it’s been hard to keep up.
@fvances
@fvances 2 жыл бұрын
I like the style of mens pants but I’m having a hard time finding any that don’t hang super low on my hips. Are there any styles that lean more towards middle to high waisted? I used to wear ckone growing up. I don’t wear fragrances anymore bc as I got older strong or lingering smells give me headaches. Doesn’t matter if it smells wonderful, for some reason I can’t handle it. But maybe this new one would work.
@madeyoulooks
@madeyoulooks 2 жыл бұрын
most mens dress pants are mid-rise, i find. you could also size up in womens for high/mid-rose too - they tend to have more room in the thigh/legs
@micahart2980
@micahart2980 2 жыл бұрын
I have a body that people compliment all the time. This makes me feel bad for two reasons. One, I feel like I will always be expected to look like this. And when I won’t anymore, I will have to deal with a lot of body isssues. Two, all body’s have their great pros and cons. For me, I can’t buy clothes or find my sense of style because almost nothing fits. I just buy clothes if they fit, even if they are not my favorite thing. It’s complicated
@santiacreates
@santiacreates 2 жыл бұрын
Hi friend! Let’s talk bodies! I’m a leo (8/11) like you and I feel like some of the stuff we go through happens simultaneously. I’ve also been feeling hot & cold about my body. Like I havnt looked at my body even in a full sized mirror in a while. But some days I swear I’m Beyoncé (especially in public). Idk I’ve been in this rut of only wearing sweatpants and oversized tops so that no one’s fully perceives me & tbh so I don’t have to either
@furbyacolyte5604
@furbyacolyte5604 2 жыл бұрын
oh my dad's chinese-singaporean and he used to absolutely fucking douse himself in CK one. old folks tend to go ham with the nozzle & i like to think the sales attendants were just looking out for the rest of us by selling them light perfumes. it used to be more scandalous back in the 00s though bc all the ads had models w their shirts off, and it was a pretty safe venture into something subversive. the semi-nudity fell within the excusable range of scandal bc people would dismiss it as an american thing, and anyone who was too into it was just "too westernised"--you could get offended about it, but ultimately it was the sort of thing that everyone agreed was a fad.
@emschlef
@emschlef 2 жыл бұрын
Between being chronically ill and nonbinary I have a lot of mixed feelings about my body. There are some days I wake up grateful for all that it can do and others where dysphoria hits and don't recognize myself in the mirror. I try to stay neutral but it's definitely hard.
@madeyoulooks
@madeyoulooks 2 жыл бұрын
neutral!?!? you aiming high lol
@ray.t.georgi
@ray.t.georgi 2 жыл бұрын
Hi, I’m an enby and my body is just a kind of constant struggle. I mostly just want my boobs off, but can’t do that in my country, so yeah. I sometimes don’t look anywhere but my face in the mirror ‘cause nothing else feels like me
@tajjie_taj
@tajjie_taj 2 жыл бұрын
Jade you would look good with cornrows. Great Video.
@madeyoulooks
@madeyoulooks 2 жыл бұрын
idk about that one lol
@aleynademirkilic9038
@aleynademirkilic9038 2 жыл бұрын
Weirdly, I prefer the way my body looks nude rather than when I wear a t-shirt and can see my chest protruding.
@A.Shawnee
@A.Shawnee 2 жыл бұрын
Damn, Jade! You got sliced like New York chick in the 90's! Yikes.
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