Will a Relationship With a Foreigner RUIN the Filipinas Social Life?

Will a Relationship With a Foreigner RUIN the Filipinas Social Life?
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[@Armando-and-Dailyn]

I give my wife a certain amount every month, and she handles it with her family and friends. I have seen over the years that it does affect her relationships, and puts her in situations she had to get accustomed to. And of course some jealousy…

[@Armando-and-Dailyn]

Where is your membership info located. I looked a few times, but found nothing. Salamat.

[@TheFuentesFamYT]

Hello Armando and Dailyn👋 Thank you soo much for the super chat, you two are really generous and kind❤. Also, thank you for sharing that to us. God bless you two!

[@TheFuentesFamYT]

⁠@@Armando-and-Dailyn You can open your safari browser, type KZbin.com and search The Fuentes Family. Next, tap the aA icon on the left side of the search button and click request desktop website. Lastly, click the homepage of The Fuentes Family. You can see now the JOIN button. It looks like an iPhone issue when it comes to joining. If you have an android you can use it, you will not have any problem joining. Please let me know if you need more help😊.

[@bryanlonger8646]

Good job...I always enjoy your content and mindset on topics.

[@Armando-and-Dailyn]

@@TheFuentesFamYT I tried it on my iPhone and iPad, and I did not see anything showing join. There is a link that says Become a Member, but it just circles back to your webpage.

[@TheFuentesFamily]

Hi everyone!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Enjoy the video! Please like and comment, much appreciated! ❤

[@user-zy1oh8jk7j]

Thanks for the video. 😊

[@TheFuentesFamYT]

@@user-zy1oh8jk7j you’re welcome!

[@ReginaldBurns-ox6nm]

I didn’t mean Wow I a bad way I am involved with A lovely Filipino an She is considerate an lovely inside an out Wow mean nothing Negative please 🙏

[@homesbyed]

@@TheFuentesFamily Hi! Thanks for the videos! I noticed the girls you interviewed are very cute. Can I ask what part of the country you are in this video? Thanks in advance!

[@ejtaylor73]

The stereotype is a Filipina with a foreigner as "rich" and has a good life, and if she's not sharing it, then all the marites will try to put her down. But being with a foreigner brings a whole lot of new challenges for her. Like, the marites talking bad about her, the pressure from family/friends, the cultural/language differences, the ways they communicate (Like tampo is supposed to communicate, but men in general, not just foreigners, don't pick up on subtle hints), other people trying to interfere with the relationship and break them up, and all the other challenges that come with a relationship. One of her hardest challenges could be remaining humble. I think it's her own people that are putting the most pressure on her, which is unfortunate, instead of just being happy for her. What happened to "Do not covet thy neighbor...?" Thank you Lorie and ladies for the interviews, some really well thought out answers, I hope you all have a wonderful day.

[@EdwinCV-dh8qc]

Lorie,great question and interviews congrats.

[@TheFuentesFamYT]

Hello EdwinCV👋 Thank you so much and have a great day!

[@JeremiahHexx]

MY FILIPINA FIANCEE'S BROTHER asked me to give him money to build a house, I said "NO!!" His sister, my fiancee, also told him never ask me for money again, he took a broken bottle and beat her up, cutting her so bad, she needed to go to the hospital for 40+ stitches. Her family has been nonstop pestering me for money; now, my answer will ALWAYS be NO!

[@TheFuentesFamYT]

We are very sorry to hear that Jeremiah. How’s your wife now?

[@Mabbus6666]

That's a crazy family

[@MUNDONGHIWAGAPH]

My wife still has to deal with not just family,but friends as well. Thankfully she shuts them down every time

[@TheFuentesFamYT]

HAHAHAHAHAHA I like your wife ❤.

[@stevenr1354]

Good topic! Princess is indeed a Princess. So demure and charming.

[@TheFuentesFamYT]

Hello Steven👋 Thank you and yess Princess is indeed a Princess.

[@timothycartet8278]

Best vlogg ever , thank you I’m faithfully following

[@TheFuentesFamYT]

Aww, thank you so much Timothy😊. We are very blessed to have a subscriber like you, thank you!

[@Mabbus6666]

The first girl that was interviewed Alyra, I hope she becomes my asawa.❤❤❤

[@rorybellamy2533]

Lorie finds the TaLL girls today, Good interviews Lorie

[@TheFuentesFamYT]

Hello Rory👋 Thank you and yess they’re tall.

[@dzikijohnny]

⁠@@TheFuentesFamYTOnly in the PI would 5'6" be considered tall😂 in the US 5"10"s is tall for a woman. I like short woman thankfully.

[@Mabbus6666]

I love tall Pinays❤❤

[@user-zy1oh8jk7j]

What i say is true of every impoverished area. And every country has impoverished areas. In fact if you listed the cities with the most homelessness world wide, the United States would have about 20% of them with 5. Only one other country has 2. But this video is about the Philippines. So: The majority of the Filipinos don't understand money and how to use it. So it's highly likely that a foreign boyfriend/husband needs to teach the Filipina about money. That's compounded by the fact many foreigners don't understand money either. Anyone expecting a boyfriend to support anyone other than himself needs to be shed immediately. That's a principle of money management. Legally married is slightly different. The most offensive financial bullying though is parents indoctrinating their highschool children that it's up to them to support the family, including siblings, putting that overpowering stress on children that don't have the natural talents to even have a reasonable chance to succeed at such an endeavor. I've met Filipina that feel they must cheat and steal to live up to that cultural lie.

[@andyrozman9477]

Just wanted to say hello and tell that I really enjoy your interviews, you always bring such nice (and beautiful) young women... I just came across your channel yesterday and I really like your choice of questions... Some are really funny and all of them are very informative... Keep on the good work.

[@TheFuentesFamYT]

Aww, we’re happy that you really enjoy our interviews Andy😊! We appreciate your kind words too. Thank you soo much!

[@chicagojimholdcroftsr9749]

Fuentes Family is the Best 🤙 GOD BLESS All of You Beautiful Wonderful & Amazing People 🙏❤️

[@TheFuentesFamYT]

Thank you Jim. God bless you too and have a great day😊!

[@vec306]

I prefer what’s between these ears than anything. Intelligent & smart.

[@TheFuentesFamYT]

Hello V C👋 Thank you for watching and sharing that.

[@frankellis9627]

That first girl was really nice. She's tall and cute. That's my type 😍

[@TheFuentesFamYT]

Also very kind.

[@frankellis9627]

@@TheFuentesFamYT I can tell she has a bright future when she graduates college. She needs to be with a foreign man so she can blossom 😊

[@jcgolf159]

@@TheFuentesFamYT ..and that's my type! Talagang mahalagang marhay na kuwalidad an kabuutan 💖

[@johnperez6006]

Lori does an amazing job interviewing these shy, intelligent women to bring out the ladies intent without leading them to say what they truly mean.❤❤❤

[@TheFuentesFamYT]

Aww thank you so much John!

[@Billy_B_Goat]

Filipina's who date foreigners really do have to deal with a lot of additional pressure: Half the people will be judging them as only dating for money, and the other half will be asking for money. It's good to acknowledge... seems like providing her the emotional support to deal with all that would do more to help her than even the money itself. I thought these girls had very realistic and healthy perspective on the matter. Peace and Love, B Goat

[@TheFuentesFamYT]

Hello Billy👋 Welcome to the channel! Thank you for stopping by and sharing your thoughts.

[@moderndaydrifter4672]

Awesome video lori, those are some very smart young ladies you interviewed today.

[@TheFuentesFamYT]

Hello Modern Day Drifter👋 Thank you and yess they’re smart.

[@SadButTrue__]

Princess is super cute, breath taking....

[@TheFuentesFamYT]

True

[@USA_to_Asia_in_2024]

Once again, great video Fuentes Family. Mrs Fuentes is the REAL Filipina Oprah!

[@TheFuentesFamYT]

OMG😂. I knew it! Every video I was like, you’ll mention it! Thank you sooo much for supporting our channel. We really appreciate it😊. Have a good day!

[@johngalt6708]

Kudos to these well brought up and level headed young women. "Evangelist" looks like a good bet for the basketball team 😉

[@TheFuentesFamYT]

Hi John👋 Thank you for stopping by and leaving a comment.

[@amazonseller-yf8vv]

Wow, such nce and clever grls!!! Excellent work as usual, not only for being a great interviewer but for being great at findiing such nice girls to interview.

[@TheFuentesFamYT]

Hello Amazon Seller👋 Thank you and yess they are really clever. I have a question, am I not really a great interviewer? 😂

[@amazonseller-yf8vv]

@@TheFuentesFamYT Haha, you're a great interviewer of course, I edited my comment because sometimes I'm sitting far from the laptop and I don't look cloesly what I typed. But I tried to say not only for being a great interviewer but in adition to that you seem to have a good talent for finding really interesting people which is also very important.

[@amazonseller-yf8vv]

@@TheFuentesFamYT I even suggested your channel to another american friend and he specifically said you're a great interview and he got addicted to keep watching one video and then one more. Your channel is really good for people like him because he as really skeptical before that Filipinas could be so clever and sincere but once he watched your interviews he was really impressed.

[@TheFuentesFamYT]

That’s really kind of you ​​⁠@@amazonseller-yf8vv , thank you so much😊.

[@TheFuentesFamYT]

Awww, thank you ​@@amazonseller-yf8vv ! Earlier I thought you really mean it HAHAHAHAHAHA. I was like, oh nooo 😂.

[@tacpactacpac3473]

Thank you for your Video, They Always Make Me Happy, Your Such A Cute Little Lady With A Beautiful Dress, Thank you for your hard work, I love it when you giggle with your Filipinas

[@TheFuentesFamYT]

Aww thank you so much Tacpac😅.

[@ddebruyn51]

Lori, great knowledge based questions. I found Princesses answers very acceptable.

[@TheFuentesFamYT]

Thank you Doc Bear😊!

[@tonycataluna1994]

“If you want something then work for it” is good practice. But let’s face it: it doesn’t pay off in the Philippines where wages are extremely low.

[@TheFuentesFamYT]

Hello Tony👋 Thank you for stopping by and leaving a comment.

[@tonynavarro-montes2753]

Nice show, thank you.

[@TheFuentesFamYT]

You’re welcome Tony😊. Thank you for watching!

[@jimbohi3648]

I just wanted to say these girls you interview Have language and English skills Far above the people I work with In America

[@TheFuentesFamYT]

Hello Jimbo👋 Thank you for stopping by and sharing that to us.

[@Mabbus6666]

Jumbo that's because the borders in America are wide open and they walk right in and are thrusted into the workforce, I've experienced a few Haitians at Walmart that do not know one word of English

[@djfitz13]

Those are absolutely beautiful girls...

[@TheFuentesFamYT]

Yesss they are😊.

[@williammcaleese5551]

Hello. Your guests in this interview. They are intelligent, beautiful and honest. I would love to meet someone like them, once I get there. ❤❤❤

[@TheFuentesFamYT]

Hello William👋 True, they are ! You’ll definitely meet a lot of Filipinas like them here.

[@williammcaleese5551]

@@TheFuentesFamYT I'm afraid I'm to old for them. I have seen your vlogs about age doesn't matter but then they say they want someone 10 to 20 years older maximum.🥺🥺

[@TheFuentesFamYT]

⁠​⁠​⁠@@williammcaleese5551 honestly, we saw a lot of couples here with huge age gap and they’re happily married. So don’t be afraid, everyone deserves love and there’s still women out there who will love you😊.

[@williammcaleese5551]

@@TheFuentesFamYT ♥️♥️

[@tomdailey4819]

My Filipina had to change her Facebook because people she hasn't talked to in years found out that she's with a foreigner started asking her for money all the time.... When me and her first started dating I told her that I was never going to give her a family any money... My only responsibility is to take care of her and the kids

[@TheFuentesFamYT]

Hello Tom👋 Thank you for watching and sharing that. I feel sorry for your wife because she has to change her Facebook.

[@saulgoodman7221]

To be frank I’d have to change my name. 😂

[@TheFuentesFamYT]

😂

[@johnreed4401]

Alyra is so beautiful. I'm in love. I would love to be her foreigner

[@dzikijohnny]

I am moving to the PI, next year, and I just assume some family support would be part of the package at least for the parents. Mind you I have an online business and I could put her on salary and expense it. BTW, somebody said the my writing PI is a dead giveaway that I was in the NAVY.

[@ismethoxha6882]

The first girl. Was straight in point. It depends on the situation. If there is any unfortunate comes up. Like fire, worthqieke, flodininig, or sickness have to help it is necessary for help l live at America.l helped my wife family 10 years ago because they had flood in their house. Also l send it money a few times for sickness. I know where is necessary to help. She doesn’t need to ask me. Because l know what should l do as man. But l do not like to send money for lazy people. No way.

[@TheFuentesFamYT]

Hello Ismet👋 That’s very kind of you!

[@RickyFuller-wq6os]

No the Philippines people don’t have the right to ask a expat for money. No one has that right

[@TheFuentesFamYT]

Thanks Ricky for sharing your thoughts 😊.

[@markanthonypetra]

OK Lorie.......touchy subject. Is there a right or wrong answer to this question? I would think it would be a case by case basis. Some foreigners will offer money even if the filipina didn't ask, it's kinda of a wide open topic.......I was impressed with Princess's response tho...very charming young lady. Always good stuff Lorie....Salamat po.

[@TheFuentesFamYT]

Thank you M Petra😊!

[@matthewgardner824]

Would you recommend searching online for someone in the Phiippines, or just go over there and look first?

[@TheFuentesFamYT]

Hello Matthew👋 It’s always best if you visit in person than search online.

[@calebguest1625]

Filipinas are always sweet, but they struggle to give a direct answer, thinking that means they are judging people

[@lutherthompson8547]

Finances is mainly what ended my long marriage in the usa,, i should have ended it 10 or 15 years earlier

[@TheFuentesFamYT]

Hello Luther👋 Welcome to the channel! Thank you for stopping by.

[@Midwest10]

Finally a Filipina that does not cover her mouth with a hand when she laughs or smiles. And into math and being 5’6”

[@TheFuentesFamYT]

Thank you James for stopping by and leaving a comment😊.

[@marcoscaveira]

I really wish knowing Alyra , introduce her to me

[@TheFuentesFamYT]

She can see your comment Marcos😊. Hopefully she’ll respond.

[@ReginaldBurns-ox6nm]

Wow

[@bryanlonger8646]

Good job

[@TheFuentesFamYT]

Thank you Bryan!

[@ryanbentley1322]

I think that I will come to Goa Bicol this Christmas to see if it is true!!

[@TheFuentesFamYT]

Yesssss come and enjoy Christmas here in the province Ryan!

[@ryanbentley1322]

Thank you! I'm excited to plan my trip there :)

[@TheFuentesFamYT]

@@ryanbentley1322 you’re welcome 😊! Don’t forget to visit Naga city too.

[@mtnmandeluxe5429]

Hi Lorie,,another great,,informative,,useful interview! I'd date any one of those 3,,because they gave answers that made sense,,even in the case of language issues. In my mind they were correct answers because they were completely fair. There is no way in the world I'd give money to a relative that isnt even trying,,its different if a hard working person,,has ,,let's say a medical emergency,,rather than the one who got bed sores from watching tv or laying around.. thank you Lorie,,something else to consider when choosing a romantic partner. Lol ,,if I ever make it over there,,I'd just hire you to follow me around and interview ever woman that I came in contact with 😂😅 lol I'm joking of course,,but it WOULD make things alot easier. Take care,,Ttyl,,,Marlon

[@TheFuentesFamYT]

So you’ll hire us? 😂

[@mtnmandeluxe5429]

@@TheFuentesFamYT 🤣😂☺

[@trumpnorthcarolina]

Wow! the 3rd girl you interviewed (princess) is very pretty and smart! Is she single??

[@TheFuentesFamYT]

She has a boyfriend.

[@trumpnorthcarolina]

@@TheFuentesFamYT lucky guy!! God bless you and your family!

[@TheFuentesFamYT]

@@trumpnorthcarolina Thank you!

[@user-fh8sr8oc4g]

Hi there Fuentes Family, That brilliant Vlog, it is a shame in 2024 that the girlfriend's family & friends still believe they have the right to ask for money, because he is foreign................. Keep up the good work??? Have a great week! Garrie Chan

[@TheFuentesFamYT]

Hello Garrie👋 Thank you for watching and sharing that😊. Have a great week too!

[@chicagojimholdcroftsr9749]

Unfortunately Money is Access. I Send P33,000 a Month to a Family Four. The 2 Oldest Attend College, Live in Boarding Houses, Even tho College Tution is Free, there are still plenty of Cost's involved. From My Experience, I Can Say that a Filipina as Well as Her Family Live a Much Better Quality of Life when They have a Constant Support System ❤️ GOD is Good

[@johntoscano2342]

🥰🥰🥰🥰🙏🏼

[@TheFuentesFamYT]

Hello John👋 Thank you for stopping by and leaving a comment!

[@jamalgreen3056]

Will foreigners disrupt the social communication between Filipino and Filipinas.I think the real question we need to ask do foreigners out number Filipino people?And the answer is no,so therefore no we cannot disrupt any social communication between the Filipino people.The second reason why is because the Philippines just like any other Asian and middle eastern country has a collective society.Yes as far as relationships is concerned it will be less of Filipino relationships.But as far as all social communication and interaction being cut off between Filipino people I don’t think so.

[@bluesart7]

Wow it must be very hot there, the 3rd beautiful young lady wiping her face often, here it's 10 or 12 degree C days at the moment, I would be a walking puddle of sweat there I think😅Great intelligent and interesting ladies and great interview subjects Lorie and Johnny, you are the only yt channel I would miss if you stopped posting. Great stuff, take care and God Bless as always🙏👍😊

[@TheFuentesFamYT]

We need more subscribers like you Blue😂. Someone who will miss our videos when we don’t upload. We really appreciate you for being a loyal subscriber! Thank you😊. Yesss it’s hot here Blue. If you visit here, you will have your aircon on every time.

[@bluesart7]

@@TheFuentesFamYT You are appreciated guys, good to have a no nonsense channel run by good people. Yes a visit only maybe, I will be living in a cooler part of Phils, of which there are 3 or 4..still quite warm compared to here, but not 40 degrees plus🙂 Thanks guys 👍👍

[@TheFuentesFamYT]

⁠@@bluesart7 ohh like Baguio. It’s cold there compared to other places here in the Philippines.

[@user-zy1oh8jk7j]

So how do you pronounce Alyra? Al I rrrra? Hahaha I get so confused by name pronunciation.

[@stevengonyaw1617]

A fool and his money soon will part !

[@Leonard369C]

Many foreigners moved to the Philippines because they can enjoy a discounted lifestyle. This discount only exist because of the poverty that exist there, most have access to much younger women, which they could not in their own country and are making 5 to 10 times what the girl is a custom too, shame on the foreigner if he chooses not to help her family (with needs). The girl and her family should expect help from the foreigner. Just as the foreigner expects a lower cost-of-living and access to much younger women when he gets to the Philippines.

[@TheFuentesFamYT]

Hello Leonard👋 Thank you for watching and sharing your thoughts.

[@USA_to_Asia_in_2024]

If you stay in tip-top shape and out of marriages and achieve success by age 45-55, you have access to your own country as well as the Philippines. Not sure why you harp on foreigners having access to much younger women which they could not in their own country unless you're referring to lazy old men who are out of shape and/or on medicine. In that case, you might be correct.

[@davidcadman4468]

@@USA_to_Asia_in_2024 I agree with you. I'm in Canada, and if it weren't for Gov't Medical Insurance I would have been dead long ago. So while I have $$ going to the Philippines or anywhere else is not an option. It wouldn't be fair to them. As for here, at mid 70's I'm a left over Baby Boomer, the women here do not want a relationship, they want an ATM until it runs out. No thanks, I'll keep my peace, and quite. I do envy guys who can make it to these other countries and meet girl's / Women that would love them for who they are. At least that is the hope. Cheers mate, live long and prosper...