If more women ask this question less women would be getting married to the wrong men.
@mrparvezff58349 ай бұрын
Yeah women are 304s they ain't asking that chit.
@kavithabain19879 ай бұрын
That's not true dear... lot of people tells lies too...
@ernecybonhometre65879 ай бұрын
Or getting a divorce after 2 years, or after 5 years if she's a resilient person.
@vidya99519 ай бұрын
True
@larasmith57239 ай бұрын
Hello there, there ain't a lot of men wants to get married in the first place. The role has now reversed.
@knitwit23810 ай бұрын
I am in total agreement with this advice for women. I miss Myles Monroe.
@ronbo3010 ай бұрын
What if he lies to the woman and is a dead beat? The woman going to divorce him? That’s not biblical.the LORD hates divorce. That’s why it’s important for a long courtship, to see if the talk lines up with the walk. My grandpa told me 50 years ago.look at what a man DOES NOT WHAT HE SAYS. If they don’t line line up? Walk away from such a man.
@Fasmidio10 ай бұрын
That's why only fools marry. You basically tell them they're there to finance your life, and they still bend the knee. What a sad sight.
@ronbo3010 ай бұрын
@@Fasmidio what? You must be scared of commitment.
@Fasmidio10 ай бұрын
@@ronbo30 It's logical when I commit objective, quantifiable assets that I can never take away, and she commits her good will that she can take away at any time.
@PRISCILLAMAMBO-ux9fb9 ай бұрын
That's true good advice
@maurine35539 ай бұрын
Very very important. I used to ask my ex boyfriend this question and he couldn't answer or he'd just say "to be happy". I hate to admit that I stayed longer than I should but I am glad I left eventually.
@royaltyh8888 ай бұрын
Congrats! So happy you got out early.
@nellymomo23698 ай бұрын
I wouldn't call it late but confirmation on what you felt. You made the right decision at the end of the day
@kenyonajohnson33398 ай бұрын
I also asked the same question. I never got an answer at first. Then I asked again, what are we doing, going, plans to achieve; his response was that I've done everything I wanted to do. Heartbreaking, but needed for me to move on about my life. I thank the Lord for the strength to move on. ❤
@ashawntirandle82177 ай бұрын
I did the same thing. And stayed too long. I now have my senses
@AsaAsherSmith7 ай бұрын
I did the same and stayed longer than I should have. He literally had no sense of direction. The relationship went nowhere.
@olabisiogunnaike51575 ай бұрын
This is DEEP... only the wise and matured can answer the question.
@SakuraShrestha-vl4uz7 ай бұрын
True.. marriage is a union where u build together to become better.
@rowenaaquino21798 ай бұрын
Praise God that I did the right thing. During our dating stage, I asked about his plans, vision, mission, and determining his faith level in different situations. Now, we are serving as volunteer missionaries in Africa since we have the same mindset.
@KeturaYisrael8 ай бұрын
😏 What are we going to do together?😮😊
@chiomaritaonunaku46958 ай бұрын
Wow!❤
@chachumrigam57048 ай бұрын
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@perfectsolobj8 ай бұрын
God bless you
@ahantoine8 ай бұрын
@_Paulyn_ I'd like to know too!
@mariamakorede65379 ай бұрын
Yes ooo, follow a man not because of what he drives but because of what drives him. Power of Vision cannot be overemphasized.
@LLmoney238 ай бұрын
💪💓💯💯💯💯
@sharinaross18658 ай бұрын
Did he say that in the complete speech.
@zee_lolaj73825 ай бұрын
I Love it💜💛
@better20539 ай бұрын
This is so true and I did the same and I didn't saw any future with him then I refused getting married him .its been a year and I think it was my best decision 🎉🎉🎉
@esthernakaye42418 ай бұрын
Wonderful
@First12love8 ай бұрын
I asked the same questions and my person got offended and listened to several men who weren't giving him good counsel. I remember saying, I don't know who you've been talking to but I know it's not of God. I was asking God for revelation and he gave it to me. By the way, I was 24/25 when that happened.
@Arghyadip-yp1lo5 ай бұрын
If a person loves u , he will tell about his future and share his ideas and also as opinions , u dont have to ask him. If he doesn’t tell then either he is not serious or have other plans which doesn’t include u or he is not responsible enough to think about his career or way of living.
@faleyimuhelen75424 ай бұрын
Beautiful..this is Soo Deep
@anaf7528 ай бұрын
Yes! Sharing a common vision & having similar goals are so important!
@zanod25146 ай бұрын
Not common vision but to support that vision.
@Leonardernes9 ай бұрын
I pray that these short messages will reach the youth of this generation 🙏 ❤
@prinzhelaznoya7328 ай бұрын
Love is useless when a man can't provide for his family's needs
@LLmoney238 ай бұрын
I think what's worse is when they won't provide. Any man who is willing to try or at least make effort, is still worth it 😊
@lindsaypeek638 ай бұрын
@@LLmoney23 peoples future children can’t eat “try”
@cirohugo8 ай бұрын
So love isn't necessary in a marriage?
@vtigga36258 ай бұрын
@@cirohugoBoth love and provision are necessary in a marriage.😊
@annettetrent11058 ай бұрын
@@cirohugoBishop didn't say love wasn't necessary in a marriage. You need more than love, you also need provision.
@allchakrasopen3876 ай бұрын
Unfortunately a deeper conversation needs to be had. My husband's answer was superb and a decade later I'm regretting it.
@janine24324 ай бұрын
I agree. People can give all the right answers and then change.
@Anta27903 ай бұрын
Absolutely positive communication! 💯💯💯💯💯‼️
@alexiamerimba846910 ай бұрын
Amen! I always pray for a man whom we will serve God's purpose TOGETHER!❤
@Jay21Lyn8 ай бұрын
I asked this all the time and men don't even answer. I see that as a blessing in disguise.
@Gargeler5 ай бұрын
Most men don’t know where they’re going until they get married . the preacher on the other hand is surely be talking about eternity, perhaps.
@TirianOfNarnia5 ай бұрын
Exactly. Cause most men have no purpose for their life.
@Letstalk-zx7jx5 ай бұрын
This is good
@warkeys91475 ай бұрын
Just a blessing. No disguise
@mariamuscat40395 ай бұрын
most men dont have maturity they cant answer
@annkelly634910 ай бұрын
Thank you Dr. Munroe for all the wise teachings you left behind for all to follow.
@champchamp48199 ай бұрын
He was a false teacher lol 😅
@MadeByGod19738 ай бұрын
How so?
@DearDurand10747 ай бұрын
I think Dr. Myles is a 100% correct! I absolutely agree. Thank you for sharing so honestly, it's like you are still here.
@TheLeshe867 ай бұрын
Amen! This is solid advice❤!! I will certainly take heed💯!
@sithembenimathukuthela59489 ай бұрын
Very true because God says we are helpers we have to help someone who is doing something how can I help someone doing nothing??
@anitaangry87198 ай бұрын
Deep
@irishhenderson82058 ай бұрын
❤Amen...
@CalderonIsra8 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂Help him to sit😅
@zsmith75908 ай бұрын
Preach 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
@richardowusu65778 ай бұрын
@@CalderonIsra😂😂😂…sit around doing nothing and wasting time
@mtv508610 ай бұрын
Very true! I wish I would’ve known that sooner!😢
@excellenceesq99469 ай бұрын
Oh! However, it's not late yet. Women are gifted to bring life out of no-life. Women are the reason many men's lives are transformed. You can work on your man and patiently bring out the better nature of him. He can become a man of vision because of you.
@Fahmida994659 ай бұрын
Don't worry sister, ❤
@suellenlobo43538 ай бұрын
I can relate 😢
@soukainaMeha6 ай бұрын
learn from ur past and fault we are humans
@jacintaikupu17268 ай бұрын
I agree 💯 with you. ..we don't ask this question! We only want love and children. No wonder our relationships fail and our children become Victim of our failure. Thanks for the Positive enlightenment...
@sunguarmagan95354 ай бұрын
🙏🏻✝️🥇
@AloneWlf4 ай бұрын
WOAH 😳 I FELT THAT
@JaklinEllis3 ай бұрын
Marvelous work! Keep dazzling us with your brilliance! 🎥💖
@EmmaCornejo-w3q9 ай бұрын
Very sensible. Especially these times when there are so many challenges in marriage. This should be an important conversation before marriage.
@maryroseculas32739 ай бұрын
EXACTLY !!!!! Well said. Ladies, look before you leap. Life is too precious to let it pass by.
@GyanPrakash-bf5sk3 ай бұрын
Absolutely awesome perspective 🎉
@dmiles84067 ай бұрын
Good point! 😅 You should see if you have similar goals, the same values and trust. We know the love and attraction part of the equation is important but the goals, values and belief in your worth are so important. To be trustworthy is way up there on the list too.
@rosengugi-j6r10 ай бұрын
Wow that's powerful? An eye opener? Thank you a legend. Rest in peace beloved.
@nancynevels22388 ай бұрын
True!! How can you truly follow someone who has no vision or plan especially that includes you or your role??
@sabrinabradshaw99854 ай бұрын
Words of wisdom so true lovely I miss this man and his teaching.....
@goldie51114 ай бұрын
EXCELLENT advice!!!!
@warrior4christ9028 ай бұрын
I agree 💯. Some men only want a “bedroom” buddy…js
@jackyjames885210 ай бұрын
Very True and he must be God fearing🙌
@priscillamartinez4607 ай бұрын
Absolutely mind blowing 💥💢💯
@ladyjay96683 ай бұрын
True, i followed a man without a vision for 12yrs,put mine on hold and followed him. We never got anywhere. He's stil "working" on his health,finances,mental health,he doesnt grow spiritually. I left him and God is restoring years eaten by locust!
@beckyngumbah77938 ай бұрын
Always full of wisdom...Dr. Myles munroe, your legacy lives on💯👍😊
@victoriacampion800210 ай бұрын
Myles Munroe was so wise. I loved listening to him every Sunday. He definitely went to be with the Lord way too soon.
@ndanacarter32708 ай бұрын
He is correct because the answer will help her know him better and he will learn about the sustainability of their relationship. ❤
@ShawnetteLawrence4 ай бұрын
Beautiful advice
@MakeAdifference-fi5jr6 ай бұрын
Exactly ! That's so true 👍 💯
@archanapatil92409 ай бұрын
I should have known this question before my marriage
@ADevone7 ай бұрын
This man never ceases to amaze me, even in his absence. His voice and impact will never die. He is the GOAT!
@iloveallhaandmohammadsaw74276 ай бұрын
Sharing a common vision and having similar goals is so much important
@f.aa.38269 ай бұрын
You are true sir. That reminds me that women have been created to be a help to their husband. I just understand it now. Thank you sir for this wisdom
@Lawandjury9 ай бұрын
I believe both the questions are equally important. Love and future. If any one thing is missing then there is a big problem. The second question should be of family. If all these things are in line. Marry him.
@mistyjordan714710 ай бұрын
Exactly. I learned my lesson and this question will be asked from now on.
@joshuachike325010 ай бұрын
So can you ask me the same question❤🎉
@adoreyou13556 ай бұрын
That’s the most realest thing I’ve heard all week
@AsheriSherifa-dk8ei7 ай бұрын
This is the best massage I've heard so far, i don't want a man who doesn't have a plan.
@Jesus-v1i9z9 ай бұрын
Godly women are faithful and Loyal in relationships with their men through the Love of God 🙏
@Dissacharide8 ай бұрын
Men should also be asking their friends this, and asking women too.
@FoodAirportTV6 ай бұрын
Did you want to follow her vision?😂 Is she going to be leading you.? The goal should be finding out if she has the capacity to wear the cap of that vision of yours? For example Not everyone can be a president's wife or a pastor. it's a big role.
@ernestinegore39759 ай бұрын
Amen, thank you sir. I am so glad it came from a real man. Women are you listening , I hope so🙏
@KatThePRPrac788 ай бұрын
He has my full attention!
@shruti6098 ай бұрын
It's a basic question to check his mentalism because of to capable of to choose right direction even in a tough ongoing situation
@floodjacqueline13416 ай бұрын
Absolutely on point! ❤
@JC4all_dena10 ай бұрын
Thank you for posting this. Wish I could see his full sermons
@irenesalness22289 ай бұрын
You nailed this one. Thank you. 🌹🌹🌹.
@CC-513410 ай бұрын
I agree but the question should be “do you love Jesus”
@mewaka10 ай бұрын
If you love Jesus truly. You'll know where you're going. So if they don't know where they are going, you can say they haven't sat with God to know His plans for them
@nataliesparks48299 ай бұрын
@@mewaka lip service. you know them by their fruits(actions)
@glowieokenney79159 ай бұрын
Me toooooo
@indigoTwilight19679 ай бұрын
I would hope you already asked that question when you became his friend... Though that is a good question to come back to when you are actively considering marriage.
@juancarreon12139 ай бұрын
Yes true
@anonymousreview10497 ай бұрын
I absolutely agree!!! But do we ask that question? Absolutely not. We’re to busy being swept off of our feet with emotion and sometimes lust.
@luyimajulius68363 ай бұрын
Dr Myles Munroe is right. I agree with him entirely
@clintonkegode648910 ай бұрын
these hit so hard😢
@jainii1038 ай бұрын
True every one should ask this before marriage
@Flawless13838 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing this I asked this I thought it was crazy no response until today😂😂😂😂
@abigailgadzo7 ай бұрын
This is the advice I've been giving my friends❤ I'm happy to hear this from him too❤❤😊
@loveli_anne3 ай бұрын
Truth. What matters more to a man is Respect over Love. A man can be in love with you and not want to marry you. A man wants to feel secure and stable as much as a woman. He wants to know that he can build with you, better yet, he wants to see if you can build yourself up without his help. A man speaks through his actions, not his words. If he is a strong, confident, and excellent leader it will show through his actions. Pay attention!
@Jeanette-q7u8 ай бұрын
Great advice! I hope the young women are listening! 👍🏼😁
@TheresSomethingAboutMerry10 ай бұрын
Powerful and True!! 👑❤️🙌
@abdullateefshukurah85846 ай бұрын
Wow. This is so captivating and inspiring. I really learn a lot from this short but full message
@Gospel_Mysteries6 ай бұрын
This man again, I love you so much sir. Your teaching has impacted me so much.
@66chubbs8 ай бұрын
He is telling the truth❤😊
@vicb51188 ай бұрын
I ask this from my managers as well and quit if there is no future with them!
@ShanickSiyonga6 ай бұрын
😅😅😅😅😅😅😅
@donnajojean321710 ай бұрын
His wisdom superseded time. God gave Dr. Monroe the wisdom of Solomon.❤
@khalidnasher20636 ай бұрын
IAM a Muslim, and very much agree, this is what we do in our culture,, love will come later after you learn to struggle together then you'll learn to love and appreciate each other.
@dmdm89285 ай бұрын
This is so profound......God bless you Sir
@maddiebradshaw11378 ай бұрын
This is great spiritual advice....❤💯💥
@divineacademicplatform6 ай бұрын
God bless you Dr. Myles Munroe
@SacredDaily6 ай бұрын
Great! This man is wonderful.
@joshuachike325010 ай бұрын
True talk man of God❤
@kawannaneal39298 ай бұрын
Amen, so true… Where are you going, write the vision and make it plain Habakkuk 2. The man is supposed to be the head and if I’m supposed to follow you I need to know where you are going , what’s your vision
@ellanorevannin41477 ай бұрын
Thank you! I will now add that to my list of questions to ask a man before I agree to date him.
@elanaseger28683 ай бұрын
Totally agree, wish this wisdom was available 40 years ago❤❤❤
@mixentertainer52979 ай бұрын
Not just women in today's time even men should ask the same question from women before getting married
@dinot16099 ай бұрын
Nope. For Men, it is the exact opposite. The qn to ask for Men should be "where have you gone?? ", " What is your past?". A woman's past is the most important determinant for a Man to marry her.
@rachel14rod8 ай бұрын
A man's past alsomatters@@dinot1609
@Vaseline10039 ай бұрын
YES.... AS FUTURE OF MEN IS IMPORTANT..... SO IS WOMEN'S PAST..... BE CAREFUL MEN..... CAUSE THERE ARE A LOT OF SHAPE SHIFTERS.
@kmonea98508 ай бұрын
I agree with you!! Lots of past misfortunes as adults is often due to lots of past poor choice making. Consistent positive improvements in a person's past story says a lot about where they're going now.
@KeturaYisrael8 ай бұрын
True. Men be very careful very careful.
@katiesmith80259 ай бұрын
Absolute wisdom.
@sunny_13237 ай бұрын
Amen! This is definitely one of those lessons i wish i wouldve learned when I was a kid/teenager. Now, divorced, ex husband hasnt worked in over 10 years and lives in low income housing with someone that proudly says she keeps having kids so she knows she wikk always have an income. I am not knocking their lifestyle by any means it just was not the life for me. Took 16 years for me to realize that our love and connection was amazing but that we werent going anywhere. Always stuck in a rut. Since our divorce I have thrived. I have custody of our children and even with little education I have worked my way up to give our children ans myself a much better life.
@treasureforashes34976 ай бұрын
My favourite teacher of all the time
@gracebressi86229 ай бұрын
First of all the most important thing is that someone loves you and is willing to grow and change with you. Nobody really knows where they’re going 100%. You could have plans for a certain career and it might change in the end of love is what’s important, so long as a man is working and doing his best he doesn’t have to have a whole knowledge of where he’s going in life you learn that together
@katrinab76578 ай бұрын
He has to have ambition. God can reroute him - if he's going somewhere, not if he's always standing still. Most good men are not content if they don't at least have a plan and a goal in mind. When they want a wife, they're going to try to prove their value or share their vision, not just pipe dreams without a plan. The dreamers can be providers, but life with a dreamer who is not a doer sounds like recipe for frustration. Plans don't always work, but when a man has tried their best, his wife and home should be a soft place to fall, a place to heal and regroup, to be reminded of his value, to regain the courage to face and conquer their corner of the world.
@SAF31828 ай бұрын
@@katrinab7657❤💯
@taismoo8 ай бұрын
@gracebressi8622 if you interested in Kingdom marriage then absolutely the question about where you going ...Biblically your steps are ordered by the Lord. It's not about just working and doing his best ...is that man putting God first. Is he submissive to God?
@NakanguJosephine-nk2rn8 ай бұрын
you didn't understand what the man was trying to say, your right but he was trying to give highlites to....
@susanmcmullen778910 ай бұрын
Oh yes they will put their vision on paper and by gum it sounds fabulous then they promise you all this then they break every one of them promise breakers. It’s a heart ache but thank Jesus he does heal and comfort you in all the disappointments hallelujah ❤✝️
@bezagebremedhine51029 ай бұрын
Amen♥️🙏✝️
@chassidylindsey47926 ай бұрын
Very important!! Thank you for sharing this message with us!!
@AniShi20017 ай бұрын
Amazing, thank you 🙏🏾
@savinggift1589 ай бұрын
A man with a plan An resources to make a start
@nelysilva583310 ай бұрын
Perfect👍😊. Praise the Lord 🙌🙏
@HypoAllergenic-db6eh5 ай бұрын
Correct as love don feed you and love don last long enough. So please don marry blindly ❤
@shanaeevans85856 ай бұрын
Great Advice 🙌🏽
@gjjetson33678 ай бұрын
❤ YES AMEN,,He’s So Very Right,,, Follow Him 💜 To Where??
@LisaNachone7 ай бұрын
Well spoken very much true
@SarahSebolecwe7 ай бұрын
Thats some legendary advice right there
@WosenyelehHailemichael10 ай бұрын
That's so amazing . I aggre this is the question girls have to ask .thanks .
@marykaylor73373 ай бұрын
This is so good! As a woman I've been criticized for seeking a mate who has "money" They were sorely mistaken. I didn't date much because after HS I was looking for someone with similar values. I knew I wanted to contribute to society and make it better. I wanted someone who had an upbringing that valued Christ or christian concepts and knew something about Him. Someone who liked outdoors, hd the capacity to discuss issues even if we disagreed. It just so happens men with these values typically have drive, heart and work hard.
@MozBizResources5 ай бұрын
Very important to know he has direction. Not sure that "do you love me" is the wrong question, just that it is not the ONLY consideration. Love alone doesn't build marriage. Alignment is very important too.