Will I Ever Get Married? | Encouragement For Christian Single Women

[@AndyBahBah]

Thank you for this. I'm 38, single and never dated. I've been doing better in expecting God to do His good and perfect will in His timing. I believe in this more and more!

[@jadegemsss]

I’m not over 30 yet, but you’re right. The world will scare you into doubt. It’s especially hard with all of these redpill videos from men and horror stories (some too close for comfort) from women on the internet… I’ve taken many a social media break. I’m trying to wrestle this now so that I don’t have years of doubt ahead of me. And please, before anyone says “you’re still in your 20’s go live your life!” I live it to the fullest as much as possible. I love my friends and family and am pretty active in my community. I want a family of my own to raise in righteousness and I need the right man by my side for that. Until someone loves me the way Jesus does I’ll keep the desire near to my heart.

[@patriciatollison8655]

In my 60s and at this point God's lack of action is totally discouraging. I feel like I'll never be worthy of a mate in God's eyes. 😢

[@marilynkhasnabish7407]

I believe it will happen but im soo tired of waiting. Next year i will be 50 and i haven't been married even once!

[@TheBlessedQueen2000]

I'm tired of waiting as well i'm going to be 22 in two months. I have never had a relationship or marriage just nothing.

[@jadastricker569]

I am believing with you for your breakthrough let is be her Jubilee her favourable year of the Lord Jesus

[@dr.aliadixonnursepractitio6473]

@TheBlessedQueen I don’t know if you young girls are Trolling or something is wrong with y’all self esteem at 22 you should only be worrying about COURTING, traveling the world and finding a trade to have money in your pockets.. my daughter is 23 just finished college, traveling to Africa and Asia with her friends living her best life while keeping her legs closed and dating young suitors her age with stuff in common.. all you 20 year olds talking about giving up Giving up on what? You just started life 🤦🏽‍♀️ enjoy life make yourself complete and whole and God will bring you your man for you

[@andrearobinson6414]

Thank you so much for this encouragement. The timing is perfect! May God continue to bless you.

[@aprilpowell6619]

I’m keeping hope alive and I believing God for marriage! Thank you so much for the encouragement. You are a blessing!

[@jadastricker569]

Yesss!

[@bougiegal2074]

Thanks for the encouragement. To be honest I’ve been waiting for decades 25 years. I cried so much that I can’t cry anymore. I have told God to take that desire away because I felt like I was being tormented for waiting all these years and nothing. I feel like it was a waste. I don’t get approached at all and I’m tired of being overlooked. I had a lot of faith years ago but I became weary and gave up. I don’t even think I have the energy to have faith in this waiting game. It’s really a struggle for me. It’s mentally and emotionally exhausting. Thanks for your video.❤

[@jadastricker569]

I am believing with you for your breakthrough!! Don't give up on the promise God has placed in your heart. There is a battle out there on identity and marriage but our God is a BIG God. LORD Jesus bring them there breakthrough they truly wish for a spouse and "nothing is impossible for you (Matt. 19:26) Let is be so Lord bring it Now in Jesus name!!!

[@bougiegal2074]

@@jadastricker569 thanks sweetheart. I appreciate it.

[@Kiki-AndBeyond]

I'm standing in agreement with you. You will be a wife. I don't believe God would put the desire in your heart and not give you your husband. Make sure you are putting action behind your thoughts and words. You can't expect Amazon to deliver him to your door.

[@bougiegal2074]

@@Kiki-AndBeyond you’re absolutely right. Thanks sweetie

[@lillianabuoro6837]

I stand with you in Prayer as I'm also in the waiting room.

[@Rhi86877]

Amen! I thought I was wrong for desiring marriage. I thought I wanted it too much, God did promise me marriage. I was in a situation-ship and I know it's not His will for me to be in. I desire to be with the right person, God has ordained. I will hold fast. I will have faith in my marriage promise.

[@jadastricker569]

Amen believing with you for God's perfect timing and you breakthrough - for Gods absolute best!!!!

[@gelleh.5456]

I’m 34 and childless and I have no hope left.

[@sixteen.candles.4644]

Lol girl you're only 34 and you're extremely pretty. It'll happen.

[@JeneThompson-p1u]

I love you ❤

[@dr.aliadixonnursepractitio6473]

OMG you all need to stop being on social media and spiritual fast from it and start to do research instead on how to manifest your dream life with Bible scriptures.. women having babies up to 50 although I think 45 should be cut off.. you still have a good 10 years left in you..I thought you would say you were 44 instead 🫠😫

[@dr.aliadixonnursepractitio6473]

@sixteen candles EXACTLY I’m like girl go on with that petty party mess and start spiritual fasting for your husband and babies! She has a good 10 years in her

[@tinybrit3225]

Lol the irony is I got an ad to download tinder while watching this. Tinder is the last place I would find a Christian man 😂

[@justme88882]

I know a couple christian couples who met at tinder. So its not impossible😊

[@lynnd.5135]

Not everyone will marry a Christian man. Pray for the man God has for you. That's all

[@justme88882]

@@lynnd.5135 we as christians are only allowed to marry another christian. Marriage between two christians is hard nowadays. But a marriage between a christian and a non or other believer is impossible! You don't see eye to eye on the important things in life.

[@lynnd.5135]

@@justme88882 what verse is that?

[@justme88882]

@@lynnd.5135 1 Corinthians 7 verse 39

[@wildyac8077]

Wow i needed this. Let God be true and everyone else be a lie. Period.

[@jadastricker569]

Amen standing with your faith!

[@valenciaapillaringodstempl6554]

Girl, I let go of that so long ago! Now, I'm thinking about getting the desire again, but... it's not easy. For me what will be will be by the will of God Almighty 🙏

[@jadastricker569]

wow "the odds are more in our favor than against us," and "God won't take that desire, because he gave it to you!" Beautiful sister thank you - wow tears. I am so tired of ministers reading into the text, taking Scripture out f context and then beating singles over the head with it; suggesting that there is something wrong with singles or they haven't found fulfillment in Christ and they need to get more healed that the longing is out of place. Like Hannah the priest accused her of being drunk and completely out of order but her promise was related to kingdom destiny. There is not something always wrong with someone because they are single and truly desire to have a family - maybe they are like Hannah. I wish more were speaking life like you! Ready to encourage and stand with someone in faith. There is a war out there on identity and marriage. This was a word of hope, of faith for our breakthrough. THANK YOU for your words!!

[@naturallycandacemarie]

Thank you Queen for the encouragement ❤️

[@waitingroomlife-withcynthi8991]

Your welcome my love!

[@smc1774]

Thank you for sharing this video. May Abba Yahuah continue blessing you and your family.

[@ScorpioDiva1112]

I’m 25 and this blessed me thank you

[@Cantthinkofwhatshouldgohere]

I actually praise God the desire left me, so much peace and tranquility. Never have to worry about a cheating husband/divorce, praise God!!

[@jadastricker569]

There was a moment in the Gospel of Matthew where they were discussing the matters of divorce and Jesus said yes but "‘For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh’? I believe the person God brings into our lives it will not be for divorce heartache and cheating for " Every good and perfect gift is from above, coming down from the Father of the heavenly lights, who does not change like shifting shadows. (James 1:17)

[@jessical7156]

Thank you for this-really needed to hear this today!

[@waitingroomlife-withcynthi8991]

You're so welcome! I'm so glad you found it when you needed it!

[@sarahk1977]

Thank you for this encouraging word. ☺

[@anndiestephen7671]

Amen. I am encouraged. Thank you Sis. Your channel is a blessing

[@waitingroomlife-withcynthi8991]

I'm so glad! That's my goal! 😘

[@magnificent_kimberly]

Late 20s (28) and a single mom. I've been single since June 2023 (its October 2024). Its hard to believe my husband is out there. I know im not quite ready yet but starting to think its not in the cards for me. 😞😞

[@iamgrateful-pl9ml]

Thank you for sharing this. i am 53 single un married yet and have many times thought : God, will i ever get married? should i let go the desire to be a wife? God bless you

[@marilynkhasnabish7407]

Don't let go sister. If you have a desire, you most likely do not have the gift of singleness. It's not easy waiting but may singles are getting settle. There's been many prophecies and I've seen about 6 or more long time singles get married.

[@jadastricker569]

Yes, don't let go.

[@natashaa7808]

Am so sorry. May God help you urgently

[@jess77surfs]

There are options if you massively settle ... Look around the church. Five times the amount of single middle aged women over men in the congregations. Also, many of those men are unfortunate, have behavioral disorders, or mentally disabled and are being cared for by family. What a variety of "opportunity". 😅 I rather stay single than be with a man that I don't want to be left alone with... I believe God can do all things but I think he chooses not to take action. That's it

[@lynnd.5135]

I think the problem is most women think they will only marry a Christian man. Not enough of these men in church to begin with. Pray for the man God has for you. That's all

[@jeniferyoung2048]

You are the like the auntie I needed ma’am! How can God not give you a man when he made the first one????? Thank you for this!!!! I want a personal call now lol! God bless you!

[@lrice645]

Loved!

[@wyattmorris8768]

Honestly if you’re truly obedient to God, then you will get married. Nothing lukewarm, impure and unclean will never enter the Kingdom of Heaven. God, holds all accountable and without excuses.

[@BonganiNdhlovu-v5k]

Solid truth God bless ❤

[@oaklandsoldier8520]

Do you have advice for men too? We have the same struggles as single women.

[@marilynkhasnabish7407]

Keep believing brother just as the women. God has a spouse for you. I've seen some men waiting a long time. So many women are waiting, you are too. May the Lord soon settle you as well.

[@oaklandsoldier8520]

@@marilynkhasnabish7407 I appreciate you for the response.

[@Gracee7-b2m]

If that desire is not from God, you need to let your desire go away.

[@kevins5833]

After being married, and then divorced. I will NEVER get married again. A man should NEVER put his property and assets and retirement in the hands of the state. Marriage is a bad move for a man, Living my best life now, without a woman. Peaceful, quiet, home with no contention or disrespectful attitude.... Best decision ever made....

[@waitingroomlife-withcynthi8991]

Thanks for your input! If it's not too personal, what caused the marriage to break down? 🤔

[@kevins5833]

@@waitingroomlife-withcynthi8991 menopause, she just became mean, disrespectful, ungrateful... After the divorce, I dated 2 woman, they were just as bad. Todays woman are horrible! I'm out, I'll go it alone and be quite happy...Don't need your drama, or disrespect...

[@waitingroomlife-withcynthi8991]

Thanks for sharing that, Kevin! I totally understand that aspect of respect from a male perspective. God commands husbands to love their wives and wives to respect their husbands. When either of these get off, the marriage itself is off!

[@Musterdseed87755]

​@@kevins5833who is YOUR? so you blame all females for your poor choices in picking women? 😂 stay single my guy we don't want you anyway

[@jadastricker569]

sorry for what you experienced pray for your healing brother :) Lord bless his heart .

[@motlagaboramongane2248]

Amen !!

[@SyrenthiaRice]

What about when you thought you heard God tell you who your husband is but nothing ever happened so you believe it was a lie and now you hate the thought of marriage 😢😢😢😢

[@Kiki-AndBeyond]

Make sure it was actually God who was speaking to you. If it was, you have to put actions behind his words. Most miracles done by Jesus in the Bible required some sort of action.

[@lovingtherightone]

Amen❤

[@mak88119]

Marriage was supposed to be a beautiful thing, one man and one woman living a lifetime together and helping each other out. The problem is now men are not treated equally. Women have every advantage in every angle, if you don't believe me go to a divorce court and asked the divorce couples who made out better. Women get the kids, home, money, and car and get alimony for life. It is also a fact that women initiate 80% of the divorces. The feminist movement has destroyed relationships and it is far better for a man to stay single and celibate than to get involved in a relationship. It's just got too dangerous for a man to be in a relationship, it's not how it should be but how it is. It's very sad

[@waitingroomlife-withcynthi8991]

I totally get where you're coming from but know for sure there are some really good women amongst the BILLIONS of ppl in this earth and the women who are not marriage material don't speak for nor represent them. God is faithful and allows ppl to see the red flags in ppl before they marry. Often, ppl blow past what they see and marry anyway, and what already was a problem becomes a bigger problem after marriage.

[@FearfullyandWonderfullyMade139]

The end of the world will come 😅before a man wants a woman that's 45 years old, with a young child and an adult son with autism 😢...Passed 40you don't have many options...not true.

[@waitingroomlife-withcynthi8991]

Exactly! NOT TRUE! Let GOD be true and every man a liar!!!!

[@asdfghjkl3003]

At least you have kids

[@Woodsman_797]

I wanted to get married, but after the woman I loved lied to me and told me i wasn't good enough, i realized i can never trust what a woman says. Im not going to get into a relationship and be paranoid for the rest of my life.