Will Lucy Letby Survive Prison? Prison Governor Answers Your Questions | Honesty Box

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@ladbiblestories
@ladbiblestories Жыл бұрын
Thank you to Vanessa for taking part! You can follow her on instagram at @vfh12, and buy her book here - amzn.eu/d/dc46jSq
@toffeelatte6042
@toffeelatte6042 Жыл бұрын
Good choice of a feature, nice to hear from someone other than an ex gangster, trafficking victim or hostage.
@HollyB-b3t
@HollyB-b3t Жыл бұрын
Bored scumbag women prisoners will have a go at her if let.
@robmarland5276
@robmarland5276 Жыл бұрын
It's a woman?
@HollyB-b3t
@HollyB-b3t Жыл бұрын
@@robmarland5276 ????????????????????
@gamestech9016
@gamestech9016 Жыл бұрын
WHEN DID SHE GET TO THE PART ABOUT LUCY LETBY, I WAS 12 MINS IN BEFORE I GAVE UP AND WAS LIKE WHENS THE LUCY LETBY PART COMING??
@Graydon1048
@Graydon1048 Жыл бұрын
I could listen to an entire series of Vanessa talking about her experiences shes an absolute natural communicator and what fascinating career she has had.
@K-a-n-d-i-s
@K-a-n-d-i-s Жыл бұрын
Shaun Attwood has her talking about her experiences for over two hours on his channel. It was very interesting. I think it's his newest video, or second newest
@chaotic_crafter
@chaotic_crafter Жыл бұрын
​@@K-a-n-d-i-sthank you
@AoifeClancy-pz8ry
@AoifeClancy-pz8ry Жыл бұрын
and she has a book out, The Governor… on audible too!
@johnsmith-ik8il
@johnsmith-ik8il Жыл бұрын
She's been potted in Jail. Let me tell you something: no governor gets potted in jail unless they're an absolute bully that mistreats people. I don't think you could possibly imagine the beat down you're about to get if you do that to a governor in prison. Trust me, I've spent many years behind the door and been in 21 different prisons. I'd bet you my last pound this woman is an abuser who has mistreated inmates. Anyone who's been behind the door understands this. BTW, being potted means having a bucket of excrement and urine thrown over your head. Good officers are respected by inmates because they are few and far between. So many officers are psycopathic, narcissist, cluster B types who beat, humiliate and abuse their positions and often mistreat the most vulnerable mentally ill inmates.
@siriosstar4789
@siriosstar4789 Жыл бұрын
@johnsmith - lol ,talk about a biased viewpoint . let's cut to the chase , prisoners don't have rights. That's a weak position to take . once you get out of prison ,assuming you do , then some ' rights ' are reestablished , but when you are in the can yo deserve to be treated horribly .
@phyllidaacworth5212
@phyllidaacworth5212 Жыл бұрын
Vanessa is exactly the sort of person you would want running a prison. Tough, no nonsense! And she tells great stories too!
@lesley9989
@lesley9989 Жыл бұрын
I agree. She comes across as tough but fair
@JackAShepherd
@JackAShepherd 6 ай бұрын
She's hilarious though
@admiralbenbow5083
@admiralbenbow5083 6 ай бұрын
Her book is a good read.
@Matt.Willoughby
@Matt.Willoughby 5 ай бұрын
Not a women's prison, there's something off about her
@NSGrendel
@NSGrendel 5 ай бұрын
"Maybe I've gone a bit soft in my old age," - you do not give that impression ma'am. >_
@nosmallo
@nosmallo Жыл бұрын
It's easy to see why this lady was a Governor, she has a real presence. I can imagine she was pretty formidable when running a prison. She strikes me as someone who doesn't suffer fools gladly but also kind enough to see things from a fair and rationale point of view.
@BonusHole
@BonusHole Жыл бұрын
She strikes me as someone who would go down after one strike and could never do her job without a load of men allowing her to.
@clamh84
@clamh84 Жыл бұрын
@@BonusHolecareful mate, your misogyny is showing.
@BonusHole
@BonusHole Жыл бұрын
Do you really think truth will be subdued by allegations and personal smears? Silly woman.@@clamh84
@bigguns917
@bigguns917 Жыл бұрын
She strikes me as a lesbian
@clamh84
@clamh84 Жыл бұрын
@@bigguns917 what the f does that have to do with anything?
@candybracelets
@candybracelets Жыл бұрын
This woman has balls of steel. Much respect to her. I'm more scared of telephone calls from unknown numbers than she is of a building full of legit murderers.
@CQ-369
@CQ-369 Жыл бұрын
Titanium ovaries!
@wanderingseth
@wanderingseth Жыл бұрын
*ovaries
@legbert123
@legbert123 Жыл бұрын
Balls is a state of mind!@@wanderingseth
@wanderingseth
@wanderingseth Жыл бұрын
@@legbert123 all I know is that balls are fragile and vulnerable and not a great symbol of strength 😂
@DDandrums
@DDandrums Жыл бұрын
She does have balls.
@heidibear44
@heidibear44 Жыл бұрын
Mad respect for this woman. She has done what so many of us couldn’t.
@K-a-n-d-i-s
@K-a-n-d-i-s Жыл бұрын
Same, I couldn't deal with someone like Lucy Letby without doing something stupid
@MMPK96
@MMPK96 Жыл бұрын
That’s a woman!?
@heidibear44
@heidibear44 Жыл бұрын
@@MMPK96 🙄 take it somewhere else...
@toffeelatte6042
@toffeelatte6042 Жыл бұрын
I know right, thought it was a bloke in the thumbnail then it spoke lool@@MMPK96
@toffeelatte6042
@toffeelatte6042 Жыл бұрын
Looks like London Elektricity if he became trans. And if you know what Tony Colman looks like, you'll never be able to unsee that now. Great video though, womans gotta be hard as nails being the guvnor at Scrubs of all places.
@dylanthedyslexicvillain4294
@dylanthedyslexicvillain4294 Жыл бұрын
What a strong woman could listen to her all day mad respect
@jennylomax7787
@jennylomax7787 Жыл бұрын
When she talked about the escape, the sadness and regret in her eyes was palpable. What an incredible woman.
@jamesbrealg
@jamesbrealg Жыл бұрын
You can hear subtle emotive changes in her voice as well
@emmafeather74
@emmafeather74 5 ай бұрын
I audibly gasped when she said that a person had taken their life. I wasn't expecting that to have happened. How terribly sad and she is clearly deeply affected by it.
@Eve181dublin
@Eve181dublin 5 ай бұрын
Such a shocking & sad story.
@jamy5798
@jamy5798 Жыл бұрын
Can we have more of Vanessa ? I could listen to this wise women for hours!!! Thank you guys xxx
@Ann-qf5vk
@Ann-qf5vk 7 ай бұрын
Absolutely 👍👍👍👍👍
@Lionheart_89
@Lionheart_89 Жыл бұрын
They need to do more interviews with her … her stories bein brilliant
@ellegarret
@ellegarret Жыл бұрын
she's been on some podcasts which have been very interesting!
@WasabiDreams
@WasabiDreams Жыл бұрын
do you know which ones ? wonder if she has done a podcast with dodge @@ellegarret
@marthacochrane484
@marthacochrane484 Жыл бұрын
@@WasabiDreams or Shaun Attwood.....
@WasabiDreams
@WasabiDreams Жыл бұрын
@@marthacochrane484 I went off Atwood ages ago. He grates on me
@berryboo5390
@berryboo5390 Жыл бұрын
@@WasabiDreamsyou should get her audible book
@seeking_serenityuk
@seeking_serenityuk Жыл бұрын
Its so refreshing and obvious she is recounting real memories and stories. Not bullshitting for social media clout.
5 ай бұрын
Wow that's some talent you've got. I'd love to be able to mind read and know they are genuine memories. Wow
@Kingtrollface259
@Kingtrollface259 Жыл бұрын
You don't send sheep to imprison wolves ,you have to be extremely tough to do this job ,let alone be a governor ,extreme respect for this woman
@froufou100
@froufou100 Жыл бұрын
that is what I was just thinking
@chrisstucker1813
@chrisstucker1813 Жыл бұрын
For real. I bet she’s seen it all
@JD92160
@JD92160 Жыл бұрын
nah man no respect for the screw
@antonvrb1510
@antonvrb1510 Жыл бұрын
​@@JD92160are you scum?
@viviane_casella
@viviane_casella Жыл бұрын
@@woffe8094no... It's a wolf.
@MrMolvis
@MrMolvis Жыл бұрын
What an honest and straight up woman. Excellent answers to tough questions. Respect.
@viviane_casella
@viviane_casella Жыл бұрын
I love the way she carries herself - straight answers, objective... If that is the "bit soft in old age", imagine what she was like in her early years!
@josmith6684
@josmith6684 Жыл бұрын
hard as nails 😂
@patty-pat-pat
@patty-pat-pat Жыл бұрын
She mustve been a beast in her 20s ❤😂
@hubertbreidenbach
@hubertbreidenbach Жыл бұрын
Excellent point lol!
@kittyw778
@kittyw778 Жыл бұрын
I could’ve listened to this lady’s story’s all day. She was incredibly articulate and it seems that she remained professional throughout her career. What a shame it was only a short interview!
@andrewdewit4711
@andrewdewit4711 Жыл бұрын
Articulate and no-nonsense, but deeply grounded. Fascinating professional woman.
@Ann-qf5vk
@Ann-qf5vk 7 ай бұрын
Absolutely
@gordonirvine726
@gordonirvine726 Жыл бұрын
This woman is a total class act. Massive respect.
@SuzanneO707
@SuzanneO707 Жыл бұрын
This lady is smart, firm, firm but fair, honest & very engaging. Well done for giving her a platform to tell her story.
@lindseymcdougall9774
@lindseymcdougall9774 Жыл бұрын
She is a wonderful speaker. Great communicator. And I particularly liked how she emphasised that the doctor was right to make the decision to send to hospital. And that the staff did the right thing releasing the prisoner. My heart goes out to those people
@evercuriousmichelle
@evercuriousmichelle 3 күн бұрын
Yes, she cared about her staff and seemed to try to do right by everyone
@enigma7791
@enigma7791 Жыл бұрын
What a fascinating woman! If the choice is to sit next to this lady or some air head celeb I would choose this lady every time. Worked hard for her money and lived in a world that we all wonder about some time.
@gregchambers6100
@gregchambers6100 6 ай бұрын
wow. Her precision and concision. Zero fat in her thoughts. I'm an electrician, musician.. Poetry and lyrics, music and engineering are efficiency. Zero waste. This one is a top notch professional. It doesn't get better than her. The elegance of her precision is a pleasure to behold. Even talking about the darkest things, she shines the light of accuracy upon them. wow. The British people got WAY more than their money's worth out of this one. She is a highly valuable refined DIAMOND!
@BlackStump172
@BlackStump172 4 ай бұрын
Perfectly put !
@South_Heat
@South_Heat 7 күн бұрын
Such an interesting perspective on how people communicate. You’re so right…no word salad.
@grahammarston8019
@grahammarston8019 Жыл бұрын
such a brilliant powerhouse of a lady! Your service and obvious humanistic approach to your career deserve the utmost respect
@NekoInk13
@NekoInk13 Жыл бұрын
Could listen to her all day! Fascinating and such a great manner about her! Someone get her an audiobook contract!
@auzzygirl8175
@auzzygirl8175 Жыл бұрын
I'd give this 10 thumbs up if I could. Fascinating lady. Thank you for your public service Ma'am.
@Ann-qf5vk
@Ann-qf5vk 7 ай бұрын
Absolutely thank you ma'am.
@beastyboyBlue
@beastyboyBlue 7 ай бұрын
A lovely honest woman,who had a very tough job,I so respect her.
@derekaskey3727
@derekaskey3727 Жыл бұрын
Absolute respect to this lady, what a lady, she deserves a medal for her life, Vanessa have a very long and happy retirement, you are amazing
@philippamediwake1235
@philippamediwake1235 Жыл бұрын
Fascinating to hear Vanessa talk about her experiences while working in prison.
@elaineheath1962
@elaineheath1962 Жыл бұрын
What a great lady, so intelligent, so interesting, so entertaining. She should get a regular slot.
@lilylolly8757
@lilylolly8757 Жыл бұрын
She is so engaging to listen to-wish this interview was an hour long! Excellent-thank you. More please!
@Bloodline2009
@Bloodline2009 Жыл бұрын
Always really interesting to hear from extremely experienced public sector workers and their time in public office.
@jorobertson3846
@jorobertson3846 7 ай бұрын
I could listen to her stories all day
@alistairjenkins7973
@alistairjenkins7973 Жыл бұрын
She’s so authentic. ❤
@itsdebs
@itsdebs Жыл бұрын
This woman deserves mad respect ✊🏻
@Carlos_500
@Carlos_500 Жыл бұрын
One of your best videos yet, I like that lady a lot and I’m glad there are people like her within the criminal justice system
@davidr1431
@davidr1431 Жыл бұрын
In the middle of a day watching KZbin videos about tech gadgets, Las Vegas and comedy sketches, this pops into my feed and I’m grateful. What a video. What a woman.
@freakishuproar1168
@freakishuproar1168 Жыл бұрын
What she said about evil was a terrifyingly salient point. Despite all the factors that can contribute to a person's morality (external and internal) evil is ultimately a choice, you _choose_ to do it. It's a sobering realization that when we're desperately looking for a explanation for why an individual did something appalling - often under the misguided attempt to convince ourselves that "normal people don't do such things" - we are in reality ALL capable of doing evil. A moral framework is a hair's breadth away from carnage and cruelty.
@benjamintaylor3934
@benjamintaylor3934 Жыл бұрын
The men and women who ran the Nazi death camps, brutalising prisoners and murdering them en masse, had all been everyday civilians themselves 6 years earlier. Most of them then slithered off to civilian life afterwards, too 😒
@jelkel25
@jelkel25 Жыл бұрын
Well yes, are you better off coming to terms with your dark impulses and not doing them or lying to yourself you don't have them and not being able to deal with them when circumstances tip you over the edge or many other psychological bumps in the road? Even psychopaths have the ability to intellectually make choices to do right or wrong. Of course you wouldn't hear about those that don't seriously break the law because even if they know they're usually not going to announce the fact they're psychopaths.
@freakishuproar1168
@freakishuproar1168 Жыл бұрын
@@stealthwarrior5768 Did you actually read my comment stealthwarrior? I think perhaps you didn't.
@joebloggs396
@joebloggs396 Жыл бұрын
Those who believe in the genetics lack of free will idea would disagree with you. That's a much more uncomfortable answer than the one that we can all choose for ourselves.
@whoami1654
@whoami1654 Жыл бұрын
Mmmmm I'm not to sure about that. There are so many people who have been horribly abused as children and had no help or support for it. It all has an impact.... 95 percent of addiction is due to childhood trauma.
@diligaf1000
@diligaf1000 Жыл бұрын
This lady seems like she is the exact right person for this job. Really good interview and top person
@SandraPrice-c5g
@SandraPrice-c5g Жыл бұрын
I admire this very strong & forthright woman who spent nearly all her working life in the Prison service. She knows what she’s talking about and says it straight out, no flowery language, no dressing anything up. She is one tough cookie and needed to be to have any credibility in her workplace and those serving under her.
@TheMensRea
@TheMensRea Жыл бұрын
This woman ... ❤ What courage you must have to do the job you did, and as far as I can see, with fairness and grace as much as common sense and by the law. With much respect, I salute you 👏🏽
@kellie8291
@kellie8291 Жыл бұрын
Please could she come back and do a longer interview, very interesting
@nanair2007mk
@nanair2007mk Жыл бұрын
She has done one with Sean Atwood it’s very good. She is very good she tells stories in a way that makes you listen
@kellie8291
@kellie8291 Жыл бұрын
@@nanair2007mk thank you for that, I’ll take a look
@grahamfisher5436
@grahamfisher5436 Жыл бұрын
​. It's probably one of the best interviews on YT
@Jesterjones9073
@Jesterjones9073 Жыл бұрын
Vanessa Frake - Shaun Atwood interview kzbin.info/www/bejne/jJbKm5ylfK-hgdksi=ZX3qhHaLH02XqPi9
@Nickbaldeagle02
@Nickbaldeagle02 Жыл бұрын
If you like this sort of thing, check out Ricky Killeen. He's an ex Frankland Prison convict who now runs a KZbin channel where he talks about prison.
@ticketyboo1215
@ticketyboo1215 Жыл бұрын
What an interesting lady … so articulate. I could listen to Vanessa all day!
@miriam2909
@miriam2909 Жыл бұрын
My late husband was a prison officer before I met him. He was medically discharged after ten years and had to have psychiatric counselling. He had nightmares til the day he died 20 years later.
@sweettangerines8182
@sweettangerines8182 Жыл бұрын
I'm so sorry your late husband experienced such damaging trauma in his job. I have utmost respect for him and for his service to our country. He kept us safe from monsters. I'm very grateful x
@jetodessa5484
@jetodessa5484 5 ай бұрын
I left my job due to an injury from a patient attack. Despite all the training (from Broadmoor and similar to prisons), I still got hurt. I don't know what your husband experienced, but I've seen plenty. I am so sorry he suffered so badly from his experiences, and from the hell, you no doubt went through supporting him. I know it's nothing but I'm sending my thoughts and best wishes to you. X ❤
@LouciferFlump
@LouciferFlump 5 ай бұрын
@@jetodessa5484best wishes to you, also! What a tough job, what a shame we need to put people like yourself in harm’s way like this. Peace to you.
@jetodessa5484
@jetodessa5484 5 ай бұрын
@@LouciferFlump Thank you so much ❤️
@LouciferFlump
@LouciferFlump 5 ай бұрын
@@jetodessa5484 🖤
@stevebailey5591
@stevebailey5591 8 ай бұрын
She's very charismatic and communicates with real, no bullshit authenticity.
@josiahwest88
@josiahwest88 Жыл бұрын
I hope this is one of the interviews where we get to see the longer 45-60min videos LadBible does from time to time
@K-a-n-d-i-s
@K-a-n-d-i-s Жыл бұрын
She talks for over 2 hours on Shaun Attwood's channel it's really interesting
@michaelbyrne5507
@michaelbyrne5507 Жыл бұрын
This is the most interesting interview I've watched. I'd love to watch more from this amazing person. She should write a book. I'd definitely buy it.
@Bethanyfreespeech
@Bethanyfreespeech Жыл бұрын
She has a long interview on utube - Andrew Gould channel I think 🤔
@MoneyStrategiesSOULutions
@MoneyStrategiesSOULutions Жыл бұрын
I think she has a book
@clairecalton2116
@clairecalton2116 Жыл бұрын
She has wrote a book. Can't remember it's title but Google her name
@rebeccamcnutt5142
@rebeccamcnutt5142 5 ай бұрын
There's a link in the description for her book
@Brandnewshoes
@Brandnewshoes Жыл бұрын
This was a super interesting interview! Vanessa is a really good interviewee.
@paytonvanwinkle4651
@paytonvanwinkle4651 25 күн бұрын
I have so much respect that she refused to talk “famous prisoners” in terms of notorious crimes to not give them more power. She did still have a great story about it.
@maggiecraig1838
@maggiecraig1838 Жыл бұрын
Respect for your service ,Vanessa..from a nurse working in secure hospitals for twenty years-in your era..
@TheIkaraCult
@TheIkaraCult Жыл бұрын
As soon as I heard the question "Which film or TV show best represents prison" question, I thought that Time would be the one so I'm so glad she mentioned it. Sean Bean and Stephen Graham, two of our greatest actors, an excellent script, excellent supporting characters. I loved it. There's a follow up on the way I'm happy to say
@heathergarnham9555
@heathergarnham9555 Жыл бұрын
It's much the same for hospitals, hospitals aren't as interesting or exciting as tv portrays it. As noone is hooking up during shifts, we're too busy.
@fainitesbarley2245
@fainitesbarley2245 5 ай бұрын
Rarely seen a court or lawyer scene even close to reality.
@benhorley4737
@benhorley4737 Жыл бұрын
I love listening to people who speak so honestly and eloquently about their life experiances. A pleasure to watch.
@georginajohnson7810
@georginajohnson7810 Жыл бұрын
I'm 66now and time in prison and borstal destroyed me mentally. I have self harmed since I was 17. I couldn't cope after being with my nan for the weekend and she died while I was reading the Sunday paper letter page to her. I had 2friends at school and one died a week or so later. I now have 3adult children and a 6year old grandson. Since I left prison for the 3rd time I lost my baby with a heart defect,my brother died and I had breast cancer twice. I can't cope. So many awful things have happened since recently.
@georginajohnson7810
@georginajohnson7810 Жыл бұрын
And my daughter just out of an abusive relationship after years. Lots going on around it still. His family stick up for him because they believe his lies. He posted naked photos of my daughter online and she woke to him under the sheets taking photos or videos of her naked body. I'm so angry.
@kellysmithurst5348
@kellysmithurst5348 Жыл бұрын
Vanessa Frake is great, every prison should have a Governor like Vanessa, a very approachable nature ❤
@HughBond-kx7ly
@HughBond-kx7ly Жыл бұрын
The humanity this women shoes towards prisoners is amazing . I hope others can live up to her standards.
@PowerDunk
@PowerDunk 11 ай бұрын
Most officers are just like her,it's when shit hits the fan it turns dark and you don't see what happens. Neither does she want to talk about it. All life is precious but it can be difficult to forgive and forget.
@lfc_40
@lfc_40 5 ай бұрын
Yeah but Letby is on another scale...you can't forgive shit like that ever!
@lovelyjubbly4151
@lovelyjubbly4151 Жыл бұрын
One of the best interviews I've seen in a long time. I could listen to this Lady talk all day. Thank you for coming on and sharing.
@michellemahar9030
@michellemahar9030 Жыл бұрын
What a great interview! She is just amazing. I could listen to her stories all day!
@laurameakin
@laurameakin Жыл бұрын
Vanessa was brilliant on this video I could listen to her easily on one of those videos that discuss “how real is it” that we see from other channels. Her manner is excellent could easily sit with a cuppa and watch another video like this with her. As for the last part when she mentions the jail break- gut wrenching I’m sorry for her and all those involved a horrible experience. I hope those who escaped and those who helped had time added or held accountable.
@LisaNash159
@LisaNash159 Жыл бұрын
I could honestly listen to Vanessa’s stories all day, very engaging and gave honest answers which is rare. I can see why she was governor, amazing woman
@TheIvalen
@TheIvalen Жыл бұрын
Soft in her old age? I can imagine she was one tough governor.
@ahsnabdbdvsvvssm772
@ahsnabdbdvsvvssm772 Жыл бұрын
These types of people often have the best hearts
@larskarl5069
@larskarl5069 Жыл бұрын
​@@ahsnabdbdvsvvssm772yeah really? And what "type" of people is she?😂
@Kindred_37
@Kindred_37 Жыл бұрын
She’s giving “the Trunchbull”.
@Seantorky3
@Seantorky3 Жыл бұрын
Tbh I'll probably have nightmares about her. But she also like Have heart of gold.
@jimdavis8391
@jimdavis8391 Жыл бұрын
​@@ahsnabdbdvsvvssm772 What 'type' is she?
@paulie3015
@paulie3015 7 ай бұрын
She reminds me so much of my no nonsense Grandmother - we need more people like her in this mad world...
@richie4421
@richie4421 Жыл бұрын
What a compelling interview with an incredibly strong lady. I could listen to the stories of her life for hours. Thank you!
@zeroeffect9557
@zeroeffect9557 Жыл бұрын
This woman is incredible. Straight to the point, but fair. I really hope they do more interviews with her.
@ST-ue5fb
@ST-ue5fb Жыл бұрын
What an interesting, forthright and no nonsense woman. Thank you for this interview.
@hannah.kate.
@hannah.kate. Жыл бұрын
As soon as I saw this I knew who it was gonna be! I read Vanessa’s book and I absolutely loved it, would highly recommend to other people who want to learn more about this! Truly an amazing woman
@thomasrussell4674
@thomasrussell4674 Жыл бұрын
She's obviously got a moral compass thank god
@ruthrandall2451
@ruthrandall2451 4 ай бұрын
Bit late to the party, but, if you happen to see this comment, what's the name of her book? I would also love to read it! Thanks 🙂
@hannah.kate.
@hannah.kate. 4 ай бұрын
@@ruthrandall2451 never too late to the party (at least for the chronically online like moi!) The book is called The Prison Governor and the blurb will mention Wormwood Scrubs, so you know you’ve got the right one - and if you’re interested in learning more about the work environment of the Scrubs, Doctor Amanda Brown also did some books about her time there on the medical side of things. Enjoy reading!
@mamajusmagickalemporium2655
@mamajusmagickalemporium2655 Жыл бұрын
I could listen to this all day! I want a YT channel of these stories!!
@CuriousGirl2
@CuriousGirl2 7 ай бұрын
Such an interesting, thoughtful woman with incredible experience, insight and equanimity.
@healgrowlovecommunity8397
@healgrowlovecommunity8397 Жыл бұрын
What a fascinating lady! So generous of her to answer random questions.
@chriskelly9476
@chriskelly9476 5 ай бұрын
I worked for 10 years in an Australian prison and one of my senior officers was this older Maori woman. She was tiny, barely 5 ft tall, covered with tribal tattoos and with a buzz cut of white hair. She was such a formidable woman that the inmates respected her and considered her a mother/grandmother figure. She was firm but fair, accepted no nonsense, and let them know that she believed in their potential but also when she was disappointed in them. I remember one inmate in our wing got sacked from his prison job for constant lateness, and she found out the next day from other staff. When she questioned him as to why he didn't say anything, he said he knew he'd screwed up and that she'd be disappointed in him so he kept it to himself. After lecturing him thoroughly, she gave him another chance and gave him a job in the accommodation wing on the 'dish up' crew (working behind the bain maries serving other inmates at mealtimes). She gave him this job because his issue was tardiness, and he couldn't afford to be late in this job - the other inmates would hold him accountable if he was late at mealtimes. He HAD to do better. She was great to work under.
@elmerkilred159
@elmerkilred159 7 ай бұрын
LOL, Her untended pun of "betting your bottom dollar" @1:00 in, had me crying!
@LisaNash159
@LisaNash159 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for posting the link to her book, I’ve already purchased it and can’t wait to read it!
@rileyjoseph3488
@rileyjoseph3488 Жыл бұрын
This video really extenuates my favorite part of KZbin. The sharing of different perspectives. It’s beautiful what you can learn and experience from videos like this.
@marthacochrane484
@marthacochrane484 Жыл бұрын
What an incredible woman.........love her to bits.......so strong......and so fair............
@fish9514
@fish9514 Жыл бұрын
You can see that she is a very good person with a good heart.
@southernrays8823
@southernrays8823 Жыл бұрын
I could watch hours with her! She’s so fascinating!! I love her insight to what happen so very far away from me. Especially with people I’ve never heard of.
@Warwck24
@Warwck24 Жыл бұрын
Agreed she is interesting she probably understands humanity well (wouldn't we wish we could) lol
@rivierapalms6485
@rivierapalms6485 Жыл бұрын
Very articulate, straight talking and very experienced. Love this!
@malexander2438
@malexander2438 Жыл бұрын
I love watching people like Vanessa talk :) A part 2 would be nice
@DuffMan.
@DuffMan. Жыл бұрын
We need more women like this. Compelling to watch. Proper old skool. This lady needs a series of her own.
@Kamamura2
@Kamamura2 Жыл бұрын
No, we need scientists, artists and thinkers, not glorified human bulldogs.
@rinkyasmr1361
@rinkyasmr1361 Жыл бұрын
​@@Kamamura2gonna send artists to keep you safe from murderers and rapists?
@folkloreofbeing
@folkloreofbeing Жыл бұрын
​@@rinkyasmr1361the discussion was about TV series not going after bad people. Drop the superior attitude.
@folkloreofbeing
@folkloreofbeing Жыл бұрын
@@Tom-d7e7m because I can read?
@wormwoodcocktail
@wormwoodcocktail Жыл бұрын
@@Kamamura2We will always need prisons and, thus, prison guards.
@nathanjonesx
@nathanjonesx Жыл бұрын
Drinking tea made by Myra Hindley like it’s nothing. This woman chose the right career path because I couldn’t have done that 😂
@blue.berry.
@blue.berry. Жыл бұрын
I was also surprised about that, especially as she later told that was the position she would have tried to get as a prisoner herself because it can give you intel on the guards and makes you come closest to them. That’s quite a tricky position for one of the most dangerous women in UK history.
@K-a-n-d-i-s
@K-a-n-d-i-s Жыл бұрын
I bet she makes a crap brew
@TheRealHelenaDeluca
@TheRealHelenaDeluca Жыл бұрын
true loool
@whoami1654
@whoami1654 Жыл бұрын
I think to do a job like that you have to put your prejudices aside. Not sure I could have either
@Sunset553
@Sunset553 Жыл бұрын
I would drink the tea, but I wouldn’t go for a walk on the moors with her
@Queenofgreen515
@Queenofgreen515 11 ай бұрын
She’s incredible! Absolute powerhouse of a lady! I wish we could get a whole documentary with her, she’s fascinating.
@uutarn
@uutarn Жыл бұрын
Could listen to her tell stories all day. Thoroughly enjoyed.
@JellyCoatedBean
@JellyCoatedBean Жыл бұрын
I watched this twice in immediate succession, just because I enjoyed her candid and calming voice. The epitome of structure and don't-fuck-aroundary. No bullshitting about her staff being perfect, but that there was, and always is, some level of corruption. Her emotion in talking about the escape (despite being kept to herself) was incredibly moving. A fraction of her competence and togetherness across the globe would fix a lot of issues. I hope she knows she's real top tier.
@scottcampbell9479
@scottcampbell9479 Жыл бұрын
Straight talking and probably very good officer
@ManofMode
@ManofMode Жыл бұрын
My dad used to go round inspecting prisons for a lot of years and Vanessa is exactly as he describes almost every warden. I could listen to her stories all day. God knows my dad tells me loads. Drives my mum nuts. 😂😂
@DS-yz4ro
@DS-yz4ro Жыл бұрын
😂
@charitysmith5245
@charitysmith5245 Жыл бұрын
What a kind, no nonsense lady!
@itsruckaswife7036
@itsruckaswife7036 Жыл бұрын
I was thrilled to find this, I just finished reading Vanessa’s book about her career. Fascinating and recommended Thanks so much
@pauljones8218
@pauljones8218 11 ай бұрын
she is on some podcasts on youtube they are pretty good put her name in and they will come up
@philsaunders65
@philsaunders65 Жыл бұрын
I can’t help but like this lady. I imagine she was fair if you toed the line
@mimig6511
@mimig6511 11 ай бұрын
I could listen to her speak for hours. She is such an interesting woman. Can we do a series with her narrating and giving opinion. She is amazing
@-Chunk
@-Chunk Жыл бұрын
She’s great. Not many people in the whole world that could do her job!
@Alanhock75
@Alanhock75 Жыл бұрын
There’s plenty of people doing her job, she was an assistant governor so had minimal contact with prisoners on a day to day basis
@-Chunk
@-Chunk Жыл бұрын
@@Alanhock75 takes a certain character !
@BlackStump172
@BlackStump172 4 ай бұрын
I love Vanessa’s dry humour . She is hilarious and so down to earth .
@dianadenman5637
@dianadenman5637 Жыл бұрын
This woman is amazing. She's got a great, honest demeanor about her - warm and knowledgeable, but no nonsense and straight to the point.
@MirlitronOne
@MirlitronOne 5 ай бұрын
I have huge respect for this woman.
@desertatable
@desertatable Жыл бұрын
Great interview, really interesting woman with some good stories. Thanks for your work, Vanessa, you come across as firm, competant and compassionate and those attributes in combination are rare to find in the prison system.
@darrenyoung3102
@darrenyoung3102 Жыл бұрын
Loved hearing these accounts, her experiences and situations and opinions. This is good You Tube content.
@leejohnson6448
@leejohnson6448 Жыл бұрын
This lady's stories would make a great TV series.
@mazalfamasud2763
@mazalfamasud2763 12 күн бұрын
Thank you Vanessa. Nice to hear from you and your experiences
@Little-Sparrow
@Little-Sparrow Жыл бұрын
Vanessa is incredible to listen to, the stories she must have! I know I'm gonna have to buy her book.
@Valentine-Channelle
@Valentine-Channelle Жыл бұрын
I could listen to her all day long she’s amazing
@truxton1000
@truxton1000 Жыл бұрын
I was in a prison in Norway for 3 months or so as a so called "civilian worker" as I decided I had enough of being called into military service for a week every year. Anyway in those 3 months lots of things happened, I learnt a few things about humans and how they can behave. In terms of working in a prison I observed that the prisoners of course mostly were miserable, negative and depressed, but so were the guards. So I could never have worked in a prison, well not unless it was one of my last options as a job. It's a depressive environment.
@JimmyHandtrixx
@JimmyHandtrixx Жыл бұрын
Could you please tell some things you learned about people?
@kyran333
@kyran333 Жыл бұрын
​@@JimmyHandtrixxprobably not going to prison 😂
@chantellecamus9285
@chantellecamus9285 11 ай бұрын
Now consider that nurses are leaving the bedside, and many of us are landing in Corrections b/c it’s a SAFER and MORE PLEASANT EXPERIENCE than our hospitals & nursing homes. Please let that sink in
@arielsfish
@arielsfish 6 ай бұрын
Norway is the best place to go to prison apparently ...
@arielsfish
@arielsfish 6 ай бұрын
I'm not surprised
@markwardel6751
@markwardel6751 6 ай бұрын
Fascinating! only here by accident but could listen to Vanessa's stories all day.
@cordeliav3055
@cordeliav3055 Жыл бұрын
This is so interesting. What an entertaining lady! Hope you bring her back for more.
@mimig6511
@mimig6511 6 ай бұрын
Vanessa is the best..honest and down to earth
@LadyAltaria
@LadyAltaria Жыл бұрын
I watched ‘Time’ earlier this month while off work sick, really great little drama series. Sean Bean is brilliant as always, and the rest of the cast are also fantastic. Interesting to hear it is a good portrayal of life in prison from someone who’s done the job for so long. Amazing interview, if this woman writes a book I’ll be first in like to buy.
@headingley72
@headingley72 Жыл бұрын
Her book is called The Governor by Vanessa Frake.
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