My ex is with someone else that’s doing better in life but I honestly feel deep down inside that your ex will never forget you no matter who they’re with. If y’all share special moments and memories the brain naturally brings people back to those moments. One day they may reach out it can take years guys but letting go and forgiving is part of life we all change daily. Life is a rollercoaster guys enjoy the ride, Happiness and sadness is what makes it all worth while. Love….
@afrintayeba2981 Жыл бұрын
What do u mean by reaching out? Mine reached out after 8months of NC..asked me why i unfrnd him in fb,also told me he already with someone...i didnt chase..so reaching out means nothing...if they again want u...then it can be thinkful...thnaku
@KaiMelodic Жыл бұрын
Real shit
@roothelegend182 Жыл бұрын
Well said keep your head up and set your sights above
@mikejohnson5157 Жыл бұрын
I hate to move on, but she made it clear not to come for her. She must obey her daughter.......
@KINGxDAVID94 Жыл бұрын
@@afrintayeba2981 the fact he reached out shows you he's not truly happy, youve been living in his mind rent free. Put yourself in his shoes and say you were the partner with someone else, obviously once the excitement of someone new fades those old feelings come back keep going
@1111spiritualone Жыл бұрын
i’ve healed so much in 11 months with NC. i finally let it go and don’t care if they come back or not. I have leveled up so much in career and life i don’t need there toxicity or drama
@majdwahoob23649 ай бұрын
After another 11 months , did you really let go? or you just forgot about them in that period of time?
@jpatrick30812 ай бұрын
I cannot wait to get to this point in my life
@johannesolofsson2216 күн бұрын
@@jpatrick3081what happens now?
@EyeBelieveSo Жыл бұрын
Bro, you, Coach Craig and Coach Lee have saved my life the last month and a half since my gf broke up with me.
@jgentile34 Жыл бұрын
Corey Wayne
@peternall6566 Жыл бұрын
Susan Winter
@li5043 Жыл бұрын
@@jgentile34 . The art of love also
@SS-in1ts Жыл бұрын
Corey Wayne is Polyamorous …. Not the advice I’m looking for
@FLVCTVAT_NEC_MERGITVR Жыл бұрын
Corey Wayne is slightly toxic.
@jonaveul Жыл бұрын
If they are a narcissist, do not get your hopes up! Move on with life and never look back!
@graceb9078 Жыл бұрын
He already move on so fast posting happy photos together with his new girl.. I wish him well life is short and I'm moving on
@eriktorres89758 ай бұрын
Did y'all work things out?
@DannyFrio Жыл бұрын
my ex walked away almost exactly a month ago and wants to come over today after work. three weeks ago, I asked if we could talk about how we’re feeling and now today she wants to. i’m just gonna be honest, respectful, and neutral and see how it goes
@PrettyDreadie Жыл бұрын
Don’t have sex be patient
@DannyFrio Жыл бұрын
@@PrettyDreadie I like this advice but it wasn’t really a sexual tension situation. she was here for 15-20 mins and I said all I wanted to say within 10 mins. laid it all out, apologized one last time for how I treated her, and she forgave me. I offered her an edible for the road and she obliged. she offered me a hug and I obliged. we wished each other well and parted ways with smiles on our faces. not sure how to feel rn but i’m not gonna overthink it
@PrettyDreadie Жыл бұрын
@@DannyFrio that’s so good you reconciled ! I’m praying you get the outcome you want and what’s meant to be will be don’t stress
@DannyFrio Жыл бұрын
@@PrettyDreadie thank you so much for your genuine kindness my sister in Christ. I pray for your happiness and success as well
@PrettyDreadie Жыл бұрын
@@DannyFrio 💕
@c.williams38197 ай бұрын
Three month relationship, and he abruptly ended it. I completed my 1st week of NO contact. It's been rough 😢 I'm grateful for your page. The info on your channel has been helpful, I understand and accept my current situation. This morning, I felt down and immediately came here to snap back into a frequency of gratitude. Thank you
@victorianorris1916 Жыл бұрын
I’m gave him the break up I’m doing me and making myself happy and more healthier!!
@blacademic Жыл бұрын
Happy for you! 🙏
@SentilongJamir7777 ай бұрын
I pray that he finds and better woman and move on with life and take the betrayal as a boost to change his life. 😂
@michaeltolleson2640 Жыл бұрын
My ex left, after I told her that her mom and adult daughters could not move in....Whewwww, thank you Jesus
@MaryMullen-n5r9 ай бұрын
My husband ended the relationship with me 10 months ago. It came out of no where. I loved this man very deeply. Genuinely and valued commitment and marriage. He started fooling around behind my back. And despite it all I still love him deeply. He didn’t want to be married but wanted sex. He wanted his cake and to eat it too. I cut him off. That didn’t sit well with me. The moment I ended the sex during the separation, he disappeared. I was living in cognitive dissonance. Hoping he would want to get help and change. Hoping he’s realize what he was allowing to slip away by between his fingers. But he didn’t care. So we are now split and in divorce. I guess my question is will he ever miss me ? Will he ever realize what he lost after a years time. Or even down the road? I feel sorry for him because I know I was the a rare diamond. And he trading that in to play with rocks.
@valseyer4486 Жыл бұрын
My ex GF wanted to get back with me but I ended the series in GAME 6. I don't let it go into game 7.
@benjaminrees588 Жыл бұрын
Top advice, you're helping many see straight. My woman left me saying she doesnt love me anymore. I've stick to no contact. She's messaged me a few times and only replied the same type of message i receive. I've seen her in person a few times about the house too. But I've kept my attitude in front of her as I'm getting on with my life. Still my happy an able to laugh as silly sh*t. Last time I have to see her tonight before full no contact goes into force. End of a chapter but live is a strange book.
@annabylina Жыл бұрын
I'm trying to cope for so long and today i understood that have no chance in a universe with my ex. He went on and seems happy. I'm broken as never been in my life. Wish better days to come to me too.
@christophergranados2682 Жыл бұрын
I was going through such situation but a friend told me about a man on KZbin who helped him out, so I tried him out and hopefully it worked and we are about to marry. Check out his KZbin channel on Dr Smith Reunion
@Wbe100010 ай бұрын
I broke no contact after 3 weeks. We left on awkward terms during our last departure and I wanted to ensure peace and possibly even rekindle things. It did not work and I ended up hurting myself. However, This time we left with the impression I was still friends with her but felt like I was as being treated like a door mat. So now I have officially blocked her on everything. I need to stop trying to control things that are completely out of my control and just let go. P.s. she noticed that I blocked her so she reached out to my college roommate via SC and asked him to tell me to give her a call because she thought we were friends. I did not.
@hananalobaidli43122 ай бұрын
Hi coach, I just read the 4 aggremnts and I absolutely love it!!! Can you kindly recommend another great book plz???
@brandycollins8918 Жыл бұрын
I dont believe that he even loved me i just and always thought i was convenient because o have everything he needed
@melisasmith9485 Жыл бұрын
Can you do a video on when your ex reaches out in NC but asks about the dog, or how are you etc and then nothing for weeks.
@zlatkanacheva382 Жыл бұрын
Watching your content has helped me so much during my break up! Thank you for encouraging 🙃
@jaxgonz5042 Жыл бұрын
You’re right. I do feel entitled. After helping him with a job app and being there for him, he said his life is better without me. Said I nagged and complained too much about how he treated me. We broke up yesterday. NC begins today.
@Kellzkl Жыл бұрын
How has it been? Has he reached out?
@jaxgonz5042 Жыл бұрын
@@Kellzklhe has not. He actually blocked me on IG and said he doesn’t want me in his life. And fine. I know what I brought to the table. I am letting go and trust what’s for me will always be for me.
@Vonity_ Жыл бұрын
He’s trying to friend zone me. My heart is conflicted. He wanted to still do everything the same. It is not the same to me so I cut him off. I want to call and take it back but I don’t want to go back on my word. I respect myself, he wasn’t giving me what I needed and I’m not trying to punish him. I’m trying to save the little bit of me I have left but it is driving me crazy. I want to call him, I’m fighting myself!
@Sharon-jg9ls Жыл бұрын
Whew. This sounds like me. Broke up and he’d still text and showed passive interest. After 2mos. Cut it off and went no contact. How did it work out for you? I’m afraid I waited too long.
@michaellloyd8046 Жыл бұрын
I’ve gone through this and found out recently she’s with someone else. It’s killing me also, sick to the stomach that you can’t stop thinking about them, but at the end of the day when you make yourself available and they don’t come back it’s out of your control, nothing you can say or do will change there mind as they already know they could of had you back but they didn’t. As hard as this sounds actions speak louder then words, if you want someone wants you they will have you if the feeling is mutual. It’s killing me but time is a healer. My advice would be to cut all contact with them and get it out the way or else it will just prolong the pain. Keep on going
@andreastegerot14167 ай бұрын
my girlfriend dumped me completely without warning and I was really in love with her. the problem is that we work with each other and we sit a meter apart tried not to make any contact but it doesn't work out as we see each other at work all the time. I have tried to reduce the time with her at work by eating lunch alone and am not with her on breaks and then also that I do not talk about our relationship but only work things. she is very curious and asks what I do when I'm alone and so on. we had a very nice relationship, no arguments or anything, but the love phase ended for her and it had just begun for me.
@Figgles274 Жыл бұрын
I know when I first said no contact after the break up cause she was bread crumbing me and told her she needed to experience the break up. I messaged 5 days later. She ripped me a new one saying I’m messing with her head and yo-yoing her. Now we don’t talk. Except for the message that she was cancelling our shared accounts. I’m just letting her be and maybe she comes around. Who knows. During the break up she needed to talk daily. Wasn’t working for me. Not sure where she is in the no contact stages and if fear is setting in yet or not. Won’t lie. I think she’s starting to lose me.
@christophergranados2682 Жыл бұрын
I was going through such situation but a friend told me about a man on KZbin who helped him out, so I tried him out and hopefully it worked and we are about to marry. Check out his KZbin channel on Dr Smith Reunion
@dreamwhite5852 Жыл бұрын
This was one of your best videos. Thanks for your guidance.
@jeaneengant6771 Жыл бұрын
He’s with the side Jawn now.. so I can careless at this point 😂
@frankelvisndjolovodom337228 күн бұрын
Thank you coach Black
@Nismolover7 ай бұрын
Hey man, you have a beautiful and soothing voice. You really just breathed comfort back into my heart. I wish I could grab a beer with a guy like you 😂
@MissionJesus370 Жыл бұрын
Its hard to say. I got ex's i moved on from completely. I dont care about them at all. Then I got the one I always think about. You could be either category
@roystondsouza4095 Жыл бұрын
The best advice
@rainnez18266 ай бұрын
Thx bro 🙏🏻 ❤ I appreciate it , it’s been a month now of no contact , and I’m trying to stay positive, I just trying to keep it together but I do miss her
@CatwalkPurz9 ай бұрын
Best advice! Thank you 🙌
@bgleo2908 Жыл бұрын
You are simply the best! Gratitude🙏🙏🤗
@Michellemybell739 Жыл бұрын
Will mine can feel all the loss and regret he wants to because I got a new phone and changed my number and we were never connected on social media anyway and even if we were, I would have blocked him as I’ve already done so he can’t go snooping on my stuff.
@MarcusNewton24 Жыл бұрын
Great advice, thank you! 💯
@mamunranamintu5759 Жыл бұрын
Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her
@mamunranamintu5759 Жыл бұрын
@Opal M Bartram Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach her?
@mamunranamintu5759 Жыл бұрын
@Opal M Bartram Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive
@MegasTeque Жыл бұрын
Coach, what you seem to be forgetting is that you are describing an ex with a healthy mind, no one walks away from a relationship without monkey branching these days, they use another person to get over you it happens ALL the time...So no contact doesn't work in the ways in which you describe, it makes it easier for them to forget you...I'm not saying don't use no contact I'm saying it doesn't work to get them back, out of sight out of mind and the ex moves on quickly.
@babyluvjr Жыл бұрын
Megas... I was JUST thinking the same sandwich earlier....outta sight can ALWAYS mean outta mind!! Your significant other became an EX for a reason OTHER than what they told YOU!! His/her folks around them , ALL know what's REALLY REALLY good!! Ya ex has no fear of losing what they never TRULY wanted!! Apparently your presence never meant a damn thing if your absence doesn't bother them...Exes often WELCOME "No Contact". Real talk, rebounding to another never works until YOU have fully healed and are ready to trust again.
@babyluvjr Жыл бұрын
Megas..., I agree with you totally 💯
@Missybella92227 Жыл бұрын
Agree My recent ex said the same thing. It’s easy to move on quick when the person is no longer physically present.
@jenniferyates8100 Жыл бұрын
That is true. Married 35 years, he has monkey branched, he said .... If he doesn't see me doesn't miss me. Thank you coach for your advice and knowledge. I appreciate you.👍🌟
@Vincent_N89 Жыл бұрын
This is what I'm agonising about and having an inner turmoil with...I just don't know what to do 😢
@rockybalboa85434 ай бұрын
ive made some of the mistakes you mention, ive rang, sent emails txts, bumoed into her loads, we do live so close to each other, so its hard not to , now hopefully its not too late, i will do no contact, we broke up 4 weeks ago, but some mitigating factors, i suppose each indivials case is very different, huge stress(job) and other factors on her side didnt help. i didnt do anything wrong, her feelings changed just like that, but i think it was because of the other stresses, so hoping when everything subsides, and she's out of this moment. she does think like you say they do in the videos, because things have been good before. see what happens.
@shanawazahamed3759 Жыл бұрын
always postive vibe god bless you
@scarystorycory10 ай бұрын
My girlfriend broke up with me. I’m officially in the first day of no contact. Life is sad right now. I just want her back in my arms, and I want to smile again. 😢
@Yapap12345678 ай бұрын
how are u doing
@lubhita_106 ай бұрын
Did she come back?
@ChrisMonaco2024 Жыл бұрын
Great talk and advice, Ciach Blac
@hwywhdhhdhf67073 ай бұрын
It' s been almost 2 months of NC, and I have no more hopes that it is going to work out. Think he will just move on.
@raytorres-bartley42073 ай бұрын
Stay in the pocket
@raytorres-bartley42073 ай бұрын
Patience
@demetrasettle Жыл бұрын
New subbie here. Handsome smart. Thank you, watching everything & bell notification on !! ✨️💯
@blacademic Жыл бұрын
Welcome! Good to have you here 🙏
@abdulmateenmaher6956 Жыл бұрын
Bless you for the encouragement for those with broken heart. I appreciate your advice alot it help soothe the pain we are going thru. Can't thank you enough. Continue the good work you are doing.
@cayenestorm7942 Жыл бұрын
Wow! Good advise
@blacademic Жыл бұрын
Thanks for watching
@tammybradshaw7175 Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for your videos. They are very soothing...healing to my spirit.
@Kelliedavis Жыл бұрын
I have to watch your videos so I can stay strong and not give in.
@aegon-64044 ай бұрын
I blocked my ex everywhere except one place where I've been blocked first..I think I'm ok even though like waves time to time I feel this breakdown every memory comes back flashing before my eyes and sometimes unwillingly I think about my ex doing with someone else the things we used to do and it destroys me and I feel like it brings me back to the start of "healing"
@LogicallySpeaking_10 ай бұрын
This isn’t regards to unhealthy and toxic relationships. If they take space why would you want them back?!?!
@nikkilewis9289 Жыл бұрын
What if the dumper goes into no contact? Amd says they need to heal or grow up?
@samuelderozario3355 Жыл бұрын
Bro, were you all this while? Good motivation. Thank you. Please make more videos,,,
@irenenundkoomar3889 Жыл бұрын
Great advice brother I hope everything works out for me 🙏🏻🙏🏻
@annajamjam1383 Жыл бұрын
I want to do the no contact thing so badly but it’s so hard I’m so attached to him even though I know there’s no relationship anymore we are just talking like friends. I hate it
@christophergranados2682 Жыл бұрын
I was going through such situation but a friend told me about a man on KZbin who helped him out, so I tried him out and hopefully it worked and we are about to marry. Check out his KZbin channel on Dr Smith Reunion
@frezlouise Жыл бұрын
Please do not be friends with an ex it doesn’t help ur healing process, trust I got broken up with over a month ago and I was the one asking to be friends and he turned me down and I’m glad he did coz I came to the conclusion that it’s best to give them space to miss u and realise what they lost otherwise they will not feel that with having u around as ‘friends’.
@annajamjam1383 Жыл бұрын
@@frezlouise yeah being friends he’s taking advantage of it. Responding to my texts hours later, and our conversations are so dry. I’m wasting my time.
@frezlouise Жыл бұрын
@@annajamjam1383 honestly it’s not worth it at all, I know it’s so hard to stop speaking to somebody u love trust me I’m going through it right now and have been for over a month but please go no contact with him and let him feel ur absence, let him miss getting ur messages and let him realise there is nobody out there like u but if ur gonna keep being in contact he will never get that feeling and it’ll hurt u more in the long run.
@annajamjam1383 Жыл бұрын
@@frezlouise thanks for your advice. How do I go no contact when I already said it’s okay to just be friends? He said he still likes our connection and he still likes me but maybe we just don’t work intimately. But we don’t even have the same conversations like we used to anymore. Are relationship was so much better as a couple then it is now as just “texting buddies”
@beastmasterakathabarbaric150911 ай бұрын
I was all broken ,now I don’t care…….
@kill3rclown6904 ай бұрын
I was with some girl for 3 years from my senior year 2021 to 2024 of may. We broke up because we had incompatiblity together we had nothing in common and she didnt like much things in life. She left me and would check in with her every couple days to see how she was doing cuz i still loved her and than last thing she said to me was that "if u get with anyone else i dont see the point of us ever talking again" and than i told her i was single and than she said "i gotta get over myself" with a sad face. And than she said "i miss u" i said the same back after that i never heard from her ever again. Its been 2 months since i last heard from her. I still think about her to this day
@ladyvgelin3870 Жыл бұрын
What if we have a child together
@raytorres-bartley42073 ай бұрын
I wanna know the same thing
@alakirte4 ай бұрын
Does there come a point when it becomes too late for no contact to work? Such as, talking to them and subconsciously manipulating them to try and get them back and breaking their trust? Can I still get my ex to miss me?
@kill3rclown6904 ай бұрын
There's no swt date of when they could come back to u. It can be anytime it can even be years until they reach out. Don't think too much on it it's not worth it
@damasmalipesa2477 Жыл бұрын
You make my day bro! I appreciate it.
@ledijuazeez Жыл бұрын
We broke up last year October and I went on no contact rule and she finally reached around January she told me she met a new guy around December but he stays in Europe we've been having series of lovemaking yesterday I followed one of your tips to leverage the connection I've built with her but she told me we ain't dating and all she's focused on now is meeting the new guy he's arriving from Europe in June. Please I will be glad if you can advise me on this thanks so much in advance.
@christophergranados2682 Жыл бұрын
I was going through such situation but a friend told me about a man on KZbin who helped him out, so I tried him out and hopefully it worked and we are about to marry. Check out his KZbin channel on Dr Smith Reunion
@lifetravels12622 ай бұрын
Can I text her mom happy birthday during no contact as they were so good to me?
@As-cc9ug4 ай бұрын
Coach does no contact work when i was the one who had to walk away because of not being respected ?
@guillermosanchez6284 Жыл бұрын
Well if it’s been 7 months since break up and 5 or 6 months of no contact I think we know what the reality is
@blacademic Жыл бұрын
You don’t sound positive about your situation at all. If she’s gone, you need to have the mindset that you will still attract someone better
@guillermosanchez6284 Жыл бұрын
@@blacademic I will. Been a great 2023 so far and have achieved every goal professionally so far. Now I can focus on dating again hopefully connect w someone that appreciates me
@motrolleur7368 Жыл бұрын
I wonder if this stuff also applies if you were just only dating them for a short period of time? Short but still intense with feelings on both sides. Anyone?
@Cluedup2399 Жыл бұрын
I think if it was over 3 months, mate and like you say, it was intense, I would say a lot of this applies, just my opinion
@motrolleur7368 Жыл бұрын
@@Cluedup2399 Hmm.. was less than 3 but, we’ll see I guess. I didnt “chase” only let her reflect for a day or 2 and asked if she was sure. Still a mistake from my part tho, anyway thanks ill try to update if I can.
@Sharon-jg9ls Жыл бұрын
What if you had intermittent communication for 2mos and he was breadcrumbing so I told him I can no longer communicate and took him off my FB. In no contact now but was it too late?
@1224polo Жыл бұрын
My DA ex girlfriend after 7 months of dating broke up with me with no reason whatsoever. Her reason was ridicolous and it was just a excuse to leave. I tried to convince her not to do it but i never begged or anything. Finnally i told her if she doesnt want ton be with me she can leave. After 5 weeks of no contact she reached out to me without anything significant. I talk with her like with a buddy. Just few sentences a day. Its just a small talk. She never mentioned anything about us and what happenned. She reached oud to me for days in a row with good morning text. And my question is: what does she want from me???? I am so confused...
@pmdal Жыл бұрын
She wants you
@SoldMyV88 ай бұрын
Update?
@1224polo8 ай бұрын
@@SoldMyV8 we got back together and its great. She has changed completely. She cares about me and i can see that. She wants to be with me 24/7
@SoldMyV88 ай бұрын
@@1224polo I’m hoping for the same man. 🙏
@edbrearley5416 Жыл бұрын
What if she doesn’t love me anymore that’s what she told me a month ago, I haven’t talked to her since
@Nemanthaheshara Жыл бұрын
when im in no contact should i wish to her birthday and what if she wishes me on my birthday ?? and what if she wish me in new year what should i do??
@allymimi8789 Жыл бұрын
Please don't reach out. Act like you don't remember her bday and she will start looking for you to ask you why you didn't wish her bday
@corinnehiggins3968 Жыл бұрын
You must stay strong and do nothing. If they don't reply, you will be gutted. Don't put yourself through that.
@tinac6114 Жыл бұрын
Mine ghosted & blocked me out of the blue a week ago. Knocked the wind out of me! Today us his bday. No way in Haiti's am I going to attempt in some way to wish him a happy bday & inflate his ego.
@natesearfoss881 Жыл бұрын
Can anyone tell me why my ex is being outwardly angry with me two months after she dumped me? I passed her on the sidewalk last week and she yelled “F you” to me when I was I minding my own business. I didn’t try to talk to her or anything. I’ve been in no contact for two months now and I’m confused by this act of hers, especially with her doing this in public.
@peternall6566 Жыл бұрын
She is hurting.
@allymimi8789 Жыл бұрын
She is in one of those stages your ex goes through after break up. She will soon start to be hot and cold towards you. Keep doing what you're doing She will come one day looking for you when your feelings shifted. Good luck but don't give her attention until she comes to you for talks and an apology
@michaelhofby Жыл бұрын
If she yells at you on the street that would be a great sign. She cares still then and probably alot . Probably hurting and feeling like a victim i would say. Keep doing your own
@natesearfoss881 Жыл бұрын
@@allymimi8789 thank you
@natesearfoss881 Жыл бұрын
@@peternall6566 thank you
@couldstrife1 Жыл бұрын
Saw my ex two weeks ago since then herd nothing, but she’s started following the school account again and watching the stories. Her stuff is still at mine after three months I’m confused with what to do
@jamiebonnar946611 ай бұрын
Almost 2 months ago she left me…doing no contact..I’m devastated. I just want her to reach out to me
@SoldMyV88 ай бұрын
Update??
@TeamLegacyzx Жыл бұрын
I need advice… how can no contact work when my fiancé of three years broke up with me but we stay in the same house… I can’t just leave because I don’t have anywhere to go and then my son is only 1 year old….
@rolandgibson6423 Жыл бұрын
My ex was my best friend who has kids that’s older you know 23 21 and 15 but she just wanted something casual until feelings started getting involved and she wanted distance and I wasn’t okay with being alone by myself until now but now when I try texting her she ignore it and everything so now I don’t know what to do anymore because I want her back how it use to be so what can I do when a woman who knows how to be alone but we have 2 years and 3 months invested in each other how can she just watches everything I post but don’t contact me
@yourqueen5689 Жыл бұрын
coach have a question Can you do about new in a relationship Months only is it possible for you guys to be back together even you are in long distance and met only once and he already ask my hand for marriage
@nayan6389 Жыл бұрын
She posted a story with her new man today. And probably getting her cheeks clapped by him. It just disgusts me.
@abdulmateenmaher6956 Жыл бұрын
Don't go searching man. Keep it simple. Out of sight out of mind.
@roothelegend182 Жыл бұрын
Bro why would you get so descriptive like that and do that to yourself you like torture?
@shawny979 Жыл бұрын
How about unfollowing her? Roo is right, you're hurting yourself unnecessarily.
@user-uh9ut7uu9c Жыл бұрын
What if she left you because she felt unloved and unwanted? Should I still wait for her to reach out to me?
@kimo_playz Жыл бұрын
Ofcourse not, she already made clear she felt unloved and unwanted and you're still waiting on Her to make a move? Dude, go and show her how much you truly loved her and want her until she's gone forever. Pull up with a bouquet of flowers and some champagne and tell her you made a huge mistake by not showing her the love she deserves!
@alonatomina7773 Жыл бұрын
Great video, thank you
@michaelhofby Жыл бұрын
Man i would love to book a session with you . But i feel its like a bit too expensive :( .. Almost 200 bucks for the hour just feels too much man .. I could do like 80 bucks for the first hour
@brawnyhobgoblin2697 Жыл бұрын
Hi coach it's a month today of NC.idk what to do now?I'm watching you vids since my breakup..your vids are inspiring but idk what should I do now?
@hemannathan8423 Жыл бұрын
Go to gym wonder in nature control your thoughts and learn how to be emotionless so that even if they come back u wont get hurt and try get along with alot of people unravel your days happily even if u cant and u figure this out but never ever break the no contact in anyway fight the urge and u got this you will love the end results
@brawnyhobgoblin2697 Жыл бұрын
@@hemannathan8423 thanks yaar I appreciate that.
@roentgen867 ай бұрын
Will NC works with LDR?
@dope20194612 Жыл бұрын
What if my ex wants to see our dog every month? I really want to go no contact but I don’t want to be an asshole and tell him he can’t see our dog. He was super pissed when I told him that I dont think thats a good idea. (6 and half years together dog is almost 5) If the contact is only about our dog could this still work or he won’t feel my absence?
@coldbeing5420 Жыл бұрын
Long story, short. What if me and the girl were seeing each other for over 3 months and she becomes distant, taking a couple days to respond, then one day removes me as a friend and follower on instagram but later that day snapchatted me. I felt like she was looking for attention, so I didn't call her out. I told her about getting together and she said she wouldn't be good company some weekends and I told her we'll figure it out down her way or up my way and she sends me a pic with no caption. I left her on read because there was nothing else to say and 2 days later she removes me off snapchat. It's been 2 months NC. Was she hiding someone from me?
@babyluvjr Жыл бұрын
Of course she was hiding someone....that's obvious pimpin....very unfortunate
@tammybradshaw7175 Жыл бұрын
What is the song playing in the background?
@jaxs2384 Жыл бұрын
My ex came bake after 5 days.
@fathimaimthiyas7956 Жыл бұрын
Hi coach...me and my husband are seperated.. how to do no contact when we are working each other...
@fathimaimthiyas7956 Жыл бұрын
@Kem Wang I mean our work place is same
@jennifernixon563 Жыл бұрын
Perfect video t.y.
@lionroot4073 Жыл бұрын
My ex gf dumped me almost 2 weeks i keep no contact but she doesn't remove relationship status on Facebook. Nu Question is should i remove relationship status on Facebook?
@bweneneafusa4160 Жыл бұрын
But my x z now dating some one else and z OK
@harryocallaghan8082 Жыл бұрын
I was taking to a guy on and off for a month or two. It took a while for him to open up to me. He had trust issues which I totally respected. I told him that I really liked him and we spoke every single day. He said the same towards me. He then started being hot & cold towards me and I told him that I can’t keep chasing him unless he is ready so I wished him good luck. So I did no contact with him. He text me 8/9 months later and apologised to me and told me he was ready to move on and thanked me for being there for him and told me that he was just scared. I respected that and I assured him that I wasn’t going to hurt him. So we started talking again everyday and everything was really good between us. He fully opened up to me and we were getting along normally but after two or three weeks he started to go cold on me again. I saw him liking other guys nude photos on social media and just being generally distant. So I confronted him about it. And this wasn’t the first time I confronted him. He told me I need to focus on myself so I asked him why he messaged me again after such a long time then and ready to commit and he started getting defensive about it and sort of trying to manipulate & gaslight me so I told him...look I’ve been very transparent and open with you from the very start and my feelings towards him. I told him that he’s playing some weird game and that I wasn’t having it anymore. He just didn’t respect me really at all. He then decided to block me, yet he was the one who reached out to me to then go cold again?? 😂 It was very confusing and made me wonder how many other guys he was doing it too. I was stupid to respond to him when he reached out to me again. Lesson learnt though. People like that are just really insecure & they play this love game and draw you when they really have no intention of committing to a relationship with you. He’s got serious trust issues but I can’t be there to help him move on anymore because he’s pushed me away so many times. He was just using me for emotional support and only need me when it suited him. Never let someone try to manipulate & control you like the way i let him do it to me. You’re worth more than that and deserve someone who respects you and wants the best for you! It’s difficult but you’ve got to be strong.
@yacamille20 Жыл бұрын
I need some options. Is it ok to pick up your ex call while sleeping with another girl? Since girls are capable of doing that, can we do the same and how will it feel about that?
@yassintanger7146 Жыл бұрын
No contact means you done with her even if she comes back dont accept she used to monkey branching spinning plates if you throuw a garbage you will not search on it again.
@lashondatolliver6158 Жыл бұрын
Me and my ex broke up 4 months ago. She just came back like 4 weeks ago, but she left again saying she’s in love with someone else.
@DraiMcGee Жыл бұрын
you made it easy for her
@JDflight24 Жыл бұрын
It took nearly a month after our official break up to walk away. We’re now 2 months no contact and just focusing on myself even if I still dream about her and what not.
@Fraggle_Rockz Жыл бұрын
How’s it going now?
@darnellj.9812 Жыл бұрын
SUPPOSE YALL WORK IN THE SAME PLACE ?
@abdulmateenmaher6956 Жыл бұрын
I need a thought on that too.
@karolkozak64 Жыл бұрын
one of you need to go find another job... seriously... cause it will be affecting your on the job performance anyways... you can't think or work clearly in such an environment... or try see if you can change the floor/building/department etc. to not be running into each other constantly.. also maybe explore more work from home (after covid this has been made possible for many of us)
@confusedstew4892 Жыл бұрын
I accidentally watched my exes insta story after a month of not doing so did this but did I just break my chances and I have to restart on no contact again
@abdulmateenmaher6956 Жыл бұрын
Yep! u surely did break the rule.😂 u have to start again. Have compassion for yourself and do not beat yourself over it. We all have been there.
@peternall6566 Жыл бұрын
Delete everything
@michaelhofby Жыл бұрын
get off social media
@MattBlogna6 ай бұрын
She doesn't want to come back it been months this advice is not always true
@aniketsingh1974 Жыл бұрын
How to accept the fact that they'll never come back ? Cause if they wanted to continue they would never have left in first place.
@carmenlopes9758 Жыл бұрын
That is not always the truth..I left someone I loved dearly and I still do..he wasn’t emotionally investing in the relationship and I was hurting every single day and he was aware of it ..holding on sometimes hurts equally as letting go ..
@juanarawal9790 Жыл бұрын
You are angel..God bless you....we are just so much inclined and inspired...
@NataliaCaldera2002 Жыл бұрын
After 9 months of no contact with my ex, he recently commented on one of my posts and said "I believe you deserve all of the happiness
@jerongunn4416 Жыл бұрын
Curious from the other side(The Guy). Did he leave or did you? As well. What if he was, would you? From a males perspective without knowing context, I'd lean more into reeling back.
@xenova6239 Жыл бұрын
He’s making peace. Let it go
@Michellemybell739 Жыл бұрын
It sounds like he either felt he wasn’t good enough or he was insecure or that there is a piece of him that’s not giving him 100% to you. Something is holding him back either someone else or fear of letting you down or not being 100% sure about you and him or he could just be wanting to not commit fully -has nothing to do with his age cause he can be 25 or 35 or 45 and not be ready to commit.
@lwinston5950 Жыл бұрын
I would be good if we didn't hv a kid together .
@yourqueen5689 Жыл бұрын
First ...
@sheLL0811 Жыл бұрын
is viewing stories, breaking no contact?
@rosemaryodiakosa Жыл бұрын
Hello no, but you are spying
@TheAlexuslee Жыл бұрын
It’s not breaking contact but it’s not making them wonder whether you’re still checking on them or not! It’ll validate them in a sense
@sheLL0811 Жыл бұрын
@@TheAlexuslee he is a DA and very sensitive on rejection so should i check ?
@sethfletcher3772 Жыл бұрын
How do they know your viewing theyre story , do we pop up in people they may know?
@sheLL0811 Жыл бұрын
@@rosemaryodiakosa i am not spying, i really don't feel like checking but i was the dumper, my person is a DA and was pulling away and did NC. he complains if i dont check his stories, he will feel abandoned if I don't being a DA, but I don't feel like to check.