How to SEDUCE YOUR Stubborn EX and make the find you irresistable AFTER NO CONTACT

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Coach Blac - Blacademic

Coach Blac - Blacademic

Күн бұрын

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@brandonmoskos9149
@brandonmoskos9149 Жыл бұрын
This guy is spot on. Did exactly these things with my ex gf. Went on with my life, stopped making her a priority. And she recently asked me if I wanted to meet up for dinner with her soon. The method works.
@decarrioturner
@decarrioturner Жыл бұрын
I hope you said no. Can’t move forward going backwards.
@andreajones6840
@andreajones6840 Жыл бұрын
If he wants her back he will say yes to the dinner invitation😊
@richardthompson2563
@richardthompson2563 Жыл бұрын
Super happy for you! Hey, how did it go???
@richardthompson2563
@richardthompson2563 Жыл бұрын
Super happy for you! That's a great first move...I hope that continues to grow and repair your relationship! Keep it up, man!
@jacksongainey4678
@jacksongainey4678 Жыл бұрын
@@brandonmoskos9149 hey man, curious how many weeks of no contact it took for her to reach out?
@darkphoenixaresryu
@darkphoenixaresryu Жыл бұрын
Scarcity creates value.
@mlovespring7892
@mlovespring7892 11 ай бұрын
My person shuts down and refused to communicate over misunderstandings. However, he felt as I don’t care nor treat him as a priority….he is so wrong. He is exstreamly hard headed. I hope he reaches out before it’s too late because I truly and deeply care about him and love him.
@kinaction7040
@kinaction7040 Жыл бұрын
Been on and off with the mother of my child for 12 years. Feeling run so deep it’s hard to let it go, working on yourself is always the best option
@ronaldclaude1892
@ronaldclaude1892 Жыл бұрын
Wow
@derrickmoon3296
@derrickmoon3296 Ай бұрын
I learned women don't love the same as us. It's on and off for them. I'm tired of her games.
@christoffervik9997
@christoffervik9997 Жыл бұрын
Got my ex back coach blac - your videos has helped me out tremendously. Not only is she back, but she is in love. I sure know now Who she is to me, and she does too, lets Just hope this 8th time is the last time we brake up. 😅
@antonios2002
@antonios2002 Жыл бұрын
are u being serious? because i’m on the 3rd breakup right now. would love to see revival…
@peep4674
@peep4674 Жыл бұрын
You still with her,?
@christoffervik9997
@christoffervik9997 Жыл бұрын
@@peep4674 yeah Brother, realationship has never been better.
@peep4674
@peep4674 Жыл бұрын
@@christoffervik9997 I'm happy for you
@sholomobenyosef9659
@sholomobenyosef9659 Жыл бұрын
I’m so n my 3rd break up… I don’t know how I can respond if we get back together… for now I’m going to plan a life without her
@cqualif
@cqualif Жыл бұрын
Material things fade away. The soul lasts forever.
@S.Randolph-hu5oh
@S.Randolph-hu5oh 11 ай бұрын
Ok at this point got a text/a video total breadcrumb. I waited several hours to respond and just made a short comment then said “Thanks for sharing”. I took them off of their pedestal was polite & respectful. Coach thank you for your videos. They help so much navigating the whole break up process. Stay Strong! God Bless
@chisomoffor6877
@chisomoffor6877 Жыл бұрын
I’m meeting up with my ex tomorrow and I’m definitely using this techniques, he is already noticing me giving up and truly letting go
@decarrioturner
@decarrioturner Жыл бұрын
So why meet up with him if you’re giving up and letting go?
@chisomoffor6877
@chisomoffor6877 Жыл бұрын
@@decarrioturner emmmm because I love him, giving up in sense of chasing and accepting the breakup
@andreajones6840
@andreajones6840 Жыл бұрын
Please don't listen to mr. Mood-setter he's being negative to everybody😊
@preciousnweze5790
@preciousnweze5790 Жыл бұрын
Update?
@chisomoffor6877
@chisomoffor6877 Жыл бұрын
@@preciousnweze5790 it went well , nothing really changed . I’m back on no contact , he wants to be friends but I’m stronger now in my no contact journey
@user-iu6bv8vu8o
@user-iu6bv8vu8o Жыл бұрын
It’s exhausting- I’ve done it all- now he calls & texts, I don’t answer at all- Point is, when I do respond- he does the same shit & I’m left wondering again - I’m done- let him call, text whatever- I’m waiting for someone I don’t have to play this hot & cold game with- it’s draining & a waste of time & energy- I’m satisfied with leaving him on read- Boy ✌🏽 BYE- but I do appreciate you & your videos…
@mamunranamintu5759
@mamunranamintu5759 Жыл бұрын
Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her
@user-rm7mu6xg8v
@user-rm7mu6xg8v Жыл бұрын
its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended, but i couldnt just let her go i did all i could to get her back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring her back
@mamunranamintu5759
@mamunranamintu5759 Жыл бұрын
@@user-rm7mu6xg8v Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach her?
@user-rm7mu6xg8v
@user-rm7mu6xg8v Жыл бұрын
@@mamunranamintu5759 Her name is Sylvia Regina White, and she is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.
@mamunranamintu5759
@mamunranamintu5759 Жыл бұрын
@@user-rm7mu6xg8v Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive
@bigfifagamest
@bigfifagamest Жыл бұрын
im in the same situation as you man but we will get through it
@cruzidora
@cruzidora Жыл бұрын
I don't need to go back to my ex after what happened it hurt me to much and I will chose God to take care of every bad things they have done wrong into my life I already pray and ask God for justice that God whose the one to do judgment for I can't do nothing but pray my cry
@Theonenottheto12
@Theonenottheto12 8 ай бұрын
U validate how I was feeling since I been distance no contact now he wounder what I’m doin now I’m on to the games we spent holiday with his family but I knew he was expecting me to do the same thing again I did not were cordial but I’m not emotion after staying the holidays together when we was together he questioned me about saying I was just getting home in a message an notice a suite case in my car 🤦🏾‍♀️ after all that now u question me an inviting me out with family
@adad5891
@adad5891 Жыл бұрын
Trust me, he's on point! Who feels it knows it...
@rosibellizardorosario
@rosibellizardorosario Жыл бұрын
I’m going through a break up. I needed to hear that
@laurafelker6262
@laurafelker6262 Жыл бұрын
Your videos are getting me thru this time I am going thru. It's been 2 1/2 months and no contact. I have to fight wanting to text him. I have been deeply hurt.
@Queenpeekaf
@Queenpeekaf Жыл бұрын
More strength to you sis💪🏻💪🏻💪🏻cause it always works. Though it’s tough but it’s always worth it at the end…
@hiashamdin9820
@hiashamdin9820 6 ай бұрын
any updates? have they contacted you?
@jennylove3084
@jennylove3084 Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much Coach! You read my mind because I went no contact on him and he literally always comes back, so I needed this more than ever because it’s only a matter of time before he comes back..Only this time, I’m gonna be the one switch it up! Bahahaha 😈 Love you Coach! I’m so grateful ♥️🙏🏼
@johannesolofsson221
@johannesolofsson221 2 ай бұрын
How long is the longest no contact for you? My ex gf wanted to be friends 1 week ago when she called and I declined it and said i want to date.. had hard suicide thoughts because she was a big part of my life what should I do? Stick to nocontact?
@ashlyjane
@ashlyjane Жыл бұрын
So true, keep yourself busy ladies! You have better things to do. Great advice coach, thank you!
@derrickmoon3296
@derrickmoon3296 Ай бұрын
In my case it's a stubborn woman that didn't realize what all I brought.
@selfmade8238
@selfmade8238 Жыл бұрын
Wow he has all the answers and the answer on his shirt 👕💯
@derrickparker8746
@derrickparker8746 Жыл бұрын
LoL
@lorraineolivera24
@lorraineolivera24 Жыл бұрын
Yep I definitely don't want them back! HIS LOSS. 😅 Thought he could do better and the grass was greener only he didn't realize DIAMONDS are hard to find lmbo! 😂
@evaelizabeth6186
@evaelizabeth6186 Жыл бұрын
Mirror ur ex vibe and focus on beautiful self .. spend time on ur body mind and soul and move forward to an amazing single life Hehe
@user-hk3el6wq9r
@user-hk3el6wq9r Жыл бұрын
4th breakup with same GF Great video! Brokenup with my on and off girlfriend of 3 years. This time she could not break up, but rather say she's busy, not return my calls, she's sick, here daughter is back from college and she has to be a mom for the summer, etc. Ad nauseum. Things were at a pinnacle of our relationship, but she hooked back up with an ex, or someone that is on and off. She gets my greatest gift...the gift of permanently missing me. We'll see how long it will take before she's back. Last time she came back, she cried in my arms, and has a fear of losing me. I think she has 2 goals, get me into the friend zone, or backup if things don't work out. Neither are happening.
@lucifer2b666
@lucifer2b666 Жыл бұрын
Yeah that girls a snake. Drop her and get a woman who values and respects you as a person.
@breicialett7524
@breicialett7524 Жыл бұрын
I don't feel strong enough to not talk or text with him. I've spoken with him everyday for 13yrs without an issue. But he became friends with another woman secretly and now I'm out and he doesn't want to have anything else to do with me! OUCH! He even filed for divorce this month and I have to send in the response. I can't deal with all of this!
@justjamie83
@justjamie83 7 ай бұрын
You deserve so much better!
@Jkdragon90
@Jkdragon90 10 ай бұрын
can we have MORE of this???? Please coach blac. do a more deep video about how to act after no contact on a stubborn ex
@modest91
@modest91 9 ай бұрын
This the one
@terrodar19
@terrodar19 Жыл бұрын
Exwife of two months already as a boyfriend… we share 3 kids and we communicate daily for the kids sake. She emotionally checked out a couple years ago so i highly doubt she’ll turn around… ive made changes and im a good looking dude too.
@jasminefirebrace2941
@jasminefirebrace2941 Жыл бұрын
Why did it take her to leave for you to change? Men see their woman emotionally check out and still continue their behaviour that made her lose interest
@terrodar19
@terrodar19 Жыл бұрын
@@jasminefirebrace2941 100%. I ruined it myself… i had no idea how adapt to make her fall in love w me again. All she needed was to feel heard and understood.. i did NOT do that. its alright, im a much better man
@andreatorluemke4982
@andreatorluemke4982 Жыл бұрын
Stop it with your biceps man. We are single out here…
@DeemMeBeautiful
@DeemMeBeautiful Жыл бұрын
😂😂😂
@iamtheman4416
@iamtheman4416 Жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@chumilemlenzana387
@chumilemlenzana387 Жыл бұрын
😅😅😅😅
@katwomaneyestarot
@katwomaneyestarot 26 күн бұрын
💯😂
@elenalimberg7364
@elenalimberg7364 Жыл бұрын
It's so inspiring to listen to you! Thank you for your work and patience! My guy contacted by phonecall twice and came by for a second. Thinking back, I think he was hoping I would invite him in. I didn'i. It was after 9 pm. Met twice for a second after that. He smiled. But that's it...😕 I constantly think I should do something...🤦‍♀️
@free2bme604
@free2bme604 Жыл бұрын
So true texting for no reason !! I respond hours later …. Then he doesn’t respond . Just weird and off ! Stop texting me period …. I’m to old for the games and drag out .
@JasmineRenea_
@JasmineRenea_ Жыл бұрын
My mom has been telling me to do this with my BD all the time. I was just too kind and soft hearted to do that to him. Im gonna start doing this now since we’re back on good terms.
@annageorgakopoulou2664
@annageorgakopoulou2664 Жыл бұрын
He ghosted me out of the blue. Everything was fine, no fights no arguments and he just disappeared. Its been 2 weeks now. I tried to call him but no answer. So now i stopped. I wont text him even if im struggling not to.
@johnnygelin8391
@johnnygelin8391 Жыл бұрын
I'm so sad that I hadn't seen you videos, or learned anything about breakups before my turn was here... I did so many mistakes... so many (I had my reasons), but yes, It would have been better to do what you teach :/ Now I unfortunately believe we can never be together again. Well well
@valeryposadas7852
@valeryposadas7852 Жыл бұрын
Coach, I feel so terrible. It's been almost 3 months since the breakup and I'm still so I love, waiting, doing NC, focusing on myself... and he jumped to another and then ANOTHER relationship. I guess I don't really know if he actually loves her, but I inadvertently saw some tweets about how he feels broken as hell, but in his main account he's all happiness with this new girl. I just wonder why can't he come back to me. I truly loved him, the kind of love that would cross the oceans swimming and travel through the desert with no water. I can't help but feel like maybe I didn't matter and the sad thing is that I can't even find a reason to hate him. I still love him and think about him everyday. I just wanted to express this somewhere. :(
@mottley5216
@mottley5216 Жыл бұрын
You’re appreciated Coach ! Thanks a lot ❤
@Rahkiya
@Rahkiya Жыл бұрын
Love the Allen Iverson shirt!
@emmaliciousskorpi
@emmaliciousskorpi Жыл бұрын
thank u for your videos great advice coming from the mans point of view
@guitar_genius
@guitar_genius Жыл бұрын
Chase a cheque. Never chase a b#ch💯💯💯
@Kelliedavis
@Kelliedavis Жыл бұрын
Thank you. I'm going through a bad breakup
@iamposhgarcia
@iamposhgarcia Жыл бұрын
I love your delivery!!!! What I am dealing with currently 😮‍💨 it’s so needed
@lmart16
@lmart16 10 ай бұрын
BEST video of yours, by far.
@blueberry9696ify
@blueberry9696ify Жыл бұрын
Thanks for this great Video that arrives on time , i felt confused recently...I initiated NO CONTACT a month ago ( after i felt that my worth was not valued in the relationship ) , she reached out to me the other day wishing me Happy B-Day , few messages has been exchanged concerning my B-Day and Spring season coming but she didn't try to repair anything or to fix a date to meet up , as i didn't try to push anything neither, she withdrew from the conversation . Then i felt confuse , making me think that it was just a test ,first to see if i was going to respond and if i will try to fix anything with her , but i did not... Then the conversation stops , exactly like you said " trying to keep me on ice" to see how i will react .
@abdulmateenmaher6956
@abdulmateenmaher6956 Жыл бұрын
Kudos to you bro. Keep it moving!
@decarrioturner
@decarrioturner Жыл бұрын
Your feelings are confusing you. Move on.
@stevediaz7332
@stevediaz7332 Жыл бұрын
I'm working on getting my ex back, we have met up twice during the 1.5 months of break up.. both of those times I had spent the entire weekend with her at her house, we have a wonderful time, we kiss, walk on the beach, hold hands as if we were together again, then when I have to leave back to my city, 450km away. she does not want me to go.. we talk for about a day after saying she misses me back and forth,.. but then she suddenly turns cold on me, and acts like nothing is going on again.. whhy is she acting like this? hot/cold behavior. is confusing me..
@davidenko2468
@davidenko2468 Ай бұрын
Thanks for the tip coach big admirer from england here just broke up with my ex well she left me im 42 she is 27 i thought i was too old for her her new guy is fat and 57 but he has horses which are her passion im going to keep doing me going to gym and only contact her regarding our child as i feel she is using him as a weapon to keep hurting me she keeps telling me he is asking for daddy all the time when she was the one who chose to leave i have been through some dark times recently your videos help immensley
@timsabean5121
@timsabean5121 Жыл бұрын
Dude! You are the BOMB!
@MrTheomighty1
@MrTheomighty1 Жыл бұрын
The lady I’ve been with for a little over 3 years has walked away from me. Now the thing is she still contacts me and makes arrangements to meet up, why she walked away was she now has taken on a second job to keep her home that she was on the verge of losing. She works after her 1st job/primary and then both Saturdays and Sundays. The thing is I feel like a jerk because looking back she couldn’t find time to see me as often as I liked but now she finds time to work 7-8-9 hrs in her 2nd job. I still remind her and remind myself that she broke up with, so now I respond a day or so later and she’s not happy about it. I forgot to add I always let her initiate contact first. I hear from her and time from 1 day upto 9 days. We’ve separated a few times over the years and it’s all her not me and when she does this I go straight into No Contact and I stick to it this is why she reaches out and comes back but the thing is how do I get her to stay.
@Soksara
@Soksara Жыл бұрын
Continue to build yourself, mostly spiritually (read more, don't let monkey mind to command, stop the thinking process with reading), work on your body too, keep the good shape. If it doesn't work 3 times, it's better to move on. There are plenty of girls, you just have to change your point of view in general. Don't waste time! Keep it up!
@eternalriver7866
@eternalriver7866 Жыл бұрын
Nothing wrong with new. If someone can walk away, especially many times, and you seen it was worse each time they came back….nothing wrong with embracing new
@audrey4150
@audrey4150 Жыл бұрын
I’m emotionally ready to talk after no contact and the break up it’s been 15 days. I feel more level headed. But I wonder will my ex ever reach out to me?
@socol76
@socol76 Жыл бұрын
It doesn’t matter if you’re ready to talk, don’t reach out . The only reason you should break no contact is if they reach out first . Trust me I’ve learned this the hard way .
@Juice1990s
@Juice1990s 6 ай бұрын
I been doing no contact on and off for a couple of weeks now we both still live together…. So I been practicing while I’m at work but when I come home or whenever she’s with her reb she act like she hasn’t seen me all month we cuddled twice felt really good like I never left
@coachqueenlova583
@coachqueenlova583 Жыл бұрын
I looooove your content ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️. WOW !!!
@keturahjackson4479
@keturahjackson4479 Жыл бұрын
Ex was together for 6 years. He most def did all three. So I guess I gotta move on too.
@philiswasolomon7593
@philiswasolomon7593 Жыл бұрын
He texted me after 2 weeks of no contact saying he has sent money for me and i sent it back told him we shouldn’t be contacting each other because he is seeing someone else so i would not want to be a home wrecker by accepting money from someone else’s man behind their back cz that’s not something i would want my man to do im scared of Karma…….he got so angry told me to even burn his stuff he left in my house i don’t know if what i said drove him away and maybe he will never want to talk to me again….please advise
@graceb355
@graceb355 Жыл бұрын
Oh my so tricky better I walking way quite than doing this awful techniques 😅😅😊😊this no balls game😂😂😂
@kawaiijohnson4244
@kawaiijohnson4244 25 күн бұрын
When you said “but you can do this” @ 11:15 you sounded SO reassuring lmao ughhhh! Ok ok I got this 😅🫠
@abdulmateenmaher6956
@abdulmateenmaher6956 Жыл бұрын
Thanks for your wise wisdom as always.
@Nemanthaheshara
@Nemanthaheshara Жыл бұрын
I don't know what is going on or what to do in my ex relationship because she came back but i ruined by begging her will she come back again ? But she is in a relationship now!! Its killing me.can somebody suggest anything to do please
@andreajones6840
@andreajones6840 Жыл бұрын
Now you have to do what he said you have to not contact her until she contacts you you have to start all over because you should not have begged her. Look at some more of his videos because he tells you exactly what to do😊 pray about it seek God for strength go out with your friends and family even go on a dating site to just meet new people you don't have to date anybody just meet new people somebody else to talk to.
@CREDMANSR
@CREDMANSR 7 ай бұрын
I'm doing most of what's being said but she's got a rebound that doesn't even live in our time zone. We're in the US and he's supposedly in Korea. I told her that she needs not put all her eggs in one basket but she ain't listening when it comes to international dating
@khaoulahaddaoui53
@khaoulahaddaoui53 Жыл бұрын
Hi coach, we’ve been in nc for more then a month now after almost 4yrs of relationship. He contacted me a week ago for stuff I asked back and to get back some money/ refunds I did it fully got back for him. He first proposed to bring me back my stuff to my house then backed up when I told him I don’t have the full refunds yet, and disappeared again since a week now. What should I do ? There is still this unfinished business between us? Thank you
@jaedynnmorgan4920
@jaedynnmorgan4920 9 ай бұрын
Mannn i needed to see this video 4 days ago 😩
@tushar1700
@tushar1700 Жыл бұрын
Coach you are looking massive 💪 !!!
@nataliefrazier2652
@nataliefrazier2652 8 ай бұрын
My ex said something I said changed things and he didn’t feel the same or love me anymore. He came back and we spent the week together and he said he tried but didn’t love me anymore after he lost his temper over his dog … wtf what is happening
@minakshivenkateswaran6967
@minakshivenkateswaran6967 Жыл бұрын
Love this, keep up the good work ❤
@ericbellamy3518
@ericbellamy3518 10 ай бұрын
My ex asked me on date for this Sunday after no contact. No she was like u can call me i don't bite lol.
@babydii3487
@babydii3487 9 ай бұрын
He ignored me for a week, i ignored his ass double. Don't breadcrumb me lil buddy 💯💯
@nanh9080
@nanh9080 Жыл бұрын
These are amazing tips!
@mp4455
@mp4455 11 ай бұрын
What I don’t get is how does no contact work …. Don’t they forget about u… with me the more I don’t talk to him the more I care less and don’t want him back … I still don’t get how this works ?!?!?
@meganobrien5463
@meganobrien5463 Жыл бұрын
Thank You for being here and doing what you do for us! We luv ya! Gr8 work!💐🌹💐💗❤️💗🙏😘
@ea.himcelf1747
@ea.himcelf1747 Жыл бұрын
I found my gf (ex) with very low self esteem and when we finally got into relationship I built her different. I helped her changed her mentality as to why she should be more confident about her looks because she is actually gorgeous. she also have daddy issues so I always played that figure for her to be more loved. she left because I complained bitterly about her entertaining other guys because their compliments on her was getting into her head. It been 3 month and I see me losing myself because I am always tryna reach out and even though she still comes arround for few days she still don't wanna be in a relationship with anybody, thats what she says. what do I do because I am unable to apply this method in getting her back again into a relationship
@ULTIMATEUNITED2000
@ULTIMATEUNITED2000 Жыл бұрын
Walk away mate. No contact. Why? You want romance not someone who is cold, no kissing. Just friends is what it sounds like. Only way for you to truely fix up is learn to be by yourself for a while. Not even date. Stop letting her come around, tell her you want romance, if she can't offer you this then tell her if she changes her mind she should give you a buzz if not gonna be moving on. It hurts, I been through the same but you want love, romance sex and she ain't offering you nothing. Friends will never work. Never
@ULTIMATEUNITED2000
@ULTIMATEUNITED2000 Жыл бұрын
You want a method ok - Listen to your intuition 1 - you didn't like she is entertaining other guys - she will still continue to do this. You stood up to her and look she's gone. Look at her actions she didn't value you. 2 - mate you are a catch, fix up in the time your away. Its sad, lonely hurts but work out go for walks. Speak to family. Do your best to focus on loving you mate. 3 - You must learn to walk away - feel defeat. Once you learn this you will be liberated from it. In other words, do not be afraid to walk away. Everyone is so focused on how to win. You are not willing to accept the way to lose. You got to. It is the hardest to do but it has to be done and only strong people can do this. Once you go through it so many times you don't feel it so much. Don't break. Take care of u. Prayers 🙏
@ea.himcelf1747
@ea.himcelf1747 Жыл бұрын
@@ULTIMATEUNITED2000 Thank you sirr it hasn’t been easy but I am going to force myself through. I hope she does see my worth once more again and comes back.
@Gary_Winthorpe
@Gary_Winthorpe Жыл бұрын
Such a good video bro. Thank you ❤
@ebonybolston4009
@ebonybolston4009 Жыл бұрын
What if they have kids? How would you navigate the no contact ?
@charlenejohnson7449
@charlenejohnson7449 Жыл бұрын
You right about what you are saying but I'm the type of person that don't have the time to kiss a gown person ass it don't matter if its a friendship or a relationship people should just focus on Loving them self more that worry about people that always trying to come back after the new shit fall apart that's when you pretend to like them again you do everything to hook them back to you then you dump they ass and leave them hanging.
@tonyalee5257
@tonyalee5257 Жыл бұрын
How does long distance affect the request to see?
@Jenniferrgracee
@Jenniferrgracee 3 сағат бұрын
How do I do no contact if my ex drives me to school every day? We share a car.
@mattcob16
@mattcob16 Жыл бұрын
Is there any difference in these methods if there was space requested at one point and then I did beg and pushed too hard in order to cause a break up?
@moonchild8719
@moonchild8719 Жыл бұрын
Love your videos💯 ❤ thank you
@WillNeNe
@WillNeNe Жыл бұрын
Appreciate the advice.
@dianahascsa1201
@dianahascsa1201 7 ай бұрын
Thank you so much. You are really helping me
@chrisdowning7543
@chrisdowning7543 10 ай бұрын
This is all very well but what happens if they are a dismissive avoidant. She has reached out 2 times now. About Once a month. I offered to cook here Sunday lunch, she said Ok good idea il let you know Sunday when I’m free. This was 2 weeks ago!🤷🤷🤷
@dan_amosu
@dan_amosu Жыл бұрын
Coach, How do I make her come back even when I have to see her everyday
@izzy6810
@izzy6810 Жыл бұрын
Question! 🙋🏾‍♀️ How do you get back your ex after a short term relationship?? Please can you do a video! Thank you! ❤
@Soksara
@Soksara Жыл бұрын
Stop chasing, and give yourself space, think about you, and do what you want, enjoy! They will come back, if you let it be!
@izzy6810
@izzy6810 Жыл бұрын
@@Soksara thank you 🙏
@childofGod8888
@childofGod8888 Жыл бұрын
Just tell them you going to have to find a better way to contact me than a text message then don't respond. They an ex for a reason...effort or nothing especially if they didn't value you. Even with effort, make none
@ps4ap_ballin672
@ps4ap_ballin672 11 ай бұрын
Keep up the great work
@duckmathews200
@duckmathews200 Жыл бұрын
My guy 🙌🏾🙌🏾
@justincombs1744
@justincombs1744 Жыл бұрын
Really appreciate your videos. Also you got my favorite player of all time on your shirt 🤣 anyways keep up the good work
@mxolisisunshine1168
@mxolisisunshine1168 Жыл бұрын
Since I'm in no contact for 5 months now. I just saw my ex at Garage and i gave her hug i was wrong to do that Coach 🤷‍♂️🤷‍♂️
@Rarest_People
@Rarest_People 9 ай бұрын
Just ignore her next time ...you didn't do any damage..just let her chase you..bro...don't give her red carpet like that..get to the gym ..date other girls..and keep no contact bro..perhaps after no contact rule for 3 months I swear you may even not wanting her.. because what they do s they think other side is greener once they got pumped, smashed and dumped they want you back...be careful my dude..don't lock yourself in a room..go out, get to the gym..dress well..hit the gym..go out , no matter how much you miss her don't contact her..
@mxolisisunshine1168
@mxolisisunshine1168 9 ай бұрын
@@Rarest_People thank you so much🙏🙏
@chewit9712
@chewit9712 9 ай бұрын
What happens if they constantly watch your media but not interact and you post because you’re living your life but also super aware they will see them. What’s the advice do I block contact completely or just continue to post ignorant?!
@amyrowe8014
@amyrowe8014 5 ай бұрын
I broke him off. He tries to text me w fake profiles. And all he wants is to be fed by me ie asking me how I’m doing asking if I’m seeing someone. It’s been 7months no contact from me. I do not go look @ his socials PLEASE TELL ME. IS 7 months to long going no contact only fake accounts??? Someone please tell me if 7months no CONTACT????
@mottley5216
@mottley5216 Жыл бұрын
Can u do a video how to successfully no contact with kids involved ? thanks Coach.
@momon3y29
@momon3y29 Жыл бұрын
I was going to ask the same thing
@Ray_not_Charles
@Ray_not_Charles Жыл бұрын
He already have one
@momon3y29
@momon3y29 Жыл бұрын
@@Ray_not_Charles send the link then
@Ray_not_Charles
@Ray_not_Charles Жыл бұрын
@@momon3y29 kzbin.info/www/bejne/o5yTi6VsasiJbK8
@mottley5216
@mottley5216 Жыл бұрын
@@Ray_not_Charles he does, I found it it’s called: “How to do no contact when you had kids together”
@apshappysobriety5414
@apshappysobriety5414 9 ай бұрын
Hi🙋🏻‍♂️How can i could get in contact with you for a personal coaching, Coach Blac?
@DeemMeBeautiful
@DeemMeBeautiful Жыл бұрын
What if they are long distance and said they wanted to figure out a weekend that works best for you to come see them but hasn’t solidified plans yet and still only texts every few days with limited convo? It seems like he always expects me to cart the convo??
@andreajones6840
@andreajones6840 Жыл бұрын
Don't do it girl keep busy with friends and family pray about it go on a dating site and just talk to other nice guys you don't have to go out with him just talk somebody else to talk to😊
@DeemMeBeautiful
@DeemMeBeautiful Жыл бұрын
@@andreajones6840 Thanks. I absolutely hate dating sites I’ve been on and off for years and they really frustrate me. But I definitely will allow God to lead this area of my life and continue to pray to meet the right person sooner than later.
@christinapersoneni9438
@christinapersoneni9438 4 ай бұрын
What are other ways to take him off that pedestal
@chrisipacs2091
@chrisipacs2091 23 күн бұрын
Coach its chris i need your help..please
@romeobillings6645
@romeobillings6645 Жыл бұрын
But if you have a rental and the people where dealing whit her now she is send there numbers to me so she has to contact me and on one mgs she said to me she is never even coming back she has no desire to come back
@HeidiRouth-qi8rk
@HeidiRouth-qi8rk 8 ай бұрын
He texted and ghosted me and i texted him again...now he disappeared...is anyone thinking its best just to move on cause i do honestly have better things to do...and i can do better than him anyway and find someone that treats me better...cause yoh...i dont wanna do this it hurts like hel
@tessmcmurray578
@tessmcmurray578 Жыл бұрын
from your experience, how long does the initial "relief" stage of a break up last for (for the dumper)? I am currently at day 10 post break up with someone i was with for 18 months- we are long distance but were seeing each other three times a year (from 2-4 weeks at a time), and I was prepared to move to be with him (we had spoken candidly about this in the past. Long story short- i feel he got cold feet and has commitment issues that pre-date our relationship and go back to past relationships of his). I love him very much but i told him i didn't want to hear from him unless he changed his mind (he wanted to keep the doors open for talking, but i feel if i let that happen, he'd be contacting me regularly, prolonging the pain for me). So, I informed him of the no contact preference.
@modest91
@modest91 9 ай бұрын
Did he reach out?
@crxtv2672
@crxtv2672 6 ай бұрын
Hi coach I went no contact,he insisted on third party,so I went no contact,we are in different states so its long distance connection,he send valentine's message I didn't respond,to this day he hasn't sent another message
@romeobillings6645
@romeobillings6645 Жыл бұрын
And if she saying go get a new person I am not coming back
@maltaustheresina2068
@maltaustheresina2068 Жыл бұрын
ohhhhh ❣❣❣❣❣love it
@reginamyers6731
@reginamyers6731 Жыл бұрын
Beast 💪
@dr.davenport9941
@dr.davenport9941 Жыл бұрын
Interested in a session
@vicenzoalbertoni3091
@vicenzoalbertoni3091 5 ай бұрын
what about ldr? when you can’t see each other in person
@xxninalovelyxx-gaming6976
@xxninalovelyxx-gaming6976 9 ай бұрын
If my ex wishes me a happy birthday, should I wish them one? there is basically a few days after mine.
@dlcillusions7782
@dlcillusions7782 7 ай бұрын
I already messed that up 😂
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