50. Doubts

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Will Darbyshire

Will Darbyshire

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@TheThirdPew
@TheThirdPew 7 жыл бұрын
I got the perfect shirt for you
@jedd752
@jedd752 7 жыл бұрын
Nathan Zed that's the first thing I thought of
@imalloutofgin
@imalloutofgin 7 жыл бұрын
Please actually send him one. I want him to wear it in the next video as a LOOK IM GOOD ENOUGH moment.
@tara.5986
@tara.5986 7 жыл бұрын
Was about to comment that
@StarMintaka
@StarMintaka 7 жыл бұрын
I literally went there just so that I could comment about your shirt, and here you are
@Jaden-zu9wc
@Jaden-zu9wc 7 жыл бұрын
Nathan Zed leave
@catarinabakker8405
@catarinabakker8405 7 жыл бұрын
The shittiest feeling is realising you're not good enough to do what you *dream* of doing.
@MrsDreamerx
@MrsDreamerx 7 жыл бұрын
It's bullshit. The emotion is a response to the false thought, that we believe to be true. You can't "realise" that you're not good enough, because that's simply not true. It's not a realisation, it's a stupid movie - a scenario, that you create in your head about yourself.
@catarinabakker8405
@catarinabakker8405 7 жыл бұрын
Pastiche My mom once told me when I admitted I really wanted to be an actress “Some people are born to do something, and some people are not” = some people have talent and others don’t
@catarinabakker8405
@catarinabakker8405 7 жыл бұрын
Sometimes it’s not a false self-destructive thought, it’s just a truth we have to accept. Not everybody makes it
@MrsDreamerx
@MrsDreamerx 7 жыл бұрын
It's always a false thought. If you really want to accomplish something and you believe that's going to make you happy, you pursue it. You pursue it. You always have at least a few tools, that you can begin with - the Universe provides them for you. If your dream is to be an actress, you can (for example) enrol in an acting course - that's a very good start. The goal is not to become famous, the goal is to do what you feel called to do. If your calling is acting - go for it! Look for the opportunities and grab them, no matter how small they are. If it's what you want to do, it should be enough. Don't listen to people, who have always been afraid to dream big - this is nothing but the prison of the small self, a.k.a ego, a.k.a fears and social conditioning/programming. It has nothing to do with who you really are. Without exploring this in much depth - since I dont want to act as a spiritual teacher here, I'm just gonna ask you to trust me when I say that everything you want to do is possible. "What you seek is seeking you." - Rumi
@catarinabakker8405
@catarinabakker8405 7 жыл бұрын
Pastiche Thank you so much for this. I really needed it, fuck. That might be the best advice I’ve ever received 😅
@roplusmiu
@roplusmiu 7 жыл бұрын
Title Edit: I'm good enough* 💫
@cinemoni
@cinemoni 7 жыл бұрын
when is your short film coming out? It looks so beautiful, can't wait to watch it!
@imalex7916
@imalex7916 7 жыл бұрын
you are incredibly talented with cameras
@lifeinthegrey
@lifeinthegrey 7 жыл бұрын
I moved back to Australia after London didn't work out, and I haven't been the low in a long while; feelings of not being good enough, and failure completely wore me down. I learnt from it though, and now I'm in a place that I wouldn't have even fathomed - I've enrolled to film school, got myself a part time job, uploading videos regularly on my channel, and in the new year I'm hoping to launch my blog. You're definitely good enough, and I can't wait to see the product of all your hard work over these past few months. You're one of the realest and most genuine KZbinrs around. ✨
@MissBrianaFerguson
@MissBrianaFerguson 7 жыл бұрын
I can completely relate to this! I'm not back in Australia yet but I am currently still in London. I saved up some money to take two months off to 'dream job search' and it was very tiresome. Many job applications, interviews, rejections. This week I FINALLY got a yes... but to an internship that only pays travel expenses. Which for me is redundant because I can walk there. And it's also very discouraging because I can't except it as I've ran out of money. I literally have no money left. And I'm back to hospitality/retail job searching. I really felt soooo horrible with it all. Thinking; if I can't make it in London I'm certainly not going to be able to back home. And then I realised two things. Firstly, I have nine months left before I have to go home. So I'll take a shitty job, and use those earnings to travel through Europe. I'll get to take home incredible stories I can incorporate into my films and other work later down the line. And secondly, I was actually doing very well for freelancing for small businesses back home before coming to London. Make I could at least make a small business out of that when I return. And why can't I find small businesses here in London to offer help to now? I can offer a photoshoot for their Instagram for instance, and make a bit of money on the side. And, KZbin for me too! I guess there is always going to be someone who can do it 'better' than you, but no one can really do it in the WAY that you do. You're right. You are good enough. Sometimes all it takes is to find the way in which to channel your skills. Good luck with your channel, I've given you a sub! :)
@MissBrianaFerguson
@MissBrianaFerguson 7 жыл бұрын
Amazing support!
@Jade-5713
@Jade-5713 7 жыл бұрын
lifeinthegrey Good on you, I think everything happens for a reason and like you said you have grown from this experience and you might not have been where you are today if it didn't happen 🙂
@oliviarafferty
@oliviarafferty 7 жыл бұрын
i identify with this so much! a few years ago i moved from the UK to Canada -- my biggest dream ever. i spent a year there trying to find work and make friends, and although it was an amazing experience, it was so so so lonely and i was so unhappy sometimes. i then stayed in the UK and studied music, went to therapy, got my shit together basically haha. doesn't mean I'll never go back to Canada! you did an awesome job of taking a step out of your comfort zone, and London will definitely have taught you many things. best of luck✨
@lifeinthegrey
@lifeinthegrey 7 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for all of the support on my comment. I'm honestly so overwhelmed with love right now. 💛
@tatianagarnett4316
@tatianagarnett4316 7 жыл бұрын
Lovely video Will. Everything you reflected upon and said is extremely relatable, so thank you for talking about it so openly!
@holliemai5810
@holliemai5810 7 жыл бұрын
You are good enough, to do anything and everything you want to do! Push away the side of your mind that says otherwise! You are beautiful, you are talented and you are damn capable of lots and lots of great things, that someday, could impact lots of people and maybe even change the world. Im not just talking to Will, im talking to everyone reading this comment right now. I love you
@stellating2816
@stellating2816 7 жыл бұрын
thank you 💛
@giuly8jojo
@giuly8jojo 7 жыл бұрын
thank you💕
@EnnyOwl
@EnnyOwl 7 жыл бұрын
This is so relatable 😅 Sometimes I don't think I'm good enough, but it's mostly because I compare myself to others.
@lunarae5766
@lunarae5766 7 жыл бұрын
Life's been pretty difficult lately. But, watching this and seeing that I'm not alone in my negative thoughts definitely helped. Thank you 🖤
@ellievictoria446
@ellievictoria446 7 жыл бұрын
missing you I hope it gets better for you soon :) stay strong xx
@SparklyFairytale
@SparklyFairytale 7 жыл бұрын
I can relate... this has been a rough year for me and when negative thoughts creep in, everything just seems like the end. I hope soon you'll feel better. All the best to you :)
@lindaholy2405
@lindaholy2405 7 жыл бұрын
*send virtual hugs*
@cecmarz
@cecmarz 7 жыл бұрын
It’s almost scary how closely this aligns with my life right now, and somehow, this is exactly what I needed to hear. Thank you, Will.
@emilybarbaritaphotography
@emilybarbaritaphotography 7 жыл бұрын
WILL! I'm a photographer and this video seriously means so much to me. I've been really struggling lately with the same sort of things: a lack of self confidence, social anxiety, feeling like I'll never be as good as the creatives I look up to. It's always a nice feeling knowing you're not the only one who struggles with these things. This video eased my anxieties and reminded me that we are all in this together. Thanks for your honesty, it's one of the many reasons I enjoy watching your channel.
@lillyashby902
@lillyashby902 7 жыл бұрын
This made me tear up because the feelings of uncertainty and self doubt can be very heavy, and something I am currently experiencing. I'm in my 2nd year of uni and I feel like I have no direction in my life. It is a journey to self discovery and a very long one at that. Congratulations on the film Will! You're absolutely wonderful and one of my favorites ❤️ I've missed you so much! Lovely as always xx
@JazlynMelindo
@JazlynMelindo 7 жыл бұрын
I think self doubt and uncertainty is truly part of the growing process in whatever you're doing. Whenever I'm in a position like this and questioning my abilities, I end up falling back on the idea that the word 'enough' can be destructive if used "incorrectly" I guess. It's so important to take each experience in your life, whether it's a time of sadness that doesn't seem to fade, worry, or even happiness, that it's all a part of your own personal process. If you're trying your best and continuously learning new things, and believing that you can do anything, everything will fall into place.
@naisargibuch2168
@naisargibuch2168 7 жыл бұрын
First of all, you are
@caryntonh1037
@caryntonh1037 7 жыл бұрын
"In order to achieve your dream you have to be really good." I've found that the only way to become really good is to just make the stuff as often as possible. The only way to become better is to keep at it. Keep filming and documenting all of the time. It may be crap, but that means you've learned from it, and that alone means you're becoming better. (You're ridiculously talented so nothing you make could be crap and I think the almost 700,000 other people subscribed would agree. We KNOW you're good enough) I think youtube is also a great platform to put up those small films that are just you testing the waters and trying to become better. Excited to see the short and what you post in the future!!
@mehtapriyanka98
@mehtapriyanka98 7 жыл бұрын
It's funny how in such a huge world we are all going through the same process of self-doubt and procrastination. It is almost like some kind of a mental health disorder that we aren't aware of but we keep feeling the claustrophobic claws of depression settling in every now and then. It has been happening to me a lot lately than ever before now that I have shifted to Cardiff, Wales. I am here for my post-graduation and staying alone for the first time in my life. As much as the whole experience has largely added to strengthening me as a person, the balance on some days tips to the vulnerable side and I start questioning myself to the degree of wondering about the worth of my existence. It's not like I don't have people around me and it isn't like some pity party that I am throwing for myself, it's just that anxiety gets to me in ways that I never thought it would. And I try to get out of it on most occasions by going out for walks and hanging out with friends around positive people. But it still lingers in the shadows of my room and it comes out at nights, haunting and hounding. Maybe I am just over-exemplifying but the reason I am writing this down here is because I know no one here knows me and that we are all going through (I think?) the same thing and I just needed to vent it out without being considered crazy. I just wanted to tell you that you aren't alone which you know by now already. And I also wanted to tell you that your work inspires me. For some reason there is a meditative spirit in your art that calms me and I don't know if it matters but you make a difference to my life. And not only am I grateful to you for that but I am also in awe of the strength it takes to come out and share with the world the insecurities plaguing us especially when not knowing who is going to use it in which way!! #Metoo
@adg6352
@adg6352 7 жыл бұрын
If you’re not enough, no one is. You’re honestly one of the most creative people I know- your content is beautiful and thought provoking and nothing close to anything I could EVER make even in my dreams. Your work is amazing and so are you.
@zeynepa606
@zeynepa606 7 жыл бұрын
I moved away from home to study...going to be a teacher..someday. Missing home, my family and friends. strange feeling to be alone, it scares me in some way. I am old enough but it is really challenging. for all of you who thinks living in your own flat is cool...nah not really. Maybe it is because I am used too a full house, who knows...soo Happy that you're back. You are such an inspiring person and I am happy to have you're videos 'back'...Lots of love the girl who moved away
@JacksonLanaa
@JacksonLanaa 7 жыл бұрын
I REALLY WANT TO SEE THIS SHORT FILM!! Cannot wait
@wallflowercafe7633
@wallflowercafe7633 7 жыл бұрын
For the past few months, I’ve been struggling to write poems and short stories. At some point I thought it was because I was lacking ideas, but to be honest, I think I’m afraid. Afraid that my writing isn’t good enough and no one will like it. I can’t write one line or sentence without doubting myself and it’s been really hard. Though, I’m trying everyday to get back into writing because it makes me happy. I don’t want to let go something that makes me happy because of my insecurities. I’ve missed your videos. I’m glad you’re making things you thought you could have not done, but here you are. A short film and I bet it’s wonderful. You have been my inspiration for a long time now, thank you for all that you have done. ❤️
@lilJess0831
@lilJess0831 7 жыл бұрын
No matter the distance between your videos, they are always worth the wait. Your channel is truly the most refreshing one that I know of. YOU'RE DOING GREAT, SWEATY, KEEP IT UP.
@trisha23seth11
@trisha23seth11 7 жыл бұрын
It’s certainly easy to get discouraged when you are doing something new and out of your comfort zone. But from the content I’ve seen that you’ve created, I’ve really enjoyed it all. You have real talent. I can’t wait to see the short! ♥️
@chloep1256
@chloep1256 7 жыл бұрын
Wow, this is exactly how I’ve been feeling lately with my poetry. So glad you’re back though and can’t wait to see your short film. You have always been one of my favorite KZbinrs, your videos are already lovely, Will. You’re good enough.
@TheRainydayvideo
@TheRainydayvideo 7 жыл бұрын
I love your openess, there is so much ego in the film industry so I'm happy to hear some honesty. I always doubt myself in my projects but I've just been battling through it.
@nikkitab9690
@nikkitab9690 7 жыл бұрын
Self doubt, is definitely something I can connect to as an aspiring illustrator. When I'm in lectures I always think their work is better despite how many people tell me that we've just got different styles. However, I'm really glad that you're back with the videos again, I always love how well made your videos are and how the topics are always so meaningful! You are such a talented man - you are capable of so many things!! You are more than enough!!
@BobbieG55
@BobbieG55 7 жыл бұрын
Your statement on that "you are your worst enemy" I really sympathies with. It only takes one second for your self to convince YOU that, reaching any goal is impossible and that you don't have what it takes. Argue with your self for your self, for the person that you know you are.
@ellencrowd8058
@ellencrowd8058 7 жыл бұрын
Im so thankful that you are here. No matter for how long you don't upload seeing you back is the best feeling. Its been 3 years with you, can't believe it. Ive grown up so much, started uni... You basically were a person who helped me understand many things in life that people around me didn't even try to explain. Im so thankful to have you in my life. Just wanted to say this.
@widenalgene
@widenalgene 7 жыл бұрын
Hey Will. I just wanted to let you know how much your videos have shaped my life. I was in a really low place when i first found your channel, you were on 32 or 33 when I saw you the first time. I spent a whole night binging all of your videos and fell in love with your style and look. But most of all, you spoke to us on a real and practical level. Never boasting or acting like a famous person. You’ve inspired me to love myself and my life, and also to pursue filmmaking. Thank you so much for all that you do, and don’t worry about the long breaks. Frankly, most of us would wait years to hear whatever you have to say. Cheers, Will.
@joyjoychipsahoy5683
@joyjoychipsahoy5683 7 жыл бұрын
So proud of you hun. I’ve taken a break from KZbin for so long. The creators I grew up loving just started becoming repetitive and uninspired. You are one of the few for me that continue to create inspiring, uplifting, and real content. So thank you love! It’s been a pleasure watching your journey throughout the years.
@JemmyFourth
@JemmyFourth 7 жыл бұрын
No matter how long it is going to take you to post a new video, I think we can all ensure you that every time you will post something it will be good enough. Each one of your video is both creative and inspiring. I can see myself in what you're talking about, I can feel what you feel just by the way you shot the video and the way you speak about what you're going through. And I honestly think this is what makes you one of the greatest creators out there. Thank you so much for uploading Will. I really needed this today.
@eleanornoyce3847
@eleanornoyce3847 7 жыл бұрын
your videos are a huge comfort for me - when I'm feeling uninspired, I watch your content, and they inevitably help me feel inspired, motivated, and calm. you absolutely are good enough! we all have a flicker of self-doubt from time to time. I'm an aspiring journalist, so a similar sort of creative thing, so I understand where you're coming from with the doubt and questioning. you're doing great and I can't wait to see your short film :))
@carolineanderson372
@carolineanderson372 7 жыл бұрын
Love seeing someone online be so open and honest. I think a lot of people, including myself, can sympathize with these feelings when navigating toward a goal. Beautiful video as always :)
@amycoddy
@amycoddy 7 жыл бұрын
I love that you're so raw and okay to open up about feeling not good enough. I've been feeling the same in terms of where my life is going and am I good enough.. It's so refreshing to hear that so many people have doubts but also pick themselves up and keep doing what they love. Much love. And I'm hoping that your short gets submitted into all the festivals! xxx
@honeycombsco
@honeycombsco 7 жыл бұрын
We missed you! Confidence can only be gained through self discovery, but it always helps to get a boost from friends. As a somewhat friend I would say you’re pretty dang talented and you keep me motivated to continue to be creative even when I’m doubtful. Desperately awaiting the short film I’m sure it’s marvelous!
@andre61195
@andre61195 7 жыл бұрын
I´m feeling exactly the same! I´m studying audivisual production and I have had to make a short film too, in order to get my degree and when you said that the short film ended up been more challenging and difficult and how can you deal with a 90 minute film if something so simple ended up like that, it was like hearing exactly what I have been thinking about myself all this time, all this four years of my career. People think that make content, films, short films and be creative is so simple but it is not. The thing is we are GOOD ENOUGH, even though this gets difficult and we think we couldnt make something big, little things are more appreciated and unique. LOVE YOU, and you are really talented, never give up.
@ashclouds2139
@ashclouds2139 7 жыл бұрын
I resonate with this quite a lot. With everyone around me getting offers from university while I’m still unsure if I should bother sending my application because I’m so afraid that I’ll never be good enough to study what I want to study. It’s just half of me telling myself I’m not good enough, while the other half is saying maybe you’re not good enough, so having no belief that I can do it is really demotivating. Your conclusion about forcing yourself to do it is a good thing has given me something to think about, so thank you. Maybe something good will come out of me forcing myself to do the things I want to do despite the crippling self-doubt. Great video :)
@laurabiscaro8135
@laurabiscaro8135 7 жыл бұрын
In the beggining of this year I made the ever so bold decision of quitting my horrible job and starting my own business. For the past 8 months I've been struggling with anxiety, depression and that same damn question: "Am I good enough for this?" Between all the crying, and breakdowns, and self doubts, I made the choice of looking at the bright side for once, and I've realized that this question will always be around, popping into my head every once in a while, and I can't help that, nobody can. But it's our choice to either let it consume us, or to allow ourselves to walk through it. We can see that you're good enough, Will, allow yourself to see that too.
@DeeDee97
@DeeDee97 7 жыл бұрын
Your videos, no matter what topic, always make me feel so calm and provoke so many thoughts. I never feel disconnected from your content even when you haven't uploaded in ages. I dont know what it is exactly but you make me feel welcomed like an old friend you haven't seen in a while. Also I am so excited for the short, can't wait to see what you've been working on!! It looks amazing just from those short bts clips.
@mariet647
@mariet647 7 жыл бұрын
I am so happy to have you Will! I can always count on you to express in words what I am feeling and what I fear I am alone in.
@Emily-fu5ko
@Emily-fu5ko 7 жыл бұрын
Loved this. I'm 17 and have just finished school. Suddenly I have to figure out what I want to do with my life. It's so hard not knowing- not knowing the future, not knowing myself, not knowing my potential. But I guess those forever unanswered questions are what makes life interesting. I have plenty of goals too, and I think the hardest thing about them are those moments you realise you're so much further away from reaching them than you thought. It's crushing. Yet those moments make it all the more satisfying when you finally do succeed. Good on ya Will, I know you can go far as a director, can't wait to see your short film!
@Andrewjosty
@Andrewjosty 7 жыл бұрын
Honestly my favourite KZbinr, very relatable in some ways. I'm currently in uni however I feel as if I'm missing something creative out of my life, along with other things going on in my mind. We got this man.
@ZenoKaufmann
@ZenoKaufmann 7 жыл бұрын
Great Video! Already hyped to see the shortfilm :)
@olaya1530
@olaya1530 7 жыл бұрын
I'm really glad you are back, and i missed your videos tbh, i'm doing great, and i hope everyone who reads this has an amazing day tomorrow! (:
@ellievictoria446
@ellievictoria446 7 жыл бұрын
purekjd I hope you have an amazing day too :)
@mariiakotsiubenko1631
@mariiakotsiubenko1631 7 жыл бұрын
Dear Will, I've missed your videos sooo much. Your words and voice, your style, your mind, the way you see and imagine things, the way you show them, the way you feel and how you express your feelings... this is so true. this is so beautiful....and...it's just you. so, thank you.
@EstherPaulinaGotera
@EstherPaulinaGotera 7 жыл бұрын
this couldn't have come to me at a better moment. it gets a bit hard to feel understood when depression and anxiety derived thoughts invade your mind. but now i feel so so sooo relieved. what you said here really resinated within me. i guess what i want to say is thanks for pushing my hopelessness away. i thought i was too down in my spiral. thanks for sharing your life and mind. it really makes a difference.
@pippawride1123
@pippawride1123 7 жыл бұрын
This is beautiful I love how you are so open about your struggles, makes everyone feel less alone.
@nikaarre
@nikaarre 7 жыл бұрын
This is the most supportive comments section I have EVER seen! For you, Will but also the advice and replies people are getting on their own comment about their personal situation is so great to see. You are definitely good enough Will, just need to believe and you will notice the small things are good enough! So much Love... AMAZING!
@ana2386
@ana2386 7 жыл бұрын
I think you should not only give yourself *some* credit for things you accomplished like finishing the film, be proud of yourself! Self-doubt is such a difficult thing and it can hold you back a lot of times, but you managed to finish and create an entire shortfilm which is amazing and you deserve all the credit for that!
@sofiasoriano487
@sofiasoriano487 7 жыл бұрын
No one starts out “good enough” you have to get there through trying again and again. Everyone has the potential to be good enough, what gets you there is having you keep going even when you feel like your work is crap and you won’t ever make it. You learn with everything you do and get closer to being good enough. I just started film school and I’ve jus started to really see that.
@alb9129
@alb9129 7 жыл бұрын
I can totally relate to not feeling good enough, I’m studying to be a vet nurse and although it’s something I really want to do I’m just worried that I’ll never be good enough to be one or that I’m terrible at it. Well done for putting yourself out there and keeping moving forwards! Growing self esteem and confidence in all aspects of life is difficult and currently something I’m struggling to work on right now. Thanks for sharing this video personally it’s really cheered me up and I hope all these other lovely comments from people make you smile too! Can’t wait to see your short :)
@annaw4628
@annaw4628 7 жыл бұрын
I relate to this in so many ways. I spent the majority of my life thinking I wasn’t good enough to do the things that I was really passionate about. I have realized within the past couple of months how wrong I was about myself and that I am capable of so much. We truly are our own worst enemies, but it’s up to us to overcome that fear of not be good enough. I’m so excited to see that you are doing well, and I cannot wait to see your film!
@benpadilla9479
@benpadilla9479 7 жыл бұрын
Hey Will, no matter what doubts are in your head, just know that you're inspiring people who watch your videos, and no matter what, just do what makes you happy. I can say that your content truly does inspire and even though I'm one person, I hope that gives you some courage to continue
@gonia3113
@gonia3113 7 жыл бұрын
Your autheticity is so heartwarming and inspiring... I feel very similar to you in many ways and your example makes me believe than human delicacy has its power and place in the world. Thanks, Will.
@LVlogTV
@LVlogTV 7 жыл бұрын
You’ve accomplished so much, never feel like you’re not good enough! As horrible as it might seem: it’s slightly comforting to know that people in a position such as yourself: creators with a heavy following, still face feelings of deep uncertainty. It normalises and validates my feelings of stagnation and the feeling of not being fulfilled at the speed of progressing how I might want to in my dream of being in radio. So, I guess in short: I’ve missed your uploads but I’m glad you’ve been doing something that drives your passion, I’m sorry your feelings of not being good enough makes me feel slightly better about myself, and I hope you’re well! Can’t wait to see the short. It’ll be great.
@ellieinprogress4180
@ellieinprogress4180 7 жыл бұрын
Thank the lord for people like you Will. I admire you so much for putting every inch of your creative soul out into the world. It’s a hard thing to do and I admire you so much. It’s a beautiful thing to make the lonely feel less alone and you have done it with every video you put out that shows parts of your mind that people normally wouldn’t share. This is beautiful. Thank you Will.
@therosediariespierce1212
@therosediariespierce1212 7 жыл бұрын
So glad that you are creating and doing what you love Will! You're an inspiration man, truly.
@andreabarra5288
@andreabarra5288 7 жыл бұрын
A clean, cinematic, thoughtful and motivational video, what else... I love and hate the battle between taking time to reflect and being productive
@155Elizabeth
@155Elizabeth 7 жыл бұрын
Thank you for making this video. This is something most, if not all artists go through, and it is refreshing to hear a fellow artist talk about this. Doubt is part of the process of creation and more often than not, a sign of growth. I'm looking forward to your short film!
@humbuggled
@humbuggled 7 жыл бұрын
I think there's an inevitability to questioning yourself, especially in filmmaking when it's such a collaborative process and, as director, you feel like it all comes back to you. "Good enough" is such an abstract concept in that sense, because if you are a perfectionist it's never going to be finished and it might not even be decent in your mind. But in film, everything is harder than it looks, dialogue scenes especially. It's a bit of a jump to think that because something is more difficult than you thought that the next great thing might be impossible. As you say, you've just got to keep working.
@kenairose7139
@kenairose7139 7 жыл бұрын
its okay to take breaks from social media, we understand you were working on one of your dreams. I'm so proud of how far you've come! I look forward to more of your content, & I can't wait to see that short film of yours in film festivals!
@ronanballantyne6221
@ronanballantyne6221 7 жыл бұрын
Missed you and glad you are back. Your presence with your videos makes me feel less alone in life and I'm not in the best place so it's very much appreciated. You are good enough. You always have been and always will be. Can't wait to see the short film.
@jadeonyt4739
@jadeonyt4739 7 жыл бұрын
So glad to see you back Will! Really made me reconsider my life currently, couldn't have uploaded at a better time
@THEBELIEBER100
@THEBELIEBER100 7 жыл бұрын
This upload could not have been better timed. I've been going through a similar situation at Uni where I had done my first year in an architecture course last year, but never felt like i was good enough. I felt that I wasn't going to be as successful as my peers because everyone's journey seemed so much more serene than mine ever was. My one regret though, was deciding to back out. I transferred courses this year, even though I did pass my first year architecture course. I backed out because i was terrified of what was yet to come. Similar situation to yours, I thought that I would never be able to explore my creativity more in this career path because i found my first year so difficult. I wasn't sure if i was physically going to be able to put out what I wanted to put out to the world in a way that I was pleased with. I just wish that I had allowed myself to properly dive in to this creative course instead of giving myself such a hard time. I guess that's the easiest way to deal with things, running away. If anything, at least I learned that it's okay to be different. Not fitting in is what's going to make you stand out, and that's what's meant to be your motivation in order to succeed.
@carlsontristansantiago6307
@carlsontristansantiago6307 7 жыл бұрын
what a great video... self doubt and feeling like you arent good enough is such a constant thought and block in my head. your videos are always so inspiring. Thank you, Will!
@MelanieG-h2n
@MelanieG-h2n 7 жыл бұрын
This video is amazing. I love how you start off explaining the process of working on your short film, along with bringing up the lack of confidence, and the uncertainty of being able to work on even bigger things. Truly an inspiring video. Keep up the amazing work. :)
@charlottemougenot5016
@charlottemougenot5016 7 жыл бұрын
I'm so glad to hear from you again !! You have no idea how helping you have been when I started to understand that I was an introvert and that it was okay. You are good enough to make everything you want, because you helped so many people already, including me. Keep going !!
@yourstruly5738
@yourstruly5738 7 жыл бұрын
I'm so happy to have Will back. Also if it's a question of how I'm doing I threw up at a party for the first time yesterday; it was a fantastic night.
@abbyambrose9403
@abbyambrose9403 7 жыл бұрын
I'm in my first semester of college, and it's a lot harder than I thought it would be. I'm constantly doubting myself about whether or not I can actually go through with it and make it all the way to graduation. I'm finally getting counseling for my anxiety and I think it's helping. Knowing other people are struggling too makes it easier. Thanks for sharing something so personal.
@stephanieemma1202
@stephanieemma1202 7 жыл бұрын
This video really came at the perfect time. I think anyone, but especially those pursuing a creative field, end up in this place of self doubt a number of times. Like you, I'm so often my worst enemy and beat myself up over whether I could ever reach what I've always wanted. The reality is though, failure and doubt are necessary stages toward success, and I am sure you'll feel very fulfilled one day. Keep creating and trying and pushing yourself and you'll get there. I look forward to seeing the short film!
@MadilynSchroeder
@MadilynSchroeder 7 жыл бұрын
WILL!!! oh how we've all missed you. for everyone reading this you ARE good enough.. and you can do what you want to do in your life. don't compare yourself to others, we're all running our own races. It is common to doubt yourself and it can be difficult, but 'this too shall pass'. I am rooting for you! I am so excited to see the short film Will :-)
@sorivelvalenzuela155
@sorivelvalenzuela155 7 жыл бұрын
It was so weird watching this video, not bad weird. It's like seeing a friend that you haven't seen in a really long time and your mind is adjusting to them again. Missed you and I'm happy you finally got to shoot your short. I'll be so happy if it gets into a festival. Sending you love x
@melissasmith8941
@melissasmith8941 7 жыл бұрын
This was so raw and real. I really appreciate you putting this out there for people of all ages to see. I think confidence is more of a fake it until you make it type of thing, and training your brain to think positively about yourself when you look in the mirror or see a picture of you. Congrats on the short film and I hope your future is rich with more opportunities
@marywestwood75
@marywestwood75 7 жыл бұрын
I think every film you make is magical through music and editing.
@NaomiDisaster
@NaomiDisaster 6 жыл бұрын
Ugh I just want to hug you , your so authentic and being you will be enough ♥️
@TheFilzak
@TheFilzak 7 жыл бұрын
its not really anything You said in particular, just seeing your videos and aesthetics is so inspirational, right after those 6 minutes I plugged my drive with all my materials and just starting to edit them, thank You so much for the inspiration!
@likethisrighthere143
@likethisrighthere143 7 жыл бұрын
this video was phenomenal. it's okay to not feel good enough. it's what makes you a functioning human (as apposed to a sociopath). i'm very happy you shared this because it accurately puts what i feel to words. your videos tend to find a way to voice emotions that are seemingly impossible to voice. i have been following your channel since 1. an introduction and i can honestly say i am so very proud to see you grow as a person and your channel blossom into what it is today. thank you for giving me a voice. thank you for swimming upstream with your content. thank you. (also being good enough is just a social construct)
@ferncapone
@ferncapone 7 жыл бұрын
Will, how I've missed you! your videos always bring me such a calm and lovely feeling. Please know that it is okay to step back from things every once and awhile, and that you are MORE than good enough at what you do. I am so excited to see your short film! I can already tell it's going to be moving and beautiful. Hope you have a lovely week. xx
@lilyrose141
@lilyrose141 7 жыл бұрын
what you in say in the beginning is something i can totally relate to. i always ask myself "if this easy/simple thing already so difficult for me to do, how am i supposed to manage with harder stuff?" and it's absolute torture because i do/did it with Everything: revising for exams, getting healthier (eating, exercise, sleep), doing stuff on my own (shopping, finding hobbies, making friends, etc.) since i'm living abroad for my gap year, and also the creative things i typically enjoy doing and i want to improve at. it doesn't help either that i can be very perfectionistic so it all leads to me doing a lot of procrastination because it makes me think: "i haven't managed to do the simple/easy version of this thing with the sucess that i was aiming for, so i won't be able to do it on a bigger scale." so, i end up not doing anything after all because i doubt myself and my capabilities so incredibly much. i definitely agree that we are our own greatest enemy. so many times the only thing thats stopping us from succeeding is ourselves.
@hannahelizabeth7879
@hannahelizabeth7879 7 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for making this Will!!! I really needed this gentle encouragement and reminder right now. As someone who feels like I found my dream too old and that now I have too much catch-up to do in too little time, as well as not enough luck where it feels there is an element of chance, this reminded me to keep going and it doesn't really matter as long as I am enjoying the journey...and also that no mater what those voices in my head tell me, I AM GOOD ENOUGH💗
@amaliesoderberg4961
@amaliesoderberg4961 7 жыл бұрын
Thank you for being so honest about how you are feeling. It's really refreshing to hear someone opening up about struggles lots of us go through. I wish only the best for you. (:
@peachpit4531
@peachpit4531 6 жыл бұрын
I love wills videos they give me a good feeling inside its all very nostalgic it reminds me of when I was younger it makes me cry and it makes me inspired.
@filmsbyhermione1015
@filmsbyhermione1015 7 жыл бұрын
i’m so proud of you for making this short film and i’m so excited to see it !!
@lydzleow3232
@lydzleow3232 7 жыл бұрын
End of 2016- mid of 2017, was the greatest time of my career. I was at my highest high, adrenaline and confidence, doing all the things that I love. Then came the present, back to college, final year, hate wasting time on school projects that will never gonna be published in any way and work(i work in a architecture firm as a designer) took up the rest of my time that I could’ve spend on my real passion - photography, art directing, fashion, film. This entire semester has been draining my positivity, I miss meeting creative individuals and getting out and about, doing collaborations. I miss roadtrips. I miss doing ME. The lack of being able to do the things that I truly love, starting to make me forget how good I was or can be. I’m starting to feel like a fraud. I guess we’ve all been there, again and again. We work for recognitions, we work to make people happy and ourselves of course. When we lose that for a sec, instantly comes self-doubt. Now we seek for self-assurance. But Hey, at least we’re all going thru the same thing together :)) Will, please keep making videos! They really help many many people like us get thru their down times! Easily! Make us your strength. Lydz :)
@Holsjols
@Holsjols 7 жыл бұрын
This is the first of your videos I've ever seen, but I just wanted to thank you for making it. I've recently returned from travelling around Australia for 10 months by myself, and felt a similar way that you did when you made your film. For me Australia was a dream, like your film was yours, and even though I achieved it and it was amazing, it was so much more challenging than I expected. I felt overwhelmed, lost, but I have no doubt that I've grown, I just tend to focus on this feeling that I didn't magically undergo some transformation where achieving my dreams meant boom I believe in myself and that was hard. Despite doing everything I wanted to do, and having some incredibile experiences, there were still moments after going through some big challenges where I thought 'whoa am I really cut out for this? If I'm finding it this difficult.' But I got through it and I did it all, and I guess I lost sight of it. For all the challenges I rose to every one. Just like you did, try not to lose sight of that. I think it's easy to dwell on where we didn't meet our own expectations, rather than enjoy the ability to celebrate yourself for arriving at the end. You did the thing. You did it. Coming home I've realised we're all pretty similiar, we all have dreams, doubts, insecurities but it's how we let those affect the path we make. It's up to us to believe in ourselves, and to stop the doubts and the voice that says you're not good enough. You are good enough, you wouldn't have done it otherwise. Thank you.
@dipalipatel4097
@dipalipatel4097 7 жыл бұрын
I think that your self confidence will increase as you keep making your films and videos, once you see what you can accomplish, even though you may have found it difficult, you can feel proud and be able to do it again. You just need to keep making things that you want! Excited to see your short film x
@cateyoung5705
@cateyoung5705 7 жыл бұрын
Will, Every time you upload a new video I get so excited because each video makes me think differently than the one before. Your mind is absolutely brilliant, and all of the content you produce, whether it’s this modern love to crash on my couch is amazing. You’ve been such an inspiration to me and a role model for mental health. Cheers to the future xx
@ellieshooter8475
@ellieshooter8475 7 жыл бұрын
Awh will I love you , you actually make me so humble . For me right now , I'm finding school and life in general so difficult, I really do just wanna give up and lay in bed. You give strength to people like me who just needs to hear that someone can get through darker days and hopefully do the same themselves. You're videos inspire me to be a happier person and to push through harder times. I love you and your work , keep going ;) Xx
@jhmmp
@jhmmp 7 жыл бұрын
I have ever thought I am not good enough. I usually compare my work to others. It make me depress. But when I thought like that. I will think in the past when I was teen that I was full of motivation and happy to make art. Then now I see myself. I can't stop now. I push myself and do my best. STOP comparing to others and continue to do the art.
@alisoncornett1248
@alisoncornett1248 7 жыл бұрын
Every time you post a video, it makes me feel so calm and like i have my life together and i have no idea how you can have that effect on me but you do.
@sofialopes781
@sofialopes781 7 жыл бұрын
Amazing how no matter how long it's been I will always click on your videos as excited as possible. You inspired me to seek other projects in life so keep up the great work.
@dyananer4031
@dyananer4031 7 жыл бұрын
We missed you! Thanks for sharing something so personal, Will. This is exactly something I needed to hear.
@ayre613
@ayre613 7 жыл бұрын
I love that your videos are always filmed and edited in such a cinematic way. It’s really inspiring and I like your style.
@CrazyRedxxAly
@CrazyRedxxAly 7 жыл бұрын
you are good enough will!! i want you to continue to do what you do with no self doubt because we believe in you and are all rooting for you and im excited to see all of ur future production! we'll always support you no matter what.
@adventurewithandrew9368
@adventurewithandrew9368 7 жыл бұрын
Hey Will. I'm doing great, thanks. I recently have too been through this same field of thought. I have constantly travelled for the last 3 years, taking photos and enjoying life and I returned home about 6 or 7 months ago, just as things started to take off with my photography. I felt that because the UK wasn't as scenic as the places I had travelled to, I stopped picking up my camera. It took me a few months to drag myself out of the never-ending pit I was falling into, but I picked up my camera and started taking photos that were outside of my comfort zone. It was the best thing I could have done. I have sorted a visa for Canada, and I leave in around 4 months which I'm super stoked about, but I'll always remember not to let myself fall again. Keep being the best you can be, you're good enough at anything if you put your mind to it. Drew.
@mirrdina4992
@mirrdina4992 7 жыл бұрын
hey Will :) thanks for sharing what you feel.. thats how i feel sometimes too (actually most times). it's a crippling self-doubt that prevents me from moving forward in what i want to do. for me, it's the fear of being judged, and being perceived as different. thank u for not making me feel alone in my inner thoughts. ur awesome, u need to give yourself credit for that. 81 videos! that is just unbelievable. you've come a really far way, and that's something to be acknowledged
@laurenbayless9541
@laurenbayless9541 7 жыл бұрын
nice to see you back will! I continue to struggle with self doubt as well and it amazing when you can find yourself moving in the positive direction. hope youre well. xx
@missajdg
@missajdg 7 жыл бұрын
Thanks for being so open Will. Please put in mind that you are special and worth more than enough. We love you and we are proud of you. 😚
@yebbagel
@yebbagel 7 жыл бұрын
So proud of you, Will! Very, very excited to see this film. Can't wait to see what the future holds for you because I see big things. ✨ Your video resonated with me a lot in terms of feeling self -doubt, and watching this made me feel a bit better, knowing I can get through my situation right now. Hope you've been doing well!
@TheWildNative
@TheWildNative 7 жыл бұрын
Firstly well done for completing your film. That feeling of doubt afterwards was probably because you did something out of your comfort zone and that is scary and makes you feel vulnerable, but it also stretches you to become better or just challenges you. So again well done because that is very hard.
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