Willow Smith Reveals She's Polyamorous on Red Table Talk

Willow Smith revealed she’s polyamorous on Wednesday’s episode of ‘Red Table Talk’ on Facebook Watch. Jada Pinkett Smith and Adrienne Banfield-Norris listened as their daughter and granddaughter opened up about her decision to practice ethical non-monogamy. Willow praised how polyamory gives her ‘the freedom to be able to create a relationship style’ that works for her.
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[@williamkeane255]

The grandmother is like wtf is going on in this family

[@nakia422]

Facts the grandmother reaction was like hell naw this ain’t it😂

[@williamkeane255]

@@nakia422 this family is doing the fresh Prince dirty

[@nakia422]

@@williamkeane255 the daughter’s reality of relationship is dependent on how she witnessed her parents romantic relationships with each other and than with other ppl while married.

[@ebonysharee]

Lololol

[@djdeeaxis]

Crazy part is this all prob been this way... An lil jaden been this way to.. They just had to be of age to come out

[@ZeriJ]

Of course jada “totally gets it” 💀 her favourite month is august.

[@ashlyynnxo]

Lmaooo

[@bryonstevenson4205]

Goat Comment lol

[@sillywatch558]

🥶

[@jazzy5410]

PLEASE- 😭😭😭😭😭

[@Dmvgold1995]

💀💀💀

[@mjj4344]

Mom's expressions are as if her daughter has achieved something great in her life. She looks so proud whereas her own mother's expressions are, where the hell I went wrong with my daughter.

[@natalien.9528]

Actually monogamy is one of humanity's greatest achievements and developments. It is not backwards, polygamy is backwards. it's bad for men and women, but especially for children.

[@davidmays8974]

No it ain't.

[@itsyaboi3254]

That’s right . Everything’s ass backwards . The enemy takes those things that are sacred and pure and perverts it

[@EricaShady10171972]

Grandma don't play. "Can you imagine being in a room and loving everyone equally and even platonic?" *No*

[@Aaron-kj8dv]

What was hilarious was as soon as she asked that question in my head I went "nope" and granny said it just as fast. She didn't even need to think about it.

[@filafuentes3194]

Shit you can't love no one equally i feel its always competition i'm good off that haha im like granny HELL NO mine is MINE

[@EricaShady10171972]

@@filafuentes3194 Agree

[@frankiejones7858]

Ong wtf she think I was finna say yes?

[@tonyromano6220]

What tripe.

[@marisortiz273]

Jada’s parenting style is exactly as she described: Anything goes.

[@shamyalow6585]

Willow is an adult tho. Jada can’t really tell her how she should engage in romantic relationships.

[@igooner2756]

Fax

[@user-yq7ud5vt2j]

🤣🤣🤣

[@kandyblack485]

She isn't the only parent with that view either.

[@coolkidd151]

the look on her face as Willows talking looks like oh wow look what I’ve done

[@jkim7982]

“I think anything goes, as long as the intentions are clear” Jada must be insane to say this to her daughter. Yeah, her intentions were clear when she had an affair with her son’s friend and humiliated her husband by taking about it on TV. Her intentions crystal clear, everything’s good. Unbelievable!

[@tabitha4135]

It’s weird!

[@kikigam7113]

She didn't humiliate anyone will himself has said they have a unconventional qnd open marriage

[@abianapatton-toure8545]

“ The road to hell is paved with good intentions”

[@RearviewWisdom]

It's actually interesting to see how Willow's tone changes even becoming louder to make her point to her grand mother who is a woman of way more wisdom than she carries. Rather than ask her grandmother why she can't see herself loving multiple people at once she give a closed shut response implying that her grandmother is too ignorant and out of touch to understand. It's the typical attitude of this upcoming generation. They truly believe the wisdom of our elders is irrelevant and they are superior in thinking. I get why older folks gave us millennials so much push back. It's for the same reasons.

[@meek2312]

Not irrelevant at all but we want explanations, not just "this is what my mother did so I'm doing it". That doesn't suffice for us and we ask questions because the "why" is important. Some of these elders can't explain the why, become defensive, or simply shut down when asked to discuss. They did things that they thought were right and moved on. No accountability, no reflection, no differing perspectives. Sounds like a caged perspective. They can keep it. We're all gonna die, and I'll be damned if I spend my life living for other people that are on the verge of death. My great-grandfather walked miles to attend college... Why? Because of the racial, social climate in this country at the time. See how "why" is always important?

[@miochan6414]

@@meek2312 don't worry you will get your wish and won't live that much longer anyways. Even when your elders gave you the why it still wasn't good enough.

[@RearviewWisdom]

@@meek2312 I hear you! There's definitely both sides of the coin. The rejecting of wisdom from us younger folks, and the elders rejecting our line of questioning. My grandparents grew up in a foreign country completely isolated from American culture. When I moved to the US I would mock their ignorance in the things they used to warn me against. All these years later I realized they were right. They probably never encountered the things I did here, they had no "why's" for their reasoning but they were right. The elders were in tuned with God, the land and themselves and I believe this is why their wisdom was so rich and relevant across generations.

[@meek2312]

@@miochan6414 lol God bless you & thank you

[@meek2312]

@@RearviewWisdom I agree wholeheartedly. Two sides to a coin. I remember things my great grandmother would say to me as a child. They didn't make sense then but sure do now, and oh how I miss her wisdom & talks. There was a transparency... Shame or guilt or whatever never stood in her way of teaching a person so that the lesson was understood. Sometimes I just knew these words I didn't understand were important. Some of these "elders" now are just old, no wisdom or take away from life's experiences... Just old. Age doesn't equate to wisdom so, yea, I'm cautious of who I listen to..

[@maddfinn11]

💀 the grandma like... “yep way too much freedom and privilege”

[@lovedove2661]

Exactly, Willow likes hearing herself talk.

[@SHIZZLE71]

@@lovedove2661 who doesn’t

[@lovedove2661]

@@SHIZZLE71 Who doesn't? lol... Im not ALL about myself so I do like to share my opinion but not constantly talking over everyone where Im the only one with something to say. When you have to get loud while others try and be apart of the conversation as well, it shows a great deal of narcisstic traits, that individual thinks ONLY their opinion matters.

[@SHIZZLE71]

@@lovedove2661 damn. U must be a psychologist.

[@lovedove2661]

@@SHIZZLE71 Doesn't take a genius to know these things nor am I a physcologist lol.

[@kixkawaii705]

She has her dads eyes exactly. It’s crazy how much you see will in willow

[@phantomrose1999]

Yes, my first thoughts, A mini me of her old Man.

[@DC...]

Think her boyfriend see that when they see her?

[@h3llboyyy407]

And ears

[@h3llboyyy407]

@@DC... LMFAOOOO

[@phantomrose1999]

@@DC... boyfriend’s

[@TS-ee7jx]

My heart breaks for this kid. She has been raised in an environment where there has been low levels of morally.

[@commonsense3921]

Willow just gets it and you don’t.

[@TS-ee7jx]

@@commonsense3921 yea, common sense usually comes from teenagers. you are a wise one.

[@Nikki_Iguess]

More like no morality

[@onlyhuman4911]

​@@commonsense3921She's in favor of polyamory due to the fact that she does not have an example of a happy marriage from her parents

[@doh2322]

true

[@LunaSky381]

I was in a polygamous relationship and it was the most traumatizing relationship I have ever experienced. I felt often neglected and abandoned as this man had commitment issues. When I felt already neglected it hurt super bad when he spend the weekends with other women. Polyamory was his way of getting his emotional needs met without committing to a women. He was hurting the other women too when he was neglecting them.

[@Akultic]

No clear communication and boundaries were set, so that wasn’t even a real relationship 😭

[@naivetejournal]

Yea sounds like this guy though poly made it okay to be an ashole

[@TheRowlandstone73]

Polyamory was his way of getting his dick-wetting needs met without committing to anyone.

[@vernita0216]

Whew!

[@pyonzon]

I EXPERIENCED THE SAME omg!! sis 🤝

[@gessikas5839]

I’m sure her parent's relationship plays a huge role on her view of monogamy. Polyamory is her way to protect her from experiencing the same trauma.

[@jesuslover5968]

I agree

[@ArtSeeFriend]

💯

[@trenton5809]

I'm in school for psychology, and I hope you don't ever say this comment out loud because it's wrong on so many levels. I mentioned me being in school for psychology because I feel like I have to imform you that this comment doesn't make since on a psychological standpoint. She will avoid relationships rather than go into a polyamorous relationship. Her polyamory has nothing to do with trauma.

[@jesuslover5968]

@@trenton5809 lol 🤣🤣🤣

[@xanaxcitty5860]

Bruh being polyamorous is a choice..just coz you don't indentify with something doesn't mean you have to denounce it

[@MaybeDay4]

Imagine if I said this in front of my parents. I wouldn’t be alive 😂

[@xander_k_]

I would be castrated.

[@mizzphitzbeta]

I would rather suicide then admit this to them 😭

[@nyebazashivan3064]

Mannn

[@ieatgremlins]

Sorry your parents are so closed minded.

[@jsavage4382]

U CAN SAY THAT AGAIN🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@lunathemoon64]

These people are so confidently open about their personal lives, it’s absolutely insane.

[@matejharbinger9938]

The sad thing is no one cares, we just watch to feel superior.

[@joshmiller1264]

Because they don't fear other people

[@it1333]

They are wealthy they have nothing to lose. Poor people cannot speak this way. Willow is the employer she will never be an employee

[@MissPerpul]

​@@it1333 Speak for yourself 😂 Or not.

[@joem2130]

I don't like how Willow talks like Jada, like she's smarter than everyone and whoever she's talking to is a child and she's "educating" them. It's patronizing and hard to be around.

[@stst77]

I agree

[@user-ik7wy1gw1g]

They think they know it all !😏

[@Mibs-Mibby]

Willow: Could you imagine being in a group and loving everyone equally Grandma: No 💀

[@AnonYmous-ez4es]

Ofcourse she has the least sex. Look at her.

[@typrintustheempathingphara6858]

They took me out 😭

[@lifesabeachnyc8568]

Yea and Gammy was a HARD no lmao ☠️☠️

[@Dr.LongMonkey]

How the f can anyone love a group of people equally? Like even when you have kids you love one more than the others

[@brittroobies274]

@@Dr.LongMonkey Not necessarily. You may like one more than the others but you can love someone equally. It's like having 2 pets. Would you say you really only love one of your dogs more than the other when they're both important to you? Also, by that logic people wouldn't be able to have several relationships in one lifetime. I.e. they'd be like eagles who mate for life.

[@Marielm5]

I feel so bad for the grandma, my goodness she’s probably tired of what goes on in that family 💀

[@ayesha5313]

😂😂

[@user-ie4pi2eo6x]

Will Smith needs a hug

[@elijahcambry3319]

Why I feel bad for some older person who just doesn’t understand? That’s on her for not moving forward.

[@vg7735]

She probably has her own secrets

[@ScorpioBeauty]

She looks tied

[@taliaejdera1240]

I’m only 25 years old, but I relate to Gran and feel what she’s feeling… looking at her granddaughter spew these ideas from her mind and mouth. Willow is still young and still trying to find her place in the world, her true identity and personality. As confident, free-spirited and fun-loving as Willow and Jaden seem, I do think they are both a bit lost. Other adolescents and young adults can influence them greatly as well, which I remember from high school is hard to break away from to truly find who you are as a person. Not who you are as a collective group. The only conflicting problem is that if it truly brings Willow happiness and fulfillment, so be it. Now as an adult she can make any choices if it serves her well. I just know polyamory cannot work for me; I don’t believe you can really connect deeply on all levels with more than one person- to let all your guards down, to truly have someone get all parts of you, to be fully in love. The more people you give yourself to, the less of yourself you become. It’s soul-splitting more than anything. That’s what I think at least. I can’t speak for everyone.

[@To45ter]

Willow is the example of what happens when kids don't get to be kids and you have a snake women for a mother.

[@Xiusause]

True 😂

[@barbarahowse7218]

I see the pain in grandmothers face, it’s real.

[@thelilliad]

The only one innocent at the table is the poor kid. The two adult women are absolutely trash!

[@taliaejdera1240]

I’m only 25 years old, but I relate to Gran and feel what she’s feeling… looking at her granddaughter spew these ideas from her mind and mouth. Willow is still young and still trying to find her place in the world, her true identity and personality. As confident, free-spirited and fun-loving as Willow and Jaden seem, I do think they are both a bit lost. Other adolescents and young adults can influence them greatly as well, which I remember from high school is hard to break away from to truly find who you are as a person. Not who you are as a collective group. The only conflicting problem is that if it truly brings Willow happiness and fulfillment, so be it. Now as an adult she can make any choices if it serves her well. I just know polyamory cannot work for me; I don’t believe you can really connect deeply on all levels with more than one person- to let all your guards down, to truly have someone get all parts of you, to be fully in love. The more people you give yourself to, the less of yourself you become. It’s soul-splitting more than anything. That’s what I think at least. I can’t speak for everyone.

[@fanfanlocklear]

wdym i feel proud of her, she is polyamorous and got a lot of men

[@dannyt286]

Poor young girl. This is the result of her experience watching her parents relationship. She’s heading for a world of hurt.

[@plamoretti673]

She's exploring and finding herself. Nothing wrong with that.

[@lilymae7516]

More like she will hurt others without hesitation.

[@TigerAlert]

Her personality is closer to Jada than Will

[@badraitbenbouchaib2196]

@@plamoretti673 So fucking multiple male partners at the same time and not even being able to tell who the fucking father is in case of pregnancy is now considered like some sort of spiritual journey to find who you are? Un-fucking-believable.

[@jesusistheonlywaytoheavenj7880]

@Danny soo true

[@jarrodwilder3095]

Mom is so proud of what shes done to her daughters outlook on marriage.

[@Chialiaa]

When Jada said "I totally get it", of course you do Jada, of course.

[@NoName-ei5ui]

Her daughter is living the moms dream. She wishes she wasn’t stuck with will

[@alethiamillner5603]

It's not Jada's dream it's her reality veiled by the title of being married.

[@buboy19]

@@alethiamillner5603damn girl you said it right

[@mairicochrane83]

😂 so true

[@mimah1015]

She can live vicariously through her lol.

[@fanfanlocklear]

her mom is already POLYAMOROUS

[@la_real_selena]

The fact that people like to make marriage or monogamy seem "bad" is annoying because even polygamous relationships fail. People's real fear is being cheated on or fearing commitment. Society wants to "normalize " things to push agendas and I'm SICK OF IT 🙄

[@vg7735]

Why shouldn't it be normalised? Willow didn't say that everyone has to be polyamorous.

[@dreamyanon5151]

@@vg7735 we can normalize respecting others decisions, but we don't have to create a narrative around monogamy being negative to justify polygamy. Because it's not, it can actually be really healthy and has a lot of benefits!

[@larissahanson3404]

Word Fear is the real issue

[@mysa.relind977]

@@dreamyanon5151 I agree.

[@seabedpebbles]

💯💯💯

[@kakelinga]

Willow was maybe 20 at the time she did this episode. I mean what does a 20 or 21 year old really know about relationships and commitment? That's really the age of experimenting and trying things to see what it's about. At that age, one is still finding oneself and there is a lot of growing up left to do. She's really just a kid making such a profound statement and I don't really take what she's saying too seriously. I know her grandma didn't seem to be taking it to seriously either. But grandma wasn't just going to patronize her either.

[@aaliyahdiamond5227]

An excuse for being a promiscuous tramp

[@Dtella55]

Exacy until age 25...

[@DigitalWraith]

Like mother, like daughter.

[@zucchiniboy007]

Look I’m glad that she wants to be open-minded and do what she wants to do, but what her mom said is false. Most people do not practice monogamy quote “because they feel like they have no other choice.” Most people just want one secure partner and don’t want to deal with all the issues such as jealously that arise in these engagements. At least for me, I only want one person, and if that’s not good enough for them, they were never the right one. It seems people nowadays are always chasing the hottest new partner, until the honeymoon phase goes away and they are bored. Her mom can be supportive, but I don’t agree with the way she is vilifying monogamy just to show how woke and young she is.

[@iseerightthrucapandbullcra1134]

I agree,one person is enough and I really don’t get people who want to deal with the drama of multiple people,,and it’s not safe for your health

[@millennialaviation]

The Smiths have always came off as fake woke

[@brittroobies274]

@@iseerightthrucapandbullcra1134 Correction, it isn't for most people. Lol, at least, until you ask a toxic man why it's okay for men to cheat or have a large body count but not women.

[@paulasimon6875]

👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏 It appears as if everyone is just finding a way to justify what they do.

[@iseerightthrucapandbullcra1134]

@@brittroobies274 it’s not okay for men or women,, it’s nasty in my opinion

[@molynn673]

Gammy looked a little annoyed by Willow when she expressed herself of wanting multiple partners at the same time. That look gammy gave😳. Lol

[@zairefranklin665]

Right

[@lokeyborders]

Will and jada marriage had to be a mess behind closed doors for her to feel the way she do about relationships. Willow seems lost to be. And she's not thinking about all those spirits on her at the same time. These ppl are crazy. That fake sh@t is the worst. That's why jada miserable. She been unhappy for years but they are a brand I guess.

[@Dmvgold1995]

@@lokeyborders guarantee you Jada wouldn’t even be doing all this mess if they dude she truly wanted was alive and hers: Tupac. That man been dead for decades now and Will still can’t compete 💀😭

[@luisafernanda9453]

@@Dmvgold1995 I didn't know they were together

[@starquality5774]

@@lokeyborders yep

[@fykaprints1331]

Whats funny *to me anyway* is that these hosts thought that they’re talking about deep stuff. It’s not deep at all, it’s actually really shallow to just tell whatever one wants without weighing the remifications on others. The comment section tho.. lots of deep thoughts.

[@coolkid8272]

Man, will smith must be haunted. Having his daughter, wife and mother inlaw having these conversations. Let alone being in public.

[@nimatullahking3595]

She’s doing what she sees her parents do. She saw that her whole life. Yes she’s probably going to be comfortable with it.

[@17thNO]

That's what I was thinking.

[@SpaceMel00]

I predict that one day she's going to be completely in love with someone who is going to not be as sure about her.

[@mimisvet8671]

Exactly - shes trying to rationalize and normalize what her parents had - she wants to belive her parents love eachother just also love otger people that they brought around. Willow thdy just are not thag ingo eachother but dont dare to divorce.

[@jesuslover5968]

That’s exactly what this is

[@elijahcambry3319]

I don’t think it’s necessarily because of what she saw happen with her parents I think it makes sense in general. Monogamy is an overplayed an outdated idea rooted in white Christianity. Fuck the patriarchy. Fuck what were “supposed to do”

[@reydreem5705]

Grandma was saying to herself my lord take the wheel and the car🤣

[@PAPERWEIGHTPRODUCTIONS]

Facts !

[@dionerhodes1308]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣!!!

[@zee8166]

She sounds her age saying this. sounds like shes been reading those "monogamy isn't natural" threads going around reddit and twitter, once she gets older with more experience I'm sure her view point will change. I don't think shes ever been in LOVE love before

[@williamsutherland9669]

her mother has really been a great role model. Disgusting. If you are polyamorous you are not truly in love with your partner and also have commitment /attachment issues

[@MrSotero123]

I’ve actually tried polyamory with 2 girls once after high school. Eventually both of them wanted more attention and affection than the other and it failed miserably. It sounds like an open minded idea, but it’s a recipe for disaster.

[@LAtttiful]

it is. Its good in theory. But humans cant live in an jealous-free vacuum. I would say most successful poly relationships, one woman is repressing herself/opinions/complaints just to keep the peace or they have to do some sort of pseudo monogamous thing where they have a main relationship they cater to.

[@frm2686]

Because there’s this magic thing we all humans have in our core called ✨jealousy✨ And people get into relationships because it makes them feel special. What’s the point if you’re the same to that person as a whole other group of people?

[@NiceToMoleYou]

Double bj! *high five*

[@FirstLast-kp9jx]

Relationships in general are recipes for disaster, but if all parties are willing to work on it then it works.

[@MrSotero123]

@@FirstLast-kp9jx Only way it works is if 3 or more people without a true ego find each other. Which is highly unlikely. Especially with these last 2 generations.

[@dwmmshouseofharmony4966]

I thank Gammy for not giving into popularity or today's worlds confusion, but standing for what she feels is right regardless

[@tomatopotato4229]

What if the world is not as confused as you are?

[@duffman102]

@@tomatopotato4229 BINGO!

[@EskiLdn]

How do you know its what she feels and not what shes been taught. As far as im concerned any woman championing not being with one man is a confused woman. A woman who isnt thinking about having children and is only concerned about sex. In which case she should move to Amsterdam and stand at a window.

[@nfa_copium2479]

Yo what the fuck is a gammy

[@ithamarlowe2629]

@@EskiLdn she saw her parents failed marriage and decided to choose a different path.

[@isaacbrown2556]

People have tried this in the past. It’s failed and marriage still works despite the divorce rate

[@zwingfield]

Willow never looks happy and is always trying to sound so grown up and intellectual and she's neither. The greatest things her Mother taught her were how to be selfish and irresponsible. And I pity her "no boundaries, no rules, no responsibilities" future. These folks are too woke for me.

[@pepijykyum]

Yeah that's the description "TOO" Woke

[@mickeyb4441]

The Grandmothers reactions are PRICELESS!!!

[@crml1978]

Well I heard this quote lately "Nobody goes to hell because they are stupid, they go to hell because they think they are too smart” and wow this is a great example of this

[@mayflower1716]

wow exactly

[@gabriellegibson34]

Great quote, but I have to ask are you insinuating they’re going to hell? Correct me if I’m wrong btw, just a question.

[@lexheart5877]

Is this on 10 commadment on the fairy tail book?

[@crml1978]

Well ….hell is also the hell u create for yourself duh so… this is my comment not looking to argue with no one.. you have an opinion i have mine ..weather you are a believer or not take it which ever way you want … just don’t come at me for my opinion! #gosomewhereelsewiththat

[@persephonel2117]

@@gabriellegibson34 It’s a metaphor. Hell can exist in life and you don’t have to be religious to experience it. You can create your own hell right here.

[@Pixiequeen18]

Watching this is the actual first time I wanna sit down & watch 1 of their talks..

[@magkdesilva]

That family sounds effed up in soo many levels. 20 year old talking like she knows all About sex and relationships and nek min she saying " i've had least sex out of all my friends " 😂 🤦🏽‍♂️

[@sarahcahoot5444]

This is why people shouldn’t take advice from celebrity. Marriage is not for everyone. Marriage doesn’t work if two people don’t work at it or communicate their needs. You have to give up selfish behavior and work as a team in a marriage.

[@IEVAKambarovaite]

I really like the way Jordan Peterson speaks about marriage. I think it makes a lot of sense.

[@promisedove]

Agreed! I completely disagreed with her when she said that cheating was the main cause of divorce. I think cheating is just a symptom of a larger problem that hasn't been communicated or worked out.

[@tammiepage6489]

I’m not married and I don’t know I’m 36 and I do have a serious boyfriend. I’ve been with for nine years and I do wanna be with him for rest of my Marriage is just a piece of paper to me my mom and dad were never legally married and they were together for the rest of our lives so that whole commitment thing works when you’re in a serious relationship to not just missing marriage because you want to be in a committed relationship

[@EE-ie9gm]

Marraige is pretty much dead at this point.

[@sandrallewellyn2632]

the critique is not necessarily on the supposed self-lessness in monogamous marriage, but rather that it is the ONLY way to engage in healthy romantic or platonic partnership. Though I am monogamous, I've researched polyamory a bit myself and the level of work, self awareness and self-lessness it takes to engage in ETHICAL non-monogamy is tremendous and is sadly missing from many average "monogamous" partnerships which in my opinion can be a bit or even majorly possessive and oppressive and prescriptive.

[@orishaphotos481]

Willow is obviously jaded by jada and wills relationship. Her perception of monogamy was shattered by will and jadas scandal. Thats just the hard truth. Jada and her mom know this but they couldn't bare to admit it. But the eyes and body language speak for themselves.

[@my2cents361]

✅✅

[@leilanizow5035]

no i think she just likes being in relationships where she can date multiple

[@daniinicole2725]

YOU SAID IT ALL!!! Telling the truth. Body language and Facial expressions were a Dead give away.

[@kawaiipanda4013]

@@leilanizow5035 thank you

[@leonaandreea9335]

I agree, but we don't know if it is due to the scandal or whether or not jadą and will are actually as they say 'swingers'

[@eviegurl7351]

Willow seriously thinks she’s saying some mind blowing deep stuff.. Jada is bat shit cray cray and Gammy is probably thinking to herself “Where the eff did I go wrong?” I’m over here trying to follow their logic with an open mind, but… I CAN’T!!!

[@avfb6474]

I tried it with my two partners but did not workout. In the end they ended up arm wrestling.

[@user-hi7ii5oi4y]

Willow: Could you imagine being in a group and loving everyone equally? Grandma: No. Willow: WOW…then I don’t know what to say. Grandma: Yeah that’s what I thought.

[@eyeinthetriangle8274]

Like what even was her reasoning for asking that? Where was she going with that?

[@ritakapia7140]

Haha 😂👍🏽

[@andreaspringer15]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@meropedurwood5514]

@@eyeinthetriangle8274 Because it's like that with polyamory. You love all your partners equally. Maybe differently, but not any less. That's why Willow compared polyamory to a group of friends. If the Grandma had agreed, Willow would have continued and added the romance ingredient.

[@eyeinthetriangle8274]

@@meropedurwood5514 polyamory is bs and peolle who talk about it, dont actually practice it. You're probably single so stfu

[@emilychen3839]

“If you don’t want to have sex all the time and your partner does, are you going to tell them they can’t look forward it elsewhere?” Uh that’s a pretty flimsy reason to discredit monogamy. That’s called a compatibility issue. Not a question of monogamy. Polyamorous relationships aren’t necessarily what she’s talking about either. From my understanding, they’re separate relationships or sometimes combined. Not just sleeping with whoever, whenever.

[@tomatopotato4229]

They can be whatever you want or need them to be. Polyamory does not describe a relationship model. Just the fact that you're able to be in love with multiple people. So if you want to sleep with multiple people, why not do that as long as everyone knows what they're getting into and you're being safe with it?

[@EskiLdn]

And what happens when in comes to children? Women in general shouldn't be encouraged to sleep around. This is a downfall on society.

[@FaceWhatIs]

@@EskiLdn : "what happens when it comes to children?. Women in general shouldn't be encouraged to sleep around. This is a downfall on society". If you aren't sure "who is the father of who" when a woman "doesn't hide" her polyandry then how are you sure if a woman who "claims" to be monoandrous is really monoandrous?!. If individuals can get into an agreement to be monoamorous and trust each other then why cannot individuals get into an agreement that they would be polyamorous but only for the period they are to have a child they would restrict "sex to only one" and trust each other ?!.

[@tomatopotato4229]

@@EskiLdn Why should women in particular not be encouraged to sleep around and how would that lead to the downfall of society?

[@EskiLdn]

@@FaceWhatIs are you asking why cant you trust a woman to have Your child while shes sleeping with 5 other men?

[@mswateverr]

She didn’t do research .. her mother fed all this to her

[@Semleger]

Jada: I totally get it Meaning: been there still doing that kiddo

[@catherinetong4472]

Polyamorous is tricky because if one person needs multiple partners, those partners will also have needs too...it ends up never ending. Im with grammy on this.

[@addictedtowonwoo4ever]

Then that’s not polyamorous, just plainly open relationship. Because being in a poly relationship still needs to have a commitment.

[@starquality5774]

If you want to do all that, just don't be in a relationship.

[@Dree03]

@@addictedtowonwoo4ever so you think a group of people stick to rules in a relationship?

[@bonita2311]

Like a pyramid scheme

[@Dree03]

@@bonita2311 wym?

[@SwapyBond]

Marrying Jada was Will's worst decision in life, now even his kids have turned out like anti social elements.

[@jmcc8718]

Go read the scriptures "this is the saying confirmed, like mother like daughter" a narcicist jezebel mother usually breeds a narcicist daughter, an ahab father usually breeds a ahab son, to break this mold and learn gods ways are important...

[@SDASermons]

They are straight destroying their daughter

[@theresaoppong7100]

This is a shame .

[@janhavi1253]

@@jmcc8718 what's ahab?

[@inzoria7727]

His kids still have time to turn their life around. But he is cursed because he allowed his cheating wife to convince his only beautiful daughter that basically it's okay to be a hohoho. She's damaged and looking for nurturing through many men because her dad's "love" isn't enough to prove to her she's beautiful and priceless.

[@IkechiUkazu]

She is only 21. I am thankful I wasn't out here speaking my truth at that age

[@BC-ry2lx]

What episode is this?

[@christianliteratus]

This is what exactly she learned from her parents.

[@addajjalsonofallah6217]

I mean sure if mommy got guys on side so will daughter

[@zakiahart3919]

Yep!

[@anachito]

Amen to that!!!!! That’s exactly what I thought

[@beverlywootten1937]

And school

[@ferryfabulous7250]

Sick family Disgusting!

[@SoulfulMsSavannah]

Willow is mirroring her parents beliefs about marriage and monogamous relationships. No surprise here. Anything goes with this family. I believe that everyone is following Jada's lead.

[@kikigam7113]

@@skyegroome223 that's not true they decided to have a open relationship together they opened the relationship bc will was cheating they both been with other ppl

[@AlphaSAS]

Hit the nail on the head. Could not agree more!

[@dennis1662]

Her mother is one sick individual and willow is only mirroring her mother's sick beliefs. That's a fact

[@Cherrygirll1]

Be so fr. Willow didn’t just see her mom being unfaithful and decide she should do the same. Willow is an adult, she can make her own choices. If she is polyamorous, she has been exploring this concept for a while, and decided this is something she likes. And why do even care??

[@kenny4328]

@@kikigam7113 don't twist the narratives she cheated....we need to held women accountable sometimes....she literally said she wasn't happy with her relationship with will and she wanted more

[@user-qb2lv8uo4x]

'To destroy a nation without war, introduce nudity and adultery to the young generation.' - Salahuddin Ayubbi

[@jojox9791]

Jada ruined them ALL. She emasculated Will beyond repair? And as a mother of 3, 1 daughter, I could never sit down with ANY of them (especially my daughter) and discuss her sec life, never mind multiple partners! I've taught them better than that. Maybe because w live in the REAL WORLD !!

[@madamepaulettes5337]

"Anything goes as long as the intentions are clear"-But actions have consequences. She is a very selfish woman who is harming her daughter with her philosophy.

[@tararoast]

Agree

[@Dhuxul9]

She is terrible mother

[@beefortebrea9386]

"Why did you cheat on me?" "I intended to make you jealous because I was lonely." Clear intentions. Still morally reprehensible.

[@tararoast]

@@beefortebrea9386 💯🎯

[@CerealforProtein]

Lack of philosophy. From what they have expressed, it is all surface level though without any regard to secondary, let alone tertiary considerations. Perhaps they do not want to.

[@itzapatito7997]

Polyamory works until you actually fall in love with a single person. There comes a moment when you actually become so in love with someone that the thought of them with someone else hurts. It would be great if people were not naturally possessive and no one’s feelings got hurt. Polyamory works until it doesn’t. You do you though.

[@i_dont_like_my_username]

Well, I mean, you can still be poly even tho your dating one person. It's like being bi, just because a boy is bi and dating a girl doesn't mean he isn't bi. You don't have to still do a thing to be a thing.

[@maxricemusic656]

@@i_dont_like_my_username What???? You can't compare the two at all, being poly is a choice, being bi is not a choice.

[@samiraabdul1182]

So true ! It works until you fall in love

[@venusian4613]

Exactly

[@planetstarshine6867]

Is being poly a choice though? I fell inlove with two people..... Feelings for both. :/ If I could control that I would.. to stay "normal"

[@sarahk4830]

What in the world🤦‍♀️. My mom would chase me with a broomstick if I told her " Hey Ma, I'm sleeping with many people.. its called polymorous".

[@victoriamann6645]

The grandma is so gorgeous and looks so sweet. Willow needs to do more research though because she's stating the negative side of being monogamous but not polyamorous.

[@williamchildress3672]

She’s just a 20 year old with a good vocabulary. We called that “friends with benefits”

[@brittroobies274]

No. Friends with benefits don't have a responsibility to be open with you about anything. Poly is literally like having a regular relationship but instead of having it with one person, it's with 2 or more.

[@Lou-bj9tk]

No, cause it's not only about sex...

[@marmar6276]

@@Lou-bj9tk no it’s not. Unless the people in it decide it is

[@youngmicrowave127]

@@brittroobies274 nope there isn't a responsibility to be open, however you do feel more at ease telling your friends your deepest, darkest secrets. So in essence it is friends with benefits

[@brittroobies274]

@@youngmicrowave127 No. Friends with benefits literally don't have to be open with you. If they're fucking someone else or wanting to see someone else, they don't have to let you know because you are only friends. In poly relationships, from what I've been told, if a member doesnt communicate what's stated above it's considered cheating on your partners. Poly relations require that you are open and just like a monogamous relationship, you have to get "permission" from your partners to see someone else. It goes deeper than that but its better if you just read about yourself or at least talk with people different poly dynamics.

[@RLucasReviews]

Marriage takes discipline. Monogamy takes discipline. Fitness takes discipline. The acquisition of knowledge takes discipline. One thing most people don’t have….discipline but I assure you - all long term good walks behind discipline. Marriage and monogamy are not bad but they are not for the weak.

[@elijahcambry3319]

A good relationship needs openness and honesty not discipline. If you have to discipline yourself to make the relationship work then fuck that noise get out stay out.

[@dfddsfer4tv4g4b]

@@elijahcambry3319 Bruh in marriages you're gonna have arguments, temptations to cheat, infatuation will fade quick. Divorce rate is high because people don't have discipline to withstand all of that. Openness and honesty are important, but without discipline you're just gonna be impatient, fall for every temptation, say horrible things during fights and eventualy split

[@ingriddrumond9926]

👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

[@amrutha.pkumaramrutha7650]

This is a good comment cz I believe its discipline and commitment when it comes to marriages

[@SheilaTrueLove]

As far as I'm concerned, Marriage is FOR THE WEAK. Staying SINGLE is for the STRONG, SMART and INDEPENDENT woman who refuse to be DEFEATED by allowing some Dude to turn her from being a STALLON into a BROKEN DOWN DONKEY...aka a JACKASS. I see it everyday...women putting up with all kinds of abuse whether it's mental, emotional or even physical just so they can say they have somebody. It takes a very STRONG LADY to refuse to settle for anything or anyone just to say "I have a man". Married women of this 21st Century to me are women who are BROKEN and who have been DEFEATED.

[@mitchellconnop2000]

A lot of learning needs to go on here. 20 years from now looking back will be painful.

[@VincentTseng]

To be honest, with the shit going on in young people, with the cheating and stuff, polyamory might be a norm in the future

[@FaithFallRepentGraceRepeat]

This is disgusting. Jada is steering her family into a brick wall and Will sees nothing wrong with her driving. 🤦🏾‍♂️

[@Mally620]

He does but can’t do anything about it. My dad was in the same position once, it takes the disillusionment of the kids to shatter the glass.

[@usssanjacinto1]

Will never had a backbone. He was scared of his abusive father and he's scared of his abusive wife.

[@veronicao4643]

Will shouldn’t have married that woman. Huge mistake.

[@mitchjames9350]

He does but he is a spineless man.

[@Mally620]

@@mitchjames9350 can’t disagree any more, but I believe he was degraded into this position just as any man or woman can be in this kinda relationship

[@clarischoi]

So it's like dating multiple people without being called a 'cheater' hmm interesting

[@tiffanyarchibong3820]

No because your not cheating since it’s consensual. Most polyamorous people have a closed relationship with certain people so it’s just like a regular relationship, but with an added person/people.

[@charlesjohnson2475]

@@tiffanyarchibong3820 yes I was thinking the same thing as usually a set of three people or more and it's just those people. And if anyone's added then I would consider that to be an open relationship if they're just adding random people

[@chaelasparks1528]

Yeah because it’s not cheating lmao that’s the point.

[@FireJach]

and what if one person likes more another person and feels that person is much better? The party is over? How does it work with children? This is absolutely wrong, it reminds me some hard college parties for mindless and immature people. Marriage is a covenant. If you can't deal with it, don't get married.

[@chaelasparks1528]

@@FireJach not every poly couple gets married and has kids. Actually I’ve never heard of a poly couple with kids although I’m sure they exist. You don’t have to be in a poly relationship no ones asking you to, just mind your business bc what other people do is what is best for them, not you.

[@trollfeeder]

not knocking Williow because her parents clearly haven't been the best people to model after but if we are being honest this is a direct reflection of what she was raised around.

[@kingtryton]

Gammy is not with the get down, looking at Jada like “see what you started” 😂

[@brassattacks2411]

People who are slow but think that SPEAKING LOUDLY WITH ENUNCIATION makes them sound smart and confident.

[@MD-tt7zb]

Those who are ignorant miss moments of intelligence because they’re focussed on visual/auditory details instead of content, because they surmise there isn’t a need to consider them based of these surface value assumptions.

[@KennuhWayne]

@@MD-tt7zb BOOM!

[@SupaPoopaScoopa]

Your negative superficial need to devalue others comes from a need to gain self-value. There are more effective ways to fill that void of worthlessness.

[@a.i.8583]

It seems like there are sex cults in Hollywood and these ladies are poking their heads out in the surface to see if it's ok to emerge. "Fidelio"

[@a.i.8583]

It seems like there are sex cults in Hollywood and these ladies are poking their heads out in the surface to see if it's ok to emerge. "Fidelio"

[@sydneyloo5866]

my thing is this: as long as everyone involved is happy, giving consent, and of age, do what you want. i don't see why people are hating on her

[@memezoffuckery3207]

Because it cringe and not based lol.

[@blunts4cuntsxoxo]

@@memezoffuckery3207 it’s just a relationship?

[@17517319]

I always say “as long as it’s consensual, you’re not hurting kids, or animals, and everyone is over age. I don’t care what you do in your own bedroom”

[@blunts4cuntsxoxo]

@@TheSuburbansky1 what mess? 💀it’s just a relationship

[@blunts4cuntsxoxo]

@@TheSuburbansky1 my age has nothing to do with it lol, i’m so tired of millennials, and who said family units would all go to hell? it’s a just a relationship.

[@fax8324]

I just got a sick feeling. A feeling telling me the Kardashians are a normal family compared to this...

[@qbconnect2883]

As a man I'm just curious. When she's at the point where she wants children what kind of guy is gonna be okay with having children with a woman who doesn't want to commit? A woman who can pick up and go be with the next partner whenever the mood strikes, with your kid in tow. Oh I forgot, that's actually the norm today. It's just usually not discussed out front like this. SMH for society

[@jenniferbullett7254]

Nope, I couldn't be polyamorous. Sharing is not caring in my world. Kudos to Willow for expressing who she is and wants in life.

[@Linda-dc7rl]

She was deep in her heroin addiction whilst raising Jada, so this is the result

[@numerousb33s26]

@@Linda-dc7rl imagine blaming a drug for someone sexuality

[@nadiar.7788]

It's promiscuity, not "poly, roly, whatever". Let's be adults and call it what it is: hoeing around.

[@woahhottii]

@@nadiar.7788 it’s not though, specifically because you and your partner both understand your boundaries.

[@antoinettebarnett2635]

@@Linda-dc7rl Then jada only became a well spoken household name, and later linked with one of the biggest stars in hollywood. the fact she seems to respect her mom's opinion, even though she's 50ish says mama had a vice at one period in life as many do..she nevertheless obviously did something right. Keep in mind she and will began to hob nob with the very rich& famous dabbling in scientology and things of that nature with unconventional ideas..neither of them were raised that way.

[@applesidertea]

My old med school roommate said it best: “Willow and Jaden need to go to college. They do a lot of big bold talking, but they don’t really have a strong foundation to back up their ideas and beliefs.”

[@lisagipe3134]

Amen!

[@mannycalavera2335]

True. Even intelligent people lose perspective if they live in an echo chamber. An education is part of the way you gain such perspective.

[@kcolevlogs8782]

So true

[@higglybiggly1174]

Yup. Their mom is so wacky and didn't want to be a parent. Look at Wills son from his first marriage. He isn't saying all this nonsense. It's all from her.

[@lisagipe3134]

@@higglybiggly1174 I wouldn't doubt it if she were a narcissist.

[@MRauTObt]

2:52 Honestly, it feels like the younger generations are so obsessed with living their lives FOR society than living it FOR themselves. The whole family is a mess.

[@ukwnjae]

Jada has allowed this whole family to become a circus of clowns, at which point her kids will become the stars of one day. Really sad, what if they wanted to do something else?

[@itsjustfood1333]

How one woman can mislead her own daughter and family are all in need of mental health services

[@marcellanorfleet4438]

YUP!

[@fey__3919]

Try being in a polyamorous relationship as a 50 year old. Shits easy when you're young and hot, but looking for a partner for the long term... doubt it'll ever work out. Ever.

[@BB4real]

Why?

[@rs7458]

You nailed it. You also forget she’s rich and famous. Not the same in everyday life.

[@jadepinnock]

there are polyamorous relationships that do work out for life tho...not everyone is the same as you

[@kytten4506]

@@jadepinnock Those are normally from what I've seen, Main person who handles the relationship and everyone else just follows. Which sounds more like a harem...

[@goodvibes1525]

@@kytten4506 From what you have seen? Have you ever even been in a polyamory relationship? Why y'all need to piss on things y'all don't like?

[@marykay7878]

i really feel willow wants to protect her from the toxic mess she sees in her own home. will has the wrong approach, saying he will never get divorced. i am a devout catholic, but you can only keep your vows, not the ones of your spouse. at some times its ok to walk away.

[@robertgreen722]

Hi Mary! I hope you're safe out there?

[@jasoncalvert4209]

This family has issues. They need to learn to keep shit private

[@likewisewe]

🎯🎯🎯

[@kaycarter1099]

I love Gammy. She keeps it so real.

[@brassattacks2411]

she's the most authentic and knows what's up

[@lawrencebolt3540]

Polygamy has been around as long as monogamy so not sure where keeping it real came from, whether you're Christian Muslim or Jewish, your core father "Abraham" was polygamous.

[@nadiar.7788]

Really? Married how many times, now?

[@Ardante11]

I still don’t see the difference between Ho and Polyamorous other than one requiring more syllables to pronounce.* They’re trying to make ho’ing sophisticated with this terminology. Unfortunately reality is going to hit them hard the same way it did with the hippies when they tried this concept. * anyone can be a ho, male or female.

[@oopsallbecki]

@@lawrencebolt3540 please polygamy & polyamory are NOT the same & it's that confusion that's going to continue to cause problems, i see your intention but they're not the same thing so keep that in mind

[@higglybiggly1174]

Her and Jayden are so messed up because their mom raised them in her insanity. Wills oldest is a normal, functioning adult because she had no say in his upbringing.

[@sheldonhighsmith3333]

Yeeeeesssss it's the mothers fault

[@dionerhodes1308]

RIGHT!!! 💯💯💯💯

[@itskeke-wk8ng]

Lmao this true asf! She has 0 boundaries

[@The_Love_Doctor_Sean]

Yeah Well this is what Happens when these kids are raised by this endless broken mother which herself took advantage of their friends, this young man with drug addiction and sexual abuse from other in his past. She took advantage of the young man, no wonder her daughter thinks like this .. plus Jada was never good at anything like her kids and especially her Husband so this is her area of creating something of value. Disorder out of Order which Will Smith is all about .

[@kellyvasquez9807]

Yess Jada is a hot mess

[@riyajain2375]

Omgod this family is truly crazy. It's just too much.

[@yess.....]

I really believe Jada wants to be the known as the "cool" mom🙄🙄 What a joke!! She agrees with everything her children say even if it's not rational🤦🏻‍♀️

[@kandyblack485]

Gammy said "NO". Her facial expressions said it all 🤣.

[@marionchanson5479]

Willow is the product of her parents' twisted relationship.

[@chiki7111]

And Jayden supporting what his dad did … shows kids are totally screwed up …

[@mrcool76789]

@@chiki7111 good point, poor kids never had a chance

[@chiki7111]

@@mrcool76789 exactly the way wilow talk about life and polyamry and jayden being like this shows poor kids had to see their parents relationship being so fake and bad.. had a bad affect on them

[@mangaas]

When rich people who's never worked a real job day in their life, and are millionaires from birth, you have to invent ways to make yourself special. These clowns sound like a background skit that would play in a GTA game radio station.

[@aurozappa305]

The rotten apple doesn't fall far from the tree

[@starrazzure]

She's only 20 she's still growing and learning she may want something different next month or 5 years from now I never understood why people feel the need to disclose their personal life and business to others.

[@miaa1762]

It's a talk show where they share their experiences and stories. Don't watch it if you dont want to hear their business

[@starrazzure]

@@miaa1762This is why the employees have to pay attention to the animals. Who let you out the cage. Someone is getting a write up for not following the rules.

[@sofia-gg3ni]

yeah maybe you also need to learn that not everybody wants the same as you, trust me, it's not that difficult, give it a try

[@Dree03]

She’s 20 and likely already doing these things. 🙃 all I can think about are the possible std’s she can get

[@isaiahminott]

@@sofia-gg3ni but why would one join that relationship in the first place the reason her argument on why the two people relationship is based on monetary value and financial success is bullshit because what about the poor people who are at the bottom but still together with each other and happy what about them can they not exist do they not exist anymore they didn't get anything from being with each other they didn't get any financial gain but they're still together right so what does that even mean how are you there for financial reasons that the financial agreement is basically what a marriage is between two people and then what happens if it fails and they're still together also what happens when you're with another person and that person wants another person in their relationship and so you say sure go ahead fine and then that person just falls in love with that person and basically excludes you out how is your relationship working which is probably highly likely for that to be the reason why it happens because the only reason you do it is because you're trying to meet the needs of someone else how many people actually want that and then how many people would just say they want it so that they can help the other person feel better think about it

[@issavirgo4838]

Willows personality gives me twitter thread vibes. Atleast it leads to great music

[@snoozed288]

Bruh how does the amount of people she wants to be in a relationship with tie into her just wanting parenting

[@abrahamjesse3425]

I agree

[@kam-lw4ez]

She's the stereotypical "free spirit" usually caused by lots of hallucinogenics. Pretty sure someone brainwashed her into thinking it's okay to basically participate in a sex cult. Your partner wants lots of sex but you don't share those needs? Easy - it's not the right person for you. Wish she was able to know her worth

[@saleemiqbal9346]

Wow this was a analysis 😶

[@anitamany4840]

I agree

[@ashleywilliams4665]

Jada’s sitting there like, “why didn’t I think of that?”

[@bxbxb1_800]

The way she tries to speak like a president-- as if thats gonna make her sound smarter

[@treasureokoh4722]

Grandma is TIRED! I’m with grandma on this one. Marriage is between two people who want the same things for each other

[@weirdo1781]

In a lot of polyamarous relationships they don't even get married or have kids BUT there is nothing wrong if they do get married and have kids and it can work it dosent matter if marriage is a two ppl thing or not if they want one more person involved then so be it

[@eleasy1976]

amen

[@i_dont_like_my_username]

@@eleasy1976 nah, no amen. Being poly is perfectly fine.

[@eleasy1976]

@@i_dont_like_my_username if you want to have a very miserable life

[@i_dont_like_my_username]

@@eleasy1976 not If your happy with your own life, then no, not a miserable life. Just a honest, fulfilling life.

[@iramisviera2120]

Everything goes…in this family.....even slapping other humans, because they feel offended. LOL. Willow sounds just like her mother. She is just repeating what she has learned at home.

[@chriskeith5742]

Usually it's just one person in thr family that is narcissistic. This whole damn family is indulging in unadulterated wholesale narcissism. I saod before it wouldn't end well, and this slap is probably juat the tip of the iceberg.

[@nilsarivera261]

Right!

[@D9Wx]

Will is a good guy who got manipulated. I think the same for willow.

[@chriskeith5742]

@@D9Wx Feel srry for the daughter. Will is a grown ass man. I'm a grown ass man and ain't no way I'm letting someone run me over like that.

[@blackteapodcastbyAnnyEgalite]

@@D9Wx 🤣🤣🤣🤣 he is a weak man not a 'good guy' He is easily manipulated.

[@persephonel2117]

I tried polyamory for a minute in my 20’s because I fell for all of this modern feminist don’t need no man nonsense and believed I could engage in that kind of casual sexual behavior and it honestly traumatized me. I hated every second of it but I thought it made me cool and hip and liberated. In reality I was the opposite of free. Maybe it works for some women. But it doesn’t for most women, don’t feel pressured to take on one of these new sexual identities just because everyone else is. As women, our biology doesn’t work this way. We aren’t built to have relationships like this and it can be incredibly damaging for us.

[@khxliakhxlia3605]

Wdym it doesn't for most women🙄, you areny most women.

[@SuperDupersDelight]

Grandma be like: I can't believe this is my progeny...