How to react when ignored in France

We meet all kinds of restaurants in all countries. France is no exception. There are millions of good restaurants but there are thousands of rude people. We're paying for them. Here is an example of mine. This happened at the center of Burgundy, which produces most expensive wines and fabulous food.
#FranceTrip #FranceTravel #Burgundy

[@Luna-Jung]

와... 이 부부... 교양과 품격이 철철 넘쳐 흐른다... 와... 서버 한명뿐만 아니라 저 주변 테이블의 손님들까지 다 기분이 풀리도록 만드는 매직...

[@HYKim-o3n]

한국에 저런 종업원이 있었으면 진상할줌마, 아재, 맘충들 융단폭격으로 참교육되었을텐데😅

[@TAYO-JoaS2]

그니까요!! 저도 기분이 너무너무 좋아지네요😊

[@muchun77]

사소한 행동이나 매너 하나에서도 그 사람에게서 드러나는 기품이라는게 있죠 단시간에 만들어지지 않는, 그 사람이 살아온 인생과 안목을 모두 보여주는.. 영상에 부부 분들이 확실히 좀 내공이 깊으신듯

[@bigsmilee]

닮고싶네요 ㅎㅎ 여유와 유머, 소통능력이 정말 대단하세요 !

[@김성현-y1n]

한국어 놔두고 서버니 매직이니 테이블이니 이러니까 ㅈㄴ 없어보인다 ㅋㅋ

[@CalvinLim-o1k]

남이 부정적이게 굴어도 그 감정에 매몰되지않고 자기 감정 유지하는게 정말 멋있습니다. 저도 저런 사람이 되고싶네요

[@jinulee7299]

한국식당에서 같은 대우를 받아도 그 감정에 매몰되지 않고 자기감정을 유지하면서 식사를 하게될까요?

[@CalvinLim-o1k]

@@jinulee7299 한국이면 더 가능하지 않나요? 이모님들이나 할머니 할아버지 뻘 사장님이 무례하게 굴어도 “뭐.. 어르신이니까” 하고 대수롭지 않게 넘기는 경우 많잖아요. 오히려 외국에서 저렇게 하는게 더 힘들 것 같아요

[@adorable6343]

한국식 표현으로는 능글맞다 ㅎ

[@고냉이-v8w]

@@jinulee7299 한국에선 저렇게 늦게 주문하기도 전에 이미 손님이 여, 주문 좀 합시다! 하고 사태정리되겠죠. ㅎㅎ

[@mathadmission1742]

@@jinulee7299 ㅋㅋㅋ 일단 5분이상 안기다림...

[@ambroiseperret6460]

Little restaurant advice from a french : -If a restaurant is far from center town in a remote area the chances are very high this restaurant survived by cooking so well people travel a longer route for the food (and the price are often lower with higher quality) -and the other way around bad restaurant can survive in center town , just because a lot of tourist pass by it and its more convenient for people that dont have time .

[@Kaioken20]

But which one offers servers with a scintilla of understanding of what it means to be in customer services? :P

[@tttetra1507]

true and I also experienced this so many times in South Korea

[@ambroiseperret6460]

out of the hundreds of french restaurants I have been to in the country sides and the Capital , honestly you can never be sure . Most of the service is good and frendly , but it might be because we are used to it lol what I said aplies to custormer service . I cannot find a law on how to find good customer service out of the experience i had , my only advice for that is looking in your apps for ***** customer service .

[@ambroiseperret6460]

@@tttetra1507 yes this "law" probably works everywhere , but I can attest after eating in hundreds of french restaurant in Paris up to remoted part of the country side that it works quite well here. But you have to always look at the review, thats for sure.

[@RsgNoise]

​@@Kaioken20this is french customer service, don't like it don't come

[@jeongilyu8638]

아니 우연히 떠서 보게됐는데... 남편분 너무 멋진거 아님???? 진짜 감탄했다...

[@interestedlen8823]

Our hero got treated like a gentleman because he treated everyone else the same way, and brought them up to his level.

[@nickieca]

you mean he splashed the cash ordering expensive bottles of wine Zzzzz

[@RioGrandedoSuleiro]

@@nickiecacry more Karen 😂

[@Baller943-y5w]

@@RioGrandedoSuleiroThey hated him because he spoke the truth

[@michelangelo4701]

He doesnt have to treat anyone anyhow, he is the customer and deserves to be treated with respect and kindness. French people are very arrogant and entitled

[@nisselarson3227]

He also had a camera/phone setup with a tripod or something. It was very obvious he was filming the whole thing.

[@kin_1234]

이 영상을 계속 돌려보게 되는 이유: 1. 불편한 심기로 시청을 시작했는데 희한하게 저 주변에 있는 손님같이 점점 마음이 평안해짐. 2. 아내의 말을 처음부터 끝까지 다 경청하며 반응해주는 자상함을 넘어선 남편의 모습이 너무 보기좋음. 3. 나도 저렇게 현지인처럼 대화하며 여행하는 상상을 해보게 됨. 4. 현생을 열심히 살고 싶어지는 의욕을 일으킴.

[@김우유-y1f]

2번에서 너가 저런 사람이 되라 바라지 말고 ㅉㅉ

[@kin_1234]

@@김우유-y1f 안그래도 저런 아내가 되려구용~~ ^^감기조심하세요??

[@christomonte4361]

@@김우유-y1f 참 꼬였네. 많이 힘들어요?

[@bornin2002]

@@김우유-y1f 어제 바지가랑이에 실어온 노가다 흙량이 보인다 ㅋㅋㅋ 교양없는것

[@쭌-p9w]

천성적으로 베베꼬인 사람중 한 사람인듯 그렇게 살면 안 피곤한가요? 밖에 나와서 햇빛좀 쐬고 공원좀 걷고 그러세요

[@Wheresthybeef]

Pretty powerful stuff witnessed here. Their presence and attitude had a visible effect on the waitress as well as the other guest. Stay positive folks

[@TheClassicalSauce]

Honestly, that's life. If you can just stay positive with a good attitude, it makes everyone happier.

[@HorchataDreams]

Magical to witness. :) certainly inspired to come into work with a great attitude today 😊

[@isakdahlstrom]

Yeah sometimes you think that your positivity doesn't make an impact, this really confirms that if you're a positive person, keep going, we are making a difference

[@LeafBurrower]

He is charming, but he is also a pompous git in his own way. The coded wine snobbery (snobbery within snobbery), money being no object, the repulsive amount of food and alcohol consumed, the operatic laughs about the tablecloths the waitress is carrying at the end of the night.

[@denisl9946]

Yes, agree. However their very generous order I am sure helped on top. 370 EUR just on wine they spent I belive. They probably left atleast 600-700 EUR between them, and this for 2 people in a brasserie/bistro type place.

[@한검-x6e]

이 분이 레알 chill guy임

[@LightGreenDay]

짬에서.. 아니 품격에서 나오는 바이브

[@백송이-r3v]

칠한척 하는게 아닌 칠의 원조격

[@goat_2222]

와… 교양이란 이런 것이다의 교과서 수준. 저도 음식점에서 서빙하고 있지만 손님들의 ‘감사합니다.’ 이 한마디에도 힘이 나는데, 이렇게 웃으면서 주문을 하면 저절로 공손해지고 힘이나죠.

[@깐깐-m7i]

돈의 가짐에 따라 인격이 대부분은 달라져여! 서민들이 성격이 괴팍한것도 못살아서 그렇습니다! 그런걸좀 이해해주세여

[@iiiilliiii-b1z]

어디서 서빙하시나요? 아웃백?

[@도라지-c3c]

@qpwoei ㅋㅋㅋ그저 웃지요

[@반클러치-h2n]

@@깐깐-m7i 괴팍한 사장님들은 돈이 없어서 그럴까요? 개뿔 아무것도 없는데 생각도 없는건지 밝고 친절한 친구들은 진짜 왜그럴까요? 당신의 글은 생각도 깊지 않고 배려심도 없으며 공감도 못할 내용이네요. 교양을 좀 쌓으세요.

[@유한경-d5n]

@@깐깐-m7i 이건 뭔 소리냐ㅋㅋㅋ

[@MOODMENDR]

I love how your friend acknowledged your ability to uplift yourself and others around you despite the situation. That was beautiful.

[@flannelpillowcase6475]

it's pretty tragic tho how she mentioned if you're introverted, you'll have a very hard time. kudos to him for having that great extrovert charisma and her for coming out of her shell, but she brought up an excellent point that introverts don't deserve to be treated like trash simply because they're introverts and have trouble with social interactions. it's just as much a problem in the US as it is in Europe.

[@BIPOCperson]

That’s his wife man

[@Gororules]

@@BIPOCperson in that case, his BEST friend.

[@EurekaAK75]

@@flannelpillowcase6475 @flannelpillowcase6475 No not just in EU. Here in phillippines its the same if ur somewhat introverted or cant catch up with jokes(insulting jokes) with other people. School or work or even in the streets its the same. I am currently working as a utility on a manning company soon to embark on ship. I'm a quiet man but talk to me and we'll talk for hours if I enjoy the chatting, but man..I don't get it, When people get too comfortable with you they just disses you out of nowhere when there's a chance.

[@Massnewbicide]

I seriously started tearing up because it's so nice when you find these rare few out there that know it's much better to handle things gracefully as a default and reminds me of all the sweet people I've stumbled into in life. Reminds me of all my favorite regulars when I was in a restaurant for a few years, who were all similarly charming, considerate, and kind. Good morning 😂

[@DJVibeDubstep]

This man is insanely charismatic and has some of the most solid social awareness and communication skills I’ve seen in a long time. He demonstrates a master class in communication and frame control.

[@kareninalabama]

Very true, and so beautifully put!

[@Bert_de_Wit]

That's an excellent analysis!

[@figgettit]

could watch hours of this

[@cycloneranger5354]

What he doesn't show is how you should order in France.... These places are busy af and don't have time to talk with people and explain the entire menu. Also they're not tipped like in America so they don't have to act nice either.

[@thailakhampo]

@@cycloneranger5354what a bad excuse…

[@calt6034]

HOW IS THIS SO WATCHABLE?!?! Just a random suggestion on my feed, but this gentleman and his lady are great conversationalists, slipping into 3 different languages with ease. Love this style of video.

[@알밤-v7u]

and he can speak 8 languages😮

[@Tr3flip420]

The only reason the other guests aren’t getting more upset is because this dude is making them smile by just being friendly.

[@w花b]

​This is called "savoir-vivre" and there's no way you don't do it on purpose unless you lack an education, especially in the very codified restaurant industry. It's like not saying "Bonjour" or "Merci", throwing something at people is just as obvious.

[@TheOnlyKontrol]

@@isabelle1331your telling me nobody in France has eating out of necessity/ hasn’t been in a rush when eating?

[@toidIllorTAmI]

@@isabelle1331 imagine asking a waitress what kind of lamb is served and she scoffs and says "i dunno, LAMB?" does she not work here?

[@mirius4665]

​@@isabelle1331wrong

[@nathanhaber2343]

@@isabelle1331 in English countries it is considered rude to waste people's time

[@kagezen]

when he said that you speak french so well and then you replied "you too" that was hilarious! made me laugh so much!

[@cragnog]

I've been convinced on how powerful it is to have a language to speak privately in while in public.

[@Cabbage7Patch]

At the same time, you should also never assume someone doesn't understand you. Someone has done that around me before, and trust me, you will feel very embarrassed to be called out. As they did.

[@kaas352]

@@Cabbage7Patch in what language was that?

[@DevoxGaming]

​@@Cabbage7Patch when you speak 4 languages in Central Europe it happens alot actually, especially in a city. I don't tend to eavesdrop but if someone is badmouthing or just being a dick then I'm more than happy to just say have a good day in their language when i/they leave, not a fan of embarrassing people but people like that gotta get checked.

[@Cabbage7Patch]

@Kaas I'm half English half German and speak both fluently. When I was visiting family in the UK we crossed paths with German tourists who started bad mouthing everyone and everything around them including us. So I called them out in German.

[@maximisatwat]

French people use that too - to talk infront of people who are trying to be part of a conversation, so they can't follow what's being said and know they can't follow what's being said

[@Chubbymunchkin]

How rare to see someone and instantly feel at ease and welcome. You’re such a delightful couple! Thanks for letting us dine with you!

[@VideoLord451]

As a half French waiter in Paris, this video doesn’t surprise me and I’m ashamed of it. Growing up in the south of France with my Aussie mom the amount of times you have these experiences in small French towns is bewildering, you dealt with it super well. Enjoyed the video a lot

[@BagOfH0lding]

I was wondering. The worst service I've ever had in my life was in Arles. Beautiful city though.

[@LeafBurrower]

Ya catch more flies with honey. If a server behaved like this in the States they could get stiffed on their tip; sometimes they get stiffed anyway but it's extremely declassé to leave less than 15%. With good service in a pricey restaurant--if they're splashing out on alcohol like this couple--a tip on a 2-top will easily be $80-100. Multiply that by 30+ covers (x15 +) and you're talking real money (of course, much of this is cash and never reported/taxed). You do have to cash out to bussers and the bar, but still... you can live a solid middle class life. And why not?

[@Popatoh]

​@@LeafBurrowerthis is in France, there's no tipping culture.

[@LeafBurrower]

@@Popatoh My point exactly

[@Popatoh]

@@LeafBurrower Ah my bad, misunderstood what you meant there. Honestly, a waiter behaving like this won't last in France either. Waiters might be prone to being grumpy but if they are unprofessional they will get fired quickly, as that will drive away customers and owners don't like that. Personally I prefer not having people rely on tips to survive, and just having a set wage wherein if you do a bad job you just get kicked back to the employment agency.

[@jimmypublicupload]

Overcame the rude waitress, made her smile and provide the service she was meant to, had fun with guests and enjoyed the food and wine. Truly exemplary manners and EQ and your lovely wife made a great analysis of the situation and you both overcame ! Great episode

[@jshawney3355]

Fuck the fact that he had to overcome discrimination or had to work for fair treatment. White ppl don't ever have to work for it. That's why I stick to Asian restaurants at least half the time.

[@alexandraleechun]

Even with the same level of manners and EQ, I wonder if someone who spends less and yet to have such high level of food and wine knowledge would be able to regain the service and respect they're supposed to have from the waitress though

[@deeznutz3712]

In my experience, when you are just give it a joy. The rude staff would change suddenly reflecting your energy. Well, it is what it is

[@cagneybillingsley2165]

the rude waitress didn't deserve it. she deserved a bit of cultural enrichment instead

[@woodkey1]

Something to learn from this man. Dont let the servers or anything else ruin your enjoyment of food and the process of eating it. He make his own joy. Cheers for him

[@ASMR-vr4vo]

인종차별이라 느껴질만 한데 불친절하고 불편한 분위기도 확 바꿔주는게 진정 분위기메이커,,, 영상에서도 사람 자체가 여유롭고 세련됨이 한껏 느껴집니다..

[@떡빵면]

프랑스새기들이 인종차별 졓됨

[@user-no2lo8ye3p]

ㄹㅇ 나같으면 뒤통수에 메뉴 던졋을텐데

[@알맹이-i5c]

인종은 모르겠고 차별의 종류는 맞죠 실수하고나서 표정이나 사과하는 태도를 보면 고의성이 있었다는 게 보이죠

[@kokekuka24]

한국새끼들은 뻑하면 인종차별이래 ㅋㅋㅋㅋ

[@taeseongjo4506]

​@@알맹이-i5c 차별이 아니라 모든사람에게 동등하게 저런다네요. 프랑스사람에게도 그외 모든 사람에게요. 프랑스 사람 파비앙 유튜브에 설명이 나와요. 그 이유와 함께..

[@LifeIsAwesome-d5h]

What a gentleman! Lots of positive energy and spirit.

[@EVL-xj5vc]

He brings joy to everyone around him. His good energy is so much that a ride waitress doesn’t bring him down but instead got energized by him. 👍🏼👏🏼

[@foufou81]

A lot of old people in the restaurants are rude toward the waiters in France. It's difficult for them and they tend to show the poker face/cold face when you arrive in a restaurant. And if they feel that you're not an ass, they lower their guard !

[@EVL-xj5vc]

@@foufou81 Are you French? I notice this too. I’ve been to France 3x. I won’t say it’s a lot. But I do realize that French have a deadpan and sarcastic humor. It’s just them and nothing discriminatory I feel. When I join in their antics they are actually very friendly and warm, well still that French airs but it’s the culture and I’m ok. Anyways most recent trip last year I met so many friendly French people especially the younger ones. Even in Paris no one was unfriendly. Maybe we were lucky idk… I think it’s changing…

[@alainportant6412]

​@@EVL-xj5vc ​ That dude arrived with multiple cameras and started being loud and filming people. This isn't, Los Angeles,California, people are not huge fans of being filmed by vloggers while eating.

[@alainportant6412]

@AdamFontenet I am French and this is the correct answer. He got the loud vlogger treatment. It is also not legal to just film people and upload it. Also, small talk is NOT considered friendly in France, it is considered shallow, and retraded. Keep your stupid remarks to yourself and leave me alone while I'm enjoying my lunchbreak .

[@RioGrandedoSuleiro]

@@alainportant6412lol stop crying KKKaren 😂

[@user-rw1ek2lt9x]

대인배의 표본이신 듯. 젠틀함이 무너지지 않네요. 두분 대화에 많은 감명 받았습니다.

[@Jongfill]

@@I_am_Terry 의도적으로 던진건 알 수 없지만 보통 그렇게 할 경우 사과를 하죠? 그리고 영상 보면 점원이 그닥 친절하지 않다는 건 알 수 있으니 메뉴판도 일부러 떨어뜨린건지 실수로 떨어뜨렸는지도 확신할 수 없구요,,

[@marlintaylor6943]

나 같으면 메뉴판 집어서 날렸다라고 하려고 들어왔는데 딱히 점원이 던진건 아니지만 불친절하긴 하네요.

[@미라클부산]

멋지십니다.^^

[@user-rw1ek2lt9x]

@@I_am_Terry 님 말씀대로 분명 낚시성이 없다고 하긴 힘들죠. 그런데 내용도 자극적이던가요? 근데 내용자체는 느낀바가 많네요. 종업원도 인종차별을 한게 아니라 자국민이든 외국인이든 모두에게 공평하게 불친절 할 뿐이더라구요. 옆테이블 남성분은 불쾌감이 표정에서 숨김없이 드러나는 반면 영상속 두분은 끝까지 위트있고 매너있는 분위기가 한순간도 무너지지 않더라구요. 오히려 종업원이 다른테이블에선 여전히 불친절한데도 이쪽테이블에서 만큼은 약간이나마 친절을 탑제하고 표정도 밝아지기 시작했죠. 그런면에서 영향력이 있는 분이라고 느껴져요. 그래서 감명받았습니다.

[@ss-sy8jo]

@@I_am_Terry 정확한지적인데 유튜버는 이렇게해야함

[@zzu7064]

인생 교과서 수준... 피해의식이나 꼬임없는 관대한 마인드, 어떠한 환경에서도 휘둘리지 않는 감정선, 최선을 다해 이 순간을 즐기려는 태도, 주변 사람들과의 유쾌한 어울림, 적극적인 소통과 함께 아내의 행복을 챙겨주는 남편, 그 행복을 표현하며 남편에게 대단하다고 계속해서 존경을 말로 표하는 아내... 두 분다 삶과 사람을 대하는 에티튜드가 굉장하네요. 교육 영상 잘 봤습니다 😊

[@annalatte]

크! zzu님 댓글도 넘 좋아요 !

[@xhyper9180]

글에서 사람이 보인다더니 작성자님께서도 상당히 배우신 분 같네요

[@탁호-u4b]

저는 이런 글을 쓰시는 분들도 너무 존경스럽습니다 글로도 배워가요

[@미김바]

정말 리스펙 합니다. 어떻게 이런 대처가 가능한지 정말 많이 배우고 생각하게 만드는 대처입니다. 감사합니다.

[@ukestudio3002]

Possibly the best "life lesson" here . Your life will be better for it ! 👍🏽

[@generalgrievous6689]

Honestly, this has been a very refreshing experience to watch. This type of class and company is exactly what I love to be surrounded by!

[@sevn2341]

Wow. How amazing is it to speak Korean at your own table, French to your left, English to your right, and have everyone happy and smiling, especially in less than optimal circumstances? What a beautiful moment ♥

[@sambijutsu5481]

yep!

[@lifesnova]

i found it cringe

[@osurelatedvigilante]

They were actually dutch but we speak french and (better) english.

[@nitneroc53]

En tant que francais, je trouve ca génial, il a tout compris a l'esprit convivial francais, et c'est un veritable gentleman ! Il sera le bienvenue partout ici avec une telle mentalité :)

[@PhilippeLarcher]

everyone but frigging staff

[@reason_why]

부부의 대화가 굉장히 부드럽게 순환이 잘되고 매끄럽게 흘러가네요. 중간에 한번 대화가 막힐법도 한데 칭찬까지 서로 주고받으면서 대화의 고수를 본거 같아요 굉장합니다

[@muccini_Seo]

맞네요 … 부러울정도에요 ㅎㅎ

[@인천아저씨]

프랑스하면 바께뜨👏👏

[@sss-cw4ju]

편집이니까~

[@애플와치치]

머리아픈 인종차별 대처 영상이려나 하고 들어왔다가 넋놓고 스킵없이 쭉 시청하게되는 힐링영상이네요..! 두 분의 언어와 태도의 품격을 보고 많이 느끼고, 배우고 갑니다.

[@지혜로운그녀-i9k]

우와..제가 딱 그런맘에 댓글달러 왔는데..역시...ㅎㅎ

[@lans8045]

미투입이다. 참교육보러왔다가 그냥 편안하게 봤네요..ㅎㅎㅎ남편분 부드러운 목소리에 낮이라 커피내립니다...ㅋㅋㅋ

[@ENFP-mv1vv1ew1n]

저도 이 긴 영상을 스킵없이 봤구나 라는 사실을 지금 깨달았네요.ㅎㅎ

[@어밴져스-z2r]

인종차별 없이 모두에게 불친절한 영상 ㅋ 웃고 갑니다 ㅋ

[@Unknownkim1]

저도 정말 많이 배우고 갑니다. 나이가 들었을 때 저 분의 반이라도 따라가고 싶네요.

[@DDD-yt2kv]

목소리부터 말투, 대화의 내용과 태도, 마인드 전부 너무 우아하고 멋지네요ㅎㅎ 제가 본 사람 중 가장 닮고싶은 사람이네요ㅎㅎ

[@j2dlyc]

Insufferable rudeness is the national pastime in France. Everybody that visits seems to have a similar story.

[@Gontrz]

The waitress was kinda annoying but the neighbours were lovely

[@Billdijk000]

​@@Gontrz Thats because the neighbours are Dutch, not French

[@PatricioGarcia1973]

@@Billdijk000 the one from the off camera table were French

[@slytub]

I experienced the same rudeness in France

[@waleedabbas4996]

@@mmafighting305 Imagine saying that after getting demolished by everyone in the last century.

[@himmelblau4155]

유럽에 살아본 사람으로서 이렇게 훌륭하게 안 좋은 분위기를... 자기 뿐만 아니라 주변까지 좋게 만드는 분을 본 것은 처음인 것 같네요. 상대방이 무례하고 불친절하다고 해서 나까지 기분 나빠질 필요는 없지만.. 그게 어디 쉽나요. 저 날 와인킹님에 계셔서 주변 분들 뿐만 아니라 점원 분도 기분이 좋아지셨을 것 같아요.

[@user-st2tz9dx6fkq]

인종차별이 아니라 평등하게 불친절이었네요😂 서버분들부터 옆테이블까지 다같이 웃게되는 분위기로 바꾸시는건 정말 대단하신 것 같아요!! 두분의 웃음에서 여유와 넓은마음이 느껴지고 많이 배우고가요!!

[@pokegenstein]

이렇게 또 한국의 품격을 올려주시는!

[@지물-h3p]

@잼민이 • 228만년 전 평등한 불친절은 괜찮음~이 아니라 인종차별은 아닌거 같다 인데 우리게이는 닉을 잼민이에서 국어9등급으로 바꿔야겠노ㅋㅋ

[@WhiteDream05]

@잼민이 • 228만년 전 닉값

[@구름-i7d3l]

불친절이 아니라 막장 수준인데, 음식 퀄리티는 좋다고 하는 거 보면 제대로된 식당인 건데. 왜 저런 사람을 쓰는 거지? ㅋㅋ 양고기 미소가 뭐냐는 질문에 양고기지 뭐냐라고 대답하는 건 최소 사장 딸임 ㅋ

[@gege2830]

ㅋㅋㅋㅋ 노동자의 권리를 대량의 피를 흘려 쟁취한 나라인만큼 노동자가 기분나쁘면 손님도 배려해야하는듯 ㅋㅋㅋ 갑과 을이 아닌 병과 병의 관계 ㅋㅋㅋㅋ

[@IbbyB.]

I cant believe i watched all 18 minutes. It was a breeze of a watch, and im not usually one to enjoy these kinda videos. This was lovely.

[@soffwhere]

“There are all sorts of people” is one of the most stoic responses to this situation i could imagine. What a wonderful human being this man is!

[@vi683a]

This is a video. It is like photographs that people always smile in. Nice short movie.

[@boiiioioing]

Yes and no. There are people out there just trying to catch clout by spreading drama and negativity. The fact that he remains polite and personable without batting an eye despite being treated like shit makes him 10x a man most people are admittedly including myself. And if it's all for the camera at least it's positive.

[@vi683a]

@@boiiioioing Fake positivity for his own glory?

[@michaeljackson8002]

@@vi683a It's not fake positivity, he genuinely is happy and an optimist and clearly a successful person in life to be spending that much on eating out.

[@vi683a]

@@michaeljackson8002" Believe nothing you hear and only 50% of what you see"

[@소담제과점]

이런게 우아한거구나 전 진짜 짜증나서 화냈을텐데 웃음으로 대응하시다니ᆢ 배우고 갑니다

[@woodumji]

나같으면 “야 사장 좀 나오라그래!” ㅋㅋㅋㅋ 정말 멋진 분들이고 즐거운 사람들이네요.

[@TwelveRaptor]

Their positive energy was so inviting and refreshing I felt like I was sitting at the table dining with them. Lovely video despite the lackluster service the guests received.

[@maxidal6927]

Really enjoyed it. He made me open a wine and drank it along with them😊.

[@jamsquan9415]

seriously, i only planned to skim through but it's so nice to watch!!

[@dennisboyd1712]

But it should not have been their job to put a kind smile on the waitress's face, as it shows a lack of training on the owner or management.

[@lbe]

Wow, this was superb. The grace, the humour, the charm, the understanding, the multiple languages, the way he handled it all - this is a true and classy gentleman.

[@혀니-r8o]

댓글을 안 달 수가 없다. 남편 분의 긍정적이고 선한 영향력이 국적을 넘어 주변까지 특히 불친절 햇던 이까지 환하게 해주는 걸 보고 너무 배울 점이라고 생각이 들어요. 무시당하고 기분 상할게 아니라 웃음으로 승화 하실 수 있는 넓은 마음이 대단하세요😮

[@wldn109]

진정한 와인"킹"이네요

[@onunim5133]

Ew he is rude and insensitive. Please do not make fun of others and talk behind their back in a language that they dont understand. Then even upload the video on the most famous video sharing platform😅. They got 5.9 millions view. That is disgusting. Did they say apologize and send all the money back to France government and the restaurant and the waitress. Poor the waitress. 안내분이 “조금 심해”.

[@onunim5133]

Ah look at the Korean living like that. Huh Korean mindset is weird and scary. How you guys are cruel to others and at the same time good at faking.

[@EulianDax]

@@onunim5133 넌뭐냐?

[@shibenue]

​@@onunim5133rage bait used to be believable

[@Velvet-ni6pu]

Wow, what a magnetic personality he has, the way him and his wife were put in a situation that felt like out of their control and instead of just putting up with it or leaving, he was able to lift the mood of everyone within his vicinity with that hearty laughter, great sense of humour and amazing people skills! So much to learn from him in approaching life. I hope to carry with me the kind of lens you see life through with that bursting optimism and energy. Thank you. I don't know the first thing about wine but going to stay for your character😄

[@mediahost2243]

Captured the essence of what I also wanted to say. Learned a lot from this short clip.😊

[@radzraspz_6248]

Exactly my thoughts!! I have a lot to learn from someone like him, such a delightful personality and character 😊

[@haikaikokoni369_]

Magentic?? How?? This guy and his wife and basically bitching the waitress and the restaurant in Korean while smiling and laughing! Hypocrisy you mean!

[@Iluvtojifushiguro]

@@haikaikokoni369_ ahhh u mad! 🤣🤣 u mad!! french d!ck rider 🙌🏼🤭

[@pingteo6104]

@@haikaikokoni369_ They were discussing factually about the service lapse. The point is they made something good out of it instead of taking it negatively and throwing a customer tantrum.

[@1125oops]

뭘 먹고 살면 이렇게 품격이 생길 수가 있나요? 자만하거나 교만하거나 혹은 반대로 너무나 비굴하거나 굴욕적인 것도 아닌 상대방이 보기에 딱 적당하고 자연스럽고 보기에 너무편한 자존감 높아보이는 인격이 느껴지는. 와 두분의 매너와 품격에 감탄하고 가요

[@브라이언-e8p]

공감하고갑니다.와이프도격있으시네요

[@1125oops]

@@2biorap308 그얘기가아닌데;; 말하는 분위기와 태도, 제스처, 웃는표정 이런 게 멋지다고하는건데 무시와 덩치얘기가 왜나오는지

[@lts55744]

글쎄요.. 와인? ㅋㅋㅋ

[@Tank_LEE]

그리고 치즈..? ㅋㅋㅋㅋ

[@머튽-d2z]

@@2biorap308 본인 학창시절의 경험으로 사회의 인간관계를 일반화하시면 안되죠

[@kezzokav5905]

I love the seamless transition between 3 languages!! So cool to listen to and watch!

[@challenger516]

Are you Murican? A lot of people living in Europe speak more than 3 languages.

[@lodnam]

@challenger516 It is not nearly as impressive as speaking Korean, English, and French fluently. It is much easier for a European to learn another European language, especially if they are in the same language group. I also find that when Europeans say they speak another language, their abilities are sometimes greatly exaggerated.

[@challenger516]

@@lodnam French is one of the easiest language to learn after English. Dude, travel more, everyone I met in Europe and Asia spoke more than 2 or 3 languages.

[@challenger516]

@@lodnam Again, Murican detected 😂

[@lodnam]

@ French and English are quite difficult for people who speak Korean as their mother tongue, as is the person in this video. French and English are "easy" if you already know a Germanic or a Romance language - which is why it's more impressive than Europeans "knowing" 2-3 different languages of neighbouring countries. Seems you missed the point of my comment completely! Your English reading comprehension may need more work. I'm Korean by the way ;)

[@o_iing]

무례한 상대방에게 평소의 본인처럼 친절하게 대하시는거 너무 대단하셔요.. 제가 최근에 진짜 못된 직원을 만났는데 갑자기 이 영상이 생각나는거에요 그래서 그 무례한 사람과 똑같이 굴지않고 일관적으로 밝고 힘차게 대답하면서 행동했더니 마지막엔 상대방이 달라지더라고요 그 때 기분이 정말 이상했어요! 뭔가 멋있는 어른이 된 기분.. 아직은 기분나쁜걸 꾹 참고 속으로 난 괜찮아!! 똑같은 사람 되지말자!! 이러면서 친절한 척 하는 수준이지만.. 나중엔 진짜로 무례한 사람이 주는 상처에 끄떡없을만큼 단단한 사람이 됐으면 좋겠어요 아무쪼록 이 영상 올려주셔서 감사하고 멋지십니다!!

[@전도사-j6x]

긍정의 힘에 감화됐네요

[@rickpat1255]

안그런 사람이 99.99%에요 ㅋ

[@InasKitchen-ih7qt]

멋있으세요 !!

[@PoeticallyTwizted]

In my opinion, you ARE a cool adult! And even though you still feel negative emotions inside, you have learned to manage them, and that is emotional maturity. However, I do hope you find a way of releasing those emotions. I am confident you will. Thank you for inspiring me as well!

[@최성재-h8m]

원래 그러는 척 하다보면 그런 사람이 된다고 하더군요. 그렇게 되실 것 같습니다.

[@SUURE]

불친절한 서버, 기분 나빠 있는 옆테이블 손님까지 기분 좋게 한게 아니라 한국의 작은 카페에 앉아있는 저까지 행복하게 만드는 영상이에요.😊

[@이름-q9u]

두 분을 보고 마음이 여유로운 것이 무엇인지 알게 되었습니다. 무례한 일에 흥분하지 않고 분위기를 주도해나가는 모습이 정말 인상적이었습니다. 현명하고 자랑스럽네요. 한국의 품격을 널리 알려주셔서 감사합니다.

[@aiai249]

그러게요 진짜 멋있네요

[@deux07150716]

진심 공감합니다.

[@tankbefor8640]

그게 가스라이팅 ㅋㅋ 뭔 비싼돈 주고 밥먹으면서 눈치보면서 밥처먹냐 ㅋㅋㅋ 식당은 개꿀이다 호구들아

[@Lizabluck]

이게 신사?

[@RodrigoRopez]

​@@deux07150716en méxico chinguamiga dijo que korea es un país de xierda xD y estoy totalmente acuerdo de eso 😂

[@Xottapchenko]

It’s like watching a small stage play, satisfying, calming even. The mix of three languages, the overall friendliness of you as a pair and the pairs next to you, little incidents carefully mapping the evening. It unfolds and can be tasted like a dish of its own

[@N0C0MPLY]

This is one of the most random things I've watched in ages. I was completely captivated, entertained and charmed by this stranger. Thanks youtube algorithm.

[@justsarahg]

SAME

[@jaywhy3178]

Seriously - why was this recommended to me? Why did I click it? And why did I continue watching? I guess I need to learn. By the second time I felt an indication of rudeness coming from staff, my mood is ruined and I would probably leave. I'd refuse to bring money to a place or staff that treated me poorly. I can definitely learn from this video - can I put it into practice though? That's the hard part...

[@phanter344]

Same here! I thought I'd drop out after 5 mins but was captivated.

[@Kfdhjgethfdtgh774rvbjs]

Same.

[@MubashirullahD]

Same. Had a bad morning overthinking. But i saw this video as I had breakfast and my mood had a complete shift 😊

[@iu8682]

품위와 그릇의 크기가 어마어마하시네요. 본인만이 아니라 주변에까지 긍정적인 분위기를 뿌리고 다니시는 모습에 감탄만 하고 갑니다.

[@iu8682]

@user-jj1ne4ht8i 영상은 제대로 보시고 그러시는건지 모르겠네요. 누가봐도 부당한 대우에 항의 한번 못해서 쿨한척 넘어가는 그런 분위기가 아닌데.... 그리고 세상 살아가며 화내는 것만이 능사가 아닙니다. 내게 정신적으로 여유가 있으면 부정적인 상대방마저 감화시킬수 있는거구요. 그런데 알면서도 보통의 경우에서는 실천하기 어려운 방법인데 영상에 나오시는 분들은 그에 대한 부분을 실전에서 보여주시니 감탄하는겁니다. 부정적인 시각을 강요하지 마시기 바랍니다. 언제나 화내고 싶으시면 본인만 그렇게 사세요.

[@dmsqls22003]

@철민 이 부드러운 카리스마가 훨씬 인상깊은걸 모르시는군요

[@Fiskerrr]

철민 이가 아니라 '잼민 이' 이신가봅니다

[@Jeommin2]

@철민 이 그릇의 크기는 어쩔 수 없나봅니다

[@Minminuu2]

@철민 이 인종차별 씨게당했나보네요 ㅋㅋㅋㅋ

[@대로순리-z5k]

여러가지 생각하게 하네요... 일단 대단하다고 느낀건 와인킹님의 여유로운 마음가짐입니다. 조급하지 않고 날카롭지 않음... 부럽네요... 물론 여러언어 구사가 잘되면 소통할 때 오해를 줄일수 있는것이지만, 본인의 마음가짐이 어떤지에 따라 상황이 달라질수 있으니... 사랑하는 사람과 함께 상황을 즐기는 여유... 부럽네요....

[@효찡잉]

ㅍ귝규

[@쓰엉-c6g]

하도 이런걸 많이겪어봐서 그럴지도

[@whinesicat]

Love the talk between you and your wife about how we can always turn around things if we communicate effectively and the mention of culture difference as well. All in all, a fun video to watch!

[@RT-hb2nm]

작은 불친절 하나에 내 하루를 망치지 말라는게 이런거군요. 정말 그릇이 크신분같네요

[@Viva_La_Vida_kr]

꿈보다 해몽이라더니 해석시 너무 좋은데요? 배우고 갑니다

[@dongdo7811]

진짜 공감함. 근데 이게 말로만 쉽지 실상은 그렇지 못한다는게.. 분노>잊자>분노>잊자>부글부글 아니 내가 왜? 참아야지?

[@해진무]

오늘 여기 오지 않았으면 평생 내 인생에 등장 하지도 않을수 있는 사람의 작은 언행 하나에 내 하루가 휘둘린 다는게 너무 억울 하더라구요 이제는 그냥 넘깁니다 바보같이 붙잡지 않고 그냥 바람처럼 스쳐가게 냅둡니다

[@godgonpost68]

난 아무리 노력하고 연습해도 저 상황에서 못 웃을 듯.. 부럽다

[@오우쉬잇]

와 ~ 하나배워갑니다

[@driiifter]

I love how they're absolutely decimating them in Korean, while still maintaining positive vibes in French lmao. This was hilarious to watch.

[@TimmyToddyToady]

My Filipino friend says that if you hear Asian people speaking their native language, they're probably throwing shade.

[@clee1243]

@@TimmyToddyToady as a korean absolutely my parents know english but when the start speaking korean they dont hold back bro

[@jtlee1996]

That's the beauty of speaking languages that not many people understand, lol😂

[@TimmyToddyToady]

@@pacepicante6952 non, vous êtes un petit cochon qui pu. That's French for "I'm pretty sure it's not cowardly."

[@LeHarmacist]

@@TimmyToddyToady as a filipino, I can attest to this.

[@Italian_Spiderman]

I’ve heard France especially can be like this. Every time I’ve been in Italy even with my broken Italian, almost every waiter I’ve had seems almost excited to explain the dishes to you. Very different experience. This video just shows what a great attitude (and language skills) can do for you! Much love!

[@gleep83]

It's a french thing. Worst country I've ever been to.

[@aaronsanchezz]

Ya France is definitely the worst, they are known worldwide for this

[@LorenzoS1907]

Yeah in Italy we tend to love when foreigners try to speak our language as it’s a really nice gesture

[@cagneybillingsley2165]

france is known to be snooty there's something wrong with their culture

[@Relaxatihon]

I really don't want to make it sound like I'm bashing French people but I've yet to meet someone who was from France that I actually enjoyed their company. From working at hotels to retail to just meeting new people, French people always made everything very difficult.

[@misuumisuu]

LOLOL this randomly came up in my suggested and I can’t believe I watched the whole 18:34 😂 so enjoyable and what a good reminder/inspiration to lead with a positive attitude! Thanks for this :)

[@nadyasummer419]

Same!!!! I REALLY enjoyed it too!

[@ja_u]

What a couple, not taking things too serious even when the service is quite shit to be honest. Just smiling and happy with funny conversations and making the day of all the other guests better as well.. wow if this is not the dream to live life with someone like this I don’t know what is.

[@noorclean2915]

Quite shit 😂?? Dude the waiter is literally devil

[@josiieize2.0]

right

[@rizim_1454]

Not only did she put used glassware on an active table, but she also left it WHILE they were eating! That couple was too nice. As someone who works in the industry and understands the struggles of a waitress, I would not be nice and absolutely lose my shit 😂

[@PierreMiniggio]

Yeah, that waiter isn't the best at her craft to say the least 😁

[@staceygrahame2504]

I noticed that too, absolutely disgusting! If I had been the original consumer of those drinks I would’ve been highly embarrassed. If I was the recipient of those glasses on my table, I would’ve been out of there!

[@erseshe]

Or you could just talk shit about them in Korean or in any other languages you speak

[@jaminson2855]

cool story Karen

[@-108-]

Yeah, that blew me away. So rude.

[@jscho1269]

이런 여유와 품격을 갖춘 대처를 웃으면서 해내려면 도대체 얼마나 강하고 단단해야 하는 건가요? 저는 한참 미달이네요. 영상 보면서 진짜 수준높은 의식 가진 분만이 할 수 있는 여유에 감탄하고 갑니다. 👏👏👏 서로 기분나쁘지 않게, 윈윈 될 멋진 분이시네요.

[@emrichxbaghasim]

👆 👆 진짜 검색해서 영 상 보고 화 보 보셈~ ! 👆 👆 올 노 ㅊ 개 지림 👆 👆 검색 ㄱㄱ 👆 👆 못보던거 많음요! 👆 👆

[@아트조_WarHistory]

물질의 강함의 최고봉은 단단함보다 유연함인 것 같네요

[@jinyoon7163]

이분들이 대단한거지 미달이라고 자책하실 필요는 없어요. 손님이 왕까지는 아니더라도 기본적인 대접도 안해주는데 정상적인 식당은 아니죠 구글 리뷰는 괜히 있는게 아니니까요

[@아트조_WarHistory]

@@jinyoon7163 저였으면 저기서 깽판치고 나왔을듯 ㅋㅋㅋ주목받는거 싫어하는데 한국 서비스직에서 저랬으면 뉴스감임 ㅋㅋㅋ

[@Kittyone]

본 댓글이랑 진윤님 댓글이 요즘 유튜브 댓글답지 않게 너무 예의가 바르네요.. 저까지 마음이 따뜻해져요

[@earleebyrd]

3:40 at least she doesn't discriminate 😂 she treats everyone rudely EQUALLY

[@MikeyCompton]

Unless you spend 100's on wine.

[@hebrews6915]

Had to give a thumbs up for the sophistication with which the man interacts with others, his wife's fair analysis of the situation, and for the fact that they have put effort into mastering foreign languages.

[@donaldliden4545]

If they hadnt understand a word french they would probably been still sitting there waiting for food🙂

[@John-hp2hg]

@@donaldliden4545 lmao

[@giovannamoro8564]

His emotional intelligence is at genius level .

[@Aeybiseediy]

The man genuinely has good social skills, but his wife is just like a typical korean personality constantly judging and too sensitive abt what others think.

[@John-hp2hg]

@@Aeybiseediy I completely disagree. She was very mature and cool about the situation. What did she say that makes you think that?

[@SaintFranssoix]

As a french person this really makes me sad and ashamed, wow. Insane that you had to work so hard for basic service. It sadly happens sometimes, and that is regardless of where you come from. Some restaurants are just really really bad.

[@matt_warren]

At least the food was good

[@SaintFranssoix]

@@matt_warren it's still France we're talking about :)

[@memento.mori1337]

I mean Its French, so no surprise

[@WooSup111]

I watched at least 10 times of these kinds video on YT. France really needs to change

[@SaintFranssoix]

@@WooSup111 I mean to be fair there are bad restaurants everywhere, Ive been to places outside France that were just as bad. And there's also the clickbait factor of falling into the stereotypes France being impolite or unwelcoming etc, which is mostly untrue. But the reality is a majority of restaurants have normal service like everywhere, and if you read some reviews before going to a place you won't get bad surprises.

[@황정연-g6h]

간혹 한국에서도 무례한 식당엔 다신 가지않는다 라는 생각을 하며 살아왔는데 부부의 태도를 보며 한 수 배운 기분이 드네요 상대방의 무례한 태도를 같은 방식으로 표현하지 않고 부드럽게 분위기를 만들어서 내 감정을 지키는 것에 감탄했습니다😊 정말 멋있네요

[@앞병-z3u]

하지만 저렇게 좋게 잘 풀어나가더라도 굳이 서비스 안 좋은 곳에 다시 갈 이유가 없는 것은 여전한 것 같습니다.

[@impact-ij5ps]

한국은 달라요 ㅋ

[@황정연-g6h]

@@앞병-z3u 의견에 동의합니다 내가 지불하는 금액엔 내가 받아야하는 권리 즉 서비스 비용을 포함하고 있다고 생각합니다 허나 안타깝게도 현실에선 타협하게 되는 부분이 있더군요.. 모든 가게가 내가 원하는 만큼의 서비스를 제공하진 않으니까요 ㅎ

[@황정연-g6h]

@@impact-ij5ps 한국은 서버에게 팁을 지불하는게 의무는 아니니까 맞는 말씀입니다 조금 불친절하더라도 그 가게에 다른 부분이 마음에 들었다면 내가 조금 불편하더라도 찾게 되더라구요 예를들면 이미 맛으로 정평이 나있는 가게는 조금 불친절 하더라도 찾게되는 안타까운 현실이지요 만약 비슷한 맛을 지닌 가게라면 당연히 조금 더 서비스 마인드를 갖춘 곳을 찾게되는건 당연한 것 같네요 ㅎㅎ

[@redarishem]

그래도 프랑스 저건 정상이 아니죠

[@DryLemons_Art]

This was genuinely very nice, I was drinking my own wine and felt like I was part of this table. Great conversation, love the content ❤

[@suplays]

This is the power of smiling, joking around a little and being able to talk to other people well. I wish to be as charismatic as this guy some day😅

[@WildVee]

Hey, if you happen to read this reply, here's a tip: fake it till you make it. I said this to myself often and it genuinely happened! :) I used to be extremely shy and introverted, and though I'm still an introvert, making small talk with people, joking around, taking things lightly, and going up to strangers is no longer an issue at all! It took a few years to get to this point but imagine putting on a costume or a mask, and roleplaying this character. It eventually isn't a character anymore, it's part of you. :)

[@jwchae04]

​@@WildVee That's exactly how I converted to extrovertive! have a nice day, friend

[@WildVee]

@@jwchae04 Nice!! Well done, it's awesome what such a simple thing can do to our brain huh? Have a great day too :)

[@Exel3nce]

@@WildVee even roleplaying is kinda worthless if you have no clue as to what to say, even if you can approach people

[@Zio-359]

Reading yall comments give me some hope for myself. Thank you

[@Fashionterrorists]

두분이 나누는 대화가 꼭 그 안에서 직접 듣는것 같아요 안좋은 상황도 긍정적으로 풀어나가는 두분이 아름다워 보입니다

[@jayd4332]

아 표현 좋네요. 저도 진짜 테이블에 같이 앉아있는 것 같았어요 생각해보니

[@haileydailyo_o]

외국에서 잠시 살았을 때 불친절한 서버 때문에 속상하고 위축된 기억이 있었는데 불친절에 친절함으로 응수하면서 이렇게 우아하게 대응하는 방법도 있다는게 뭔가 되게 감동적이에요

[@bhj2806]

이게 단순하게 너(서버)때문에 나의 지금 이 즐거운 마음을 망치고 싶지 않아. 넌 너, 난 나. 이런 마인드가 있으면 되는데. 나같으면 팁주기도 싫음

[@robertahardy4215]

I love the way you switch from French to Korean to English with such ease. A true man of the world.

[@유퉁-v1u]

이런분들이 삶의 승자임 여유가 넘치신다 정말 이게 품격이다 라는걸 보여주는듯

[@5분폭행]

ㄹㅇ

[@꼬물콩-x9z]

20대 중반의 청년인데요. 이 두분과 같이 여유와 품격 매너로 주변인들에게 행복바이러스를 전하며 나이가 들고싶네요 너무 멋지고 짧은 시간에 많은 생각이 드는 공부가 되는 영상 감사합니다

[@kkabwa98]

@@thesvnns 근데요

[@Yasmine_midding]

As a french born and raised in France, your french is excellent and I hate when people are being rude with strangers. That being said, not speaking a language should never be an excuse for people to be rude.

[@홍윤택-g8w]

일반적인 한국식 자극적인 영상이었으면 막 들고 일어나서 화내는 사이다 모먼트 연출하려고 했을 것 같은데 무례한 웨이터에게도 신사적인 모습을 보여주니까 분쟁 없이 평화롭게 잘 해결되고 너무 좋네요 인간관계에서 상처받지 않고 성공하기 위해선 내 몸에 가시를 다는 게 아니라 겉은 물렁해도 속은 탄탄하게 기반을 다지는 게 중요함을 알았습니다.

[@hjkwon3074]

두분의 현명하고 우아한 대처가 부정적인 느낌을 많이 희석해 주는군요 하지만 또한 세계 어느나라에서도 저런식의 불친절이 당연시 되고 문화로 받아들여져서는 안될것 같습니다 더불어 한국에서 추가로 생기는것도 없는데 친절하신 많은 종사자 분들에게 감사하는 마음을 가지게 됩니다

[@62213]

신기하네요 자유시장에선 원래 서비스 저따구인 식당들은 수요가 없어지니 결국 망하게 되는데 저렇게 장사하는데도 좌석 꽉 차있는게 ㅋㅋㅋ 진짜 문화가 달라서 그런가 아님 맛이 천상인걸까요 하여튼 저도 동의합니다.

[@infpgirl.]

​@@62213 그냥 친절한 서버들이 거의 없어서 그래요 프랑스는ㅋㅋㅋ 일부만 불친절해야 그 가게가 망하는데 다 불친절함ㅠㅠ

[@박장군-s2e]

많이 배우고 많이 반성했습니다... 저는 남한테 피해주는걸 극도로 꺼리지만 반대로 누가 저한테 피해를 주거나 제가 지불하고 받아야할걸 못 받으면 직설적으로 표현하는 타입인데 저렇게까지 불쾌하게 하는데도 여유있고 위트있고 교양있게 처신하시는걸 보니 저도 조금씩 고쳐나가야겠다는 생각이 드네요 영상 잘봤습니다

[@shin9841]

저도 반성하고 갑니다ㅠ

[@user-kakajb]

지금의 반성이 절대로 정답은 아닙니다. 저런 서버한테는 강력하게 항의하고 소란피우는것이 오히려 정답이고 선에 가까울수있다고 생각합니다. 저런 비정상적인 서버가 정상적인 환경에서 편하게 서빙하면 안됩니다 손님도 사장도 피해죠. 잘못한 사람만 편한상황이 정상적인것은 아닙니다.

[@박장군-s2e]

@@user-kakajb 그건 우리나라면 모르겠지만 프랑스의 문화가 사람들의 인식이 대부분 저렇다면 그것또한 그들의 문화로 인정해야한다고 생각합니다 그리고 여기서 제가 중점을 둔건 직원의 태도가 아니라 영상 제작자분의 인격과 태도입니다 요즘 저 자신이 예전보다 예민하고 날카로워진거 같다고 느낄때 이런 영상을보니 저 스스로 좀 더 참을성을 갖고 좋은 사람이 되도록 노력하고 싶어서요

[@corona__virus]

@@user-kakajb 그런건 동남아국가에서 사기당할때나 하면 적합하고

[@carriebh714]

저도 남한테 피해주는걸 극도로 싫어해서 누가 저한테 피해주면 이해 못하고 직설적으로 표현하는편인데;; 이영상보고 많은 생각이 드네요 ㅎㅎ

[@shellybelly1071]

This couple is so healthy. They compliment eachother well, so well that they don’t allow rudeness to dampen their spirits 🥰

[@goabparty9574]

I would never let a French person bring me down. My ex girlfriend visited France and got head lice. Then when her friends came to visit the USA from France they gave her head lice again. They are shamefully disgusting people.

[@sup6578]

Well they film people and publish the footage without their consent, which is extremely rude to start with and secondly very much illegal and punishable by french law. So they definitely don't get to complain or even play the race card when confronted with rudeness in return.

[@HostileAtHeart]

@@sup6578 "An eye for an eye" is the poor man's idea of justice.

[@name-s7z-z5v]

@@sup6578​​⁠Why is one of the first things you mention the ‘race card’ when nobody even mentioned race before you did? Why are you so quick to jump to conclusions to the point where you are now creating imaginary scenarios in your head to be mad at? If your immediate knee jerk reaction whenever you see a person of color is ‘they are gonna play the race card’ when literally nothing even implies that, you are chronically online and have hate in your heart that i genuinely hope you sort out, because that’s a pretty gross assumption.

[@potatocatstar]

​@@HostileAtHeartespecially when no two eyes weigh the same for everyone

[@TheNinjutsuAlchemist]

I think you were the highlight of everyone’s day. Sitting and eating good food with such a cheerful person can only make the food taste better!

[@pymrhap]

"because I eat a lot of French cheese" 😂 I swear some people can crack a joke and make the doctor laugh the moment they were born

[@TheNinjutsuAlchemist]

@@pymrhap I love that. Not only is he funny and makes everyone laugh but he also laughs at other peoples jokes and tells them they’re funny, which makes people feel so good about themselves.

[@aliceho4112]

Precisely. But his laughter already filled my stomach. What a lovely couple.

[@twogather]

와인을 이렇게 잘 고른다는게 이렇게나 품위있어보일 수 있고, 또 불편할수도있는 상황에서 분위기를 풀어낼 수 있다는 것에 감탄을 할 수 밖에없네요 😮 보는 사람이 다 행복해지네요~

[@lisar3944]

I can't believe the waitress left the empty bottle and dirty glasses on the older couple's table. Just horrible. But I am glad I discovered this channel! Looking forward to more

[@rml4289]

They're French..

[@HotdogSosage]

Average French

[@Slenderface01]

They were 2 tables apart. It was an empty table.

[@mipmipmipmipmip-v5x]

​@Slenderface01 how does that make it better 😂 should leave the tables clean so people enjoy their dinner without looking at dirty dishes

[@John_쩡구]

영상 내내 감탄밖에 안나왔습니다.. 이런게 품격이고 교양이구나 하는 걸 보여주는 영상이네요.. 그 와중에 모든 공을 좋은 와인 덕분이라고 공을 돌리는 겸손한 발언까지... 대단하십니다 정말

[@endofyraaaaryfodne3389]

I thought this would be a clip that would make me angry. But it's not! It's very wholesome and taught me to react differently. People are affected by their surroundings and you can chose to be that peaceful, kind voice where possible. Thoroughly enjoyed your experience, thank you for the life lesson and now I want some Jet 27 XD

[@rauldempaire5330]

indeed!

[@giovannamoro8564]

You're right .i've learned something from this man . Loved it .

[@cryptodavidw]

As a French I’m wondering what everyone is talking about tho. Where is the bad service besides being slow? Maybe I missed something

[@Degen47Web3]

@@cryptodavidw are you serious? You can't see racism? Id like to be as innocent as you

[@PLad-pr9cl]

@@cryptodavidw Il explique son point de vue au fur et à mesure, ça donne déjà plusieurs indices en réponse à cette question. Je trouve aussi que la qualité du service n'est pas là (en tant que française). La serveuse n'est pas sensée expédier les questions à propos de la carte ni demander aux clients de lui faire signe quand ils ont terminé, ça fait partie de son travail. C'est son rôle de venir vers eux et faire en sorte que leur dîner soit agréable. Là au contraire, c'est le genre de situation où en tant que client on a presque l'impression de déranger parfois, elle ne les met pas à l'aise et leur laisse même faire son travail, c'est à lui de faire les efforts pour passer un bon moment, et même si il le prend bien et que tout se termine bien, ça ne correspond pas aux attentes qu'ils avaient au départ. (En espérant que ça répond à la question :)

[@shpark213]

이렇게 노골적으로 불친절하면 충분히 불만을 표시한다거나 항의할 수 있는 상황임에도 허허 웃으며 분위기를 화기애애하게 주도해가시는 능력이 정말 부럽고 닮고 싶네요…

[@jsh.5605]

@철민 이 일상생활 가능하세요?

[@whooosedooo]

@user-jj1ne4ht8i 솔까 해외 자주 못가보셨죠? ㅋㅋㅋ

[@mariposa1933]

This is awesome and yes it works to keep your cool, stay charming and keep a sense of humor. It does change the mood a bit. ❤ I love he’s bringing joy to others around him as well. 🥰

[@fletcherlynd7112]

언어 소통이 되고 와인이며 식당 상황을 잘 아시니까 스스로 분위기를 풀 수 있는 능력이 되시는군요ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ진짜 아무것도 모르는 사람이 저런 상황에 처하면 아무 말도 못하고 스트레스만 계속 쌓여서 폭발할텐데ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ 진짜 디폴트가 불친절한 서버인데 살살 달래니까 친절해지네요ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ

[@user-cm3tt9kp3z]

와....정말 교양있고 품격있는 어른들이 이런거구나....나도 이렇게 되고싶다ㅜㅜ

[@user-twlelweefw]

큰배는 작은파도에 휘청이지않아요 영상을보며 느꼈습니다 근데 문제는 내가 존나작은배라는거임 내가 저기갔으면 웨이터한테 치와와처럼 짖었을듯

[@I-ryun]

@@user-twlelweefwㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ너무웃겨요 치와와

[@foofoomoo]

베스트셀러중에 어떻게 원하는 것을 얻는가? 라는 책을 추천해요. 제목같은 내용도 많고, 제목과는 다르게 대화를 지혜롭게 하는방법에 대한 부분이 많아서 교양있고 품격있는 대화법을 조금이라도 얻을 수 있을거에요!

[@kimhorseshit]

ㅠㅠ.. 나도…

[@mowvu]

what a nice man and wife. they exude happiness and kindness and it's infectious. this is how you behave

[@vanlifebae]

Why not nice husband and wife?

[@mowvu]

@@vanlifebae ooh is this a joke? i don't know, why? i can't wait for the punchline!

[@凱瓴棨]

@@mowvuyou could say nice men and women but the way you say it sounds like women are wifes and that men can just be men.

[@mowvu]

@@凱瓴棨 i really don't mean to sound rude, but i could not care any less about what you just said haha

[@piyushhmusic]

Lmfao why are people in your replies thinking soo deep💀💀 these people need to go out sometimes

[@mahelaniarektbb]

I don't know what was more impressive: the love between the two, the charisma, or the fact they put away so much food and drink.

[@englishmutton]

여유를 가지자라는 말을 입에 달고 사는데 진정한 여유가 무엇인지 이 영상을 통해서 배우고 갑니다. 두 분의 대화가 너무 편하고 불편한 상황을 충분히 여유 있게 받아들이면서 넘어가는 게 참 너무 보기 좋습니다.

[@uomo_menssalon]

이런 사람이고 싶다

[@Bbueng999]

진짜요 너무 화나고 정신없는 요즘 사회에서 나도 더 화내고 나빠져야지 악독해져야지 생각하고 살았는데, 이 분들 보니까 좀 달라졌어요 마인드를 바꾸고 살아보려구요

[@찌뽀-f7m]

하나마나한 소리

[@휘파람-d1j]

다양한 언어를 구사하시는것도 대단한데 우리말 억양조차 너무 듣기가 좋을만큼 부드럽네요. 불편한 순간임에도 웃음을 잃지않는 두분의 모습이 참 인상 깊습니다

[@소령-g8s]

와.. 보면서 정말 감탄을 금할수 없게 되네요.. 여유와 유머, 그리고 위트와 센스넘치면서 인내심까지.. 언어에 있어서도, 음식과 와인에 대한 지식도 모두 대단하시지만, 두분 부부 모두 차분하고 여유를 잃지 않으시는 모습이 정말 인상적입니다. 식당 분위기를 바꿔버리시네요. 대단합니다!

[@hamxxxxx]

이런 브이로그 류의 영상을 스킵 없이 끝까지 다 본 게 정말 오랜만이에요... 두 분 대화 중 나누시는 와인 이야기가 정말 재미있어요.

[@zgjunwon]

와 정말 두 분이 가져다 준 변화는 엄청나네요 남편분은 주변의 관찰과 상황대처 그리고 상황을 풀어가는 언변은 정말정말 배워야겠네요 아내분의 웃음소리는 주변을 밝게 했구요 배울 점이 너무 많은거 같습니다 ㅎㅎㅎ 음식에 대한 태도, 그리고 다른 테이블의 후식주를 캐치해내는 습득력 아 그리고 서버의 태도도 바뀌었죠 ㅎㅎㅎ 많은것들이 담겨져 있다고 봐요 😊😊😊

[@소중-f2r]

성숙한인간의향기가느껴지내요..저런 내공 . 부럽네요

[@마시프레스티-h8d]

충분히 화가 날 수 있는 상황에서도 웃으면서 상대의 마음을 부드럽게 녹이시는 두분의 모습에 정말 많은 것을 배우고 갑니다. 웃는 얼굴에 침 못뱉는다는 말처럼, 안좋은 상황에서도 두분처럼 여유로운 마음과 웃음으로 상활을 해쳐나가야겠다는 것을 다시한번 느끼고 갑니다. 좋은 영상 정말 감사합니다.

[@Prince-King-Guy]

실수로 메뉴판을 떨어뜨린것으로 보이는데요

[@21이-y8z]

@@Prince-King-Guy그럼 사과라도 해야죠. 손님한테 저렇게 메뉴판 주는 건 아니죠. 그리고 메뉴 설명도 불친절했잖아요.

[@Prince-King-Guy]

@@21이-y8z 지나간 일인데 웃고 넘겨야죠. 뭐 사과를 한들 안한들 뭐가 달라질게 있나요? 유럽나가서 괜히 일커지면 불리해집니다

[@최필웅-g8i]

@@Prince-King-Guy 무슨 개돼지 같은 마인드죠..? 이러고 팁도 받을거 아녀유? 실수여도 사과하는게 당연한거지...

[@Prince-King-Guy]

@@최필웅-g8i 개돼지라니? 당신의 인성에 감탄하고 갑니다

[@BXKN]

인종차별 당했다는 컨텐츠가 넘치는 와중에 커뮤니케이션에 대한 대화가 암을 낫게 하네요. 존경합니다!

[@차에치일뻔한고라니]

형이 여기 왜 있어...?

[@aasthap.6319]

This is such a good video 😭 im here sitting in india and i saw how people with different cultures blend! Koreans, french and the dutch. Love how youve kept the edit raw and let us hear your conversions with no stupid background music. Keep making more content ❤

[@뚜루루-r6g]

식사 한번 하는것조차 저렇게 웃음이 끊이질 않으면 사는게 얼마나 행복할까 .. 진짜 지인이나 인연으로 계시는 모든분들이 부럽네요 ..

[@sahilrahman5066]

I am not going to lie watching you guys talk and socialize is kind of nice to listen to as an introvert who can't start conversations on my own it's cathartic sort of watching you guys.

[@sukiyu.g]

As an introvert I admire this guy for being able to speak of anything and not being like, ‘hmm”, “uhh”, “give me a minute while i come up with an answer”, *nods head*, “mmmm” 😢 my brain is fried and damaged but trying to repair the damages.

[@teatea1115]

I feel you. I’m an introvert too. And I’m like oh I wish I knew more than one language. And then I’m like wait for what… who do I even talk to =\

[@lynarystic]

Conversation / communication skills can be learnt. Practice helps improvement. Introvets can be excellent conversationalists too. They just enjoy much more to unwind in solitude in their personal time.

[@sahilrahman5066]

@@teatea1115 well learning another language is not necessarily that bad even if you never use it with someone, I have been trying to learn some German and Japanese too just for the fun of learning it

[@sahilrahman5066]

@@sukiyu.g oh god those all hit me straight in the heart with how accurate they are tho I have stopped say "give me one minute" I still can't start a convo it takes me like 30 minutes to get to ask a question which I hope starts into a convo 😅

[@Jugement]

You are very diligent honnestly. As a French myself, i never would've let that first offense fly and would've left instantly. She threw the menu, didn't apologize, and when you offered her an easy way out with that laugh, she just left. That was insufferable

[@kypus]

She said "Pardon" when it fell on the table. In her eyes that was enough apologizing. ;)

[@lyczsafrt3493]

le menu lui a glissé des mains et elle s'est excusé^^

[@sweetimmortalife]

I absolutely love this. I learned so much from watching this video about true “class” and a smart attitude. We would say in Mexico, you gave a “white-glove cheek slap”. Subscribed.

[@tea4me324]

You guys have some powerful energy together. I’ve never seen two people communicate and “move the room” with smiles and simple conversation. It’s pretty cool how you are so confident and well spoken. I don’t think I could even on my best days.

[@geenyp9332]

진짜 1분안에 자극적인걸 다 때려박은 영상들 말고….. 이 영상이야말로 스킵할거없이 꾹꾹 액기스 눌러담은 영상인데도 자극적이거나 지루하지도않고.. 정말 이런 사람도 있구나 라는 여러 유형을 많이 보고…… 유튜브. 인터넷의 순기능…. 기술이 발달하면 이렇게 좋은쪽으로 우리도 발전해야죠… ++ 와중에 수다쟁이 두 분이 잘 만나셨어여 ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ귀여우셔요 두분 대화가 정말

[@뚜비뚜밥뚜비뚜밥]

와 두분 대화 너무 교양인들의 대화를 엿듣는기분이예요..저도 외국살고있는데 아직은 영어를 잘못해서 뭐지 인종차별하나 싶은순간이 있는데 그럴때마다 리뷰다 찾아보면 의외로 그냥 누구에게나 다 불친절한 사람도 많더라구요😂두분 너무나 유쾌하고 위트있으세요 뽐받고싶네요.영상 잘보고가요

[@victorli4316]

I had the same experience in France. After being ignored for half an hour me and my wife literally walked out of the restaurant in front of the staffs and they just keep their eyes at their mobile phone, pretending we did not exist at all.

[@lawtraf8008]

Are you asian ?

[@aidenwillim6595]

Believe me my friend that their are many other countries then european nation that worth your money without any extra headache of the bad behavoir , racism and attutide

[@xenotypos]

@@aidenwillim6595 Nothing to do with racism (at least not more than in any other euro country), it's just that this kind of services can happen in France. Once my table was kind of ignored and served very slowly compared to the people around us. If I had been a minority with a victim complex (quite common these days), maybe I would have assumed it was some kind of racism. But comparing that with other experiences, it's pretty clear it's the same treatment for everyone.

[@ryanjones7681]

Same! We had ordered 2 beers when we sat. No one came over to us after our drinks were empty. Sat for 45 minutes then left 10eu in the table and left. Half a block later we were chased down by the owner, saying we never paid. We told him the money was left on our table because no one came over to help us. He put more effort into chasing us down the road than to just be a decent waiter... Lmao.

[@JasGoodgameJamzYuh]

@@xenotypos so people are just generally bad at their jobs/don't give a shit?

[@Revoltefrancaise]

Merci ! That was a pleasure to watch your experience. Apologize for the service, it could be a true art when it's well done but most of the time people are just carrying the plate. Vous êtes formidables !

[@lonetree_01]

불친절에도 미소로 동화시킬 힘이 있으시네요. 참 흐뭇한 영상입니다.

[@beambeam8156]

첨엔 보는 제가 다 불쾌해질려고 했는데 두분의 여유로운 마인드와 유쾌함에 신선한 충격을 받았어요 ㅎㅎ두 분 주변에선 누구라도 긍정적이고 유쾌해질 것 같아요😄멋지십니다👍