How to Make a Man EARN YOUR ATTENTION & Respect You in Every Way- Dating Tips For the Elegant Woman

[@repentandbesaved7730]

It's messy. I am 54 this month n have NEVER been married, living my best life in the US, serving God, believing Him for my own guy. I have my peace, keep developing myself, doing my job and not ready to settle with anyhow kind of man even because of my age. It shall definitely end in praise bc God is coming large for me. I remain on top. I don't care what your society says

[@Blessingif-y]

❤❤❤❤

[@blessingmoses3720]

Please I need you as my mentor please 🙏🙏 This is great to hear, it's amazing ..

[@gloriamukua4557]

It will end in praise,, God's time is the best, wish you udopt me plz , am facing rejection at home coz am not married and everyone is married and am only 27 years.

[@oluebubeokpaluba9130]

Amen❤

[@rosedarlingrockson8132]

Amennnnnn it is well

[@deborahokhogbe325]

Ma'am! This statement got me " A man who likes you will like you even in your worst state"

[@ruthnwenyi7496]

Very well that's my thought no need begging anyone to love you.

[@AanuoluwapoOgunjuyigbe]

True, but we shouldn't "test waters" too

[@DrRAJAkinola]

Yes, but as a proper human your worst state shouldn't be baaaad... worst state could be those uncontrollable times as in hormonal States... a real woman is sweet already but has the right to be angry too...I believe that

[@yolz555]

I need to remember this. At times I can be so hard on myself to want to fix all parts of myself to feel love❤

[@Elegance_Beauty_Bliss]

😊

[@mutsjoanah2425]

Hide yourself in God so that any man who wants you has to go through him [God] to get you . This is the best thing I read on media and it stuck with me upto date. You will never struggle with love if you believe in God. He will bring you the right man.

[@akisiimireisabella4132]

❤❤❤🎉

[@habibamanawa676]

Exactly That’s true

[@ABERSUSAN-sf9dq]

That's it. GOD IS EVERYTHING

[@okoroaforgoodnessoluchi]

Recently, I met a man who says he likes me and wants a relationship with me, but he never responds to my texts and always acts like he is busy. I gave him the same vigor and energy in return, and when he noticed, he asked why I did not text him more. Because it is so manipulative-ladies, we really need to improve our ability to choose men-I finally grew tired of it. Guys who aspire to be treated like princesses are not deserving of your attention.

[@dr_meroma]

❤

[@ezikechisom9321]

Exactly! You nailed it

[@KellieAlston]

Period.👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@talkswithesthertherapy]

Exactly! That's how narcissists behave.

[@benmaureen454]

😂 exactly what I am facing..from a man who said he likes me ..I have deleted his number a long time ago...he is just the only one in the relationship that's if there's any...I have moved on long ago.

[@ezinneezinne7264]

You have helped so much in raising my value and standard as a woman, I used to be so emotional and seeking validation from men, specially when my younger sister got married, I went into a very toxic relationship that almost ruined my mental health, but stumbling into your video made me realize I can be more as a woman, thank you so much Winnie 🎉 you're a blessing to us, 💕😘💕😘

[@EllaSue71]

Wow

[@JaiK64]

Shout out to you Sis. Sending much love and good vibes to you

[@Emilly-u8q]

Comparison can lead us to mess but thank God you are now ok

[@Syllution]

I’m proud of you ❤

[@Preciouschanda729]

Wow

[@favourgodwin422]

Wow, I'm 18 and will come back to watch this over again.

[@FaithAnionyeabor]

Kindly do and take it more seriously, especially that first one, if you get that first one you won’t even have time to throw yourself at any man, Set goals and go all out for them, wait for no man, you’ve got a little time, early is better, Winnie said it all

[@favourgodwin422]

Thank you so much 😊.

[@ezikechisom9321]

😊 you make me miss 18 but I love my

[@hamirajohn5103]

You're 18 girllll, don't let any man lure you into doing what you don't want. Go for knowledge, you're worth everything good my dear.

[@talkswithesthertherapy]

Yes dear! Early preparation determines success!🎉❤

[@rosemarykakooza]

I will never being overly available for someone again 😭 thank you Winnie you have really changed our life.... luv you 💞

[@SeedianaWealth]

I’m listening to this for one month straight ! I want this to enter all my membranes Thank you Winnie God bless you ❤️

[@TheChesterCakes]

Gbam😂

[@aishasandi1]

Thank U Thank U Thank U Heavenly Father Most High ❤️ ❤️ ❤️ JEHOVAH LORD GOD Almighty ❤️ ❤️ ❤️ ❤️ ❤️ ❤️ ❤️ ❤️

[@ayooluwaajoke3784]

I remember one video where you said, "don't talk about it, be about it!" Thank you big sis. Your vlogs, especially, inspire me to be a high value woman.

[@Ositaukamakaemmanuel]

Thank you for this video. Am a married woman and it's baffles me how young and single ladies throw themselves cheaply at men this days

[@EdwinaGermueGiah]

Exactly my thoughts. Why are some women so desperate

[@MeetChiBethelTalks]

Tell them, so cheap for any man to use and dump

[@NabbieElla]

Hello Winnie….I feel this video is talking to me directly. I’m a young woman in my 20s, I have had a negative pattern in relationships, I have taken my time to study things and I see where I’m getting it wrong. I make myself too available, I go out of my way to impress, I don’t have a set standard and I usually accept the barest minimum….lastly, I always get attached and can’t break free easily which always hold me back from moving forward. I am willing to change everything, I am willing to break free , please I need help with this

[@balaaisha5753]

She had given you the clues put them into practice! You would definitely see the result. Go girl!!

[@GFAChronicles]

Stumbled on your video and I love it. 😂😂😂. I have been told my standards are too high and my response is usually " I have invested too much in myself to settle for the bare minimum " and that's that❤.

[@ndlilian]

❤❤

[@Techin_general]

She’s not saying we should be rude ooo😂😂

[@GFAChronicles]

​@@Techin_generalrude has no place in my dictionary ooh 😂😂. This conversations are btw me.amd my gfs lol

[@winniesschoolofelegance]

👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

[@yolz555]

Yep me too, every time I think about settling. I remember all the work I did and set my boundaries ❤

[@AanuoluwapoOgunjuyigbe]

This felt like a family meeting 😂. Loved it all😅. Thank you Winnie 🫶🏼

[@adeolahappiness7839]

😂Yeah

[@akisiimireisabella4132]

😂❤❤❤❤🎉

[@GeearlsPlace]

Winnie, I have been waiting to get a video like this. I made a very regrettable decision 2 years now and I can’t wait to get over this phase. Thanks so much for this. A lot of great info here

[@sarahtornyie2007]

Thanks Winnie, you're saving a lot of ladies from mess

[@Bridget657]

Girl, this is so true I really wish my gender can understand this better Thanks Winnie and happy Sunday.

[@winniesschoolofelegance]

@@Bridget657 it’s my pleasure Dear!❤️

[@VictoriaYoung..23]

It's amazing how these necessary standards are the same ones our mothers set for us as children, we need to imbibe the trainings given to us from home. God bless every intentional parent both in these times and the times before us. God bless you Winnie.

[@Iamella_b]

I'm definitely ensuring my daughters watch your videos as soon as they clock thirteen years old. Mind you I'm still single but the value you give is inheritance for generations. Thank you ❤

[@nwaokoroemmanuella6434]

The best video on KZbin thank u mama Ur teaching is so achieve

[@winniesschoolofelegance]

You are welcome Dear!❤

[@silvertabitha]

Mentor is scolding in this class ❤😂

[@BankoleBukola-w7r]

Thank you so much Sis This video got me,,really impactful More knowledge ❤

[@WendyLiving]

That audio is so sad! I wish every woman would understand how important self-love and self-acceptance is for our own well-being.

[@adedoyinodedina1539]

Thanks a million for this video Winnie, I'm sharing it with all my female contacts. Watching your videos have been very inspiring& educative in my level-up journey to becoming more intentionally elegant.

[@JustinaBanach]

Thank you so much Winnie. ❤You’re actually talking to me, but is not too late for me to make changes

[@charityadenodi9990]

Watching you made me realise I don't know many things. Very grateful ma'am

[@benwen9216]

thanks winnie for this I would say you just saved me rn I have done the opposite of all these and I am hurt,but naw I have to retrace my steps and hold my self in high value and esteem

[@omoladeoguntola4824]

Oh! This is so inspiring, I thank God for stumbling on this video tonight, let me go and correct myself

[@NoleenChavunduka-z2d]

Thank you Winnie, ever since I started watching your videos..am becoming supper Elegant and a high value woman.God bless you dear!

[@UmoruSusan]

Wow i love this, this is exaltly what i do everytime with men, some men think that i am too proud of myself but i don't care about what they says about me i keep moving .

[@oyekunleoyeyinka7470]

I do everything here. Weak men don't like high value ladies. I ignore chats and calls sometimes. Thank you sis

[@tolulopedamilolabolaji8171]

No one needs a weak man

[@jenniferopene8573]

I just watched this today, trust me this is amazing and I’m going to keep watching this because this is what I need to remind myself that I’m not to be messed around with. Thank you so much for this piece, u are the best.

[@KuteesaVioletisreal-bl5mi]

Oh gosh! This is really for me, the way I spend all my day trying to keep him company and I end up forgetting even to read my Bible 🤦 thank you Winnie 🥰🥰🥰

[@JULBYRNNDAM]

Sister winnie, iam married but i have been following your videos alots. And its helping me even in my marraige. Its my first time commenting on your video. You are doing a great job. God bless you. Continue the good work.

[@heavenacloe]

You have gotten a new subscriber ❤ Waaw this is sweet❤

[@abigailndifon5563]

I am just listening to you for the first time and I must say I love you!❤❤ This content is apt!

[@NdohMel]

I met a guy yesterday...and he is my spec and boom today's episode 😊

[@evelynofosu6339]

😅😅😅

[@winniesschoolofelegance]

@@NdohMel my best advice, take things very slow.❤️

[@NdohMel]

@@winniesschoolofelegance Thank you Winnie my influencer🥰

[@chiomadennis6895]

Mama...I got to learn about this quite late...tho am out of a 2yrs plus relationship I gave in my all ...I babied this man and he became soooooo useless....Kai if I had known earlier..It's a good thing I left..I have learned the hard way tho..but then nothing surpasses peace and elegance!!! ❤

[@chinyerenwaorgu654]

On point 100% Mama.. Ignore the calls sometimes,he will look for you if he loves you.

[@deesbookedlife]

Please, who knows how I can I love this video 50 million times please???

[@winniesschoolofelegance]

@@deesbookedlife ❤️❤️❤️

[@queennwokogba1348]

Speak mama❤😊

[@bestritahgwaka2315]

The first time hubby came home late, he slept in the vehicle, this never repeated itself😂. True, don’t tolerate disrespect

[@JanetBoluwatife-o4k]

What are we saying what are you saying just because he came house late you locked him outside no nau that doesn’t make sense 😢

[@GracewealthEjimkonye]

@@JanetBoluwatife-o4k do what works for you🤣🤣

[@Ronzayy]

@@GracewealthEjimkonyeexactly 🤣

[@joycembadihe1483]

Thank u Winnie. I am taking a bold step now out of a very toxic relationship

[@OLIVIAUGOCHICHIBUEZE]

This video felt like it was for me... Thank you for the advice sis finally got someone who advised me with her full chest 😂

[@DejaneaPryce-un1tf]

I really have a lot of work to do on myself 😢 thank you Ma'am for saying that ❤❤

[@DAMILOLATOSIN-sv9px]

Thank you for all you do Winnie... You have been a great blessing to me a specially

[@LandDeeva]

You're unleashing real value I'm rooting for you sis 🎉

[@okwelejoy8706]

Thanks so much sis, some of my colleagues say am regid, because I don't tolerate nonsense, you don't accept every one to your life, thanks very much big sis

[@call-me-Diana]

Thank you Winnie❤. I would like to say :for some people its generational altars that delay their marriage or other form of Martial issues. I think she should pray and with the help of holy spirit do a backgroung check on the altars in her family too, maybe that could be her problem.

[@jessicaagboglo8681]

That was what I wanted to say This things are bad

[@jessicaagboglo8681]

That was what I wanted to say This things are bad

[@jessicaagboglo8681]

That was what I wanted to say This things are bad

[@SlyviaMbabazi-j9t]

I made it my daily routine listening to this video,reminding myself of who i am.thanx winnie much ❤ from uganda

[@EstherSmart-rg1dd]

Thanks big sis for your word courage God richly blessed u ma and have learned a lot

[@aishassesimba-uj6qv]

Once you really embrace this 😂there’s a way you feel powerful as awoman ❤ I feel like I own the world 😂

[@winniesschoolofelegance]

I can totally relate to this!!👏🏽👏🏽

[@SUGar-wo8fm]

I love you... I want your view pls because a lady is not a virgin and wants to be celibate, the guy says he wants to have xxx with her , the lady refuse only for the guy to say she's not a virgin what the need of abstinence​@@winniesschoolofelegance

[@Empress_powei]

👏👏👏👏

[@talkswithesthertherapy]

Woman power! Absolute Positive Feminine Energy

[@balaaisha5753]

Yes true

[@gracesgl507]

The Nigerian in Winnie really came out in this video 😂😂😂😍😍

[@winniesschoolofelegance]

@@gracesgl507 😁🤭

[@olanikeolaide]

Was about to say this 😂😂😂😂

[@adeolahappiness7839]

Yes ooo 😂. #with my full chest#😂😂

[@Adwoay3m]

Sometimes we feel like we are growing so we have to lower ourselves to them

[@winniesschoolofelegance]

Don’t lower your standards Dear… it’s better to be alone than to end up with the wrong person.

[@DonatellaZyra]

At least I am learning something

[@Empress_powei]

Thanks for your amazing teachings sis.❤❤ that updating am always doing it..(being transparent) am glad I have chance to work on myself.

[@Wuraglitters-v7i]

Coming across this video makes me feel alive again bcoz i can say this video is actually for me to be alive again…. Thanks so very much sis bcoz u are my sister from another mother that saved me to end up in a prison called relationship😔😭 all i need now is to pick myself up and stand my ground.

[@LandDeeva]

I like this particular video so well, I've sent the link to many ladies who needs to hear this. And this is the third time I'm watching it

[@alicebenjamin4912]

What a timely video, Thank you sis Winnie🎉🎉

[@superwoman4250]

Reason I can't hide this gospel from the world, everyone in my online community knows Winnie school of elegance and they keep thanking me for introducing them to this channel. I love you ma and I know I will meet you soon😊

[@blessed6578]

I have listened to so many advises but yours, are higher, i realy loved this, and helped me alot

[@roqeebatbello3310]

This video is definitely a bang!!!! I literally wrote down all you said,in a note and would make sure to practice them. Thank you so much, God bless you

[@comfortabanee9737]

Thanks so much for this video, ma'am. Since I realised that love can not be forced, I just have to love myself, and it keeps me going without stress. More love from my end.

[@okonkwoharrison2710]

You have finally decieved millions of your fellow women with this your video and so many of them will believe in it.

[@balaaisha5753]

Oga wetin carry come here

[@balaaisha5753]

U*

[@Kassiex5]

I had so many questions on how to go about all these different type of scenarios and you giving specific examples has been so helpful

[@NdilimekeNUhepo]

Thankyou winnie.i am watching from Namibia, you touched my heart !

[@winniesschoolofelegance]

@@NdilimekeNUhepo you are welcome Dear!❤️❤️

[@Ntsako_tsakie]

"I'm in the bathroom I'm peeing,I'm in the bathroom I'm pooping"😂😂😂

[@rachaelkilonzo7295]

I thank God I did this, and now I'm happily married and my goals aligning....what Winny says is true ❤

[@shemzkaris235]

I am so blessed hearing this. May God bless you my sister for sharing this beautiful message.

[@jemilatyusuf3267]

Wawu... This video is basically dropped because of me... Hummmm, am about to start a New relationship with my own steps of life, but right here with this video, am super excited and good now ... Sis you're my truly Backup, I have Never missed any of your video, because it guide me Tru in so many things, Am happy to meet you on this KZbin page🫂 Thank you sis ❤️

[@sakuraa.2450]

I am also 42 childless but I would never beg for men . I don’t even have wealth coz I am helping my poor family back home . But I have love for myself and not trade my dignity. I am single for many years coz most of the men I’ve met are the opposite ones. They go for easier women - women that court men- the one who initiates dates and so on. Also I am in Europe and most men here go for easier method “ the hook up method” They want women to chase them,sleep with them after 3dates and afther 3dates they are automatically in a relationship .So I’ll stay single till I meet that high value man that will really pursue me and can wait to sleep with me.

[@KomMartheCarolle-zm2pg]

That's all!❤❤❤❤❤ Big hug to you sister😘😘😘😘🥰🥰🥰🥰

[@roselineanaba1374]

I think at this point of ur age u should adjust.

[@junic2794]

Well done gal❤ Keep your legs closed am doing same though am younger than you

[@ezikechisom9321]

​@@roselineanaba1374how

[@maryadeoye7440]

​@@roselineanaba1374these are the issues. You think because she's 40.and it's getting late, she just lower her standards. Dey play.

[@hadassah_gifty]

Ma I came across this video at the right time....thank you

[@winniesschoolofelegance]

You are absolutely welcome!❤❤

[@lawrettaonwuka573]

God richly bless you. You have said it all.

[@kateejeanobi3135]

I love you winnie, your videos are just next level, so much value.

[@chikamiracle2798]

Winnie❤ thanks alot, now I can say am fully glued to your page. It's full of amazing packages to shapen women and make us better version of ourselves

[@justqueenlaney]

Winnie I love you. I see you as a mentor! You have no idea how you have helped improve my self esteem as a young girl..❤❤

[@tushaylapankyz4405]

Am sending you my hugs right now Winnie. You are such an inspiration. God bless you so much for your words , thoughts and tips. They really go a long way. I appreciate this video big time. 🤗

[@grandpropertyltd]

I have been in this Winnie’s school of elegant for over 3years now and I should be due for graduation by next year, but I don’t wanna graduate I remain here 😊❤

[@adebiyideborah7744]

Thank you so much Winifred❤

[@YabomKamara-p1o]

From today u are my mentor sis. it well said big sister

[@OluchiEzeh-16]

"People will treat you how you treat yourself" 🔥 Thanks for this thought-provoking and educative video, ma'am.

[@margretsamba4124]

this is soooo gooooood im corrected wow haha big sister winnie you are the best i just discovered your channel today and im soo invested already

[@WenenePromise]

Wow this message has found me when I badly need it God bless you big sister

[@BlessingOnuh-e6l]

Wow.... I must confess ur video today has brightened my mood. it seems I was sleeping but now I'm active thanks for such a message and I love the way u demonstrate and make it look and sound lively. u are an icon 👍

[@akisarlellarosinendzenewo4277]

Oh I missed our "don't do thats" 😂😂 Thank you,😘😘 big sis!! I am a high-value woman! And I'm getting higher. Thanks😇

[@winniesschoolofelegance]

I love this for you!! Keep soaring higher and higher Dear!❤❤❤

[@GodspowerFynessH]

Well said❤ So glad I discovered your channel after much effort 🎉

[@AbimbolaOwolabi-q2g]

Thank you ma’am for this particular video Your videos are always inspiring God bless you ma

[@carolinedavis7228]

I just stumbled on your channel and i love it. Youre 1001 % right.

[@aanuoluwadamilatosin]

Thanks so much momma🥰. I really love all your words and are very insightful.

[@aishabakali-se2md]

You are blessed Winny, so much wisdom in you Thanks for blessing me ❤

[@PatienceAppiah-h8c]

Thank you Big Sis Winnie, you really blessed my day and I’m grateful I found your channel ❤🥰😊🙏🏼. Stay blessed

[@OcCleaningService]

Thanks so much. I love this video so much and I pray to stick to it. I want this to be a reminder to me, months or years later, I will look at this and smile. God bless you dear. Love you❤

[@stellaunegbu-gb2il]

Sis, this topic is amazing

[@Emilly-u8q]

Ever since l started watching Winnie’s videos every day is a change

[@OdunayoFolorunso-p8t]

First time to comment thank you so much ma you are on point ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@EzekielTina-jt5nl]

Wow thank God I stumble into this video. I think I need to upgrade myself now

[@Sarah-zn7bc]

This is so insightful, thank you Winnie, so many women need to watch this video and get this message❤❤❤

[@bernadineorjiewulu5856]

Yes Sis Winnie you're right 💯 and my opinion to that woman or any lady wishing men to come quick to marry her and possess all her possessions that was so embarrassing the men she will attract will only be Gold diggers,she might end up in an abusive relationship and some heartless one might even kill such lady just to possess all she has. Thank you big sister ❤️ you're such an inspiration to this generation 💞😄

[@ayaobacoutureofficial]

Just 13 minutes into this video and deep sense has been knocked into my brain... I thank God for the ability to not just hear but to listen 😩🙏

[@HannahAyodele-i2k]

Exactly me too

[@akisiimireisabella4132]

😂❤❤

[@akisiimireisabella4132]

😂❤❤❤

[@okaforchidimmablessing2992]

Everyone bears pain and hard time in different ways,but this way I reject it please,she's really in her vulnerable stage now,.. One thing we ladies needs to do to avoid this stage is too much,but some done really get interested doing it,work on yourself, get engaged both physical and spiritual, am 34yr I done rush anything, the come on there own without any much stress..I pray God will help her as it stands now, calling on any kind of man isn't the best option.

[@AnnieMabenga-xe6ve]

Wow! This came out so real and powerful, it came at the right time. Indeed men like to chase when they really want you. Thank you for all the wisdom you shared God bless you, sending love from Zambia 🇿🇲❤️🥰.

[@ConfidenceOduenyi-w5w]

Thank you so much ma'am for this piece.

[@FavourIkhina]

Thank you so much Winnie ❤ I developed this mindset early this year and whenever a male friend or potential boyfriend comes and starts you are so mature and I want you to teach me blah blah. You’re out of my life because I don’t want to be a teacher to anyone especially a man😅

[@SuperMobileFans]

You are the helpmate of a man as said in the Bible. You should be glad that a potential boyfriend is humbling himself to unlearn or relearn from you especially when he can get help/advise elsewhere or the internet. A complete man does not need your help which contradicts you being an helpmate/valuable to your husband...

[@angelaanoke5300]

Thank you so much Ma'am Wini for always hitting it