10 IMPORTANT Questions to Ask Him During the DATING PHASE of Your Relationship to avoid a HEARTBREAK

The dating phase is one of the most important phases of a relationship.
In this video I am sharing some very important questions you should ask him as an elegant woman in her dating phase to prevent a heart break.
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[@historiqueafricaine]

One guy told me that a manipulative trick guys use is to talk to you every day so that you get addicted or used to it and then would not easily leave him if he doesn't turn out to be what you're looking for‼️that's why we need healthy boundaries as in not talk every day and not be isolated when we date. Talk about it to a person you prayed about and can trust with talking about this relationship💯

[@winniesschoolofelegance]

👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

[@Ayinde_Basirat]

This is so true....I am really glad I got off it before it lead to dating 😂..

[@AgnesNuworzah]

​@@winniesschoolofeleganceMiss Wnnie....i really need a lot of help....i wish we could get into contact .... I'm almost suicidal 😢

[@graceolufisola441]

💯

[@eleonoraivanova-kd2zb]

Thank you 🙏 very helpful ❤

[@happylee2297]

The cheapest and easiest way to this is let God choose for you, my marriage will be 20 years this December all I can say is fine God and let him lead you to who you are to get married to There are so many things to this that human capacity cannot carry I am sorry if I sound primitive but this is true I remembered I wanted a very deep Christian brother back in those days but the person God showed me was not serious with God, however by now he is the perfect Christian brother I wanted and those people I focused my eyes back then soke of them are dead some have backslided I'm just thankful to God 20 years of peaceful and enjoyable marriage

[@emilynyambura959]

God to choose for u? Did I read it clearly? God has given u ability to make choices

[@happylee2297]

@@emilynyambura959 no problem dearie go ahead

[@maxmolliejoshua3174]

@@emilynyambura959at times what God wants for you might not be what you wanted

[@maxmolliejoshua3174]

I remember when I was in a relationship in 2018 and I prayed for this guy so God can bless him and God did ,tho he’s a Christian brother so am I .When I prayed to God he told me he’s good but when I told my Mum about it I asked her to pray about it when my Mum prayed she said she saw somethings which is wrong about the guy,so I was told not to get married to him,this guy is the most honest person I’ve ever walked with little did I know he’s a cheat. And we both abstain from sexual intercourse it was all about No sex before marriage😢I was so happy he accepted so we dated for two years planning our wedding . Few months to our wedding I wasn’t comfortable with his movements anymore I prayed to God he was just showing me different things about him I prayed and prayed God was telling me not to go on with the marriage,eventually I heard he impregnated a lady and didn’t tell me about it. I landed at the hospital,I was admitted,received 15 drips 10 injections, I saw the red flags but I just wanted to get married cos I loved him.Thank God I didn’t I would have been regretting by now he doesn’t worth it at all.

[@faithmbogo8049]

@emilynyambura I would like to answer you. Yes God chooses a spouse for you. And either you or the other person will be revealed to. Ever heard of the kingdom spouse. Trust me it's very real. Especially if you are aligning with God's will.

[@amanyaleticia9969]

And this guy came to me in names of wanting to marry me but I told him we give and I told him we shall be communicating via voicecalls after a few weeks he asked for a video call when am necked..I told him but I thought this is leading to marriage and after marriage you will have me but that was the end of all this that I thought it was a relationship in the first place....so ladies let's be keen in these relationship things to avoid heartbreaks bkoz men know that we want marriage so they come the angle of promising us marriage to just use us ......thank you dear Auntie Winnie

[@eucariachooye1920]

Miss Winnie please make a shoot about how to handle distance relationship.

[@chiddyebube3136]

Winnie, all I can say is THANK YOUUUU! YOU ARE SO WISE. Love you!❤😘

[@winniesschoolofelegance]

It’s my absolute pleasure! I love you too Dear!❤️

[@daramolamary9563]

Thank you so much Winnie 🥰. I love the way you say that's a topic for another day, it helps you focus on what you are currently discussing and not diverting to something you remember or that pops up in your mind along the conversation 😂😂🎉❤. Much love 😘💕💕

[@_letsgrowtogether]

I don't know why? But I feel like I am part of your Family ❤

[@blessingosas5372]

I will have to answer this questions myself before asking someone's son.😍😌 . Thank you so much,Winnie.

[@berniceel3073]

Lol very true; the 4th question." What is your purpose in life" - the answers I've gotten by men cracks me up till date. Some get dumbfounded when you ask that question 😅 The 9th question is key; interestingly very few persons have a valid reason. Thanks to social media🤦‍♂️

[@anarfotawiahmary2885]

The 3 months rule really work

[@TioluwaladeOlolade]

I have becoma a better lady ever since I discovered this channel.

[@mirembepatricia5760]

Quick tips for free❤❤❤ Thanks love

[@winniesschoolofelegance]

It’s my absolute pleasure!❤

[@TioluwaladeOlolade]

I have becoma a better lady ever since I discovered this channel.

[@animelorrd]

You are welcome to the elegance world babe ❤🎉

[@OnuohaDeborah-g1k]

The questions are key but some will and even cry on top....

[@LuigiFlavio]

I love this channel Thanks ma🎉

[@rejoiceaghoghoighoviroro3698]

Thank you so much Winnie, your content always bless me ❤

[@graceolufisola441]

Good Job!👍 More power to your elbow, Winnie.🤗🤗

[@lovelynclara5166]

Well done for this piece Winnie. Please i have to ask... What if it's a long distance thing?

[@eleonoraivanova-kd2zb]

Very very helpful ❤ thank you!!!

[@cherish587]

Thank u Winnie for this. U're amazing

[@Kammydesigns]

Winnie❤❤❤❤❤.... I really appreciate you.... You're amazing... Thanks for sharing

[@agoiobunso]

Another great value video thank you so much sis

[@yackeishaweir1585]

Good Day Winnie, Excellent presentation ,are you able to do a presentation on age gaps the do's and don'ts for males and females in a dating relationship?. Keep up the good work.#Think elegant, Act elegant, be elegant.

[@cesarzowa]

I had fun watching this 😹😹 thanks for sharing Winnie

[@confidencechiamaka4121]

Thank you winnie❤

[@winniesschoolofelegance]

You are welcome Dear!❤️

[@confidencechiamaka4121]

@@winniesschoolofelegance Hi Winnie, I'm a young girl of 21 yrs old living in Anambra State Nigeria.My father is late,I'm left with my mum and senior brother(married)...I don't get support from my family esp financial support because they don't really have.I work but my income is low, I have a lot of responsibilities including family responsibilities...I do literally everything for myself which makes me think alot and depressed...it's too much for me, my heart is heavy..pls what should I do?

[@RachealSalilika]

😂😂😂Oya am going there with my full list of questions and a notepad for answers Just to see him run 😂

[@winniesschoolofelegance]

🤣🤣🤣

[@akuacaramel1240]

Ahhh😂😂😂

[@graceolufisola441]

🤣🤣

[@cassandraozue480]

PEARLS OF PRUDENCE.,•°❤

[@PatienceMwansa-b6f]

Thank you 🙏

[@nancykargbo869]

Thank you ma❤❤

[@winniesschoolofelegance]

It’s my absolute pleasure Dear!❤️

[@TemitayoFortune]

What about us in long distance Relationship?😅

[@winniesschoolofelegance]

Same questions apply.

[@imeldaijeoma8806]

Thank you Winnie!!

[@winniesschoolofelegance]

My absolute pleasure!❤️

[@fiinahmartin4538]

Im greatful ❤

[@susansiagborie7271]

Thank you ma’am u too intelligent 😂🙏🏼

[@enduranceotaghogho6650]

Winnie , l love you 😌♥️

[@ellablankson]

Thank you ma❤️🥰🎊# don’tdothat😂😂#

[@bouanathalie6125]

As a lady is dating a younger guy wrong?

[@estherelijah9104]

I love you so much ma

[@kulokolakevin]

Burst my bubble...Maam😂😂😂

[@winniesschoolofelegance]

🤣🤣🤣

[@adeolaadebayo4996]

🎉🎉🎉❤

[@talabimary3356]

1. Are you looking for a long term commitment that would lead to marriage or a short term just for the fun of it. What are you here for exactly 2. Tell me about your childhood. What was growing up like for you? What are your values (Trauma, childhood issues, 3. What is your relationship like with your family (a good family experience, are you family oriented 4. What is your purpose in life and what are you currently doing to achieve it 5. Is what you are doing with regards to work actually what you want to do, are you fulfilled doing what you do, on a acale of 1 to 10, how happy are you with the life you are living now 6. Why did your last relationship end and why did it end. What really happened 7. What are your fundamental and your moral values. What are the things that are most important to you that forms part of your beliefs and existence 8. What do you understand by the concept of emotioal intelligence. How do you resolve conflict, what are your emotions like when you are happy or angry 9. What does marriage mean to you and why do you want to be married 10. What is your primary love language

[@penninahmusiime2649]

Thank you winnie❤

[@Titi-wz5ve]

Winnie please make a video on how someone can find his or her purpose without been in a confused state

[@Shellz256.]

True

[@sibongilephiri4292]

powerful question and l think a book by Gary Chapman " things i wish id know before we got married ,it really helps to prepare for marriage

[@call-me-Diana]

I really enjoyed that book

[@ukponoudoh8089]

What I'm currently reading

[@chidinmmacynthiaigboko8632]

Thank you for releasing and breaking down this knowledge. I don't think anyone including illiterate won't understand. This is worth emulating Winnie ❤

[@winniesschoolofelegance]

It’s my absolute pleasure Dear!❤️

[@mondedamour4932]

I love your accent Mam Winnie 🥰🙏

[@graceolufisola441]

"Girl! You better pick yourself up, and go live your full life." is super duper delicious and just the fact.👌💯

[@peacevictorniceone791]

Thank God you tell me I will have set exam for him😂😂😂😂. Thank Winnie for sharing God bless you ❤❤❤💕

[@That_shy_rosy]

Please can you reply me... What if he came forward saying he wanted to be together till marriage but he acts all different maybe because he realized I'm not loose. Should I leave ?

[@jenifferndungu900]

So does he want to sleep with you in the name of we will be getting married.? How sure are you to know that he wants to marry you or he is just using the term marriage as a bait? Do you want to engage in sex Before marriage? If you answer yourself this question you already have an answer

[@pjchannel1285]

Winne, what’s your advice about teenagers dating say 16 years old?

[@Cynthia2421]

I love you Winnie I'm so happy to be part of this great channel

[@mondedamour4932]

i have seen these questions before but not seen someone giving better explanation to them. Thank you Madam. I have subscribe and hope to watch the next episode. Peace

[@RareDiamondCEONabil]

You are value packed, thanks for always sharing great value and personal development. I love you Winnie ❤

[@Ayomi-hallie]

400k ♥️❤️❤️❤️ Congratulations Dear Winnie ❤

[@ShekwoduzaTV]

"let him figure it out and maybe meet the next person" 🤣🤣 this got me really laughing hard. Thanks for the teachings i love you ma ❤

[@yolandaxavier5795]

These men can lie chaii🙌 thank you mam it's also important to check their actions 😊

[@ChiamakaUkachi-sk3mp]

Men are cold blooded liars😭😭😭

[@lucymalenguka]

You really are my sister from another Mother. Incredible word there!!!!

[@IradukundaVanessa-jc5sl]

Ur a such amazing coach we love you so much 💓

[@Kanji220]

Thanks for all these tips. I'm actually socially awkward and also not good at socializing, im an introvert too. Its nice to have this much insight about all the questions to ask... I never know much about what to talk about ❤

[@Grapefruit000]

My only concern with dating for 3 months before moving forward in the relationship is that there is no exclusivity, which can lead to complications. Are we both allowed to date other people during this time? If one person becomes emotionally invested but the other does not, how do you deal with that?

[@favouremmanuel9374]

Hmmm… this is a very good question. Please Winnie can you answered this?

[@jenifferndungu900]

How about we stop using this word dating and just say it's someone you are getting to know if you like him or her or not. This "dating " word is so misused

[@jenifferndungu900]

Also yes you are allowed to see other people since you aren't committed to anyone yet

[@Kamusiimephionah]

Thank you dear ...i like your content and i have learnt a lot❤💯

[@FlorenceOmolara]

Believe me, your videos are so timely

[@menyasandra811]

But if someone says they like U, but no movements for months, no spending money, what do U do

[@jessidoo123]

I so love my first time here❤😊 Very important stuffs...thanks alot Winie🙏 25:36

[@kodangmodest5327]

My sister... tell us ... I've suffered

[@oluwabamisealabi]

These questionsss Thank you so much for giving us these questions. Golden gems

[@aremuayobami6998]

Thanks for the tips ma'am ❤️ Your shirt looks so good on you🥰

[@JessicaNwaobilor]

Can I Thank you Enough? Thanks so much for this. Much ❤

[@OnyinyeFavor-fw5mz]

,yes ma he ask me he want to marry me and I just got admissions to the university n he promise me he will training me in school pls I need ur advice

[@jenifferndungu900]

What's your priority right now? Education or marriage? So if he doesn't get you through uni and you are already married to him, will you regret your options.? Will you still want to stay married? Also Ecclesiastes says there is a time for everything under the sun. It's not being a student and a wife at the same time but it's doable. Are you ready for this facts dear? All the best

[@chiomaikejemba2609]

Thank you so much Winnie, I do not regret following your channel. In fact, I personally too had to answer these questions myself. Bravo 👏

[@rejoiceaghoghoighoviroro3698]

I thought so too

[@OnuohaDeborah-g1k]

What if they faked all this or fake the most important ones, by telling you what is not true at all

[@winniesschoolofelegance]

You can always catch a person in a lie if you are paying attention and your instincts are very active. So work on developing your instincts/gut feeling and if you believe in the Holy Spirit, work on developing a better relationship with him… The Holy Spirit is the spirit of truth that guides us into all truth and even lets us know the real truth concerning all things.

[@lindainasiu3437]

Now here I am , don't even know why I want to be married 😂😂😂 yet I want to be married.

[@winniesschoolofelegance]

The irony of life!🤣🤣

[@lindainasiu3437]

😂😂 oh God help me.

[@Bridget657]

Thanks Winnie for this insight ❤

[@AbumSampson]

Thanks so much ma'am

[@CynthiaChilotam-u1s]

Thank God i discover this channel on time

[@theyoung_counselor22]

love this relationship videos.... keep it up

[@aunty_ivy9368]

Thank you Winnie♥

[@millicentchidera6811]

Thanks mama❤❤❤❤

[@rebeccaahiamadzi9203]

Thanks Winnie. Very grateful.

[@okeabimbola4398]

Thank you Winnie ❤❤❤

[@akuacaramel1240]

Thank you so much dear,God bless you 🙏

[@ImeldaUdoh]

Keep it up Winnie

[@winniesschoolofelegance]

I definitely will Dear!❤

[@Gxgfi8yStfiy]

Hi dear can you try to smarise the questions I mean making each point short coz some of us are slow Learners and I would like to save this video into my head 😅 for the future use not commanding but requesting dear thanks❤

[@amarachifrancisca6075]

I love you Winnie ❤❤❤ Keep it up ma'am

[@winniesschoolofelegance]

I love you too Darln!❤️

[@amarachifrancisca6075]

Wow Elegant Winnie replied That's beautiful, am so happy right now I did like to see you one day Thank you so much for all you do , your influence has really helped me a lot, am grateful ma

[@AbigailGmanyi]

❤❤❤❤❤🎉

[@annasteciaolumba689]

Thank you Ma for all you do for us especially me. You're a prayer answered when i was praying to God for a guidance to be a better person in life and God led me to your KZbin channel. And since then my life has changed for good and am becoming the woman i have always dream of becoming. But ma i have two questions to ask 1. What do you have to say for a man that hides his financial status to test if a woman is wife material? I mean does accepting poverty defines a woman to be a wife Material. 2. If a man is not born again and has a good quality and also a kind person that i need should i get married to him or not since i am a born again. This is my first time of commenting on your channel and am so happy for that. Thanks, I love you Ma ❤️

[@dominaferuzi3901]

Thanks you my lovely sister.Upbringing and mindset is key determinant of any relationship.if a man has scacity (victim)mindset and woman has abudance mindset it will not work not matter how you try it.

[@graceokrahkwakye6162]

Every man's love language is physical touch 🤣🤣Please don't let them use that to deceive you.!

[@Ephesians6ArmorOfGod]

May GOD bless you Winnie!🙏🏽🙌🏽 I pray you have an amazing week beautiful!🌹I truly enjoy your channel, I am a subscriber to BOTH!☺️Keep up the awesome work, you’re very wise! May GOD increase your wisdom! “Psalm 115:14”

[@winniesschoolofelegance]

Amen!! Thank you so much for being a part of our community.❤️❤️

[@Jus-tmysize]

Thank you❤

[@bridgetofodile5613]

Waah , Beautiful. Please take notes my darlings. Pray and be careful. Follow her and learn more so you don't get in the deceit. Please, please, please be careful out there to avoid all hatreds, harassment, heartbreaks divorces, lack of unconditional love, genuine love etc; the lists go on. God's blessings always ❤

[@Munah01335]

I love you, miss Winnie. Thank youuuu so much. For everything.❤

[@P-ness]

Thank you so much winnie for the many value contents you keep sharing with us. God continually bless and increase you in wisdom, knowledge and wealth. Could you please pin the link to your course on the act of speaking elegantly and eloquently. Thank you.

[@sandyfavor1203]

Gorgeous outfit ❤

[@winniesschoolofelegance]

Thank you!❤️

[@christianantiamoah4935]

Hello ma Please make a video on how to deal with long distance romantic relationship.

[@britneyt9253]

2:22 please touch more in this in a video. As a young woman, I keep getting the feeling that it would be a man that has more to offer a woman than the other way around, but I also feel like that’s not true. Please touch on this. 😅❤️

[@veronicatogbah4375]

Three month is very short Winnie I think we ladies need 5 or 6 month because the devil in man can pretend to much all in all we need God direction and wisdom in choosing the right person

[@IfyBerries]

The thing sometimes is that..some guys will want to create a different picture of how their last relationship ended just to suit them...hence not being sincere at all.

[@dorcasiyanujesu6954]

👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻You are a strong woman

[@PrudenceAnita-c1p]

Much love ma This is informative and enlightening

[@winnienester656]

"your Advice is always spot on -thank you!" winnie ❤