Episode 2 | STALKERS, FALLOUTS, AND FRIENDSHIPS. OH MY! | BEHIND THE LIKES PODCAST

[@ChyFontenette]

When we talk it’s a mixture of nerves bc we are new at this and being excited! We are learning and growing. Thank y’all for watching and growing together with us 🤍

[@natashahomestead]

I love you two have different perspectives. I just want Winter to let you finish your sentence. 😂 Great show! ❤

[@winterrrsoldier]

@@natashahomesteadumm she does they’re best friends they finish each other sentences and they both do that that’s called conversing. CHYYY y’all doing amazing I love these pods.

[@kamysmith354]

Your so pretty and chill and I love wintrr

[@gs3630]

I love this podcast

[@youfainylove]

I feel like y’all are doing real good already 🔥 keep it up ladies

[@angieg2595]

I like that chy has a different perspective than winter when it comes to romantic relationships so you get different angles.

[@WhateverLibra]

Aquarius queen. I love her

[@monae238]

Wiintrr: “Please ease up on cursing” Also Wiintrr: “Stay the FUCK away from my house!” 😂

[@jazziealexsia]

😂😂😂

[@breadams1940]

Winter don’t take this the wrong way but be aware of not over powering the conversation. Try to let the Chy finish her sentence and let her feelings out. Everyone wants to be heard so let her speak her mind (especially about y’alls breakup). I’m rooting for y’all and want you to succeed with this podcast. It’s all love so please take it as feedback.

[@Asvpmoniquee]

Shes not over powering the conversation if you don’t know her personality by now she’s just being straight to the point. Like it’s not a bad thing she just expresses herself really well and doesn’t sugar coat shit. Just saying girl 🤷‍♀️

[@DessyG99]

@@Asvpmoniqueenope, sorry! You can be straight to the point & non-sugar coating, without interrupting your friends while they’re speaking their feelings girl. She indeed overpowers the conversation. I understand it’s apart of her personality to be bold & upfront but it can also be unhealthy when it comes to relationships & friendships 🤷🏻‍♀️!

[@ashleymichelle94]

I agree ☝🏾 too 😅

[@Nicolelynn1217]

Agree. She can get her point across but you can’t keep overpowering the conversation because at that point it is no longer a conversation. I love Winter I don’t think she’s intentionally doing it but she could become aware. Constructive criticism.

[@dejasyru6750]

winterrrr let Chy finish her sentence 😅😅

[@rebelrigbee]

Chy does the exact same thing too tho! They both do. But they also know they do and I feel like they don’t mind 😅 bc they both are alike that way❤

[@notok-0]

ON GOD 😭 (dont ask why im listening to this...)

[@yassifiedtedcruz]

word of the day “broke mannerisms”

[@Veevalenzuela]

Yesss

[@curiouslymavismade]

Isn't this a PHRASE, not a word?

[@RoxanneR0xanne]

@@curiouslymavismade in church they say word of the day and read a whole scripture

[@yassifiedtedcruz]

@@curiouslymavismade same thing ho

[@sayge6894]

@@RoxanneR0xanne😂❤

[@ciaracruz6906]

I’m so happy your shedding light on your situation because men are seriously delusional. My sister Michelle Cruz was murdered by her ex who was stalking her weeks prior and ended up murdering her in front on her apartment on her way to work in February. 25, 2023. She was only 28 years old. And I know she didn’t think he would be capable of hurting her because how much he loved her. Men who are delusional and obsessed with women isn’t healthy at all. Please continue to protect yourself at all cost and for women who feel as though you don’t need a restraining order please get one! My sister was in the process of getting one and if you read her story she was failed my the police department in her area. Please ladies don’t take these men as a joke because they don’t know how to take rejection most times and they feel like if they can’t have you then no one can and that’s not fair to take a life that isn’t theirs to take.

[@antofashionbeauty]

@ciaracruz6906 so sorry for your loss🫶🏾

[@aleisha66]

sorry for your loss! I lost a fam member to murder and it hits different fr

[@pat_fussyx]

wow, she was so beautiful. i'm so sorry. 💔

[@deannailer4297]

I’m so sorry for your loss 😢❤

[@__kylie]

“Should I bring my gun and try to scare him” LMAOOO I love her

[@sierratrautman5263]

Winny you gotta let chy talk more 😂😂😂😂

[@kimberlyt3953]

I’m obsessed with this series! Yeah, if you don’t take care of your animals needs . It’s no for me. Especially if you have money

[@kirstenashleyj]

Thank you winter for shedding light on the domestic violence that goes on!!! I was so bothered when I heard about Patricia’s case.

[@Sofianova17]

It was so hard to listen to winter cut off chy constantly, I really hope she reads these comments as something to take on and not take offence to. One more episode like this and I’m going to have to tune out 😭

[@LindaAngel-u5o]

I’m so glad Winter started a podcast it seems like she has so much to say and I’m here for it 💕

[@Kaluuaah]

Friendships are soooo important ladies! Especially if they’re not toxic ones, everyone goes through their own things but don’t cut off your friends. They’re there first

[@evelynramirez1619]

My stalker just got caught after being on the run for nearly 3 yrs. I pray for your protection, some men don’t care about restraining orders 😵‍💫

[@madalyneaponte2875]

Damn winter, let her speak, always interrupting! 😂

[@nathaliapena4211]

Winter stop cutting chy off! Lol but I love this podcast for real I can’t wait for next week 🫶🏽

[@Salvievelynn]

Yes!!! Thank you for shedding light on this. I’m currently dealing with a DV case court order and the trauma behind it is unbelievable. It’s about to be 1 year since the incident happened. Its so scary 😟 please be safe all. ❤

[@brittanidavis4877]

Not the cat about to greet the stalker 🤦🏻‍♀️🤣

[@nails.x.leilani]

Something like this happened many years ago in my hometown. A 22 year old woman was murdered while she was at work by her ex who she had a restraining order against. She was a housekeeper and the man’s friend rented a hotel room under a fake name. The ex hid in the closet until she showed up to clean the room and then he brutally murdered her. It’s so sad how little coverage it got. I was 8 at the time but I still remember her story all the time .

[@seanbrown7112]

Winter doesn’t like opposing opinions any time her friend disagrees or rebuttals her winter gets annoyed and says “anyway let’s move on” this behavior will cause friction in friendships especially if your friend is also type A or has a strong personality. Winter gets defensive when her friend disagrees or challenges her position on a topic

[@miamadrid8177]

I was thinking the same thing! She also kept cutting her off mid sentence . I could honestly kind of see why her ex bestfriend said she felt like winter made her feel “small”. She over powers every conversation and it kind of seemed like she’d look at Chy funny when she had an opposing opinion and would cut her off like her opinion didn’t matter. She’s definitely a dominant personality type.

[@Unfamiliar420]

They been friends for hella years they’re good… don’t read too much into other ppls friendships esp if you don’t even know them.

[@erikagarcia1353]

Exactly I had a fallout with my ex best friend for this same reason

[@nickifann7427]

It's not that deep. You thinking abt it way too much. lmaoo.

[@teesceeo]

I love my fellow earth signs Tauruses but this is their toxic trait.

[@HoggattColbyA]

I am so in love with this podcast. I am familiar with Winter but I’m new to knowing Chy and you guys compliment each other so well! Stay beautiful ladies! Yall are so cool and mature and I love that!!!

[@chikeepi17]

Felt like the whole video was winter cutting off Chy. I definitely wanted to hear more of what she had to say without getting interrupted every single time.

[@jennifermayoral7625]

I would have loved to hear what chy had to say, she sounds so genuine & intelligent , please let chy talk & try not to cut her off as much winter ❤ much love to both baddies

[@lovetoday..]

I’m loving the podcast! I hope you do more about what women deal with on the daily and not so much influencer stuff only because probably about 2% of your audience will be able to relate but everything else you talk about has been so relatable!!! Can’t wait for the next episode.

[@thodges326]

this is a real ass friendship when you can have different point of views and agree to disagreements love to see it 🥰💕

[@krystal9375]

Not Chy at 55:05 saying your friends are detrimental to your livelihood and life. Lmao I think you meant instrumental girl. Love the pod ladies. Looking forward to more!❤

[@lisajayne4425]

Winter, please note that anyone who believes they are 'God' and have an obsession with you is nothing to play with, please take this VERY serious. Stay Safe and don't let your guard down at all with this unwell individual.

[@MichelleRamirez-wp9qp]

I really love that you are very honest about this whole stalker situation winter! And bestie fall outs I’m soo happy that you guys talked about this! A lot of best friends have a hard time talking about this! I love that we can normalize this to a certain extent! I love how y’all talk about it’s not normal to fight friends and it’s not normal to lay hands on people!! Love this podcast I’m ready for the next one❤

[@BB1990x]

Giiirl the pipeline from spiritual to psychotic is a quick trip

[@Crazy4Cristina]

No frrrr

[@Crazy4Cristina]

It’s delusional

[@Toematetoe95]

I love y’all’s friendship. You complement each other

[@ItsNicckster]

46:05 *i’m crying. not the nose punch for some cheese being thrown* ☠️☠️😭

[@gabbybabie94]

Chy said it happens to the best of us, i done had a man grab his toothbrush and his PS2 & try to move in 💀🤣🤣😭

[@angeloropeza2818]

You have lowkey given me something to look forward to! Thank you, ladies!

[@jxcl-8401]

winterrrrr we want you to talk more about spirituality, dig a little deeper and give some advice to those just getting started on their spiritual journey♥️♥️♥️

[@monae238]

All jokes aside, y’all really are two well spoken women. Can’t wait for next week 🩷

[@amarielosesit7846]

My husband taught me to keep self defense rounds in your *pew* for every day protection.. use practice rounds for target shooting. That way you'll always have your regular self defense rounds in your magazine. I pray you never have to use it. But that man was dangerous and don't think a piece of paper will stop him, it just further protects you legally. Stay on alert ⚠️ I'm enjoying the pods each week. Nice job ladies.

[@kyliemarie5133]

Love listening to y’all talk, you two are absolutely hilarious. 😭💕 Small tip: focus on listening to chy and let her finish her thoughts.

[@eltha8]

the blue notebook thing got me screaming😭😭😭😭😭😭, and the winter tryna take a picture & he says not to .. bro i cannot

[@Ninetalesnails]

"my sister punched me in the nose because I threw a piece of cheese at her" lmfaoooo I once slapped my sister in the face with a tortilla 😂 sisters have goofy ass fights

[@kimpossible8822]

Please don’t stop this podcast I done found my new favorite podcast

[@AmandaBrown-t6k]

That wasn’t women intuition it was God giving u that thought ❤️love ya !!

[@marinag2370]

Chy I don’t think you’re “fair weather” I just think if it’s not that serious then you don’t pay any mind to it. People’s actions/behaviors don’t affect you easily & that’s a great quality to have.

[@butterflyyprincess]

Yasss pls talk more about friendships!!! Friendships 30 and up is so different than your 20s

[@sophil383]

Y’all don’t even understand how exciteddddd I got to see you drop a new episode

[@natty_xo6200]

I’m a Taurus too and when I blow up everyone says I’m crazy 🙄 girl I’ve been holding it in all this time !!

[@keilasdiary]

I don’t usually comment but wow!! These are too good. I’m so proud of your growth Winter. I enjoy listening to you both.

[@zoemadison6315]

You two are GLOWING in this!!

[@caralinebennett4652]

I literally love this podcast sooooo much please take the negative comments with a grain of salt because you can tell how authentic you guys are being anything different will just change that. Me and my friends are the same way with talking over each other and getting loud. Its because we are so into the conversation and both trying to get our points heard its nothing intentional or malicious!! I seriously never leave comments on videos im not that type of person but please keep the realness of it all

[@carolynmarin1907]

I’m chy! This is too good. Always a fan of winter’s content. Routing for you ladies

[@legume2316]

The first podcast I’ve binged every episode 😍

[@devaughn2010]

I’ve genuinely enjoyed these First two episodes ❤ Can’t wait for Next episode 🎉

[@gugucastro3796]

Omfg u gave me the chills tell ur stalker story cuz I had a stalker and shit is no joke it gets real creepy and scary but I don’t live alone anymore thank god..the fact that u live alone makes me scared for u..I hope he gets what he deserves ! Thank god ur okay and keep shedding light to these kinds of situations ?

[@breadams1940]

I had to pause to comment this. I strongly urge you guys to debrief after each podcast so that you can discuss how you’re feeling. I really want y’all to last and I think it would be great to let each other voice your feelings and be heard like really heard (in private).

[@csjune2542]

This is not funny, but when Winter did that smile....I was dead!

[@queida4real]

Lol winter please let her talk

[@mariahswt]

That stalker has schizophrenia and totally delusional. Better always keep your eyes open. Problem with restraining orders is usually the people u need them for don’t care about them.

[@Therealpaolaa777]

Y’all are really killing it, I love your friendship and how inspiring you both truly are 🩷🔥

[@akiyatiffany]

Winter has to realize people are going by what she has shown people when they judge her. That simple lol.

[@rhyst124]

There's still tension - but we love Chy for her, and the drama it brings. Now, where's Queen Milly. (or have they fallen out? I can't keep up)

[@evelynherrera5227]

Chi is so me when it comes to putting off conversations 😂😂

[@ggvlogs7777]

I felt that DONT PULL UP TO MY HOUSE part 😂

[@beautylesson5534]

Me and my friend be watching this and having conversations 😂

[@YoungRheubottom]

I fell out with a friend over her secretly feeling of type of way about me and her expecting me to be a mind reader. The issue was that I was always comfortable telling her how I felt about something but she was the exact opposite and it all came to a head.

[@shirkerashirkera9057]

Same , I cut her off bcus she held it in and then blurted it out during an argument like girl if you felt a way for 2 years knowing how I’m a blatantly honest person then I can’t rock w you cus you was being fake the whole time

[@latiihoneyy]

I loveeee how y’all have different opinions and aren’t just “yes” women.

[@babygirly217]

winter i remember that roommate!! omg it’s crazy y’all ended up scrapping like that i always wondered what happened 😭

[@makeuploverest14]

"If I have to fight you, your are dead to me!" I will NEVER be friends again with someone that I had to physically fight.

[@jmireles4665]

Love this episode!!! Podcast that we needed! Momma roach just try to stop over talking Chy😂😂 but please hurry up with the next episode 😅❤

[@lakemontalvo9066]

Currently listening to this in the car with my sister! We started at the latest episode yall just posted. It’s crazy cuz it’s pride month now and this was filmed pride month. And Father’s Day this weekend! We love you!

[@Crazy4Cristina]

Winter has grown look at her on bgc every sentence was ME I MY ME I MY ME I MY! She isn’t so self serving but yes she’s dominant in a convo

[@Whereyoubelongg]

When your friend introduced herself I thought she said "hi, i'm shy" lmao i was like aw girl don't worry boo loosen up

[@tsunamimami1]

So happy y’all started this podcast! Love the banter and side stories yall keep me laughing hard af while I’m getting work done! Plz keep them coming and keep them long! I need more long form content on yt!

[@marielarene7505]

Winter got a point, you can’t expect things from ANYONE. whether good or bad

[@angienicole4416]

This was so entertaining! I have been at the gym all day laughing like a crazy person 😂

[@love4bunnii]

Same 😂

[@Jennifer-hc9rx]

Started talking to my best friend from high school after 17 years after falling out with her.

[@BriRabbit]

Even tho winter says she doesn’t like friendships were it’s always a rebuttal….it seems like chy can’t have her own opinions or values without winter challenging it. It’s like she does the very things she doesn’t like her friends to do to her. And SIDENOTE I like winter. Just something I notice through this podcast. But I’m happy that chy still stands 10 toes on how she feels. Winter feels like friendship is top priority, but i totally get where chy is coming from. Your relationship is also important, especially if you are in a GOOD healthy relationship worth keeping. I think that’s harder for winter to see because she hasn’t experienced a healthy mature honest super loving relationship from these men. But let chy have a voice, and opinion. Let he Atleast finish a sentence. Once y’all get these kinks out, this podcast will be bomb.

[@biancas9917]

Whew, I relate with you about the situation with the friend of 10 years you had to cut off. I just cut off my friend of 11 years having an affair with the guy I was seeing. I literally vented to her about him and our problems and apparently she was telling him lies about me. Their true colors really come out in the end. Ty for your podcasts it’s SO relatable! I’m excited to catch up with the new podcasts 💕💕✨

[@Astarborn98]

I love the conversation you and Chy had about friendships and feeling the difference between a friendship is worth holding onto and one that’s not. I kind of had the same issue but now I have more clarity on the situation. Love y’all vibe❤

[@sbcroon]

Chy is me! The 1st red flag would be the notebook for me. Aquarius’ be skeptical of everyone lol

[@Sarah-ic2ce]

Great job another great episode. Thank you for the advice about stalkers because it could get crazy. Thank you for sharing. Love you both together. Learning a lot about yall. Blessings and thanks for sharing.

[@Eli-yp9rs]

winter we want to hear more of chy tooo let that woman speak please

[@KoiBabyyy]

Reading the comments & a lot of people agree Winter doesn’t let Chy talk.. which is crazy because Danni said Winter doesn’t like sharing the spot light.. & it’s apparent in this.. Danni tried to tell us years ago…

[@ShelseyG]

literally been waiting on this all day lmao, loveee this podcast💗

[@brooke9344]

This gives me hope that I can find a best friend at 24 y/o 🤧

[@jennifergarcia5667]

I love this podcast ❤ Just one note please let shy talk I love your personality both of y’all’s, just wanna hear her without you cutting her off. 😊

[@CedesJ-]

Definitely a fan of this podcast.. I especially love the friendship segment of this podcast.. It takes mature, adult people who understand boundaries to actually have a long lasting and meaningful friendship.. #BehindTheLikes is my new favorite podcast..❤❤

[@tisht4738]

“Did you fuck a homeless man” toook me tf out 😂😂😂😂

[@p.anahi8]

I’m obsessed with this podcast. Winter has been my favorite person on this earth for to long! Her and chy are literal friendship goals

[@tiffanyalvarez7455]

Love this podcast winter! Definitely happy y’all made this cause the stuff y’all be saying be really interesting

[@crystalcontreras5113]

I love this and you both. But winter don’t talk over Chy or talk louder to talk over Let the girl talk. Lov

[@Luv.Damoni]

chy is an aquarius ??! no wonder im addicted to this podcast 😂💟

[@Mitcheymitchhh]

I know it’s only episode 2 but the topics that you guys keeps touching on our very much on point!

[@alyssasanchez878]

Glad you’re speaking on this because it’s very scary and I had a very similar situation to yours unfortunately :( I hope you’re okay! Love the pods🩷

[@2023florida]

Love this! You girls are a natural 💕💕 can’t wait for more

[@K.Moneice]

This was such a good episode 💕 that jealous friend is so real, I’m experiencing all of this right now man, it’s so shitty but revealing.

[@dianabedaname]

Aww, look at Winter and her growth ✨

[@Riverilse]

I was listening on spotify when the notification to youtube came and i ran over here. I love seeing their facial expressions

[@ShiraJade]

You can really tell y’all are growing as women together within the friendship and learning how to be better friends to each other ❤

[@mylagomez6958]

Winter you and chy so beautiful ❤️ really enjoy this !!! Can’t wait for the next one 🫶🏽

[@barbzminaj-uj1ks]

It’s the mom commentary for me 🤣🤣 Naw frfr them bums/con artist be crafty & clever AF