“My praying wife slapped me several times because she had emotional problems” -Pastor Olumide

[@whalley723]

"The treatment for emotional wounds is not prayer and fasting" profound wisdom. This is pure facts.

[@ancientwisdom-ty4nb]

I disagree. western culture is too much in your ears. How many people back then talked about emotional wounds. People like Joseph who was betrayed by his own brothers into slavery did not complain of emotional problem and use it as an excuse to sleep with Potiphar's wife??? we play too much with sin and excuses. Depression can never make u sin unless u want to sin. people ar to vain.

[@whalley723]

@ancientwisdom-ty4nb did you listen to the podcast? Or you just read my comment out of context and just decided to respond? Cos if you read my comment I didn't say solution to depression is sinning... 😓

[@heavychic100]

I have listened to a couple of clips from him regarding his bad experience in marriage. I sympathize with him. A bad partner can make your life a misery but to be fair judges we also need to hear from the wife before we conclude that she was the sole bad partner. There are always 2 sides to a story.

[@IfunanyaNweke-p6n]

If you watched the interview with pastor Kingsley, he said he also had his own fault. This man obviously battled with emotional abuse

[@chikeezeagu8054]

He is not answerable to you so you believe him or keep your gossiping

[@heavychic100]

@@chikeezeagu8054 Same here I’m not answerable to u either. I don’t have to take permission from u before I express myself through my comment. You are showing how controlling u are. Just Waka pass ! As long as he brings his matter to social media, we will comment.

[@abdulark2514]

God bless u for ur insight. Let's hear from the wife too plz

[@bishopmed]

Men typically endure/suffer in silence. Unfortunately, when a man tells you he was abused, you want to hear the wife’s side before you make a decision, But if the reverse were the case, you believe her story instantly. 😢😢

[@adeojofunmilolaesther2112]

I really hope chude can have a chat with his wife ... Then we will really learn

[@temitopeadewale8929]

I think at this point, the wife should also come out and say her own version.

[@ancientwisdom-ty4nb]

U mean the ex wife? Listen, everyone is right in their own eyes. I do not care for anyone's version because only God knows the heart and usually the one best able to present their case and is more likeable wins before men. But God sees differently. Therefore go mind yours and be humble before thine master and head, your husband as the bible says explicitly.

[@beebee_0136]

Would you have said this if it was the woman who was being interviewed and was saying her "truth"? Just asking...

[@ARTROTV]

I remember my late uncle, a professor of psychiatry, once made a comment that 90% of people rushing to Redeemed Camp every month just needed psychotherapy, they didn't have spiritual problems, I guess he was right after all, God rest his soul!

[@somethinginteresting8151]

Did he asses 90% of the ppl rushing to Redeem?

[@onomeonota23]

@@somethinginteresting8151 From one’s comment you can tell his level of intelligence. You are sharp!

[@emmanuelginikanwa283]

Yes, your uncle was absolutely right.

[@Okeezy-v7g]

Yep. Most of our problems are psychological

[@Bob_Ugee]

It's the same thing I have always tell people. Your uncle was right and being a trained Psychiatrist, he's on point.

[@florenceflourish6367]

Please Chude ,invite the wife to come and say her own. We have to be balanced. I love listening to Pastor Emmanuel, I never knew he was going through alot. It is well.

[@victornwachukwu527]

When it was Victoria Iyama's story, y'all frowned at pple asking to hear the husband's side of the story....But now you want to hear the wife's side of this story.....You all are fucking hypocrites and should be mentally evaluated.....Always pushing double standards

[@usifohenry1694]

No one is perfect... There's perfect couples anywhere in the world 🌍. We learn and in marriage we unlearn to learn over again.

[@DrLEMICHAELS]

No matter what people say, balance your stories. No the woman is quiet. Don’t let her talk. We should be cautious. May God help us. May we not get into marriage with wrong motives

[@theladyfemi]

I wonder what his wife will have to say

[@BeryNjomen]

Dr.Olumide your a bank of knowledge

[@EhizGadgets-iu2fg]

Biggest bank ❤

[@umadumawangempela6098]

Marriage is not just a bed of roses ooo it's roses and thorns

[@marvellous2010]

The woman has stories as well if you ask her, this is just a mismatch marriage that doesn't go well just like any fail relationships.

[@oludashesamuel2850]

This is enlightening

[@francisbajis101]

Thank you very much for the insights❤ I'll be here somedays

[@sporteditionpodcast]

The word is TRUTH!!!!

[@sofelaesther1533]

Hmmm,am still under shock of all have hearing.

[@faithspurpose8039]

Why is there no example of an ex-spouse in the new testament... could this be because hardness of heart is not the exception?

[@addyfam1454]

You are remarried sir, the previous marriage ended decades ago. This should be over.

[@WahalaNoDeyFinishTV]

thank God someones sees through the smokes & illusion

[@popoolaoyindamola3721]

Why? Does it mean he wasn’t traumatized? Please let him speak his truth

[@dhandy4359]

Trauma and its effects messes with you and stick with you forever. It affects your perception about life and people, and how you react to them. It's simply miserable, you won't understand.

[@mikolowiskamikolowiska4993]

So he should let other ppl make the same mistake?

[@MwaleWaGitau]

Yes it is over however he is who he is today because of what he has gone through. Your past trauma or pain should never be buried and ignored. You will never heal like that. You have to treat emotional wounds. Part of therapy is talking about it. Processing it and learning from it.

[@ao4514]

To have any lady slapping her husband in marriage is just wrong. Some of our women just need to calm down a bit by understanding the concept of brokeness!

[@topelamiditope4584]

Does that mean you are a saint. No error from you sir?

[@MideBarmiJay]

If you listen to the full story on his page He said she might come out and say her side but this is his own side of story. But from what we have heard from him. He tried!!! Staying for over 10 years.

[@yasminharun6642]

Regardless of what might have happened between you and your ex. You should have kept in touch with your children. I don't know about now but I know as of the 2006 , she was in Nigeria and perhaps may still be in Nigeria. Sir, you had no excuse not to see your children, I believe that's why they haven't reached out to you. You should search yourself as well. This should be a lesson to all father's that believe the kids would look for you when they are grown and hence neglect their responsibilities.

[@ezesam12]

It's obvious you didn't watch the videos (part 1 -3), that's why he said you should go to his KZbin channel to watch them. After you watch them, come and drop this comment again.

[@olaajala8962]

Pls listen to his other videos. The 1st wife left the country with the children. Once a Narcissist, almost always a narcissist

[@IamGodSon]

At this stage, he still hasn't made the necessary efforts to reconnect with his kids? He is a multi-millionaire and thus has the resources to search for them. This doesn't sit very well with the man, it appears he is superficial in the relationship aspects.

[@UntoJesus-Saviour]

His older kids are over 20yrs now. They will recognise him due to his popularity but he won't. Can't they just connect to him, if they really wanted to? What's the point in looking for someone who isn't lost? How does they "hiding" in plain sight make him the superficial one?

[@IamGodSon]

@@UntoJesus-Saviour why will they seek him out after they have been brainwashed to think a certain way about him. His disinterest in actively searching for them says alot.

[@WahalaNoDeyFinishTV]

if i was child i will never look for him because regardless of what a mother tells her children, the father personal effort to be/connect or not to connect with his children can never be ignored. only fools will buy all of his story. after many years his guilt is still punishing him allegedly.

[@WahalaNoDeyFinishTV]

@iamGodson if i was child i will never look for him because regardless of what a mother tells her children, the father personal effort to be/connect or not to connect with his children can never be ignored. only fools will buy all of his story. after many years his guilt is still punishing him allegedly.

[@WahalaNoDeyFinishTV]

@@UntoJesus-Saviour totally

[@maziochendu5258]

Hmmmm... Sora fun Obinrin

[@adewolessamuel]

Oluwa a wa pelu e

[@Toluleke]

lmaoooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@onomeonota23]

I disagree with Pastor Olumide on his interpretation of what Jesus said about divorce. How can Jesus mean that anyone that ‘put her away’ without certificate of divorce and then goes to marry another is guilty of adultery when they were allowed to marry more than one wife? I will listen to more of his teaching on the subject to get a better context and then make a conclusion.

[@kimerlyakorah9651]

Becos they married second wives doesn’t mean It was right or God accepted it

[@onomeonota23]

@@kimerlyakorah9651 I never meant or inferred it was right or wrong or that God accepted it.

[@pdm8446]

I haven’t listened to this clip but we know people interpret the Bible to suit themselves.

[@onomeonota23]

@@pdm8446 many people want to interpret the Bible based on their FEELINGS. That is wrong and dangerous. One of my pastors asked me to imagine one of my children being gay. He said, how would you feel about it. Perhaps you will struggle with what the scripture says about homosexuality. My response was, I will be troubled by it but it doesn’t change what the scripture says about it. Many people want to change the scripture to suit their situation. My relationship isn’t where I want it to be but it doesn’t change what Jesus said about divorce.

[@tiffanyamadin6900]

@@onomeonota23 There is no where in the Bible that God says we are allowed to marry more than one wife. People like Abraham for example did it but God never permitted it and look where it got him. Marrying Hagar led to the Islamic religion that is causing problems today. Look at what happened when Jacob married Leah and Rachel, another set of problems. If you read the Bible to understand, you’ll start to grasp the nature of God. He allows things to happen even if that is not his will for us. Pastor Olumide said it in this video not to use selective interpretation for the Bible. There are other scriptures that say 1 man to 1 woman. Watch his other videos, he explains it

[@Carol-yl5wm]

A father that hasn’t seen his kids for years but always going up and down giving motivational speeches and telling us how his wife harmed him? Na because u get audience to swallow your nonsense. Your children are innocent and u abandoned them because of how it turned out with your wife? A wicked soul

[@WahalaNoDeyFinishTV]

This man seems to have a problem with pride, and should pls leave the first wife alone, she is no longer in your life. pls stop disturbing her peace. to locate your children in USA is not hard but you don't want to find them. only God knows why he is not focusing on his current wife. yeye dey smell allegedly.

[@ancientwisdom-ty4nb]

thanks for sharing but: no amount of learning can prevent any man or woman from going through the consequence of their actions. There is too much fornication, adultery, carelessness, arrogance, materialism, cultural and family interference for Christian marriages to be pure. And if what influences the world influences you, be prepared for the fate of the worldly to befall u. God's grace is not to bless u despite your worldliness. it is t remove you from worldliness so u can abide where the blessing is. Especially in Naij@...how many women who LOVE Jesus today would have married the poor homeless Jesus of back then? easy to love him now he is risen. But try lose weight for health reasons. demons follow many "Christians" due to unreported sins and lack of deliverance and after deliverance they befall into worse demons. God help this generation, they play too much with evil.

[@akomolafeolumide2323]

I Love Daddy Olumide Emmanuel but the truth as outlined through scripture is that God doesn't support divorce and it's a sin. I can understand the different situations people go through but in using the bible as a reference, the cases for divorce are spelt out and the posture to take after divorce are also spelt out by Apostle Paul

[@Lucifer_Kamado]

I came from chrome

[@dhiddy7936]

I concur with him on the divorce issue….Christ accepted divorce in the New Testament on grounds of adulatory, abuse and the likes…..except that, there are no grounds for divorce.Matt 19

[@br_josh]

The best place to find whatever you need is in the 'market' for that item. Where, then, do you think is best for finding a suitable partner for wedlock? There's a useful link in the description section of my account here. Share the glad tiding with your circle. God loves you more.

[@mmastephen8772]

Hmmm, interesting ☹️

[@flawlesscae]

Hmmmm

[@dirialbert7062]

But if you have remarried and you are so so wonderfully happy then what l still dont understand is why this continous crusade about you past marriage of how many many years ago? So much focus on her and where then is the so called christ love? I mean if she did all those horrible unforgivable things ( maybe God sef no gree forgive the Woman too) and God who loves you far better was able to save you from her and you had a lucky escape then please l am eager to know why still talking about her? This is about the third platform now ( am sure there is probably more) of the same ex-wife. I wonder how does your ex-in laws feel about this continual talk shows about their daughter, sister, Auntie, etc and your present inlaws feel? and of course the present wife?. Sir move on leave the past since it is God that told you to remarry then focus on your present wife and children that He gave you as replacement. You are stirring and putting anger, resentment and bitterness in the hearts of thousands and thousands of people towards her a person they dont even know but who they have been hearing you speak about this your psycho ex-wife. God help us all. There will be a lot of surprises in this Heaven wey una no let us rest. Please l come in Peace make una no come at me O😂

[@timesofrefreshing.247]

My sister, you are very wise. I wander why this man keeps going on and on about his ex-wife. We don tire. This is not fair

[@timesofrefreshing.247]

The Bible said Joseph when he realised that Mary was pregnant with a child, even though he was betrothed to her, sought to put her away Quietly. The word is Quiet. Why all this noise about your ex- wife. We don’t want to hear about it.

[@shadebeckybabalola6836]

Please invite this man wife and lets hear from her too.

[@iheomanwakpadolu2576]

Oga, go find your children.. your wife don carry taya... obviously, including carrying your BS.

[@EE-px3me]

I won't subscribe because your videos are never full.

[@ejuet4318]

😂😂😅

[@olufemiolufemi9749]

I am disappointed in Olumide , the woman you came public to talk about was once your wife , respect ,love, care ,adultescent would had made you be quiet . it is time you become the big one in this regard quit talking about your ex. it doesn't help .

[@benlandkonsult.]

Shutup and learn, his saving the young generation please

[@ibaileibaomo7660]

Am sure if it was the woman talking you would have seen it differently. You would have been saying the wife is healing by speaking up. You guys double standard is always hilarious.😂

[@rachelbature7126]

Sometimes it is good to tell your story all by yourself while you are still alive

[@d2c7180]

So people should be quite about their past life

[@olufemiolufemi9749]

@@d2c7180 it is best when u are quiet ,especially when you are the man

[@blessed_one_]

Oga you have bad-mouthed your ex wife enough. We've not heard her side of the story. Please move on, now that you are remarried.

[@b.elijahakinola8819]

You're seriously funny with this comment. Obviously you never listen through all the piece of information he made mention about his ex wife

[@blessed_one_]

@@b.elijahakinola8819 the danger of a single story. I've listened to his versions on other platforms. He should rest and enjoy his life with his current family.

[@MideBarmiJay]

He is a public figure, and people would want to know more. So Let him share his story He has one let him share.

[@blessed_one_]

@@MideBarmiJay ok o, let him continue talking from now till eternity on every platform

[@blessed_one_]

@@b.elijahakinola8819 nothing funny here. It's tiring hearing him rehash the same story on different sites. He should know when it's enough.

[@theresakola6562]

always talking like he has no fault

[@michaelwhite8768]

I bet you wouldn't say this if this is a woman speaking

[@theresakola6562]

@@michaelwhite8768 and u know this how?

[@Jeff-qw2de]

I know of a man whose wife was mentally unstable and was turtoring him and making life unbearable. He tried leaving many times, but when they all finally admitted that the wife needs psychological care, thing got better. While I think he may not be faultless, I believe him

[@famousemmanuel5531]

What could he have done that would warrant her to physical assault him? She obviously the problem.