Things NOT To Do After A Breakup |10 Things You Should STOP Doing If You Want Your Ex Back

[@rubieb8618]

1. Stop living in the past 2. Stop continuously apologizing for your mistakes 3. Stop trying to understand constantly what your ex is thinking and doing 4. Stop comparing your exes behavior after the break up with the time when you were together during the relationship 5. Stop comparing the potential of what your relationship could have been, instead focus of what it was 6. Stop letting other people dictate how you feel about your ex 7. Stop letting your self worth be determined by the attention or validation received from your ex 8. Stop making excuses and work on becoming a better you 9. Stop being afraid of moving forward with your life in the fear of losing your ex 10. Stop thinking that you need your ex to be happy

[@LoveAdviceTVCommunity]

Thank you for the summary :) - Adrian

[@RadicalJae]

Yes!

[@rishiswami2847]

Thankyou very much

[@jasmines72]

God thanks for this video. My ex broke up with me because he couldn't deal with my past and being a victim of abuse. I tried so hard to forget my past to please him but i just couldn't. I'm now in therapy working on myself

[@jakelenz8354]

I've been doing almost everything on this list for 6 months as we still live together. I kept thinking the longer I stayed the better chance I would have to show her my true feelings. I am moving out in a week because I feel like at this point I have expressed everything. She is the woman I want to marry. We were together for 4 years. I am finally in a position with my new job and time to move out and give her the space I should have from the start instead of over doing the love after being neglectful during the relationship. I know if God wants us to be together we will be.

[@mikefr12]

Great list coach Adrian. After 12+ months of self-development you made it clear that I am still stuck on not moving on. Afraid to forget about the relationship and her. Thanks for the reminder!

[@williamsmx1579]

Been with my ex girlfriend 10 years we have a little a girl together she's 4. I havent seen my ex for 2 weeks. First week I drove myself insane crazy anxiety mad depression. Constantly sending texts and calling. I know were the problems lie in the relationship. Found this channel 3 days ago. Adrian's showing me the way.

[@happygirl1641]

So much knowledge Coach Adrian. “Making the best of the breakup”. Makes total sense.

[@sharonwilkins5034]

This is the best advice Ive ever seen in all the self help videos thank you 🙏! Remember guys these things wont be easy and know we all should dig deep inside ourselves and really pull out our flaws and do some serious self repair i have done some serious soul searching and self help research and honestly finally 4 years later yes four years later i am completely over my ex husband i have worked on self worth self love and boundaries . My journey has been hard and im still working on me i think we should never give up on ourselves and continuously work on being better for ourselves not for others then we can be our better selves for the ones we love in our lives good luck and never give up on yourself

[@aparnaaggarwal6530]

Thank you so much for this video coach. It felt personal and relatable on so many levels. I've been doing these mistakes since my breakup 2 months ago. Thank you for throwing a life jacket at me!

[@austingardner8967]

I’m really glad I found this. Sometimes you just have to hear what you already know for it to really smack you

[@mandyxox8385]

Please could you do a video on mutual separation and how to either move forward from them when you both still love each other or how to get back together. I have not seen this topic covered.

[@frankl7370]

Yes! Same boat here

[@patriciawilliams2622]

Yes..its scary to let go of having been so dependent on a feeling, and that there could actually be happiness beyond someone which could mean having to let them go..

[@speedyb5434]

Your video has been very inspiration but moving on when you know there may be no chance of reconciliation is very very difficult.

[@garretthelmick6431]

This may have been the most impactful and applicable video that I’ve seen. Thank you Coach Adrian.

[@HitmakerSammy]

Just wanted to say you and your fellow coaches are a godsend ! Thank you for all of the advise self help and motivation.🙂🙂🙂 ive been dealing with a break up after 5 years ... it has not been easy and these videos bring clarity to everything im going through.

[@MissMarjorie]

Thank you for these. I'm looking forward to the new me I'm becoming and people have already noticed the difference!

[@JayWGU]

Watched this video several times because the info in this video alone has hit so many factors that have occurred during my breakup. Wish I knew this before I made all the mistakes a rookie makes. I hope I retain the wisdom dropped in this video and from the rest of the videos you have made. Thanks coach for all the videos you have made, keep doing what your doing, you have helped a lot.

[@LoveAdviceTVCommunity]

Thank you so much for your vote of confidence, Jay. Don't beat yourself up over the mistakes you've made already. Be grateful that you now know you won't commit those mistakes again! - Adrian

[@JayWGU]

Love Advice TV Each day is a trial and I’m thankful that I’ve come across this channel to equip me with the tools to deal with it. However, I feel that 1 on 1 coaching would really benefit me, but unfortunately just graduated university and currently looking for part time work. I’ve seen you mention that sometimes you do deals or have reduced fee sessions. Is that still an option? I am working towards saving up, however I don’t have any financial support so it may take me some time. Once again thank you for all you do.

[@marysieglindcapellan3598]

This video is so helpful 🙏🏻 thank you so much Coach Adrian

[@LoveAdviceTVCommunity]

You're very welcome! - Adrian

[@kabirverma9940]

Point no.9 is so hurtful to know but have to accept

[@suir1828]

Adrian that was your best Video ever, Greetings from Europe !

[@prettydoll3778]

I salute you man! You are the light of our life in the bad time of our life👏

[@kanicaable]

Please do a video on "my ex said we are not compatible and we can't be happy together."

[@gwenwhite1520]

Thank you again coach Adrian! Wow, this is the mindset, difficult, yet no doubt, healthiest! Love to each and every one of you coaches. So grateful for your truths, authentic hearts and souls.

[@vickismith5752]

My ex and I was together for 9 years.I broke up and I didn't meant it and now henot answering he phone he phone. Me being selfish. Are we over for good.

[@mzeye]

Who wants their ex back who left them for someone else. Work on yourself and move forward. Maybe yall could be friends in the future..the end.

[@redline350zHR]

Amen

[@lathamrowe]

Gotta identify mistakes but not let yourself get lost in them. Just my 2 cents on this subject. Personal development requires a level of awareness of the things you may have done to contribute to the break up, but it's about solutions. It's about getting yourself right with you. For you. At the end of the day it's an opportunity to genuinely improve in every area you can. My break up and divorce was a wake up call. So many things I did wrong during and immediately after. But it wasn't a one way street and I don't think it ever is. If you're beating yourself up at the beginning that's probably normal, but who you are and where you want to be is not defined by your mistakes. You're always in the driver seat of your own confidence, drive and progress. Inner peace about the break up itself I believe comes in time. Accept what you can't control. Work on what you can.

[@LoveAdviceTVCommunity]

Beautifully said, REXEL BRAM :) Thank you! - Adrian

[@schuylerwednesday4679]

I really need to hear this again to remind myself I still have worth and I always have after being pathetic.my ldr ex broke up with me almost two months ago.we are using only one app and he is burned out by everything and numbed himself so I don't even know if I'll ever see him.I already know he will not come here like he always did for the past 6 years.we still talk but of course there is a huge change.i just found out I have a heart problem and I didn't get the same response like he did before.now it's time for me not to give a damn about him and really focus on myself.

[@schuylerwednesday4679]

@@LoveAdviceTVCommunity thank you for this.I really need to remind myself to do these to be a better version of myself whether he sees or will see it or not.I didn't take the ldr breakup well plus I just found out I have a heart problem. The universe is finally screaming at me to focus on myself despite what happened with this breakup and my mistakes throughout the relationship. I am not defined by my mistakes. I already recognized what i did wrong,apologized and took accountability for it.If he can't see even a little bit of my good qualities then he's a person who can't see the goodness in things.I don't want to be a part of that.

[@lathamrowe]

@@schuylerwednesday4679 2 months is still a very short time. Not many people can detach that quickly. So it's understandable you would still very much value how they look at you, even if you know what you need to do. It'll happen when it happens and the heart and mind isn't easy to force or fool. So right now, I'd say just keep working on your personal goals and put yourself first. Stay off the radar and keep up that evolution. Give yourself time to genuinely evolve and your ex time to themselves as well. Contact them again when you're 100% again. That speaks louder than anything else. And if your ex still doesn't react how you would have preferred them to, you'll be less invested in that and more attune to if they have changed as well. Just my opinion here. But 2 months is fresh.

[@healthylivingbylucymugwere3938]

I like what you say maintain your dignity despite the feeling to over apologise Also focus on you not your x

[@healthylivingbylucymugwere3938]

Hello, warm greetings from Lucy in Kenya

[@linealjr07]

I’m so grateful I was able to listen to you Coach Adrian. This video was very impactful and encouraging.

[@LoveAdviceTVCommunity]

Thank you for your kind words, Sean! Coach Adrian

[@sarasaray4072]

i broke up with my boyfriend 6 days ago and i started no contact from the first day , today i found out that i am pregnant what should i do ?

[@alysehiltbrunner7184]

Today I am watching this again to help me move forward.. for me its very hard to not keep reading his text over and over and trying to read into what he is saying.... or trying to remember what he meant in our last conversation. I decided in order for me to be free, moving forward, becoming better, I must let go. Otherwise reading it just keeps triggering those emotions and its like reliving the breakup all over again. No more

[@Annanhunny]

Wow u have said everything I needed to hear. We were together for 3yrs and it started going down hill 6mo ago. We just got back together 2 weeks ago and I couldn't stop comparing what was to what is. It drove me crazy. Just like u said i didn't recognize her anymore. She made a ton of new friends and i was not a main priority anymore. She kept yelling at me to stop stressing the fact that we don't live together and she dsnt want to unless she sees that ive changed. She also was so tired of my nagging and pleading and comparisons of the past times. I tried so hard to start fresh but in all honesty i failed cuz she broke up with me again. Honestly this time around I accepted it and i accepted the fact that its so different but i also learned that i can't work with these differences. Its too painful and i'm too in love with her still. I can't keep seeing her knowing that she's ok without me and i'm not. I can't see her and see her phone going off all the time and her living a life without me. Her seeing me on her terms etc. She just kept saying i'll open up once I see that its different but it didn't feel natural. It was so painful and i just wanted her to want me like she used to. I decided to let it go. She resents me so much and i can't try to build things back up by myself in a way. If she came to me and said "let's do this" and i felt the desire for me but i can't just be "cool" if we're meant to be together in the future then fine or perhaps it'll be easier to start over with someone new. Again ur video is on point so thank you but it requires a self control that's hard to possess if ur so in love with someone.

[@Cc-xc4jj]

anna novash this is kind of similar to my situation Been with him almost 3 years. It was a very intense relationship. He was like my best friend. We spilt a few times over the last few months cos of stupid pointless arguments. He left me last week. I am truly so heartbroken. It’s so hard. I’m not speaking to him and he’s not speaking to me. All cos of arguments that could have been resolved. I’m seriously so depressed from this.

[@sparklesglitterxox8787]

Ro Ro this sounds like a complete mirror image of my situation. We’ve broken up 3 times now - this most recent breakup over unnecessary arguments. He said this time he really can’t get back with me. I’m so heart broken. Do you think there will be any chance of getting him back for good?

[@paulinalewismcmurray4434]

Hi it's Paulina from miami,love ur program

[@LoveAdviceTVCommunity]

We're happy to hear that you're loving the program! Thank you so much for your support!

[@thewarriorprincess11]

Hey great video I wished I could have a couch session but I find it pricey. My bf broke up wiht me from no where when it was me who should have done so after waiting for months him to take steps to change the things were causing me trouble, last time we talked I insulted him because he deserved it but still I love him, I had been so understanding and still I received that treatment. After ending the call I sent a text saying good bye that I accepted I could not keep doing all alone if he did not want to, acknowledging my value and the beautiful time We have shared, and wishing him well in his future, that was all, never a feedback nothing haha still I cared and loved him and expected him to try harder t save the relationship but that never happened

[@billierock10]

This channel is the best!! Your videos empower me.

[@redline350zHR]

🙌🏼 i agree. ☺️☺️

[@masy_mezzetino]

I asked my ex put for coffee but instead she invited me over to her house, what does that mean?

[@alysehiltbrunner7184]

This video is so for me.. thank you!

[@LoveAdviceTVCommunity]

Thank you for watching! - Adrian

[@shaldi24]

Thank you it's weird bc I thought I was the only one that did these things

[@tomaszprokocki3152]

Hi. I am from Poland. You are a genius

[@ildikosydney]

Fantastic video thank you coach Adrian was very helpful thanks again from Australia 😊

[@estherghouralal9976]

I m from Trinidad and Tobago Thank you do much coach Adrian You videos has a positive impact in my life

[@cruiserjg]

#7 is very powerful!

[@LoveAdviceTVCommunity]

I'm glad you think so :) - Adrian

[@lenaschaef6714]

I am so thankful for your feedback, Adrian 💗 I must really seem despaired when I'm running around here asking my questions, but the truth is when I'm with my ex I don't let this side show, just desperately trying to find answers what to do next and no contact is driving me crazy 😩 but when he's texting I'd say I'm usually good at playing things cool, else I wouldn't have gotten to see him a few times this year

[@kepistevoloboo6916]

Ma ex told me that his in love with someone else, though they badly broken up, he still wants to pursue her when I've always been there for him ,,he doesn't even mind how I feel, so I've deleted the swine from ma mind without hestitating and am waiting for him to get the shit out of ma country so that I block him, I think I've reach a level where am sure I don't love him anymore!!

[@gwenwhite1520]

Thank you Adrian, Super healing/supportive, really serves, >consolidation of key points. I'm ever so grateful to you and your team!

[@maritesazuelo8833]

This really helpful thankyou

[@LoveAdviceTVCommunity]

Happy to hear that, Marties! Coach Adrian

[@RadicalJae]

I need your advice, my ex and I were so in-love for 4 years and 3 months LDR.. I walked away because he is doing a lot of immoral things in the relationship (cheating but no sexual activity), it turns out toxic and makes us both depressed.. He accepted the break up and told me that he wants to change and said also that he doesn't deserve me as of the moment because he is making bad decisions in life that caused me pain... He said it's all about the commitment, he is not ready for marriage and he doesn't want me to wait for nothing... FYI : He is 7 years younger than me (I am 31 going 32 January, he just turned 25 this month.). I am a single mother. He stopped using social media when we broke up.. It's been 7 months now, he has no social media activity... no nothing... He said he loves me that he doesn't want to waste my time while he cannot figure out what he wants in life, he needs space and wanted freedom and to be single as he search what he wants in his life.. It's like, right love at the wrong time... PS : Last 2018, I found out he is involved in online fraud and stealing. He is a compulsive liar, even if I caught him he will deny. His lying consumed him. I always pray his soul.... I pray that he may encounter Jesus in his life... as I always do since I met him... He even said "I don't know why I do the things I do." But when I share God's word, he is passive. I want to ask how he is doing via e-mail but Idk if that is a good idea. Man's opinion is so much welcome. Thank you...

[@dawn8881]

Run

[@eastwest7028]

He said that he didn’t love me like his first girl in twenty years ago after three years friendship, one year serious dating. Now he reaches out to me with hot and cold attitude. What should I do?

[@adriannasmith8033]

I love the channel keep up the good work.

[@marjana1415]

Thank you somuch coach Adrian I reallly needed this motivation, I m trying best to become a better person after a devastating period I m healing slowly but I breakdown eventually but I will not give up and now this video made me more strong!! Thabk you somuch .

[@schuylerwednesday4679]

Good luck to you and to us who are trying to heal despite the tough times.

[@minaknoell2345]

Thank u so much for the awesome advice ☀️

[@ETERNAL_NOW]

The best video I have watched ever... And believe me I have watched a lot!! and most helpful thank you thank you thank you

[@LoveAdviceTVCommunity]

Thank you for your kind words. I appreciate it! Coach Adrian

[@dordorthegreat1502]

@@LoveAdviceTVCommunity Hi! I was not married but was leaving with my partner 15 years ,I never left even he cheated on me but I can feel he was still doing again left me after 1 fight no contact for 2 weeks now but he comes home to pick his work clothes when I am home which he know when I do half a day ,I miss him, help

[@healthylivingbylucymugwere3938]

I love your love advise

[@alilpetty5792]

I've Watch All lolllll these, All these, thus one has been most insightful to me, true insight!! 💓

[@devd2354]

definitely needed to hear this thank you

[@chelsetaharding6041]

Coach your video is helping me to cope with my breakup. My ex end the relationship claiming he doesn't feel the same. He still call me once per week. I initiate the no contact rule but has to call him for help when I need assistance with the house such as plumbing work. He is polite and respectful in the process. I did not fuss or fight with him when he made the decision, I am hurt but I give him his space because I know in the end I will be fine. He used to search my phone when he come by my house and claim he Doesnt trust me. He is very jealous and insecure. I miss him but I respect his choice. Thanks for your video. I watch them daily and I'm feeling much better.

[@Sydnee846]

Update?

[@toryshammi2832]

I can't resist me stalking him on facebook 😭😭😭 it makes me miserable 🥺

[@59977012]

TIP #9 Stop being afraid of moving forward with your life in the fear of losing your Ex. I'm not afraid of moving forward with my life and fear of losing my Ex. The problem is how I really love her and misses her so much. She's always inside my heart and mind. If there's a way I can turn this thing off I did that a long time ago. I'm hurting every second, minute, hour, everyday. 😔

[@dawn8881]

Me too ❤️ Just believe God is working for your best future possible.

[@jeffkrieg56]

I was hurt at my old job and had to have surgery, old job fired me and had legal battle. Used all my savings, she still was working had had hers, but I was out of money and was relying on her to pay bills till I was back on feet. She left me 2 days after Christmas just one week after my surgery and I never had any idea was coming. I was desperate and didn't understand why she left. I was hurt and needed another job? Not dead or end of world. I didn't know what to do to have her come back so I did all the wrong things; pleaded and begged. 3 months later of mistakes, like I always was around, picked her up from work and dropped her off, called her everyday to see if she needed anything. She finalized divorce, no counseling or trying on her end. After the divorce I did no contact, after 2.5 months she called and we talked. I got my hopes up... Then nothing for 4 more weeks, then I called her to meet. We met up, walked, she said she loved me, and said she wanted to stay in contact while I was away. We talked for 3 days then nothing, no text or call back. Next day she added some guy to my Netflix account. I deleted it and haven't spoke to her since. That was 2 months ago. What do I do now? I am about to deploy with military. I still love her and was with her for 11 years. As far as I know she is still with this guy she met while we were separated.

[@t.i.n.a__d]

Hello Adrian I‘m really broke and depressed because of the break up with my ex boyfriend... its so hard to move on... the situation is very complicated!!! He left me because of the mistakes i have done at the beginning of our relationship... i regret everything i have done and i apologized to plenty of times!! But he says that he cant trust me anymore... I got pregnant a year after we started dating... So we have a child together (how can i do the „no-contact-thing“ when a child is involved)? When he left from home he moved in with another woman right away..., this is driving me crazy!!!! 😥😥😩😩😩 Please help me!!!!

[@grimreeper7225]

Take care of yourself and your child. You can't take care of your child if you can't take care of yourself. Love and patience

[@kansafoster]

This is a great video, thank you! I understand that radio silence is a good tactic to avoid rewarding negative behavior, but is it ever ok to calmly point out their negative behavior? My ex and I have been having good conversation, but whenever I bring up hanging out he ignores me by reading the text (he has read receipts) but then not responding (we have hung out many times). This has happened twice, and both times I used radio silence and then changed the subject-which he then responded to. I understand that he’s going through a lot emotionally, but I feel disrespected. I wish he would at least say “no thanks” instead of silence. He has always been bad at saying no... Thanks!

[@priscillamangruem7331]

Thank you I need to hear this for real

[@LoriKing-h6n]

This was an excellent video. I am going through a break up and he wanted to be friends he was texting me every day and it was sending me mixed messages. When I wanted clarification he said he did not want to lose his best friend, but he was no longer in love with me. I told him I can’t be his friend right now because it was to painful and confusing. I felt like he was keeping on the back burner until something better came a long. He was so superficial with his text. He would text me once a day to tell me about his day. He no longer responded to me in a loving way or answer my calls or text until hours later. It did not feel like an equal friendship He doesn’t understand why I do not want to be friends right now. He said he was always in the friend zone with me and he was tired of the friend zone. But now he wants to be friends and it is only on his terms. Ugh! I need to step away for a little but I love him and miss him. I am scared I lose him forever because I can’t be friends right now. Thank you this has helped.

[@AbrahamIvie]

My ex girlfriend lied to me for our whole relationship and feels like she’s a terrible person and I don’t deserve her. That I’m too amazing and wonderful for her. I regret breaking up and have worked on being open minded but feel like we still need time apart. How should I tell her that her problems aren’t a big deal to me, and no matter what she does I’ll love her.

[@lisaj3639]

This was great for me.!!! Thank you.

[@LoveAdviceTVCommunity]

Thank you for watching Lisa H.! - Adrian

[@nanouk218]

Where is the audio seminar? I want to look into it

[@kellyw921]

You're very smart Adrian.

[@masecox308]

My current girlfriend broke up with me and hasn’t spoken to me in over 2 and half months based solely on lies from an ex girlfriend of mines from 2 years ago my current girlfriend claims because of these lies she can’t trust me

[@LBugrelated]

I don't know how I inspired my ex in the beginning.

[@andreajauregui2480]

SO RIGHT! Thank you

[@JayWGU]

My ex broke up with me via text at the end of July, we really had a great relationship, we were together for over 4 years and at the end I became really insecure which caused the argument. I think I made every mistake you could possibly make. I begged, pleaded, sent countless text messages, called her several times, spoke to her friends and family and even went to her house (there’s more but I think you get the state I was in). Looking back now i think if I just gave her space and time we could of resolved this. When I eventually went into no contact I did not do it properly, I was still talking to mutual friends and members of her family, also I wasn’t focusing on myself or growing. I was stagnant, basically counting the days. When I reached out of course didn’t play it cool I immediately tried to force the relationship. I found out that a co-worker has shown interest in her weeks after we broke up, I know they have gone a date and have been flirting with each other and kissed multiple times, I don’t know if she is still dating him.... I have recently gone back into no contact, but this was after speaking to her several more times, basically begging and pleading again. During this no contact (3+ weeks) I have been trying to focus on myself but have been struggling to stop constantly thinking about her. I found/find myself constantly checking her social media, anything to reduce the rift. I think the reason why I’ve struggled so much is, because before the breakup she was going to move in with me; and we were planning our futures together, I was planning to propose and she was always telling me she wanted to have kids. I don’t know if she is still dating her co-worker but I recently found out that she is now spending more time with her ex(before me). I have spoken to her about him since the breakup (before I went back into NC) and she claims she would never go back to him, however I feel like I have pushed her so far away and she has lost all attraction and respect for me I have basically ruined any chance to have with her. My main question is do I still have a chance or am I just wasting my time? Because, it seems that her ex has done everything necessary to rebuild their relationship. He was her first real love and in the beginning of our relationship he tried to get back with her, I eventually got passed this, but her ties to his family never really went away. She has a strong relationship with his family and since our breakup it seems it has gotten stronger. I appreciate any feedback and apologies for the long post. Thank you.

[@LoveAdviceTVCommunity]

Hey Jay, you still may have a chance, but you ARE ALSO wasting your time by not using your time efficiently. You are wasting your time by simply not moving FORWARD (not moving on) with your life out of fear that moving forward will turn into moving on and you ultimately lose her. Fear has NO PLACE in breakup recovery - Adrian

[@JayWGU]

Love Advice TV Hi Adrian, thank you for responding, you are right. I was afraid that by me moving forward I would inevitably lose my feelings for her. I no longer have that attitude and am trying to better myself and move forward in life. Due to that fact that I’ve made so many mistakes and she has told me to move on, she no longer has feelings for me and that I annoy her, do you think I should do NC more than the standard time most people suggest? But it is a concern of mine that she may end up back with her ex, I know timing is key and am just unsure when to act.

[@mimosapudica6723]

I feel you jay 💔

[@vickyy.9880]

@@JayWGU how are things going Jay now that its been 2 months?

[@bikerbigdog]

I’m finding out that my girlfriend is a Narcissist , I’m confused how to handle her, Help Me,!!!

[@redline350zHR]

Oh god broo…how did you start to come to this conclusion??? I just dealt with the same thing!! It is horrible

[@alphzy9221]

The lady in the 6 year relationship and he cheated on the new girl with her, why would you want to go back to that? How do you feel you can trust that person. I get wanting a person back after cheating, I have been there, but is it worth it? Yes, there is chance he may reach out after he changed his number but I doubt it. There is a reason why he changed his # bec he is trying to keep the girl he is currently with. If he reaches out to you it's bec he is trying to hit it again.

[@yirehmiyahmagsayo361]

Thank sir for your advice

[@FitWithRyan_]

God Bless you! 🙏🏼

[@sharonrosa3785]

HELP!!! what should I do i did no contact and we are on good terms and we are texting.. HOW SHOULD I TEXT BACK AND HOW DO I BUILD THE ATTRACTION THROUGH TEXTING???

[@kiban7676]

Sharon Rosa you just can’t . Go no contact on him

[@nadinemanfredi]

Wow! Spot on!

[@hb8866]

Thank you so much🙌🏽

[@MrPidero]

My ex kinda exposed my feelings for her true text. And i was honest that there was something but that i'm not entirely sure myself. It didnt seem to put her off and she was quite amused so it seemed. I asked her out and no reply. Later that day i asked why the silence in a nice manner. And she says she's a bit overwhelmed by it like what should i do now? Let it sink in? just keep on chatting/calling?. Help a guy out thanks :)

[@Cc-xc4jj]

Will you be doing more lives like this? I have missed this one and wanted to ask a question 😞

[@SubhenduDuttaYoutube]

Hello ,I am from India

[@yirehmiyahmagsayo361]

This is most common this time situaton today and coming

[@brizzaarce4580]

Wow this is my current situation but I’m so lost and I don’t know what to do anymore I need your help .

[@LoveAdviceTVCommunity]

Thank you for reaching out, Brizza. ⭐ Need Immediate 1-on-1 Custom-Tailored Coaching | Schedule A Call With Us 👇: www.withmyexagain.com/coaching/ Coach Adrian

[@sreetiindranilpal9297]

I am married for 7yrs I made complaint on him he got upset not talking with me only on emails I email about child he says he block me 9months gone what to do

[@parisak6170]

“My ex brokeup with me because he doesnt trust me and i lied , were long distance” video please

[@laurabreig5310]

should i just stop texting or text less so i dont make it worse cuz i love him and dont wanna lose him

[@mandihall1986]

Helpful

[@MrKOBE24252425]

My LDR ex and I had broken up (7 years relationship), will be two weeks soon. I made the mistake of sending her a bday message recently but I kept it very simple, and the worst part is because we share birthdays, I expected something back from her as I did for her (clocked in at exactly 12AM) but got no message at all. Right now I feel like my gameplan will involve grad school to focus on myself which will last up to another 5 or 6 years but the question is I am so stubborn, is it possible that I still have a chance then when I have refreshed my life? I plan on moving to where she lives (not same city) towards the end of that timeline (around 2025-2026) and I want to try again because before we broke up, I was 2 months away from visiting her. I didn't even get a proper chance and that was devastating. When is the wise time to break NC? We have been in it for 4 years on, broke up once and got back together for another 3 years. Of course, I am still young but this person was someone I knew was special compared to several people I've met over the years.

[@wurly6331]

me and ex broke up 6 months ago ive been on and off no contact, about 2 weeks ago she texted me telling me she misses me and thinks about me everyday so we agreed to go to the fair later that week and try to make things work then a few days later i ask to go she then makes dumb excuses on why she cant go and now turns out she has another guy. i love this girl what do i do please help!!! :(

[@OnlyJoeBryant]

My ex has reached out twice in a week to ask me if I’m going on a night out with mutual friends, saying it would be awkward if we were both there. It’s the first time she’s reached out for around two months. I’m very confused to say the least!

[@todoenvideo]

The goal is to get her on a date ideally at your place. When she reaches out you can say: “Hey, Is great to hear from you, I love to see you, When you are free to get together? “ If she accepts, tell her to bring a bottle wine, coffee, tea, etc, and make dinner together in the evening…. Why? Because you want to hang out, have fun, and hook up. Enjoy the time being together. Do not talk about the past, do not talk about getting back.

[@OnlyJoeBryant]

I appreciate the reply but unfortunately I don’t think that’s going to happen. When I’ve replied (the next day) she has not responded at all. Maybe it will take time who knows?

[@ronielesousasilva1537]

i just wanna know how to mend the peaces of my broken heart

[@ronaldom5429]

thanks 🙏

[@LoveAdviceTVCommunity]

You're welcome!

[@joliwe-hs3yj]

I really could use some advice... He broke up five weeks ago, but kept saying that he wants to stay in contact... but then he started to be mean and kinda aggressive. He promised we would meet up and talk about everything but then he cancelled it last minute and said he doesn’t want to talk to me or even see me. This was around the time when I discovered LATV and I decided to start the ‚no contact‘ ... it‘s been almost two weeks since then and I don‘t know what to do anymore. I really want him back, but I know I have to wait at least three more weeks before reaching out. Should I wait for him to contact me? Or should I do it, when I feel better? I spent the last weeks focusing on myself and getting my life back and most of the time I‘m in a good mood... but I miss him though... Is there anything I can do to make him come back? Or how do I know if I have a chance ... or if he wants to give US another chance ... we‘ve been together for one year and 3 months months and there weren‘t any problems ... (except the small fights that everyone has) And (the day he broke up) he told me that he still loves me and doesn’t want to loose me ... We‘re both 16 ... I don‘t know if this is relevant and I don‘t wanna hear something like ‚you‘ll find another one‘ or ‚you‘re too young to know what love is‘ ... He meant and still means everything to me and we know each other since we were three years old ... I don‘t want to loose him ...

[@sarasaray4072]

don t contact him . let him miss keep doing no contact .

[@andreahelou7]

this video is really helpful thank you!💕

[@LoveAdviceTVCommunity]

You're welcome Andrea. Thank you for watching! - Adrian

[@meshamalik5048]

My bf wanted to breakup but I didn’t let him for 4 months, but last week I got to know he is talking to other girl from last 20 days. I told him to block her and breakup but he did not, he said he won’t talk but probably he is still talking.. So i just stop replying him, and it didn’t bother him he texted for 1 day like 4 msgs and that’s it; It’s like 4 days we are not talking but I really want him back..

[@annieg6614]

Heeeey Couch may i ask you a question about him?

[@Fannie6191]

What if they reach out (txt) and then I respond and get no response. Pictures of his new apt, videos of the city he moved to and then silence... what’s the point?

[@kenjohnson5852]

Ken from St. Louis

[@vickyhernandez6433]

This video is really what I needed! I am really in a tough spot, my ex broke up with me because I saw text of him talking to another girl. He says I deserve better and hes sorry and wishes things were different. I still live here lease is up in 2 months. I saw him phone and hes been on the rebound on some chatting apps. I felt like that meant we are done for good...like he moved on. He says it's just entertainment. But it really hurt me, Should I stay the 2 months? Or should I leave and stay with my family?

[@haimedeleke2317]

Vicky Hernandez if you can stay with your families. Make sure your credit wouldn't mess up.

[@maryammary8404]

Hello can you please help me he just left me after everything we had he keep talking to me but as a friend I really don’t want to lose him so I accept him as a friend 😞 I cry everyday and my heart hurts a lot

[@LoveAdviceTVCommunity]

Hi Maryam Mary, I hate to say it but you will most likely never get him back if you don't get over the fear of losing him. Acting on the fear of losing him will only show him that you will always be there for him to take him back whenever he changes his mind, and that is NOT what you want - Adrian

[@maryammary8404]

Love Advice TV I already moved on like I started to learn new language and focus on myself but he said he’s confuse and before all he was my best friend. So I don’t want to loss him I chose to stay friend to show him I’m strong.. but everyday I can’t handle it I don’t show him that but yes it’s hurts!

[@yeseralderji3716]

Hello please i need help ! i broke up with my girlfriend 2 months ago after a 3 year relationship at first i tried contacting her and all but she was cold too cold and she said that we're over ! the probleme is that we see each other each day in university ! after the 2 months i called her again trying to show her how positive i m and that the rupture was the greatest thing that ever happened to me cause i changed in a better way and all but she kept on answering that we are not compatible and i must forget the idea of going back together even though i didn't talk about the our relation at all .. and now someone told me that she is seeing someone else ! I really do love her more than anything please give me some advices guys ... i do not want to lose her FOREVER !