When To Give Up Trying To Get Your Ex Back

[@Sarah-oy8fw]

I dont even want her back, I really just wanna move on like she did. I wanna live my life and forget that she exists.

[@monp.4903]

35 days NC. I am happier. I felt like he was sucking out my positive energy and injecting me with his negative energy. I was feeling very drained, I am getting my happy mode back.

[@harleyquinnjoker4521]

I don't have idea what should I do, I feel so depressed, I just delete all the social media coz my ex keeping post about his new gf, I don't know what to do, even I share everything with my friend already also, it won't feel better, will my ex will come back to me coz I'm the one asked for break up, n the time that he already with someone else, I just begging him to come back, he said "I'm done " I have no feeling for you anymore

[@TheMychemfan]

I dont want a new chapter without him:((

[@shanorarochford616]

Zooey I feel you!

[@mangachanie]

I understand that feeling : ( It is hard. Even though we were becoming distant he was still my best friend and someone I relied on to talk about my feelings and good and bad things in my life. I just started conversing more with my family and friends. I have also been getting out of my comfort zone! We an do this : )

[@scottmacleod9787]

I know that feeling. I miss her everyday and you think it gets better, but it ends up getting worse

[@Hopekayeny]

You can do it 🙌

[@mistuhe4778]

I don't want a new chapter without her...sigh

[@dragontantra]

I don't want to let him go, it feels like I lost a HUGE piece of my soul. I'll never be fulfilled with anyone else. I've messed up so much, his friends think I'm psycho. I'm an empath and he lost respect for me.

[@emersonr7481]

Let it go for now. Regain respect and love for yourself. Can't love and respect someone else if you can't yourself. Good luck.

[@maryfecomision8689]

me too...

[@samiksharathore1123]

Ohh dear everything will be ok u r sweet and beautiful some people get jealous of other’s goodness that they start talking rubbish . This is a phase time will change

[@sparkygaming1802]

Dont worry...i love you

[@kit2130]

If he lost respect, he doesn't appreciate. Do you want to love someone who doesn't appreciate your nuances, spirit & essence?? Find comfort in loving yourself until someone comes along that sees you for who you are & admires & is attracted to you. They will no doubt be more intelligent & evolved and You will appreciate Them! 😊

[@christinecarlos7316]

So spot on. Glad you mentioned this. We can't save a person w/ addiction (alcoholism & substance abuse) & mental health issues. It would just be codependency & enabling & we would get dragged down by their moods & self sabotage. People like this need to take the initiative to heal themselves. We can't push or force them to change & heal. We can only "hold them in the light & make an intention for them to desire to be healed & to really heal". Now, should they ever become completely healed & re-integrated & live a functional life & wish to get in touch for possible friendship or dating or reconciliation, only then should they be considered. Meanwhile, it is part of our self care & self love to seek out someone emotionally available & psychologically healthy for our own benefit & happiness.

[@johnrey1203]

Never give up. This no contact is killing me. She unblocked me off whatsapp after 3 weeks. I want to initiate the first move but I will control mtself not to since she broke up with me about a month ago. 😔

[@sahibakhan5711]

John Rey Same my situation he unblock But nt texting I m feeling like to msg him

[@johnrey1203]

Just focus on your self-improvement. And don't forget to Pray. It's the most important thing that you should do whatever improvements you are dealing with.

[@np7906]

bro contact her...with phone call ..i did the same things before (sorry for bad English)

[@josephplt3588]

So what happened?

[@IA10105]

What happen?

[@violazuniga1025]

Going through this break up. And my god listening to you both is helping me so much, I appreciate y'all.

[@gracepaul9011]

Are you guys together now

[@MsKB7]

I’m definitely moving on. I can’t deal with him anymore... smh

[@TresTruth]

Sometimes I feel like it’s hopeless and sometimes I feel like I still have a strong chance. He’s with another woman and from what he shows on IG, seems as if he’s getting from her what he didn’t get from me and it shows in his smile. I truly want him to be happy even if it’s not w me, but in my heart I feel like we’re meant to be. I was a broken young girl when I met him and everything was a whirlwind for me. We lasted 6 years and we literally both had nothing when we met and built everything we had together. I know where I went wrong and I’m such a better person for it today. I’m just doing my best to be the best version of me, but in my heart I know I can make him happy. Love you Coaches and thanks for what you do

[@TresTruth]

Wow 3 months of no contact, that’s amazing. I admire your strength in that! It’s truly difficult and confusing but let’s keep focusing on our personal growth because no matter what happens, we will never regret getting better and being the best version of ourselves! Much love, Carl!

[@icbratbrattz7909]

Hopeless.. he died today in My mind! I can’t live my life like this no more!

[@shineon4863]

Once they go from 'this will never happen' to 'I don't know what I want' how do we tip scales in our favor?

[@taylorscombover3281]

Shine On yes this is similar to mine.

[@lala4461]

Shine On yes! This please

[@jbmartin4]

yamrch nairaaguiee

[@Janeserying]

Agree,I will build up my self confidence and self value first. Let faith arrange. Although I’m not the one who call for break up,but I understand he has his reason to call for a quit.i will respect him although My heart broke into dust. I can not let myself to be too upset,I do not want to go back to my anxiety life.

[@Lukitalukmann]

I’m on no contact for 1 week now & it’s weird how I don’t even want him back anymore when I used to be so needy. No contact is truly magical, it helps to clear up your mind & makes you feel empowered. Those who feel especially desperate should absolutely try it. It’s hard at first but you’ll get by it :)

[@LoveAdviceTVCommunity]

Atta girl! Thank you for sharing your story sakuramacchiato. Love to see testimonials from people who have had success with no contact. You now have the appropriate attitude to approach your ex, should you want to do so in the future - Coach Steven www.withmyexagain.com

[@ilariagiordano9958]

You are amazing. And yes, i understand that have hope it's the most hard thing here, cause it can drain your energy and sabotate your progress, the idea that you have about yourself and doubting your feelings is very very painful and destructive. You are enough, you are joy, you are also human as everyone is. Of course it is scary listening to "there are some chances that your ex will probably not give a fuck about you anymore", take those words and make them in the believe that you can, because if you don't, others will do the same (mirror also we project what we have inside us). I also think that when an ex isn't able to make you have or you both can't make each other happy, you both or just him really forgot who they are, what makes them happy, they are in a circle of thoughts that requires time and effort to get out of it. Honestly i was super happy when my ex dedicated me quality time, and for me his 20 minutes per day made me feel he did his job to make me happy and he could do other things. In reality i just wanted him just to want to spend time with me, it could be 1 minute for one entire day but with love instead of looking at it as job. So. I surely don't want to feel it again but i want him to value me because i do value my self and the quality of my life, my thoughts and my routine. Honestly i was strong enough to handle this "zoning out" that he took everyday simple because i was scary to losing and i lost my personality and i had sooo sooo much to pains. Btw i'm doing ok in the last weeks, i'm taking a bit more of confidence because i understood i just don't like how i feel and i'm trying to accept it and keep in mind what i want and he is one of those things so i get up again and I keep enjoying the day. A question: i know i'm not really ready to talk with him yet because i need to be more determinated about my feelings and still working on my weakness and thoughts pattern, also 1 month ago i get unblocked on steam but i didn't play that much, 2 weeks and half ago he put his account not in private anymore but i was already playing a bit more to some games i could never ever play before (i enjoyed them) and i started to share some screen in my profile because i literally had fun to experience them, he didn't log in from that point seems. Now, the alternatives why he didn't log in are multiple, probably trying to find why it's just painful. So... i will just keep doing my things but i really hope to keep this mindset of i can just care about my happiness and if others want to join (if i also love them, parents friends and he) them can join. This kind of distance make me feel powerful and very close to the old me that grew with him before the 3 bad months of silence we had before the breakup. I really wish i could show him i'm ready but i'm doubting i will not keep this mindset and get again in the darkness of fears and old thoughts patters that will ride me again in the same situation. NO WAY. But i never feel completely ready to talk with him... i wish i could talk with you again.

[@christhetardigrade8622]

This was helpful to me. My ex and I broke up once before and I became a better person and even won her back. Unfortunately she repeated her mistakes from the first time and didn't allow herself to fully embrace my transformation. After we broke up again I doubted myself and thought I wasn't good enough but now I realize she didn't improve herself and I outgrew her

[@anthonyrava]

What to do when you indeed outgrown your ex but you still want them back? Let them come to you? Maybe a video about this topic? Thank you guys, love all of your video’s!

[@mnmlvr22]

My ex says he is happy with the girl he cheated on me with, but texts/ call me telling me he misses me, and wants to see me . But then he says that I should move on. We were together 12 years and married for 8 years

[@hopesj9705]

He is a d*ck. Please move on and show that boy you are THE REAL QUEEN HE DOESN'T DESERVE IT.

[@emersonr7481]

Take control, interrogate them both. Their true colors would show. Been in a similar situation.

[@mnmlvr22]

Andreea Edwards thank you , it’s hard but I will surely show him.

[@mnmlvr22]

Andreea Edwards I’ve try to but he won’t really say anything. But her she is something else. She hides her identity but yet think she is a women by texting me harassing me. Tells me every time she is with him and that soon she will be his wife ... lol. You can she was a piece of trash she is just by her texting me.

[@SinistarsHunger]

Emerson Rosales my ex (also married still) is with the guy she left me for, and i was gotten a number of I love yous, i miss yous, im sorry etc. Its lip service and fog babble

[@annabelyong7257]

Coaches, would you agree that moving on for good is the best thing to do in the following scenario? Did I waste my time trying? My ex blocked me on almost everything. After 5 months of no contact, I messaged him recalling an earlier memory and saying I missed him. He read it but did not respond. I texted again asking if I had said something wrong. Again, no response. This time he turned on the ignore button so that all my messages would get filtered away from his main inbox, which is essentially a milder form of blocking. He did not unfriend me but I found out later that he is seeing someone. I realised that I wasn't even worth an explanation to him despite all the efforts, forgiveness and care I had shown him that went unreciprocated. I felt humiliated. While I had taken the time to remain single, heal and deal with the trauma, and try to self-improve, he had latched on to someone else within months. I then promptly blocked him. I am now trying to shake off any toxic, self-defeating thoughts by replacing it with thoughts of self-empowerment, e.g. "I am above all this". I am working on fully letting go.

[@QueerlyBeloved_]

My ex and I talked for the last time yesterday and I said that I was letting her go because I am tired always the one making an effort to work things out and just when I am about to give up, she gives me mixed signals and that I'm exhausted playing all this mind games with her. After I said that, she got so mad and said that I was making her out to be the bad guy when all I just did was tell the truth and express how I felt. She then blocked me entirely. I was sad about it, yes, but at the end of the day it's a blessing in disguise because if I'm really being honest with myself, I had outgrown her. I am trying to evolve as a person but she wouldn't. She tend to sweep things under the rug, pretend some things doesn't exist and all that. Add this to her emotionally neglecting me towards the end of the relationship and her emotionally cheating on me. So in the bigger picture, I think her blocking me was for the best, that way I can get rid of her out of my system completely and continue my self improvement. Thank you for another helpful video, coaches!

[@kojikuza4661]

Marlou 96 we have the same situations

[@christiaansjouw5680]

it's been more than 1.5 years since we broke up and she still doesn't wanna talk. She even ignored my last texts. I'm not saying I've completely lost hope, but I'm letting it go. At least for now :) I still love her, but I feel like I'm worth more than how she has been treating me since the break up.

[@josephplt3588]

what was the reason for the breakup?

[@michaelstitt9726]

I miss mine every day I do want her back

[@diamondDestiny20]

Been in a no contact for a few weeks now. He seems happy. I can see post from his friends that they are going out. He is enjoying his single life now and I am totally devastated. Grieving! He broke up with but says he can still be a good friend to me but i said no to the friendship. Should I now give up on trying to get him back? I did horrible things while we were in a relationship..i have anger issues. I got mad at him easily even in so little things...and that is the reason why he broke up with me coz he doesnt want to be in a relationship where we argue a lot. He wants to have a cool down type of rel like no arguments whatsoever. He also says he cant see any future with me. But recently he reacted heart to our couple photos on facebook but no message from him.

[@jeremygonzalez6947]

I need professional help but I can't afford it what can I do please!

[@shawnabattaglia1369]

Love this video. I want to be with my ex but there is no way it could ever work again. The relationship had way too many problems and most things he would have to improve on but hasn't and probably never will. Also, I had the realization we have different wants in life that doesn't make it possible to be with each other. It sucks cause I still have a deep love and longing for him that has not gone away since we broke up over a month ago. I'm still in contact with him which makes it even harder to move on but I can't yet let go. It's like I'm digging for some kind of hope that's never going to come.

[@mclp-wc8eg]

My dear Coach Adrian, looking great, Congrats!!!

[@LoveAdviceTVCommunity]

What about me???? LOLOL. Thank you for your support mc1019 lp - Coach Steven

[@nicoledg.8336]

+Love Advice TV 😂😂😂

[@nicoledg.8336]

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[@dianaswing]

Love Advice TV both of you look great! Hotties, both! 😍 Thanks for all you're doing to help people out. We appreciate it!

[@mclp-wc8eg]

HAHAHA My God you are Gorge!!!!! Sorry I will never forget you again You Three Guys Are the best and The Girls, They are so pretty, Thanks for all the help you give, Blessings for the team,,,,Handsome!!!!!

[@mrlaventino6497]

It is so much more difficult to get my ex back ever since she started her rebound relationship with another person. I have been waiting patiently to see their relationship burn. Funny thing is , rebound relationship supposedly lasts around 3 weeks - 5 weeks but turns out they are together for 2 months already. I hope Love Advice TV could have more topic on a rebound relationship and share more of his insights to us. Thank you so much.

[@makeith78]

I really need your help I'm still confused on everything but I'm getting my happiness back 75% but I'm getting there

[@yasmeenjones7899]

I love your videos. can you do a video on how to deal with an ex who is a narcissist and how no contact works when dealing with those types of individuals. thank you for all of your hard work and advice.

[@veronique1000]

Want to know how to deal with a narcissist??? Run for your life and never look back....seriously! They will never change. They are diabolical creatures. Run!!!!!

[@Warriorz1979]

Yes it's time I give up. We broke up in November of last year and had a weird shaky feel between us afterwards. We'd been together for 2 years and loved each other very much but we fell apart on my behalf. We couldn't live without each other yet now it is her living without me. We don't talk anymore and she told me "I don't want you in my life anymore". I tried to get her back but that attempt fell short. There's nothing else I could do. I don't want to give up because I love her too much. Although she and her family I'm sure hate me

[@degieherediano8056]

I feel hopeless, well, he's still cheating even in his rebound relationship. He never change,

[@kellydillon8866]

I love you guys. You all have beautiful energy and I can tell you really want to help people.

[@nicolebrowne3632]

I am glad you guys put did this video today, because I was thinking now its been 10months , even though he been reaching out to just give up . I want to reach out and tell him I still care about him , and I have not moved onto anyone else, but my pride tells me NO because he broke it off with me. I forever trying to figure out what is going on?

[@lalisasmr]

nicole browne what does he say when he contacts you?

[@Youcantphazeme24]

My wife and I have been separated for 2 months. She won’t interact with any more and the only times that we did was only thru text. She was very apologetic at the beginning since she was the one that wanted to separate and seek divorce. She stated that she regrets getting married and that she doesn’t love me. I’m deeply in love with her. I’ve asked if there’s some one else. She stated no. I have reason to believe her, of course it doesn’t mean that there can be someone else. Although she is seeking for divorce and says she doesn’t love me, and I have the done the clingy and needy text messages, and she’s even said to stop messaging her and she wants nothing to do with me, I feel like just giving up but on the other hand I feel like I need to fight for our marriage in a smarter way. You can’t just marry someone with out loving them and falling out of within just 10 months in our marriage. Yes only 10 months in she just threw in the towel. I’m heart broken and confused

[@Zissouace]

I have a weird one. My and I live together. She can not afford to move out and I don’t want her to be homeless, but we have separate rooms. She broke up with me so she could have an opportunity to grow and because our relationship was stagnant. She also said she loved me, but was no longer in love with me. I instituted no contact for 30 days, and her schedule has been erratic. I had a female friend come over and swim in our apartment’s pool. When we came back to my apartment she was there and she saw us coming in. Since then she has been staring me down and been spending more time outside Do I tell her that she was just a friend? I don’t want her thinking I planned this?

[@brunonovaes383]

What should I do? After the break up, my ex said he couldn't be without me but also didn't wanna commit. That state of doubt was the cause of the breakup. So we spent one month texting everyday, going out and having fun as though we haven't broken up. Then it started getting confusing and the fights started. After a couple of unfortunate dates I decided it was over and we spent 2 weeks apart. After that we've been on dates twice with scarce texting in between those, he seems to be growing distant but I still feel like it's worth it due to what we had before the initial breakup. The point is that at the moment I feel tired and thinking whether I'm waisting or not my time trying to get him back.

[@valerietay2727]

Hi, my ex and i broke up 8 months ago, we haven't been talking to each other as well, is it hopeless or is there still chance and hope? Is it normal that i still have some feelings for my ex even though we broke up 8 months ago?

[@_LilacRoses]

Valerie Tay same situation here

[@kennarainville495]

There’s hope trust me

[@kennarainville495]

Listen I’m not a professional but My brother and his gf (which is now his wife) broke up at 16 then got back together after 9 months

[@claracross8499]

I’m in the same situation

[@terra_tory]

My ex contacted me after 3 yrs. 8 mons is nothing!!!

[@zarakvoguezk571]

He broke up with me just a month a go but he still likes my Instagram pic and watch Instagram story right away. What is that mean? Thanks pls advice me

[@sushprajapat4707]

My ex reaches out to me and after that he disappears fully.. again 2-3 days later he reaches out to me and again disappears ... what does it mean guys.. what should I do ???

[@natashavejar9060]

sush prajapat dont be so available to your ex! Make your ex miss you and fear losing you. It will make them want you even more and actually commit 😉

[@TheMychemfan]

sush prajapat same help plsss

[@TheMychemfan]

Natasha Vejar but what if they move on???and find someone else??:((

[@sushprajapat4707]

Natasha Vejar actually he is on my what's app so when he messages me I can't ignore him...once I ignored him,he deleted my no. After 2days,he added my no. Now he messages me but once in 3-4 days What to do yaar.. he is avoiding me fully Plz suggest something

[@firimuenjogererevjjuniorro1164]

I actually hv a almost similar problem,, He reached out but he told me this time it should be friendship and no strings attached,, am confused and feeling down

[@kellydillon8866]

Keep fighting the good fight!

[@fux0_0]

Hello guys. Just wanted to say that you are doing an amazing job! These videos are really helpful. It would be more beneficial for everyone if you guys make more videos about the actual process of re-attracting an ex. More tips about making a stronger bond with an ex. Thank you.

[@siena7892]

has been 6 months since he left, been together for 11 years and 4 years of marriage. its been so difficult , some day is good some day is bad, still lying to myself everyday that maybe one day he will take me back, but no, he is moving forward ...it is so heartbroken to see someone you love so much not loving you anymore. When will i ever be okay?

[@christoprighteous8199]

Just go one day at a time. It will take time but it will get better. There is a reason your not togther. Sometimes we wont see till years later that it was a good thing. Trust Gods timing.

[@meghanavariketi8362]

My ex broke up with me saying he can't handle relationships and his family is mad at him idk what to do I want him back he isn't ready to give it a chance

[@agfilmwriter469]

I give up. my ex is with someone else and i broke no contact and reached out making things worse. there is no chance. he says he loves her. I am heartbroken all over again

[@LoveAdviceTVCommunity]

Hey AG FilmWriter, thank you for sharing your story. Sorry to hear about how things went down for you. But you would be surprised at knowing that things aren't as dismal as they seem. You just need to get through this bit of heartbreak you're feeling at the moment - Coach Steven www.withmyexagain.com

[@kajolyadav890]

Hello coaches 💗 I love you guys! I have a long one for you, I have been broken up for 2 months now. My ex left me after a 3.5 years long relationship that he brokeup june 17 one day before my birthday. He told me he lost feelings but I know the real reason is his education. He failed miserably and he is stuck for 3 years. I wanted to move out of my country in about 2 years or so. He is in his own way. His career is as good as nothing but he has his family business. ( sorry for rambling) but he has blocked me from every possible place. I don't know if I should let go.... I love him a lot. All my friends and family are happy it's over. I have improved a lot and many people have told me I have imroved not just on a personal level but I won all my friends back (that i had almost lost) my ex was my support system .I deal with a lot of anxiety also. Bottom line is I love him and there are not many ways to reach out and my family and friends won't let me go back to him. Is this a red flag ? Please help Love you. Your videos breathe new life into me everyday. Loads of love all the way from India💗💗💗💗💗💗💗 Do you think he will come around ? 😘😘😘😘😘 love you guys Note: no cheating was involved at least on my part. Help

[@ProTroll69]

Idk dude, it's been almost 3 years and she has a new man. I fell apart 3 times during the break up, damn near committing suicide (the first time I ever had those thoughts). My friends and family have all told me to move on. It's over. I need to let her go.

[@DylanLocoSee]

Have felt like I was in a 'hopeless' situation myself and the realisation that I won't have regrets if I tried my all to get back my ex and I can move on is such a huge relief. Thank you for this.

[@kit2130]

Maybe this is regarding fresh breakups. Mine was 8 yrs ago & he says he'll always love me but can't see the future & right now isn't a good time. He became a workaholic & that is his only life priority.

[@LoveAdviceTVCommunity]

Hey K It, do you two still have some sort of relationship, whether that's as friends or something in between friends and lovers? - Adrian

[@kit2130]

Love Advice TV Hi Adrian! He is at times, a sounding board for our adopted daughter. He doesn't have a stable relationship with her, either. I think he's afraid if we are a family again, he'll get hurt. Instead, he rejects any travel invitations we extend, denies our calls, ignores most of our texts. But when he does answer he starts out mad that we interrupted his work, then enjoys our attention, laughs & we feel like a family again. He gives us about 5 min then if the conversation slows down at all he abruptly tells us he has to get back to work. He never reaches out first.

[@noneofyourbusiness7787]

She found a rebound within weeks of us breaking up LAST MONTH... And has ignored my last two texts. I'd say there's no hope and I'm just accepting things for what they are now. I loved her, but she's in a whole new relationship now so it's really not up to me.

[@sabrinaramgoolam7253]

You guys are awesome. Very motivating and inspiring I must say. I followed some of your videos, ex and I broke up just over 7 months ago. I was blocked off everywhere except email. I reached out after 3 months nc... no response... gave it a few weeks again and he finally responded. The thing is... the only way he has been responding since is just straight blank answers if i ask him a question. Do i stop or give him space or what? I do no email him often as well.

[@degeo1705]

I wrote once before saying my Ex would not respond or react to “No Contact” and you said “why do I feel that way” I went “31 Days No Contact” and as expected, she never reached out at all. Yet if I call or text she responds, she will call back and even FaceTime. But NEVER reaches out unless I initiate. She says she is “Old School and the man has to make the first move”. She laughs, talks and always seems excited and happy to hear from me, but has yet to set a date to meet. When I have seen her, she wants me to hug and kiss her as if we’re trying to start over. I am actually getting frustrated, discouraged and feel like giving up because I don’t know what’s she’s thinking since she won’t set a date to meet up! She has said a Day, but has not given a time !

[@LoveAdviceTVCommunity]

Hey DeGeo... this, nevertheless, is still promising! Was she like this (fickle with scheduling) when you two were together? - Coach Adrian

[@degeo1705]

Love Advice TV I don’t think so. We didn’t go out that much. I am said to be “Publicly Popular” and before she broke up she said everyone knew I was her girlfriend but I didn’t treat her like one. I’m a said to be a “Good Cook” so don’t like going to restaurants or all the attention being in Public, ppl all in my business. But I’ve been changing that by going out. We have ALWAYS discussed this and a few weeks before she broke up, I took her out a couple of times she agreed to go right away and said it was the best times she ever had with me ! Sometime later she shut down, I asked or the garage remote, ( to get her to talk) instead she brought it and the ring ! Later I asked her to dinner, twice, she said “No, we don’t have a relationship” A month later we had Great conversations about how she felt when I took her out “-I admitted “my mistakes or fears of not doing so in the past” and we seemed to come to a good understanding. Then I initiated “NO CONTACT”. Strangely My Mother came to town right at the end of that, called her for a favor and they hung out together without me ! Later we all hung out shopping for something for my Mother. After which we’ve been laughing, talking, texting and FaceTiming, but she hasn’t confirmed a meeting since, although she keeps saying she will. I don’t doubt she Loves me, but it’s still confusing!

[@juniormedina7652]

Its not hopeless. But it can get to the point of being pointless to even try anymore.

[@monstersnest8726]

when to give up in a long distance relationship

[@sahibakhan5711]

U guys give hope thank u so much sir i wishhh boys think like the way u guyz are thinking Understanding 💓 This NC sometimes its killing like he ll never come he ll forget n move on I miss him so muchh How he ll come 😧😲

[@mlovett67]

I broke up with my ex (this time.. He's broken up with me several times in the past) because he pulls away everytime we start to get close... When he does this, I feel it, I panic, it activates my anxiety around abandonment and I get needy. Of course, that makes things worse and I see this now. Our breakup conversations have sounded like this: Him: "I can't give you what you want/deserve"...or..."your love is just too much" usually I beg, this time I didn't. I said.. "If you can't choose me (commit to this relationship) after all this time (1.5 years on and off), then I need to find someone who will." We've been in no contact for a month... Well, I messaged him after a week and reiterated that I just want to feel safe in the relationship.. to feel that I can trust my heart with him and he can trust his with me. I also, unfortunately, told him he is everything to me and that I think he is scared, that he doesn't love himself and needs to address this...(eek).. That text was a month ago. Anyway, he didn't respond. It's been a month and although I broke up with him, I feel like a week later I back pedaled and then, by not responding, he broke up with me. I'm crushed that he hasn't reached out... He's told me in the past that he loves me but he just can't be who I need. Is it really over? Should I give up hope?

[@ht87wv89]

My ex said I can't make her happy anymore. If I want her back I need to be the one when we 1st met each other

[@Sam-gk3qo]

Hi coaches. My girlfriend broke up with me after travelling on holiday back home. Saying we have become friends rather than a couple after almost 3 years together. I acted very needy and desperate when she initially dumped me which pushed her further away. I have now been in no contact for almost 30 days. During this time I have been undergoing a personal transformation but I feel the need to reach out before I am able to move on. How would you suggest I go about opening communication?

[@Blank_____07-k6w]

We've been togethercfor 5 years, we already have a daughter. She stopped talking to me just a month ago(she's in another country now), she blocked all communication with me, my only ray of hope is being a better father to our girl and get a better job, coz ive been stagnant with my mediocre job and couldnt fulfill my promises, I understand she felt betrayed, when I promised that we will get married and haven't done so, I guess I wasnt able to fully see her. Now I know my flaws I realized it when she had a chance to take a vacation from her overseas job, she told me she was tired and sick of waiting for me. It hurts but I must endure and recreate myself for her, for our daughter. I just wish I could have hugged her hold her, kissed her to make it a bit easier. I miss every part of her, but I know I must walk this path to get her back.

[@mayurthakare9894]

Hiii.. i need help here.. my gf broke up with me a week ago. And then i begged to her to stay.. but she didn't listen then i msged her and she blocked me from evry platform we were connected. After 2-3 days i again messaged her and blamed her for break up. Later i apologised her for blaming . But she didn't replied. Now i am in no contact with her.. is there any chance of her to return back to me. I really miss her. Please help me here. I want her back.

[@TeamOT]

What do you mean by "don't bite"/"get through"? Do you mean they are not responding at all? Or do you mean they have told you to stop trying or (something similar)?

[@lauramaritzapacheco2245]

Hi coaches I have an intresting situation. My ex and I were together for 5 years. We spoke of marriage and our future together. But then He left me because he said I deserve better, he needed to work on himself and just other things such as there was no longer a spark, we were just living day by day. Worst part is we have the exact same friends and I work with his mom every day. To give you the full story he asked for a break, had no contact with him at all for 2 months, but then we were in our best friends wedding together. :/ so he reached out a week before just to clarify we are not getting back together and that he knows he loves me but not in love with me. So we switched partners for the wedding, his parents were there and mine as well, they are both very friendly to each other and understand it was no ones fault. We ended respectfully and no bad blood between us. His parents tell me they love me, and hope he realise what he lost and everything. I try not to mention or have his mom mention him at all when we talk. But he was very kind at the wedding, and confused me more. The last words I said to him were "i hope you find what your looking for, to make you happy. Because all I ever want was your happiness" i hugged him and left. No tears and no begging. Now it's been 2 months since the wedding and I havent heard from him. I see his mom every day, and our friends make sure to respect us and to not have us hang out with each other until we are ok. I have been working on myself and being busy, lost 40lbs, meditation, make up. But what I am looking for is, when do I know it's time to stop hoping he will reach out. Or if this is really just over. Thank you again for the videos, they always give me peace even if it wont work for me.

[@djmcs7096]

Laura Maritza Pacheco the moment you stop thinking when will he notice me or reach out...is the moment you dont need him. When you dont need him. You will have a choice. You choose you. If he works out you are worth it... let him work for it.

[@mangachanie]

A few days before I move back we break up. He said he wasn't happy feeling like I wasn't the one. He said he never had that"urge" that he has gotten before but loves me and cares for me. I said that that means we need to break up. I didn't want him to be unhappy. I was kinda hoping he would fight for me but he didn't. He said he didn't really wanna "grow" with me, which is what I wanted. We cried a lot and we even made some jokes (which made him cry a lot) we told each other we loved each other and that we are gonna miss each other (he said he would miss me way more) then hung up on fb. It's been about three weeks now of NC and I am losing hope. I imagine him with other women and it just kills me. I have been focusing on myself and I know I am a great awesome catch haha, but I feel as if I know myself already, and I know what I want..

[@LoveAdviceTVCommunity]

Hey mangachanie... three weeks is no time at all and definitely not enough time for some of the more strong-willed men out there. Please keep us updated when he reaches out and reach out to us here! www.withmyexagain.com - Coach Steven

[@mangachanie]

Love Advice TV Thank you for replying. I figured it wasnt enough time. I just feel so lost and wish I didn't suggest breaking up even tho it might have been the right thing to do. Thank you again for replying.

[@mangachanie]

Love Advice TV really quick side question. He said he didn't want me to message him at all in the immediate future... I'm guessing that's a long time...

[@jaysaffi]

Here’s my situation ... Dated a girl for 5 years. been broken up for 6 months now... And it’s been about 60 days no contact. I reached out on like day 32 and she tells me she’s seeing someone else.. don’t know what to really do. Just told her I’m glad for her and went no contact again. 😩

[@jennc1585]

is there a timeframe after you have realized your wrongs and tried to make changes that you should consider moving on if your ex isn’t getting pass the situation emotionally? I know when we are mad and hurt we can’t see pass that but when do you make the call if this person is just acting off emotion right now or they really will never let it go because it’s to hard to move forward for them.

[@uchennamadubuike2537]

Coaches u guys are doing great. ..... am 32 years old and she is 2yrs. .... I known her for just 2 months, then suddenly she told me dt her heart is not with me that her heart is with another guy..... Pls what should I do.... I love her so much

[@CactusJack60]

felt like the "Trunk Monkey" In our relationship for 3 years.. definitely number two in her life.. got drunk, exercised my skeletons, said hurtful things ONE time!.. now I'm forever the bad guy. I feel like all her dude friends are feasting on my memory... it feels SOOO unfair.. 😔

[@thetunethetubaplayed]

Here's what happened with me: five weeks ago we broke up. Two days later he messaged me asking if I wanted to be friends. I ignored the text. A few days after that he asked "so I guess you don't wish to be friends?" I responded by sending him an image I knew he would think was funny, but I didn't say anything. He responded that he would send it to his friend that would also think it was funny. I left it at that---I didn't say anything more. A week later he texted "how are you?" I responded the next day with "I'm excited---I just booked my trip to Canada! Hope you're doing well." He didn't respond and I didn't say anything more. Now last night, 3 weeks after that last message, I initiated contact via messenger and this is our exchange. (Keep in mind that he's a successful artist and that the video I made is kind of artistic): Me: "Hi, I made a little video I posted on fb. It seems like something you might like. (You have to turn the music down a bit--it recorded kinda loud)" Him: "Ok..." Him: "That's very good!" Me: "I was just happy because I did it all on my cell phone" Me: "Thanks!" Him: "Looks and sounds very good" Me: 😊 Me: "I do value your opinion, so thank you." Him: 😁 And that's the extent of our exchange last night. Please help!!!

[@jenniferramnarine6780]

Hello your channel has helped me and i appreciate the effort you guys make. My ex boyfriend and I mutually broke up a month ago. He has a lot going on with his family and mental health. He loved me being extremely affectionate but because everything changed in his life both family wise and with mental health the relationship became too much for him and he couldn't handle the clingy type of relationship anymore. Right now he misses me and wants to talk but is not able to commit. He also has the mindset that because of his problems he cannot be good enough and believes that I should find someone better. I feel as if no contact is not helping our situation and that being friends is the best option at this point because he feels as if he's losing me but can't be in a commitment to keep me around. I don't want to do the wrong thing and would truly appreciate any advice that I can get. Thank you for reading.

[@LoveAdviceTVCommunity]

Hello Jennifer Ramnarine, thank you for sharing your story. We see this type of behavior every day. If he gets the sense that you are over him and are moving on, he's going be singing a different tune. It's like clockwork :) www.withmyexagain.com - Coach Steven

[@saptadeepabiswas3174]

Hi Adrian, It's been 10 months our break up happened. He suddenly broke up. Intial 4 months I was not able to expect it. But gradually I expected the fact. I have joined to a new company in senior project coordinator. I have informed him to the next through a text message. But no replies. He often check out my what's up status. Now it's been 6 months I am in no contact. But he has reached out. Is it hopeless? I feel this sometimes. Should I have no hope to get him back? Please provide your advice. Your videos are really helping me in my journey. Those are strength of my sorrows.

[@SimonWYHuang]

She still talks to me in the same way where she likes to tell me what to do, even though I don't think that were together anymore. That happened couple of days ago where she asked me to cancel certain accounts without telling me the reason. When I found out from the company that she took another action without telling me, I asked her why and she told me the company was being unresponsive. Then she said that I haven't been responsive to her as well (blaming me). Arg...

[@bhargavtejas4432]

It's been 3 months of NC. Is it still worth hoping for her to contact and make amends?

[@zaige11]

when is someone hopeless:(

[@martinsaldana421]

What to do if your ex keeps going back-and-forth between you and their new relationship ?

[@stevenkelli3377]

Coach Steven, My ex left me while I’m deployed overseas right now about a month ago. She has me blocked on all ways to contact her. At first it was everything but I wasn’t blocked from seeing her FB. Then about a week ago she blocked me on FB completely not just messenger. So then I sent flowers and fruit to her job and I got an email from her saying stop I don’t want anything from you and that was the last I’ve heard from her. I am seriously struggling with all this being deployed and loosing her. I seriously don’t know what to do anymore. I love her so much. We bought a house together, were engaged at one point. She got off birth control while I was here so we could try for a baby when I got home and due to some extensive circumstances we got into an argument and she decided to just end everything being all my stuff to my families house and completely block me from her life. I am beyond broken and I want to save our relationship but here just leaving me on this deployment when I needed her most really really destroyed me. Idk what to do or where to begin. Please please please reply. I need someone’s help

[@tanzaniatravelinsight]

Kellz 413MASSFLNY I hope it went well for you...but one thing about life is..sometimes your heart will get broken to save your soul...choose to be happy...you have a long path to walk..trust life...it will surprise you best!! All the best...

[@wedoba]

Could you guys do a video on when your ex is emotionally hurt and weak. Like so messed up over the break up and being with a new person that she told me she sometimes doesnt think there is much to life anymore. This girl is the most important person to me and will remain that way. So I want to help her before a make and relationship attempts obviously. She willing to keep being friends, we still talk and already did the "let me give your your things back" crap but now how, how do I carefully move this along? My point is how can I help an ex who is emotionally hurt?

[@jendevalencia7533]

I think I have a crush on coach Steven😍😘 my ex who? Lol

[@codyriiter3645]

Could y’all do a video on ex’s who are alcoholics who are in the process of rehab. How to tell that they’re recover is working even during no contact period.

[@missbethsabamyjoker3968]

What if your ex broke up only because of a disagreement about the future? Should you give up? He broke up 2 months ago after a great one year relationship because we realised I want kids and he doesn't. He's not even adamant about not wanting kids but he's scared of wasting my time and depriving me of being a mother. He still had feelings for me and we were both devastated when he made that decision (of course right as it was happening, I begged and cried). Since the breakup, we had kept in touch and seen each other regularly, even sleeping together. But I discovered two weeks ago that he was on dating websites and had gone on a few dates not even a month after the breakup. So in his mind, we are exes while I was hoping we were slowly getting back together (he sent me a lot of mixed signals). He admitted that he went on dates because he missed me. I still decided to start the no contact process at that moment and he reluctantly agreed. I seriously don't know what to think. I know he didn't want to break up but the fact that he took the active step of dating again confuses me and hurts me.

[@shetabag8754]

I'm hopeless we messed up the chances, i still love him But since he's younger than me he told me that i will just his big sister that his not ready for relationship,, we are long distance relationship and i think he doesn't want to see me anymore and I'm going home soon..my heart is crying but I'm trying to accept it and trying to move on and be the better version of my self.

[@hazembentaher5165]

Heyy i have a question i meet my ex by accident during no contact days but we spent really good time togther . My question should i stike and continue to no contact days or just stop the contact days and text her ?

[@donovanpillay7829]

Broke up with ex almost 2 years. We have been in contact all this time and she has moved on and looks serious. I still feel very strongly for her but she asked me to move on. What should I do?

[@siddhantkambli2304]

make a video on when your Ex breaks no contact and says she is moving to new town within 15 days . and she wants to have a small get together and invites u there

[@tamcookingandgames1363]

Hello, my ex broke up with me 3 months ago, a month after a breakup he got into a relationship. He told me it’s just for benefit. Since then we hadn’t really talked. I was trying to move on. Two weeks ago he sent me a voice message(he was crying) to apologize me for how he treated me in the past. He told me I deserve someone better. A week later I reached out to him asking how he was doing, Then he was really cold and asked me not to get in touch with him anymore because he’s in a serious relationship now (the person he told me it was just for benefit) and told me he has to move on so he’s gonna unfollow me in any social media. I felt really hurt and nobody wants to know that your significant other is now loving someone else. But I wish they both the best if that person makes him happy. A few days later he hadn’t unfollowed me, then he sent a message to explain why he asked me that. It was about he’s trying to be a better person in the new relationship. But he said he realized he still wants me in his life. And the girl that is now in a relationship with him doesn’t mind if we’re still talking and chatting because he said it’s not gonna be anything else. I feel lost. I do want to talk to him because I still have the feelings but it hurts me inside. What do you think he’s thinking and what should I do?

[@LoveAdviceTVCommunity]

Hey dgkebsk shks, he's definitely trying to have his cake and eat it too. You need to fall back and let him prove to you and himself how much he wants you in his life. You also need to let this new relationship of his ride its course and not try to fight for his love and affection - Coach Steven www.withmyexagain.com/coaching/

[@andrewbunch6206]

Hey coach Aderian or Steven I got a question for you me and my ex fiance were Together for 11 long years and separated for 7 months now all her belongings is still at the house and all her important mail still comes here too she only took couple of baskets of clothes were still good friends and talk and text everyday or sometimes we only talk once or twice a week does this all sounds like good signs to you that we can get back together I need your help and advice on this one please respond back to me as soon as possible I would appreciate it vary much thank you you guys are awesome in what you do and your videos are amazing

[@mrunknown512]

Hi Coaches. My ex reached out to me last week kind of rudely. But she had me blocked for over a month but when she reached out I asked if she’d consider unblocking me on everything. The next day she did and reached out to me to tell me, she is still slightly defensive and seems a bit bitter for whatever reason but she was definitely being slightly nicer and more receptive. That was motivation for me to think that things might be moving in the direction of us getting back together. I want to start the process now but don’t know how to go about it or since she dumped me should I try to let her do it instead?

[@mrunknown512]

also she does self Sabotage. Her best friend is a very very bad influence but I’ve never had someone care for me or want me to grow as much as her. She helped me and did her best to push me up when she could but I became complacent with where I was at in life and needy. Luckily I now know I can’t afford to do that again in life from this experience and I’ve grown so much

[@ginasa888]

My ex husband and i divorced 5months ago, he was already in a new relationship (cheating) before we got divorced and ended up in a relationship with that girl.. we share a 2y old daughter.. he presented his mistress to his family , posting her on insta and living together as soon as i moved out.. two weeks ago he told me he still loves me and cannot forget me and want to try to fix things.. i told him first to get rid of his girlfriend.. but he didnt do anything... he was just playing me.. i feel like its time to give up

[@LoveAdviceTVCommunity]

Hey Sina Lala, you did the right thing, though. You held your convictions and kept your dignity by not letting him take you for a fool. I have a feeling he's going to make a second attempt at trying to convince you. Just wait, but don't focus on it. - Coach Steven

[@tvsrn44]

My ex and I were/are dunno best friends, and had a situationship. We had a beautiful and powerful emotional connection, however we had barriers as he was leaving the country and we had religious and cultural differences. He was a pessimist and I was an optimist. It made it easier for him to move on but hard for me. It’s been 4 months since the break up, (we were together for 4 months too) but I cannot seem to get him out of my head. I am clouded with false hopes and expectations and that’s affecting our friendship in a really bad way. I need to stop fantasizing. I need help.

[@bindhureny5239]

Hi coach,I have been watching the vedios n it was really hard for me to do no contact after so much begging n pleading..I have got reply from u a month back that there is a way to alleviate my pain..I tried hard n it's been a month I did no contact though I got texts n calls I ended up well with out dragging...and n I think the table is bit turned...he reaches out to me n curious about how am doing...but I am healing n didn't feel lyk wht I felt before...thank u coach

[@piggyPandaPrice2]

Hey guys, I did no contact for 2 weeks and she finally reached out saying that she felt heartbroken about the fact that i didn't talk to her and she regretted the decision she made. We finally agreed that we rushed into our first relation and to take things slow and start as friends and eventually give our relationship another shot, is that a good or bad thing

[@LoveAdviceTVCommunity]

Hey Ivan Lopez, this is actually GREAT! Just remember to take things SLOW. As soon as you pressure her, she's going to start pulling away. But don't be so slow as to make her thing you're not interested. Good luck! www.withmyexagain.com - Coach Steven

[@hereonlyculturally6334]

is it possible to have ur ex back after we have hurt him deeply for a misunderstanding, and he now thinks we are no more the girl with teh characteristics he is looking for?

[@lilvin3610]

Hi, i'm 19 and my ex gf just turned 18. I've had a 3,5 year relationship with my ex, were we broke up multiple times. It was (literally) always my fault, bc I broke up with her 3 times bc I felt like i wasnt ready for a relation ship duo to my own personal cercomstances. We did have a very special connection though and we did love eachother to death. However, sometimes I took my GF for granted and I didnt alway take the the effort to see her or to do the stuff for her that she deserves. She is also still mad ad me for not alway 'fully telling the truth' about other girlfriends (just regular friends but she could get really jalous). I also wasnt always very clear about that sort of stuff wich damaged her trust in me. Now, its been more than 3 months since the last time I broke up with her. In that time, weve been able to keep being friends, but she is happy with some one else. That person is someone who does put that effort in seeing her, and other stuff. Just basic stuff but she is some one that doesn't need much. I've said sorry, i've begged multiple times, I tried to bargane with her but she wont budge! She is very, very monogamous and I know she already got over us. Yet, she still reaches out to me (thou she does make it clear that were just friends) and wants to stay in contact very day. I know for sure tho thats because she just doesnt want to loose the people around her, and yes i've been very special to her. But she doesnt want to commit anyomore, because i've done so much pain to that girl and i know she is still angry for a lot of that I know she still loves me but is not IN love with And I know, that she is truly happy with the other guy, bc he gives things I do not get the chance for giving her again... Yet, I do know it CAN work. I do know, I AM better for her and can be better for her than anyone else... YEt, do i truly need to let her go..? is there really, nothing but nothing that I can do..? plz help

[@ciaranrussell4351]

Lil Vin update?

[@joseponce1269]

What if you have a kid together ? Is it still hopeless? My ex broke up with me a year ago and right now she doesn’t even talk to me about our son’s health and I’m Always the one talking about our son’s health. What can I do to maker her feel attractive to me again ?

[@peytonbarber4033]

It’s been 10 months since we’ve broken up. We’ve dated off and on for 2 1/2 years. I broke up with him twice and we got back together both times. This time he broke up with me and he doesn’t want me back. Says he doesn’t want to be with ANYONE and I’ve asked him if I’m the future he could see us together and he said he doesn’t know because he doesn’t know how he will feel in the future. We still talk though. I know he doesn’t want to get back together because of me. Is it hopeless?

[@raostudio9287]

It's one year ago we broke up,but still she is 24hour in my mind.There is no single minute without her thought. May be she is dating someone ,I don't know what's going on with me.will you plz help me.

[@projectlovenote]

He broke up with me because he said he was going through some kind of quarter life crisis/existential issues and wanted to work on himself. I’ve been trying to move on, initiating periods of no contact at times and working on myself. But he still messages me and is hot and cold. Tells me he misses me, kisses me on the head/cheek/cuddles and sends more kisses in texts... wants to see me and reminisce. But then there will be days I don’t hear from him or he is vague about what he’s up to... He’ll say he’ll call but then doesn’t and say weeks later that he was busy with work. I’ve been strong and positive for the 4-5 months we’ve been broken up. We were together for about 4 years prior. Lived together, travelled the world together...talked about marriage etc a little. But recently we had a drink together with friends and when he walked me home he started talking about us again and how confused he was... And for the first time he saw me really cry about it. I told him it’s hard to hear all this and be in contact with him and that I know I’ve made it look like I’m fine, but it does still hurt. He was shocked but also he cried and was glad that I clearly had feelings??? He thought I’d just been so unemotional before. I think he still loves me... but he’s admitted he doesn’t know what to do, he wants it both ways. He wants me and he wants freedom to just do whatever it takes to selfishly improve himself. But I told him I would NEVER stop him following his dreams. I would support him, his dreams are mostly all music related. He’s going to meet me in a week or so and we’re going to ‘talk’. But I’m scared. I don’t know if this really is the end and I need to give up... Or if something good might happen with us... I have such mixed feelings. What should I do when I meet him? Is this hopeless???

[@lucygodfrey141]

Zoooniverse, I am sorry for your troubles but you sound like a doormat.... Some of his dreams should include you, or the both of you and what about your dreams, is he ever going to return your equality and support you? I hope you will meet someone who is deserving of you and tries to understand you!

[@Summerbreze]

My man coach Steven got on a button up.. under a hoodie... under a blazer 😂😂... let me be your fashion therapist lol nah jk but you guys are alll awesome ... I’m pretty sure I lost my ex for good and I’m coming to terms to be ok with that it’s been like 1 week since we actually had a smooth conversation but I feel like she is completely over me .. we broken up several times before but this time I just feel like it’s completely over...

[@LoveAdviceTVCommunity]

Thanks for the support, Summerbreze. It was cold in the studio, and allow ME to be your fashion therapist: style rules are meant to be broken ;) It's called "sprezzatura" - Coach Steven

[@SilentArrowsFlight]

Hi so my ex broke up with me about a week ago. She used to take me to school 2 days later I told her I found another ride and I’m fine I needed to give her space. The next morning she asked if I wanted a ride and said she really didn’t care about it. We laugh and talk in the car and at school but out of school she doesn’t talk to me unless I text first. I’m getting mixed signals what should I do?

[@josephplt3588]

can you please read this and just tell me if I still have a chance. Don't sugarcoat it either LOL. 7 years with my ex that was nearly perfect. She never screamed, never jealous, so respectful, and everybody loved her. Such a nice woman, I swear. So calm. So For the last 2 years, she's been living with me. She and her son moved from another country to be down here. I used to treat her real bad everytime I felt insecure or jealous. We broke up 1 month ago because I thought she was cheating (I was wrong). I woke her up at 7am on a Sunday morning with suitcases telling her to leave. I really didn't want her to leave but my pride wouldn't let me make it better. She went to go stay with a lady friend. I never did the NC rule and I always end up running back begging and pleading. Her replies are that she just wants to time to be alone for now. She did say I haven't left her alone either since the breakup so I know I fucked up there. 2 weeks ago she did text me and say "Hi" but that was it. Then the next time I talked to her she was cold again. I did begin to beg and plead again (yeah I know). She kept saying she just wants to be alone FOR NOW. I know I need to back off, but our situation is a bit different. Remember she came from another country.. She's already buying new stuff for where she lives and separating our gym accounts and stuff like that. I'm just so confused. I think the worst thing in life is to lose someone to death, but right after that is this shit right here. I have a lot of guilt too, that's what's killing me. So my MOM texts her last week talking bad about the friend she's staying with saying she's influincing my ex not to come back to me. The next day, my ex told me she didn't love me anymore and that I should be ashamed that I have my mom fighting my battles. I swear I didn't know my mom was texting her and I swore up and down to her that I truly didn't know. I know for a fact she's angry, but it's been a month and she just told me she doesn't love me while being angry. I'm just not sure if she'll come back. We were deeply in love, very deep.

[@LoveAdviceTVCommunity]

Just let her cool off and keep YOUR COOL! She's testing your resolve as a man. Don't lose your shit - Coach Steven

[@josephplt3588]

@@LoveAdviceTVCommunity what do you mean "your resolve"? As in how I'm going to act?

[@LoveAdviceTVCommunity]

Yes, as in how you're going to act or react - Coach Steven

[@josephplt3588]

@@LoveAdviceTVCommunity You're the only to take the time and reply to all my questions. Thank you bro, I really appreciate it (Coach Steven).

[@bokatychishi8439]

My dear coach's you both look great 😍👌

[@paragdoodhya7795]

what to do if I have developed strong feelings for my best girlfriend & may be she's not romantically interested in me ? So, should I walk away or stay best friends ?

[@dave1604f]

Ex broke up with me 4 and a half years and got with a new guy relatively quick, they jumped into alot of things very quick and she has just returned from holiday with him. It pains me to see a display picture of those two kissing but I have learnt over the last couple of months happiness is key to everything. I reach out to my ex a couple of times recently, very positive interactions we have but I am scared to phone as I reckon she would be with this guy. I want to move it just from texts and challenge her into having a meet up with me that she has been wanting to do for 3 months now but keeps putting it off, any suggestions coaches?