Conflict, Confrontation, and Arguing Well

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With The Perrys

With The Perrys

Күн бұрын

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@davidwilliamadusa
@davidwilliamadusa Жыл бұрын
Disrespect is natural Love is supernatural -Jackie
@delishae7999
@delishae7999 Жыл бұрын
Love this quote!
@oscarmike1131
@oscarmike1131 Жыл бұрын
That was a word
@danionjean3629
@danionjean3629 Жыл бұрын
Noted ✍️
@HephzibahGarden
@HephzibahGarden 5 ай бұрын
Disrespect isn’t natural, anything with DIS is a curse, dismay, disappointment, disrespect. Love is natural.
@cb4664
@cb4664 2 ай бұрын
Caught that too 🔥
@elora2993
@elora2993 Жыл бұрын
They clean together, talking about it like its nothing... This is goals for me. I don't want a man that'll fight me about household duties. Lord hear my prayer lol
@asiamwithraenetteleepodcast
@asiamwithraenetteleepodcast Жыл бұрын
The way that I felt this comment on the highest level I absolutely understand what you mean because I have been through this already in my life and it really is frustrating
@shesvirtuous
@shesvirtuous Жыл бұрын
Amen and with joy and dancing
@senamelaku3832
@senamelaku3832 Жыл бұрын
Me too
@Soundslike_tenetta
@Soundslike_tenetta Жыл бұрын
Amen!
@biolove193
@biolove193 Жыл бұрын
Yes
@shekinahnoelle
@shekinahnoelle Жыл бұрын
“Oh, we’re back to you.” Jackie’s sarcasm is so funny 😂
@karensindisoparimwa6130
@karensindisoparimwa6130 Жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂
@deebrown3832
@deebrown3832 Жыл бұрын
Very funny
@PraiseGodall
@PraiseGodall Жыл бұрын
I was paralyzed in bed last year and I heard Jesus say out loud to me - If you believe in me get up and walk💜🕊💜 I got up and not only walked but went for a walk outside. Praise God!!!!! GOD IS ALWAYS WORKING!!!! ✌💜🕊🙏
@queenkamie1743
@queenkamie1743 10 ай бұрын
Praise God
@PraiseGodall
@PraiseGodall 10 ай бұрын
@@queenkamie1743 Amen 🙏 Thank you JESUS 🛐 May God bless you all the days of your life. 🎉
@jordanhenry5072
@jordanhenry5072 8 ай бұрын
AMEN!!!
@Still_blessedlouise
@Still_blessedlouise 8 ай бұрын
Hallelujah! God is still alive and performing great works even today!
@mosunshine9265
@mosunshine9265 6 ай бұрын
WOWWW GLORY BE TO YHWH!!!!! 💜💜💜✝️✝️✝️
@2022perseverance
@2022perseverance Жыл бұрын
What a conversation between two mature, and emotionally inteligent people sounds like.
@jenniferwalsh1731
@jenniferwalsh1731 Жыл бұрын
that's what God does! Praise Jesus!
@nompilosibiya8373
@nompilosibiya8373 Жыл бұрын
Within the first 16 minutes, I realize there is a lot of humility and serving the other person in marriage.
@Seyi-f4c
@Seyi-f4c 11 ай бұрын
"The primary insecurity we have is a lack of intimacy with God" "If I'm secure in the Lord, that frees me to love without fear" Thank you for this, it is such a helpful prayer point!
@babyjane6201
@babyjane6201 Жыл бұрын
we love a NOT 30 minutes with the Perrys 👏🏽🔥
@TheWordwithWhit
@TheWordwithWhit Жыл бұрын
Literally😅 I never want it to end lol
@joys_mag
@joys_mag Жыл бұрын
@@TheWordwithWhit SAme thoughts
@khloealexis2888
@khloealexis2888 10 ай бұрын
Literally I could listen to them talk about the same topic for HOURS and never get tired of it 😭
@Candie4JC
@Candie4JC Жыл бұрын
0:10-0:41 is the absolute most precious, tender, adorably flirtatious interaction I’ve seen between the 2 of them 🥰🥰
@Its_tiy
@Its_tiy Жыл бұрын
Righttt!!!! I was kinda shocked but then I remembered they have 4 children 😂😂😂I love how modest they are with their affection its so cute to me and shows the depths of their love being beyond the flesh 🤍
@ThinkandBlinksgw
@ThinkandBlinksgw Жыл бұрын
Yes...ive never seen that raw affection
@DailyDoseOfRuth
@DailyDoseOfRuth Жыл бұрын
it made my heart flutter
@GodsGirl850
@GodsGirl850 Жыл бұрын
I just felt sorry for him when she didn't reciprocate the same feelings toward him . When he asked her what was her favorite moment and she said that she couldn't think of anything, she said she didn't have one! He said "You can't find Nothing"? 😔
@goodnessadegbola8301
@goodnessadegbola8301 Жыл бұрын
I’m glad I’m not the only one that saw that
@NicieWilliams
@NicieWilliams Жыл бұрын
I'm not married but I need to keep this ep in my back pocket. Thank you Lord.
@tunneleddiscovery5
@tunneleddiscovery5 Жыл бұрын
That intro question...😂 he really had one true thought. And Jackie was so calm in response to the revelation (small smile then "anything else") that THAT Was his happy moment. Lol i love their love
@lenalee5939
@lenalee5939 Жыл бұрын
Okay 😂 I slick saw that and busted up laughing
@TheBlessing288
@TheBlessing288 Жыл бұрын
To everyone that is involved in worship...musicians, production, camera ops...don't ever think that you are simply doing a job. You are creating an atmosphere for GOD to move...for him to reveal himself in the hearts of those who are truly open and need him the most. GOD is doing the rest...he just wants US to roll out the red carpet for him...to exalt him....to be a conduit for him to work. Great job to all!
@artforchrist5065
@artforchrist5065 Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for this ❤️ God bless you!
@randomfinds2756
@randomfinds2756 Жыл бұрын
beautifully said💫
@sincereshay
@sincereshay Жыл бұрын
When I watch them, it reminds me of why my last relation didn’t work. I couldn’t have conversations like this, ever
@SheSharpNotFlat
@SheSharpNotFlat Жыл бұрын
Wow. Wow, wow, wow. After 10 years of marriage I finally know what my issue is as it relates to conflict. I’m similar to Preston here (wanting to deal with issues immediately/lacking patience) and my Husband is similar to Jackie (shutting down). Both tie into our upbringing. Thank you for sharing your experiences and wisdom. Listening to this again. Team 60minutes with the Perry’s!! Let’s go!!
@kristenreed5224
@kristenreed5224 Жыл бұрын
Fr 30 mins is not enough. Lol
@Ms0livebby
@Ms0livebby Жыл бұрын
Girl, I literally just said this. I'm Preston, and my hubby is Jackie. This was good!
@davidmbugua47
@davidmbugua47 Жыл бұрын
I never thought about this. I shut down too
@prettygirlat21
@prettygirlat21 Жыл бұрын
The same with me and my husband of 11 years. The communication is there but it’s not good arguing. I shut down and he’s confronting and be strong and wrong.
@theleadherlabwithmarsha
@theleadherlabwithmarsha Жыл бұрын
Yes! Same here. When he said he once thought that desiring to confront things right away was about unity and then recognizing it wasn't....... that hit me. I am pausing at different sections and reflecting because i am very much like Preston and I thought the same thing but I am realising impatience is really at the root.
@MaryBonham-o9r
@MaryBonham-o9r 12 күн бұрын
The pain in my heart is unbearable, my husband leaving our marriage have put a ton in my heart, I have been telling myself am strong enough but am not sure I am, I haven’t been able to get him of my mind, I just want him back
@GlindaClark
@GlindaClark 12 күн бұрын
This is a very familiar pain. I know how unbearable it feels
@MaryBonham-o9r
@MaryBonham-o9r 12 күн бұрын
Did you go through similar situation and how did you deal with it?
@GlindaClark
@GlindaClark 12 күн бұрын
Yes I did but I got my partner back with the help of a spiritual Counsellor Father Akabu. He has a gift for restoring broken relationships
@MaryBonham-o9r
@MaryBonham-o9r 12 күн бұрын
Do you think he can help me?
@GlindaClark
@GlindaClark 12 күн бұрын
I’m sure he can. You can find him online he’s a very powerful spiritualist
@UnDL-n1i
@UnDL-n1i Жыл бұрын
Heavy on the " I don't want to tolerate the people i love , I want to love them well" 😪 patience is truly a virtue & I'm grateful for the grace , love& patience God has extended to me while working through this .
@TheJazzluna4
@TheJazzluna4 Жыл бұрын
This conversation encouraged me to sit down and have a conversation with someone who I avoided for two years. Jackie described me like she knew me since childhood. It's hard to look at yourself and admit that you have unpleasant qualities. But it really takes getting out of your comfort zone, out of your pride, and face what God is trying to fix.
@mayamitchell9310
@mayamitchell9310 11 ай бұрын
This is me too 😢
@LM_Laiz
@LM_Laiz Жыл бұрын
“Disrepect is natural, Love is supernatural”
@jadesuede
@jadesuede Жыл бұрын
That fear of rejection after conflict, yep Jackie
@mrsburton7911
@mrsburton7911 Жыл бұрын
🤯🤯🤯 never thought of it that way
@cindymakh99
@cindymakh99 Жыл бұрын
@@mrsburton7911right?!! I was like that’s a revelation😂
@wrshpgirl84
@wrshpgirl84 Жыл бұрын
This whole video lead me to repentance, forgive me, Lord. Thank you for this couple. Lord continue to bless them!
@islandQueen246
@islandQueen246 Жыл бұрын
Amen on ALL fronts!!!
@wrshpgirl84
@wrshpgirl84 Жыл бұрын
@@islandQueen246 amen! Lord help us to grow IN you!
@annies9633
@annies9633 Жыл бұрын
Yes! 🥹🙌❤️
@carolineadams4037
@carolineadams4037 Жыл бұрын
Quick confessions keeps the enemies lies at bay 🔥🔥🔥
@ShesNatural1
@ShesNatural1 Жыл бұрын
The fact that you guys are still getting to know each other and are still intrigued by each other is so beautiful to me💜
@joys_mag
@joys_mag Жыл бұрын
I literally tell everybody i know about Jackie and Preston, as someone who grew up in a legalistic church, fell out of the church and now navigating my way back, y'all have been a great great help. Keep doing the Lord's work! Love from Uganda
@ashleycameron1599
@ashleycameron1599 Жыл бұрын
They’re both really deep souls. Having the deep knowledge of God, having the mind of Christ. Jesus has certainly knitted their hearts together.
@middletonumolo6952
@middletonumolo6952 Жыл бұрын
That "he just constipated" line was funny. But fr every episode is insightful "Conflict can create more intimacy"
@Rachellen1
@Rachellen1 Жыл бұрын
These people are so wise. But also keep me so entertained. And they have the most beautiful family. Keep the discussions coming please
@butterflybri3168
@butterflybri3168 Жыл бұрын
I’m so Jackie! I grew up in a conflict avoidant family and lacked the know-how to even communicate. Here I am 30yrs old still learning to become more vocal and assertive 😅 GOD is still growing me in this area 🙏🏽
@ginl-j
@ginl-j Жыл бұрын
Disrespect is natural. Love is supernatural....😮 Let us think about that.....
@Platinum1angel
@Platinum1angel Жыл бұрын
I need to remember this constantly
@terryhuffaker3615
@terryhuffaker3615 Жыл бұрын
1:30 I was watching the basketball game and Autumn came to me, "I love you daddy".. subtext, Autumn is alone and wants to interact with a daddy who is hyper focused on a televised or recorded game. She's a smart baby so she gets his attention by getting up into his lap and starting the interaction with " I love you, daddy". Smart child and a loving family environment is behind that daughter father interaction. ❤
@missj9879
@missj9879 Жыл бұрын
I’m SO glad you pointed out how our mothers can display bad behavior toward men that we, as young women, often repeat if God doesn’t reveal the unhealthy patterns to us. I’ve seen that, but I refuse to repeat it.
@ashleefigaro4604
@ashleefigaro4604 Жыл бұрын
YESSSS!!! That part spoke to my SOULLLLL!!
@rehanna6594
@rehanna6594 Жыл бұрын
​@@ashleefigaro4604Wow!
@NatalieAndersonGP
@NatalieAndersonGP Жыл бұрын
By taking my anger to God, He showed me that my communication style, ( disrespectful and or unloving) was something I used to be heard or to protect myself from others. The more I focus on serving my husband as I would serve God the more He could change the way I communicate. I am a mixture of the 2 of you. I start off bold and telling you exactly what the problem is and then I punish with silence. When God showed me myself... I had to ask Him to change me. Now I know that I can express myself and still be submitting. Thank you 2 for all of the "real-life walk" talk.
@Velvetvoice06
@Velvetvoice06 Жыл бұрын
In almost every relationship I know there is one individual who pursues conflict and another who avoids it. And you know what? The balance is healthy and beautiful ❤
@tashmabailey9291
@tashmabailey9291 Жыл бұрын
OMG this is the best. It is helping me to see me
@predestinedpeers777
@predestinedpeers777 Жыл бұрын
The Chemistry you two have is amazing to watch
@annettehope2023
@annettehope2023 Жыл бұрын
“Be quiet please” ahaha😂 I love this conversation, you two are a blessing. My mother also shuts down in the midst of conflict, avoids it fully. It’s very hard to have patience with her but I pray The Holy Spirit will urge her to change and grow🙏🏼
@sherrela-nay
@sherrela-nay Жыл бұрын
Ya'll out here saving marriages. This is so good. Thankful for ya'll Godly example and communication of the truth of God's word to help us win...
@MarcelasHoward
@MarcelasHoward Жыл бұрын
This was absolutely beautiful. Thank you guys for this 🙏🏽
@jeremiahsmith4540
@jeremiahsmith4540 Жыл бұрын
Wow this is one of the best marriage conversations I've heard in a long time and of late that's the majority of what I've been watching on KZbin. Pray for my marriage to be reconciled from divorce.
@paulachinn6306
@paulachinn6306 Жыл бұрын
Will 🙏
@themrs.hamptonshow1384
@themrs.hamptonshow1384 11 ай бұрын
I’m late but said a prayer for you. I pray things are moving in a better direction now.
@kyderbylove
@kyderbylove 4 ай бұрын
This is a needed discussion so many young and/or newly married couples need.
@tobeblessed89
@tobeblessed89 Жыл бұрын
this couple is sooo authentic. Thank you for being gentle but straight with each other
@Andy-wz7jm
@Andy-wz7jm Жыл бұрын
This whole setup is amazing. Look at Jackie loving on her man all comfortable by him , showing us her soft side ❤ loooooove this !!!!!
@tracyjohn-charles1696
@tracyjohn-charles1696 Жыл бұрын
Jackie looking good. 4 kids!? Okay girl at pre kid weight? That's a feat. You go girl! Lol. Seriously, I love you guys. Love your ministry. Love your love. God bless you both continually❤
@ketsial5669
@ketsial5669 Жыл бұрын
Love that story Preston shared in the beginning of Autumn being super sweet and loving but not as expressive emotionally and him carving out space to sit with her. I was the same way when I was little so I can relate !! 😭 When you are a deeeeep feeler sometimes it’s more vulnerable to share how you feel. So even displaying glimpses into the depth of emotion you feel toward those you love is a vulnerable feeling. As one of 4 girls I can attest to not wanting to compete for attention with my other siblings who are more quick witted I would say. Even though I was more slow placed it’s because I was taking everything in so deeply and richly. Having those big emotions in a little body is quite an experience but knowing your being held creates the space for you to start expressing it ❤️
@Kimbrasa
@Kimbrasa Жыл бұрын
Whew... this is my daughter, but I didn't see it 😢 I am very emotionally expressive and have raised all of them to share their thoughts and feelings, but I'm rather demanding about it. I don't like conflict, but I don't feel comfortable sitting on and through bad feelings; I HAVE TO confront it. I'm like Preston in this, for sure. But I don't have the patience for my daughter whose face is set like stone and sooo slow to express emotion. Thank you for sharing your perspective. This has changed my outlook and shown me myself. I've got a lot of work to do. Do a work in my heart, Jesus, and create in me a clean heart, indeed. For the sake of those I love, let me show love in dying to self every day, amen.
@ketsial5669
@ketsial5669 Жыл бұрын
​@@Kimbrasa Ahhh wow thank you for sharing this. I love conversations like this where we get to see how we all process emotions differently and can grow to see and love each other even better. What a blessing 🙌🏾❤
@Nthabiseng_Tsagane
@Nthabiseng_Tsagane Жыл бұрын
Communication with your partner is extremely key. One is able to grow in humility, respect, love and honor for the other person.
@andrewgadson89
@andrewgadson89 Жыл бұрын
There isn't any partnership, It's simply Husband and Wife, representing Christ and his church.
@rehanna6594
@rehanna6594 Жыл бұрын
​@@andrewgadson89Humm, can you elaborate on that.
@whenyouwishuponastar6643
@whenyouwishuponastar6643 Жыл бұрын
Wow wow wow I’m only 15 minutes in, and I am resonating heavily with Preston. I’m like Preston and my husband is like Jackie. I’ve been feeling stuck on how to change habits I formed from my childhood. This is giving me hope for how we deal with conflict in my marriage. Ok ima listen to the rest now.
@Theeloveproject
@Theeloveproject Жыл бұрын
Man this right here!! This right here is good teaching! 🔥 Jackie said “Disrespect is natural, love is supernatural” I snapped my fingers like poetry! 😂🫰🏾 All jokes aside, I love this so much this is my second time watching it. So many nuggets and Godly perspectives on communicating. 🙌🏾💯
@ray_ban88
@ray_ban88 Жыл бұрын
Lord I just want to thank you for these two. They are making it okay to have tough conversations. This blessed me from a parent perspective… I have a 15 yr old and I’ve been having an issues with communicating my anger and hurt. Now I know how. Thank you guys!
@vicktory214
@vicktory214 Жыл бұрын
Thank for sharing that part about not waiting until the anger has dispelled before having difficult conversations. I’ve been learning that having emotions like anger is not a sin but to trust God with my all my emotions. This is so great! Just teaching about healthy conflict for reconciliation!
@obakengkgalaeng6157
@obakengkgalaeng6157 Жыл бұрын
I'm not married, but this touched me cause I'm confrontational but my friends & family are so passive aggressive
@voslosveryown
@voslosveryown Жыл бұрын
You can always tell when spouses value their friendship just as much as their marriage. This was such an insightful pod!! May God replenish the wisdom yal just dropped!!
@kimbunting3229
@kimbunting3229 Жыл бұрын
This was so good!! I’m not married yet but this helps me to have critical conversations with grace and humility
@mydearestpotato
@mydearestpotato Жыл бұрын
Your marriage is so beautiful and I love your transparency in sharing these challenges and learning patterns.
@lisah9397
@lisah9397 Жыл бұрын
Wow…this conversation was so enlightening. You guys have really grown so much. Jackie, I’m a communicator also and I can definitely identify with so much of what you said. Preston your perspective as a man truly blessed me. I thank God for your ministry gifts and your willingness to be transparent and vulnerable with us. May God continue to pour into your family, your marriage and your ministry.
@mtcStephen
@mtcStephen 11 ай бұрын
I gotta keep a dictionary when I watch this podcast and I love it.
@BlAcKeYs00
@BlAcKeYs00 Жыл бұрын
As I was listening, it just came to me what a beautiful creation here on earth your marriage union is, and the conversations that arise from you two are so beneficial to those listening that I'm just so glad that such conversations are being shared with the rest of the world!
@MD-mc3qq
@MD-mc3qq Жыл бұрын
Food for thought😩🙏🏾 pray for me pls.. I am that woman who has a SHARP tongue… more so from learnt behaviour… I grew up around predominantly single, independent, outspoken women, the first out of my parents, uncles, aunts, siblings and cousins to get married. I now have x3 girls and struggle to tame my tongue & KNOW the cycle needs to be broken. My husband has so many overt strongholds although he has come to Christ & I have so much pride to humble myself and be that submissive wife that brings him closer to Christ through my conduct. You guys are definitely one of God’s blessing in my life❤️💯keep doing what you do.
@the.journey.continues
@the.journey.continues 9 ай бұрын
This is so good. How we were raised, what we witnessed, has become the norm for most of us. Allowing the Lord to reprogram us in HIS ways is a process but it’s so beautiful and fruitful.
@cwnj40
@cwnj40 Жыл бұрын
I need therapy!!! I've listened to so many of your podcasts, and they are speaking to me do deeply!!
@lovinlifewithlaine
@lovinlifewithlaine Жыл бұрын
Great epidode. I listened on my walk, and man I felt convicted. I'm more like Preston, and I want to address stuff and move on immediately so I can return to my peaceful place without always considering that my peace doesn't mean my spouse, friend, or family has returned to peace, or is ready to talk about it.
@clorindajames3179
@clorindajames3179 9 ай бұрын
My husband is this person. I stew on things too long. I need a minute to talk about things.
@Godchaserforever1973
@Godchaserforever1973 10 ай бұрын
Enough to make a grown man cry. Such great stuff...I just discovered this podcast and I'm so glad I did. Thank You Lord!
@kimberlysnell2822
@kimberlysnell2822 Жыл бұрын
"God's command to love our neighbor better than ourselves applies to our spouse."...our closest neighbor. Appreciate your transparency of your own shortcomings...being real. Gives the rest of us hope for change 😆
@greatergrowth5623
@greatergrowth5623 Жыл бұрын
They been straight helping my marriage of 12yrs with their content. Keep it coming Perry’s!!❤ I’m loving EVERY bit of it!
@bthechurch7877
@bthechurch7877 Жыл бұрын
Lord....I THANK YOU FOR THIS!!! 💯💯💯 Priceless content for both sides. Thank you Lord!!! Lord help us to acknowledge that which needs to be removed from us and learn how to communicate well so that we can love one another and grow in the right way. (REPLAY!!)
@itsalexdabhi
@itsalexdabhi Ай бұрын
“Disrespect is natural, love is supernatural” that’s good!
@adrienneberry1764
@adrienneberry1764 Жыл бұрын
Quick confession is imperative in marriage, yes! This is sooo good. So true. But like Jackie stated, we learn this by watching women we grow up with or around. And too, and especially, fatherless. Communication, letting one another know how we feel. It’s like when we sin and realize it, go directly to the Father and confess. “I’m sorry, I messed up”. Pride aside and confess. Thank you so much, truth.
@LorenaHarper
@LorenaHarper Жыл бұрын
“These behaviors are effecting my respect and I want to respect you. I want to value you but that is making it hard for me.” Wish i had this years ago 😅❤
@shesvirtuous
@shesvirtuous Жыл бұрын
I needed these months ago
@LorenaHarper
@LorenaHarper Жыл бұрын
@@shesvirtuous the one that i use with males that matter is, “when you do ____ it makes me feel ____.” But even this takes time because i have to sit and fill in the blanks before i go address it with them lol 😅 they always respond well. it’s just aggravating to stop, sit, and find the accurate fill-ins. Most of the time its a repetitive behavior so i have to dig within as to why it makes me feel a kinda way and also decipher is it a me problem that i can fix or is it something thats really that important that it requires their assistance/change. Like are they being offensive or am i just offended kind of thing…
@shesvirtuous
@shesvirtuous Жыл бұрын
@@LorenaHarper thank you
@ThaMANofSTEEL
@ThaMANofSTEEL Жыл бұрын
This is definitely an area of prayer for me.
@TiffanyCotton
@TiffanyCotton Жыл бұрын
Jackie’s outburst gets me EVERY TIME! Lol
@KristenAngelica
@KristenAngelica Жыл бұрын
My goodness. This one was so meaty! "Women who are communicators..." whew 😮‍💨
@adrienneberry1764
@adrienneberry1764 Жыл бұрын
WoW!! This was truly beneficial to life married, engaged, or single,. How forthright and to the point. This made me realize my mistakes in relationships, and things I put up with in relationships, that should not have been. A lot of who we are as adults is what we been through growing up. That you “Perry’s “ . God bless your marriage continuously.
@roselynglover8927
@roselynglover8927 Жыл бұрын
You guys are so transparent about everything. I Love It.
@CynthiaPowell-v4h
@CynthiaPowell-v4h Жыл бұрын
Yes Love the way thay teach open bless them
@dramaqueen9299
@dramaqueen9299 Жыл бұрын
The fact this is the first time watching y’all and Autumn is my name I’m instantly crying SUBSCRIBED😭
@educatedfunk
@educatedfunk Жыл бұрын
Amen
@hrpratt48
@hrpratt48 9 ай бұрын
This is so good. I really needed to hear the man’s side of disrespect. I just realized listening to this podcast I’ve been so disrespectful to my man. I do the sly comments. He hurt me and completely demolished my trust in him 3 years ago. I have become so hurtful and disrespectful. I am so thankful I found Jackie this morning.
@nochso6835
@nochso6835 9 ай бұрын
Be honest. Were you not doing the sly comments before he lost your trust? Did it really start only after that?
@dejiourthepoet401
@dejiourthepoet401 Жыл бұрын
To keep it 100 videos that y’all do like this has really helped me in the process of engagement to marriage. Videos like these definitely makes it easy to see my own issues in my engagement in a very convicting but loving way but what’s different about this content is that you both are giving practical answers and advice to help change the problems in both parties.. I thank God that the Holy Spirit is moving through you both. Much love Perry’s
@chozie7
@chozie7 Жыл бұрын
Lol Preston’s stinky breath metaphor and Jackie’s bewilderment to that at 43:02 😂 I was listening to this on Spotify and couldn’t stop laughing!
@iyanttahowellmd
@iyanttahowellmd Жыл бұрын
So beautiful how Preston shows up supportive and patient in the marriage to model how Christ loves the church. Jackie’s statement about how being secure in the love of God frees a person to fully love their spouse was powerful.
@MAbraduAmoah
@MAbraduAmoah Жыл бұрын
This is soooooooooooooo good! Y’all- this is theee type of conversation we as a nation NEEEED to elevate mentally. Precise and Certain transparency, not surface level conversation. The way they aligned biblical truths with the unspoken truths of our hearts 🤯🔥. This is skillful articulation from artist who have great marital conversation and connection (practiced and learned) as well as meditating on how to express oneself (practiced and learned). Praise God . And these take courage and Intentionality to develop.
@chawonda
@chawonda Жыл бұрын
Dealing with conflict is an area I certainly struggle with and hearing this is super helpful and and very therapeutic. I thank you guys for being super transparent and just leaving out there. Imma watch a few times so to make sure I didn’t miss anything!! Much love and God Bless!!❤❤
@Key3de
@Key3de Жыл бұрын
Sheesh Preston’s last point about fear is so gooddd. Makes “perfect love casts out fear” hit me anew ❤
@sabrinademore
@sabrinademore Жыл бұрын
You two stretch me, every. single. time. Always good soul food.
@sabrinademore
@sabrinademore Жыл бұрын
Also, I didn't know about BOLD apparel - purchase made during this video. YES!
@Ntezzi
@Ntezzi 9 ай бұрын
I need to listen to this again because the conviction I have received from listening to this.
@oaojooo
@oaojooo 7 ай бұрын
Dis was so good. So many fruitful things said! “Be angry, but sin not” 🎯
@The_MUAlchemist
@The_MUAlchemist Жыл бұрын
Another gem, so good! I love how real this conversation was, I can’t wait for Glory Dallas!!
@ninalynn1704
@ninalynn1704 8 ай бұрын
It’s the fact I have been so busy that my room was a mess, I tackled it today took 3 hours. I’m ordering jerk chicken to reward myself as I’m waiting I’m watching this. Praise God for order .
@shaundriaparks5261
@shaundriaparks5261 Жыл бұрын
This gives me hope and being taught many lessons. I pray to God that he gives us strength in my marriage and helps us get through whatever battles that is hindering us from growing. I really needed to hear this.
@ChristianDiarieswithDonna
@ChristianDiarieswithDonna Жыл бұрын
So this just decided to pop up on my feed while my husband and I are going through conflict.. y'all are heaven sent!
@lala5061
@lala5061 2 ай бұрын
Patience is one of the qualities of love according to scripture...this is so good 👏🏽
@BlackTanjiro1
@BlackTanjiro1 9 ай бұрын
This!!!! My God described my marriage to a T. God bless your ministry man and woman of God
@lanetteblack3217
@lanetteblack3217 Жыл бұрын
Oh my goodness, so powerful!!!! I'm a lot like Jackie in not wanting to confront and never realized how it's tied to insecurity and believing that I might be abandoned. That's so on point for me.
@anewcee
@anewcee Жыл бұрын
I'm not even 8 minutes in and this conversation is blessing my soul. I was actually trying to continue in order binging the previous seasons, however due to the enemy trying to plague my marriage, the Spirit instantly led me to this video. Our foundation within our upbringing can cause so much chaos within our marriages. We definitely have to clear the slate through help from God, therapy, and sitting down with our spouses to define within OUR marriages exactly how we want it to be and what we want our offsprings to see that is within Christ and how He wants us to be within the marriage. MY LORD!!!!🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼 OAN: 42:19-42:20: I need that saying on a shirt good sir! Bold Apparel indeed!
@Amani715
@Amani715 10 ай бұрын
Thank you Jackie for that comment “withholding yourself from somebody you are called to love is some form of punishment and that’s not like Jesus”. I tend to go back into the introvert self when I get hurt and I feel talking at that time will hurt me more cuz I will hurt them if I try to speak. However when I go into my cave I may take long and my fiancé is a wonderful man and he may give me time to process things through and when he does that it would hurt me the most cuz I would now feel like he doesn’t care and he doesn’t want to apologize. So when I listened to you guys and when you made that comment, I stopped the podcast and called him right there and then and we talked things through and I have you to thank cuz I didn’t know how long I was gonna punish him with my silence😂 even though I was missing him. It’s a journey and thank God we have him to help us and people like you too. Amazing talk. God bless you all.
@Antanese2Real
@Antanese2Real Жыл бұрын
I just love them. This is crazy. This video popped up as me and my husband are cleaning the bathroom. 😂😫🖤 More Godly healthy authentic relationships.
@LemonLimeJuiceBarrell
@LemonLimeJuiceBarrell Жыл бұрын
These videos are such a blessing to my marriage. Thank y’all so much.
@Grimbles_
@Grimbles_ 3 ай бұрын
Amazing dialogue about conflict and confrontation.
@ReglularDude
@ReglularDude Жыл бұрын
This episode is so personal to me, man. I could totally relate with the "being mean with words" that Preston was talking about. My Ex. and I used to have a lot of issues. I stayed because I deeply loved her and believed it could work. I did. But I experienced the worst form of emotional and verbal abuse ever. I've never been with someone who treated me that way. I didn't feel safe. I didn't even feel like a man around her. Felt so intimidated. I've ended things, but I still feel sad sometimes. I told her "we can have disagreements/issues. That's okay. But how we sort things out is super important." We would have an issue, she'd say some mean things that would stick long after we sorted things."
@KEENINSTINCTS7
@KEENINSTINCTS7 Жыл бұрын
This is Blessed is peacemaker for they shall be call the children of God. You have be wise in how confront, so peace is made.
@SamiraJay
@SamiraJay Жыл бұрын
God just used this to bless me and confirm and bring a bit of clarity to the message He was giving me yesterday. Thank you all for continually sharing this with the internet & the world 🙏🏾
@katlegomokoroane7729
@katlegomokoroane7729 Жыл бұрын
I saw the episode on Spotify and thought "aah let me watch it today, I've missed their wisdom as well as their faces" i come over here and what? 40hours?😂 Forget yals faces I'm going back on Spotify for the wisdom 🤣 I'll see you another time, love you and GOD bless your faces😂❤️❤️❤️
@natashamcclennaham2541
@natashamcclennaham2541 2 ай бұрын
I love the communication in this marriage, best podcast I have came across!
@WinnieK-y9o
@WinnieK-y9o 10 ай бұрын
Christlike love is just as vulnerable as submission...I have never looked at it from that vulnerability standpoint. That's deep. Thanks!!
@msambi1216
@msambi1216 2 ай бұрын
First of all, the way Preston interjected and said "Discipleship" when Jackie was talking about that's what she saw and grew up around gave me a clear understanding of the word! Secondly, this was everything that I needed specifically today! #conviction
@nompilosibiya8373
@nompilosibiya8373 Жыл бұрын
I'm a lot like Preston in this. I wanna confront conflict fast.
@_ashleighla
@_ashleighla Жыл бұрын
Same. Nothing in me can allow things to stew and fester. I'm addressing it.
@nompilosibiya8373
@nompilosibiya8373 Жыл бұрын
@_ashleighla I totally get you. It can work for us and also against us😅
@angellkemokai1432
@angellkemokai1432 Жыл бұрын
Honestly I hate to dwell on things so I confront it immediately but I’m learning to pace myself.
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