Wmn know its important so they use it as form of control - Karyn Seitz

[@Leslie-es5ij]

These things could be talked about , and agreed upon before the wedding, and if not , no wedding ! Good way to weed out things, make a deal, a written agreement before the marriage starts, it might not hold up in court, but if it's broken it's a good reason to end it

[@jonjenkins5621]

Menopause typically begins at 51 but can occur as early as 40 and as late as 60. So it’s not menopause influencing women’s relationship to sex in their 30s. However there’s no question that menopause changes things radically for women wrt sex.

[@SHAKESDAGR8TV]

That is a valid point but with the way things are going as far as lack of interest very early in age, mixed in with our American diet one must question if Perimenopause is happening even earlier than what the women of the past experienced?!.

[@susanhaines7358]

Husband and wives made a commitment to each other. Men did not marry their job or their free time and ignore the wife and force her to do it all alone. Women need to speak up and have the nagging conversations because divorce and getting older is worse than being miserable for a season. So many dysfunctions in todays type of marriage. But same story. Roommates. Healthy marriages always say they are there for each other. Sex and desire doesnt die in those marriages.

[@dat581]

Nagging conversations should never happen. That will never work and will always get the husband to ignore his wife. Women never seem to realise that treating men this way will never get them what they want.

[@susanhaines7358]

@@dat581 some men need a good swift kick in the nutsack. If a man cannot do bedroom activities, be a man, husband, father etc. Then real conversations need to happen over and over. It is better to pass him off and make him grow up then divorce. You are thinking of nagging in general. I said the hard conversations. The opposite "it's fine" I mean tell his stupid butt he sucks in bed type of convo. We are divorcing and no one is telling it how it is.