from mental slavery - Kevin Samuels Started this Conversation (Episode 63)

[@stormyskyz7881]

This was the conversation I needed to hear. Bravo to both people in the conversation!

[@wnttalk]

Make sure to subscribe. You might like some other episodes 🙏🏿❤️

[@killaswing1000]

The thumbnail didn't do her justice. I made an assumption with the tongue out but I'll admit I'm wrong. She actually had a really good conversation.

[@qbqb99]

I did the same

[@ezdinero456]

It was an excellent conversation the thumbnail fooled me also...lol

[@rockmyworldmusic]

Yeah, sorta click bait-ish. But the creator doesn't do it very often, so he gets a pass for it this time. 😆😆

[@m.c.heavytitts9000]

Same!! I thought I wasn’t gonna like her, but she’s cool!

[@Khurr]

Almost agree but there was a lot of false assumptions. Dissecting the diaspora could’ve given a better context and she contradicts herself a few times. The best answer to this convo is the situation that happened from the 70s to the 90s for black culture in the US.

[@DeeDeesReactions]

Amazing conversation! Love it!!!!

[@wnttalk]

Thanks DeeDee🙏🏿🙏🏿❤️

[@quyntindowner7547]

Allen this was a great conversation, she was cool even when she challenged you it was logical and fair. Where she was unaware she seemed empathetic. She also gave some actual thoughts on potential solutions. This is how we need these conversations, not combative, defensive and " but the black man did this to us or did that to us too " Keep the conversations going brother. Guyana South America 🇬🇾

[@johnrobinson4201]

Man I wanted to say just this but you took the words right out of my mouth

[@wnttalk]

Thank you so much my brother✊🏿❤️

[@alwayzurboy]

I really enjoyed her conversation and she was a breath of fresh air. She had thoughtful and sensible responses. I'm down for you bringing her back on.

[@kiad.2552]

She was one the best and most surprising guests. Articulate, empathetic, feminine and introspective. Please bring her back!

[@jaydthamotivator]

Kevin Samuels was sent from GOD!

[@amaliomar]

She didn't hear anything you said bro. You are a conversational genius. Amazing. Your ability to press on is...

[@JLynnDsMyoosik]

She actually listens to understand and that made this a dynamic conversation. I hope you bring her back on again.

[@singingchef23]

The tone debate in our community needs to be addressed. Our community is a burning house on fire and we are worried more about someone yelling fire than the danger itself. Each time I hear, but talk to me about the danger I'm in in a nice way, it reminds me that our people are out of touch with reality.

[@bodyworkandptbykraig7609]

😮!!

[@PoorMan84]

First thing is for them to release themselves from the "bad bitch" "boss" mentality when its one of the contributing factors to their downfall in relationships

[@drcatrinaking]

But what if that same mentality is what makes them generally successful in life? Life is more than just intimate relationships.

[@faheemfaquir1024]

@@drcatrinaking You can't serve two masters. Prioritize

[@drcatrinaking]

@@faheemfaquir1024 MASTERS?!?! 🤦🏿‍♀️🤦🏿‍♀️🤦🏿‍♀️ No woman - or human for that matter - deserves to be a slave to a relationship, a career, or even a lifestyle. Reevaluate what you're saying here. I doubt you would give that same advice to a man. Women are not property. We are humans with hopes, dreams, desires... You can not expect to have a healthy human relationship with a person who's humanity you hold no regard for.

[@faheemfaquir1024]

@@drcatrinaking Women pursuing certain careers i.e making partner at a firm and desiring a traditional man to propose, have to choose between the two, is my point. And women are generally told they can have both. Now everyone is witnessing the outcome. Black women are thriving in the job market and dying in relationship market.

[@drcatrinaking]

@@faheemfaquir1024 And you don't see that as a problem for blk men?

[@axxelfoley3304]

One of Women's biggest supporters is the media/social media in giving women instant gratification and attention one single man cannot provide

[@AngelInAHoodie]

We are raised to honor our mothers and fathers, but when you remove 1 parent and leave the other you grow to honor 1 above the other and we are living the results... I honor my mother for being my mother, but time has shown me i can't truly love her because I'll end up with a woman with her qualities and THAT is toxic.

[@dd470_]

Wow that’s deep

[@GB2139]

You are SO RIGHT,, call and talk to JLP about that, !!

[@dd470_]

@@GB2139 who is JLP?

[@GB2139]

@@dd470_ Jesse Lee Peterson

[@akeem2752]

I feel you bro, I was raised only by my mama. I had a big brother 13 yrs older than me but he was out living his life as I was growing. I had to learn to become a real man without guidance lots of trail and error. My pops came back around when I was a teen and most recently we've become closer. And I can tell you without a doubt had he been more present in my life I would've been twice the man I am today. I'm 33 and just now finding how similar I am to my father than anyone in my family character, personality, health, and physique.

[@dtman315]

She was a very good interview. She at least “feels” with some aspect of critical thinking. I wish more women critically thought more then moving through the world on their feelings.

[@dd470_]

Facts

[@KeyMonique]

Such a great conversation. Salute!

[@djvnkc]

@19:34. More often than not women never STOP to hear our pain. Usually becomes a pizzN match of struggle. Hence her response “you don’t think we get that too”

[@Curbsidehustle87]

I watch as our sisters skip over good men for bad ones then talk on social media as if we’re all that way then want a good man to climb over the walls of damage from previous bad picks we might have that patients if we can get grace

[@Forcegarner]

As a 36 year old black man with a decent job that I've held down for several years very stable respectful and straight not in the streets and with NO KIDS those last few exchanges really hit me. I'm always asked by black women how come you don't have kids how come your not married from women who give me the impression that they believe something's wrong with me so they stay away or don't take me seriously. I hear women describe the kind of man they want and I hit a lot of those points but yet I'm still invisible or I'm suspicious.

[@AfriqueNY]

I think that it has to do with the archetype problem for black men. Any brother that doesn't fit into the Athlete, entertainer, hip hop mold is invisible period. There is a standard and if you don't fit into that standard you are the invisible man

[@stormyskyz7881]

I heard it has something to do with BROKEN struggle women not being able to believe that a man could ever have the discipline to protect their seed till they find worthy soil.

[@Forcegarner]

@@stormyskyz7881 women in our community consistently bore the seed of men who are unworthy. How many baby mamas does future have?

[@Thefive5]

That's God way of protecting you Bro. What's for you will be

[@johnrobinson4201]

She is very well spoken and intelligent in the way she expresses her ideals . Very pleasant presence. I wish people in general handled themselves the way this lady or most people you bring on the platform do. Keep in mind that your ideals are very much a necessity to this platform but not just for the ideals themselves but because they attract the people who bring the conversations that can push those ideals to be challenged and to bloom further concepts that will help our understanding of each other. It's a rarity

[@billwill1584]

Have her on again. I can appreciate this woman. Sounds like she wants the best for her man.

[@MassiveReset]

KS said that "we can walk and chew bubble gum" and I agree with him. If other cultures can find eachother in college, get married, start families and build their communities then so can we. They build it as they fly it and we are literally the most resilient people on the planet. We can do it too but we need a reset. For sure!

[@KevinP32270]

wait a minute.....KS was on many panels and still shared his ministry and made more logical sense then those modern women that was trying to call him wrong. smh.

[@johnbreitmeier3268]

Yeah , the buttons and sound effect were for entertainment and dealing with fools. He was perfectly capable of holding his own in a fair debate. A fair debate is NOT a shouting match like La Peef and he held his own even there.

[@carlforpresidentanthony4574]

exactly. the ignorance of those that comment incorrectly on him is deafening

[@Mike_M.]

Kevin still commanded the space and did his best work on open panels! He thrived in smoky environments! 👨🏿‍💼

[@DJKeo]

Most women who hate Kevin don't know anything about him outside of a post that went viral. That's why they think men don't agree with him on so many levels

[@drcatrinaking]

You just agree with him. Because you agree with an idea does not make it "truth." Truth = facts that can be verified, not opinions that you happen to agree with.

[@Dmagic716]

Need to bring her up more this is one of my favorites !

[@nikkolomakaveli8295]

I’m saying though, her thumbnail did not do her justice

[@Dmagic716]

@@nikkolomakaveli8295 facts !!!! Cause man she so on point I love a female that think like this

[@nikkolomakaveli8295]

@@Dmagic716 bro she was articulate attractive and she had really interesting viewpoints

[@Dmagic716]

@@nikkolomakaveli8295 very good viewpoints now if we have talks like this with women man the world would be a better place

[@Wanderer25]

Great conversation, she was receptive and logical.

[@JGComments]

For centuries, men would go off to seek their fortunes, so that they would be worthy of the women they loved.

[@johnbreitmeier3268]

Nobody really did that. That is romantic fiction. That is medieval chivalry for a handful of knights in really old stories. Most men just farmed, shoed horsed or built houses and women still married them. Don't fall for fairytales.

[@dd470_]

@@johnbreitmeier3268 yes they did

[@leichaurellelux7547]

My dad said a man who can shelter feed transport and have resources like medical education and the respect of others a good work ethic and can either fix repair technically physical labor are the most valuable to a woman. But today girls want the lifestyle of reality show girls artificial successes in my opinion. I am married to an engineer and very grateful for his rough hands and soft heart🤍

[@johnbreitmeier3268]

@@dd470_ Name 5. If you believe in fairytales you are only fit to live with fairies.

[@johnbreitmeier3268]

@@leichaurellelux7547 As a retired engineer, bless you and hold onto him. But there are many good men with lesser skills that are still very much men.

[@fangiscool1]

1:55 Kevin Samuels was on the Lapeef panel many times. If she'd love to see Kevin Samuels on a panel, she can just go watch him on a panel.

[@Mike_M.]

Facts! Kevin was on the panels of Clubhouse, Fresh and Fit, Lapeef, BGS Ibmor, and a few others...Kevin thrived in the smoke.👨🏿‍💼

[@uniquecraft6]

She is attentive, attractive and genuine with her feedback and perspective. Solute to her.

[@17thN.O]

I agree

[@subjectmatterexperts2550]

I thought so too.

[@jehrardmartin4340]

She's a good one, she has some really good points.

[@GB2139]

Like what?

[@faheemfaquir1024]

@@GB2139 1. It's my job to protect you by behaving myself in a way that doesn't endanger you. 2. A man can't be in his own head so much that he doesn't the allow me, his helpmate, to help. 3. The BMs oppression creates internal warfare, makes the BW success an a front to his masculinity, therefore he can't be at peace with the BW because he isn't at peace with himself. 4. Let's see how my advantage in this society can work for us. Those are the things you can build with.

[@ChrisOath]

Equality. Are we really equal? I say no. When Kevin Samuels was going in on men, no one cared! Even the video i did on Kevin Samuels on my channel, i had to be cautious incase i upset some women

[@aaronjohnson6622]

I understand you not wanting to upset women, because we were taught to tiptoe around them, but I think if we spoke honestly from our chests and cared less about women's feelings we'd all get farther. Easier said than done but a man's job isn't easy.

[@TheActualKingSmith]

Being cautious….that’s what we need less of. Don’t tip-toe….speak on it. Being cautious doesn’t allow anyone to begin to show accountability.

[@reginaldmagee3586]

If we realize our roles are compatible instead of compete-able we will advance. Do not compete with me. Don't!! This is profoundly counterproductive.

[@kelechiaguocha6125]

The picture is wild 😳That picture is talking 🤦🏾‍♂️ can’t wait to listen 🎧

[@djvnkc]

And when asked about the struggle of women from a woman it’s usually broad & ambiguous, hence her response “the way we dress, the way we talk” . No solutions without good faith

[@VhudziJena]

A woman's legacy is her children A man's legacy is his integrity and estate

[@tstewart3034]

%100 incorrect. Both statement ae true ONLY for the man. Women usually do not have legacy, she has to be super ultimate leval to have a meaningful legacy. Oprah has a name, but not even a legacy.

[@johnbreitmeier3268]

A man's legacy can also be his children. When you learn that you have a chance to become a man.

[@Mike_M.]

Good grown up conversation. Loved it.

[@mr.wright7803]

When you see 10s with 2s. They usually got together before the 10 came up.

[@mackhook]

I also have to admit that I was hesitant to press play when I saw the thumbnail 😂 that was an awesome conversation. I like much of her thought process. You are continuing the Lord's work my brother, salute!

[@cesarduclair904]

is it me or is it when he tries to explain the black man’s pain, she tries to one up him with “a black woman’s pain is worse…..’

[@opeyemiajagbe]

Definitely

[@davidsimmons4731]

No, it isnt just you. Sadly, that is usually how it goes. She literally said men are lost without women

[@faheemfaquir1024]

@@davidsimmons4731 she also said... It's my job to protect you by behaving myself in a way that doesn't endanger you. She said A man can't be in his own head so much that he doesn't the allow me, his helpmate, to help. And... The BMs oppression creates internal warfare, makes the BW success an a front to his masculinity, therefore he can't be at peace with the BW because he isn't at peace with himself. And... Let's see how my advantage in this society can work for us.

[@sonnyqsoul]

The reason communication isn't being had is because BW dismiss BM words, thoughts, and feelings on what BM want and the relationship between BW. BW rather be combating than to listen, to hear, especially if anything being said criticizes them. They will find a way to turn it around on BM versus thinking about what's being said or even answering the charges. Modern BM are doing the same more.

[@douglaslarsen162]

Great interview, wish she would've stayed on topic instead of constantly redirecting with another question but I was able to follow and understand the conversation this time so that puts her miles ahead of the last guests.

[@garvinjoseph5131]

Agreed, reason she does that is because she still searching for that super dude. In the beginning she said her friend dated a girl that’s a tier low she felt. But not realizing it’s not about that, sometimes you okay with what’s presented as oppose to looking for a super human.

[@dr.manhattan6278]

It's amazing how you have to be so unique and creative as a black man, but women do not ask these things of their men from other communities. Basic jobs, and just bringing bringing home a check is respectful and good enough for them. With black women on the other hand, you have to be the brightest star in the night sky.

[@GTwilight]

She was a great listener and great conversationalist 💯👍🏾

[@markaurelius61]

This interview turned over a lot of ground. Well done.

[@rodwellcort7503]

This is and extremely intelligent woman. I thoroughly enjoyed that conversation

[@Ceeboyforlife]

She really say the same tropes in a round about way. "Be useful, figure it out, black women too, understand each other, my experience, many men I see do it." She made some good points too.

[@A-Thomas]

I’m glad someone else saw this. She spoke calmly but everyone is praising her for what should be the norm. What she said was still BS. The 10/2 was BS all day long. She twisted everything back to blame it on men. Or instead of just accepting the BW are messing up she would have to incorrectly spread blame to men. For example when she said there’s alot of hate between BM and BW. BM aren’t going around making up fake statistics to demean BW. BM aren’t calling BW g*y and chasing mothers out of the HH. BM aren’t saying they don’t need BW they are saying they want feminine BW and there are very few. I can go on. She🧢🧢🧢 the entire interview that’s why she don’t like Kevin because he called chameleons like her out on their BS.

[@meagain7828]

Thought it was just me. Constantly moved the goalposts just to go on an emotional justification or deflect. Disingenuous about the way 10's marry 2's at a high rate. Basically her solution was men need to be more like women (or they're broken women) etc. At least she was polite and tried to listen.

[@A-Thomas]

@@meagain7828 Absolutely right.

[@faheemfaquir1024]

I thought she was very thoughtful, insightful and open not to mention strong minded but polite.

[@alc4864]

I like her. Good convo

[@chrisjohnson926]

She made a good point. There is a good Ted Talk with Michelle Drouin who is an associate professor at Indians University. She talked about the theory of interdependence which says that dependence is based on satisfactory (how much is my partner meeting my emotional needs) coupled with how great are my options. The Ted Talk was about online dating and how options mess a lot of people up in the realm of commitment.

[@jarod133]

Thee Most progressive conversation between Black Man and Woman I’ve seen in a while!!

[@True-Poet]

As I take a break from working for myself this conversation was a healthy and honest conversation. Much props to this woman for listening and responding wtih commonsense. Great content man! Keep up the great work!

[@cloudnationmedia8326]

This was another great segment. 🎯✊🏿💯 Keep pushing Black Love Restoration and Reconciliation brother. @WeNeedToTalk Many of the suggested solutions have plaid out differently in real life. I had an epiphany after having the good fortune to watch several respected men up close succeed in every area but making their wives happy. Now, those same men's stories are public information. NBA & NFL owners, Male sex symbol Actors, over 10 self made billionaires, and men of all races. It showed me that no man is guaranteed loyalty or a quality mate. No matter how wealthy, educated, or attractive marriage has been kicking fellas butt.

[@TheeSpercialOne]

Confession: my favorite part of these videos are the walk-ins 😁 but I stay for the convos.

[@stinkreezy2791]

😆 facts

[@reggieallen1194]

She came in wit the yams

[@adriannieves1495]

Really appreciate the conversations with her, feminine, always willing to listen, she thinks before she speaks, non-argumentative and just willing to communicate. ❤️👍🏾👍🏾 definitely would like more interviews with her.

[@larrysnoova3438]

Tbh she was much more informed and understanding of our plight and history as a culture than most of our women period. She had a lot of great and true point if I’m being unbiased. Hard to shake that programming they have tho you can tell it’s always kinda there

[@allahx13davinedarklorddami72]

Still can't be a black man in some states no such thing as self defense no matter the circumstances 💯

[@johnbreitmeier3268]

You can be a black MAN any place on the planet. It depends on you, not other people. I have lived in some of those states you are thinking of and saw plenty of black MEN. Worked with and for some of them. Kevin Samuels came from Oklahoma which is not exactly blue state heaven. Get a clue and man up and lose the phony excuses. Where defense is concerned, a real man does not ask what is legal. He asks what is necessary.

[@allahx13davinedarklorddami72]

@@johnbreitmeier3268 I recently saw footage of a black man in NY being assaulted after repeatedly trying to avoid the aggressor he shot him in obvious self defense. The News reporter described it as a fight as if it wasn't a clear example of an assault! Too many innocent brothers are convicted for murder charges wrongfully. As long as a guy needs permission from another to exercise his god given authority to protect his own life and his loved ones he's not a man.

[@johnbreitmeier3268]

@@allahx13davinedarklorddami72 And fool that is why you are still a slave and not a man because you believe that lie. No man needs anybody's "authority" to exercise ANY right that GOD gave him, nor does he ask anyone's permission. He does what needs doing and faces the consequences. There are always consequences. You are ready to lay down your life but not to be lied about in a rag of a newspaper or TV show?? LOLSMH! Grow up! There is frequently injustice in big cities run by racist liberal Democrats like in Altlanta and New Orleans and Chicago. There are still men there and many of them happen to be black. Aspire to be one of them. Don't cut off your own manhood because someone asks you to.

[@aaronjohnson6622]

A man's physical protection is important. However, there's other forms of protection that often go unaddressed and not appreciated. When the man says stay away from those friends, that's protection. When he makes medical decisions, financial decisions, and even decisions about her clothing or the way she communicates to people outside the home, these are also forms of protection. Unfortunately, many women view this as being controlling.

[@douglaslarsen162]

Ok but half that is toxic and controlling though lol

[@gabrielmeth4844]

@@douglaslarsen162 ^ perfect example of current feminine logic, where anything that restricts a woman from doing whatever she wants is 'toxic' and 'misogyny'. It is a narcissistic point of view to believe no one knows better than yourself, or has the ability or right to tell you what to do. After all, women don't tell their boss at their white-collar job 'you are toxic because you tell me how to dress, when to arrive, and what to do'. No, because the boss at work is SUBMITTED TO, and recognized as superior by dint of existing.

[@drcatrinaking]

Please explain why women should not be entitled to make their own decisions about how they speak, what they wear, etc. I don't think you actually know what misogyny or narcissism is, because you definitely sound like a misogynist and a narcissist. Thinking like that is sure to cost you DEARLY in life - perhaps will even cost you your own life if you try your version of "protection" on the wrong woman. Seek professional help, please. This ain't me trying to be funny. This is a real person hoping for your healing 💛💛💛

[@themarathoncontinues4211]

@@drcatrinaking she can make her own decisions, this isn’t a dictatorship. But imma let her know what I think of her decisions for sure. Nothing misogynistic or narcissistic about it

[@drcatrinaking]

@@themarathoncontinues4211 You mentioned making decisions about finances, health, and even her CLOTHING in your original comment. That sure sounds like a dictatorship to me. Consider that a woman might actually have a better understanding of how a woman might feel about what you stated. Also keep in mind that leadership starts with empathy. Free people do not willingly follow another person unless they believe that person is considering their own best interest. Women in today's society are free people. If you're having trouble getting the women you want to engage you in conversations and/or sustaining healthy relationships, it's likely because you don't have enough empathy for a woman's point of view.

[@Sanatra1025]

This was a really good interview, she actually had some good points.

[@sincityquinn]

Ain’t that many tens running around with 2’s. She’s full of it. That’s as rare as a unicorn.

[@onetruesavage]

WOW!!! This was a great conversation!

[@MultiMackle]

Great Convo and a BEAUTIFUL WOMAN

[@Dmagic716]

This was a great conversation and she had great points !!!!!

[@Skywalker721]

KS went on multiple panels & was the same exact person he is on his own platform. Most women don’t stand a chance in a debate because they aren’t as knowledgeable as KS & they often respond emotionally.

[@Khari99]

Damn. When you said our women treat us like suspects when we do everything for them, that shit hit me hard. I provided for my ex every day and gave her everything and she'd always turn me into her enemy. It always hit different and I could never understand why. I came to the conclusion that it stems from trauma but I have found this to be the case with most black women I date.

[@phil5301]

Let's get the subs up people!!! This is one of THE BEST channels on KZbin. 💯

[@gregorypayton486]

She was one of the best by far. Great interaction.

[@avordshaw6244]

She was very insightful and introspective.

[@isaiahroddie6027]

I like you two. This was a dope discussion

[@phil5301]

Man!!! Kevin Samuels would be so proud of this channel!!! Keep doing your thing bro!!! 💯

[@MAGACOPP]

We really do have the worst women. Bottom of the Barrel.

[@BrickhouseProductionz]

Sad but TRUE

[@jackiewallace9231]

How do us men stack up? How can we push the solution or is the black community a lost cause? Should black men begin push harder and find women outside our race? What about the black fathers with daughters? What does that dad teach his daughter? So much to unpack here... We're in a sad state of affairs.

[@heruapocalypse2021]

I think We have The Best Women on Earth 🌎.But! They have been made to be the worst Women on Earth for Us.Because of the Mental Programming,Indoctrination and Socialization of Western white society.Not to mention that They too! Also help perpetuate this System.When many of Them know the amount of Damage that it has done and continue to do Our People as a Collective.

[@mizzvip3196]

She nailed it!!!

[@lobecosc]

This interview was so good. Keep up the good work.

[@malarki5]

Kevin Samuels went freestyle on 'Fresh and Fit's show, sister girl: 1:42 . The Godfather held his on any format!

[@evolve1837]

Kevin Samuel's did exactly what she is saying she wanted to see when he called into Fresh & Fit and was taking to about 3 females. He was answering questions and he did not have a "Button"...

[@chucklinwizzy]

I really liked this one too. I had hope for her up until the tina turner reference. She understands, yet she continues to weaponize "cognitive dissonance". The need to be right is so strong in this one. So much potential... ugh...

[@DamianHinkson]

i want to understand your comment. but i don't sorry.

[@Darshuiami]

Truth bro! Some may be too irrational to see, that she agrees and then right after says but, which shows she doesn't really agree with anything he said and always uses the exception as the rule... ie, as you said, "the need to be right"!

[@AccidentalH3ro]

If you listen closely she subconsciously uses language that categorizes men as ‘other’ which is a indicator that she likely, to some degree doesn’t sympathize or even empathize with the grievances of men that share her reflection. She’s detached or tethered to “The World” (Palm colored America). We can have these discussions over and over but there is no cure-all for the conditions of ADOS and only a select few can remedy the symptoms that persist and that’s on a day-to-day basis. Relationships are now depersonalized and dysfunctional at best and cantankerous and vindictive at worse.

[@cookiemang4128]

Red flag number 2 the face she made when she heard ks name

[@chefgrigs]

@15:36 leaving an inheritance, manhood is about leaving an inheritance or a legacy, because in a man’s world only the works last, what you establish is what will remain

[@raymondscott5174]

Oh my! The conversation and her 😘.

[@ceasetheday87]

i knew from the opening this would be a good one

[@ten0785]

I like her conversation and mind. She made some valid points . Very valid.

[@pnash1000]

Great convo!

[@bezglover]

She said women give vision. She wants to lead a man. I think she should have listened to Kevin Samuels more

[@MarvAuthor]

A woman looks alone don't make her wife material. Her attitude and ability to cooperate is just as important.

[@TruBlq]

Can't judge a book by its cover. I was totally shocked by her situational awareness. Great conversation, had some valid points and I had no idea about one of her points on what is being sold to bw about the "unicorn".

[@rohanstadhard9267]

Love the comment she made about her mom and brother..

[@NateThaDon]

Logic wise she was one of the better women interviewed with good answers/rebuttals. That 10’s with 2’s statement was like where? Also if her homeboy decent looking with a decent job why she ain’t with him? Lol

[@BlackGodKing-oi2gr]

She’s not attracted to him. C’mon

[@SoTrue144]

Black men were able to fulfill their role as men after slavery and data supports that with our marriage rates being in the high 80s it changed after the welfare state.

[@calter4]

At 16:30 She failed to realize or she didn't state that her mother also meant not only should she be careful what she cried to her brother about but be sensible about who she deals with situations she puts herself in.

[@Money132215]

One of my favorite guest, she’s an anomaly & she’s right on most of her points. This conversation was refreshing‼️ Great

[@johnbreitmeier3268]

Help meet means suitable assistant not co-boss. It is a subordinate position, but not a dishonorable one.

[@aaronjohnson6622]

Well said. A woman who is a suitable assistant is valuable. And yes it's subordinate but that's fine. We still appreciate them

[@johnbreitmeier3268]

@@aaronjohnson6622 And we all are or have been someone's subordinate. Not a thing wrong with that.

[@JDKingofthis]

This is one of the conversations about men and women I've heard

[@naturallaw8377]

THIS is honestly the FIRST discussion on this topic (current era) that I’ve seen that’s worth watching - it’s evenhanded, raising the bar for BOTH black men and women. Most of the rest of the interviews/discussions have women on the panel who are speaking from a broken emotional place . It’s EASY for men to have challenging discourse with women who have given up on logical thinking and who are led by their emotions IN their thinking. THIS WOMAN is not . She is respectful, thoughtful, helpful, and knowledgeable. NOW, I understand the spiritual purpose for that thumbnail. It was intended to be off-putting so folks wouldn’t watch . There’s WAAAAY too many jewels dropped in this one. People might JUST START looking in the mirror instead of at each other after this one. The relationship environment between black men and women needs a RESET. Black man, KNOW WHO YOU ARE and everything else will fall in line . Keep avoiding the Bible and you’ll never find out who you are and you’ll be wandering in the wilderness blaming black women for your problems for eternity .

[@Black-ICE92]

This was insightful to see 2 different perspectives speaking with intelligence

[@FrogMitus]

Good work! Thank you! !

[@ericcaesar5457]

I like her... she's willing to listen & learn...

[@ryelwilliams6482]

Love this one

[@ryelwilliams6482]

Love all of them Shid lol but this might be in my top 5!

[@aaronjohnson6622]

A man is usually lost without his woman, she said. Maybe she's seen a lot of examples of this but since I haven't, I'll say that if a man is lost without his woman, there's a problem with the man. He's weak in some aspect, and she probably didn't respect him, which probably led to the breakup

[@roguepill]

Agreed, the man she wants is never "lost" with or without a woman.

[@aaronjohnson6622]

@I Don't Care For Most People true, the controlling forces are a huge problem and obstacle. But if Asians can do it, if Mexicans can succeed to an extent, if Arabs can do it, we can too

[@aaronjohnson6622]

@I Don't Care For Most People and with all that being said, black people would be better off if we emulated any of those groups

[@johnnyoldenjr.]

She said men have to get out of their own head. Well bw need to start listening to bm.

[@marioderamus7376]

Powerful dialogue, hopefully black men and women can move pass this standstill

[@Argemirel]

There’s a difference between helping and being in the way. Sometimes ppl just don’t get that. But I do like how she said that women had the upper hand, how could WE use that. I don’t think a lot of woman think like that. But also a lot of men do need to get out of their own head. Because at the end of the day we have to figure out how to work together.

[@truthseekingfreethinker5214]

Women are all talk because I hear what they say, but when that rubber meets the road that message switch up real quick.

[@NatHenrickClarke]

She had great points, she was very sensible and logical