Men are people too? - Kevin Samuels Started this Conversation (Ep 106)

[@csb734]

I think more conversation like this is needed so we as black people can speak on our experiences and traumas and how we’ve inflicted pain on one another and how we can learn from our mistakes and grow closer together through our understanding of each other. Because as much I can I say I understand I’ll never understand what it’s like to be a black man and the struggle you guys face and vise verse. I will say this video and this channel in general has opened my eyes to my own trauma and how I view black men because of it. I’ll love to see less who’s right or wrong and more so how can we overcome this tumultuous pattern so we get to the point of understanding. #ILOVEYOUBLACKMAN ❤

[@jamesworthwhile55]

As a black man we love y’all too that’s the whole point #ILOVEBLACJWOMAN

[@wnttalk]

This is beautiful sister 🙏🏿❤️

[@mega1979340]

I’m so proud of this brother. While this beautiful lady was busy speaking womanese. My brother wasn’t having it. Brother was direct and to the point.

[@damonransey8461]

"Stay on Target." I loved that part.

[@broaddusmarines]

Exactly!!! She was spitting word salads left and right. I’m glad this brother saw right through it all.

[@universouldarma1337]

I wish I like this comment twice godammit

[@babeakuscaesar]

Bruh definitely deserves his props

[@LovelyVibrations]

A more articulate woman would have been able to speak to some of the points. We have what our grandmothers did not have, more opportunities to contribute their talents. And they encouraged us to get this so that we would not be stuck . It seems that this is a problem. Why? Men are not running to find good women. They are running to find women that will be “stuck” like our grandmothers were.

[@MsLoyal100]

One of the things i find to be so important is the comment section of majority, if not all of the videos on this channel and the resounding agreement by MEN! If you notice the comments on some of the channels that pander to women, there are crickets when it comes to mens comments and that’s very telling! We must listen outside of our feelings and be cognizant and receptive of what the men are saying. Love this channel and all that you do!

[@SefSun7]

Thank you Thank you Thank you

[@MsLoyal100]

@@SefSun7 You matter. 🙏🏽

[@TumbaKankuKingMaker]

Thank you for this, be blessed

[@noquartergiven1332]

The wildest part about this convo is that it all went in one ear and out the other.

[@kennethsmith6367]

Why is that wild? That seems to be the normal sequence of events at this point.

[@jarvisneely]

Both of these comments are great.

[@guidedtechgenius8815]

@@kennethsmith6367 same shit i said, like this isnt wild this is completely normal lol its not about trying to make them listen because most of them wont but for every 1000 that choose to remain hardheaded maybe 50 others might actually listen & choose another path, the black community will continue to thrive we just have to weed out the garbage first,

[@popeyebogey209]

Yes Dean Cain Sir 🫡🤯

[@noquartergiven1332]

@@popeyebogey209 Yes sir, Dead Cain Sir 🫡 😂😂😂

[@jalisaestrada5877]

This needs to be seen/heard by ALL BW across the US. I would love to be apart of this conversation

[@wnttalk]

We'd love to have you. Complete the Creator Collab form linked on the channel about page then DM us "done" on IG.

[@mr_willwhite8465]

So I sent this to my best friend of 25 yrs ( a married blk woman). She understands this perfectly so she's fine. Her unmarried, uncovered homegirls/female fam members - she said she wishes Alan would change the title of the video. Just the mention of KS name would immediately turn her gf off even when the video has nothing to do with him. That's how far gone so many bw are; 35-40+ yr old women too immature/ too controlled by emotion they can't even watch a video that has KS name mentioned in a TITLE......the blk men who are left trying to fight this fight are wasting their time. I stopped many yrs ago

[@mega1979340]

@@mr_willwhite8465 KS is the boogeyman to this women .

[@bigtank6465]

@@mr_willwhite8465 Agreed.. Many of our women have completely checked out psychologically. Their white employers, child support, and the welfare system is feeding them. Attempting to Influence a woman's belief system when you're not the one feeding her is difficult to do. Black men absolutely need to Stop fighting to change women who don't want to be changed- Abandon them.. And only deal with Sistas who want to work with us. In my humble opinion, this current crop of women will need to age-out and be eliminated from the society. Hopefully the next generation of blacks who come behind us will study what created the divide and make adjustments. As automation eliminates jobs and inflation continues to rise, black women will be forced to reconnect with the men if they want to survive.

[@jigen1504]

We got to see in real time why u soft step these women so much, bc when confronted with the truth they tend to withdraw into their igloo

[@dexp1390]

I’m young and doing well for myself. The amount of disrespect I get from BW is insane. I’ve gotten the same “who do you think you are?” And have literally had to flex on them because I know they haven’t accomplished nearly what I have. The only response I’ve gotten is “Well you don’t have to be mean or say that and put people down.” But it was triggered from disrespect. Even when you’ve done the work they treat you like shit unless you have “clout” lol. So I don’t think BW in general value BM outside of sex and other superficial crap that doesn’t matter.

[@wnttalk]

This is unfortunately true bro.😔

[@lousosa199]

I know the feeling. They immediately put u In a negative stereotypical category simply because of your race and gender. They'll automatically assume, you're broke, you have multiple kids, with multiple women, you cheat and beat on your women.

[@dexp1390]

@@lousosa199 literally. The worse part of it is MOST of the women I encounter have degrees and corporate jobs. You expect the educated to understand but actually they double down.

[@keenansmith7176]

@@dexp1390 Because they have shown that intelligence and "education" aren't intrinsically linked to one another. They aren't very intelligent and they aren't good people. End of story.

[@NatHenrickClarke]

@@dexp1390 educated means indoctrinated, educated about what exactly, it teaches them that they don't need a man🤷🏿‍♂️

[@IamtheArcher777]

Bro I will applaud you time and time again, not just for clearly and concisely explaining the points but also giving your guest a lense into our eyes.

[@IamtheArcher777]

Just became a member... you most definitely deserve the support of your brothers.💪🏿💪🏿⚡️

[@dduffy7271]

@@IamtheArcher777 but I'm sure he'd much more appreciate the support of our sisters; the single ones who want a good man.

[@swats6787]

This conversation has literally brought tears to my eyes while I'm in the train in NYC listening. And I can't stop them and people are staring at me and all I wanna do is share this experience with them. Mind you I'm a 6' 235lbs black man.

[@ako7975]

Good lord Dr. Obi, I didn't know you graduated seminary school, that was some preaching. 👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿

[@wnttalk]

😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🙏🏿

[@californiablue3828]

🔥 Interview! Thank you for being a voice for black men!

[@wnttalk]

Yessir ✊🏿

[@LRich44]

The last 20 minutes made me cry because you articulated the men’s viewpoint so well and clearly to her😢🙏🏾. This videos is poetic and life changing at the same time 👏🏾✊🏾👏🏾✊🏾👏🏾✊🏾

[@wnttalk]

I'm honored brother! ✊🏿

[@deesimmons1803]

Protect this brother and his platform he’s well needed in our communities like our brother Kevin Samuels was.

[@regalsylvester]

She said “and that’s dangerous” because it wasn’t a topic that she was confident she’d win on. It would lead to empathy for men and realizing that women have been apathetic to their brother’s trauma.

[@oneill590]

I don’t usually comment on KZbin videos… but this was the one, right here… This is the video that conveys the message that everyone needs to understand and hear.

[@wnttalk]

DAMN. Preciate the love brother!✊🏿

[@SacTown72]

Brother…we need more of this “preaching” You and Crimson Cure feed my gynocratically deprived healing soul. We thank you! Went back to catch the beginning that I missed. 🔥 This is definitely one for the books

[@playablue]

Dane Calloway

[@christophermayfield6]

@@playablue he's not needed

[@LovelyVibrations]

Crimson Cure is toxic and very masculine. I thought you guys wanted feminine woman. That she is not. And she does not hold black men accountable

[@playablue]

@@LovelyVibrations she crimson cure is a fine feminine and direct woman.

[@eskaykc5726]

She's intelligent and soft-spoken enough that it's a joy listening to her. She comes across as someone who has an opinion but is also willing to listen to the opinion of others (in this case, the host). A worthy guest. Keep up the good work, Obi!

[@togotfury]

nothing makes me more grateful to be white than seeing how black women treat black men

[@wnttalk]

Elaborate please.

[@togotfury]

@@wnttalk The amount of hatred black women have for black men, the hostility they treat them with, the verbal and physical abuse. every day there's another dozen videos of black women cussing black men out telling them they are garbage. i don't blame black men for going over seas to find someone who just treats them any kind of decent. nothing made me more uncomfortable than when i went to my black friend's house. the way his mother casually slapped him for the smallest thing, the way his sisters insulted him, and the way he just took it like it was normal. it really made me grateful for my family and how, even though i'm not popular with women, no woman has ever talked to me or treated me that way. you might get some radical feminists who hate all men, but not to the widespread degree it seems to be in the black community. i've seen a black mother record herself slapping her infant son in the face because of something his father did. i saw a black mother slap her adult son for wiping off her straw before he took a sip of her drink, i've seen compilation videos of black women saying they would rather date a drug dealer than an honest hardworking blue collar black man. sure there are girls that have messed up values in every race, but Black women seem proud of how hostile and toxic they are. I've lost count of the number of times i've heard them claim black men can't handle them. who wants to handle their wife? Your bragging about what a pain in the ass you are. I'm just really grateful that i wasn't raised in that environment surrounded by that toxicity and hostility. none of my girlfriends ever yelled at me, insulted me, or hit me.

[@wnttalk]

@@togotfury Mannnn. Thank you for this ✊🏿

[@craigjoyner9857]

That ish hits hard to hear that. It's really bad out here for a lot of us, because a lot of our women are disgusted with us in general, regardless of how we carry ourselves and how we treat them. Keep pushing brothers!!! It's up to us to make things better!!

[@togotfury]

@@craigjoyner9857 just today i watched a video of a black woman grab the black man she was on a date with by the throat and hit him in the head with a bowling ball, knocking him out and she then rolled a strike right after and stepped over him as he lay bleeding on the floor while everyone around him laughed and cheered for her. what the fuck?

[@idakt]

That sermon at the end said it all 🙏🏾On her part, she was definitely one of the more understanding guests but even still, as articulate as she was, that’s gotta be the most eloquent form of shirking accountability I’ve ever seen. Extremely well-spoken blame shifting. Absolutely unbelievable. This why you gotta preach sometimes.

[@thestandardrlc]

Bro...this is one of the best convos in a while. Women don't consider what Blk men went through in slavery AT ALL.

[@emery2310]

This may have been the most important conversation you have ever had. And yes, we DO need to talk about it. Thank you Dr. Obi!

[@Lfordy800]

Going to turn that last 6 and a half minutes into a monologue. Masterpiece.

[@bobbyguobadia3267]

Good lord! That was fire. I listened to this with my wife, and she agreed with all your point. I couldn't have put that argument as eloquently as you did. Thank you 🙏🏼

[@ImGoodLuvEnjoy]

Man… keep this energy and tone all 2023!

[@jabbarirby7812]

Best video in a long time. Women get so lost in their fantasies that you have to force them to look at reality.

[@emilli5331]

Yes indeed

[@kuunami]

Many of them get deeply offended by reality.

[@Sinceredagreatnyc]

Barzzzzzzzzzz! My man was in that pulpit talking that talk.

[@MsLoyal100]

Powerful powerful POWERFUL 💥!

[@diallohumphries9479]

Her body language was like "whatever ninja, I thought we were here to talk about my needs".

[@bplayerr1]

Wow, that truth bomb 💣💥💥💥 "Based on what men want, are women today better than their grandmothers? No!" It was an easy and resounding NO....! As a Hispanic man, its hard out here for men but our black brothers are really in the toughest of spot....

[@KOOLCOMEDY]

When she brought up the talking point of "the number that White supremacy has done on us..." I have to refer to the question that he posed: "How did Black Women help White supremacy dismantle the Black Community?"

[@jlionmenelik77]

A lot of these conversations go on def ears of Black women in the west but also western women in general.

[@TheTwonne1]

This brother is TRULY NEEDED. He has picked on what Kevin Samuel started and he's doing a EXCELLENT job at doing it speaking the TRUTH......THANK YOU BROTHER!!!

[@wnttalk]

✊🏿✊🏿

[@deondricksteen4606]

FINALLY I HAVE BEEN WATING ON THESE POINTS TO BE SPOKEN!!!!!

[@AlSween]

Even when men improve, women want the credit.

[@SunFromBrooklyn73]

Damn...that's a a bar

[@dredey1971]

Allen scorching hot!!! She was fighting the truth of his words. I pray she takes them to heart.

[@timboslice9905]

Saw your shorts on this one so I came back to see the whole thing. You were cooking, doctor! Sometimes you GOTTA preach!

[@TheSmed580]

Starting listening about a month ago.. Listen to about 10-15 episodes and this is by far the best one I watch... Excellent... Excellent.. interview... ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐

[@wnttalk]

Thank you so much brother! There are a few other bangers in our KSSTC, LTBM, and BMMC playlists tho

[@AC-dt1rk]

This is one of the best interviews and the immorality you mentioned of the constant asking for improvement to improvement of black men was amazing. In the end it seemed like I heard frustration the same I started hearing in KS. Dealing with our women is draining, spiritually, emotionally, and mentally. I learned that when Moses dealt with sinners he surrounded him in a ring of fire (the word of God). Make sure you're surrounded by the fire so the "sinners" you're dealing with don't overwhelme you. Keep up the great work! Be blessed brotha.

[@chazwale]

The brother presented a compiling point of view.

[@gargoelV3]

My absolute favorite episode so far.

[@kendrick2867]

Appreciate the candid conversation and work you are doing Brotha👍🏾

[@marcusjones1432]

She tried...But he was just not having that b.s. Some men are not equipped to actually have this conversation in full context. No knock on my brothers but this man handled this conversation perfectly. Great content !!!

[@AlexMinor]

Alan was on 🔥 in this one! My answer to the question she asked about women getting credit… “Behind every man is a good woman”. Y’all say black men ain’t shit these days. Welp… the majority of black women are no longer bedhind us.

[@fernadrobarnes5964]

This was another great conversation as usual. You brought up a lot of great points. The biggest one is, " BM want BW to give them the same grace/understanding they're asking for". Just that alone will go a long ways to advancing the culture. Also, when you got into the monologue towards the end of the convo, it may just be me but the young lady was listening but I'll say she seemed a little aggravated at you making legit points. She started looking at her nails and wiping her hair. This is not an effort to call her out but body language is part of communication and hers was like "whatever". It's all good. To get better we have to be willing to have uncomfortable conversations and she did! Keep up the great work bro. You are really making making a difference, you and all the people willing to have these conversations. I appreciate you all.

[@jameskent8165]

I thought she had you against the ropes with the deflection/moving the goal post/what aboutsm but don’t call it a come back you been here for the better part of a decade. You were more firm (pause) than ever without it offending. And these moments I appreciate cause it gives another level of hope even though she literally said there isn’t any hope with gen z I think there is. Women just need a safe distance to examine their behaviors and mentality in third person like you mentioned another show.

[@wnttalk]

EXACTLYYYYY BRO!! This thought is literally the main thing keeping me goin ✊🏿

[@gregkelly6225]

👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿 This was a master class in patience! I don’t wanna tone police anyone. I’m just noticing the result and keeping in mind how hard it is to get that result with that message. I think I get what was missing now. In 2023, I’m working on communicating more patiently. Good shit, bro! Much appreciated!

[@wnttalk]

SALUTE! ✊🏿

[@NatHenrickClarke]

It won't work on the renegades, you may have to go Kevin Samuels at times, even Kevin had too🤷🏿‍♂️

[@gregkelly6225]

@@angie3ffinbaby 😂Thanks! I fixed it.

[@tyquandoe3490]

Amen and amen again. As a father of two girls that grew up without my father or mother in my life, I’m struggling to build and fly this plane called manhood, fatherhood, and marriage. Videos like this help me to define what I’m doing and encourage me to the fact that I’m not alone in trying to turn things around

[@darwinarchie]

There are so many great episodes, but this may be the best. Hit on so many important points. If everyone could watch and discuss this episode in a mature manner, then we may just be headed in the right direction. Congrats, and keep this going!

[@jeremiahgiles3593]

I rewatch this from time to time, especially for the ending. That was the most well put I've ever heard the struggle of the black man in America I've ever heard. Everyone in the country and across the world, not only just black women should hear this.

[@wnttalk]

Preciate you!

[@jahbrae]

Woooooow… “men aren’t running to America to find women” goodness me that’s a WORD! Your point on the lynching was POWERFUL!

[@macedwards67]

My, my, my definitely one of the best podcast in this space. Thanks for what you're doing

[@floydphillipsco]

He is very good at articulating perspectives. I am very impressed. He made a case I haven't heard explained in that manner... Great work!

[@wnttalk]

Thank you my brother!✊🏿

[@H1GHD3FF]

I'm listening to this from Puerto Rico ⛱️🩴

[@a.m.g.839]

Standing Ovation!!! Wonderful episode.

[@wnttalk]

Preciate you brother🙏🏿 Please help the algorithm help us!

[@a.m.g.839]

Already hit the like button. Wish it was a Great Button! I'll be sharing this with all women and men I know also.

[@wnttalk]

@@a.m.g.839 Thank you so much man!!!

[@HeWhoRemains42]

This is a phenomenal episode . Hands down .

[@rejavenated]

And this is why I think KS was important. Love his approach or hate him for his approach, he pushed forth the voices of many silenced black men.

[@jeffu3248]

Mannnnn. You preaching a whole word with this one 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾🫡🫡🫡

[@ojbgamin]

Preach on brother 🙌🏾 🙏🏾 👏🏾 💯 👌🏾

[@dzion]

“Your better men than your grandmothers but your not better women”…I think it’s some truth to this but I’m afraid most won’t perceive it that way because of how it was said. 💯💯

[@mr_willwhite8465]

They won't digest it bc it wouldn't make them "feel" good. And bc they are so dominated & controlled by their emotions, you can't get through to most of them. Society has mastered the art of emotionalism AGAINST women (especially bw). So much so that asking them to put emotion to the side & listen strictly logically is an impossible scenario for 80% of them minimum

[@kennethsmith6367]

How else can you say it? Every time anyone tries to tell women of any race anything in America. They always fall back into the tone police.

[@harleymartin7160]

You had to bring it back a lot. She was everywhere and couldn't stay on topic. Great job, moving the convo forward.

[@Illalcap]

A whole response motivated by THE NEED TO BE RIGHT

[@jim_doles410]

Bro be spitting that real 💯

[@INITE]

What a beautiful conversation! Maybe the next level would be to talk with each other. I appreciate my sister’s transparency to be put on the spot but long to see the brother toward the end when he made the plea “we are Marcus Garvey, Frederick Douglas, Martin Luther King; that’s who we are! We are people too.” I can only imagine the grace, dignity, and beauty emanating as a man utters these. My heart screams time is ripe for our Union. Wholeness!

[@jzurita6186]

I think often times when having these conversations women disingenuously try to sound too deep with vague phrases that derails the conversation. Especially when they're wrong about something wether it's as an individual or women in general

[@jamiest.patrick9794]

I noticed the fluff too. She seems pleasant but that got annoying. Just say what you mean lady

[@sugacookiegetta]

I wish I could upvote this in exponential amounts!

[@shermanscott2818]

Great back and forth!!!!

[@trentcooper2625]

This man speaks volumes to the masses. So incredibly intelligent, every point he makes is absolutely dead on.

[@wnttalk]

Preciate you brother 🙏🏿

[@SunFromBrooklyn73]

👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿 Bravo! Bravo! Just an excellent breakdown and contextulization of Black male humanity! It almost brings tears to my eyes! ✊🏿✊🏿✊🏿

[@wnttalk]

✊🏿

[@06alwilliams]

Maaaan u preached a SERMON today!!!! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@Fowler0526]

This is one of your best videos… I’ve already shared this a few times

[@BeautynStruggles]

Powerful my brother this one hit hard

[@KevinMahomboy]

Brilliant, my brother. I’m forwarding to every sister, I know.

[@wnttalk]

✊🏿✊🏿✊🏿✊🏿

[@mr_willwhite8465]

MYYYYYYYY GODDDDDDD!!! - THE WHOLEEEEEEE WORD WENT FORTH!! ALAN, YOU GOT ALLLLLL THE WAY IN YOUR DUFFLE 🎒 FOR THIS ONE!!

[@TripleCubedTriune]

The interviewer certainly brought genuine inquiry.. these exchanges are necessary & ultimately productive salute

[@brinardtalks]

The ending monologue of this video is powerful. That part said it all.

[@SAMack-xd2fn]

Deep show with excellent questions and answers

[@jrobinson4453]

This was one of your best in my opinion. Great job of voicing so much without over talking, everything was straight to the point and precise.

[@gjbeckfilms]

My Negus! This IS IT! Ive watched many of your videos and this is one of the best! top 5! This has SOOO MUCH in it. We could teach this one video in college courses and relational therapy. This conversation is sooo important, but women dont want to have it publicly with a recording or at all really. WE ALL HAVE TO BE BETTER! Women should not be ok just making more money, but valuing being a woman and all that encompasses. Congrats to you on that upcoming 60k! PLEASE KEEP IT UP! You are narrowing in on the godfather with your attention to detail and question selection. One criticism. When they start to .... wonder lol or ... misdirect, stop them. If they are allowing you to get this on camera, get as much out of them as you can lol. We need every minute! You have the torch for the community right now! You had her in the HOT SEAT! By the end her body language was screaming get me out of here haha! AMAZING! ... POWER TO YOU BROTHA! #Rise #Respect #Recognize

[@wnttalk]

My brother! Preciate you and the critique 🙏🏿

[@garybirch2520]

Hearing this for a second time this still hits hard.

[@wnttalk]

What part?

[@garybirch2520]

25:09 We have experienced the same things but precieved to not be affected on every level. Having everything that makes you man was never recognized and still today is still challenged without any grace on the other side.

[@usoagraphics]

This is one of the best discussions on the page so far in my opinion

[@LRich44]

“Why is it that men are running overseas to find good women but men aren’t running into America to find good women.” QTNA

[@psyco381]

Love this page my brother ✊🏾✊🏾✊🏾

[@TrulyCharles143]

Keep preaching. Powerful

[@BeatsReloaded]

What a speech. Love it

[@AceUpMySleeve89]

I applaud you my brother. The way you constructed this whole conversation was brilliant and informative to no fault. Got yourself another subscriber today. Keep up the great work. I’ll stay tuned in for more.

[@fifi4980]

She disengaged. Last part she’s playing with her hair then looks at her nails. This was one of the best insights into the world of black men. A black man telling us about black men, an opportunity to learn, grow and do better.

[@dasmith1207]

This is the conversation, right here.

[@MrBrown-rm9zl]

Thank you brother for speaking assertively yet powerfully!! 🔥🔥

[@TheKiKiJ104]

I JUST came across this and THIS Conversation is SO necessary!!!! I love it, thank you 🙏🏽 I would love to hear more on this. Are there other videos pertaining to this?

[@BobEDigital]

Very nice delivery indeed.

[@MikeZander]

If that was not a sermon on equity and understanding, I don’t know what is… preach my brother

[@phil5301]

I gotta share this video and channel.💯🔥💪🏾

[@ckazadi5563]

Whoa, this one of the best interview I've seen in a long time. Thank you

[@wnttalk]

Wow, thank you!

[@stephenyirenkyi2522]

Thank you soo much sir.

[@wnttalk]

I appreciate it 🙏🏿

[@PhantomVortex]

Damn i can hear the passion come out on this one

[@PLxT0]

"You're better MEN than your granmothers...' 😶 DROPS MIC!

[@EzBluegrass1]

One of the best conversations yet!

[@mob_n]

She was biting her tongue damn near the whole interview. She was waiting to ask him, "Who hurt you!" 🎤💥

[@showcase0525]

this was a lesson and a sermon.

[@mobrown1198]

Body language is 70-80% of communication…. By the tail end of this subject. This woman’s body language wasn’t as enthusiastic as early on. Once the interviewer (BRAVO!!!) was able to effectively counter her well regurgitated talking points, her body language changed. She was defeated. Probably a response of “Damn” okay enough already…. Although she didn’t SPEAK it her body language spoke of the superior air BW have when dealing with BM. The look away the tones in her responses weren’t contrite. When BW aren’t meant with the echo chamber of other women, and the talking points defeated, then they find humility. Kudos to her for doing the interview and responding truthfully, especially her body language ~

[@shifter1919]

This....this episode and episodes like this are the reason why I subscribed to this channel.

[@wpierre1]

Wow, well said! I shared this with my young son. He does not like or interested in BW at all. My wife his mother is Brazillian. But, he listened through your pain and related it with the fact why BW don't want to respect BM. I've always told him to go where he's appreciated. You're doing GOD'S work, but to be honest BW in America NEVER belong to BM. We were forced together and the BW was given power by the dominant patriarchy and allowed to set up a matriarchal gynocrisy in the black community. This was proven so when government subsidies were given to BW, they took it and broke up the family unit! #thatcanneverbeforgiven