Bro, my non-existent dating life in 2024 is over. I'm too far in my head to differentiate whether they're giving me signs or I'm just making stuff up. And when we talk, I end up feeling like the conversation is on shoulders (If I can't hold the conversation it basically ends, it's like I'm lifting a water bottle that keeps getting water) instead of just having fun talking to each other. Next time I have a crush, I'm going to outright tell them how I feel and hopefully they reject me or whatever they do; so I don't have to carry these emotions longer than I must. Dating is definitely a numbers game and I can't keep watching myself take all these Ls.
@perelsnguonchen46718 ай бұрын
It’s good big dawg find yourself first. That’s what I did in self improvement. Now I see the red flags right away and just move on
@mouradelam8 ай бұрын
Bro, it's all about looks. Modern women have many options thanks to dating apps, and they want a chad. Look for "face and lms", "wheat waffles" and "rehab room" channels on youtube. You will know what women really want. And it's so simple. Good luck
@I-Am-Wonderful6 ай бұрын
Never, ever tell them how you feel man. That is feminine.
@Slitherjah6 ай бұрын
Bro do not just up and tell a woman how u feel bruh. You’ll ruin it, the mystery, the fun etc. cuz now the woman will constantly be thinking ab that. Ur problem is ur too easy to fall in love. You barely know these people, seems u need more self love before u look for it in another human being. And stop expecting things from women and man up, you are the male you lead and u must find a woman who is willing to follow but you are not owed that. Try fixing your life before u search for women
@j-star19 ай бұрын
Totally true. Do you think the traits women feel attracted change as they age? Like for instance they’ll put more emphasis on physical appearance when they’re teenagers and later on more on status, emotional chaos etx
@jfg11049 ай бұрын
Im sure, some things change. But, you like what you like! Regardless of age.
@johannesmarsupialis71289 ай бұрын
so what if i notice her taking more time to reply to me sometimes, but then other times she replies fast. We used to talk everyday for 4~ months, I never invited her out but we used to see each other hanging out with friends, then she stopped talk to me all of a sudden, I txted her she said she was busy with work, uni, etc. Weeks after we stopped talking everyday, I invited her out two times, at the first time she kept saying how busy she was, but she was replied me fast, on the second time she asked to change the day, I said ok, she then left mid date to hang with a girl friend. I know it sounds a lot like she doesn't have any interest on me but when we meet we hug each other so hard and stay there long hugging each other. Sometimes she's enthusiastic when we talk via txt, I may flirt with her and she blushes, I sense her voice changes whenever I flirt with her, she gets more feminine. I asked her out some time ago and she said she needed to check her schedule cuz she was gonna start at her new job, and she didn't want to schedule a day and be a jerk to cancel it later, she said she was gonna tell me next week but never did lol, instead she invited me to her bday, there she saw me and ran to me and hugged me stronger than ever, she was with an other dude, but every time I asked her about her, she said he was her friend. First time I asked her, she said they were dating but nothing serious, a second time I asked, she said he was only a friend (she knows I like her and I told her I wouldn't go out with her if she was with somebody). This chick confuses the f out of my brain. It's like everything you are saying on this video, she did or does to me and I have no clue what to do. We used to talk everyday, she txt me first, double txt sometimes and then all of suddent - gone but still acts enthustiastic when she sees me.
@MooseRS49 ай бұрын
watch casey zander
@jaedenauguste21889 ай бұрын
Read this whole thing... bro. Leave her alone. I've been that "friend". She means they are sleeping together but not in anything exclusive. She's giving you mixed signals because your probably acting feminine and then when you flirt and stop acting like her friend and more of a lover she's receptive.
@johannesmarsupialis71288 ай бұрын
@@jaedenauguste2188 we haven't talked to almost 40 days now, just once i replied to a close friends story she posted, but it was a one line message so i don't really count. it's funny how she views my closed friends stories in less than 5 minutes everytime, sometimes even post a cf story minutes after i post. Ye I know this means nothing, just in my head it means something. Just my brain making up things to make me believe she likes me too. I may see her this weekend at a bday party, but i'm not sure she's going, but i'm going anyway, lots of people there so fk her. If she's there i'm gonna try something, if she's not.. there are more chicks there. And I know I need to let her go, she fked me up when she stopped talking to me, made me confused, obsessed, thought something was wrong with me, tbh I still try to find out why she stopped talking to me, but I know these are answers I will never have and I should let her go. I'm trying, doing my best, trying to get to know more girls and hanging with different friends. Thank you for your reply.