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[@MarkCarwyn]

When you project your feelings onto the world around you, the feeling IS NOT real. When you look inward at your own accountability, your feelings are real. Do women project, or self reflect? How she feels is not real. I disagree with you in the comments about this, yet again. Her feelings should not be validated, it is not your place to be her judge.

[@Teekayhuey_TK]

I have a question should guys date single mothers?

[@MarkCarwyn]

@@Teekayhuey_TK I would say not to date 90% of single mothers, and yes to 10% of them. Especially the ones that are widowed. Stay away from anyone involved with armed forces, and is a single mother.

[@Teekayhuey_TK]

@@MarkCarwyn I was hoping Grace would answer since his never said anything on it.

[@rangapal7949]

Let’s collab

[@giuseppemaggio5894]

Nothing new here: Women getting annoyed when you remind them that facts don't care about their feelings

[@arsenal4444]

​@@PennyWise-eu9nz no because one side is upheld by social norms and the entire legal and law enforcement system, whereas the other side is stomped out at every sprouting and held in contempt by the entire legal and law enforcement system they are opposites of each other, but in no way are they equivalent opposites, nor can the cause-effect of the two opposites be claimed to go either way, as it is very clearly set up as one way due to the legal framework the two exist within

[@iamsyourdadi]

@@PennyWise-eu9nz I am curious to know. What effect will raging have? And yes many men in the manosphere are emotional..but thats exactly why the manosphere exists- to show what has been hiding under the carpets and how the weakness we have encouraged for decades is ruining men. The rational men are learning and doing their thing correctly but what are women learning? Because for sure even the ones who are sane are not advocating for a change in laws and a return to reason. Instead even good women stand by as crazy ideologies eliminate them

[@Jimbomatic]

Moral of the story, you should not start a conversation with two feminists.

[@airthrowDBT]

Or one feminist

[@luciusnguyen2449]

Most of the time, the feminists start it first 😂

[@AscendantStoic]

Bingo 😅

[@gameon2000]

@@airthrowDBT most times feminists appear in groups to appear stronger. Who else does that? Sneaky species... like hyenas.

[@ncaps1822]

yes because their testosterone is off the charts 😂

[@aboutdoorsman4695]

A feminist ex-friend tried this on me when she told me that ‘men had to be better and try harder’. I asked her a dozen times to give me specific examples of what she meant. She finally started screaming at me calling me a misogynist out of frustration. I honestly tried to understand her and what she kept referring to. She was unable to give any specifics. Our friendship ended right there.

[@edwardbrito4010]

NPC they say same over use lines memorize but since they copied it have no deep thought behind it… they feel like morons & lash out.

[@1brenmaster]

Was she ever really your friend ? It’s very possible in that moment she realised you where no longer a viable orbiter

[@barnalorinc]

No loss

[@MaSa-bp5qe]

You deserved every scream and spittle that came your way. Why on earth would you be friends with a feminist??

[@klopcodez]

Its time they get drafted to war look at Ukraine all ran away such feminists I suppose what are men fighting for these types of people to exist hell no. Freedom must be earned the hard way and everyone must fight

[@airthrowDBT]

My toxic feminist ex couldn't STAND basic questions about her nonsensical beliefs. It was definitely an accountability thing holding them to even be logically consistent with THEMSELVES is too much to ask. She would become enraged and refuse to engage in basic discussion just like these illogical feminists.

[@Chris-0113]

Yep. Then throws a temper tantrum like a 5 year old.

[@jasontandy3357]

Just like a child..

[@maidende8280]

There are no logical feminists.

[@Skeetopunk01]

I dated two of these for a total of 8 year! Misery. Never again. Same thing happened to me.

[@migsy3302]

Feminist???? All women, Feminist or not act like that 🤷🏻‍♂️ It's a lost case if you ask me, a really, really bad long term investment where you could loose up to 75% of what you, bring in, put in, build or create. Bad investment from every angle you look at it 😌

[@maatonne]

This is literally how I win every argument with women. I don't even have to make an argument myself, just ask questions about how they came up to that conclusion and they invalidate their argument themselves.

[@jackdeniston59]

You win nothing.

[@Dmoriarty1993]

@@jackdeniston59 Playing stupid games get's you stupid prizes. Defeating a woman's arguments hasn't led to anything useful in my experience.

[@rhuiden4086]

Yeh. Women have mostly negative energy and are the easiest to brainwash with garbage ideologies. Its why its mostly women who join cults and get abused by psychopathic male cult leaders. Trying to reason with women with negative energy is like talking to a drunk or a extremist fanatical cult member

[@vladchan]

That's how you win an argument but lose the war my friend.

[@supremelordoftheuniverse5449]

In their head they won big time

[@alexm.2115]

"Those who know that they are profound strive for clarity. Those who would like to seem profound to the crowd strive for obscurity." - Nietzsche

[@alexm.2115]

​@@User_Kernel Can you please elaborate what you mean by that?

[@oscaraurelio8869]

The same philosopher said "a woman is a surface, mimicking depths"

[@shockmarkets7384]

@@oscaraurelio8869 I've never articulated it quite like that, but I have articulated it , many times, over the years.

[@danmosby7980]

The second part does not make sense as a put down, those wanting to be seen by a crowd dont want to be "Obscure" or insconspicuous quite the opposite. so idont get it??? he is basically same the same thing twice how is that relevant here. Those who would like to seem profound seek attention but dont deserver it. Is this misquoted cause it adds nothing??/ NOT impressed with Nietzsche

[@alexm.2115]

@@danmosby7980 A literal translation of Nietzsche's words could be of use here. In the german original he talks about "depth' in analogy to water. He basically says that if you know you are deep, you try to clear up your deep waters; if you want to appear deep to the crowd you instead try to cloud your shallow waters to make them appear deep (by beeing unprecise so that you attribute your lack of understanding their words to the fact, that their knowlege ist above your capacity to comprehend).

[@DestinoParques]

The best way to end a conversation is always to give some Facts. Works every time

[@antitheist2000]

😂😂

[@uchennakingsley1354]

😂

[@robertfindley921]

Facts are women's kryptonite. But as @WildMidwest1 says, it won't get her to acquiesce. Women want envy and empathy from other women, and just apologies from men. The person who apologizes is giving up control and power.

[@tonyg4058]

A lot of the time they still want to get in the last word though and say 'well that's your opinion'. My sister does this all the time with me. Females for you. 2 + 2 = 4 is not an opinion, but I still hear that all the time.

[@WildMidwest1]

@@tonyg4058 This comment and many others suggest that discussing anything logically with a woman ought to work, but all men experienced it is futile. Far better just to seduce a woman if you're interested, or walk away if not interested. (BTW I am not suggesting you seduce your sister.) Don't engage gaslighting because it fuels the unwanted behavior.

[@robskalas]

This is why people say that "accountability is kryptonite to women."

[@unkosherfood]

these people who say "im a perfect 10" "MY kind is better in every way" are detached from reality and will only get hostile or even violent if you try to apply reality to them. the worse a person is, the more likely they are to behave like they think theyre perfect.

[@solice8844]

They actually thrive to be hostile in their delusional environment of lies. They don’t care about the standard, your standard of truth and reality but instead languish in their power of deception and gaslighting.

[@redpilljesus]

It's those who are violent that you must accept humiliation from so you can get out of there without going to jail.

[@JohnWayne-86ed]

That's called narcissistic personality disorder, I was wed to someone with it... a complete nightmare, every scientist, professional... the entire world could agree something is a fact, but if they don't want it to be true, it's not true... ugh, frustrating beyond belief.

[@legessi]

Anyone who thinks they are a perfect 10 start every interaction thinking that they are better or above whoever they interact with. Make no mistake...a woman who believes all women are 10s will think that men are not all 10s and a male 10 isn't possible.

[@airthrowDBT]

Real question: why bother with such irrational people who won't even make you a sandwich or do anything for you?🤔

[@vicshephard9231]

"I'll prioritize you when you start making sandwiches."

[@technoloverish]

I’m pretty sure The Bible doesn’t say women have to make sandwiches for men

[@vicshephard9231]

@@technoloverish in Bible times they fixed lambs for their men

[@AlessandroGenTLe]

@@technoloverish In bible time they lapidated women like these.

[@technoloverish]

@@AlessandroGenTLe Wrong. Christ specifically stopped that from happening and said for only he who is without sin to cast a stone

[@ynkybomber]

My wife does not want me to fix anything. She just wants to complain to me. Sometimes she is complaining about me but since I stopped trying to fix her problems logically I have become much happier. She is still constantly unhappy but I no longer feel any guilt because of it.

[@alexanderg8466]

it sounds like you are better alone.

[@ynkybomber]

@@nunuvyurbiz123 nobI have not but I'll look

[@ynkybomber]

@alexanderg8466 I have kids so even if I wanted to that would not be an option for me.

[@BWater-yq3jx]

Actually pretty standard advice, even from women: Don't try to solve her problem, just listen. Fortunately, I don't care.

[@PennPearson]

Women are never happy. Everything bothers them - especially men. Resign yourself to that fact. Just listen sympathetically while she vents.

[@evamarie2247]

As a women with a very disabling disorder my husband and I have been married 14 beautiful yrs. I live with him in the woods and I hunt, clean, cook, can, etc. We support eachother. If I process our deer he does the dishes! If I clean the house he takes out the garbage. WOMEN NEED TO KNOCK OF THE SPOIL ME BABY ME BULLSH**! People need to start taking responsibility for themselves and have boundries that are healthy!

[@dude9318]

Exactly

[@klunkworks2020]

Nice, if I see in the woods, I will wave. Quietly.

[@j.p.vanbolhuis8678]

[tongue in cheek] A disorder you say... hmm yes... You have been afflicted with "Accountability" most distressing [/tongue in cheek]

[@evamarie2247]

@@j.p.vanbolhuis8678 Not really looking for accountability. My yrs of medical reports and sever ailments I deal with openely & honestly prove otherwise, as u can view from my channel. But as a wife with children, the realness of responsibilities and living off the land with my husband depicts the value of how women seem to view themselves today. Teamwork and ethics of growing up on a farm with a Vietnam father makes my views a bit different towards this new view on how women immoralize men instead of working together on the hardships of life itself.

[@otmossampacado1550]

Funny thing is same group of women are the ones that hates the patriarchy, which is basically providing for women while the do nothing

[@cptcosmo]

Ask these "women" what their interests and hobbies are. I'll wager the top two items they'll list are "shopping" and "travel", both of which are not hobbies, but hedonistic pursuits.

[@cosmicystn3626]

GOOD point

[@infinitydesu]

I would swap "travel" with "social media", but basically on point.

[@redbaron07]

As long as someone _else_ is paying for those pursuits, they feel like hobbies to them.

[@chrisclancy6756]

I hate people(both guys and girls) who don't do anything interesting with their lives... leaves less competition for us musicians I suppose lol

[@dominikvonlavante6113]

Or just ask them: Okay, if women are better, then why aren't you stronger than me?

[@G31M1]

This is so true, I had a girl accusing me of manipulating her, just because she developed feelings for me without me feeling the same way about her. When I asked about specifics she would always change the subject and attack some other character trait of mine.

[@patienceobongo]

Toxic cow dungs

[@rhuiden4086]

What a stank ass 304. You got lucky she revealed her true colours

[@seven7upndown241]

Why do you keep asking the same question? Why dont you just repeat what we say and accept it, just believe it. Doesnt seem like emotion. Seems like manipulaton.

[@andrewnelson3681]

Low quality women, ie, most women, think they know exactly what you’re thinking, and are happy to condemn you on that basis. No amount of logical, sensible attempts to unpick her accusations will have any effect at all. This didn’t used to matter too much, but now that they’re running the world, it matters a great deal.

[@mikeexits]

​​@@seven7upndown241It would seem that you're the one spamming the same question across multiple comment threads here, dude.

[@CRBarchager]

9:00 I remember this all too well. My ex would litterally start an argument/fight with "You are increasing your voice!" - I later learned that she might be a narcissist and they can be triggered by an increase in your voice like if you would like to tell something and you do it enthusiastic. Happy I got out.

[@decwow]

Do you remember where you learned about that?

[@CRBarchager]

@@decwow Primarily from the KZbin channel 'SurvivingNarcissism'

[@THX5000]

There was a reddit post saying that women should be allowed in the men's Tour De France bicycle race... Sure, no problem... All the women would get dropped by the men in the first mile, and never catch up for the remaining 2500 miles.

[@Rampart.X]

Let them.

[@THX5000]

@@Rampart.X I agree. Watch the best pro women get humiliated by the lowest ranked men.

[@seventhkeyomegasghost8233]

I just responded by saying the NCAA basketball tournament should just do away with gender and have just a 128 team tournament 64 men's teams and 64 wmn's teams play for one trophy and see who comes out on top.

[@BICIeCOMPUTERconGabriele]

I'm an amateur cyclist. Cycling is very hard. Note that women's tour the France is a one week race,made of generally 100km to 150km long stages. Men's race is THREE weeks long race made of stages generally between 150km and 220km. Trust me: pro cyclist women NEVER asked a so silly request, to race in men's races... It must have been some overweight blue haired feminist that asked this...

[@kevinireland8020]

Sure, why not ? Cause we can't have the roads for such a long period of time ?

[@OnderHassan]

Basically, in order to have a semblance of a healthy relationship with a modern woman. You need to have a PhD in Clinical Psychology. Yep, I’ll pass.

[@angelg3642]

Pretty much 💀💀💀.

[@dirkwolf9463]

I don't need a man but I definitely need a therapist.

[@IamDoogy]

Yes, RUN away from these feminist kooks. A nightmare.

[@thedappermagician6905]

bro what he's explaining isn't that deep. most video games are more complicated than this process.

[@joemahma3017]

@@thedappermagician6905 I’m glad I’m bi. I’m sticking with dudes.

[@PassionateSpirit88]

A good example is what happened to me... I got kicked out of my girlfriend's friend apartment because I challenged her in a calm way about her feminist views and talking bad about white men...and guess what....she kicked me out but not my girlfriend even though my girlfriend was agreeing with me and saying the same things to her.

[@technoloverish]

Do you believe that white people are somehow biologically superior to black people? Last I checked, the Bible doesn’t say it’s a sin to be black

[@johnsmith-ht3sy]

Tell her to get out of the Flat, because everything in it and around it was built by white males. If she hates white men so much she should go live in a mud hut in Africa.

[@MaSa-bp5qe]

Charlie?

[@Dmoriarty1993]

I think an argument unable to withstand examination is just a baseless, dogmatic assertion.

[@rhuiden4086]

That 304 needed a good slapping and will get it when she meets that alpha. 304 desperately wants to be dominated and humiliated.

[@ytano5782]

I‘m a weightlifting coach. 1 year Rookys warm up with the PR of our best female athletes 😂

[@Dmoriarty1993]

The strength difference is remarkable, isn't it? Though women can be good squatters and deadlifters, though still not as good as the blokes.

[@ytano5782]

@@Dmoriarty1993 The world record in total for woman in the open class (no bodyweight limit) is 348kg from Tatjana Kaschirina and she has a body weight of over 100kg. 350kg total is a good result for a men in a lower international tier for the 102kg class.

[@patienceobongo]

And modern women weigh in at 150kg

[@AvyScottandFlower]

I feel bad for the fathers of those two feminists Working so they can provide for such hateful women.

[@brbqsauce]

bold of you to assume they have fathers

[@cactaceous]

Those girls well know women are “not better than men”. They just do not want to admit it or think about it further. Remember, they are biologically narcissistic. All of them. They only think of themselves so they cannot project or feel weakness or they will crumble because any negative emotion entering will be a constant thought ping ponging in their brain forever and ever. Easier to present a barrier so they can lie to themselves and not have to deal with it.

[@jaybee6505]

@@brbqsauce My thoughts exactly.

[@iliketofart2945]

I want to pass gas in a small room with them with the doors locked.

[@t-bagbagwell1327]

I don’t feel bad for their parents. They’re part of the problem.

[@rajakghosh6602]

This's a MAN'S WORLD (Created by men, built by men and operated by men). Women just moved in and claimed half of it just like in divorce.

[@Neironify]

Oh come on don't be like the 2 girls in the video saying bullshit like that. Both are equally important. We men build the world but every person was born from a woman 😂

[@hitto8863]

This Is a world created by men for women,women have the audacity to criticize us

[@gon2soku273]

@@Neironify "Oh come on don't be like the 2 girls in the video saying bullshit like that." How is he acting like the two irrational females in the video and what exactly he said, was bullshit? This world was build by men and is operated and maintained by men. That is reality. "We man build the world but every person was born from a woman 😂" And every person comes from semen.

[@fatemad4012]

​@@Neironify the farming was invented by women in the middle east if it was not created men couldn't built the civilization

[@insomicraiddict]

@@fatemad4012 not saying men are better than women but honestly men probably would have figured it out.

[@williamr.kirkland6317]

Thanks for your program. I'm 86, a widower and finding myself in the "dating game" after 61 of a good life. So, many of your suggestions and points of view are helpful. Finding a new companion is simply hard work. Thanks. Keep up the good input.

[@redpilljesus]

Why try? Get a dog, some hobbies and give to friends (/make new ones).

[@BatmanBeyondBelief]

Dogs make way better companions

[@realalexmackenzie]

I think he might stand a chance. Women from that era were not as corrupted as women under 40. Plus the odds are definitely on his side from a sex ratio. But yeah... I'm still decades from that number and I'm ready to go the dog route and enjoy a life of peace and simplicity.

[@davesmith826]

@@redpilljesus You giving life advice to an octogenarian really is amusing. If the man wants a partner, the man gets a partner.

[@andreichetan4694]

86 my man keeps going strong! Deeply respect, hope you get that lady, good sir!

[@PrinceRevolver]

Women who treat you like an emotional punching need you to feel lower than them. It’s a good way to keep you demoralized and codependent, especially if she’s full of insecurities. Eventually she’ll see herself as being better than you.

[@jayc342009]

mentally ill women do that, which is most

[@acch20]

It's basically the sign of a woman with nothing to offer in a relationship and probably has deep-rooted mental health issues

[@picturesthataredope]

I play along and let them feel that, then go ahead and keep winning in my own endeavors. Works like a charm to get them real confused and pissed

[@WayWalker3]

What a surprise to realise that inadequate people do inadequate things.

[@juanderuano8969]

Great video. I was in a beautiful marriage before my now ex wife left me,i still love her and most times i cant stop thinking about her, i am doing my very best to get rid of the thought of her, but i just cant, i love her so much, i dont know why i am bring this here for, i cant stop thinking about her..

[@juanderuano8969]

@jay pritchett wow, how did you get a spiritual adviser, and how do i reach her?

[@juanderuano8969]

@jay pritchett Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive.

[@niarlatotepbasset]

Why the f#€k are you two repeating the same conversation about the same “spiritual advisor” under almost every redpill or manosphere videos 🙄.

[@patienceobongo]

Get a cat

[@myballwilson]

Keep watching this channel and you'll realize that many women want a good man and can't find them. Both genders lack deep benches and any new talent gets swept up quickly. Become the man you are.

[@8989arty]

it's a good tool to understand who to stay away from, if a girl says what she says and you know it's not true because it doesn't happen in reality, do yourself a favor and stay away, no matter how beautiful and attractive she is, she's stupid and empty.

[@craigfrober316]

Like this? kzbin.info/www/bejne/roKYeoR3otaJm8k

[@hifiman4562]

I once asked a gf some questions about herself. She said "stop trying to figure me out!". I dropped her soon after.

[@MrHollond]

"you're asking her to be accountable and thats not what she wants" I laughed so hard when you said that 6:40 in the video.

[@NGMonocrom]

Seriously, who are the worthless excuses for men and fathers who are bringing these young women into the world, and doing a garbage job of raising them! Why is THAT issue not being addressed?

[@GrabinUrloot]

Possibly the state. How many of these women grew up with a single parent or saw the benefit of divorce and checked out? Hard to tell.

[@NGMonocrom]

@@GrabinUrloot That would accommodate for some of them, but certainly not all. It amazes me what fathers tolerate from their daughters in terms of behavior.

[@GrabinUrloot]

@@NGMonocrom I agree. There has been and will always be people who completely fail as parents.

[@TheInsomniaddict]

@@NGMonocrom Divorce is a ruinous feature of marriages normalized by society. Most men are on eggshells when they realize what a divorce could do to them and the wife starts using it as a threat. Something like 60% of marriages end in divorce now, and quite often the men have little to no say in their child's upbringing.

[@gabeo9474]

If it were possible to have a reasonable, constructive conversation, then there would be no real problem in the first place, but that's not an option. No matter how good things were at any given moment, if my ex perceived ANYTHING I said as being critical of her or disagreeing with something she said, she would suddenly turn extremely negative and launch an all out, no mercy attack that was entirely fueled by emotion. It didn't matter what I did - she would ALWAYS escalate to the point of kicking me out and ending the relationship. It was like a switch would flip inside her, and she'd transform into a terribly cruel sadist hellbent on destroying me. The really scary part is that she would claim to not remember doing a lot of the things she did when she was like that.

[@jyyyb]

Not remembering = denial of reality

[@supremelordoftheuniverse5449]

@@jyyyb their specialty.

[@Dev-qs2yb]

Rangapal deserves more recognition!

[@rangapal7949]

Appreciate bro. Alexander let’s collab!

[@kamrudkd]

This is one reason muslim women wear hijab. Muslim ppl believe it is protection for society/woman. As they cover their beauty it makes it more important for them to develop their personality, morals and intellect, to be defined by. This makes them pleasant to talk to and hold real conversations around shared values, beliefs and long-term life goals that are also deep and transcend in nature. It prevents ppl getting arrogant and getting a superiority complex based on superficial trates. Keeps ppl down to earth, modesty. Trys to prevent self entitlement and Princess complex. It trys to prevent the commercialisation/weaponising of "beauty", by it not being a publicly displayed and traded commodity/currency. Trys to give women a break from having to compete with each other on just beauty, in open public. That can cause feelings of jealousy. Helps to try to prevent an army of simps and street pestering. As her beauty is for HER and the special people SHE chooses in her life. Helps to try to prevent insecurities trying to maintain unrealistic and unsustainable beauty standards, that are forever changing and expensive to uphold. This can cause mental issues in people and the sense of constant judgement and body shaming from people that don't know you or care about your long-term good. Peace

[@RPMentorTokyoChannel]

It's unfortunate that part of this vagueness manifests in acts such as gaslighting; some people are genuinely attempting to objectively understand the world. Well, there's always research.

[@PrinceRevolver]

A prime example as to why so many relationships don’t work. How can you be romantically involved with someone and there’s never a sense of clarity.

[@raging_panda8109]

This is good one! Really one of the best way to confirm whether you are dating a woman willing to explore her own feelings and attach them to reality, while being specific, that benefits both you and her, as well as it really shows whether she trusts you and is open to find solution rather then throw punches. Also women are know their privileges well nowadays (while shouting about being oppressed, lol) and sometimes start scenes in public place, so the only working tactics I found here is "I am sorry mam, who are you and why are you yelling at me?", exploring her traumas when there is an audience for her performance is worthless

[@staticregret829]

Appreciate how you break down specific behaviors/statements made from both sides. Makes for a tasty nugget of data that becomes easily processed.

[@fredc3543]

Rarely happens when you are in a "friends w/ benefits" relationship. They know if they pull that crap, you're gone.

[@diemervdberg7661]

Know a girl that gets upset every time when I keep asking her to be more specific lol She starts complaining that I ask too much and that she was clear. When I ask more, she ignores me haha. She is kinda attention seeking though

[@vb9821]

God damn. I gotta be a psychologist to be in a relationship. That sounds like a lot of work I'm going to have to pay to do. I bet I will still have to pay for dinner as well.

[@spacecandygames7575]

Look the whole men and women dynamic is just like an actual gf/bf dynamic. We been betas and lost our masculinity. In reaction they’re dressing up more trying to get attention, gaslighting everything, complaining, shaming us, pretending everything we want is too much. Playing the victim. And not men are leaving and finding better and just like a ex, she’s mad and trying to shame us…..best thing to do is raise our standards, raise our value and do better

[@spacecandygames7575]

@@PennyWise-eu9nz passport bros

[@G_Demolished]

Beta isn’t a thing. Alpha theory was retracted because of poor methodology. Google it.

[@Crossbow1712]

Calmly asking pointed questions is a great way to deal with people who are passive aggressive. The book "Dealing with People You Can't Stand: How to Bring Out the Best in People at Their Worst" goes over this in their section about Snipers. Great life skill in general, especially in stressful work situations

[@Appl_Jax]

SMDH, got this from my sister when she tried to leverage her kids compel me into doing something... this kind of mindset is an illness that can manifest anywhere from anyone. Stay vigilant.

[@HoboHiney]

Men use logic, Woman use feelings.

[@oooo1743]

Thats what society projects in actuality things are different.The most irrational/illogical behaviour i witness are done by Thinkers,because logic looks for quick fix for its obsession with act they are good with justifications

[@bogdanpopescu1401]

@@oooo1743 great point

[@Bobbakerfield]

Wow this is probably the best advice I’ve ever heard in dealing with an emotional woman

[@HoboHiney]

Always Remember what the Original point is, and Stay on point.Woman are Masters at changing the subject! Don't fall for it.

[@agm5424]

A theory I have may add to that: As we know Wmn are the physically weaker sx of the species due to being child beares of the species so they by nature have more softer and elastic muscles so they will strech during pregnancy and be soft for the baby during his/her infancy. This factor also makes them the most danger prone of the two gndrs, they are designed to prioritize the avoiding of physical risks and dangers at all cost because by extension it will make them prioritize the physical safety of their children. I think that this desire for physical/material safety is translated/manifested at the mental/emotional level as the desire to avoid admitting any wrong doing. In other words their desire to be physically safe is shared by the ego's desire to not be wrong since to the ego being proven wrong and having to change one's thoughts brings the same feeling as being physically attacked. This is also why Wmn always speak or make statements in a nebulous and subjective way in order to maintain "possible deniability" so they don't run the risk of being proven wrong. It's also why they are mostly focus on "the appearance of something" or are more focus on how something is percived rather than how it actually is wich is why it is Wmn who will most likely focus on "vertue signaling" about one self/focusing on how others percive them rather than actually working on themselves and becoming a better person because the latter requires work and admitting/facing the reality that one has to admit their wrong and has to change. I also think this is why Wmn don't care or are unable to think or understand abstract ideas like Logic and Morality since they're design to mainly focus on things at the material level. Normally caring about the Logic and Morality of a situation is something they would trust to both their fathers or husbands.

[@nerychristian]

That's a long way to say that women aren't given reasoning skills because they are supposed to be in the kitchen

[@nerychristian]

I prefer to think that God made women weaker (Physically, emotionally, and mentally) so that women would remain humble and remember that they are supposed to be submissive to their man. As it is, women are conceited due to their beauty. So they need to be constantly reminded of their dependence on their husbands. It also forced them to shut up and listen to their husbands.

[@RandomGuyyy]

In Neurolinguistic Programming, this is the Milton model and the Meta model. The Milton model, named after hypnotist Milton Erickson was a way of describing something that deliberately avoided specific details in order to accommodate a wide range of internal representations, making suggestions, hypnotic or otherwise more effective. The Meta model is the opposite, seeking to eliminate all ambiguity and clarify precise meanings and intention. Many interviews with politicians, influencers and other types of charlatans feature the clash of Meta and Milton with the politician using artfully vague, emotional language that avoids concrete terms while the interviewer seeks to clarify the language being used.

[@patienceobongo]

Lying its called. Not Milkshakes and Mars Bars

[@electricanomaly]

What I got out of this: don't waste your energy with vague conversations, regardless of with who. Build a realistic foundation to pull points from that don't "cross" any lines. If in these conversations, the point is to reach mutual understanding, not to persuade the other.

[@JoeJ-8282]

Don't ever worry about what low quality, to×ic women complain to you about in what you say Alex, you are doing WAY more TRUE good in this world than almost literally ANY other KZbinr IMHO! More people, both men AND women, really need to see more of your content, to help better the current gender dynamic in modern society! Keep up your great work man! (At least the truly High Quality people appreciate what you have to say!)

[@rymreaper]

Your channel made more stable person than before. I look at my past If I didn't have proper guidance I would've become a monster. Reality of dating is harsh but you taught me how to handle it in a correct way. I am still suffering with mental issues. Still very scared and hopeless and uncertain of future. But atleast when I go I won't do it by hurting others.

[@anonmouse956]

It helps to know the same things are happening to other people too.

[@IamDoogy]

I’m probably twice this guy’s age but he is very insightful. Pay attention and take this to heart. Guys had better wise up in this crazy dating/relationship environment.

[@Kal.El1]

Not doing harm when it’s the truth. The harm they’re referring to is a hurt ego - get over it. Keep it up, Alex. Love the content. *This comment was sponsored by Tiege Hanley 😎*

[@simonschneider5913]

It really works with practically all people including men...

[@FatYggdrasil]

Dude it's like you are talking about my trouble at work lately with my 2 female bosses, who leveled a lot of BS and accusations at me and when i ask the simple question what exactly did i do and when? They never can't give a specific occurance / day / thing that i did.... and after that tried to stop the discussion. Crazy!

[@rhuiden4086]

Its just a powerplay by the harlots to keep you down. two female bosses!? Get outta there quick for the sake of your mental well being.

[@demigod8522]

Imagine if we were living in an alternate timeline where women remained true to their femininity and wouldn't try to chase roles better suited to masculinity while saying they're better suited for it than men

[@technoloverish]

Are referring to the gender roles given in The Bible?

[@demigod8522]

@@technoloverish I honestly haven't read the bible because I'm not religious. I was just referring to the toxic side of todays feminism where women are more annoying and unattractive personality wise than they've ever been. Most men don't want a woman who's trying to be the boss and won't embrace her natural feminine side

[@technoloverish]

@@demigod8522 What does being feminine mean to you? And do you you think what is and isn't natural necessarily indicates what is and isn't ethical?

[@demigod8522]

@@technoloverish I believe real feminine women are kind, caring and less prone to be disagreeable. Many women today are blinded by the woke narrative and totally ignore factual evidence to the detriment of their future self. Even though I'm not religious, I think that they all have one simple rule in common that benefits society as a whole and that's shaming women who don't value their body enough in todays hookup culture and the divorce statistics backs up the evidence that women who has a high body count are exponentially far more likely to not be able to pair bond in the long term

[@rhuiden4086]

I think its a result of too many effeminate men and simps who they encounter everwhere they go trying to get into their pants. They are projecting perceived masculine behaviours because as usual women will never be openly honest. Duplicity and deceit is their power card.

[@graymatters7584]

They don’t like being made to think through their own ideas to the end. It’s not a pleasant thing to realize that what you believe is built on nonsense.

[@kianarosablau]

true, I do writing and some women told that its incomprehensible, but when I told them to give me example (copy one of my sentence and write how they understand this or what they dont understand), neither of them tell anything

[@brettmillerlive]

Once again. so well-articulated. The way you explained it was so revealing to what I've naturally been doing in past relationships all this time. I'd always lean in to understanding her emotional remarks. It has always felt natural for me to ask "well, why do you think that?" and all other pertinent leading questions, because I felt so in the dark when I would hear her remarks. It was always genuine, and looking back on it, they very often led to her surrendering those hostile ideas she was holding on to, because she was able to understand that she was either making a bigger deal out of essentially nothing or that I understood her emotions better and I'm prepared to take better action to assure she won't feel the same way again later. That's very powerful. With that emotional intelligence and genuine curiosity, you wield a lot of power in these situations, and it's our job as men to handle that power responsibly. You also can tell what kind of quality of woman you are with in these moments, if she's able to figuratively take your hand as you lead her along into finding out the truth of the matter. Excellent video! Very thought-provoking.

[@impudentdomain]

A boyfriend is not a therapist, make her get well before you go any further in a relationship.

[@williambontrager2349]

Women make perfect sense when instead of trying to interpret what they are saying, you instead focus on what the words make you feel like doing. What you feel like doing is the point not the words themselves whenever the words are not meant to conceal or reenforce her own feelings. Women tend to view themselves as passengers and feelings as the drivers so being able to ignore being controlled by feelings is a huge attractive quality but also terrifying to them bc it makes them feel vulnerable.

[@adzmac515]

This is great advice once again. When asking my wife for more information the response was always “you should know this etc…” if I wasn’t getting the silent treatment. I know what you’re thinking but it’s OK, I left her a few years ago and am recovering now

[@rhuiden4086]

I think Alex did a video on how to use the silent treatment to stop misbehaviour from a woman. Its a powerful weapon but narcissistic women abuse this against their man.

[@MatteoRomanelli-kl9fb]

I tried the specific on the pay gap….the reactions were golden.

[@jerrykudos9445]

She will give you some bull crap excuse for her feelings. That she doesn't believe to be the reason for them. But wants you to believe it to be the reason. Only so you would leave the topic alone. And because she simply doesn't know why she feels that way. And she just wants you engaged.

[@thetjdman]

Image and reputation is more important to women than food and water. Swear to god.

[@Workingman22]

You can avoid this by not being in a relationship. It's over in the west not worth the time or energy to even try to date just let them self destruct and live your life. "If you wanna take your relationship game to the next level." 😂😂 yeah have fun with that fellas it will never be enough for the modern woman but Goodluck.

[@PennPearson]

As I read the comments preceding yours, I kept thinking, "Why all this advice about dealing with Western women? What 's the reward? More problems and conflicts." Then, I read your comment and felt I'd found the best response: Disengage completely from the dumpster fire that's Western women and the West now." I lived in Asia for decades, had close involvement with several traditional Asian women and never had these kinds of problems. Western women aren't worth the trouble of dealing with them. I'm eating popcorn and drinking beer and watching the woke West burn.

[@Truman77.]

A very helpful video in dealing with emotionally charged accusations. So tiring and potentially destructive.

[@Johan_g]

A girlfriend sounds like a full time job... :)

[@johnsmith-ht3sy]

Big difference, you pay them for your hard work.

[@j.wright8157]

They got one part right. "You should not start a discussion with two feminists."😄 Playing a video game would be more time productive!

[@jimsteinmanfan80]

This is probably the best mens rights kind of stuff I have seen, amongst quite a lot. I have always known that females are very emotional and therefore prone to very short term thinking. I haven't realised quite to what extent though as thinking of my own life experiences while whatching this so many memories came up exactly matching.

[@breatheliveandthrive7404]

A lion should never argue with donkeys.

[@andrewnelson3681]

You’re incredibly wise and erudite Alexander. I salute you. It’s such a sad thing that in order to have a successful relationship with a woman, you have to play a kind of game, as though you’re dealing with a child or a pet. Authentic, truthful relationships shouldn’t have to involve games.

[@megret1808]

Ah, subjectivity vs objectivity and not being able to tell the difference. A couple wakes up in the morning and she slugs him. Why? Because she had a dream that he was hitting on her best friend

[@PennPearson]

Exactly right. I used to know a very intelligent teenage girl who told me that one night, she dreamed that her father had a secret girlfriend. At breakfast the next day, she was so angry she wouldn't speak to him. Is there any logic or reason in that?

[@Nighthawk9101]

This sounds like decent advice, but it also sounds like you're suggesting that men have the responsibility to be their girlfriend's therapist.

[@javilo2797]

Aye

[@whatfffd]

I like the question..' Could you be wrong?' The best filter for trash there is

[@kevinireland8020]

@ 06:10 the question I would ask is 'What did I fail to do' ? If there was a coherent response, I would respond with 'Please say something when/if it happens again. You are not going to fix something if you don't know it is broken.

[@peterg76yt]

It's the reaction of someone when reality contradicts their fantasy.

[@charliekelly1154]

It's like trying to reason with an angry grizzly bear, and in the end you're just gonna get the claws across the face again.

[@chillway2981]

I just realized something I'm my mother's punching bag damn

[@snakeplissken1754]

Women nowadays life in lala land and are allergic to logic and facts that disturb their delusion.

[@balancer182]

It's incredible the amount of delusion you can accumulate from being in a feminist bubble.

[@SumitsRandomVlogs]

Always feels good that I am not the only one who faced all these

[@gameon2000]

She ain't wrong tho. You really shouldn't start a discussion with feminists.

[@Rampart.X]

Nothing good can come of it. It's like trying to debate a chimpanzee.

[@seventhkeyomegasghost8233]

@@Rampart.X I think a chimp is more interesting and have a better personality though.

[@mrhopalong]

What if the young man’s hobby is triggering feminists?

[@ackbuilder8262]

There is no way I am going to live my life asking women millions of questions so they can learn better ways to criticize and manipulate.

[@lalon2337]

- Women don't make sense - They do... When you add the words "I feel" at the beginning of their statements...

[@FamilyHistoriandude]

😂 and she cried because she feels.

[@adrees]

This is an interesting video and surprisingly helpful. It is a good communication tool to turn feelings into actionable understanding of her feelings while not blindly taking blame for something you don’t know about. Pretty healthy.

[@gravy1770]

So a relationship is really an emotional babysitting job. Lol

[@purplesprigs]

"Level vague accusations at you." Nailed it.

[@ynkybomber]

Therapists charge between 100-500 an hour but you get to be her therapist for the price of sex 4 times a month if you are lucky.

[@johnsmith-ht3sy]

More, you become her punch bag.

[@jonmueller2117]

My ex would argue with me and use words like "you always do this or that, or you never...

[@dam8695]

all this time energy reinforces her center of the universe perspective.. .this attention is exactly what she what she really craves... may make a difference or more likely gets addicted to free therapy with a touch of drama. valid points with feelings vs reality perspective but if you have to constantly circle back to this ask yourself if the juice is worth the squeeze.

[@carrionflowers6764]

They wanted to have fun and win silly arguments and lost, so they quit because their original intent was to have fun.

[@gdargdar91]

"There is no point in developing relationship skills if you can't get into a relationship" - Alexander has developed some smooth sales skills.

[@Ash-sx3is]

This sounds a lot like my ex girlfriend, she was quite deep. In the beginning of our relationship she said she was very emotional & the jealous type, I thought no problem I am not the mess around type so I took what she said lightly. The first time she came to my house she said Ah I like it here it’s so peaceful and quiet as I lived in my own place on my own. Then after that she couldn’t stop moaning, calling me mean, boring, tight cold etc etc, I use to ask her questions & just laugh at her which she couldn’t handle she could give it but couldn’t take it & I realised that it was actually her talking about herself. She use to say I was tuff because I never bent to her tantrums or her wims. Good thing about that relationship is I learnt a lot about wimen & gained another sense that is fine tuned.

[@decwow]

I am not validating the incorrect emotions of someone who blames me for her past. Everything you talked about up to that point seems reasonable, but past that: been there, done that. It suffers from the same problem as paying her student loans or getting her cosmetic surgery. Once you've done it, you find out that you turned yourself into a stepping stone. Someone who I am already committed to, maybe.... But not just a girlfriend. Noooooo thank you.

[@RANDassociatesinc]

Their intention is not to shift your position; the intention is to proxy power you into shutting up. Language - w/o accountability - is a form of proxy power.

[@spitsyn]

Ha ha! That is so true. My wife sometimes tries to flip the script on me, even though she might be guilty in the unpleasant situation between us, by giving me vague accusations, using words like "always" or "every time". And each time I slow down her rant and try to get specific with her, she just has nothing to say really, and after a brief moment she usually becomes a purring cat again in order to diffuse the situation and take my mind off of it, which I don't really mind. Being vague is their weapon. Also changing the subject and throwing irrelevant things to knock you off your emotional state is their weapon too. So, all you need is just stay cool and specific, and it's very easy to do so, once you know how they play and what their agenda is.

[@Username-ei4ff]

*How the two women should of responded:* “Yes, men tend to be born with more testosterone and are physically stronger than women, but the results can be malleable depending on the strength and fitness of the men and women that are being compared. Everyone is unique in their traits, individually. And there is nothing wrong with one man being stronger than one woman, or vise versa. I usually think It’s important to look at everyone individually.” Not hard. But instead, they decided to respond differently. Understandable, when you are too far into political extremes like most red-pillers are, too.

[@ShidaPenns]

Sometimes I really have to ask a lot of questions to get some simple information from my wife. 😅 But, she doesn't get upset with me. If anything I end up getting a little annoyed wondering why she doesn't just answer with all the needed information, instead of assuming I can read her mind. 🤔 She is trying though, she doesn't give me any good reason to get really annoyed, so I just calm down, we sort it out.

[@jep3305]

Unless, off course, she gets out the big one: "If you don't know what I mean, it's just evidence that you don't care…" LOL

[@liviuursegr]

Morale of the story, avoid people with baggage. You want a partner, you don't want to be their therapist. Until they don't work it out themselves you don't want or need the drama

[@21AttackMac]

Ask anyone who served in a bomber squadron during WW2. When you’re over your target and it’s in your crosshairs, you’re going to start taking flak.

[@dougiedorite8296]

If the woman you cleave to enjoys being mean to you, put her out of your life. Costs you can recover, your life you can not.