Don't Get Mad When a Man You Rejected Moves On

[@natashafreeman2220]

Rejection is usually a sign of God’s protection

[@BigDiscussions76]

You know I've never looked at this way Ms. Freeman, but this a very, very healthy way of looking at it. Thank you.

[@joensleygarcia6449]

That’s what ARC said also in one of his books.

[@allencampbell1058]

Facts, after gods protection and the men moves on it's called self protection

[@SN-yn6it]

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[@VintageAfro91]

It sounds to me like it’s an ego thing because if you’re truly not interested in the guy, him moving on wouldn’t be an issue lol. Great video 👌🏾💕

[@MsJoyce31202]

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[@joensleygarcia6449]

Well said! I experienced that a few times. In fact a woman rejecting a man, makes him improves himself to the point he becomes the man she initially desired. Plus, now the metoo movement is making the situation more tricky with harrasment issues.

[@hiawathia81]

This usually happens when the lady in question is still single

[@KlngVJames]

This happened to me even when she left me for the new guy. She pushed me away and called me weak when it cane time to confess my feelings to her. She even tried to make me an emotional hostage and if i couldn’t give her what she wanted at that moment then she will get it from someone else. She wanted “marriage” and i was willing to give that to her but its never enough with her. She really wanted resources and to make herself seem normal to her family because she was a covert narcassist who only cares about herself and loves to harm others for sport. I dont represent this and she knew which is why we had a problem with this too. I didn’t make a big deal about it especially when she was rude and disrespectful for no reason. Even her friends told her about herself and she discarded them so i just let her go. But she expected me to still keep trying even when “i wasnt good enough”. She saw me with the woman im with right now then hopped into a marriage real quick with someone she barley knew so she can get rid of her virginity and cause she was mad tried to purposly hurt me and wanted me to stay hurt for a while and stay single just incase they didnt work out. Just to find out, that guy she went to wears a mask as much as she does and it was just as toxic. The amount of lies were endless i heard which was her problem even with the gaslighting once i catch her doing something. They married each other quickly cause of the validation they get from their community and the “perfect-image” they bring to each other and but sadly for the shallow reasons they moved so quickly with each other, it reflected in their marriage and how they treated their kid. In that couple, no one was capable of being a decent parent. They wanted nothing to do with him once he was born and rushed his childhood cause for them dealing with a baby was too much. Then why have a kid in the first place? She only got pregnant for the attention and validation and even competed with her own child for that attention and validation smfh. Attention fueled everything in her life and thats truly disheartening to witness. So sad what a waste of time on everyones part. I told my best friends gf to stop telling me her business cause that girl tried telling me i didnt know what i wanted but look at her now. Thank god, my girl actually cared about me and are winning in life now being able to solve all our problems together and we never blamed anything on each other or put eachother down which im very glad about.

[@theflightcampaign]

@@KlngVJamessame thing happened to me brother take a tip from here move on never look back better looking and better behaved women out there you don’t need those burdens my brother.

[@FlavoredGenuine]

Rejection helps a man grow as a person and be on his purpose whether it's networking, jobs/careers, hobbies/passions, and wealth. I don't understand why a woman (black or non-black) would try to date a man when she made it clear she was not really interested in him in the first. Shouldn't she be grateful that he gave her space and moved on with his life?

[@taraswertelecki3786]

Not necessarily. There is a point where repeated rejection over a period of years tears men, and women too down mentally. Of course, this happens when someone is ALWAYS rejected consistently, especially if he's rejected in an especially vicious or humiliating manner. That can darken a man's soul, sometimes beyond repair. That said, to end up that way is not simply about striking out with the opposite sex, there are OTHER negative factors at work. Bullying, being born neuro-divergent, abuse during childhood are just a few factors that combined with consistent romantic rejection turns into the mental version of Corium, which is a very toxic stew. But instead of nuclear fuel being fused into a lethal radioactive mass where the reactor used to be, imagine all the things that have gone wrong in someone's life fused together into a Frankenstein's monster that does not react too well to rejection. That is where INCELS and other men women run for the hills away from, come from.

[@scubastevesILDjourney23]

I love this. Rejection is a major motivator to improve self. A man has every right to move on and level up. Charge it to the game like you said, bruh.👊🏾

[@BigDiscussions76]

Uncle Rom you don't always like us to comment over here, but in terms of wanting a man to continue to chase, you discussed a piece of this in Nice Guys And Players👊

[@AtlantaAngel84]

That’s fair and common sense.

[@doncalypso]

Come on, Rom!!! You *KNOW* this one warranted the "Debt Collections Enforcer Rom" thumbnail... or at least the "Pastor Rom with the Communion Wine glass" thumbnail.

[@MsJoyce31202]

I won't.

[@DevinObi]

I needed this honestly I did. Thank You