WOMEN WILL NOT HELP A MAN UP IF SHES IS ALREADY UP …..

[@TheLocus-l4h]

The first girl is a real deal. Beautiful, clean, classy and natural look. Sounds very intelligent, not rude.

[@iaintthereyet914]

A whole notha nationality!

[@teridoesit3544]

“He looks like Christmas” 😂 Your videos are soooo hilarious lol sometimes I skip the actual show and wait for your reaction video

[@Keana_Yvonne]

Always

[@PhillyyJawn]

I always wait for his reaction. When Arlette dropped this video I was like “C’Mon and react so I can watch the video”! I was bored, too. 😂😂😂

[@struggle-dad6715]

I always watch the original first, just because the original episode comes out first. But I do feel like their reaction videos are more entertaining than the regular episodes 👍🏾👍🏾

[@karinadanais2095]

i do this every single time lol😂😅

[@gretagregg2606]

Someone said dude in the red suit is stepping in the name of love ❤️ 😂😂😂😂 you saying he’s got a button in the back of his head only adds to it hilarious 🤣

[@D0ntW0rryAb0utIt]

You can completely notice the maturity level on Arlette's show between this episode and last. This was a great lineup. And I always have to watch it on your channel Exavier, you make it even better.😜

[@Leelang931]

Yes it is! Majority had a match

[@savishajones1053]

@06:42 " He has a MOHAWK...!" 😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣 I am cryyyyyyyin !

[@key2timez953]

“A Mohawk at 40, A MOHAWK!” 😂😂🤣🤣

[@D0ntW0rryAb0utIt]

Like I mentioned on Arlette's channel. The questions that the 1st lady asked are the questions that should be asked if you're trying to find love with quality men or women.

[@labellekei]

I lost it when you said “is that a button on the back of his head?” 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 cause I was tryna figure out if it was a duck tail or a man bun 😭

[@rere2728]

I screamed when Xavier said ole boy had a tarantula on his head!!!😂😂😂 I knew he was gonna tear him up.

[@JustMeVanessa]

Same here 😂😂😂😂

[@Godsannointedbeauty]

I think that the beautiful woman in the amazing green dress with the gold belt should not have said yes to the man in the red suit. He was too indecisive and that is a huge red flag. She even said she would relocate when he used that as an excuse not to say yes and he still was unsure. She deserves a man that is sure about her. Xavier, you're hilarious and kept me laughing for the entire video, including singing "Alize" to the man in the red suit, I get it🤣🤣🤣

[@standupbcounted2420]

I felt that.

[@PS91263]

Bro..keep doing what your doing. The fact that you're being yourself keeps me tunning in for more!

[@trinajay2202]

That was the most tacky question you can ask on a DATING show… why ask a woman upfront day one if she can put you on?????????? It’s not that she doesn’t want to help, it’s the audacity that he’s asking that on the show. She will help who she loves but she’s not helping everyone. She made that clear. He reminds me of a guy I dated … one week in and he’s asking for favors pertaining to money. Are you with me for me or what I have and can provide???? Half these men will take the help and toss you to the side when they’re ready. Please!!

[@KINGOFBROOKLYN3]

You think that was worse than asking one of them if she’s w/ being spontaneous and wants to lift her skirt up & do it. Dude was on one the whole show lowkey 😭

[@LuvMe10LuvMeNot]

"Dr" Des is another "Dr" Elom.... They weren't looking for love nor a date.. Just a popular platform to advertise/promote their business/brand. Full of game/🧢

[@kallithomas590]

I was thinking the same thing, it seemed like he was playing a character lol 🤭

[@LuvMe10LuvMeNot]

@kallithomas590 Everytime he said his name it was followed by his brand, like the James Gourmet Pie dude. Then he either popped immediately, even stomped on 1 & followed it up with these outrageous standards he allegedly was looking for. #BadActors

[@standupbcounted2420]

​@LuvMe10LuvMeNot Pride goeth before destruction (the fall).

[@kallithomas590]

@@LuvMe10LuvMeNot exactly 💯 like he had a whole system of it.. and HAD to speak about it lol

[@healthyylitvibez]

A button in the back of his head at FORTY!! Is crazy😂🤣

[@hd2824]

That message you gave at the end hit 🎯, best advice of 2024 thanks G

[@LinkSoSuave]

0:01 “On Me.!” 💪🏿💯🔥

[@KINGOFBROOKLYN3]

Ngl. First woman. Very well spoken, beautiful. But she was playin games w/ some of those answers lol. Energy(Jaime), the way she carries herself won’t match w/ Ready(the tatts & his appearance), and idk I feel like she used the workaholic as a way out for Ice 😭 I get it my boy fit was crazy

[@standupbcounted2420]

💯

[@4thTribeJudith]

35:25 I don’t like that narrative she’s trying to push…..”he doesn’t like women who take care of themselves. “ A lace front and make up doesn’t mean you take care of yourself. The lady before her took care of her body so she doesn’t have to overcompensate with excessive make up and lace fronts. Nothing wrong with weave or makeup. I wear both! But taking care of yourself from the inside out is way more important and men usually prioritize and prefer that. A woman who can step out natural is winning.

[@musicmaker1311]

My new years resolution is to meet Xavier face to face in 2025. Do it Lord🙌🏽😂❤

[@elw7658]

Mee too, he is so down to earth, & wise for age, the laugh I live for 💜❤️🤩🥳

[@BenedictBassy]

This dudes energy is Outstanding

[@babyj1319]

The first guy is just super weird...and has alot of nerve critiquing someone when he clearly needs to take a long look at himself and his short comings....just saying...

[@csmith2484]

Riiight! His hair is a mess, he's wearing sunglasses, and he sounds arrogant. Man, please - you don't even fit your own ABC criteria 😑.

[@mstrssmachinist]

😂😂😂😂Dr.Dez😫🙅🏿‍♀️🥶🥶🥶Not the "DezFactor" A, B, C,s😅

[@keimanii2332]

He irked me

[@DominicanKarina]

That Doctor is a high value male and that’s how most high value males are and it’s nothing wrong with that…

[@emanuelclark443]

Corny still 🤷🏾‍♂️

[@Leelang931]

@@emanuelclark443😂😂

[@DominicanKarina]

@@emanuelclark443 that’s facts 😂😂😂

[@standupbcounted2420]

There is nothing wrong with having high standards. He comes off as lacking humility with his attitude of identifying himself as a high value man 😮. There are other things...I digress.

[@DominicanKarina]

@@standupbcounted2420 I totally agree with you…

[@hoppab14]

Bruh!! You missing out with the dogs!! They give us so much love and joy. That's why people treat them like babies, because they are pure love and joy (if trained right and you are a responsible dog owner). You can't understand it unless you have one but seriously, you are really missing out on one of the greatest joys in life. Dogs are the best!!!!

[@standupbcounted2420]

My aussie passed away the year. He was such a wonderful dog. I do miss him. 🙏🏾❤

[@hoppab14]

@@standupbcounted2420 aw so sorry for your loss. I've lost 2 of them in the past and it's heartbreaking.

[@4thTribeJudith]

I just had a dream of my dog BB. She passed away in 2022..😢

[@yolandablount8556]

I don’t even watch the actual “pop the balloon” content, I only watch your reaction videos because I cannot do without the commentary 😂 I feel like we be vibing frfr just talking all the way through it like skin folk at the movies

[@barbaraperry9193]

Don't believe the red suit gone work.

[@Lynneparks7627]

He was too hesitant

[@standupbcounted2420]

She went for it 😮.

[@stefanywashington3994]

Love the ending ! Everyone needed that message.

[@Sizingofthemore]

Brother, you seem to be a really positive dude You got your head on straight and you give sound advice I like that keep thriving my man 👍🏿👍🏿👍🏿

[@destini3648HeyHo]

That grand-papi laugh gets me every time😂😂

[@Jesusismylight247]

I’ve been watching your videos and you are on point as far as these “air heads” no substance whatsoever and they are in line so are “beggars being choosy?”😂😂

[@kinahilliard7910]

Hold on @38:31 Arlette got vocals 😮‍💨🥰beautiful

[@Cristobal34]

First dude is definitely a narcissist.

[@JayHMG]

Bro in the red dressed like he got a bank to rob in Gotham

[@brianaalexis4965]

I don’t even watch the originals your commentary just is perfect

[@daluvlyshanell7979]

Okkk... just got home from work! "On meeee" -Exavier voice-

[@unconventional1ne]

Oooh, I've Been WAITING For Ex's Reaction To This 1 🤭😬🤗

[@Latefate]

That ain’t a Mohawk that’s a NOhawk

[@standupbcounted2420]

😂

[@SoldierGirl80]

Xavier you got me laughing just like you laugh 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@ForeverRollin_]

That First Lady seem like the prize and she is beautiful

[@MrHotcress]

We did the same face at the exact same time!. Cant put my finger on it but she moved or something and it just clicked!

[@SimplyMzG]

Started watching these shows only because of your reaction, but imma need you to leave us dog people alone. 😂

[@streetsofgold4310]

😂😂😂😂

[@NicoleC4182]

Title not true for all…. I have helped men to get up on my level and they all made me an option or wanted me to continue to take care of them… I have yet to find someone whom is as ambitious as I am…2025 I’m not lending no more helping hands… Everybody I cross paths with now gotta get it how they live cause I have..

[@complexblackness]

So what do you think is the reason why men don't stick around with you?

[@NicoleC4182]

To be clear I’m the one who calls it off…. However I would definitely say I would ignore the Unclear mirrors and give everyone the benefit of doubt.

[@standupbcounted2420]

​@NicoleC4182 I can relate. Don't run the red flags. Stop at them to analyze, reevaluate, and reflect on the even and odds 🙏🏾.

[@SPIDEYRING]

"They got a dog hotel." 😂😂😂

[@1986diva]

I’m 38 and beautiful and single because I chose the wrong men to be in a relationship and scarred me. So I pushed ppl away as a trauma response. Once I’m done healing I will be ready. Im almost there 😂

[@kokohoney9070]

I was waiting until you dropped to watch it! 😂

[@blakjiren9930]

My good friend passed from sickle cell and he tried to sweep it under the rug as well..prayers for him

[@donaldhickson2400]

25:40-26:10 got me in tears. I am you I can’t stand them dam over pampered ass pets. 😂😂😂😂😂

[@kentondevine489]

Jr deacon boy u be killing me bro remind me of my lil bro prolly just a Cali thang but bro I be dying off ur remarks 😂😂😂😂

[@charx9149]

" Alize"😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@blakjiren9930]

We in this bih early

[@ImNotAfraidOfTheDarkness]

Tapped in gang💪🏾

[@anthonysimpson7736]

6:35 for the Christmas lights 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@koolwhippa]

40:05 "Allizé !!"...dude look like a rebooted K-Ci! 😂😂😂😂

[@healthyylitvibez]

FINALLY!!!😊🙌🏽

[@chiefakachi2296]

She described a male therapist. She look good, but fella pay attention to what a woman says. Man our people need to embrace therapy.

[@jwall8880]

Yes! Prioritize GOD! I'm a wife of 14 years and I totally agree with this. Husbands follow God #1, and the wife can trust submitting to her husband completely, knowing that you both are following the same thing.

[@dsanders799]

Tarantula on his head lol 😂 that was funny

[@BeautiffullySpoken]

EXAVIER what in the world is a synthol wig??? 😂 i’m so off you😂😂😂😂😂

[@feliciablalock3951]

I'm always sitting and just waiting for you to respond.....😂😂😂😂😂 who do he think he is....😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 Makes me holla....😂😂😂

[@ritapavlis7176]

He's the Black Santa Claus!😂😂

[@paulobatuyi]

First guy got the prize they all wanted but 1 Morris Day😮😢 This episode got some good matches because they were more mature with different mindsets and values from the GenZ crew.

[@Daze26x_]

10:38 “Holding his hat, like a deacon” 😂

[@Aymyanimelover]

Ice was tripping see people be forgetting, initially your not always gonna feel a spark off the rip like the first lady said'' love its an action the feelings a come after''

[@WillieScott-t8c]

Everything these women say is HORSE CRAP...IF you make the pouch JUMP!! ALLof their requirements go straight out the window...💯

[@kentondevine489]

Really need to do that 360 😂😂😂.. get em needa 😂

[@ericawilliams5174]

And Xavier I'm with you on the dogs.....lol... buddy is going to find out she is going to be all into those dogs. He is about to be wasting his time with the faded queen.

[@Pytchristal]

I saw this episode & it was good & funny. This episode was a good one

[@omarmajied2176]

She got that thang 😂

[@elizabethhartman3924]

Taking Vitamin A and Zink once a week for 2 months. Helped my face skin. Maybe you can try that..

[@standupbcounted2420]

Zinc has helped me ❤🙏🏾💪🏿💯.

[@kokohoney9070]

@Exavier I took it as the woman in the green dress didn’t want to (carry) his dream/career …

[@Eagle-hg2vy]

That was some good heavy at advice at the end

[@patricialundy265]

Leave the dogs alone! Dogs are loyal, protective, and loving.

[@NickC-q9u]

Ready? Cause I’m always ready 😂😂

[@csmith2484]

😂😂😂😂

[@standupbcounted2420]

😂😂😅😆

[@kentondevine489]

Tow dogs lol rite dawg be on my nerves too 😂😂 specially cats

[@candicream]

They might 😂call him that E 😅😅😅

[@NHIOCAWILLIAMS]

MOST PEOPLE THAT DONT LIKE DOGS OR CATS ( animals ) USUALLY HAVE TOO MANY KIDS IN THE FAMILY!!!!!! They don’t have extra money or extra time for anything but babies !!!!

[@kayvelli7895]

First dude accent sound just like my uncle Kofie’s he from Ghana 🇬🇭 Afrika. But it’s funny soon as other girl said 37 and Tamia said 36 he popped right on that I feel like he looking for younger 😂

[@jsauls29]

SKIN CARE ;VITAMIN E, MINIMAL TEA TREE OIL FOR HAIR GROWTH AND INGROWN HAIRS. LOL

[@charx9149]

MERRY CHRISTMAS EXAVIER!!🎄❤️💯👏🏽🙏🏽. Was looking for ya 😂😊

[@anthonysimpson7736]

26:41 Xavier ain’t into Dogs but he into Doggystyle 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@Slimblockboy]

On me 💯😂

[@genniejefferson6588]

Nobody is perfect lady.

[@NickC-q9u]

Happy Holidays Xavier the best podcast going on right now on KZbin

[@sicklecellsoldier]

THE 2ND chick dont like criticism! when the men talk, she attempt to huh them by rushing their criticism. She definitely DONT TAKE ACCOUNTABILITY!!!

[@illwillcarter1627]

Somebody needs to make a compilation of Xavier talking about people haircuts lol

[@skleoba3150]

Not blurting out "Alize" lmbo😂😂😂!!

[@ericawilliams5174]

For some reason I'm finding it hard to believe the first lady with the fade and cute outfit is 38. She definitely has an older stronger look. She's pretty , just a little strong looking. Her being physically active has done wonders for her body. But she is definitely not really interested in any of the men on the lineup. And she seems a little disturbed and I believe she's looking for the perfect guy who doesn't exist. Something has definitely taken place within one or some of her past relationships, I totally agree with Xavier about that. She isn't on this show for nothing. Best of luck to her though.

[@4LRicoo]

“ ON MEEEE”

[@REDDCLAY804]

The Mo-Bun is nasty work

[@danid3209]

The length of the video makes me not wanna watch it because I know you're not going to finish it 😩😂

[@elizabellamarie]

at the end of the video he said he's doing it in parts

[@cityonthemic]

She feeling the guy in the white shirt

[@meechg0stupid110]

On me 🤣

[@tcshakaricks1172]

A dog hotel..while people need to eat🤣🤣🤣🤣.

[@Doolyy_]

I’m early today cuh what’s up everyone

[@DominicanKarina]

Who was that calling you?

[@standupbcounted2420]

😂😅

[@yoejae4484]

6:33 😂😂😂@ button

[@Chris512B]

Bro on the end looks like Pac with braids

[@shonnwashington1009]

Put Olive oil and oatmeal over dry skin

[@kendavis4028]

I never heard of anyone BLACK who owns a logistics company!!!!!!

[@nastystew6942]

The dude in red looks like Young Joc

[@haileyallen-sm1rs]

We miss you

[@omarmajied2176]

Wait hold up he got some nice skin dog 🐕 your tripping on me 😂