Janet Jackson, Respectability Politics & Why Fierce Women Misbehave

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@lindalemoni5428
@lindalemoni5428 7 жыл бұрын
my grandmom (grew up in a tiny catholic village in italy) told me, when Josephine Baker was popular, she would one time sneak out of class and go to cinema to watch her dance, priests found out (cause they were there themselves...) and so she got kicked out of school and shamed, and she told me she didn't regret sneaking out, it was the moment she understood, men will put you down for the things they do themselves so she won't listen to them anymore, she was 13 back then. I loved that woman and i miss her every single day. my idol
@WomenLovePower
@WomenLovePower 7 жыл бұрын
Linda Lemoni now this is a word!!! The double standard is real and the only way to circumvent is for us to play by our own rules! Your grandma sounds fierce!
@lindalemoni5428
@lindalemoni5428 7 жыл бұрын
she definitely was, thank you! So fierce, that she would leave her fiancé when she was pregnant, DURING WWII cause he wouldn't share his food equally, and she said she preferred being hungry in war and an unmarried mother at that time than to be with an egoist. So when I dated in the beginning of my 20ies, and I still didn't really know yet who I was, and kind of allowed some men to misbehave with me, my memory to her would always stop me from continuing that hurtful behavior to myself and stand up for myself instead :) she was the best influence I could have ever had in my life
@SR77736
@SR77736 6 жыл бұрын
Aww your nonna sounds like an awesome rebel.
@ameerawalker7322
@ameerawalker7322 5 жыл бұрын
I'm jealous she seen Josephine lmao , but she sounds like a dope lady. May she rest in peace
@deej5608
@deej5608 5 жыл бұрын
@@lindalemoni5428 WOW WHAT A WOMAN. REST IN PEACE AND IN POWER TO YOUR GRANDMA
@sabadaga1
@sabadaga1 7 жыл бұрын
I had to share this video because it speaks so much truth. If a woman says that she wants an attractive, educated man and so on , people will be quick to tell her : " oh you will be single for the rest of your life", but if man says he wants " an intelligent, beautiful woman by his side", very few people will tell him that he will be single forever. The double standard is real.
@WomenLovePower
@WomenLovePower 7 жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing! And yes, the double standards are so real -- and they prevent us from going out into the world and taking what we want!
@78percent34
@78percent34 7 жыл бұрын
i think its the other way around
@IYeleven
@IYeleven 5 жыл бұрын
Mx Tooreal Exactly ! And unfortunately a lot of these women allow these mediocre men into their lives.
@BlackDollNerd73
@BlackDollNerd73 5 жыл бұрын
@@78percent34 Yeha YOU think..not a fact.
@harrisre-nee3017
@harrisre-nee3017 5 жыл бұрын
"They don't play by the rules because they know the game is rigged." Brilliant!🦋
@LianeSpicer
@LianeSpicer 3 жыл бұрын
Powerful words I needed to hear.
@harrisre-nee3017
@harrisre-nee3017 3 жыл бұрын
@Jodi Landon "A free woman is a serious threat to most women." Say that!!!🔥🔥
@JosiePosieWosie012
@JosiePosieWosie012 3 жыл бұрын
It's unfortunate that I learned about Ayesha only after her passing. She was such a brilliant woman. RIP, Angel 🤍
@PrincessMultiracial
@PrincessMultiracial 3 жыл бұрын
WHAT?!?! I just discovered her today!
@jayce4065
@jayce4065 3 жыл бұрын
I’m sad because I knew of her but not never knew how brilliant she was until she passed. She was on the news in my hometown and after she left I didn’t know what she had grown to be. With the help of these you tube algorithms، I’ve been binge watching everything she’s been in.
@CrystalClear400
@CrystalClear400 2 жыл бұрын
Wait huh 😕
@roxyfoxyyy7
@roxyfoxyyy7 2 жыл бұрын
Oh my goodness I bought her Mother archetype course! This makes me so sad
@shinebabyshine.
@shinebabyshine. 23 күн бұрын
Yes she was so brilliant and had so much to teach us ❤
@RaymuusicluverDL
@RaymuusicluverDL 7 жыл бұрын
"But he speaks English, and has two legs" 😂😂😭😭🙌🏾
@Marie-md5yj
@Marie-md5yj 5 жыл бұрын
I died😭😭😭
@litawi7869
@litawi7869 5 жыл бұрын
My Moms standard for me was "if he loves God, has a job, and all his teeth!" Smh
@mbrutus7886
@mbrutus7886 3 жыл бұрын
R.I.P Ayesha, soar high Queen! A pioneer that was truly a master of her craft, she brought dimension and depth to the topic of femininity.
@adbc1f72
@adbc1f72 3 жыл бұрын
What happened? When and h did she die?
@stvycortez
@stvycortez Жыл бұрын
​@@adbc1f72she died in a car crash
@Introvertsan
@Introvertsan 6 жыл бұрын
That's quite true, the dating books for men are quite different than ones written for women. They are encouraged, inspired and taught to follow their instincts and get what they want women's books are entire endless lists of rules and even blaming yourself for everything in some. It's time to learn to be not nice, it's hard to unlearn though.
@ekowkumasi1178
@ekowkumasi1178 5 жыл бұрын
Introvertsan it's funny, there are many men taught to be nice, also. it's odd that there are so many videos about nice men and women finish last. odder that there is a quote that says the first shall be last. many of these circle speeches keep people in a cycle of spinning rhetoric and ideologies to keep them in line with manipulation, to both divide and keep them against one another. it is a trick of someone who is controlling both parties, it is systemic. learning the system gives clear view of what is really going on. law is law and applies the same, and power is in league with one of those laws, however, it goes under a different term, as language is what directs the narrative and mindset. the etymology and history of nice is in reference to breeding and training.
@lenamonique18
@lenamonique18 5 жыл бұрын
Struggling with that now!
@carlab30
@carlab30 5 жыл бұрын
Coffee AtMidnight Exactly! Some will hide behind being nice, but as soon as you refuse them something they want, all hell breaks loose.
@samd8485
@samd8485 3 жыл бұрын
I'm so sad Ayesha died. I love listening to her wisdom. May she rest in peace.
@HijabifiedModesty
@HijabifiedModesty 3 жыл бұрын
What happened to her ?
@stvycortez
@stvycortez Жыл бұрын
​@@HijabifiedModestyshe died in a car crash
@IYeleven
@IYeleven 5 жыл бұрын
I’m done being too nice to men. I’m from a Muslim background and the cultural norms are extremely misogynistic. I believe Janet was fed up with that culture. She did good in the end by leaving with good lump of wealth and cute baby. 👏🏼
@tondaniraluswinga2590
@tondaniraluswinga2590 3 жыл бұрын
The outside world isnt very nice to women either. Only use you until you run dry and toss you away.
@IYeleven
@IYeleven 3 жыл бұрын
@@tondaniraluswinga2590 For real 😒
@bibaolaitan5189
@bibaolaitan5189 3 жыл бұрын
@@tondaniraluswinga2590 a community where your husband can marry another woman after you.. is so much worse.. it's just disrespectful....
@هدي-ه8ظ
@هدي-ه8ظ 3 жыл бұрын
@@bibaolaitan5189 that can happen everywhere. It’s not common and very hard to do sometimes. It was mostly used for war to up the population. You can write in your marriage contract that you don’t want to him to have second wife. Problem solved.
@bibaolaitan5189
@bibaolaitan5189 3 жыл бұрын
@@هدي-ه8ظ it is not common in your part of the world... Where i am from, its basically a norm, cos its allowed by the religion... and it was never written in the quran that it was required for war, you just made that up in ur head... the contract thing was never written in the quran or hadith, its the Dubai govt that included that in their marriage law, because of natural human compassion... And it's also funny that the religion that claims to respect women did not include part of the conditions to get a second wife is to ask the first wife permission...
@bibireolorunlogbon5186
@bibireolorunlogbon5186 3 жыл бұрын
I can’t believe you are not here anymore 😭😭😭😭
@LadyCharity
@LadyCharity 7 жыл бұрын
Nothing like a classy, confident and intelligent black woman! I always enjoy your eloquence on the Grapevine and you are really quite daring! I love it, very inspiring to me as a young woman and new subscriber. Keep up the great work!
@WomenLovePower
@WomenLovePower 7 жыл бұрын
sweetchari thanks so much for supporting my work here and on The Grapevine!
@garlandowls1134
@garlandowls1134 3 жыл бұрын
RIP Ayesha K. Faines 💔🙏🏾
@phillygyrl34
@phillygyrl34 3 жыл бұрын
How did she die?
@klae7058
@klae7058 3 жыл бұрын
@@phillygyrl34 allergic reaction that is unknown. She was born with allergens and asthma
@Jay-Kay-Buwembo
@Jay-Kay-Buwembo 3 жыл бұрын
@@klae7058 😔 🙏🏿 💔
@visionn_
@visionn_ 3 жыл бұрын
She die😮
@Jay-Kay-Buwembo
@Jay-Kay-Buwembo 3 жыл бұрын
@@visionn_ Yeah she passed July 2nd, she suffered fatal anaphylactic reaction to an allergen, she had severe allergies....
@aisha8436
@aisha8436 3 жыл бұрын
Rest in sweet peace and serenity, Ayesha. I cannot believe you have passed.
@deenadream
@deenadream 3 жыл бұрын
I was always “nice” my mom is “nice” and it has gotten us NO WHERE… but according to her.. we will get a spot in heaven. Im soooo angry because of it as I watch the women i admire acquire the things that i want.
@mave143
@mave143 3 жыл бұрын
Same girl. Same.
@keikei1943
@keikei1943 3 жыл бұрын
This is me and my parents too but the days of being a nice girl are over people walked over me and was also left in the background now its my turn to play dirty.
@deenadream
@deenadream 3 жыл бұрын
@@keikei1943 i feel u honey
@kidano5317
@kidano5317 3 жыл бұрын
Religion is a form of mental slavery, installed via white supremacy(among blk ppl in the west). You can't play fair in an UNFAIR world! You better start to distance yourself from your mother & DISREGARD that conditioning before it's too late!!!
@HijabifiedModesty
@HijabifiedModesty 3 жыл бұрын
@@kidano5317 The abrahamic faiths are extremely misogynistic. It was even more worse for Janet when she moved to an Islamic country with her Muslim husband
@rimazalmehayla2497
@rimazalmehayla2497 3 жыл бұрын
May god rest your soul . This woman has passed away not so long ago , and even though i don't know her except for her videos, it really touched me deep inside
@guruuvy
@guruuvy 6 жыл бұрын
'He's not that ambitious, but he speaks English and he's got two legs!' HAHAHAHAHA
@heyyall9030
@heyyall9030 3 жыл бұрын
RIP Ayesha 🌹🌹🌹
@mave143
@mave143 3 жыл бұрын
What?? I just found her channel. How did she die? 😢
@Jay-Kay-Buwembo
@Jay-Kay-Buwembo 3 жыл бұрын
@@mave143 Fatal Anaphylactic reaction to an allergen
@mave143
@mave143 3 жыл бұрын
@@Jay-Kay-Buwembo thank you James
@EvaElyse
@EvaElyse 7 жыл бұрын
I just love hearing you speak. So much passion in your voice, with poignant facts for back-up! I saw you on the Grapevinetv and was immediately hooked. Please keep the uploads coming as frequently as possible. These topics are rare to find on here and even harder to find spoken with your delivery. Amazing ❤️
@WomenLovePower
@WomenLovePower 7 жыл бұрын
Thank you, thank you, thank you!!! I'll crank out as often as I can! I really appreciate you encouragement. If there are specific topics you want to see covered on KZbin or on my website, please drop a line. xo
@cloudsurfer73
@cloudsurfer73 7 жыл бұрын
Women Love Power can you talk about women in university? Tips etc? :)
@WomenLovePower
@WomenLovePower 7 жыл бұрын
Simi Sanni do you mean tips for women in academia? Studying etc? Can you give me some specifics?
@cloudsurfer73
@cloudsurfer73 7 жыл бұрын
Like how to prosper in general as a young woman in university (social, you could include academic as well)
@WomenLovePower
@WomenLovePower 7 жыл бұрын
Okay, sounds good. I'll work on something and add to queue down the line!
@roshmn
@roshmn 7 жыл бұрын
Damn I was losing myself till you reminded me of what my mother fought hard for... empowerment
@ms.thomas5758
@ms.thomas5758 6 жыл бұрын
roshmn I hope you are still doing well
@alicia_nicole
@alicia_nicole 3 жыл бұрын
Just discovered this channel today and I am so sorry that she has passed. Hope her channel and website stays up so I can binge.
@kuuii123_
@kuuii123_ 3 жыл бұрын
She's still alive
@Mila_Kim_VIP
@Mila_Kim_VIP 3 жыл бұрын
@@kuuii123_ ?
@Jay-Kay-Buwembo
@Jay-Kay-Buwembo 3 жыл бұрын
@@kuuii123_ she passed 2nd July 2021
@ireneadler6923
@ireneadler6923 7 жыл бұрын
Beyoncé stepped on Destinys other children !! 😂😂 Good one Ayesha!! New subbie
@malkiabenzy
@malkiabenzy 6 жыл бұрын
Jessica Roy 😂
@jeremym3892
@jeremym3892 6 жыл бұрын
I love your username. Somehow its appropriate for commenting on this video. :)
@elisabettaepiney9896
@elisabettaepiney9896 5 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂
@Bubbleyumizchewi17
@Bubbleyumizchewi17 5 жыл бұрын
😂🤣
@nietzschesmuse
@nietzschesmuse 3 жыл бұрын
I love this video you are right on: "Our notion of feminity as being soft, accommodating, kind, considerate and nice holds us back." The politics of respectability works to keep women down and remain used and abused by self-absorbed manipulative cheap men.
@mave143
@mave143 3 жыл бұрын
I cannot believe this amazing woman is dead. Life is so fleeting. Rest peacefully, Queen 👑
@true4585
@true4585 3 жыл бұрын
Who is dead?
@mave143
@mave143 3 жыл бұрын
@@true4585 The woman in this video
@HijabifiedModesty
@HijabifiedModesty 3 жыл бұрын
@@mave143 Are you serious ???
@mave143
@mave143 3 жыл бұрын
@@HijabifiedModesty yes. It's so tragic 😢
@HijabifiedModesty
@HijabifiedModesty 3 жыл бұрын
@@mave143 Did she get vaccinated ? This is terrible, I loved listening to her. I feel depressed now
@questionresearch8721
@questionresearch8721 5 жыл бұрын
When Diana asked for a house she made sure the Supremes had a their own house too. She looked out for the Supremes.
@appetite4chic878
@appetite4chic878 6 жыл бұрын
Ma’am I have no doubt that you would have a best selling book. Also you would be exceptional as a public speaker. I love how you drop jewels every time you speak. You’re the embodiment of excellence 😍👏🏾
@nietzschesmuse
@nietzschesmuse 3 жыл бұрын
Well said!
@jeffcaldwell30
@jeffcaldwell30 7 жыл бұрын
I don't understand why people focus so much on money in this marriage. She was married twice before this and not once was people talking about money once the marriages was over.
@WomenLovePower
@WomenLovePower 7 жыл бұрын
Jeff Caldwell true
@BlackDollNerd73
@BlackDollNerd73 5 жыл бұрын
In the case of the Blk community,the ideaology of BW are not supposed to want a man with money (they are called GoldDiggers) and be in a relationship with a non-Blk man is taboo. BW often taught that we are not supposed to go agenda what the collective demands.
@isabulose
@isabulose 5 жыл бұрын
I made a promise with myself long time ago to never be too nice cause I don't get anything out of it, so it's great to see reaffirmation of that. Thank you ✨💜
@latoyaekpenyoung8806
@latoyaekpenyoung8806 3 жыл бұрын
I never knew you. Rest in heaven babe. I know you're in a better place experiencing the joys of not hurting anymore. LIFE ain't easy.
@Reign_255
@Reign_255 3 жыл бұрын
RIP QUEEN🌹🌹👑🌹🌹
@Ella-tf8yv
@Ella-tf8yv 4 жыл бұрын
I’m not trying to be dramatic but your teachings have changed my life and mindset so much, thank you for all that you do!! Time to take on the world ladies✨
@Syren90...Aka9
@Syren90...Aka9 3 жыл бұрын
REST WELL HEROINE.
@EgoNatusSum
@EgoNatusSum 2 жыл бұрын
I love you so much Ayesha. You were so appreciated In your time, and your wise words, warmth of spirit, and genuineness truly resonates now and forever. May you rest In heavenly power angel.
@vanitas8333
@vanitas8333 3 жыл бұрын
Rest In Power Queen!!!
@madame4883
@madame4883 3 жыл бұрын
How did she pass?
@kuuii123_
@kuuii123_ 3 жыл бұрын
She's still alive
@Jay-Kay-Buwembo
@Jay-Kay-Buwembo 3 жыл бұрын
@@madame4883 Fatal allergic reaction
@oneisha3333
@oneisha3333 6 жыл бұрын
I am watching this until it is ingrained in my psyche! Thank you Ayesha for all your wisdom.
@plusizepopstar9907
@plusizepopstar9907 7 жыл бұрын
The game really is rigged, I agree. And your right men never have a rule book on how to treat a lady
@alwayssearching1203
@alwayssearching1203 3 жыл бұрын
This video was so awesome. I was recommended this gem by a mutual friend. Your voice enamored me so much, and this video talking about the double standards wmn often have to go through in society was: so enlightening, informing and entertaining. Because you made such great/excellent/valid points, and I got to listen to and dance to Janet Jackson’s most legendary jams. R.I.P Ayesha, you will be missed and your amazing work will never be forgotten. 🥺🙏🏽
@dreamcometrue6708
@dreamcometrue6708 5 жыл бұрын
Your content is like a tall glass of ice cold water on a hot summer day! Refreshing! Speaks to everything that I’ve intuitively ‘known’ inside my whole life. Thank you for helping to restore the balance of feminine energy in this world 💕👸🏽 🙌🏾
@leonataylor8166
@leonataylor8166 5 жыл бұрын
DreamComeTRue super refreshing I’m hooked
@towaniisme
@towaniisme 3 жыл бұрын
I love hearing her speak. Rest In Peace, Ayesha.🤍
@rochellebartholomew
@rochellebartholomew 11 ай бұрын
You are super cool. So glad I found your channel ❤
@IamKarryanne
@IamKarryanne 3 жыл бұрын
😭 🌹 Fly high ✨
@indigoearthangel888
@indigoearthangel888 3 жыл бұрын
What happened to her???
@IamKarryanne
@IamKarryanne 3 жыл бұрын
@@indigoearthangel888 no clue. Chloe posted it.
@AussieGirl235
@AussieGirl235 5 жыл бұрын
You’re the one who suffers for trying to be “good” according to standards set up by others who will benefit by holding you back.
@Las645
@Las645 3 жыл бұрын
@M IA being apart of a religion doesn’t hold you back at all, I’m religious and I’m perfectly fine, my spirituality is apart of who I am just like many other people. And how do you know it was “invented” unless you can go back thousands of years and tell me for sure none of it has truth then....welp 🤷🏽‍♀️
@jaybae7315
@jaybae7315 3 жыл бұрын
Yup! Learned the hard way
@belladonna5904
@belladonna5904 9 ай бұрын
You can push the envelope and still maintain class. That actually makes the message you want to send more powerful.
@DearStephanieX
@DearStephanieX 3 жыл бұрын
I’m just seeing this, love Janet ❤️ I will miss your content (found you years ago), rest peacefully ❤️🧚🏼‍♂️
@thandie67
@thandie67 7 жыл бұрын
Smart, eloquent and beautiful. Wish you the very best and guess who subscribed?
@WomenLovePower
@WomenLovePower 7 жыл бұрын
Thandi M thank you thank you thank you!!!!! Xoxo xoxo!
@red_delphino9858
@red_delphino9858 7 жыл бұрын
ran over here so fast when you said you had your own channel. 😍😍😍😍
@WomenLovePower
@WomenLovePower 7 жыл бұрын
Red Delphino woot woot!
@Thefashionflexx
@Thefashionflexx 3 жыл бұрын
This by far is the best feminine channels I have come across!
@highradiance144
@highradiance144 7 жыл бұрын
You're a uniquely intelligent woman. I realize most of the women of power have Scorpio rising, Scorpio energy within their chart. I've notice Leo sun and rising or fire elements also within a lot of these powerful women astrological charts. Lets not forget packed angular houses. If you're into numerology most of these women have also life path 1, 3,5,7,8,9,11 To sum it up their intuitive independent nature, inspired these powerful women too live fearlessly. Thank you for a informative video.
@WomenLovePower
@WomenLovePower 7 жыл бұрын
So, I don't know much about astrology but a bit about numerology and I actually happen to be 11, so that's quite exciting, lol! I'm going to read about the Scorpio energy. Were there any specific women who were Scorpio rising and Leo Sun? Thanks for the tremendous compliment. I love your insight because I do think that women gain a lot when they tap into their intuition and their own independent/ fulfilling nature.
@highradiance144
@highradiance144 7 жыл бұрын
Janet Jackson,Martha Stewart, Jacqueline Kennedy Scorpio Rising
@highradiance144
@highradiance144 7 жыл бұрын
Can I recommend getting your astrological chart. Astrotheme.com Continue giving amazing informative videos. I'm a new subscriber.
@WomenLovePower
@WomenLovePower 7 жыл бұрын
Thanks for subscribing! I'm going to get a chart too!
@QueenofBluntTruth
@QueenofBluntTruth 6 жыл бұрын
I'm a Gemini sun and Scorpio moon and Virgo rising
@soybeans8139
@soybeans8139 7 жыл бұрын
I followed you from the grapevine. You and Seren always speak what I'm thinking. I'm glad you have this channel , thank you for such great content.
@WomenLovePower
@WomenLovePower 7 жыл бұрын
Thank you! I really appreciate your support on the Grapevine. I too believe that Seren is the truth! And in person, she's literally one of the sweetest women I know. I hope you'll find inspiration in the videos I create here! xo
@bruciavernellenkima6074
@bruciavernellenkima6074 2 жыл бұрын
Can't believe she is no more.... that's really heartbreaking 💔💔💔💔💔
@everythingispolitics6526
@everythingispolitics6526 3 жыл бұрын
The quotes are so refreshing - thanks for sharing. It's also worth noting that women who go against the grain are deeply despised and ridiculed by society.
@shelterlovely
@shelterlovely 3 жыл бұрын
Rest in peace Queen
@chaosswa-ee-ty5911
@chaosswa-ee-ty5911 3 жыл бұрын
Sooo are you this saying this woman is no longer with us ?
@dawnatha9246
@dawnatha9246 3 жыл бұрын
She passed away a few weeks ago.
@Tshe_
@Tshe_ 3 жыл бұрын
@@dawnatha9246 how did she pass away
@sulalubin
@sulalubin 6 жыл бұрын
Beyonce stepped on whose children 🤣😂 New subscriber & supporter here!
@idag7521
@idag7521 8 ай бұрын
I miss you sis. RIP
@bluluberries
@bluluberries 3 жыл бұрын
needed to hear this today
@Singinbluebird
@Singinbluebird 3 жыл бұрын
What a brilliant woman with amazing advice. Rip Ayesha 💕💕💕
@chaosswa-ee-ty5911
@chaosswa-ee-ty5911 3 жыл бұрын
She passed away?
@dawnatha9246
@dawnatha9246 3 жыл бұрын
Yes. Passed away a few weeks ago.
@lapeaches8006
@lapeaches8006 3 жыл бұрын
@@dawnatha9246 😲😲😲😲 This is my first time seeing her content!!!! She's brilliant!!! 😟😢😔 *was brilliant 😞
@nessaduh8033
@nessaduh8033 6 жыл бұрын
Currently getting my entire life right now. When I found out one of my favourite panelists from the Grapevine had her own youtube channel I subscribed before I even saw what content Ayesha was creating. I am blazing through these videos and going to raid your blog next. I love you ayesha xoxo
@Queen-of-the-Burbs
@Queen-of-the-Burbs 5 жыл бұрын
I was thinking about whether or not to speak about for respect at work and this video was in my recommendations. So glad I subscribed!!! I needed the reminded that well behaved women seldom make history.
@antonia1989able
@antonia1989able 7 жыл бұрын
WOW this has to be the BEST recommended video I have seen in ages, so empowering! Thankyou :) xxx
@WomenLovePower
@WomenLovePower 7 жыл бұрын
THANK YOU!!!
@unitedqueendombob5951
@unitedqueendombob5951 6 жыл бұрын
Badu is defo very seductive I get the impression guy's fell over themselves for her...and probably still do
@nietzschesmuse
@nietzschesmuse 3 жыл бұрын
Erika Badu is a seducer she is a Pisces of course!
@ZeraConversations
@ZeraConversations 5 жыл бұрын
Watching this for the third time, I think it is an important reminder. Being likeable is a myth.
@YourFaveScribe
@YourFaveScribe 11 ай бұрын
Needed this reminder TODAY. BEFORE the next work week starts
@CharlesWarrenOnline
@CharlesWarrenOnline 4 жыл бұрын
Janet Jackson deserves the world!
@picklesjelly9464
@picklesjelly9464 6 жыл бұрын
This is honestly one of the best dating/love etc video Ive ever seen. You've just gained a subscriber.
@Nikki7664
@Nikki7664 3 жыл бұрын
Rest in peace queen. Thank you for this video I just happened to come across it. 💞
@anthearolle
@anthearolle 4 жыл бұрын
Absolutely love this video! I just took your archetype quiz to learn who I am at the core and I found out that Ms Jackson and I have major similarities. I knew there was a reason I loved her so much. Literally the GOAT 🐐. Thank you Ayesha! This is amazing.
@tamoyataylor1309
@tamoyataylor1309 5 жыл бұрын
I listened to your comments on the grapevine and knew I'd like your channel...great work...I gained information and validity for my thoughts
@Lalaland099
@Lalaland099 Жыл бұрын
This was a wonderful video.
@iamshirleyjackson
@iamshirleyjackson 3 жыл бұрын
Rip queen 🙏🏽❤️
@msblackbarbie1885
@msblackbarbie1885 3 жыл бұрын
I love your outlook and I think you are quite right. We are human too, and we should achieve our goals in life. ❤️❤️
@carrscarz3679
@carrscarz3679 2 жыл бұрын
Peace and love to this beautiful energy. I enjoyed and continue enjoy your balance and knowledgeable insight.
@thegardenmuse2398
@thegardenmuse2398 3 жыл бұрын
I LOVE Janet Jackson. Wow, the nostalgia. I miss the 90's :')
@charismao5515
@charismao5515 2 жыл бұрын
RIP Ayesha. Hate that I found you after your transition. Love you 💕
@klsn3646
@klsn3646 4 жыл бұрын
I watched this video twice because that’s how much I needed this message. Might watch it a 3rd. Thank you, Ayesha, for continuously showing me where my power is. 💕🙏🏾
@ashahassell2881
@ashahassell2881 6 жыл бұрын
You are amazing!! There are books written by gl lambert that encourage women to take their power back and to live the life you are talking about. All women should read these book, its written in simple terms but it may be of benefit. Solving Single, Ho tatics and why men dont love women like you Women should be selfish!!!
@metalliclav9289
@metalliclav9289 6 жыл бұрын
Asha Hassell yes, I've read him! Love his work. So eye-opening.
@calibrepersonaldevelopment
@calibrepersonaldevelopment 5 жыл бұрын
yup, read his site and his books, i agree, she teaches a lot of similar concepts! love them
@nuriamolina5544
@nuriamolina5544 Жыл бұрын
100% agreed. Despite all Technologie advances we enjoy today, we still struggle with society acceptance and basic rights as equal human beings. We need to support each other and change this patriarchy.
@fs-pp9ti
@fs-pp9ti 3 жыл бұрын
Preach! I felt a full body yes from listening to you speak.
@nicolejohnson190
@nicolejohnson190 5 жыл бұрын
I just NEVER want your videos to end. Keep dropping knowledge Queen.
@Musicharmonys
@Musicharmonys 7 жыл бұрын
This was a great perspective! Something we need to hear more!
@WomenLovePower
@WomenLovePower 7 жыл бұрын
Thanks!!!
@MiscellaneousAB
@MiscellaneousAB 7 жыл бұрын
Love this video! Especially the part in the end about the gold star. I've been contemplating the attitude of "getting the gold star from society" behavior for about two days now- just thinking about how toxic it is. Confirmation from the universe that I'm thinking correctly, I guess lol.
@WomenLovePower
@WomenLovePower 7 жыл бұрын
MiscellaneousAB confirmation from te universe indeed! Live your life!
@lapeaches8006
@lapeaches8006 3 жыл бұрын
This video was flat out awesome. Well done!!! 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
@indigoearthangel888
@indigoearthangel888 3 жыл бұрын
I don't have children at 37 and refuse to have children without being paid per child for the strain on my body. Call it what you want, but it's fair in my reality.
@rossiethomas
@rossiethomas 3 жыл бұрын
Your lost mama when you get old whose gonna care about you
@rossiethomas
@rossiethomas 3 жыл бұрын
@No U adoption is not your kid and you’re gonna disappoint your self when that kid gets older and wants to be with their tribe
@rossiethomas
@rossiethomas 3 жыл бұрын
@No U okay soooo.....
@stefannydvorak7919
@stefannydvorak7919 3 жыл бұрын
@No U Exactly. I’m adopted too and this person is so weird.
@user-msjazzy
@user-msjazzy 3 жыл бұрын
Rest In Peace queen ❤️❤️❤️❤️🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
@chaosswa-ee-ty5911
@chaosswa-ee-ty5911 3 жыл бұрын
Mind telling me what happened. I just found her channel.
@Jay-Kay-Buwembo
@Jay-Kay-Buwembo 3 жыл бұрын
@@chaosswa-ee-ty5911 Fatal anaphylactic reaction to an allergen
@chaosswa-ee-ty5911
@chaosswa-ee-ty5911 3 жыл бұрын
@@Jay-Kay-Buwembo thanks. 🥲
@JudiJoseph
@JudiJoseph 2 жыл бұрын
RIP Ayesha 🙏🏽🕊
@TheGlamourBOXinc
@TheGlamourBOXinc 7 жыл бұрын
This is the best video to watch on my way out to work. I’m sitting on the A train watching this and thinking how scandalous I’ve been most of my life... & I picked this way of living again after my divorce and I get so much respect and admiration. Keep giving women these truth and telling us how much power we have. Stay blessed beautiful. You have a new subbie & I’ll be sharing these videos with my friends. ❤️
@AoibheannDoyle-SoulTherapist
@AoibheannDoyle-SoulTherapist 3 жыл бұрын
Excellent discussion Angel! Bless your Soul Ayesha 😇🙌✨
@Dein104
@Dein104 3 жыл бұрын
"He speaks English and he's got two legs"! dear lawwd !!😂😂😂when did we come to this ?
@PortraitofAsha
@PortraitofAsha 3 жыл бұрын
Excellent video! I've been pondering over the concept of 'Performative modesty' for several weeks now and your video touched on a lot of the same points. You refer to it as 'respectability politics'
@sophiadavenport3959
@sophiadavenport3959 5 жыл бұрын
Velvet Rope is my favorite Janet Jackson album
@SalsaCharms
@SalsaCharms 4 жыл бұрын
Can I just say I loved you before, but you talking about my queen when most people never talk about her! She is my favorite woman in the music industry people disrespect her and it boils my blood. I adore her. You are amazing. Thank you!
@KalovnaE
@KalovnaE 2 жыл бұрын
R.I.P. Ayesha 🙏🏽❤️
@hunadimakgatho3403
@hunadimakgatho3403 6 жыл бұрын
This is glorious tea. I've watched this video so many times over the months aND I'm still moved.
@SalsaCharms
@SalsaCharms 3 жыл бұрын
Bless you Ayesha💗✨
@staywinning3299
@staywinning3299 5 жыл бұрын
Who's making the rules we as women need to stop following the rules of other peoples agendas that do not benefit us as women u make the rules for ur own life not the beliefs of insecure jealous men that want to see u lose
@indigovan2417
@indigovan2417 7 жыл бұрын
I love your videos. How do one break such rules and step into ones feminine power? Can you make something like a guideline or so? You definitely got a new subscriber
@WomenLovePower
@WomenLovePower 7 жыл бұрын
Thanks so much! This is a great topic for a future video or at least a blog post. I'm adding it to the list!!!
@mutedearthvirgo
@mutedearthvirgo 5 жыл бұрын
come back, we miss you!
@miss.p4570
@miss.p4570 7 жыл бұрын
please make more videos !! i beg you xx
@MissL-n9b
@MissL-n9b 6 жыл бұрын
Sis you are giving me life!!! 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾👄💃👸🏾💗💗💗
@lenamonique18
@lenamonique18 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you soooooo much for this explanation and representing black women on this topic! Subscribed!
@AntionetteJaleesa
@AntionetteJaleesa 4 жыл бұрын
Really respect the sharing of your knowledge, it's empowering. Thank you!
@percyastronautstatus.8780
@percyastronautstatus.8780 2 жыл бұрын
Women this smart raise CEO"s and Presidemts ....Such a real life Barbie Doll
@idarabassey7455
@idarabassey7455 3 жыл бұрын
Truly outstanding content...thank you!
@tiseytise
@tiseytise 3 жыл бұрын
Good video! I really like your insight on respectability on women.
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