CIA Spy: “DON’T Trust Your Gut”- Signs You’re Being Lied To, Used & Manipulated

CIA Spy: “DON’T Trust Your Gut”- Signs You’re Being Lied To, Used & Manipulated | Andrew Bustamante

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@stephenmitchell-we8wi 3 ай бұрын

I smell a double agent, Maxwell, smart, agent 86.

@WillisLamaar 2 ай бұрын

Thank you for sharing.

@healingpath-g1w 2 ай бұрын

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@canUfeelMYface Ай бұрын

The title basically says not to trust my intuition. But at least he makes it obvious that what he says is not to be trusted

@Sweetpea-2023 3 ай бұрын

The worst phrase I’ve ever heard is, “give them the benefit of the doubt”! I wish I had listened to my gut with all of the toxic people who I have let into my life. There was always something prior to trust that I ignored or justified. I gave them the benefit of the doubt!

@Being_Joe 3 ай бұрын

Stop listening and see what people do. They will tell you who they are. Don't apply your story to them, don't apply what they say their story is, watch, observe.

@angiepie4436 3 ай бұрын

@@Sweetpea-2023 I look for red flags first. I've been out with many, but never married, although I want to. I'm 68 years young now. Been a single mum..have my home..but never found a mutual love.

@elipotter369 3 ай бұрын

Same. I overlooked and it always came back & bit me worse.

@kendall5926 2 ай бұрын

He's the perfect cult leader

@casandrakat3274 2 ай бұрын

Best predictor of future behavior is past behavior. It really takes thought to divert attention away from this unless a person is very present and conscious of pattern work.

@observingsystem 3 ай бұрын

Number 1 sign they're lying, in my experience, is when they tell you you're paranoid for not believing them. Every single time I heard that it was from a blatant liar.

@DionneHartley 2 ай бұрын

Same

@carwoman43 2 ай бұрын

That's gaslighting and should never be tolerated.

@observingsystem 2 ай бұрын

@@carwoman43 Exactly! But it happens too often still and it makes people think "hm, am I being too harsh, etc.", while it's good to think about the fact that an honest person tries to address the topic and defend their stance, instead of attacking the person who's asking questions.

@N4MELEZ 2 ай бұрын

are you a woman?

@richardswimming9389 2 ай бұрын

My mother always taught me never to trust anybody but yourself pay cash for what you buy and that's how you live plain and simple

@brothakwam 2 ай бұрын

Gut feelings had saved my life a few times.

@HighSpeedNoDrag 2 ай бұрын

Myself as well with a little luck sprinkled on top. Thank You Lord.

@hueman-u4p 2 ай бұрын

32:00 mins. People have failed.... Evil have won during pandemic!!!!!!!!!!!

@deborah9384 2 ай бұрын

Way more than a few…way more

@freetherapy-84 Ай бұрын

Ignoring them has screwed me multiple times 😂

@yobebill1234 Ай бұрын

That gut feeling is called intuition

@SuperLuckao 3 ай бұрын

Always be suspucious of someone too nice who is trying to impress you

@adinaknorr9460 2 ай бұрын

Me too. They creep me out. They are always up to something. Their plan is revealed later. It's almost always a sales pitch in order to get money out of you!🤨 Or depending on their eyes & how glassy they are...they're just high! Lol. Sometimes it's Both😂!😅

@BeckyBreedlove 29 күн бұрын

100 percent true! It’s usually the psychopathic narcissist that has a big sweet smile just waiting to destroy….

@Sarcasmarkus 18 күн бұрын

Just always be suspicious, lol

@cw9343 16 күн бұрын

"We are morally obligated to fight evil"...what a profound statement.

@anitragilmore3239 2 ай бұрын

I was just in a toxic relationship and I kept having pains and symptoms. Went to the doctor and everything was negative. Got rid of him and just like that the symptoms went away !

@nic3715 2 ай бұрын

Same

@nic3715 2 ай бұрын

Dark energy

@PureJoySkinCareWaxStudio 2 ай бұрын

How did you do that, you're strong.

@anitragilmore3239 2 ай бұрын

@@PureJoySkinCareWaxStudio just started keeping busy with my family and work life balance and opening myself up to other people

@ashleyluna1735 2 ай бұрын

Amen

@AnnaMishel 2 ай бұрын

This is all too much trouble. Just assume they’re lying. You’ll be right 99% of the time!

@WhatWhy42 2 ай бұрын

True Story.. Unfortunately...

@DrXJ 2 ай бұрын

🤦🏾😂🤣 It's called making content for KZbin.

@Geeronimo99 2 ай бұрын

😅

@Geeronimo99 2 ай бұрын

Always wear sunglasses😅

@Wendy-g7d Ай бұрын

That is so true

@shelbybutler9714 2 ай бұрын

Trusting your gut means trusting intuition, not feelings. My intuition has saved me from so many dangerous situations. My intuition is the only thing that is true. I think there is a problem with semantics here.

@dane3038 12 күн бұрын

Trusting your gut/feelings can be as bad as not trusting them. A lot of people never learn to tell the difference between true intuition and subconscious bias.

@terrimartel6558 2 ай бұрын

I am almost 65 and my trust level has not regressed. In fact, I am more inclined to sit back and observe before opening any of the windows and doors into my life. That is likely because the man I married is not who I thought he was. He has a mask, a facade that has been finely cultivated.

@elainec5333 3 ай бұрын

Sleep deprivation, toxic mold exposure, food poisoning, alcohol, drugs, medications, trauma, hormone imbalances, parasite infection, etc. all affect one’s perception which is a combination of intuition, logic, memory, etc.

@baileyleah2376 2 ай бұрын

Verry toxic

@eljofrva 2 ай бұрын

Especially as women! Naturally, we are very intuitive and in fact, all humans are very intuitive. But women can walk into a room and read everyone’s emotions in that room whether they know the people or not. Even if there are a dozen people in the room. BUT - our modern world has disturbed our intuition. Some other important things to add to the list… People who meditate genuinely say that watching TV, having too much screen time such as smartphones and iPads, even having too much sex, can all alter our sense of reality and our intuition. Junk food, animal meat and products also can alter our bodies and therefore our brain. Just eating too much in general. Also the things you mention! I have given up alcohol and marijuana completely. I have worked to an 85% plant-based diet. I swim, bike, run and weight train and let me tell you my intuition is on point these days and I look back to times that I was drinking and smoking too much and eating poorly and not moving my body and I was not my best self and I will never go back. I have been able to rid of some negative friendships and other destructive relationships in my life that were not serving me. In the time my judgment was clouded, I was oblivious but now I can clearly see which friends and family members in my life actually support me and love me and have my back. All the others I keep at a distance if you know what I mean.

@iamthefiremanjj 2 ай бұрын

Yep

@deanaburnham9571 2 ай бұрын

@@eljofrva A carnivore diet is one of the best things a person can do for a healthy gut in my opinion. Grain brain = unhealthy imo Foods that turn to sugar = insulin resistance and feed all the bacteria in one's body including parasites. But hey, I could be wrong 😮

@HighSpeedNoDrag 2 ай бұрын

Secluded in a Jungle like setting as well called Jonestown French Guyana.

@lunatuna535 2 ай бұрын

Lying by omission.... master manipulators love to sit back and listen. They will allow you to tell on yourself... without saying a word. They have patience 🙏 and aren't into seeking validation. They allow you to build a story in your head about who (they) are ... and then go with it.

@christinejones4785 2 ай бұрын

Yes lying through omission is what I experienced they can be so crafty and manipulative now I have Trust issues which means I will be alone for possibly the rest of my of my life but I am better off alone than with someone who chisels away at your self esteem and self worth

@saralina1018 Ай бұрын

@christinejones4785 Don't ever give your self-worth to another person. What you need to do for yourself is to go within and glue back together the parts of you that have been hurt or traumatized. Self love and self validation is all you need. When you stop seeking outward validation it will change your perspective on so many things. When you have triggers from another person's actions, words that is your bodies response letting you know you have something within that needs to be worked on. Half the time it's having that self love. The only things we can control are our thoughts, words, and actions. If you are a confident person and stand strong with who you are, your not going to let anyone take that away with theirs words or actions. It's all about having that innerstanding of one's self. Meeting people can teach us a lot about ourselves by how we react to them. It can show us the unhealed parts of ourselves. The parts that need more love and healing and you cannot get that from outward influences. You need to go within. Don't give up on yourself, there is only one you! You are unique and beautiful all on your own and you have something to share with this world, YOU! If you truly love and care about yourself you will not tolerate any lies or bs from another person. Have the self love and respect to let them go and move on. Sometimes good hearts choose poor decisions. Through understanding we grow, through judging we separate. You come first, if your not happy don't blame someone else for that, you make your own decisions. You choose to stay or go. By staying you agree to their ignorance and devalue your self worth. By leaving you choose YOU, you choose to love yourself and respect yourself enough to make that decision. Don't give up on yourself. Work on yourself. Love yourself whole heartedly. Sending you much love and light on your journey. You hold the pen to your story, make it a bestseller. 🫶💛✨️

@wimsylogic65 27 күн бұрын

I think I might be a master manipulator. I do what you describe. I don't intend any manipulation. People just share everything with me and forget I exist and I observe watch, remember. And up being able to see patterns and people in their behaviors. My brain just automatically puts pieces together. And I seem to follow the path that I perceive as the best chance for Harmony without violating my morals. I can't come out and just ask out right for help. I need to make sure it's not going to be a burden or inconvenience first. I want people to help me out of their free choice not because they feel obligated responsible or like they can't say no. I lie by omission. I told people I'm fine when I'm not. I don't Always understand what people are talking about but I nod my head like I do. I Once Attempted stealing a balloon at a New Year's party. Turn out it was just a string tied to the ceiling. Back in high school I cheated on my test. Because I knew I understood the material I just couldn't remember it during the test. And I didn't think it was fair for me to get bad grades just because I couldn't remember under pressure. I'm not proud of it and I regretted it. My Jiminy Cricket is A Is torturer.

@ketherwhale6126 16 күн бұрын

@@lunatuna535 psychopathic- I know a psychiatrist that fits that mold

@5Texas5 4 күн бұрын

@@wimsylogic65great comment

@AkikaRosa 3 ай бұрын

Our body signals to us when things are off. I trust my gut instincts.

@jzen1455 3 ай бұрын

Your "gut feelings" aren't 100% correct, but they still serve an important purpose of alarming us of POTENTIAL harm. Your gut feeling is just one piece of the puzzle in determining what is truly a threat to us.

@noorgonzalez1076 3 ай бұрын

TYVM

@shaunberg7033 3 ай бұрын

Truth

@llunavermella_bloodmoon 3 ай бұрын

Gut feelings are always correct!!!

@HeatherEvans-p1i 3 ай бұрын

I believe that gut feeling is our previous relatives living thru us. We share dna 🧬 with them. You will see simularities when you look up what previous family members were up to at your age.

@rigelb9025 2 ай бұрын

This guy is unreal. His appearances seem more & more like he's just laughing to our faces.

@juliewilliams2867 2 ай бұрын

I love the comments on trusting titles. After quite a few disappointments with this approach I changed to thinking of all professionals as the pool boy. If I am paying for a clean pool and don't get that I fire them. This attitude now applies to every encounter I have. It works for me.

@sandy89107 3 ай бұрын

My gut "basic instinct" is always right. I will not purposely go against it. I did in the past "override " my initial thought and became very sorry.

@AJS-uw8sn 2 ай бұрын

You're a liar. Your gut is not always right.

@rigelb9025 2 ай бұрын

Indeed. I think, among many other things on display, someone telling you never to trust your gut, should not be trusted.

@veritas1177 2 ай бұрын

@sandy89107 For women, we are shaped to be more people pleasing and tend to be more emotional based. And if there has been any trauma or abuse, it makes these even worse tending to justify. Give chances and talk ourselves out or in to things. We then are the ones that 'lie' to ourself. Youre right in that we can and do have good instincts. And we learn not to trust them. What he is stating is this in a way, for many our instincts can be readily or easily hijacked. One way to not have that happen is, to not put complete trust and faith in them. So, by all means trust your instincts but also, have a a backup or secondary, like a logic test after. A bit like a firewall or extra sieve. So that, if or when someone is fooling us, faking, lying, we will have the ability to recognize it and acknowledge it.

@chrisf1486 2 ай бұрын

Could be confirmation bias.

@AJS-uw8sn 2 ай бұрын

@@veritas1177 Bustamante talk

@Nohcal 3 ай бұрын

I was followed by a vehicle,while I was in a vehicle. I lost them barely only because I was paying attention. Be aware of what’s going on around you. Some things just don’t make logical sense.

@k_spats 3 ай бұрын

If anyone is "Charming" - I immediately think of a snake charmer! 🐍 *DANGER, IN MY MIND.*

@noorgonzalez1076 3 ай бұрын

😅😮😢😊

@aliceeubanks-badosky2877 3 ай бұрын

There's good charm too, it's's all about one's motives

@marte1376 3 ай бұрын

@@aliceeubanks-badosky2877don't be so naive. You need to be ready and tough to read someone in the first seconds or minutes. By general rule, a handsome man is a man with sexual options, perhaps confused, resistant to commitment because he already is getting what he wants and is likely to be pursued, so that guy won't give you princess treatment. You see? Not hard at all, see them objectively and see yourself in the same way. If he is more handsome than you, you're lost, that guy believes he's the prize

@gangoolie68 2 ай бұрын

Yup!! My ex was extremely charming (still is) but he’s a diagnosed psychopath

@gangoolie68 2 ай бұрын

@@marte1376I agree

@bobbyeger5207 Ай бұрын

Over a decade in EMS, I've never ever ever heard "don't trust your gut". It's very much the opposite

@india1422 2 ай бұрын

I trust my instinct if I feel uncomfortable. In a place or with a person. If I have no time to figure out what it is then I leave the situation

@Donnah1979 25 күн бұрын

Absolutely!! Always put safety first!

@louisaisthankful6455 Ай бұрын

That was very helpful. Was married to a malignant narcissist and I Never want to do that again. My insight, standards, and boundaries are much higher now, so I don't think I'd fall for one, but it's good to have excellent tools in one's tool belt.

@margaretaloucado4308 26 күн бұрын

But still be careful… they come in all different shapes and sizes… my ex was a narc and the super nice guy I met after him was a different kind… controlling with a smile and passive aggressive… they’re all different yet all the same.

@ketherwhale6126 2 ай бұрын

I never get tired of hearing Bustamante talk. I must have watched dozens of his talks and they’re all different and cover new ground. He’s so interesting.

@Iwantalloftheinformation 25 күн бұрын

He's an outstanding communicator/explainer.

@BillLaBrie 16 күн бұрын

He’s really gained your trust, hasn’t he?

@Iwantalloftheinformation 15 күн бұрын

@@BillLaBrie lol yeah, I hear what your saying.

@ThrivePurpleHeart 3 ай бұрын

THANK YOU for pointing out that all it takes for evil to succeed is for good people to do nothing 💜

@rigelb9025 2 ай бұрын

So I guess maybe for him to succeed, bad people should be doing all sorts of things.

@pinschrunner 2 ай бұрын

Thats a very old saying. Nothing original

@Carolinagirl589 2 ай бұрын

He didn't write that quote someone else did.

@mreajamorgana Ай бұрын

People usually do nothing

@rigelb9025 Ай бұрын

@@mreajamorgana But even when they do do 'something', the impact they're allowed to have is limited by what the status quo will allow.

@sethstinson1341 3 ай бұрын

I think a lot of people arent getting what andrew said about listening to your gut. Hes saying your gut is a great way to protect yourself and he said he'd never tell anyone to go against that. But what you don't do is say "my gut tells me hes a really good guy" thats how you break safety

@Plethorality 2 ай бұрын

Then the title is misleading.

@Geeronimo99 2 ай бұрын

We are taught to distrust ourselves...but then ...aha...we find out we were right...but because we are all fallible...its complex.

@gayleoverly7613 2 ай бұрын

Yep. If you recall the Madeline Soto case her mom Jenn said she felt in her body her daughter’s killer was a good guy. Good point for sure

@cazzawazzadingdong5139 Ай бұрын

He uses absolutes when there are nuances and shades of grey. "don't trust your gut" for example. Statement like these caused him to backpeddle multiple times when the interviewer asked for appropriate clarification. Credibility is lost for me. Saying everyone is equally f'd up and then saying in the next breath "not that we would do what d!ddy did" undermines his credibility. Are we equally f'd up or would "we never do what he did" ... which is it? Again using absolutes when there are nuances and shades of grey.

@Donnah1979 25 күн бұрын

Good, we should definitely listen to our gut instinct, especially when it warns against any dangers. But someone can feel safe, even if they aren't 😟

@liebhaberfreund4470 2 ай бұрын

Yes, when I once told him I rode a motorbike, he said he had ridden one too. But the other day, when I started talking about motorbikes again, he asked why I was bringing them up and claimed he had never ridden one. He didn’t even remember his lie.

@missy_inbloom 21 күн бұрын

Run

@DreiSam-f4m 18 күн бұрын

Thank you for your advice. I broke up with him in September.

@missy_inbloom 18 күн бұрын

@@DreiSam-f4m good for you. Sorry you had that issue.

@DreiSam-f4m 18 күн бұрын

@@missy_inbloom Thank you for your compassion

@missy_inbloom 18 күн бұрын

@@DreiSam-f4m you’re welcome

@pinschrunner 2 ай бұрын

One of my best friends is an absolute 24/7 alcoholic. He is also an airline pilot. Not only a pilot, but a captain. And he flies big planes for a major airline. Never trust titles or white coats.

@ursulaserle7919 2 ай бұрын

shoot you need to report him !!

@mikaellavoie6811 Ай бұрын

It's a major fallacy called autority bias

@Coral_Forever 6 күн бұрын

Consider reporting your friend to the airline... hopefully he can get help. I bet some of your friend's copilots also know.This problem shouldn't be ignored.

@----REDACTED---- 2 ай бұрын

CIA or not, this man is changing lives by recognizing and sharing the solutions to cycles of generational trauma. Good podcast 👍🏿👍🏿

@SoulfulHustle 2 ай бұрын

Yeah I'm learning to like him. At first I judged him as a CIA BA - but maybe he's driven by guilt of mk ultra or wants to help all of us whom were abused

@----REDACTED---- 2 ай бұрын

@SoulfulHustle Well said. We will learn to end inflexible systems that perpetuate pains for the gain of others.

@Geeronimo99 2 ай бұрын

Yes. Spies are trained in subterfuge. He.s using his lived experience to teach us systems of thought manipulation. Hg tudor the ultra psycopath narcissist does the same. Its enlightening and useful...but we still have to work out which bit to take on board. Be discerning.

@patriciagarcia5132 2 ай бұрын

i had a Husband that was manipulator and a narcissist also, very hard to deal with that kind of person. good thing i got away from that and never again

@AmmaLove24 3 ай бұрын

My gut feeling is always right, I have extremely good intuition and it tells me information immediately. When I don't listen to it the reason why I felt that way ALWAYS reveals itself. It's me not listening to it that's the problem. Always listen to your intuition and your gut.

@rigelb9025 2 ай бұрын

Yes. And what does your gut tell you about him?

@CLilMR 2 ай бұрын

@@rigelb9025 That he is seeking to feel accomplished from recognition of his abilities and from money gains. Thats a gut feeling i get from him, but i could be wrong, or not. Gut feeling or more an impression of his profile/personnality..

@rigelb9025 2 ай бұрын

@@CLilMR That's nice. It does make sense. My gut tells me he's the king of manipulation. Heck, he even says it out loud.

@CLilMR 2 ай бұрын

@@rigelb9025 I agree with you, i think so too

@rigelb9025 2 ай бұрын

@@CLilMR I'm glad you do. If nothing else, I think one of the major roles this guy plays is to remind us that we are being continuously manipulated.

@clareeeeee1 3 ай бұрын

So many rock stars from the 60s and 70s who are still alive were sleeping with 12-16 year old “groupies” and yet these men are all honoured as hero’s and in halls of fame and I believe a lot of it’s because they never addressed it and people just “forgot”

@DionneHartley 2 ай бұрын

Historically, societies accepted all kinds of things including marriage at 11 or 12 years old, childten working at 7 or 8 years old...

@A.D.I.I.D.A 2 ай бұрын

@@DionneHartleyDoesn't make it right. Society also accepted slavery.

@chrisewing6240 2 ай бұрын

@DionneHartley True Historically, but by today's more ethical standards it's not acceptable. I think that's a good thing and an enlightened view.

@HighSpeedNoDrag 2 ай бұрын

@@A.D.I.I.D.A Some societies continue to accept and subjugate a person and or persons into slavery.

@barbie3139 2 ай бұрын

Agreed. It wasn't exposed as widely

@Mithras444 2 ай бұрын

I pretend I am down for the worst of the worst and watch the monster come out. It works to find out who someone truly is, then of course I leave, really far, far away!

@ally93796 2 ай бұрын

That's a really good idea, I wish I had thought of that when I was younger.

@rigelb9025 2 ай бұрын

When someone comes right out the gate with ''I'm paid to earn trust I don't deserve'', that might be a tell-tale sign as well.

@laurencochran2201 2 ай бұрын

Exactly 🥸👎🏻👻

@f8ofk8 6 күн бұрын

That could be so dangerous! 😳😓

@iaf4454 3 күн бұрын

@@f8ofk8 it is not, you can let them expose themselves... they will tell you who they are you have to be observant, ask qustions and read them. I do this and you can spot people with narc tendencies easily.

@2bNot 3 ай бұрын

So many people sharing false information, agreeing without thinking, saying how great someone is that they do not really know, playing along to get along, not being aware or honest. Also failing to report incidents of violence or threat, which is selfish and enables further incidents. I see that all the time. Its the "whats in it for me" flaw that so many people suffer from.

@VatoLoco15 3 ай бұрын

💯

@Nicole-gb4ze 3 ай бұрын

Great assessment! I am dealing with a co-worker who is telling me one thing and goes to other people to tell them another. She is doing that to everyone. I can't even tell my boss because he also talks to her. I am working in a stressful field with young children. I don't need the drama. I get pay well here, so I don't want to leave. If it's becoming too toxic then I have to find another place.

@2bNot 3 ай бұрын

@@Nicole-gb4zeSorry to hear that. I usually recommend finding ways to become immune to such people, so that they get no power over us, but that's not always easy and there can be risks. I won't go into all my own horror stories, which go all the way to attempts at killing me on the job. One toxic person I began filming them on my phone, every time they came to my house, and would record all of their messages, or sometimes conversations because they were making threats and were bribing people to come and get me. I have fended off all types of people, in the hopes of also saving others by my example. I advise most people, to remain calm. Make it easy for others to see who the problem is. Collect evidence where possible. Sometimes let the boss know that if ever that person is gone, then you might come back. It's really a HR issue, so if it is documented, even on a confidential basis, that might help over time. Remaining calm, and respectful even if angered, I think is good. Good Luck, Stay Safe, and go where the good is 🙋🤍

@dannylo5875 2 ай бұрын

Not really. Sometimes you try to reach out and get help. No. It's not available. Sex trafficking victim. They get trapped where all the help is out and they are gaslit to mess with their sense of independence and direction... cause sometimes the Unknown is worse and it's next to impossible to survive. So it's conditioning. But some situations. It's your inside brain, gut intuition that only saves you. Imagine being sent to live at a mansion in a foreign country...that you have no idea if you had no prior experience...

@dannylo5875 2 ай бұрын

@legopunk2655 Ай бұрын

ALWAYS trust your gut, it's a 6th sense we don't understand, and it's always right. EVERY time I ignored it, it was to my peril....

@k9raven960 2 ай бұрын

Breaking the Chain of Abuse can be very difficult.

@PureJoySkinCareWaxStudio 2 ай бұрын

Yes, it is, I'm stuck.

@leilagomulka5690 3 ай бұрын

Yes . A liar believes their own lies

@HighSpeedNoDrag 2 ай бұрын

Very few liars believe their own lies (i.e. pathological liar) and must be able to make the distinction between what is real and or what is false. Lies are constructed through a deliberate process in order to acheive a purpose or goal through deception.

@Geeronimo99 2 ай бұрын

Liars are very lonely people...time always reveals them. Even to themselves.

@prxbkl Ай бұрын

Then they get a job as a network news anchor

@amanita1964 10 күн бұрын

Nope

@tmstani23 2 ай бұрын

It just takes one to break a legacy of trauma. So true. I wish more would act on it.

@TeresaCook-de6jo 3 ай бұрын

I listened to him and thought I was listening, but I found out a few weeks ago my beloved assistant was stealing from me for months. I wouldn’t have be Invective it in a million years, but I can now see, my gut was telling me something was wrong but I chose not to listen. Because I did not want to know the truth.

@observingsystem 3 ай бұрын

That sucks. It must have been easier to fool yourself for a while and think "nah, I'm being paranoid" than to realize how horrible the person is to do that to you. That sort of thing will make a person distrustful of others in the future. Dishonest people like that destroy so much. That's why I like this subject being talked about, because I hope it makes it impossible for them to keep getting away with it. We have to educate ourselves, see the signs, catch them in the act and send them on their way.

@mikaellavoie6811 Ай бұрын

Thats a big problem. Most people ignore the truth because deep down they dont want it to be true...

@fatmabahri1315 3 ай бұрын

Halfway through this episode and I am so blown away by his applicable genuine dating advice. Thank you for bringing such knowledgeable, reliable minds on your show, Lisa!

@roxannewaring8057 3 ай бұрын

I love when he said we are all equally f'd up. Such a true statement.

@bryansolis3139 2 ай бұрын

He gaslighting you

@HighSpeedNoDrag 2 ай бұрын

@@bryansolis3139 Very unlikely during a presentation. Gas lighting most always takes place between 2 people.

@cazzawazzadingdong5139 Ай бұрын

Perhaps you haven't read the indictments against D!ddy, which happened to be the context this refrence was placed. Saying everyone is equally f'd up and then saying in the next breath "not that we would do what d!ddy did" undermines his credibility. Are we equally f'd up or would "we never do what he did" ... which is it? He uses absolutes when there are nuances and shades of grey. He backpeddled so many times I lost count. The interviewer was great. First time I've watched her, but she picked up on many over confident statement and added an appropriate question for clarification. Don't trust your gut . Then when called out, backpeddles.

@Donnah1979 25 күн бұрын

WHOA!! We all have flaws, but we are most definitely NOT equally messed up! 😵‍💫

@Show_Love_Serina 2 ай бұрын

As someone living with a chronic disability. I feel validated hearing Andrew talk about spies being literally anyone. Regardless of their perceived shortcomings.

@yvetteretief995 3 ай бұрын

Yep Narcissists are not sensitive toward their actions. They will probably pass it.

@laurencochran2201 2 ай бұрын

They project their crap onto you until the rubber band snaps

@laurencochran2201 2 ай бұрын

Trust and benefit of the doubt should be earned like respect because not everyone has common sense or have had adverse variations of experiences

@hibojama-z6y 3 ай бұрын

I have kids and I really love and get connected when someone talks about kids in good way

@SD-rm5ty 3 ай бұрын

I always knew not to trust too fast but I was stupid this time but it will NEVER happen again without proper vetting.

@blakestanton7288 24 күн бұрын

When someone says that you're being overly sensitive and paranoid, then you know that they are gaslighting and invalidating you.

@jennodine 2 ай бұрын

Good luck explaining to a judge that you’re terrified of him because he’s been extra nice to you lately.

@zapzap36 3 ай бұрын

That was interesting. Great interview. He is obviously a great guest, but you ask him really good questions. The subject matter is pretty complex and nuanced, but you seem to be able to digest it as you go. It must be hard to focus on both being the host managing the interview, and being immersed in the subject matter at the same time. I am really impressed.

@reettaelina 2 ай бұрын

I have to read between the lines with all toxic people because they are so good at mimicing me. Actually just right now is happening with one person that he thinks- not really thinks-shows to everybody that I am the narcissist. When I can get away from these ...why.

@SmarterEgt 26 күн бұрын

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@nz8705 2 ай бұрын

Oh cool..so trust issues are actually just wisdom then . Awesome.

@triplejmom7826 27 күн бұрын

Trust your gut. It’s your emotions you need to be concerned about. Logic can mislead you just as badly as your emotions can.

@agaobi573 3 ай бұрын

The gut feeling never tells you to trust sb, it only warns you when danger occurs, so we should trust it. These are mind tricks that deceive us to trust an unworthy person, because this, this and this; not the gut feeling.

@huyhritter1724 3 ай бұрын

*I'm glad you made this video,* it reminds me of my transformation from a nobody to good home, $89k biweekly and a good daughter full of love..

@Lavern-b3e 3 ай бұрын

Please how ?

@huyhritter1724 3 ай бұрын

It's Maria Angelina Alexander doing she's changed my life. A BROKER- like her is what you need.

@huyhritter1724 3 ай бұрын

$356K monthly is something you should feel differently about....

@GloriaPatin-d1o 3 ай бұрын

Lovely! I enjoyed it like I enjoy a $100k monthly around the turn!!!

@OliviaDon-k8q 3 ай бұрын

I know that woman (Maria Angelina Alexander) If you were born and raised in new York you'd know too, she's my family's Broker for 3yrs till now and a very good one if you asked me. No doubt she is the one that helped you get where you are!!!!

@mrwayne5158 3 ай бұрын

Andrews hair and what he speaks about indicates to me that he had a recent mental breakdown after his career in CIA after finding out the agency manipulated him and everyone else working for them. His hair indicates a transition period and that's why he's talking so much and being open about his former career at the agency.

@mikaellavoie6811 Ай бұрын

Interesting thought! Could very well be true. In another interview he was speaking about how the job of a handler is mostly preventing the person from sabotaging itself because deep down we all want to come clean about what is affecting our conscience. It was sounding exactly like someone who was cleaning its conscience doing those interview!

@sacredrain7757 4 күн бұрын

Powerful info! Andrew has changed my life going forward along with giving me a new perspective on my past. It all starts with the notion that I deserve better and giving no more energy to anyone who can’t or won’t give me the decency that I deserve. I hope he gets to teach the young ones before the wreckage has a chance to happen. TY for giving him this platform.

@uunnoov 3 ай бұрын

People do not listen to this man when he says to not trust your guts intuition, our unconscious is always trying to communicate important information through our senses and emotions.

@dubdub9152 3 ай бұрын

what did he say about it?

@TheAlinaCretu 3 ай бұрын

Always trust your gut. It is a difference between first reaction and gut instinct.

@alliebelle6887 2 ай бұрын

You girls are slamming him and saying trust your gut…but have you ever beat yourself up for following your gut, thinking someone was great only to find out they lied? I’m using this CIA approach WITH my intuition. If I trust you right away that could very well be a flag. Because why haven’t you offended me? Saying everything perfect to manipulate?

@veritas1177 2 ай бұрын

I think women are getting taken back by this and missing some of what he's saying. My take as a woman is yes listen to your gut instinct and your, a woman's intuition. But don't let that be THE basis of decision. He basically says this. Have logic, have other things, err on side of caution, simply because our instincts and emotions can be hijacked by someone fooling us, but not by cool reasoning. He even says yes, get off the X. Etc.

@FaithAndRepentance 2 ай бұрын

Dont trust Andrew. He is Government disinfo agent

@MaryMcMillan-t6k 2 ай бұрын

Cycles of trauma... Wow. I finally felt a whole schema of motives, priorities, lift from me that came from that wubconscious programming. Im so GLAD

@kalandrasnow9555 3 ай бұрын

I absolutely love this guy. I love that your channel empowers people with good information!!❤

@casandrakat3274 2 ай бұрын

Manipulation takes too much high effort and critical thinking for the “regular” conscious mind. I feel badly for those who require this much thought in order to succeed and or gain anything in life .

@casandrakat3274 2 ай бұрын

Then again, this is innate in individuals who know nothing otherwise .

@Golgibaby 3 ай бұрын

Mahalo both for this conversation, the framework is applicable on many contexts.

@TexasKoz 10 күн бұрын

Very valuable info coming from Andrew.

@Golgibaby 3 ай бұрын

Timestamp: 28:14 situational awareness, threat detection, and the female bias; t.y. for bringing up this point

@natalieelder7497 21 күн бұрын

So I've been watching Lisa's interviews and she was interviewing an FBI agent who said they're encouraged to trust their gut and intuition during operations, if something doesn't feel right they are told to trust that.

@Kashikoi82 2 ай бұрын

Wow this was a great episode! Learned a little something about myself and how I will continously work towards breaking my generational traumas, and to give myself some grace throughout.

@jamiesouza 3 ай бұрын

That documentary about the doctor was so extremely traumatizing!! Omg…it was in my head for days. Sick sick sick…AND he was a world famous doctor!! How could that have happened! 😮

@agnetalindstrom7405 2 ай бұрын

Dr Death -Macciarini. Horrible person, very manipulative. How people didn't see through him is beyond me.

@IWantU2Know 2 ай бұрын

Wow, wow, wow! The how to spot a lie section was GOLD! Every abusive cheater I was with would have been caught SO much sooner! Thank you!!! 🙏🏻

@ceceb9082 3 ай бұрын

Watching 18 minutes now, trying to pay attention to what hes saying, but HIS HAIR OMG❤❤

@elizabethsantandergreene91 3 ай бұрын

Yes, I love the content but am completely distracted by that gorgeous hair.

@bobgreenfield9158 3 ай бұрын

Don't stare at him.

@veritas1177 2 ай бұрын

Same. When I get distracted. I refocus on what's being said and don't look. Lol

@Animal_lover123-x7w 2 ай бұрын

Lisa is a human bobblehead. I just listen with my eyes shut. Beautiful woman, no, it's not her hair (which is pretty).

@HighSpeedNoDrag 2 ай бұрын

@@Animal_lover123-x7w Everybody pause the video, take a COLD shower and then resume. Good Lord Help US.

@SayconTalks 2 ай бұрын

I think one of the reasons why several of us in the comments bristled at him, saying “not to trust your “gut”, is because of what he is defining as that “gut feelings.” “inconsistencies “and “efforts “and patterns are of different behavior I think are all the things that people believe they are recognizing in their gut. But for someone like him who quantifies every single part of the interaction, he is defining the “”part of the reaction to only be the first initial feeling. I believe most people are seeing these behavior, change patterns, attitude, changes, etc. and also receiving those changes in the “gut “, even though these changes are happening later in the list of discovery of possible lies.

@nicolemurphy2629 Ай бұрын

He advocates not trusting your gut on a positive..... For example..... My gut tells me this person is a lovely guy/girl Always keep an open mind is how I read it

@nilepearl1997 3 ай бұрын

1:17:50 Dear Lisa, Please say a disclaimer before discussing violent cases. Loved the episode ... Thanks a lot !

@ladybug1642 2 ай бұрын

when I cannot understand if someone likes me or not EVERY SINGLE time, I end up finding out that this person is a liar, or 2faced. Otherwise, I have no confusion at all. I either see that someone likes me or dislikes me, as simple as that. When I get double signals and get confused, I always end up realising that I was played or manipulated

@simplypositiveme 3 ай бұрын

I try to stay away from most men because I had domestic violence in my past. 😢

@ShakesSphere 3 ай бұрын

Me too...

@flipdiva0007 3 ай бұрын

😢😢

@StephenNova-h7p 3 ай бұрын

Thats horrible.

@kimkjrulff1731 3 ай бұрын

Me too .. 13 years and i got physical injury and ptsd from the constant violence and control . I had No idea who i was . Like a frozen robot . Until one day i escaped . I never regret it . I wish i had loved myself more ❤😢

@trinjuwan4422 3 ай бұрын

I totally get this. Unfortunately most males have an innate propensity to manipulate females as a way to get what they want. Females are the prey that most males hunt. Females have to be sharp minded & highly intuitive when interacting with males. Boys do this naturally to mothers.

@FranNoesse 11 күн бұрын

@57:35 MANSPLAINING = LYING! I intuitively KNEW this!

@donthateonblake 3 ай бұрын

Love your videos ❤❤❤and ❤ Andrew and his videos!!!!

@mariapescifeltri953 4 күн бұрын

Thank you for this program. I'm an empathetic person, and people use you. But from now on, I'll better lots of information. God's word gives you clarity and connects you with direct messages. Thank you for contributing so much to save us from manipulators. God bless you two. ❤

@jamesbishop9156 3 ай бұрын

I liked the truth at the end about breaking the traumas.

@NANCYDOMSTAD 3 ай бұрын

when i became conscious instead of following in a type of brain fog, i felt unable to control my decisions or make healthy decisions that were not what i had been programmed to by an abusive mother. as i became a believer in the word of God through His son, slowly i was able to become awake to the truth of the lies that i had believed. to break the trauma is exactly as you have described. generation to generation we follow what we have been programmed to be we see this around the world ending in the violence that has so greatly increased and shall need the intervention of Christ and His armies as He promised. how can we break generation after generation of programming lies and trauma without being brought out of this . i also came out of this world systems including religions which only continue on the legacy of lies and trauma. thanks Lisa for such clear thoughtful questions about this curse of generational trauma. and thank you Andrew for being so honest about your generational trauma. you chose as i did to break the cycle and as i found it would entail being conscious. without staying with my decision to break the cycle i would slip back into the old ways. now, with much personal choice i have been able to change myself. my desire to raise my children a new way was dashed despite my own personal beliefs and choices. i married a very dangerous man who because of his own abuse had chosen to repeat the cycle with our 2 boys and me. anything i raised the boys in was destroyed secretly and i was unable to save them from their father. one died a few years ago and the other one made the unconscious choices of his father and has decided he no longer has a mother. no matter what happens we can go forward and let go of programming and decisions based on that. thank you for your example Andrew-you will break the trauma cycle. i have become the person i have always wanted to be but not by remaining married to a person who is still blind to this day. peace and love to both you and Lisa and your families. keep up the good work. it will make a change in future generations that begin with us.

@clockworkoregano Ай бұрын

I think the “don’t trust your gut because it’s trained on emotions” is lacking the perspective of those whose emotions are trained on lack of trust and noticing sus in the gut

@AnnTonaBro21 3 ай бұрын

Thank you! This is the message I was waiting to receive

@malootua2739 22 күн бұрын

I traveled the world for 20 years and this guy is breaking down all the stuff I learned

@kathigarnier2982 3 ай бұрын

Love from Paris ! This conversation is brilliant !

@MystrEEnt 2 ай бұрын

I always assume faces of disgust mean they have to poop, if wrong you’ll know soon enough. It’s the number 2 gut instinct to never ignore! 👏😆

@leilagomulka5690 3 ай бұрын

Yes. They are saying one thing , but their body language is saying another

@lisag1656 Ай бұрын

Lisa, the part where Andrew was talking about the one who breaks the succession of abuse deals with ss whole other set of issues, impacted me like a "bullet to my head"! My sister and I were abused as kids by a family member and I was the breaker of the familial /child abuse. I went through HELL during that time with everyone turning their back on me except my aunt,(RIP) and when the dust settled, many female relatives stepped up and spoke about THEIR OWN child abuse! I had the key to our family's closet and allowed for the skeletons to come out! Today, our family can heal and we are the Kryptonite to any child molesters ever infiltrating our family ever again!!!! Andrew and Lisa thank you for helping to make positive changes in the world and giving us the knowledge and tools to never again, be a victim!! Lisa G.

@dannyallen4357 3 ай бұрын

Andrew is always a great interview.

@nicolewilliams2468 Ай бұрын

I love this guest!!! I’ve heard him on so many interviews & podcasts, & I always learn something new. Amazing!

@yvetteretief995 3 ай бұрын

I was hit on since a very young age and that is not trustworthy. So I like to portray the bad first, lol! So sick off being liked being beautiful and clever.

@gayleoverly7613 2 ай бұрын

This was such an enriching, enlightening and informative conversation. I really enjoyed it. Thank you.

@LisaBilyeu 2 ай бұрын

Thank YOU for being here! 🥰

@gayleoverly7613 2 ай бұрын

@@LisaBilyeu I’ve watched a few of your episodes. It’s really great. You are a really good interviewer and you have really good guests. I’m a new subscriber

@Callmethebreeze902 2 ай бұрын

I love this. These are all the topics I enjoy reading about. Andrew you could have saved me 20 years of reading, this is what I wanted to know!! Lol ❤ The polygraph thing makes me think of George on Seinfeld. “it’s not a lie if you believe it.” 😂

@PatriceBoivin 2 ай бұрын

"falling in love" is not transactional, that's the flaw in his scheme. Loving is an action verb, not passive. It's a commitment and a decision, regardless of what the other person does. It is also above time, not affected by time. You can love someone completely and realize that you cannot live with them because they are toxic (narcissistic, psycho, manic depressive, hysteric, paranoid schizophrenic, irresponsible, lazy, passive, ...) or batshit crazy (psychotic). So no, falling in love is not "falling into trust."

@TeeW215 2 ай бұрын

I disagree with the “trust” factor going up beyond age 55. Yes, I am over 55 and I do know things about life and the world, and because I do, I am NOT feeling warm and fuzzy. I’ve seen and experienced some of the carnage people can leave and the games they play. The day to day living and the outrageous things that happen tell me to sit back, listen and watch more closely.

@CatwomanMeowz 19 күн бұрын

Yeah, I’m still a few years away from 50, and I feel like I’m becoming less and less trusting of the people and institutions around me. I trust a very few people these days- and most of them are very long term friendships of 20 years or more. I can’t imagine in less than a decade I’ll just start being more trusting. That seems like self sabotage.

@lizharmon3451 20 күн бұрын

I wasn't sure what to expect when I clicked on this video. It's actually very good. I would be terrified of this man if I was on the wrong side of the law and being interrogated!

@lonewolf558 3 ай бұрын

There's also nothing wrong with fabricating a story to deflect a person trying to gather información from you. People often ask way personal questions to hurt you, use you or manipulación. So, don't over share.❤❤❤❤❤❤❤Also, some people come off as controlling because they have trauma, ptsd or fear people. You forgot to talk about how someone makes you feel...this video has only made me more distrustful lol. So, if I meet a guy wearing a green shirt, super nice, and has long hair...well..im getting off the X😅😅sometimes people look away because they are thinking . Don't trust Andrew 😂😂😂

@noorgonzalez1076 3 ай бұрын

Noor😮😢

@laurablack7183 2 ай бұрын

Sometimes you only have a moment or two to make a decision and , therefore, I think it’s vital to ‘stay in tune’ with your instincts. Often instincts often include unpleasant experiences which may not be part of the conscious impression. If, after recognizing your ‘discomfort’ , or whatever you are feeling you have time to make a coherent decision using a more analytical or logical decision making process. But there are times when instinct gives you a powerful motivation to get away from a person , for example,and get away. You may never know if instincts saved you but you saved yourself from becoming a potential victim of a person with a dubious nature. True instinct, in my experience, is not a thought process but a strong sense of danger, or of something being wrong.

@Sweetdreamz313 3 ай бұрын

Idk trust the gut to an extent

@OneidaGC 3 ай бұрын

did you keep watching cuz he explains gut is info but not the only info so you can't make decisions SOLELY on your gut, that's a weakness, using your gut to inform yourself what further questions to ask or to observe something more closely

@Julie.1983 20 күн бұрын

Congrats Lisa👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 for all your excellent job that you do, for your kindness to the people that you invite to discuss with and for your very to the point questions.

@barbie3139 2 ай бұрын

The Holy Spirit also guides us and we can sense evil, regardless of how charming, likeable they are.

@rayssis2 2 ай бұрын

Thank you

@dannylo5875 2 ай бұрын

Some people have dark energy or straight up make you think they are incredibly "weird" feeling.

@rissabellecreations 2 ай бұрын

Thanks so much. I misunderstood what you meant by gut decision. I would have said I made gut decisions but now I realise I'm not doing that. I use my gut instinct as observation to develop further research and acquire information before eventually making a decision

@mnrick1960 2 ай бұрын

My gut says this guy should never be trusted! NEVER!! Very intelligent, very clever, very manipulative, very dangerous. Read his shirt. Believe him.

@HighSpeedNoDrag 2 ай бұрын

"Trust No One" Benjamin Franklin, Versailles France, 1783.

@0r14n583lt 2 ай бұрын

Valuable information in the interview. I learned amongst other things that I should not eat a burrito the night before a polygraph test.

@ryanbrown1826 15 күн бұрын

For older folks their literal gut will be happy if they don't eat that burrito too late at night

@jamesbishop9156 3 ай бұрын

Lies are necessary because there is punitive forces instead of protective justice.

@dianafleming1335 2 ай бұрын

In Munchausens by proxy the mom *knew* she was lying. She did it for the high of the drama and the attention and the halo of being a doting caretaker of a “suffering” child. I *guarantee* that if you had even breathed a word that questioned the veracity of her daughter’s conditions, the would have gone ballistic with rage. Guar-an-tee.