work days in my life | very VERY rough days

[@rachanderson4]

The year after you graduate college is such a strange season, so much new and nothing prepares you for the roller coaster of emotions you go through leaving all of your college friends as you each go on your different journeys. It will get so much better!

[@pugs910]

I enjoy work weeks personally because you see it start to finish

[@leahbamxo]

i started crying when you said that the breakfast sandwich being cold triggered you because YES. it sounds so silly, but when you’re in that mental state, something so stupid can break you. i work 8-5 desk job, i’m taking 5 classes, and i stream (on twitch) part time. it can be so much, but reminding myself where i am and why i am here helps. making lists for time management and writing things down so it’s not all floating in your head can be VERY helpful. also, i have been taking CBD for about 4 months now and it’s super helpful for the crazy stressful times. i don’t need it every day, but when i’m at the office starting to feel overwhelmed, i’ll chew on a gummie or two and it really does help! doesn’t interfere with your brain while working either. highly suggest it. keep your head up, but thank you for being so raw and honest! love how relatable you are 💜

[@jenniferniyazova581]

Brooke, I cannot parise you enough for expressing your emotions on camera. A lot of us try to hide our emotion and hold everything back when in reality it is okay to let everything out once in awhile. I think it is great that you are showing that once in awhile there are those times we just get overcome with emotion and sometimes crying for even 5 minutes will make us feel better! Mental health is just as important as physical health! Brooke you're such an inspiration thank you!

[@AbbyAsselin]

i needed to go to the library to study but looks like im leaving in 40 mins now!

[@drewhp]

You need to work out! I swear when I get overwhelmed, working out is the only thing that makes me feel better 🧡 even just running on the treadmill for 20 before dinner will make you feel so much better

[@gracehurley1956]

Drew Peterson true!!

[@GenZGrandma]

OMG YESSSS This legit is such a cure for all the emotions and feelings she went through and it's helped me so much! So trueee! Good advice 💖

[@danielleinfante5086]

I agree!!

[@camilleloveyou98]

Even just once a week even helps let out stress and makes you feel good.

[@sylvestr79]

Not for everyone. One size doesn’t fit all.

[@justalexandria]

Girl... I have never related to you more than rn. I have been adulting for a year and a half now and I thought I was the only one having a hard time managing it. None of my roommates seemed to be having a rough time adjusting. I ~still~ (yesterday) cry in my car all the time for no reason even when I think I'm having a great day. This is so stressful, managing money and dealing with being on your own is so stressful!! Why did no one tell us this! If you ever need someone to vent to in Boston, I'm always here!

[@MarisaSmileees]

Alex Marie just remember that most people only share their victories!!!

[@justalexandria]

Marisa Rodarte very true!! I wish more people were open about their real struggles. It’s so comforting knowing you’re not alone.

[@Mocktrialstudent6]

Brooke, the Starbucks situation is very relatable. Sometimes the tiniest things will set off deeper issues inside of us. You are not alone! In fact, that whole clip made me realize how similar influencers are to us non-influencers. Idk food for thought!

[@karenbombard723]

Where did you get your bedding and pillows?

[@michelleme509]

Brooke - remember, you just started a new job 3 months ago. It takes 6 to 12 months to be up to full speed in learning a new job. It's extremely stressful and metrics suck. Your new routine will get easier with time. Hang in there.

[@haybayplays]

I LOVE that you’re workweek vlogs are so honest and unfiltered. No need to apologize for having rough patches, you’ve helped me realize that it’s okay to not be okay 24/7 and that we all go through times like these ❤️ Thank you!

[@shelbifavre]

I've always felt that way about work too! Sometimes obviously work is more busy than other days, but it's frustrating that our work model is based on time spent at the desk rather than actually achieving the work that needs to be done.

[@MsGleek11]

OMG you can definitely repeat outfits at work. that's ridiculous to think you can't/shouldn't.

[@caitlin9781]

lol ikr! I've mastered the perfect 2 week rotation

[@LifestylesofEmily]

I wear the same 8 outfits on repeat lol

[@PlainAndChelsea]

Same I had to tell myself this the other day. I see my coworkers wear the same clothes and no one cares so why should I!

[@emilywells7415]

@@sweet2u22 I think I wore the same pair of jeans 3 times to school last week

[@LivinglikeLeila]

Brooke, create an exit plan! You can definitely leave your job, don't feel pressured to stay in something just because your viewers can relate. Give yourself 6 months or a year at the job, create more content, create a business, make an exit plan and get excited about it!! Jobs don't get any better unless you genuinely like them, if you feel this bad so often you should consider it. ❤

[@brigitte6157]

Living like Leila yeah why can’t she leave if she hates it so much?

[@alexissssrodriguezz2]

Madison P when did she say she quit? I haven't seen that anywhere

[@fizzyizzychick6]

I am so glad that you want to find someone to talk to. You don’t deserve to feel stressed and overwhelmed all of the time.

[@michelllemariie]

Yeah that’s corporate America! Most of the work at 9-5jobs can be done in a max of 5 hrs

[@sarmprinces]

michelllemariie not Engineering!

[@pugs910]

I also think you should look into therapy, whether that be online or in person.

[@nicholemaier1622]

@@myriam221 I never thought it could help, and it has. Much more then I ever imagined.

[@johnnam1380]

Yes and it's always good to vent it all out!

[@Nolakuer]

Frickin love your vlogs Brooke! They always are so real and relatable. You are so close to 200k! Can't wait for the Athens vlog xx

[@fancycuatro]

I've been watching you for several months and your videos have become my favorite ones in my subscription box. You are so real, relatable, yet inspiring. I love your vlogs soooo much (and all of your videos), but seriously you're vlogs keep me going on rough days and give me a little burst of connection/inspiration/entertainment.

[@fancycuatro]

Also, I think that breaking your work week up is smart! Then we get to watch you more often. I definitely still like the long vlogs though, the longer the better :)

[@mollygiggles1]

Brooke your emotional vulnerability in these videos is SO appreciated and important. I can't imagine how difficult it is to share these kinds of things and emotional times to the public but it's really refreshing to see someone who I look up to (as a v fellow busy gal on the go) struggle in such a real way and that doing KZbin and whatnot isn't as glamorous as it sometimes looks. Love ya long time girly, keep your head up and good will come your way

[@ali_paige1227]

Watching an old video and seeing how you are thriving in NYC and have grown so much was amazing to see! Thank you for giving us so much sincere content 💕

[@herbal-tea]

Honestly Brooke, you're a very free spirit. Corporate is depressing, and that never changes... You should really look into starting a major business of your own, or taking a chance at this Content Creator gig, which you're already so AMAZING at! I'm 34 years old, take a chance while you're young, the world is your oyster! Love you ♥️!

[@madisonbuccola9300]

Totally relate to you. Going from college and a flexible schedule to full-time work and adult life is ROUGH. But you’re killing the game, Brooke! People love your vlogs because you are real, you’re vulnerable and honest with us. My best advise is to change your perspective. These challenges are only going to make you stronger and smarter. And enjoy where you’re at right now-living in your cute new apartment, creating new friendships with coworkers...just try to be more present and focus on the positives as much as you can. It really helps. 💕

[@kennedikewl]

You and natalie barbu are so similar. Went to college, did well, got corporate jobs and realized that you could make more and be happier working for yourself. It’s ok to change your mind. You’re in the perfect age to do what’s best for you. Making major life changes will only get harder, the older you get. If u wanna do something do it now. Love you queen

[@jasjumbalaya]

Kenn I agree 100%. She either is going to quit or has quit.... I see her going the same route as Natalie, pursuing social media

[@carolinaruvalcaba7977]

Tbh birth control can also make you more emotional or just more sensitive in general, maybe that’s adding to how you have been feeling? Loving your vlogs💕

[@frankieeexx18]

Honestly love how real you keep the vlogs like it never feels like a production. It’s so refreshing to feel like you’re having a real conversation with a real friend. Go easy on yourself, any transition is hard. Love you girl

[@Imaslife]

you crying on camera is everything. This is why I personally love your vlogs. You have become very genuine and real! love it 💘

[@anderson2828]

Hey girl, love your vlogs, but something is off. I dont know if your missing your family a lot, or the transition into working, or being in Boston without a huge support system but it may be beneficial to talk to a licensed therapist. Seems like something is really going on with you, you keep saying its not a big deal but from those who have watched you for a long time can see something is up. Please talk to someone. Hugs

[@jenniferpettice3812]

Hey Brooke! Coming from another 8-5er I feel your frustration. It's like your living the same day, every day. I think with your personality and hustle mentality you would thrive at full time youtube. You have to so what Makes a you happy. 💗💗

[@clairejeannette1]

I so relate when you said watching people who are full time youtubers makes you feel worse. That’s literally how I found your vlogs and got so hooked because of your work weeks in my life! I was having such a hard time watching people have all this time to do stuff, so watching you go to work the same hours I do and still be so productive and have so much going on was and is so much more motivating to me. I just feel bad about myself when I see people do things with time I simply don’t have.

[@raeganthibodeaux1032]

its hard to feel balanced in life. anxiety and feelings of overwhelm are real problems. its so good to see influencers post about struggles of things that i face everyday. the way i deal with it is i start my day off with planning and don’t overwork myself. its okay to take time for yourself & mental health. you got this & you have a lot of supporters rallying behind you. xoxo

[@danielavenegas2122]

Brooke, I been follow you for a couple of months now. I really admire you your style, work ethic and how you are! Take a deep breath you are barely out of college.. this is a new stage of life.. youll get use to it! Thank you for being so transparent with your follower!!! keep thriving!

[@briannademilia4351]

I was SO happy to see Brooke thriving back in Athens but I was DYING for a work week in my life. Our queen pulls through again. 40 min vlog ~dnt txt~

[@julietasevilla7110]

Brooke! We all have those days boo! Your not alone! The 8-5 sometimes can be really hard. But you are doing so well... eventually everything will fall into place! Stay positive and gangster! Love you!

[@marasoto37]

I truly truly look up to you, many of us do. i wish you nothing but happiness and prosperity brooke ❤️❤️❤️ thank you for always being so real and raw. Most influencers never show this side of life, i don’t think anyone ever really talks about life and the reality of what life is like, especially post grad. The stress, Anxiety and reality of transitioning from school to work isn’t talked about. Thank you again for what you do for your subscribers and keep doing what you need for your own happiness love ya ❤️

[@samanthamagnarelli1122]

I started tearing up when hearing about your 9/11 story - thank you so much to your dad, firefighters, and people who serve our country and keep us safe. ❤ Also, you are so strong when it comes to even having mental breakdowns and I look up to you for that, like we are all going through similar stressing times! You are not alone, and you are helping so many others!

[@brookehuling2274]

I really just want to thank you for being you and being so open and honest. I just recently started following you and I think you’re incredible. I also graduated in May and I’ll be starting my 9-5 next week and seeing these vlogs and you being so honest about how you feel is really refreshing and I really appreciate it.

[@halliejordyn]

You getting triggered by your starbucks sandwich is ME omg. It only takes one little stress for our emotions to come pouring out. It's not stupid it all, actually sooo relatable!!

[@imbrandoncovert]

Girl I love you and what I think is best for you is to quit your 8-5 job. Most of this stress and overwhelm-ness is because of your job and we can see it. I see how happy you get when you want to be at home, working on KZbin and the podcast. That is your passion boo! Letting go of this weight on your shoulders will make you feel so much better mentally. Love you Brooke :)

[@ballet4life377]

GIRL i feel you. the transition post grad is a huge one. i just graduated from nursing school in may and took a new job in a new place as a nurse. it's such a big adjustment and the littlest things can make me so sad too. you are NOT alone. we love you!

[@artyv5450]

hi...one of your older subbies but love your vids, just wanted to say your vlogs are very proactive and positive and just keep doing you x is it weird if i ask could you do regular grocery hauls or whats in my fridge ? also what are your fall outfit go to's x

[@bouquetofrosses]

“I think everything’s going to be okay, I just need five more minutes to cry it out and force myself to be okay” BROOKE this line broke me :( I love that you started with everything’s going to be okay but it’s okay to feel what you feel! I feel like you judge yourself too hard (and everyone has been saying that) but you’re killing the game girly!

[@TheChicChoice]

Brooke, I don't know exactly how you're feeling but based on what you've shown us, I can definitely relate. I moved to NYC shortly after college, had a job that I did all the work for by around lunch every day like you mentioned and was honestly either totally stressed or totally bored. lol no matter how hard I tried, I became more and more upset. I think that you may come to a point where you realize that something really needs to change. While I know you're still getting adjusted to this job, you should also know that you deserve to feel balanced in all areas of your life. I quit my job and I'm actually back in school now and I legit can't even believe how different I feel. It takes time but you will figure out exactly what you want for your life and what you just don't need! That being said, I hope the field you're in now works out for you (if that's what you truly want)!!

[@nataliemanno4833]

It will get better Brooke! I graduated college last year and looking back on it it was really rough. You have to deal with so many changes at once and no one talks about it. Post-grad stress is so much more than "adulting" like people talk about it on social medias, its navigating long distance friendships, new job/ city, being away from family, etc and it's alot! Don't feel bad that youre struggling you're not alone!

[@alexisl7359]

I am so glad that you showed the clip of your little breakdown because it is nice to know that legit everyone goes thru the same shit and sometimes something as little as a cold sammy can just break you!

[@carlicole2886]

girl, your breakdown i COMPLETELY relate to. it’s not stupid. don’t let anyone tell you that. i love your mindset & your drive. you’re doing amazing!!

[@janetgomez2949]

I just love how real she is in these vlogs!!

[@carayotie]

Hey Brooke! I just recently started watching your channel and I have to say that I really appreciate how real and honest you are about what you are struggling with. I just finished my masters in counselling psychology and I will say, a lot of my clients feel the same way you do. For the things you are juggling and the goals you are aspiring to achieve, it’s OK to feel overwhelmed, anxious, and stressed. It’s normal. Use this as a red flag for yourself to recognize when you need a time-out and to reevaluate what’s on your plate. If it’s anything I can offer-- be gentle with yourself.

[@kitsombke5644]

Watching your old vlogs. You’ve come so far and seem so much happier now in Brooklyn!

[@sushibox3]

Hi Brooke, i think the ups and downs in your emotions makes you human but what I love most is how you always make a conscious effort to stay positive. As always, really enjoy your vlogs and keep them coming!!

[@KateRussellVideos]

I really appreciate how open and honest you are in your vlogs!! It makes me realize that I’m not alone in all the emotions I feel💛

[@mixtliitzel]

Take breaks! I always say "it's my health over anything".. whether it's mental health or physical. I always sit down during work and just get on my phone, breathe, chat with a coworker or even just take a bite out of my protein bar lol it's the small things! Love how open you are about your feelings Brooke. Keep doing the best you can!

[@JordanAlyssa66]

Brooke, the feelings you’re experiencing are completely natural. There’s actually a medical / psychological “condition” (I say “condition” because it’s not anything crazy serious) known as Adjustment Disorder that can cause feelings of uncertainty, overwhelmed feelings, stress and lot of other emotions any time something changes in your life, big or small, and even if you think you’ve adjusted just fine. Sometimes it can still affect you almost subconsciously. I’m experiencing this still 5 weeks into a new semester after I’ve moved and gone through soooo many changes. It’s frustrating because my roommates aren’t experiencing what I’m experiencing so it made me question what’s wrong with me. I’ve had SO many friends experience this exact same thing post grad with trying to adjust to new jobs, professional school, side hustles and more. Just know that your feelings are valid and everything is going to work itself out! I’m loving the videos lately and it’s so evident that you work hard in life and only great things will come your way. Love ya Brooke!✨

[@bridgetsciscento238]

I absolutely love your blogs and so much appreciate how real you are! I'm sorry you're going through a rough time, but you're still a huge source of inspiration to me! I hope things get better and talking to someone will help so much and is something to be proud of!

[@jenniferberanek4124]

Hey Brooke, I’m an accountant and there is this thing you can do called estimated payments where you pay in a calculated amount to the irs so you don’t have to pay a huge amount at the end of the tax year. People who are consultants or are self employed do this usually. Maybe discuss this with your accountant for next year! Keep your head up!

[@bellagenghini2365]

Second this! I work in tax and those who are self employed always get dinged the most with taxes. You could also withhold more from your salary to try and make up some of the difference! :)

[@suzywoods7549]

Brooke I am so sorry you are having that feeling of everything being so overwhelming. I just wanted to take a huge DEEP breath for you watching these clips... Thank you for being so vulnerable and open about everything with us. You truly inspire me. I watched this in the morning and it really got me motivated just when you were making up and getting ready, you pushed through and got your day going. I really hope everything is going well for you now, you really deserve a break once and a while. Love you Brooke

[@FloraGoodman]

really needed to hear the stuff you were saying as you got ready on the first day!! i've been struggling with a lot of bad days at work too and letting it affect my overall life which hasn't been great and has gotten me in a huge rut. like you said it's so important to have a positive mindset and visualize the positivity. going to remember that this week!

[@elliemorell1000]

Brooke 💕 one thing you’re REALLY good at is being aware of your emotions. You are 100% entitled to feel your emotions and be upset. You juggle a lot in life and sometimes we have bad days. It’s ok to cry and feel upset and to move on and focus on the positive. You’re also REALLY good at realizing the positivity around you and making a plan for the rest of the day. We all can relate to your content because this is real life. Keep doing you girly!! You’re doing well! We love ya!!

[@madeleinesvensson-m3y]

I feel you 100%! I don't even have a sidehustle but when you know your 9-5 work isn't your vision and dream and it is someone elses you have a hard time connecting with it and feeling passionate about it! Keep going you are doing everything right! Love your channel! I would like the vlog to mon-fri even if it is longer it feels more complete. ❤️

[@makalamorrow846]

I’m so sad you’re feeling the way you are. But so glad that you are sharing it because others can soooo relate & not everything’s going to go perfect in life. Like you already said you’ll get through it and you know you will but it’s just hard to see that right now. Love you 💕

[@ashleighgoedeke2204]

Okay but yes girl - I’ve hit the work/school overwhelm. Going to school and working is the same feeling as you, juggling all the things. You got this ❤️

[@missansleyj7604]

Love how real you are being on here! I’ve been feeling the same way with trying to juggle the “new” adult life. I have to constantly remind myself, that it’s just a few bad days, not a bad life. Keep your head up girl!

[@albanianmusiclover]

Brooke I feel the same. A 9-5 really takes a lot out of your mood, and completely takes over your life. Cause it’s not just 9-5, it’s 7-7 with the commute and getting ready. Then you only have 4 hours of free time if you need to get your full 8 hours to sleep. Sometimes it feels impossible!! But you showing what you’re going through makes me happy that I’m not the only one who feels like this!! We will get through this!!!

[@margarettelling6509]

Looking back at a your videos and its reminding me just how far you've come! What an amazing role model... you rock Brooke!

[@brooke6298]

don't feel bad for feeling sad or breaking down!!! i felt like this for so long after graduating college and starting a job. big changes require big adjustments and sometimes it takes awhile! you're juggling a lot and you're doing great :)

[@Chynabella1]

How you feel about KZbin and a desk job is how I feel about grad school and a desk job. Feeling stuck in the office while you have other things to do SUCKS especially when your work is done. And life is DEFINITELY expensive. Your rough patches are the most relatable I’ve seen on KZbin. Let it all out it’s all normal. You’ll get through it post grad is HARD.

[@SammieMcx3]

Brooke its OKAY to quit your 8-5....clearly your passions lay in being an entrepreneur and making your own rules and moves so if thats going to make you happy then please stop stressing yourself out and wasting your time at an 8-5!! You are in control of your life and if you feel like 9 hours of your life 5 days a week is being wasted then change that! I don't know what's holding you back but whatever it is won't be as bad as the benefits of doing what you really want!!! Love you and your vlogs and hope life gets easier for you soon

[@angeles7895]

I have been on the same boat as you since graduating in May and starting a new job in a new city and being on my own. I started going to therapy again and it’s been the best being able to talk to someone who is not at all close to me and can be objective. Continue being kind to yourself💕

[@eviemellors2905]

aw gal i felt your stress through this video! its okay to feel so overwhelmed and confused by what youre doing/your path. I really don't think you need to keep justifying and apologising for complaining. You're human and none of us are expecting you to be anything else. Sending you all the love

[@kristinnickoles6047]

Prayers to you Brooke!! So sorry for your father's friend, thank you to both of them for risking their lives to save others. You are so strong and such a hard worker!!!!!

[@castroguzmanangie]

You got this! And it is SOOOO ok to cry, don’t hold yourself back from crying just cry it out as hard as you want, you need to vent out girly!!

[@Meagananja]

Your videos are incredible. I always love when a new one is uploaded. You should speak to therapist. I have really bad anxiety and I found the simple act of speaking with a therapist about what’s going on is the reason I’m doing better right now. I’m here for you 💕

[@stephaniep6858]

Giiiirrl I felt this one hard. Last week was an extremely overwhelming week, well let's face it, everyday is when you work a 9-5 and go to school (yeah thats my life), and when I'm constantly hard on myself its even worse. It helps knowing I am not the only one who struggles on the weekdays, especially seeing every influencers perfect life on insta.

[@katiekati3138]

Thanks for sharing your emotions with us. I also worked a job I felt overwhelmed and unhappy most of the time and managed to find another job after 4 months there. Best desicion! I really love to watch your videos because they are always so genuine and relatable. Hope things will change for the better for you 💕

[@rissajaneen]

As someone who is a little bit older than you and remembers those days, you just have to suck it up, deal with it, and keep perspective. You're in the "hustle" stage of your life- hustle at work, side hustle to make extra money- and it's a lot somedays but you keep going. For me, I feel like I'm at the end of that hustle period- finally working a good job, own a house, don't worry about paying the bills, work remotely a couple days a week and have a ton of flexibility between work and life... and it finally feels easier for me after years of working two jobs, doing grad school, going all out to the point of exhaustion everyday. I hope you can get through the bad days because it means that there will one day be good days ahead :)

[@veronicag9230]

Love you Brooke. thank you for being so open with us. I always look forward to these vlogs because they aren't surface level and they're always relatable.

[@ChristinMWilson]

I haven't even started watching but a few minutes of your vlog, but I just want you to know that you are doing AWESOME! I'm so proud of you! You're going through a huge transition, plus going on and off hormonal meds probably isn't helping, but you will get settled, you'll get the hang of things, you'll feel more comfortable in this new chapter soon. Thank you for keep uploading your weeks of your life because they are so much fun to watch and hang out with you! You are doing great!

[@mariahbdancer]

This video spoke to me so so much. The stuck feeling, trapped, limits, feeling like you’re losing so much of your life. I started a new job two months ago and it was nothing like I thought it would be. We are creatives, we need flexibility, we need to be productive everyday and feel as through we are putting effort into our futures. I just put in my notice today (I am working two jobs, serving makes me way more money than this day ‘real’ job ever did) and gives me time to write my novel, continue to be a freelance photographer, start my blog and enjoy life. Do what’s best for you girl! You only live one life! ❤️ sometimes people think you have to have a 9-5 and that’s what adults have, but if you have a job that’s paying your bills and allowing you to save AND you’re loving life, then YOU know what’s best for you. Time to thrive!

[@kayleearnoldd]

These days make the good days feel THAT much better. You’re doin great girl!!! Thanks for being real!!

[@hayleyolson2316]

im having a bad case of the mondays today and getting notified about your video made my mood so much better! youre the best

[@AmySmith-km8zf]

Brooke, I am 43 and still "stuck" in the 8-5 "rat race". Although I'm discovering this later in my life I still feel as though I have time to live life on my own terms. Its completely ok to feel the way you feel. We can still like and have gratitude for our current jobs at the same time as having a goal of spending our days making a living on our terms. I just finished a highly recommended book ; "Rich Dad, PoorDad". It was extremely insightful, even for someone my age! It's not too late for me, and it's a perfect time for you! Best wishes!

[@monicalara1115]

Brooke my daughter went through the same as you when she started her life by herself in a different city and it took her 3 years to adjust and now she is very happy. Give yourself time.

[@rachelbrown2812]

Haven't watched yet but I'm going through the rough time myself...two jobs on top of 18 credits senior year of college. Yeah I'm stressed and pressed for time but some weeks are better than others and we'll get through it

[@TheJessicaTalks]

I’m a silent viewer but I just wanted to say this: I’m actually a 23 year old momma and I watch your videos all the time! They inspire me SO much. We’re going through different stages in our lives but you’ve inspired me to keep it going!!! I know you’re going through a tough time and I’m praying that you can destress! Whatever you choose to do..remember it’s YOUR life And you have to do what makes you happy! Hope you’ll feel better soon 💛

[@shellyjellybeanz]

I absolutely loved how real this was. I am going through hard stuff rn too and it was so incredibly helpful to see that no one is ever alone in how they are feeling ❤️

[@emmagawron]

therapy doesw really help brooke!! it's great to have someone listen to you for an hour and not talk about anything else but just to talk about you

[@jadelietz2071]

You are hands down my absolute favorite you tuber! You are always so real and so raw and I appreciate that so much. Keep posting!!

[@allisondaniels1459]

You’ve got this! I think it’s amazing to show the reality and struggles of real life and so many of us feel this way.

[@roseshoulders2127]

I LOVE your vlogs and have for quite some time but I don't always comment, but KEEP IT UP GAL. Last week I was so overwhelmed too that I cried in my 1:1 with my boss... Just needed a good cry! Sometimes you have to let yourself feel so overwhelmed for a little, then get back to it. We've really been going through the same shit lately so your vlogs really do help me since I still have an 8-5 schedule with school and work. Im graduating this year so I've really been trying to figure my shit out but watching you always helps! LOVE YA GAL

[@alisimmons2393]

Hi Brooke :) when I started my grad job as an engineer 18 months ago, I started to have doubts a couple of months in because I wasn't being challenged. After a while I would offer other people help to fill in time, so I ended up learning heaps of other roles, which means now that work has picked up, I can use all of that info to work super efficiently. So, maybe give it a bit more of a chance, and if you can, use the extra time for self development. Although, if you are asking for extra work and being ignored, the culture of the company could be the real issue, which unfortunately is unlikely to change even as you move up through the ranks. Good luck xx

[@melissaclementsfrank-heun3082]

I needed this, especially the long talks toward the end. I’ve been struggling since starting my first “big-girl” job as an RN after graduating from college in May. It is a hard adjustment and I’m glad I’m not the only one who is having a difficult time. It makes it feel a little less abnormal. I’ve had plenty of breakdowns throughout the past 4 months, so thank you for being open about your struggles too. I hope your good weeks continue to be more plentiful. We’ll all get through this and begin to grow into our new roles!💜

[@annasteyn8040]

Girl, I feel you on the feeling trapped in your 8 to 5 job. I don't even do KZbin, but after quiting my job last year to do post-grad, I have had the worst time to get back into the whole being at work for biggest part of your waking hours. It actually send me into quite a deep depression, and impacted every aspect of my life. I saw a therapist, which helped me a lot with coming to terms with with post-grad life really entails (even after I already worked for 6 years after my Bachelors degree). It is totally normal I think, and you will most definitely get through this. Good luck!!! Look after yourself.

[@jesslee2149]

Brook. I literally started work the same day as you after graduation and it can be so rough some days. I feel like post grad stress and anxiety is not talked about enough! Just know your not alone at all in your feelings!! I decided to reach out to a therapist about my work and life anxiety post grad even though I should be perfectly happy with the life I have. Some days I just sit in my car at lunch and cry bc I'm so overwhelmed and my leadership makes me feel like shit.Doesn't mean our feelings are any less valid bc we are young! Best of luck!!

[@kristenelise]

Sooo I related on this video in more ways than one. I’ve mentioned this before on one of your videos, but my boyfriend is a firefighter so seeing you talk about 9/11 just really hit me and got me emotional. I know how hard it is for them, and the trauma that comes with the job, but they truly are heroes and deserve all the recognition they can get. So thank your dad for all the service he did for us! It’s so appreciated! And also, I started working full-time almost 2 years ago, and I completely understand the feeling of being “stuck”. It’s a really hard feeling... I’d suggest taking one day at a time and finding time for self-care each day, whether it’s exercising, cooking dinner for yourself or meditating - whatever works for you! Also I would highly suggest seeing a therapist. I’ve been seeing one for almost a year (coming up this month), and it is the best decision I’ve ever made. I would get HELLA anxious (and still do sometimes), so I understand the feeling of not being able to breathe. Just know the feelings you have are sooooooo valid, no matter what anyone says - you are strong and you will get through this transition in your life. 💞

[@12890av]

THANK YOU for putting in your mini breakdown. I had one the other day because you can't return things in sephora stores if you purchase them using paypal.... The smallest things can push you over the edge, including a cold sandwich. :)

[@zzkeokizz]

Don’t worry. It’s hard to transition from school to work. In school you get plenty of feedback when ever you need it. Work is just about getting work done and performing for the good of the company. One thing you can do is keep asking questions and learning. You will rise in the ranks and when you do, remember how you feel now and realize that the people who are under you will feel like you do now

[@simplysarahbeauty]

Your videos have been so relatable Brooke, we all really appreciate the honesty! Hope you’re doing good today ❤️

[@EmmaClaire]

the whole starbucks situation made me feel so much better. last week i ordered sushi and i forgot to ask for no mayo and when i got it i literally broke down into tears and i felt crazy for that but ive been so stressed with school and work and it was comforting to know im not the only one struggling and i realized all feelings are valid! loved the vlog brooke ❤️

[@chepan83]

Hi Brooke! I've just started watching your videos, and I know this vlog was a few days ago, but I wanted to tell you that when I feel overwhelmed/anxious it helps to make a list. I always have one anyways, but it's like re-doing it and purging all the stuff I have to do on a paper (again) helps. The act of planning helps basically. I also take "me" time. I think it's so amazing how much you're doing (honestly trying to get on the train of podcasts and blogs/vlogs) but I think it's also important to set aside time during your week for just you. Maybe only do editing or podcast or youtube stuff on certain days? That way it's spread out until you feel more stable in life. I mean that in the fact that, you just started a job, are living farther from home, etc. and basically are undergoing a tremendous amount of change in such a short time. Recently, I've also found that cleaning helps or watching "clean with me" videos on KZbin (lol). I hope you feel less overwhelmed soon and I really have to commend you for taking the steps to talk with someone about how you're feeling!

[@melaniethomas5543]

i was having such a bad day and seeing that you uploaded automatically made me so happy. i can't tell you how refreshing it to watch someone who is REAL. we all have struggles girl and you're going to get through this :) xoxoxo

[@AndreinaVanessa]

It definitely is an adjustment. It takes some time and I 100% think you should do whatever you feel is necessary for your soul and well being. We love you and wish the very best for you ❤️