Worried about your AGE?

[@ksref]

I've never entertained the possibility of someone much younger (because even men my age don't seem commitment minded) BUT recently met a guy thats 16 yrs younger. Continually surprises me with his maturity, NEVER mentions the age gap himself. Has been very respectful. I always assumed a young man couldn't have good intentions towards an older woman. I'm happy to learn I've been wrong.

[@SusanWinter]

I resonate with everything you’ve written. 16 years has been the norm for me. I didn’t plan it. I didn’t look for it. They couldn’t care less about my age. And I had originally underestimated their capacity for partnership. I too was wrong. Isn’t this exciting to constantly learn new things about life

[@va7046]

​@@SusanWinter what bout younger men who lure you but are actually judgemental and dislike our old age etc

[@sherriflemming3218]

@@va7046 A manipulatior. Tell him to beat it!

[@sallybella8824]

​@va7046 yeah that's disgusting and abusive. Just confirm that that's what he really said meant and not your erroneous interpretation. So many people are just looking to be offended.

[@pnkrckmom]

​@@va7046What would be the point of this, though?

[@mariek4362]

Married in my late thirtys to a younger guy, who left me for someone young enough to be my daughter. Someone again, younger is so attracted to me now and I (59) am not able to go there again. I'll be in a rocking chair when he's retiring and wanting to travel. Tough when you get older. Age might not matter mid-life but, don't forget to look ahead.

[@rachelleking333]

That's what I'm concerned about, honestly wondering if I'll be single for the rest of my life.

[@ceilhall8626]

Thank you for this. You are so right about the issue with children. My ex-husband, who is 17 years younger, left after 17 years because he changed his mind about children, and I was 5 years post menopause (he left when i was 60). Unfortunately, he was unable to find the right partner who was young enough to want more kids. But he has no regrets about our 17 years together - we were shockingly compatible, happy, and are now good friends. Neither of us are dating. The world has changed. In my grandmother's and mother's time, women over 60 were never expected to couple again, and they moved on to other pursuits. And although it is nice that romantic partnership has become more available to women my age (69) today, it is also a confusing and alienating thing that women my age continue to seek a partner and pair off, because I am experiencing peer pressure to search for that kind of love again, and I am wanting to put my focus on companionship with friends. Also, most of my friends are men because I'm having a hard time finding a group of single women who want to hang out with each other instead of seeking a partner. And i think apps like Our Time and Silver Singles push that with only money as their goal. And they are getting that money while we women have that carrot and stick dangled in front of us at a time in our lives when we are probably better off enjoying relaxing time with friends instead of time in front of the makeup mirror fretting about how we will look naked in front of men with our wrinkles and thighs and lips that have lost collagen. Why spend the last 3rd of my life that way? And I am pretty and weigh only 120, so this is not because I can't get men - I just can't find any single older men who are compatible and share my values and are not chasing younger women because they dont like who they are and dont accept their own aging. Also, many men (except 3 of my male friends/companions) take awful care of themselves, and no, i definitely do not want to spend the last third of my life as a caregiver. My sister is one now, and she is miserable. A friend is remarrying at age 74 after 10 years as a caregiver to her deceased husband, and her fiance was just diagnosed with cancer. These are arguments for remaining single after 65 and enjoying a circle of friends. But it can be hard to find them if they are all looking for partners again. Again, why? It can be more trouble than living the way my elders did. But the movies and dating apps say otherwise. They are selling a fantasy that we will be young again with romantic love as our inspiration; meanwhile, I'm finding that there is more to life than that - more to do with our time and other experiences to explore.

[@pnkrckmom]

Well said.

[@turner2952]

Thank you, Ms. Susan, for bringing the "older woman, younger man" issue mainstream and more acceptable in society. This subject is the main reason I started following your channel. Thank you!!!

[@SusanWinter]

Hi Linda! It’s my pleasure! It’s such an important topic to talk about and very relevant

[@smokinnplatez1426]

​@SusanWinter why is it a double standard when I a man date a younger woman to date. I look online and there is a whole culture "cougars" who seek younger men. Many men will fuxk anything that looks half way decent.

[@real5823]

That's whats happening to me Susan 🤣! I love your channel 🔥! Thank you for sharing your pearls of wisdom with us 🙏!

[@SusanWinter]

Real- thank you for joining us and thank you for your support. Love your positive energy.

[@marmitch5056]

Great stream and great interactions. Truly a great mind

[@SusanWinter]

Thank you for watching and for such a nice compliment!

[@user-yt8hm4oc5r]

Hello Susan and Susanites, this is perfect timing for me I am dating a guy who is 21 years younger than me. I don't look my age, never dated a guy my age or older because no one ever asked me out. It always has been younger men, but 21 years gap. I am having a hard time, he is in late thirties

[@Tunderb]

People are more youth obsessed than health obsessed. Having a much younger husband I just only hope we can make each other happy for a long time in good health. P. S. I use IT Cosmetics though 😂

[@Nicole-zv7ee]

How much younger is he than you?

[@SusanWinter]

Great to hear this share and thank you so much. Wishing you both continued love and

[@Tunderb]

@@Nicole-zv7ee 16 years younger.

[@Tunderb]

@@Nicole-zv7ee not so far, he knows from the start that I never wanted children. He doesn't want either. By the way not all men want children, in my previous marriages none of my husbands wanted children (they were only 1 year older than me). I'm 44. So I knew from experience that there are lots of men out there who don't want children.

[@StellaPastLife]

Its very cutlural. i was considered too old in the UK at 40, I remember on apps after age 39 interest dropped off and therefore felt my age was an issue, but in Italy after moving there, they don't have age hangups. I've never had so much attention from all ages of men. it's been a revelation. I'm app free enjoying male attention. Even the guy at the supermarket in his 20's will tell you, you are beautiul!. Also have an Italian lover who loves my body, 10 years younger. What a compliment. move country ladies!

[@gabrieljamieson2726]

That's great

[@kelebeksky]

I am Spanish and age it's indeed a thing. Guys won't mostly commit to someone who's over 40 if they are young. Glad to hear your experience is different

[@arrobax6053]

Thank you my fabulous susan ❤ can you put the subtitles please? I m from belgium ❤

[@SusanWinter]

Oh yes. I think you can do that. I have it set to subtitles all the time. Let me check on that.

[@pychow13]

I'm stoked to hear that you are coming to Singapore, Susan!! 👏🥰 I'll for sure be looking out for your schedule updates and if time permits, be there to meet you in person. I've been following you for over a year now, and you have no idea how empowering, enlightening, and comforting your advice has on my love seeking journey in the mature years. Thank you!!! ❤

[@SusanWinter]

What a beautiful compliment! I would love to meet you if you have the time! It’s still a bit away but I’ll be sure to post updates

[@rachelleking333]

I'm 58 my husband passed away 6 years ago he was 11 years younger and we were together for 15 years since he passed I've dated only younger guys 15-25 years younger. Now that I'm getting to a point where I want something long term I don't know if I will find a younger man who wants that but I've not found any men my age that Im attracted to or interested in. How do I meet a younger man who's actually interested in a long term relationship with an older woman?

[@DramaScenes1]

Heyy, by chance would you like to be friends then? Im a 24 year old from the Caribbean and just thought it would be cool to connect with someone else to get a different perspective on things and just to vibe out.

[@a_bode1]

Please Susan, do stop by Sydney ❤

[@mannymurillo687]

"You and your friends wanna come have some drinks with us" you a True G FOR THAT 👍🦍👍🤙

[@SusanWinter]

Hi Manny. Thanks for that.

[@mannymurillo687]

@Susan Winter is this the real Suan Winter replying to me? Is this our Love Goddess ? The True G

[@BryanPablo6270]

Thank you for this Susan, and for helping me in the past with this related topic. Hits home for me. Love your helpful content and what everyone shared here, and seeing you here weekly! ❤️❤️

[@SusanWinter]

❤❤❤❤BRYAN! Thank you so much, dear man. Not just for your kindness and generosity but for all of your support and your ongoing warmth!!!❤❤❤

[@brego12317]

My ex is A-Sexual. We got along great but the non intimacy eventually got in the way.

[@SusanWinter]

Yes, John I understand. It is predominantly a part of the romantic model. However, people are changing. And I’m sure we will find asexual partnerships.

[@JOEYDEEZ369]

Hi Susan how’s you doing lovely one ! I am 55 years old and I am absolutely happy and so proud to have reached this fantastic age still feeling fit healthy and fabulous… I do not date younger men though I don’t think there’s anything wrong with this as age is just a number after all but for me it’s more of an intellectual thing… I find it very difficult to meet someone who matches me intellectually… See the issues Susan is my high intellect as it seems to put a lot of people off of me… it either makes ppl run for the hills like I’m some sort of monster coming after them to feast on their innards hahahaha or they overwhelmingly gravitate too much towards me and want to possess me and keep me in their pocket like I’m some sort of precious keepsake… See Susan’ ageing is not a problem for me because I’ve always relied on my intelligence charm and grace to get me ahead in my life not by using my looks and/or my body. I am better off alone I think and as a natural loner this suits me just fine ! Thanks Susan’ for this entertaining informative video You delivered your message very well indeed to the masses I say Take care ! Ttfn;)

[@aeiou0123]

My aunt is highly intellectual and has even published several best sellers. She married a well accomplished intellectual man. If you are that intelligent, why dont you mingle with folks at your level? Go to Galas, join intellectual clubs in your city, attend global conferences. There r plenty smart men to go around

[@Nicole-zv7ee]

Susan, what day/time do you usually live stream? I have some questions to ask you, but I always seem to miss the live streams.

[@SusanWinter]

Hi Nicole. 2 PM eastern time on Thursdays.

[@louiselouise8133]

Looking for a companion! Don't need the rest of it far too Much pressure

[@sallybella8824]

27:34 i was convinced of this myself. It was actually subconsciously kniwing better than to get into a relAtionship with another one whos values are so far from mine. Thats all. Until that happened my body was going to cooperate.

[@kathygautreaux8152]

Most men want younger women these days. They have been married multiple times and then they want much younger. Where are the men that want to date their age?

[@brego12317]

Hi Susan!

[@SusanWinter]

Hi John

[@vivinguyen7642]

Most younger guys don’t looking for older women unless she’s is rich & famous.

[@sethtenrec]

Our best partner could be “deciding what their sex is”? Seriously? I’ve been thinking this is a really good channel and you’re really practical but come on….? Maybe for some few that might be a good idea, but keep me out of other peoples problems.

[@91pinklipstick]

Lady ur single arent u ? Stop giving usess advice. No younger man would truly commit and stay committed to an older woman unless he needs a sponsor

[@evelynbarry5046]

What are you talking about. There are loads of younger men looking for older women. They have relationships, marry etc. What does sponsorship have to do with it? Most of these relationships are local. Stop watching 90 day fiance