Worried There's No Chemistry In Your Relationship? What to Do!

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Chemistry is that magnetic force that we all want to experience in our romantic relationships... but it's very easy to get overfocused on chemistry in dating, and especially in a long-term relationship.
Chemistry is a lot of fun. But it's not a reliable indicator of true, enduring love. In fact, intense chemistry at the beginning of a relationship can be a major red flag!
That's why it's important to understand chemistry, what it means, and what to do if you feel like that "spark" is missing.
Tune in to learn about:
- The biological roots of chemistry
- How chemistry can trap you in toxic relationships
- How to act in alignment with your true values
- How to cultivate chemistry in your relationship
- How to use this information when you're dating and find a good life partner.
I hope you'll join me, and that you'll find this discussion helpful
xoxo,
Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby
#relationshippodcast #datingadvice #toxicrelationships #healthyrelationships #relationshipadvice #emotionalintimacy #emotionalintelligenceskills

[@LoanPhan-r5m]

Wow! I advise for anybody to keep replaying @ 20+min time. This is so true. Let it soak in. Thank you so much.

[@DrLisaMarieBobby]

I'm so glad you found this episode helpful! xoxo, Lisa

[@rusinsr]

Two things that I wish you had covered: 1. Is it fine to get into a relationship that doesn't start with the feelings of chemistry? If you've never ever had chemistry with a person (but know you are capable of it / have had it before in life), does that mean the relationship is doomed to fail or that you and the other person have some primal incompatibility? 2. Is there ever a situation in which chemistry disappearing CAN be a signal that the relationship is flawed and won't work out? Otherwise the main message from this podcast just boils down to "It's normal that chemistry disappears. Don't worry about it, ignore it!" 😅 Other than that, I really enjoyed listening to your experience, thoughts, and knowledge about the topic. Thank you! :)

[@DrLisaMarieBobby]

@rusinsr this is SUCH a good question! Questions! These are thoughtful, and deserve a thoughtful response - like I think they deserve to be explored on their own podcast/video. Would you be willing to do me the great honor of recording your questions and allowing me to play them on an upcoming video? I wouldn't mention your name. If you'd rather not that's okay, I will just read your question. But here's the link if you're open to leaving me a voice memo: sayhi.chat/drlisa Thank you for listening and I look forward to hearing from you! xoxo, Lisa

[@brianbarrett192]

Both of us have anxiety! Sometimes, it seems like words get in the way. I think we like each other (I am actually quite quite smitten and hopeful!). But "chemistry" seems to be lacking. We are both somewhat reserved, other than talking. I have an idea for a 3rd date: doing something where we do not talk! We can communicate in other ways; looking at each other and expressing, touching, laughing. This is experimental. I have not been able to find any info on this idea anywhere on the internet. I think it could be fun and maybe cause a breakthrough, with low expectations of course. What do you think about this idea?

[@DrLisaMarieBobby]

I think this is an interesting idea and if you are both comfortable with trying it out, I'd love to hear how it goes for you!