I was nobody’s first option until I realize it was self-pity and lack of confidence. No one wants to be friends with someone who isn’t confident, as it’s not inherently attractive. Idk man it’s not too hard to make friends unless you look like a troll under the bridge. Just walk up to people who look like they share things in common with you. And don’t worry about it most of all.
@Gorillafairy5Ай бұрын
@@yeah_its_avery thankss❤
@Mattea-hx7ofАй бұрын
SAME😢
@sillie.editszАй бұрын
This is the reason I’m my own first choice
@Coltonishim12Ай бұрын
My friends do that to me all the time I feel your pain😅 😭
@ConfusedDessert-gn2ovАй бұрын
me too it makes me sad but I still play cause I don’t wanna be a bad friend
@Sincerely_ValeАй бұрын
same
@凯雅Ай бұрын
Yeah I do that all the time what about it? I text the first person I see so yeah
@凯雅Ай бұрын
@@Coltonishim12 :)
@nicko_editzzАй бұрын
then they are not real friends..
@yk_u_fw_kkАй бұрын
It’s ok, I’m no one’s first choice either😊 Edit: 3.3k?? Chatttt holy crap
@Lotta_Leben_on_pawzzzАй бұрын
Hi you are the first comment I answered on this vid
@yk_u_fw_kkАй бұрын
@@Lotta_Leben_on_pawzzz thank you
@Lotta_Leben_on_pawzzzАй бұрын
@@yk_u_fw_kk no problemmmm
@jjk_death_noteАй бұрын
I’m not even anyone’s choice
@Lotta_Leben_on_pawzzzАй бұрын
@@yk_u_fw_kk hello
@Grinch028Ай бұрын
For those who don’t know: The feeling is that he asked multiple ppl and he asked u the last saying I want to hangout with u, but he would rather hangout with other ppl It’s ok tho I’m never the first choice I’m probably 2 or last (: my bffs always talks in front of me how they are going to have a sleepover with their other friends and it going to be so much and sometimes I feel like they don’t like me
@IMLOVINIT123Ай бұрын
it’s ok shrek💚💚💚 💚💚
@minmo434Ай бұрын
same
@IMLOVINIT123Ай бұрын
@@minmo434 bro you sold the chain
@autumnnvibesxxАй бұрын
Let’s continue the chain
@autumnnvibesxxАй бұрын
it’s ok shrek 💚💚💚💚
@Macii-r2iАй бұрын
“Oh wait I forgot I only exist when your bored”
@ItsCinnaHereАй бұрын
That’s so true😭😭
@johnnchristinelau82Ай бұрын
That’s hits hard
@ImadeakidcryАй бұрын
Witerally dey just nawt sigma😔
@PxrmkАй бұрын
@@Imadeakidcry witerally hitting the gwiddy to my grave because no body wikes me ☹️😞😔💔💔💔
@Alexandria-410Ай бұрын
Exactly…..my friend was like “wanna hang out!?” And I’m like “sure!” I was bored and sad so it made my day but then she said “yeah harbor (my friend) said she wasn’t free to play and Izzy too so I was like Alexandria next lol” and my next reply was just “….”
@cakeycraftsАй бұрын
Fr it’s like your just left as an alternate option 😭
@nayagara_pho_phoАй бұрын
I read it as "shitting alone in my room" 😭😭
@DirtyclawsofficialАй бұрын
LMAO😭
@EndeerrmmaannАй бұрын
Bro got dyslexia
@K.Sorsat2025Ай бұрын
Me too😂
@nayagara_pho_phoАй бұрын
@@Endeerrmmaann nah I was js too lazy to read it at that moment
@JeanMckitrickАй бұрын
WHOOPS
@Freaky_Skeleton_3Ай бұрын
Fr 😭 like you don’t have to describe that they weren’t your first choice bro
@Yoursmileygirlari2 ай бұрын
“Lol” is the worst part bc yk they feel sad (I just looked at the likes tysm yall this is the most I have had!! 2nd edit: yall tysm fr like im shocked 3rd edit:tysm this is more likes than my videos
@Kassidy62811Ай бұрын
Yea
@presley.c112Ай бұрын
yea, but it think from this pov hes hurt bc he now knows hes the persons last option
@Easy-A.ErickaАй бұрын
wtf?
@presley.c112Ай бұрын
@@Easy-A.Erickawym
@popgpocket_p9906Ай бұрын
This could be both ways cause people could be saying they cant get on but in reality don’t wanna play with them so they’re genuinely asking if he wants to play since no one wants to play with them
@K.Sorsat2025Ай бұрын
I read it as "shitting alone in my room"? Who else?
@DuckygdtutiiАй бұрын
The fact reading these comments makes me open my eyes more. I’ve always thought they just want someone to play with. I never realized I’m their last option..
@hannahkirbyyАй бұрын
Exactly
@Tiya-o2iАй бұрын
Fr
@richess2160Ай бұрын
And who cares? They re are not your first option either
@hannahkirbyyАй бұрын
@@richess2160 what if they are tho?
@Themanhimself533Ай бұрын
Same 😂 all you can do is laugh off the pain
@DaughterOf-Apo11o_Ath3naa13 күн бұрын
But that feeling of relief when they say “It’s alright if you don’t wanna, I can always message [name] or [other name] or someone else.”
@avy1291Ай бұрын
Omg that is literally me I’m always the last choice 😭
@Nabi_babyeaterАй бұрын
Really? : )
@avy1291Ай бұрын
@@Nabi_babyeater yeah
@caroline_randomАй бұрын
My friend is always last and I feel so bad for her? Idk what to do. She’s so sweet and she’s not like weird or nerdy or anything so it really surprises me that she’s last.shes also like really funny and pretty. Idk what to say to her thooooo
@Detective6378Ай бұрын
Maybe cuz your usernames "SLAYYYYY1291 "
@chrisnorman9428Ай бұрын
@caroline_random plsss ask her on a date she prob the best for youuuuu❤❤❤❤❤❤
@Amelia-d5b17 күн бұрын
Ikr I have had this so many times I always feel I’m the last option to sustain their boredom…..
@Kazziel0vesallАй бұрын
But it’s the best feeling when you get texted first by someone who you always start the convo with
@ReinaslaysАй бұрын
Real
@THAT_ONE_POTATO78Ай бұрын
frrr
@UrBasicCloudiАй бұрын
Yea and then they crush my heart like this lol
@izzy5386Ай бұрын
it happens everyday im sick of it. im always the last thought so ik how it feels 😭💔
@pinkangelrobloxАй бұрын
It’s okay 🥰 I’m no one’s first choice either 😜
@judy-r5183Ай бұрын
Same 😂
@meq1612Ай бұрын
I am! Literally ONLY for tutoring… I guess it’s reasonable, I’m pretty okay at math, I have good English, and I speak and give examples well, but I just want someone to want ME sometimes, ya know?
@pinkangelrobloxАй бұрын
@@meq1612 good for u ig
@Revv2024Ай бұрын
@@meq1612I get it and I’m sorry you feel that way that’s not okay
@AlwaysskibidifaeАй бұрын
”No one likes me anyway.. heh😅”
@YourPookieEms-13Ай бұрын
My best friend of 8 years, she has a new friend she is great and all but sometimes acts kinda weird around me bragging when they do stuff together. My best friend we can call her Jessy, texted me “ hey pooks wanna call nobody else wants to call and I’m sooo bored” I replied with sure and then we start calling and I’m like silent bc I was thinking and she was talking abt her being over at her new friends and low key bragging and then I blurted out “ so I’m just your last option?” We haven’t talked in a few days sorry it’s long- ✨
@AshlyncrazyvideosАй бұрын
POV: your a persons last option My pov: no one talks to you and you just don’t matter … lol
@equinesocietyАй бұрын
For real. All day at school no one talks to me unless they need something from me which is very rare.
@AshlyncrazyvideosАй бұрын
@@equinesociety yes
@ShrillTouchedGrassАй бұрын
@@equinesociety"need to know basis" 😔
@LaylaTyler-j8eАй бұрын
Real.
@Taken_TokenАй бұрын
@@equinesocietycan you send me 20
@lowkey_kadyАй бұрын
the fact that u get so happy then realize what they were doing is so hurtful 😓
@AM-AveryАй бұрын
similar thing happened, my friend said “you wanna hang out, no one else responded”
@شهود55Ай бұрын
thats what happens to me every time they keep ignoring me but ik they read it
@Taken_TokenАй бұрын
Wanna hang about? No one else responded
@Luna178-PАй бұрын
Same, my two friends and i are a trio but they are also a duo 😢
@Bruh-qd4duАй бұрын
Same thing happened with my bff, she used to ask me if we wanted to play cod or something. Now she never asks and barely talks to me, turns out she moved onto some other guy and still says “I love you and still care about you” which I can’t believe anymore. I’m sorry for venting guys, it just hurts
@lolasmmАй бұрын
@@Bruh-qd4du i think it’s just a communication problem, mb talk to her about your feelings
@gracerose4272Ай бұрын
I understand, I just turned 20. I havnt seen my best friend since I was 15. It feels like it’s been like a month. But it’s been half a decade. I miss you L.
@Yourgirly1010Ай бұрын
It’s okay the same thing happened to me 😢
@Bruh-qd4duАй бұрын
@@lolasmm I did, she still treats the other guy better. She says “I’m sorry” but still treats him better anyways and barely talks to me
@lolasmmАй бұрын
@@Bruh-qd4du oh, that must be frustrating. Idk if u can do something more, good luck with ur friend 🫶🏻
@Raelynn2848Ай бұрын
The feeling of being the last to be asked to do something only bc everyone else said no I feel u bro 😊😭
@WhoIsMalenaaАй бұрын
why is no one talking abt the hair 💀💀💀💀💀
@ur.favmellllАй бұрын
exactly😭😭
@pretty.face.teao.oАй бұрын
Because it’s not about the hair u watch other things then go to the comment and are prob like “why is nobody talking about the actual video” like it’s just hair
@JamothegamerАй бұрын
What’s wrong with his hair it’s
@LLondynsLifeАй бұрын
Happened to me today, my friend called me bc no one else pick up she told me she called 4 ppl😢
@Lanlum15Ай бұрын
Basically, if you don’t get it, you’re the last one they texted and also they don’t want to play with you as much as all the other people
@Jesus-Loves-You-kАй бұрын
Everytime I ask my bsf if she wants to play overwatch with me she says "can't sorry. I'm playing comp with a friend" and I say "oki :)" but in truth it hurts. I've asked her if she wants to play a lot recently and she's either too busy, just got off or is playing with someone else :( and I feel selfish for getting my feelins hurt over it
@xHai_TwxnklesxАй бұрын
@@Jesus-Loves-You-kNo one should ever feel selfish over getting their feelings hurt. You worth it, just remember that.❤ Praise the lord!🕊️
@Jk-vp5xlАй бұрын
Ouch that hurts and it hurts even more cuz it’s relatable 💔
@camisurbestieАй бұрын
and its always that person who i always loom forward to see
@Ella.RobloxxАй бұрын
I get this too I’m no one’s first choice and if you don’t get it go you. Because it’s the worst feeling when they say, “hey can you hang out everyone’s busy” (I took that directly from a message) or when they said I had a really fun time in front of you when they already know you went invited
@Strawb3rry_M3ll0w09Ай бұрын
this is so fr. like literally even ppl say im just the backup for everyone with everything
@THEFUNNYCHANNEL1220Ай бұрын
I hate that feeling when your the last one your friend asked 😢 it’s like they hate you
@Onlypookiesknow472 ай бұрын
Literly all my friends
@Xreal_bellaXАй бұрын
yeah its so relatable and sad cuz like if im just a second or last choice why r yu gonna even attempt to ask?..
@downtownbookloverАй бұрын
it’s worse when they only text to say “i’m bored” or “you wanna come *** everyone else is busy”
@lifewith.sara05 күн бұрын
I read it as "shitting along in my bedroom" hahaha
@CarleyJones-i3v2 ай бұрын
This is literlly what happened to me today I was asked to play a sport i actually play and the person says "yo wanna play basketball with me everyone else said no" Like whats that supposed to mean You calling me a loser or yourself?! Bsfr 😭😭
@PremaLinkLLCАй бұрын
They could be trying to use that to try to make u feel bad for them so they have a friend :D
@SpookyElleАй бұрын
The sadness hits hard when you hear “no one else” knowing you were their last option…
@lils2pretty4uАй бұрын
He looks like the most precious,perfect gentleman. He’s looks so sweet..💓
@SkyWatchAviationАй бұрын
One of the best feelings ever when your board and a friend texts you
@A.U.B.R.I.E52 ай бұрын
Real like y just y if I’m your last option then just leave me alone
@Ballpython_loveАй бұрын
This is so true sadly
@lilywillyskzАй бұрын
bro fr like every time i ask my friend to play she goes “no im playing with ___” and the only times she asks me to play she says “wanna play? none of my friends are on” and then the middle of us playing she’ll randomly say she has to go and i’ll see her playing with one of her other friends. :/
@breyanahfrancis9525Ай бұрын
we can play
@lilywillyskzАй бұрын
@@breyanahfrancis9525 thank you
@solar_potatoАй бұрын
damn i’ve experienced somewhat things like that…
@lilywillyskzАй бұрын
@@breyanahfrancis9525 thank you
@lilywillyskzАй бұрын
@@solar_potato i’m sorry;(..
@ahadplays9201Ай бұрын
I still enjoy it tho....even though its heartbreaking
@Saniya_berealАй бұрын
For people who don’t understand.Before they asked him to hop on they asked everyone else and he was basically their last option ❤
@Animallover-32Ай бұрын
Ty (*ˊᗜˋ*)ᵗᑋᵃᐢᵏ ᵞᵒᵘ
@Saniya_berealАй бұрын
@@Animallover-32 ywww
@NilayaMohammedАй бұрын
Fr❤😢 I feel this way around my friends
@vfxzayАй бұрын
what’s worse is when u try inviting everyone because you wanna play with someone but they don’t accept so you just turn the game off
@SilentSpy-h2hАй бұрын
U just said the other person pov
@Exot1cGrootАй бұрын
It's the worst feeling when ur friend says "hi, bye." Whilst ur typing and excited to talk to them
@thecoolgirlNyiАй бұрын
If you don’t understand read this.. He/she said do you wanna play because no one else wants to play He/she said no one wanted to play which means your their last option Most likely means they rather hangout with other people But it’s ok being the last option because mostly it’s not what you think ❤ Hope this helps💗💗
@Me_you-forusАй бұрын
I feel u i had some fake friends but i dropped them they don’t deserve me
@Gam1ngPhaseАй бұрын
Don’t worry, I get it. Sometimes I’m not even an option 😄
@callmerxseАй бұрын
I have had this happen so many times before, I don’t understand why people don’t like me… 😖🥺😞
@Thesauceboss465Ай бұрын
"No"😭
@Dailyload15 күн бұрын
Not the first choice I feel you❤
@christinaR2009Ай бұрын
I'm used to this by now. my two best friends are dating, and my other friends are closer to eachother than me. I'm nobody's first choice. not even with my siblings. my older sisters have eachother and my two brothers have eachother. I dont have anyone
@breyanahfrancis9525Ай бұрын
we can b friends
@christinaR2009Ай бұрын
@@breyanahfrancis9525 aww, thx!
@DiyaDalbАй бұрын
You have your mum and dad, they'll always be there for you❤❤❤
@silonical5710Ай бұрын
Dang I’m sorry to hear that :(
@Amelia12345-oАй бұрын
My friends do this all the time it’s ok it happens to other people to just keep your head held high
@IAMBIBLEEEEEEeeEeE2 ай бұрын
Real (happened so much last year so this year I cut them off as much as I could. I saw them today, walked passed cuz I ain’t gon talk to them, I don’t have any grudges or anything against them rn I just don’t want to talk to them bc I was always her second choice as a friend so🤷♀️) EDIT: anyways this year I don’t think I’m anyone’s second choice bc I have taught myself to not take bs from people.
@solar_potatoАй бұрын
so who are you friends with now?
@IAMBIBLEEEEEEeeEeEАй бұрын
@@solar_potato With other people in my grade, that don’t treat me like a second choice
@Simply_IrieАй бұрын
For people who don’t understand, he was the last friend to be picked
@izzyagnello2 ай бұрын
The last option
@G0ds_cousin-u1h19 күн бұрын
For people who don’t get it, the person or his friend texted him because all his other friends didn’t want to play meaning he was his last option😢
@FlowersgraveАй бұрын
Im trying to express myself in the best way possible, but it's not worth it they're like this. You deserve better :(
@RizwaanahLorgatАй бұрын
For any1 who doesnt understand...when he wrote the text it said 'no one else wants to play' basically showing he's the last option
@Ev1L992Ай бұрын
stop bro rlly said “ 😈” 💀🙏🙏
@ItzzzzEmiiiАй бұрын
Especially when they say your my last chance/choice 😢
@OrangeTurtle999Ай бұрын
Telling people they're worth it 49/100 ❤
@Your.fav.random.editorАй бұрын
WHY DO ALL THESE VIDEOS MAKE ME FEEL LIKE MY FRIENDS DONT CARE ABOUT ME I NEVER THOUGHT THIS UNTIL IT WAS TRENDING😭
@colorfulpixieworld8054Ай бұрын
This feeling hits the worst even knowing that your their last opinion.. is just sad 😞
@LizzylikesartАй бұрын
That literally does hurt the most whenever you notice you were the last choice to hang out with
@AK-PLAYSАй бұрын
it’s even worse when they say lol..
@Simply_Edits1Ай бұрын
Exactly! (The other day my bsf was team captain for volley ball and I never got picked so they said I couldn’t play cuz it wasn’t even)
@solangelo.cabin13Ай бұрын
Fr getting excited when you finally get a text from your best friend who complains that all of her friends are busy.
@sharisextonАй бұрын
For those who don't know: His friend asked other people first instead of him. So he was his friends last choice..
@rubyrateditsАй бұрын
realistically true because I’m always the last choice 😢
@Biggest-fandomАй бұрын
This is relatable on so many levels ❤
@Jailynn_20Ай бұрын
i feel the pain. i’m always the last choice in certain situations 😔
@Coquettegirl64220 сағат бұрын
I felt like this in so many different ways 😢
@Legends-clipzz29 күн бұрын
Worst feeling when you are their last hope and they say it straight up like that
@I_like_breaddАй бұрын
hey, i understand this feeling, im always the last choise because apparently im the ugly,overthinking, dumb person. Dont worry, i understand.
@DontlookanymoreАй бұрын
i felt this hard… i got invited to go river rafting with my friend just us. i said “i thought u would invite lucy haha!” she said “i invited like 5 others but they all couldn’t and i didn’t want to go alone so i asked u” i was silent for a lil while trying not to cry
@theonlycommenter-b9oАй бұрын
Feels so annoying when someone just says that like am I ur last option?..
@Kittygirls3Ай бұрын
'your nobody's first choice' is thing im feeling rn
@Its_yogirl_bellsАй бұрын
It's so true...I feel your pain I'm always second or last choice now...especially now since I'm in highschool...😭😭😭...my friend slammed my locker today and I had a locker mirror and it broke and fell on the ground when I opened my locker...I took two of the broken pieces home because it's how I feel... broken and alone😭😭😭
@StartlixxАй бұрын
He didn't want to play with you..... But he had no one else.... Feel so bad for the ppl that go through this😢😢 And reading the comments make me heartbroken 😭😭😭
@Idk-h1j4fАй бұрын
I am never no one’s first choice either🥺😅🤪
@Delta007YTАй бұрын
being the replacement is one of the worst feelings alot of people have
@vqxzneАй бұрын
Knowing that ur the back up friend is the worst f*cked up feeling ever
@theofficaluwu_gachaАй бұрын
My dyslexic ahh read that as:my mom friend sends me a text
@ArabellaSmith123Ай бұрын
Aawww yeesss so relatable my friends r always leaving me out and it makes me feel sad and angry 😢😢😢
@xxpaperstarsxxАй бұрын
pov: ur the backup friend…
@GiggleShxtterАй бұрын
Yea I feel you my friends really only call me when they need a third person...
@Maybe0miАй бұрын
It makes the pain hurt more when they're your first choice
@Ilovecatsandcinnamonroll17 күн бұрын
All the time… I feel like I only have 1 true friend….
@Random_Content3Ай бұрын
Yea.. I can relate. It really hurts when its your bestie😔🫤
@reckelixirАй бұрын
Bro this to damn relatable 😂
@Em_loligАй бұрын
well i always think that "at least i was a choice"
@Mia_moon_mushroomАй бұрын
This is the most relateable thing I’ve ever read lol
@ThatCatPiperАй бұрын
literally always that or “what was our homework” and “do we have any tests tomorrow” like why do i only exist when you need smthn😭💀
@Random_sigma_girl247Ай бұрын
Omg that is the worst feeling ever tho 😢😢
@JoellepoopАй бұрын
Especially when they say no one else wants to 😢
@autumn22622 күн бұрын
Omg god that’s actually so sad I would be crying because I’m probably everyone’s last choice 😭