Would You Break up with Someone for Gaining Weight?

[@queenwizzard1853]

If a guy messaged me and I responded then changed all his photos and messaged me again saying they were fake I wouldn’t respond again. NO not because of his looks BECAUSE HE LIED NOT A GREAT WAY TO START CONVERSATION.

[@no-mc2lv]

u look like sssniperwolf

[@cheeseofcheddar5296]

You got that commercial to

[@MrJC-sz6dh]

QueenWizzard you ugly hahahahahhahahhah

[@desnutz901]

I told a girl I was a Piolet in the Air Force. I lied. I told her the truth after a week though that I was Security Forces and lived on base. She never spoke to me again.

[@AtheismProd]

Yeah right bitch thats just your cop out

[@teddymarian9416]

*They weren't being honest.*

[@JimmyStruthers1000]

Teddy Marian lol nope😂😂😂

[@teddymarian9416]

Yomama Bin Fartin omg your name 😍 Rogerrrrr

[@JimmyStruthers1000]

Teddy Marian hahahahhah YES😂😂😂🤙🏽 American dad is the best

[@thelegendkillersshittyduff1335]

Teddy Marian humans not being honest Wht a shocker humans r utter pos so

[@ohyeahyeah8690]

Tbh who would go to pretty clothes makeup to a bit unhealthy I just wouldn’t believe it plus the pictures look older not hating but wouldn’t believe it

[@JustAFace_InTheCrowd]

I would dump her for catfishing me, not gaining weight. Liars come in every size. She should have made a separate account with her before photos and another with her before and tried to see what the differences between the accounts were.

[@Anyre.]

Cupcaek agreed

[@jrams1328]

Cupcaek I agree , that idea would have been much better

[@sasha3116]

You guys should watch the full video before you comment. It was just like a social experiment but through tinder. It wasn’t bad at all

[@Girlhead]

Exactly. She should have done two totally different profiles.

[@allieloulou85]

... You guys should try to watch her whole video on her channel. I'm not the type of person who debates on the Internet but at least try watching her video about it.

[@Gina-Montana]

I watched the original video in its entirety last week. NONE of the guys were rude to her when she revealed her “obese” pictures. Only one stated it wasn’t cool to use them as a guinea pig. However, SHE was the one saying “oh wait, is he cute?” “Oh wait, I need to see if he is cute first”. Like, really???????

[@learning.growing.1017]

fuhgetabouddit ehh, it's an experiment .

[@11aaa33]

Praise Be To YAH and His SON pff excuses

[@emaleighcoreyann3752]

fuhgetabouddit well one unliked her

[@ohyeahyeah8690]

YEAHH I HEARD THAT TOO

[@breanna2514]

i'm with you. Guys are jerks doing it but girls can? come on really, how about we stop judging looks. I'm very thin and people tell me because I am I have it easier and that I'm basically not allowed to be insecure. We all just need to stop. Big or small. Man or woman.

[@pamm5]

My husband married me at my heaviest. And 4 kids later, I’ve actually lost 40lbs.

[@user-qh6jy6nf2t]

Padra Ann Maria

[@user-qh6jy6nf2t]

Padra Ann Maria bet you guys are a cute couple

[@andrewcarson6925]

Padra Ann Maria I have a boyfriend he loves ME for ME I love him for him our anniversary is in June and we are getting a new house if he gained weight I wouldn't break up with him we would work it out we both will be working out together

[@TheDims03]

mayb he likes big girls and if u lose the weight he might lose intrest

[@sweetiecrisp2146]

Padra Ann Maria awesome!! I've lost nearly 2 stone. I'm 14 and I haven't eaten junk food in 8 months, candy chocolate, fries, pizza, all that stuff I haven't touched in ages best decision I've ever made.

[@camas77721]

I would absolutely dump someone for gaining weight. It’s fucked up for one person in the relationship to let themselves go and expect the other to not feel a way about it. And it’s not fair at all to shame people for feeling that way.

[@harryspencer7659]

Agreed, it just shows pure laziness and no self care at all, like they shouldn’t expect someone to be ok with that

[@voluntarism335]

someone being fat looks bad and is repulsive

[@VixenVilleInge]

Come on, that's not a representative poll. As doctors you should know about the social desirability bias. When it comes to subjects like this, many people give the answer they think would make them look better. I'm not a pessimist, but as a curvier woman on the dating scene, the reality is a lot bleaker than it's represented here.

[@notneeded5756]

Inge Gierts curvy = fat

[@lajonae1896]

Not Needed not necessarily

[@leanture3685]

yes it is. curvy = fat

[@lajonae1896]

WCUK Radio nigga shut the fuck up

[@qhyirrghsteinne3109]

I agree I bet some of those people who voted “no” lied

[@sarahelizabeth8429]

I am a big girl not skinny at all. Yes i am overweight ( I am working on it and eating better and feeling better to lost 30 pounds so far) My boyfriend is skinny 120 pounds we been together almost 6 years. He doesn't mind that i am big, i always been big. He does not see a problem with it, he says they are just more of me to love. I told him i wanted to lose weight for me not for him. And he helps me works out with me, things like that. He didn't want me to lose weight to please him. That makes me happy because now a days that is rare.

[@kaiteeet7325]

Sarah Elizabeth omg! Where’d you find him?

[@sarahelizabeth8429]

tina church well 2011 we met on Facebook on this group. We had so much in common We both are Christians and we’re going to the same Christian festival. We ended up meeting up there together hung out became friends for a year in 2012 we started dating. It just was a very amazing connection love at first sight. He told me he didn’t care if I was big or if I was skinny he would love be regardless. That’s rare to find now.

[@-karisma]

Hope things work out well for you's two, good-luck.

[@luisab7901]

120 pounds wow

[@yvonnelasten7424]

Sarah Elizabeth awww😍♡

[@bastaudio]

Some people don't realize how much their relationship was based on looks until they see their partner go through a change like weight gain. You can say you'd never leave a partner because of weight gain but until you've seen that happen right in front of your eyes you really don't know. In addition to weight gain there's usually a psychological impact and sometimes the person you say you'll never leave changes and it's like they're a different person in personality and appearance.. I'd guess that makes it easier. I've never broken up with anyone because of weight but I can understand the other side of that whole thing. I don't think it's excusable to do to someone, especially someone who cares about you.

[@ashleyjohn7438]

When I was single and on a dating app I only went for the men who had lean physiques, & those who valued health. Why bc I wanted someone to share my healthy goals w. It’s easier to be healthy when a person is on the same page.

[@cindyjohnson599]

Ashley John so what happens when your body gets older or possibly unhealthy or starts to change because of the time of life you’re in ( menopause) wouldn’t you rather be with someone that excepts you for who you are despite your outer appearance? I know it’s hard for you to imagine now because you’re young but as you age even with all the plastic surgeries in the world you still will start to look old and your body will still change. if you live your entire life on focusing on what your outer body looks like someday you’re going to be miserable...... please don’t get me wrong I think being healthy and working out and doing the best you can to stay healthy is very important but sometimes life happens sometimes accidents happen or health issues happen that keep you from being as physically fit as you’d like to be... just sharing a little wisdom from this grandma 😊❤️

[@yairasevilla7456]

Except a lot of young men and women with lean bodies, muscle, or "look healthy", don't necessarily mean they're healthy. You can eat be a skinny person but also anorexic. You can have muscles with a bad diet. You can have great skin from genetics but you eat sour cream dipped hot Cheetos twice a day with 2 cups of soda. Don't be fooled🙃🙃

[@Upper_echelon_exotics]

yaira navarro Yum. I don't usually like spicy chips but that sounds good. Lol.

[@goldspirit5092]

Cindy Johnson my mother used to be a model. She hasn't aged since. People keep thinking she's a college student or my sister. She is a raw vegan and she exercises in the daily basis. She's going through menopause and haven't gained weight due to being determined to stay healthy. She won't let menopause take over her body like that. If you have the right mindset to stay healthy, you can beat the side affects of age. She had me and my sister and still managed to lose the pregnancy weight within the same year. Her metabolism has slowed down obviously, but she had to change her eating habits to keep up with it.

[@Upper_echelon_exotics]

Alejandro Andretti Wow. Your issues are showing.

[@BobSmith-pi5eq]

Yea that stuff about what is on the inside; this is an app where you pick people based on profile picture; the men are blatantly saying what they think you want to hear.

[@MrKundu-vp7td]

My ex boyfriend had problems with me gaining weight. And many others too. So we broke up and I started a relationship with foods now! And I'm happy!☺😊

[@bobbiekincaid1843]

Ms Nandalal kundu I was engaged to a woman who was slightly heavy we broke up because she cheated she went from 170 pounds when I knew her to 450 pounds 20 years later

[@kynslieb2220]

Ms Nandalal kundu slay queen

[@unknownunknwon480]

u are happily dying of obesity

[@icanugget6267]

You're ex is stupid . Gainning weight doesn't change a person you're still the awsome you . Be a woman with a beautiful mind , a pure heart and with a bright smile

[@seanmorse227]

cheez curls except you get with someone because you are attracted to them physically as well emotionally and people tend to gain weight because they feel comfortable my ex before we got together sent a bunch of sexy pictures and what not but when we started dating no more pics and when I asked she said I already have you I don’t have to reel you in more so it’s not a stupid reason it should be a wake up call

[@chelseajohnson1388]

yess who clicked because of Crystal?!?

[@Pink_Chanel_Princess]

Chelsea Johnson me!!!

[@lh5655]

Honestly, I would dump her for lying. This wasn’t a great test. She could’ve made a profile with just her old pics, and message the guys she was talking to before. That’s a good experiment.

[@ashleynctzen4095]

I think it depends on how much weight they gain. Sure if they gain 50 lbs or even more it could be fine, but if they are like 300 lbs and let themselves go, things will start going downhill.

[@bruuh3130]

BTS' 8th member i doubt 50 pounds or more would be fine🤷🏽‍♂️ unless they go from skinny to a good thick or something

[@cristinagusatu6323]

I have 169 and 6 fett 5

[@sabrinajacobs161]

I’ve been pretty athletic my whole life, so if my partner gained weight I would try and encourage them to be healthier. However I usually go for guys who are already into fitness. It’s easier to be with someone who shares the same passions and lifestyle as you do. It wouldn’t make sense for an athletic, marathon runner who eats healthy all the time, to be with a couch potato who eats nothing but fast food. I feel like that would just cause conflict. People also want to be with someone they’re physically attracted to, not just mentally. This “it’s what’s on the inside” is just BS. Yes, what’s on this inside matters but do you really think people aren’t going for physical attraction when they look for partners? I mean that’s why you post a pic of yourself on dating apps in the first place. Let’s stop pretending like preferences are shallow when literally everyone has preferences.

[@casuallym3]

Yes ❗️

[@Xavieremb1984]

At first I though you were a guy but I saw the name and OMG. 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 respect to you for saying it like it is.

[@JohnDoe-zz7on]

Truth. Yep, that's why pics are so important even before meeting someone. Let's not kid ourselves. Stay fit please.

[@grindmodepaul6145]

This shit right here 👆

[@richardturk7162]

How shallow. Thats not the point of the question that was asked.

[@pppppplll780]

If a guy wont love me when im at my worst he does not deserve me at my best.

[@pppppplll780]

HairyPottery how would u know if im at my best stupid. U dont even know me mtfu

[@PimpMatt0]

ppp ppplll I'm sure you wouldn't hold that same standard for men.

[@uber1ns4n1ty8]

ppp ppplll so what he should carry you around when you get obese and when you die of a heart attack in your mid 30s hes left alone with children, yea no thanks hes right to break up unless you do something about it...

[@EmilyGloeggler7984]

@@uber1ns4n1ty8 No, that type of men is expendable. Rarer is the man who cares about personalilty first over looks. They are the man worth keeping and yes, they DO exist, albeit in the ever-increasing minority.

[@SPACEDOUT19]

@@EmilyGloeggler7984lol, women are far more “shallow” than men, men are less picky cause they have less options

[@KarinMichelle]

My BF & me both gained weight and he’s more loving and around more than he ever was before after 8 years together. And now we wanna both lose weight together!

[@user-qh6jy6nf2t]

Karin Michelle

[@PS2bootupsound]

Karin Michelle That’s real love.

[@kalyanikadam]

All the best

[@glenncoco6676]

Merry him already

[@brokendolly06]

I got broken up with for gaining weight due to clinical depression and anxiety. Two years on, I’ve dropped a 100lbs, I’m married, I have a great job and I’m the process of buying a house. It hurt at the time but was the best thing that ever happened to me! 🙌🏻

[@fonjadidi]

my partner and I both gained weight, and then we both lost it to be healthy.. its important to support and help eachother.

[@ellieray7342]

I was a gym junkie before i got pregnant.. and when I was pregnant I gained weight, obviously because I was pregnant, was put on strict bed rest because I was a high risk preggy. Blood tests were taken and it also turned out I suffer a thyroid issue and it was the type that made me gain weight (hooray -_-) . Which sucks. Some people don't need to eat their ass off to gain weight or get fat..as I couldn't keep food down and still gained weight (thanks thyroid) And yes there is medication but it is harder to lose weight when having a bad thyroid. But I am going back to diet and exercise. Think before you judge people.. They could be severely depressed, have a medical issue, or they could be on their weight loss journey or they could just be lazy and eat like shit. Don't bring people down and if you're going to leave someone for gaining weight, at least have a badass physique yourself before you expect the other person to have one. I do admit it is hard to stay on track with my bf eating like shit.. But, he is who I love. I would at least talk to him if he ever started getting to a weight that I felt was dangerous or I'd help him out. Leaving without addressing the issue or at least offering help would just mean YOU'RE a shitty person. They'd be better off without you.. and you'd probably end up with an asshole of a person because.... karma.

[@EmilyGloeggler7984]

Those guys who judge and reject a woman on her weight deserve no one. Same for women who judge and reject a guy based on his weight.

[@thedominationer3070]

Actually, it's hard to value someone if they don't appear to value themselves.

[@EmilyGloeggler7984]

@@thedominationer3070 That's inaccurate, for there are thin people who do not value themselves and yet people try to reassure them. They can lead just as unhealthy lives - smoking, starving themselves, addicted to pornography or unnatural sex practices, huffing, and other various forms of addiction, etc. There are simultaneously people who appear to the shallow as fat and to shallow people's minds, they "don't appear to value themselves" when the truth is they are not valued as highly as thin people EVEN if the thin don't value themselves. Hypocrisy and shallowness at some of its worst. I myself am large due to being exposed to pharmaceutical drugs which affected my hormones despite my eating healthy, eating little, doing dancing, etc. I have had nasty people like you who judge me without even taking the time to know me. Thank God for my husband when he came along, and he loved me for being genuine and my soul. That to him is infinitely more important, and let's be accurate - that is the truth. At least, he saw value in me, when shallow people do not.

[@voluntarism335]

Weight is something you can control, height shaming is not acceptable but telling someone that they can lose weight is.

[@brittanybaker3386]

I would never break up with my boyfriend for gaining weight. I love him so much and there is nothing that would make me not be attracted to him anymore.

[@bloodbrs4773]

If i love a girl, no matter what happens to her i will still be always her side & keep loving her forever.

[@ericalopez8438]

If you truly love someone you start to find them attractive in certain ways. Atleast for me. Others might not think they’re attractive but to you they’re a really beautiful attractive person because you know they’re qualities. But when you first meet someone without knowing anything about them I believe most people base them off looks because that is how the human mind works. That’s why dating sites are mostly based off looks and that persons overall interests.

[@jenpw1525]

I once had a guy that was so afraid of his girlfriends gaining weight that he wanted me to sign a "don't get fat" contract to be with him. Buh bye! Dump!!!!!

[@moose6459]

jen W he dodged one ugly bullet

[@Drtoshiba]

Ken Kaneki who hurt you

[@jenpw1525]

Ken Kaneki - wow, you just called me ugly. This shorty knows she’s a cutie, so...

[@moose6459]

jen W Probably feared your delusions more than gaining weight

[@uber1ns4n1ty8]

jen W that was the best fake story ive herd in a long time...a fucking "dont get fat" contract...i mean come on...

[@18victorjr]

So I've been with my husbon for 12 years and for half of that I was Small at 130 pounds but I gained weight with stress and kids I'm at 200 pounds now but trying to loose the weoght but still together and i don't think he Would leave me for that!! But there is guys who just care of the physic of a person so much that they're willing to break there heart!

[@18victorjr]

Vanda Dy Agree and i Know for a fact that he sees and even thinks of other girls he is a guy after all...but that's whats my motivation to loose the weight and look good for him!!! He is a good looking guy and I'm sure if he wanted to, he would of had other girls but he loves me for me and not my body lol

[@ad7633]

Go plant based! Both of my parents lost over 30 pounds in around 6 months without even trying, while eating plant based foods!

[@18victorjr]

A Dee thank you😊 I just stopped eating and drinking soda, bread, sweats, and cutting down on meal size and it has worked but will defenetly look into plant base foods😊

[@jovonajosephine9975]

Same here girl. I been with mine for 10 years. I was about 130 when we got together, now im about 180. I know he is still attracted to me but i feel like it's not AS much as before.

[@CrystalRuizEnriquez]

karinna1813 I've been with mine for 9 years and I used to weight 135, I now weight 197 and he like my body more. I'm the one who has an issue now. I have always felt far but no that I am, I'm not confident anymore. I'm starting my weighloss journey now, I know he lives me as much as I love him, but I need to love myself too.

[@gadbenezer9329]

Me personally I like my women thick not obese it's ok if they have a little belly I don't mind. But of course I want a women who can take care of herself and not just eat junk food, they should eat healthy and exercise to keep their body at decent shape.

[@coffeechic521]

MikusLove Soul you just want a perfect woman as most guys want 😒😒😒

[@trixieagustina6163]

Coffee Chic He said he doesn’t mind a woman with a little belly. Won’t you stfu?

[@sakuraogami6885]

Karolina West you're so deluded xD

[@ns.jandali]

As a former obese person I can tell you that looks are more important because when I was fat, NOBODY looked at me twice. Now when I go out people stare and guys wanna get to know me based on seeing just my pictures

[@californiageisha197]

It’s not about being bigger, it’s about lying on the profile.

[@adrianna986]

I’m sure most of these guys unmatched her because she lied to them, not because she was significantly bigger.

[@tomsawyertomsawyer3683]

95% of Men online are looking for sex regardless of sizes and if you a little thicker or over weight the ration goes up 98%. For some reason I don't know yet, but people usually lust over physical characteristic faster then actually falling into the mindset of a person..

[@TheAmityShip]

"Happier couples gain more weight." Wot lmao My husband and I have gotten more and more fit as the years go on because we're happier.

[@lilianarangel4809]

Bs

[@CH-sl1ug]

Not b.s. when you have a partner whonis your work out partner. You bond and enjoy it and then also see each other getting healthier its amazing.

[@kaylamarchbanks1836]

Id break up with someone that was lazy and never did anything

[@jasminevaliente96]

I think it depends on why how long our age etc. People fall in love with the outside and the inside whether we want to admit it or not. What attracted my husband to me what attracted me to him demonstrated certain things important to us. If he gains a lil weight as we get older or health issues cause him to fluctuate that's to be expected, if hes dealing with depression or some mental health issues that make staying fit physically difficult that's more than understandable and we shouldnt just abandon people we love because they cant help feeling like themselves. BUT if he goes from the fit in the gym everyday very health conscious guy I met to 5 sizes up out the blue for no reason other than laziness, poor eating habits, and letting him self go then goes years without making any effort to work on it just giving up I'm going to struggle feeling attracted to him and my attraction to him is a big part of why I love him so I'd leave.

[@chad1682]

If my girlfriend or wife gained considerable weight either with or without a pregnancy involved my very first suspicion is that she has severe depression. Nobody enjoys getting fat and nobody eats junk food to that degree unless they have serious underlying emotional issues. So the next thing I would do is keep asking her "are you ok?". If she refuses to talk about it then the relationship will end because that is a ticking time bomb of pure drama. Let's face it people who have a healthy build are much more likely to be emotionally balanced.

[@shannonclaire7800]

C W that’s untrue but what ever makes u feel knowledgeable

[@chad1682]

Shannon Claire lowe Untrue? What the hell are you talking about? "Whatever makes you feel knowledgeable" is equal to calling someone a poopoo head. I have zero respect for your bullshit opinion. If anything I am even less likely to tolerate obesity now because it's like walking on fucking eggshells.

[@shannonclaire7800]

C W you really do need to work on that temper of yours there’s no need to start like that all I’m saying is I don’t think it’s true what your saying I know loads of skinny people that have suffered with depression and anxiety it can happen to anyone not just overweight people sorry if I upset u

[@chad1682]

Shannon Claire lowe then you should have said that instead of insulting me. No if anything I need to increase my anger. I've been a passive "nice guy" all my damn life and it got me absolutely no where. I'm never letting anyone get away with abuse. Not in real life and not in social media. Never again. Too bad. Unfortunately you didn't see what I was saying. If someone with a formerly active lifestyle suddenly stops and starts gaining considerable weight then there is a serious issue. I also did not say that ALL ideal weight people have no mental issues. However, there is considerable scientific evidence that regular physical activity and quality diet can dramatically improve the healthy production and maintenance of neurotransmitters. If you don't believe me go ask your doctor...or a few dozen. Go ahead and ask 100+ doctors if you are up for it. I'm confident in my facts. That probably sounds angry but it isn't. Just the facts.

[@shannonclaire7800]

C W ur right it did sound ignorant I didn’t mean it that way I really am sorry

[@missxmarvel]

I would. Laziness is always un attractive.

[@jacobchristensen8251]

I found my girl more attractive when she gained weight.

[@eddiekruggerr4972]

Jacob Christensen Do want a cookie. Stop virtue signalling. It makes you look like a weak liar.

[@iipotatoxox5294]

Jacob Christensen was

[@kaylataylors647]

This comment gave me hope

[@mystery785]

Jacob Christensen good for you

[@biancathomas1141]

My ex husband tried hard to make me gain weight cause he felt it would keep guys from flirting with me. He hated it when I'd lose weight especially when I wasn't working out.

[@garyandleslied]

extra weight shouldn't make a difference when it comes to love.

[@aok9153]

Youre telling me if youre partner turned in to a 700pound blob of fat you wouldnt leave?

[@lilianarangel4809]

Lies.

[@rockchick184]

Eh up to a certain point if someone gains say 100pounds that's going to make a huge difference to how they look.

[@reedmyrights5799]

I gained weight because I got comfortable in my relationship. I didn't put enough effort into losing the weight as I should have to please him. He started looking at other options and constantly liking other girls on social media. I got extremely jealous and decreased my confidence. Now we broke up. And I'm miserable because he's going to hook up with all these other girls he finds sexy and fit. My choice is to work out, build myself up and know that, his behavior hurt me down to my core, and to never allow someone to do that to me again. I will get fit, by then it'll be too late. It'll hurt some more. But I least I now how he truly is. Countless times I explained that it didn't help that he checks out other girls, no changes made. I hurt so bad. And I never want to feel this way again.

[@MrJreed1000]

Only women judge women.. Men don't care that much .. Now if a man was to do this it would've gone very different

[@tanyalovesrain8528]

That's so true, the meanest comments are always coming from women. But when it concerns themselves, they are asking for acceptance!

[@MrJreed1000]

Tanya loves Rain agreed

[@JaneDoe-zt5ci]

Men aren't angels, I've seen men take creepshots of women and post it on the internet just because he didnt like her ass, I've seen men go on straight up rampages and go on rants, literally screaming until they gotten kicked out just because a woman wasn't fuckable enough to them, I've seen men threaten to break up with women if she didn't get plastic surgery, delude yourself all you want, but claiming men are all perfect angels who would never say anything bad about womens looks is a lie

[@Ditch_Pie]

MrJreed1000 Lets be honest, I bet the lady conducting the experiment wouldn’t slide right if she saw a fat man on tinder, ladies also prefer slim and muscular men

[@JaneDoe-zt5ci]

Xx_Frog actually, look at tinder experiments, when a woman was bigger in person via fatsuit men ran, when a man was bigger women stayed and had fun Catfishing is a big no no either way, I personally think no one should worship fat people like most Americans do

[@cindyjohnson599]

This made me so happy! Although I’m 54 years old my entire life my weight has been an issue always going up and down ... and then wonderful menopause hit 😬.....and I always focus on my weight) however my husband of 35 years has never focused on my weight he’s always told me I was beautiful and that he loves me just the way I am ......Ive always teased him by saying “well at least you’ve had a variety of women throughout our marriage!”😂😂

[@BROKEasfFORNOW]

Cindy Johnson if that is you in your picture then you dont look 54

[@Silviaa1976]

I totally agree! Hope to look like that when I turn 54!!! You go girl!!!

[@Upper_echelon_exotics]

Sandra Yeah me too. I am 39 so not that far away but still!

[@Silviaa1976]

Girl I'm 41 and trying no to look a day older. Lol

[@cindyjohnson599]

Awwwww ty all so much for your kind words! Made my day! 😊❤️

[@RealtorArbutus]

Depends on why you gained weight

[@yaboyjonez9476]

No cause I know beauty that lies underneath.

[@antwto8784]

Nice that a lot of them were still respectful towards her after she showed them her bigger pics

[@vanessa6640]

When me and my boyfriend met, I was around 150lbs I’m tall and was fit, three years latter we moved in and got our own apartment, I began to gain weight rapidly! I would cry about my weight every single day, I didn’t get on a scale until New Years when I made my resolution to loose weight. I was 207lbs! Gained over 50lbs in less than a year! But regardless he loved me and told me I was beautiful! In 6 months I went down 55lbs down and soon found out we where pregnant! I love my partner for loving me thru it all

[@Voltanaut]

I wouldn't mind my girl gaining weight. Becoming severely overweight of obese, however, is something else.

[@carmendee6481]

My husband met me at 110lbs. Got married & had two kids. I gained almost 100lbs during pregnancy. I’m only 5’1. I was so depressed and I never wanted to go out in public. I felt horrible and secretly I wished my husband just left me. I remember crying because I didn’t want to go see my family for Christmas. I did go but I would just sit alone in a corner feeling sorry for myself. My husband got angry and said I love you no matter what size you are but crying & feeling sorry for yourself won’t help anything. He said I’ll help you loose weight if you want or you can stay this way & I’ll still love you. The next day I started my diet, started exercising and now I’m down 76lbs. I’m very grateful to have the husband I have, he has supported me all the way.

[@marissamontoy2784]

I saw crystal breeze & was like ayyyyy 🙌🏼🙌🏼

[@margemelloww]

I have been with my fiance for 3 and a half years. When I met him, I was very fit. I gained about 40kg in the first year we were together, and I disgusted myself. I've lost about 15kg and am continuing to lose it, and I do in my own time. He let me realise that I wasn't happy in myself, and he encourages me. He tells me that he loves me at any size, he just wants me to be happy, and when I express that I want to be thinner, he helps me by encouraging me to make good choices. He has been the only man to ever make me love myself at any size... and love myself enough to actually make the change.

[@user-hx8ee9ly3q]

No if I loved that person The fat isn't going to eat the love away.

[@thedelia101]

Jamless Gucci love your dp 💖💖

[@sup-jp6yy]

Jamless Gucci until they hit 600 lbs

[@kaybee2798]

Jamless Gucci why would it?

[@kaybee2798]

sup 0715 that’s when it becomes a health risk and it starts effecting more areas of the relationship then attraction, like emotional and physical aspects

[@lilianarangel4809]

BS

[@DP-pj7qn]

Idk if i would break up with someone for gaining a significant amt if weight...im not really that way...if i love you, i absolutely adore the shit out of you...i would though however tell my partner u put on some weight, im sure you might not feel good about it, lets try and get healthy and fit together! I wouldnt want someone to leave me or hurt me that way for putting on weight so i wouldn't do that so rudely and hurtfully especially to someone i love

[@GIguy]

When my spouse and I met back in 1988, I was barely 20 and he was barely 23, I was 220 pounds, he was 128 pounds, we are both 5‘11“ tall. It was love at first sight, I moved in with him a week after I met him and we‘I’ve been together ever since. Over the past 29 years together, our rates have gone up and down like a yo-yo. Currently I am 170 pounds, and he has gained over 100 pounds, actually make that about 150, but neither of us care how big we are, because we love each other so much that physical appearance matters not. When we look into each others eyes we still see the exact same person that we married all those years ago, and our love has only grown stronger and stronger over the years, and my mother said it was just a phase! LOL! In case you haven’t figured it out we are a same-sex couple, we are also an interracial couple, I’m white and he is Latino, in fact, he was still a refugee when we first met, we were the first interracial gay couple that we knew of in Toronto, but it’s never been an issue, neither has weight, the only thing that matters is love.

[@friedrice1072]

okay but... some of this just implies that they think shes ugly.. like saying “its whats on the inside that counts” just tippy toes around saying that they dont find them cosmetically attractive. whether we like it or not, liking their looks is very important. not that you cant find them genuinely attractive if theyve gained weight but some of the responses werent so nice if thats what they said

[@Shanibrook]

Crystal Breeze, you get that promo girl🙌🙌🙌💔💔💅

[@urigarcia2610]

My mom was 130 ish when she meet my dad (step dad she had already had 4 kids before she meet him) after she had my sister she gained alot of weight she got to 235 lbs and he never judged never called her fat or anything. After a health scare she lost alot of weight she is now she is 150 and staying healthy and my pops is still supporting her❤❤

[@zehl45]

That girl in the thumbnail argh dont know her name but why do girls think that kind of eyelashes and eye brow looks beautiful on them? Natural is much better to look at. Sorry not sorry for my unpopular opinion.

[@zehl45]

What Not To Do At a Stoplight 😂 how do guys kiss a girl with that amount of eyelashes.

[@ramennoodles2589]

Once you fall in love with someone they look beautiful no matter what, even if they gain or loose weight. For me, I'm not attracted to people who are overweight cause it just shows they aren't willing to look after themselves. If I were to fall in love with someone I was attracted to and they lost/or gained eight they'd still be beautiful in my eyes. But no matter what weight someone is they should be treated with respect and like human beings no matter what.

[@ATrueLoveOfficial]

They say that if your partner gains weight, you did a good job in taking care of him/her. So for me NO. It would be better if both of you becomes heavier just like us lol

[@belesschill9661]

I agree with the poll. If youre already in a committed relationship, you dont abandon them. You push them in a healthy direction.

[@iamfazchan]

guys are better overall. girls judge based on appearance

[@cataderian]

Are we talking about the same guys that dump their longtime wives and mother of their children for younger women? I think you are delusional.

[@Sean-fz8if]

No, both genders judge on appearances first and then decide if the personality works for them

[@amazingsportscarsmotorcycl1664]

I don't care if they r gaining weight the only thing that matter is there personality and love

[@WhisperofMarilyn]

I was broken up with as a teenager when I gained weight. I lost the weight eventually and have gotten so many compliments! Their loss- should be with someone through thick and thin.

[@aleshastaten13]

im glad you had her on here!! i love watching her!!

[@javiergomez5671]

I would, if she doesn't care about her health than why should I invest time in that person

[@emilyslaton2100]

My fiance and I have been dating for 5 years and when we started medical school he gained 40 pounds. He's overweight now but I still weigh the same. It is stressful because I worry about his health, but I still love him and want him to be healthier. I try really hard to encourage healthy habits like working out together or eating healthy food. I used to always make a healthy dinner for both of us but he never eats it and instead goes to eat fast food.

[@jorgelopez6162]

Yeah but most people dating online are desperate 😂

[@ellarose3343]

When they did that poll on youtube several weeks ago, many of the people who said they would break up with the person said they would do so because it would be too difficult seeing someone you love get to an extremely high weight and hurting themselves - just thought that was interesting to note

[@yulieminaj]

CRYSTAL 👀❤️

[@Irispia97]

I got kicked off every dating app because they all claimed I was a catfish Dating is tuff enough for beautiful women but if they’re too beautiful you’re obviously fake ugh

[@kimmy.00]

CRYSTAL MA GIRL💖💖💖💖

[@jessuniverse4290]

America is full of heavyweights and your choices are very slim.

[@imakounjmakk]

No never

[@shamelesssheamis545]

These guys were just trying to be nice. This is so stupid.

[@copyrighted4382]

This might sound shallow but I WOULDN'T want my partner to gain weight

[@vanessaochoa4508]

When I first me my boyfriend 2 years ago I was 150...I was pretty active. I was working full time and going to school in the afternoon needless to say I had no time for the gym and I was so stressed all the time because of school. The little free time I had I wanted to spend with my bf. We would eat out alot and eventually it caught up to me. He's always been thin and since he is in the military he would stay somewhat active, doing push ups and what not. Before I realized it I had gained 50 lbs😓 He deployed a few months ago and I have started working out and eating healthier...so far I have lost 25lbs. My goal is to get to 150 again before he gets back...so I'm halfway there:) He's never commented negatively about my weight...he says he loves me regardless but I miss the way I use to look and feel that is why I want get back in shape.💪I'm doing it for me😊

[@rinaandmikesullivan3026]

No! Nine out of 10 times you put on the wait together 😊

[@michellep.145]

I gained weight in my last relationship and I wish he would have told me. I knew I was gaining weight, but wasn't aware of all the effects it was having on me and because I wasn't happy with my weight gain it reflected how I acted with my ex. Anyway I wouldn't leave a partner for gaining weight, but I would most certainly bring up the weight gain.

[@AxalataGilbert]

I would date any decent looking girl i m into black girls tho but if we ever became in a relationship make sure to b loyal & love me with everything i can gurantee she wouldn't b disappoint.

[@aliciabea1598]

Supashya Roy Chowdhury nice comment

[@JazmyneDrakeford]

she shouldnt have said fake pics, she should have said old pics. fake indicates you catfishing them which is an automatic no

[@martelwebber7204]

Yes

[@xaena7907]

MARTEL WEBBER 😂

[@Chaotic_Observer]

NANI??

[@thebrain678]

Been thin my whole life and still don't get matches

[@CK-ok2sq]

It’s just weight. No big deal. I think chubby girls are cute.

[@ahmedalyousif3494]

My brain is wired to find health attractive so it's totally right when you find fat unattractive

[@unclekidd9030]

Yes, simple

[@jayyoungmusic919]

I’d break up with somebody if they lied about their weight

[@imakounjmakk]

More cushion for this push'n... No lie. Bones are for dog's, meat is for men.!!!

[@Volodimir_Druzhkin]

Meat and fat are two different things

[@williamjamieson5448]

@Vanda Dy HAHAHAHA I AM DEAD lmao

[@abigailoliver1976]

Dogs, not dog's

[@rosieglows]

You're disgusting. This is body shaming!

[@MelB868]

Imak bones make dogs choke. Especially chicken or any kind of poultry.

[@lspbeautea4791]

These doctors talk pure balls .

[@jvcastaneda1]

I had a teacher my sophomore year in high school. He was a really hip teacher and everyone loved him. He had a good relationship with us all and talked pretty openly. He had a very attractive girlfriend and one of my classmates asked him straight up, would you still be with your girlfriend if she got fat. He said no. I was like omg. Wow how mean. Then he went on to explain why and I can’t knock what he was saying. It was totally true. Kind of sad though because I would think if you love someone you wouldn’t just walk away but help them. But his reasoning was that if she were fat she would be a different person than who she was when they fell in love. Not doing active things, not sharing the same hobbies or lifestyle anymore.

[@amirpalamar7133]

I made a big change to be a healthier person (I’m not some health guru but I eat decent, mainly to help bulk up from weight training), and I want who I’m with to be somewhat healthy as well. Also if I’m not attracted to someone anymore bc they gained weight I don’t think it’s inappropriate to sit down with them and talk about the health choices they’ve been making. I personally prefer a healthy looking person and after a certain size people don’t look healthy.

[@axbakrb]

People say things but actions are what matters

[@marshayermilov]

This show is not the same when Travis has no voice.... GET BETTER SOON LOVE YOU ALL!!

[@DouglasLee9]

Loved this! Proof people are not as fake as we all think.

[@violetgirl1996]

Ps to those who say people are more attracted to a slimmer person, it is because your natural structures as a human are beautiful, and being healthy and slimmer shows them off more. It is not all pessimistic, sad stuff, it is just the truth that all humans are so beautiful, and gaining so much weight can hide some of that beauty. For some, it could show a different kind of beauty, whereas, for others, it does not suit their natural structure as much in an aesthetically pleasing way

[@rachelfigueroa8389]

My ex was nearing 350lbs when we ended it. That was certainly not the reason I wanted to break up (emotionally abusive) but I do have to admit the fact that he never wanted to exercise or eat healthy was a turn off.

[@Nocomment552]

Only if they didn't try to lose it (and vice versa if I gained a lot of lbs). There's no point staying in a relationship when the other person won't try to improve themselves and stay healthy. My boyfriend and I are very clear on that with each other.

[@ala6329]

My boyfriend is very very skinny and tall and he’s still a cuddly guy, I love cuddling with him, it’s the best thing ever. But even if he gained weight, I would still love him for the way he’s treating me and would literally do anything for me to make me happy but also because I love to have a big cuddly boyfriend ❤️

[@elsaluvsnutella]

people will always answer to make themselves look better, It's a dating app they're not forced to actually meet her just to make themselves attractive, also the fact that they spoke before won't make them say no go away on the same chat... I feel like she should've made two accounts and then we obviously know what the results would be, swiping the same people.

[@kyliepretty5072]

She is gorgeous!!

[@JP-ks7ey]

no, but I would say something to her because I would be worried about her health