Wounded Masculine and Feminine Polarity: This KILLS Attraction

[@elijah7937]

This opened my eyes about some of my ways. The past 6 months I’ve been trying to please this girl, from the moment we started talking I had that thought that I wasn’t good enough and that she wouldn’t accept me which led to me catering more so to her and what she wanted rather than being my natural confident self and enjoying the company. I completely lost myself in the process of trying to be with her. I became extremely indecisive even when it came to things as simple as saying a word or answering simple questions. I wasn’t focused at all on my hobbies and was more so worried about saying something stupid or saying something that might offend her, my whole life was me thinking about her and the potential relationship. I became extremely clingy and started to worry about what she was doing when she wasn’t with me, or if she was actually asleep when she said she would go to bed. This is not the way I want to be, I realize that I have lost a lot of masculine energy and today that starts to change. Ima carry myself different and ima assert myself a lot more and take more chances when it comes to everyday life. Focus more on me and let the rest come naturally. Forcing yourself to be a nice guy is not going to make things better for you especially when it comes to a potential relationship. Never change for anybody but yourself.

[@melvinalcantra6142]

Many of us guys who grow up watching RomCom have been there, brother. Right now i am consuming No more mr. Nice Guy by D. Glover

[@billfoster4147]

"Never change for anybody but yourself." I love it! Thank you ...and your story so encouraged me. William

[@divinitee7904]

Yes, very well said. I know my response is much later but I truly hope things worked out for the best for you and that you fully came back to yourself. Never compromise yourself for anybody- they are not worth it- and the ones who really care for you will never ask you to compromise yourself. Peace and Love 😍🥰

[@janoskrajnik100]

I’m exactly in the same situation. Thanks for sharing it and all the best 👍

[@Papikeylay]

Thanks for sharing your story! My situation echos yours

[@rozwize505]

The balance between the masculine and feminine has been out of balance for hundreds of years. The imbalance has created an unhealthy male energy, that’s the cause of war, violence, greed. Healthy male energy is very beautiful.

[@rozwize505]

Love, Peace & being High is a way of life I appreciate your comment but the balance is truly off scale which causes issues in male female relationships. I enjoy healthy male energy as it allows me to become more feminine safely. ❤️

[@highvibesonly8296]

Healthy male energy is very charming. Generally women like men who consider them as equals. Whereas "toxic masculinity" is where the person doesn't like his feminine side or he has suppressed it for too long and that is why they won't respect females in general.

[@rozwize505]

High Vibes only yes; nicely stated!

[@driftlesszone1391]

I totally believe and notice this, but particularly in the West. When I think of true positive masculinity I think of Freddy Mercury, not Stormin' Schwarzkopf.

[@jacobbrown6552]

@@highvibesonly8296 Are you stupid? toxic masculinity is a made up word to destroy men and men's masculinity! like yeah men and women do need both sides but to use cringe words like "toxic masculinity" makes you sound like a radical feminist, and also there is nothing wrong with men acting manly and women acting feminine!

[@SFTUlife]

I’m 54. I’m successful. I’m just learning this and he’s nailing it. Be a king, not a knight, gentlemen. ☮️☯️

[@rodrigobelinchon2982]

never a butler !

[@UniversalCrystals]

Very helpful info man thank you for helping the world awaken 🌟 Sending good vibes to everyone here 🏝😎

[@salimedina3574]

Really enjoyed the information you went over in this one. I needed to hear this one. Please do more on polarity and surrounding topics. Thanks. Namaste, much love, keep it up! ✌🏽

[@amandahaupt1327]

Wow Aaron this is a truly useful video thank you for sharing . 🤗❤️

[@amandahaupt1327]

im operating in my masculine energy 😭😭😭 very desisive, go getter,. set goals etc but i tend to ..not ease off this when it comes to a relationship..

[@amandahaupt1327]

Likewise Universal Crystals☯️ ❤️

[@aryamahima3]

Whole internet… nobody could explain better than this man this topic. ❤❤❤

[@jadeshinu]

Great video 🔮 The divine masculine and feminine has been massively under attack for a long time. Its now the time for us to fully awaken to that fact and take back our innate power so we can find balance and peace with each other 🙏💜⭐

[@mbrooks84]

You just explained the breakdown of my 10 year relationship. I am exhausted being in my masculine but felt I had to be. Wow

[@dakschreiber4997]

I'm having the same realization

[@chivonfortney1656]

Same!!!!!

[@christinas1111]

Wow!! This is what happened in my relationship that just ended. I had lack of trust and he was a total people pleaser. Also I could never relax and feel safe in his masculine energy. Thank you for explaing this in detail.

[@jadynjeong7483]

SAME!! 🙌🏿

[@Ascendingsoul1]

Ugh ! This is my experience now . Sometimes I’ll even act like I don’t know something or act afraid of something just to get my husband to be in his masculine .. :(

[@chivonfortney1656]

Same!!!

[@PeacefulMeditationMusic1]

From my heart to whoever reading this I hope you appreciate the greatness you hold from within. YOU are perfection just the way YOU ARE . You radiate love, kindness, strength, passion, will and light. You are beautiful! Wish you such a blessed and bright day. Cheers! 💙🌺

[@deadhead1968]

Thank you, and so are you!

[@ilyrain3540]

@@deadhead1968 you aren't

[@lindaruddy8324]

I have found that teachers also have a huge impact on our kids’ development for life; good or bad!! We all have distinct memories of how positively or negatively a teacher has affected us that has stuck with us no matter how old you are. Teachers are with kids more hours in a day than parents. We need more really good teachers for the priceless impact they can have on kids. It’s definitely a team effort between parents & teachers! Blessings of God’s light, love and compassion to all! 💗 🙏

[@megistardust7584]

If we paid teachers like we pay athletes we would change society in a generation

[@ahmedabdulai9852]

Linda Ruddy or take back your power and let go of the memories - sending love to them is transformative

[@lindaruddy8324]

Megi Stardust Totally agree! Anyone that can help you to get on a better path or save your life emotionally or physically, is way more valuable than the ridiculous amounts of money paid to athletes! I’m sure after parents being home with their children will realize that as far as valuing the good teachers, so hoping that changes very soon! Blessings to you, Megi! 🙏

[@lindaruddy8324]

Ahmed Abdulai Yes, teaching them these things, since these types of things aren’t taught in school, so we are the teachers at home that are here for life occurrences. Some listen and some have to learn on their own. When you hear them teaching a friend, you know they really were listening. Teaching others is easier than ourselves sometimes. We’re all on our own journey, so having loving support, guidance and compassion; especially as they move out on their own into this world, letting go as a parent is difficult. Sending them the daily loving energy is so very important for them and us as parents. Thank you, Ahmad! Blessings to you.

[@divinitee7904]

Amen!! 💯

[@nina_kara]

OMG the “typical” situation happened to me. I was naturally very feminine, but at the age of 19 I found out that my dad cheated on my mom , and I actually became more masculine. Luckily, I found my purpose and it resulted in me having more freedom.

[@heyitsfp]

Thanks for sharing, how did you find your purpose?

[@durece100]

When is your Birthday?

[@lareal5929]

Going through a breakup right now, my inner masculine and feminine are so wounded it's unreal. These videos are really helping me. Thank you for everything you do x

[@durece100]

What's your birthdate?

[@wisdom-for-all]

Indeed, seems like everything in the universe has a polar opposite. And we are compelled to obey our own Polarity 🖖

[@rozwize505]

Only if the energy is healthy and the action is for the good of humanity

[@LuigiMajor]

This is a powerful video. Thank you for putting it together! Very healing.

[@alchemistandco6976]

just what i’ve been thinking about. i operate as a divine masculine with wounded divine feminine traits.

[@am_I_or_am_I_not]

Same

[@jazdeluce8317]

Same😥

[@Mosdefinitelyable]

So I’m confused. If you have wounded feminine, doesn’t it mean you would have the people pleasing, unworthy, lack of barriers traits, not the masculine traits?

[@alchemistandco6976]

it tilted my balance. six months later with a lot of shadow work and meditation, it’s much more clear now that my divine masculine was in overdrive and in defense.. denying the much needed healing of the divine feminine. my takeaway was that the scales had shifted heavily for the sake of avoidance. meaning utter chaos lol. especially since i’m a libra 😉

[@jojjeboy]

@@Mosdefinitelyable wounded masculine means you are not expressing masculine traits, therefor, being a people pleaser / nice guy. wounded feminine would be the opposite, not expressing you’re feminine traits,

[@juliad.5863]

congrats on almost one million!🤍 thanks for being someone who helps others

[@AaronDoughty44]

appreciate you!

[@rheakelly6676]

I am glad that you are showing the positive side of masculine and feminine energies. Many times when we think of masculine energy, the shadow side comes to mind of power and control. But it is much more than that. And extremely important! And without it, it is true, the feminine can't relax and flow. I'm glad you are making these videos. Thank you. Namaste 🙏

[@steveleeart]

The nice guy stuff giving gifts for getting sex or whatever is weak, all giving should always be unconditional. Forgiveness should be unconditional. Love and reverence should be unconditional. No matter if you’re feminine or masculine.

[@tinydreamerrr]

👏👏👏

[@LaciRae]

a guy who fakes being nice in order to get sex in return is not a "nice guy". a guy who is everything You mentioned after your first comma is.

[@miameow4833]

Forgiveness should NOT be unconditional. It must be earned. A person who shows no remorse should not be forgiven. Just the person should not let hate consume them. That's what I believe.

[@steveleeart]

Laci Rae ...it was Aaron that described the nice guy being nice to get sex.

[@steveleeart]

Mia Meow “UNDERSTANDING BRINGS FORGIVENESS “Forgive us our trespasses, as we forgive those who trespass against us.” Everyone makes mistakes. If we are mindful, we see that some of our actions in the past have caused others to suffer, and some actions of others have made us suffer. We want to be forgiving. We want to begin anew. “You, my brother or sister, have wronged me in the past. I now understand that it was because you were suffering and did not see clearly. I no longer feel anger toward you.” You cannot force yourself to forgive. Only when you understand what has happened can you have compassion for the other person and forgive him or her. That kind of forgiveness is the fruit of awareness. When you are mindful, you can see the many causes that led the other person to make you suffer, and when you see this, forgiveness and release arise naturally. Putting the teachings of Jesus and the Buddha into practice is always helpful.” - Thich Nhat Hanh from his book LIVING BUDDHA LIVING CHRIST

[@bradsemmens8676]

The man is to become the stage and the woman to become the dancer 👌🏼

[@moonlightwisdomwellness855]

Amazing Aaron this is exactly what has happened in my relationship because I really have a wounded feminine and cannot trust the masculine so then I make myself the masculine, I make myself the controller, and it has been a cause for the end of the relationship. Knowing this is so empowering and I hope it fixes this!

[@AbbyRuston]

Another thing to check out that may shine some more light is attachment styles... also the dynamic between your care givers growing up. You will be re-creating that dynamic so that you can heal it! Hope this helps!

[@zubieM]

This is the video I needed to see right now! I asserted my boundaries and because I did this- the masculine backed off- hurts but I understand why… this explains a lot

[@jewlzn7130]

I am very much in my wounded masculine energy. I have a lot of failed relationships where there was just no trust. I'm so closed off as a partner also, scared of showing vulnerability

[@danamuller5016]

SAME I feel like cold Man and whenever I am dating and a guy is good to me, I just get mad and think he is playing me.

[@jewlzn7130]

@@danamuller5016 I just googled how to heal that energy, I came across Jake Woodard he talks a lot about it.

[@Richkidyearsago]

Juliet Ngweno everyone who is chosen has to go through something

[@hninoowai1431]

@@jewlzn7130 thank you

[@effervescentjoy]

I was the 126th like and 1/26 is my birthday. ;) synchronicity signposts are the greatest

[@divinitee7904]

Hi Aaron! I am so thankful for the KZbin algorithm that suggested your videos to me most recently. I already know that I'm going to watch this video several more times to finish processing it. Thank you very much for making this content. It really helped me understand some things about myself on a deeper level and the people in my life. Peace & Blessings from the most High. 🥰🙏🏽🙏🏽.

[@cyndeepokorny3413]

Soooo good. Was watching on my tv and had to get on my phone to see the comments and leave this one. Thank you.

[@EllaRingrose]

This was so needed and so informative. Thank you so much Aaron. 🙏🏼🙏🏼💫

[@victoriablackwell1339]

Wow! This is better than going to a psychiatrist. LOL! I think I've learned more today than any psychiatrist was able to explain. All he wanted to do is flood me with medication. I feel so much better listening to this and no, I don't take any medications, because I don't like them. :) Thank you so much for sharing all of this information. It helps so much! :)

[@AnradTheUnvaxxed]

Good on you for not taking their "treatment", psychiatrists are glorified drug pushers. Psychologists it seems are the real deal but I'd imagine it's not as easy to get one without money.

[@bryanstrietelmeier2573]

I love your work Aaron,we are here and fully awakening,but I’ve been awake my whole life,knew I didn’t fit the “norm”!Im holding the light so others may see in the hour of darkness!❤️👍

[@avasangel5559]

I too have never felt normal. As a kid I always knew I didn't think like the other girls. It made me insecure. I'm still working on that. Lol

[@theamberturner]

More on this Aaron! I have been studying polarity in relationships but never heard the tension part. Interesting for sure. I think more conversations need to be done on this because relationship (especially when it is healthy) helps us all.

[@yeliz-3293]

wow this was SO helpful, thank you so much!

[@Nellsopal]

Hi Aaron, my understanding of this is that masculine and feminine energies represent duality, which we are moving away from in 5D. Masculine energies have been dominant on the planet for a very long time, whilst the divine feminine has been supressed. We are now moving into a time of healing these energies within ourselves individually and collectively, to come into balance and wholeness. I am a woman with strong feminine energy but for me, there is nothing more attractive than a man in touch with his feminine side in a balanced beautiful way.

[@AllasMusicChannel]

Great video and needed for many ⭐️ I define the balanced/healthy/empowered Masculine towards Feminine as “4 P’s”: - Presence - Protection - Provision - Patronage ✨

[@bradsemmens8676]

The way you do one thing is not the way you do everything. This is a throwaway statement. Everything else is so well said brother 👊🏼👊🏼

[@aashishjoshi2513]

This hands down has to be one of your most resourceful videos. Kudos Aaron! ✨

[@ducksterM]

Thank you so much. The realization that the spiritual path I am walking down for the last year led to me becoming less and less masculine helps me a lot to take back part of that masculine energy now. Eye opening!

[@AngelKrystalStar]

Good point that these wounds come out in some areas of life and not others

[@avasangel5559]

That was the best.. I thank you for clearing up my confusion. This video is just what I needed to see. Right on & thanks Aaron

[@serpentbearer6649]

Very glad you took a break from the current conspiracy theory videos. I've been watching your videos daily for about a year now and I just can't put any of my energy into the negative events of the world any more. This is what I came for. Thanks bro, you have taught me alot and kept me on track

[@thepurpleempath4219]

🥰🥰🥰 happy Sunday to you all!

[@eylemsahindal-soysuren3363]

Aaron YOU are literally a GAME CHANGER. This makes literally so much sense. Thank you for sharing this 🙏

[@mysticbutterflytarot]

Thank you for bringing back the high energy when closing with the word “peace” I missed that! I watch all your videos🙏🏽🦋

[@virgovenussunshine8397]

Wow that was a crash course in self- awareness, relationships and childhood wounds! It was immensely helpful and I would love to see more divine feminine - masculine content. Thank you from a divine feminine woman. ☀️ 🙏 🌟

[@truelioness0839]

thank you, again! You Have been such Pivotal part of my healing after a Relationship became toxic, and you have helped me see all the places I need to heal in me, to move forward. Thanks Aaron!!

[@eskapegoat86]

Thank you. This was perfect.

[@virginiadecker6509]

This was explained in a way I could understand clearly. Thank you. I have become aware this weekend that it is my wounded masculine energy that's holding me back from creating the life I want.

[@thoomm]

Omgosh Aaron the synchronicities. Thank you so much

[@sweetthings11]

Thank you thats the most practical and easy to understand video on this topic so far. Thanks a ton❤

[@austinbooth4132]

Incredible video. It is eye opening to look into the root of nice guy/people pleaser but filling up your own cup and validating yourself instead of needing external validation is key.

[@janiet]

Thank you, Aaron. This was an amazing and entertaining video. I learned so much. Please keep doing more videos on this subject.

[@shelbylane6486]

Mind blown. You totally made it click for me. Perfect timing on the message Aaron! Would love to hear more! 💕☀️

[@innerhealingwithmelanie]

Its amazing. I have never heard about this before. So Crazy!!! Really amazing wisdom and clarity

[@1Jaz5d]

I was brought up to always be "nice".... Now I can refer family and friends to this video so I can finally RELAX AND JUST BE!!!

[@rodrigobelinchon2982]

this is actually useful ,I appreciate it man

[@michelleperez7767]

congrats for 1M!!!!💓

[@LinhBui-ci6sg]

Wow, spot on.

[@estairway]

This is gold! Thank you so much 😊💕

[@scrfred]

The insightfulness I have gained from just listening to Aaron insightfulness I'm more in touch with my surroundings and willing to step outside the box into the unknown

[@artsygypsyhippie3460]

I needed this 😌 thanks Aaron!

[@cassidylundmusic]

That was beautiful and very helpful. Thank you for making these videos it is greatly appreciated by me 😌

[@LC-hq9pd]

This is "DEEP" Most Grateful💞🙏

[@priyac1944]

God!! This puts sooo much into perspective!! I have never heard it explained like this!! Thankyou!

[@victoriadupuy5963]

HUGE HUGE HUGE INFORMATION. LANDED AFTER SPENDING A MONTH WITH .Y BIOLOGICAL FAMILY. THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK FOR YOUR VIDEIS AND TEACHINGS!!!

[@nicollesantana781]

Such an amazing video and explanation of the dynamics of polarity within yourself and within a relationship.

[@lemvaroksahonimo7743]

Thank you sooo much 🔥❤️I was listening to you since last night and I didn't realised everything about the reality itself and being a prison or slave of my own thoughts, that childhood trauma hits me deep. Old cycle pattern which always and always fallowing 😢.

[@goodapollo]

one of your best videos, I think this will be helpful to a lot of people

[@annabean-414]

This is such an important video. THANK YOU SO MUCH 😇💞🙏🏼💫🌈

[@jonahribkoff589]

this was so clear and concise. THANK YOU BROTHER

[@bessieoriotis5104]

The information is mind boggling and very new to me. Perhaps another video on this will get people to get use to this and understand it more because this subject also plays a big role in good and bad relationships.

[@tcramirez1474]

I came across this at the right time!! Thank you!

[@FinesseMuse]

All of this polarity is *such an eye opener* to the *facts and truth* Any one else *really realizing* something about them selves and the relationship they're in? I'm definitely looking at the balance I'm trying to create in my life with that sense of security from my own work, through my KZbin channel and other sources, to create the security I crave but also make sure that it's still a feminine energy that is dominantly me, to find a *balance within myself* that is lacking in the exterior world.

[@amandasdivineyoga13]

Phenomenal content Aaron! I would LOVE more info on healing the masculine and feminine energies within! Thank you for sharing this. I will certainly be rewatching this one a few times to let it all truly sink in. Much love & appreciation for you. 🙏💖🕉

[@JDawg946]

The amount of effort and well thought out perspectives in this video are truly mind blowing. Thank you for this Aaron!!! God bless, cant wait for the next upload!

[@dew_africa]

Aaron! Wow! Thank you! ❤❤❤

[@rubyblu21]

The Fearless Man on yt is really informative for healthy masculine energy. I just wish there was a feminine equivalent.

[@timothythompson7750]

It's everywhere. You don't even have to look on youtube for healthy feminine energy. Look around the world.

[@helenebottger5699]

There are a couple of youtubers who talk about the feminine, just look :))

[@annetterise8102]

Omg..i can’t believe how word to word i felt, talked to my bf, and why i had to leave my last relationship..I hope all men and women hear this, it’s TRULY is liberating💜 I want to relax into my men’s arms, I want him to lead and feel safe so that I don’t have to be masculine but be creative.✨

[@888vntg]

Tons of value here, thx for sharing

[@soystef]

I LOVE LOVE LOVE masculine men- so grateful for them!!!

[@xanty_3513]

YAS AARON, make more of these, that topic is very cool, helpful and deep, thank you for the great content

[@jesustunon818]

Thank you for your videos !! They are such healing tools ❤

[@jakeportolese4031]

Wow this is so true and powerful !

[@saraifascinetto5437]

Thank you for sharing your personal experience. It helped me understand better. This topic is new to me and now I get to know myself better. Greetings from Mexico.

[@vegan_universe]

As a therapist and Life Coach i always thought i had to be THE NICE GUY lol. After doing my own Shadow Work on myself i figured out THATS NOT WHO I AM. Exactly what you found out about yourself. Having a dad i felt like i had to please cos i wasnt good daughter enough i became people pleaser as you did. Working on being AUTHENTIC allowing myself to speak or react the way i FEEL not the way im SUPPOSED TO helped me a lot. Thank you for this amazing video.❤

[@jessicaw6963]

You are a gift, Aaron

[@zainqureshi2849]

I was the opposite, i was Feminine wounded in Business, and Masculine wounded in relationships, love this!

[@CGA-Arts]

THIS video is a game changer!

[@taniaswain-williams1379]

Sooo helpful!! Many pieces clicking into place. Thanks so much for this Aaron. Love that you are embracing your inner beard and longer hair always love to watch you 😊✨

[@tamaraharlow4383]

Another great video Aaron 👍

[@bprincess7432]

Wow!! What a great video and this makes so much sense now at this time in my life! Thank you again great video

[@GerdionXT]

All right that clip is like a 3rd eye opining - Thanks Aron!

[@carmensylvia4001]

Fantastic video and so helpful! I would love to hear more from you about healing feminine energy.

[@JustAnotherWhiteGirl13]

Bro this is one Of your best videos yet n I’ve been following you for some tiMe

[@Yulia.chandrika]

Thanks you Aaron to expaaand my consciousness. Your channel is awsome. Greetings from India🙏

[@brownzetzu1637]

This is truly a game changer 🙌 thank u Aaron

[@rainbowloveinfinity5127]

Oh wow you have helped me so much thank you I know how to balance my energies and finally heal as I know I am Starseed, I feel like I resonate with you on your story as it's close to mine I can now forgive my stepmum and move forward by letting go much Love to you Aaron✨💖

[@StarCat1111]

Great insight! It now clicks how sexual trauma distorts our natural polarity

[@danielapedersen4255]

Loved this, really valuable content, thank u 😍🙏

[@NfindaBilongo13]

Very very good bruva!🙏🏽💀🔥

[@mahalamoon4755]

Thank you for being here wayshower 😊

[@yvette192]

Well explain! Keep them coming please ! Thank you🙏🏾