Dynamics of the Wounded Feminine and Masculine

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Aaron Abke

Aaron Abke

Күн бұрын

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@JoshuaAmmon
@JoshuaAmmon 3 жыл бұрын
" Become what you want first, so you can really begin to attract it". Wise words Aaron, so true!
@jaykeane25
@jaykeane25 3 жыл бұрын
This educational video should be part of national school curriculum when so many families have been fracturd and the balance is distorted and inherintly passing on a lot of suffering
@kjbkjhkjhjk7775
@kjbkjhkjhjk7775 8 ай бұрын
It makes me feel so healed, connected to my heart to see an example of healthy masculine energy
@themis828
@themis828 3 жыл бұрын
Gotta say, its quite something watching these videos of you now. Theres a little "ascended" master going on in there. When someone asked you something now, rather than respond immediately as you used to, its looks like you pause, reach up into your higherself basket of wisdom and spew forth all that divine knowledge floating around all our heads. Its really cool to see your growth as a student and teacher. You have my gratitude 🙏 ❤ ✨
@ManifestGirl7811
@ManifestGirl7811 3 жыл бұрын
This holds so much truth for me, I clearly identify the imbalances in both my previous marriages and see why they eventually fell apart. I finally feel more balanced within myself but funny enough now I’m no longer interested in a “partnership” I’m finding such peace now being on my own. I don’t assume it will remain this way but I’m content with it at this point in my life primarily due to feeling more balanced. This was insightful 🙏🏽
@jhongreen3531
@jhongreen3531 3 жыл бұрын
And im so happy & proud of you the next one should be perfect because you took the time off to become you the real you & more balanced & at peace we must love are self's 1000% before we love another 1000% love & light i send ✌
@evantochydlowski4787
@evantochydlowski4787 3 жыл бұрын
Aaron you're incredible 🙏 I would LOVE more on this topic. Both of my parents have wounded masculine and feminine energies and learning to balance and heal these polarities has been a huge key in my healing/integration/evolution. Thanks so much Brother 🙏
@laudashra
@laudashra 3 жыл бұрын
I love how the masculine and feminine energies are not necessarily meant to describe a man or a woman. It reminds me of the ☯️ and how we are all this mixture of expressions, temperaments, and emotions of a human existing. Balance really is key :) I’m glad I came across your channel at this point of my life where I seek to know and absorb more of these conversations that seem to fulfill me. Sometimes we forget that we have this magic inside us
@Yin_Yang_69
@Yin_Yang_69 Жыл бұрын
My mother is a wounded feminine and she is hell-bent on wounding me now.
@lifedoesjonte4900
@lifedoesjonte4900 2 жыл бұрын
Dude, you’re showing so many facets of the diamond that is life, it’s crazy! I’m really excited for your new platform, it’s gonna be a beautiful journey to be a part of! Blessed to witness this expression of the infinite, the experience of life is awesome!🙏 thank you ❤️
@LifesMagicalJourney
@LifesMagicalJourney 3 жыл бұрын
This is powerful! I appreciate this message coming at this time!
@pattyhawley1
@pattyhawley1 3 жыл бұрын
So good! Loved how you described the Divine Masculine (Light/Thinking) and Divine Feminine (Love/Feeling) and the imbalances or distortions expressed when those energies experience trauma or wounding catalysts in life. All life experience is there to get us to balance or harmonize our Mind (Conscious = Masculine and Subconscious = Feminine). It is so AMAZING to know this Truth!
@starfire555
@starfire555 3 жыл бұрын
Your posts are always relevant to my life! Much love ❤️
@lawof1
@lawof1 3 жыл бұрын
We are one💜
@thehighroad3774
@thehighroad3774 3 жыл бұрын
@@lawof1 Love/Light❤
@MaritzaPokart
@MaritzaPokart 3 жыл бұрын
Aaron you are the best that ever happened to me! Thank u..
@nalanidoolwala2532
@nalanidoolwala2532 3 жыл бұрын
Best thing I found myself and you my brother ❤️🎈😍💕
@Nan01040
@Nan01040 3 жыл бұрын
"IF IS NOT LOVE, I DON'T WANNA IT" YEAAAS !!!!! that's the highlight takeaway
@antoniomorales5533
@antoniomorales5533 3 жыл бұрын
Whenever you upload it’s a blessed day, thank you for uploading on my birthday! 😎 You introduced me to peace and liberation at my lowest this past year. You, Aaron gave me a gift that continues to bring me lasting fulfillment. I hope to meet you one day man! Have a blessed weekend 🙏🏽
@gunasundarymuniandy3608
@gunasundarymuniandy3608 3 жыл бұрын
Enlightened discussion of a very integral part of human relationship. Amazing how Aaron so masterfully explains these matters. Thank you for the lesson.
@sevi4492
@sevi4492 3 жыл бұрын
Everything start with us & how much Love & Respect we hold for ourself!! 🙏💕😘
@spiralsun1
@spiralsun1 3 жыл бұрын
Transcendence. This is so true. ❤️ Gender is the last barrier to enlightenment. An external body symbol definition is not the full meaning. They must be United and the meaning rises above the symbols of male and female like the rising spirit of the creator above all symbols. I am closest on the THINKING-FEELING dimension of the MBTI personality test types. They come out nearly equal. So I think it gives me the ability to help males and females both transcend and see higher meaning and patterns than are symbolized by the male and female stories woven into our lives. Unity and higher meaning hold no limits. Rise above. Love transcends gender. ❤️ thanks 🙏🏻 Women taking on a male role is problematic if they spend their lives trying to be more male, without understanding what is strong about the female and appreciation for that beauty as well. Vulnerability is the basic creative ability and hurdle for all change, but by itself can founder on the rocks so it must be tempered by thinking. So a balance of thinking and United feeling is symbolic of all evolutionary change and creation. It is also what you need to change yourself from within. The danger is projecting your own task outward and condemning others as “holding you back” when they are only teaching you very well what you need to work on WITHIN. Protect yourself from others compromising your sovereignty while you do that. The only way to do this non-destructively is to be self-aware. To think about yourself objectively in vulnerable and painful ways. Vulnerable to yourself. As humans we are born in pain. I think tolerance for the pain of our spiritual birth is made strong by embracing vulnerability which is what is indicated by pain. From the male side it is symbolized by pain in battle or change, and on the female side by child birth, or other people changing you. But both pains are only teachers, only 2 sides of the same holy path of transcendence and real pain in letting go of the symbols of the past by the sands of time draining them and allowing our bubbles to rise above to new perspective. To see the full beauty of life symbolized by the physical act of love in the material universe. It is an embrace and a becoming. A balance. It happens within. ❤️
@lawof1
@lawof1 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you forever💜I love you all infinitely
@priyaanand9342
@priyaanand9342 3 жыл бұрын
Awesome points!! Well said, thanks for sharing 🙏🙏 💞💞
@karenross7391
@karenross7391 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you Aaron ❤️🙏
@SuperLeloPower
@SuperLeloPower 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for this video, latelly I've been dealing with a lot of internal conflict because of a lot of things that you have talked and you really iluminated me in such a way that just to hear that I feel empowered just to imagine the sensation of that realization to be sucessful, thanks Aaron!! :)
@js7924
@js7924 3 жыл бұрын
We all have been wounded in some way, although it’s all for our growth. Right? I absolutely love this segment because it basically describes all of us…and at end of the day we all strive to be happy and balanced!
@musicaparaler2139
@musicaparaler2139 3 жыл бұрын
"spectrum" the word you were looking for in the beginning :) Thank you Aaron 🙏
@sarahfairchild399
@sarahfairchild399 3 жыл бұрын
This is so important and so right on the mark!! Thanks guys!
@mypropertyguide9306
@mypropertyguide9306 3 жыл бұрын
Well said
@nalinisingh2684
@nalinisingh2684 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you Aaron Love always
@namaste2196
@namaste2196 3 жыл бұрын
THANK YOU 🙏
@trishdonner7106
@trishdonner7106 3 жыл бұрын
Love this 💞 Thank you
@thesobrietyplaybook
@thesobrietyplaybook 3 жыл бұрын
Good day 🙏 thank you 😊
@speshulgay
@speshulgay 3 жыл бұрын
Think of it like a battery the female is the negative - and male is the positive +. The feminine inherently is receptive and draws in energy effortlessly while the masculine is the output of energy.
@jaykeane25
@jaykeane25 3 жыл бұрын
This draws the concept of duality??
@jamesdoughty8086
@jamesdoughty8086 3 жыл бұрын
These distortions are often responsible for keeping us on the wheel of karma.
@brittanyann869
@brittanyann869 7 ай бұрын
Can I ask if I am in my wounded feminine and I change my actions and become more in my healed feminine, will that change my current relationship and heal it with my masculine who also responds wounded?
@cypheruniversity3074
@cypheruniversity3074 3 жыл бұрын
CHURCH ⛪❤️
3 жыл бұрын
Can you help answer these questions? 1. Why is it easier to be sad then happy? 2. How can we turn it around? Thank you
@warge4258
@warge4258 3 жыл бұрын
1. Because mind wants only to survive and if we are not aware of our mind doing it we are living very negative lives since all we care about is to keep our sense of self alive at all cost, it makes life experience hard and it's becoming nightmare as the time goes 2. In my case it was more about taking responsibility for my emotions and recognizing that how I treat others I'm treating myself, I also started to read books about psychology and let spirituality go, jordan's peterson book with his 12 rules to live by is great, it helps you truly understand what it's needed to be done if you wanna get better, you will understand that certain patterns you are repeating you're killing chance for your life to get better, which people should be in your circle, importance of socializing, from all the books I have read so far including spiritual, philosophical, religious and psychological, that one is the best I have read so far, to build a healthy compassionate relationship with yourself is definitely something worth knowing, wish you good luck and don't forget to be kind and patient to yourself
@andreakay6061
@andreakay6061 3 жыл бұрын
What about people who push love away? Is the energy mismatched? Or a case of more healing needed?
@klmiller333
@klmiller333 3 жыл бұрын
Hi Aaron...Do you believe in the twin flame concept ? Can you talk about it because it’s a new concept for me. Not sure it’s real.
@v-spirituality
@v-spirituality 3 жыл бұрын
How do you deal with the feeling of never being enough for love when it comes to stuff like this? I'm a guy who's been in a feminine frame my entire life, and I'd like to develop my divine masculine in a healthy way, but it just never feels enough and I can't see myself as loveable until I develop that.
@kiha6702
@kiha6702 3 жыл бұрын
My dear friend, it is not about reaching a 50/50 ratio of male and female energies, but to find YOUR unique ratio and live that fully 🤗🤗🤗
@crystalizqsh2
@crystalizqsh2 2 жыл бұрын
Some people only knows to grow these wounds in dm and df..I hope they get their karma soon..💯
@AwakenedBlackSheep1111
@AwakenedBlackSheep1111 3 жыл бұрын
🔥🔥🔥
@MM-xl2dk
@MM-xl2dk 3 жыл бұрын
💙
@heatherdellicker3943
@heatherdellicker3943 3 жыл бұрын
🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🙏🏻❤️
@Anna-hy3oo
@Anna-hy3oo 3 жыл бұрын
🙏🏼❤️
@myselfasevan
@myselfasevan 3 жыл бұрын
Aaron what are your thoughts on dating apps?
@themis828
@themis828 3 жыл бұрын
I met my wife on tinder. Both of us were vibrating at similar frequencies when we met. We have since fought, had many arguments, created treasure hunts for each other and continue to find new adventures. If you view the app as an extension of your own vibration, like a cup on a string, as you call out 'Marco' on one end, if your vibration is similar to the person answering 'polo', the app will be a success for you. By this line of thinking you move yourself out of the material world and into the energy world, thus attracting the kind of energy that you want to feel around you. Instead of looking at the person in the material world and never being satisfied, you see them as they are; energy. Therefore accepting yourself and creating room for someone else to blossom.
@myselfasevan
@myselfasevan 3 жыл бұрын
@@themis828 thanks for this great explanation. I’m definitely more open to using it now
@Un4gettablewolf
@Un4gettablewolf 3 жыл бұрын
Holy cow 45 seconds ago lol 😂
@sasmills
@sasmills 3 жыл бұрын
If I ever see Aaron in earshot/ face to face proximity... I'm going to look him in the eyes, call him out and say, "RA.... Aaron is a beatifully sculpted specimen inside and out"...
@vinci_irl
@vinci_irl 3 жыл бұрын
Ale czapeczka, ale ładny chłopak
@XenaTron7
@XenaTron7 3 жыл бұрын
Aaron Abke. I didn’t get to embrace you in this reality.
@AbettaLover
@AbettaLover 3 жыл бұрын
😉
@jhongreen3531
@jhongreen3531 3 жыл бұрын
This is so freaking beautiful and all true! Very needed in all the world but definitely the native/black community here in American these females today are very very masculine to the point its sad they forgot how to be submissive to a man ! Thank you guys so much for your words of enlightenment are spirit & souls needed it. Love & light ✌
@ReginaM2U
@ReginaM2U 3 жыл бұрын
How about the word "deference" instead of "submissive" ....no woman wants a dictator for a husband. Why is the word "submissive" what men grab onto because it certainly isn't a word that brings peace to a woman's heart. Only insecure males use that word.
@jhongreen3531
@jhongreen3531 3 жыл бұрын
@@ReginaM2U well i feel that im not i love all women & feel yall today are nothing like your grandmother or great not even a 100 years ago, they just knew how to treat a man & be a women back then just look at the world war 1 & 2 for example today this masculine energy is a problem according to some women it's not a problem to jeezy wife & many other's understand to over yes i will stick to my feminine energy when my man or husband comes home i want to do everything i can to build are relationship and the man feels the same way but these toxic relationships that has become the new norm on both sides is not cool no matter the word we choose to use let's fix's these broken hearts from past trauma & move forward & this is a start my aura is love n peace of mind body soul
@ReginaM2U
@ReginaM2U 3 жыл бұрын
@@jhongreen3531 Yes, women were different in decades past. Men were also different. And don't forget...100 years ago women could not vote. How was that good?! Men blur their lines into being feminine yet blame the woman. I fortunately have a masculine husband to my femininity. The acknowledgement and acceptance of the differences of the genders traits would help clarify boundaries and make life easier for both sexes. And it does matter what words are chosen...submit or deference...each has a distinct meaning. Being in a relationship/marriage where the woman gives deference to her husband is far more appealing than submitting to a husband as if he is dictator....no self-respecting woman would want that.
@jhongreen3531
@jhongreen3531 3 жыл бұрын
@@ReginaM2U ok feminine energy wins thanks for your input my goddess im just saying a lot has changed in a short period of time a little to much for me i know there's some strong beautiful hearted spirit soul driven female's out there but it seems like 1 out of every 50 and i a man of course i talk to men everyday it doesn't seem the same some female's idea of love isn't love
@skyandrews2613
@skyandrews2613 3 жыл бұрын
@@jhongreen3531 Women do not have to be submissive to men if they don’t want to be. Some people are naturally submissive/feminine and some are masculine. If you specifically want to find a submissive or feminine partner, seek to understand and learn about the things women experience with compassion. The fact that you think a time where women had no rights, no freedoms of expression, and were repressed in nearly every way was a good time period is honestly concerning. Submission is earned through trust.
@stephaniemichelleeno5370
@stephaniemichelleeno5370 3 жыл бұрын
A runner same old person and same old lies .. leads people on
@Un4gettablewolf
@Un4gettablewolf 3 жыл бұрын
Why are there so many different energies. That's what we need to talk about it lol
@Jadedgems
@Jadedgems 3 жыл бұрын
Wym? There’s consciousness and there’s power fueling our consciousness, that make up one being, the Source of all (Ra/Brahman/God)
@marssinclair2644
@marssinclair2644 3 жыл бұрын
6:30 women can absolutely do this too tho. from experience lol
@EdwardSteadfast
@EdwardSteadfast 3 жыл бұрын
Aaron. You got ready, looked in the mirror ..and was like; “yup bangs out the front of the hat! ” dude that’s no man.. super no!... It looks like you’re wearing a doo-rag sorta 😂 but.. Great message as always! I will not let the extended version myself wear a hat like that ever again. There are people that will talk to you, and not tell you that you have a chunk of salad in your teeth. That’s not us.
@thehighroad3774
@thehighroad3774 3 жыл бұрын
That was the first thing I noticed. I thought oh his hat has a fringe(bangs).
@dianakistaubaeva9321
@dianakistaubaeva9321 3 жыл бұрын
yall focused on da wrong thing 😂
@thehighroad3774
@thehighroad3774 3 жыл бұрын
@@dianakistaubaeva9321 I have been following Aaron for years but it is good to laugh. Good for the soul. Good for the heart. I'm sure Aaron won't take it personally, he has a great sense of humour.
@dianakistaubaeva9321
@dianakistaubaeva9321 3 жыл бұрын
@@thehighroad3774 lol it is funny 😂
@warge4258
@warge4258 3 жыл бұрын
I actually have questions about current society and how much feminine/masculine side in it is treated, that's something I would be very curious about to hear from you, because honestly when it comes to females nowadays, as a young male you are always getting their attitude that is humiliating to you in every way and if you stand up for yourself and you wanna be at least treated as a human with dignity and on the same level as you're treating her you get shamed, not sure if I'm missing some spiritual truth in life but I haven't met a woman so far that is truly interested in something else than her own image that she wanna have fed by all means neccessary, so far I have experienced only manipulation and games they play only lead to their satisfaction and yours humiliation, if there is something that I'm missing and this society is not heavily built up against young men and is not trying to prevent young females to see in young males human beings too, I would like to know what is it that I'm missing, it would be really helpful thanks
@newheavenuniversegoldenglo2734
@newheavenuniversegoldenglo2734 3 жыл бұрын
When does the world change? The world change when WE see the Church stop crucifying Jesus and START teaching the DHARMA Sutra of BUDDHA Infinite LIGHT!
@okeythegoat2332
@okeythegoat2332 3 жыл бұрын
So the masculine is to be a simp and white knight. Interesting 🤔
@skyandrews2613
@skyandrews2613 3 жыл бұрын
if you think respecting women is being a "simp" maybe you should just date other men (there's nothing wrong with preferring that)
@okeythegoat2332
@okeythegoat2332 3 жыл бұрын
@@skyandrews2613 I didn’t ask ur opinion ma’am. Have a nice day. I’m try to be respectful on this platform. Y’all dont understand the duality of masculinity and femininity.
@skyandrews2613
@skyandrews2613 3 жыл бұрын
@@okeythegoat2332 It’s a public space, people can comment in response to other comments.
@okeythegoat2332
@okeythegoat2332 3 жыл бұрын
@@skyandrews2613 yes but don’t use shaming language like dating other men. I don’t respect that. 👎🏿
@psychosocial2443
@psychosocial2443 3 жыл бұрын
This is a good video but a lot of it sounds very based on a heteronormative perspective. Lgbt relationships usually stray from the strict heteronormative dynamics.
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