Mother of domestic violence victim after daughter's death: 'It was like the police failed.'
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@ampositivewoman21032 жыл бұрын
That 911 operator should be fired IMMEDIATELY. Working with the public during crisis isn't her calling.
@missdee19272 жыл бұрын
IMMEDIATELY!!!
@Yvettee2142 жыл бұрын
I concur!
@8td8tr2 жыл бұрын
I do agree. Pitiful excuse for 911 operator.
@trollallday1512 жыл бұрын
Yes she sounded like the women told her that her he was just standing in the yard or something
@tamikawiggins62302 жыл бұрын
I could understand her..So y couldn't the dispatcher
@ChildOfYAHUUH2 жыл бұрын
She called an hour before her life was taken and if the dispatchers would've taken their jobs more seriously, her death could've been prevented, which is negligence on behalf of the dispatchers and I would hire an attorney to sue. They deserve to be sued and fired. They were completely useless in this case.
@joannacuriel18812 жыл бұрын
Yes dispatch has gotten so bad it is ridiculous we call y’all for help and dispatch always fells us and most of them are rude as hell don’t do shit to the point you feel you got to take care of it your self as the community we are not protected mean while police cruise around making bucks sick of it.Rip your daughter 🙏
@CleaningWithAPurpose2 жыл бұрын
Not really she was gonna end up dead because of the person he is
@BreBre0252 жыл бұрын
@@CleaningWithAPurpose You don’t know that for a fact. That’s really rude to say tbh.
@CleaningWithAPurpose2 жыл бұрын
@@BreBre025 the type of background he had was very telling so miss me with it please
@BreBre0252 жыл бұрын
@@CleaningWithAPurpose Like the hell i said. it’s still rude AS FUCK to say that SHE was gonna end up dead anyway. The hell type of comment is that
@nimosluv64012 жыл бұрын
"he shot my grandma" "okay, what did he do to your grandma" "he has a gun" "okay but what did he do to your grandma" this dispatcher clearly was never taught to listen for context clues .....
@isblessed57852 жыл бұрын
She was full of stupidity
@Prettygurl4202 жыл бұрын
Right…if we could understand why couldn’t she…this is ridiculous…
@Fly.Geek.Rose.Official2 жыл бұрын
No she didn't care because she was a black woman. She wanted her to die ...
@gailainsley69392 жыл бұрын
They probably didn’t take her seriously because they can’t hear any shots etc also. She didn’t sound panicked or anything. If you listen to the calls. You can tell they didn’t take her seriously. She sounds too calm and like it isn’t urgent. Like someone calling just to talk. It’s not right but I can sort of see why they wanted to ask questions because I watched a documentary that stated they get too many prank calls which wastes a lot of time and money.
@CynikaI2 жыл бұрын
@@gailainsley6939 shut up youre wrong
@LivxLaughxLove2 жыл бұрын
Her: "He just shot my grand mama. He just shot my grand mama." Dispatcher: He just did what to your grand mama? Ma'am...MA'AM... Then she tried to file a report and that dispatcher was giving her the 3rd degree. I swear comprehension and helping ain't some of these dispatchers calling. Clock out and go home before yall get somebody else's baby killed
@bondiblugirl2 жыл бұрын
To the dispatcher defense I also couldn't hear what she said about her gramma,if there was no transcription I wouldn't know But those police delayed
@LemonyLightSkinnChic2 жыл бұрын
Couldn't agree more...
@shrimptempuraasmr37422 жыл бұрын
Seems like the 911 operator wanted to be more in her business then to send her help while he was breaking in... This is so sad... May she RIP
@1STSUN5THCHILD2 жыл бұрын
Exactly
@kymberlipomerants55202 жыл бұрын
Which 911 operator are you talking about?
@NP-zs5ui2 жыл бұрын
Well, with limited resources, I don't blame the. dispatcher. Officers should be sent to help real victims not people who bring problems on themselves. She picked that loser.
@Tat2Dragons2 жыл бұрын
@@kymberlipomerants5520 Really… you can’t figure that one out for yourself?
@jamayaharley39142 жыл бұрын
@@kymberlipomerants5520 they're not understanding which operators are which. The lady who was bn smart with her was from a different time. The operator from the night of the tragedy is the other lady that said they didn't have a call from her which is the second lady👌🏽🤭🤔
@justice59922 жыл бұрын
The condescending 911 dispatcher was out of line & needs to be fired. The way people are treated in the midst of domestic violence is disgusting. Why was she talking to her like that? The victim is more respectful than I would have been in that situation. May she rest in peace.
@blessed17172 жыл бұрын
Yes!!!
@missdee19272 жыл бұрын
It was absolutely disgusting how she KEPT asking the SAME QUESTIONS!!!
@Yvettee2142 жыл бұрын
I agree!
@lashurediscussion49702 жыл бұрын
Although, the dispatcher is wrong. Law enforcement, judges & lawyers, social workers often times have that same view point. As I recall a judge telling an individual that individual that file protection orders, then don’t follow the order, allow the abuser back or drop the order, then come running back to re-open the case. Makes it harder for a real victim. Then again many don’t understand the pressure some DV victims are in. Some are forced to go to court and put on a smiling face and drop the order.
@BRIDEOFCHRIST-kd2nl2 жыл бұрын
@@lashurediscussion4970 It doesn't matter that was not the dispatchers place . Her place is to take the call, try to calm down the situation and send law enforcement. The dispatcher was right but it was not appropriate
@redtaylor49362 жыл бұрын
I'll never forget when Derrick broke in my house,and dragged me from the bathroom through the living room and kitchen,down the four steps to my room by my hair.I was so tired of being abused and tortured my whole life,I told him he was gonna have to kill me,and he tried.For two hours I fought for my life.I have a restraining order everytime the police came they let him right back out.Even fought the police once.After those two hours was up,he left my house and called me a crazy b...I've been single for over 4 years now,no way am I going through that again.Im sorry this happened to your family
@tdpooh19722 жыл бұрын
I'm so truly sorry for what you've gone thru. 😥 🙏 It's not right.😡
@sarahbanye8512 жыл бұрын
I am so sorry that you had to go through that. No one deserves to be made to fear for their lives like that, especially not in the comfort of their own home.
@justshalicious62832 жыл бұрын
Your ordeal was heartbreaking as well. Thanks for sharing. Some of us aren’t as strong as we’d like to be. This is why owning guns to help protect us if the police that are getting billions of our tax paying dollars can’t then defunding the police isn’t the wrong option. 💙
@Sambam19812 жыл бұрын
I’m sorry to is happened
@unparalleled_designs2 жыл бұрын
@Blaze Blaze it’s people like you that make victims not wanna say anything. Do you see what leaving got them??? They have to be careful. It’s not easy to just leave. The other young lady is dead. He tried to kill her. Look how many times he got out after reports were filed and attacks happened. Sure…she should’ve just left. Poor woman would’ve been dead too smh
@forever__unbothered37582 жыл бұрын
That ratchet azz dispatcher should've been fired. I pray she's been fired. Insane. Poor baby was definitely failed and it should be some consequences and repercussions
@e.b84582 жыл бұрын
They most definitely failed her. What is wrong with these dispatchers??? They don't be understanding. Asking the same questions when we all could hear the conversation just as clear as day. Omg!! So sad! I pray for this family.
@writtenhousesecurity64992 жыл бұрын
When seconds count the police are only 30 minutes away. 🤔
@emmacoleman77922 жыл бұрын
She needs to be fired
@kitingalla28262 жыл бұрын
The problem is these are the same people that screaming to defund the police and then complain when there's no police officers to help them make up your mind what do you want
@matemahe2 жыл бұрын
@@kitingalla2826 The reason they should be is bc they system doesn't treat their citizens equally. This is an example. Had this situation happened in a different community an officer would have been there within 5 minutes.
@shastajustice37532 жыл бұрын
often dispatch will stay on the phone with the caller to get more details after a cop has been sent to the address. We don't know all the details.
@TwoTrees7772 жыл бұрын
as a former police woman listening to this dispatcher infuriates me! what a disgrace! SHAME ON YOU! RIP Queen ....that monster is rotting in hell! BOTH DISPATCHERS ARE A DISGRACE!
@Iknowyoumadnow2 жыл бұрын
Girl you can lock me up and throw away the key 🗝️😏
@TwoTrees7772 жыл бұрын
@@Iknowyoumadnow you so funny but im being serious these dispatchers are heartless and so was the montser that killed this baby girl
@MikaelaSimone2 жыл бұрын
I agree both dispatchers were bad. The first one was deaf i guess because she kept repeating the same thing to the caller and the 2nd one was accusing her of being around the man as if the caller was purposely hanging out with him vs being basically kidnapped by him. RIP to the victim/caller.
@lharris13802 жыл бұрын
As a former dispatcher & now police officer this call is burning my insides
@wildchild14272 жыл бұрын
@@TwoTrees777The minute he pointed that gun at my fat ass grandma I would have been the monster!!! This world is backwards!
@michelle36182 жыл бұрын
This is so tragic… About a month ago I was getting ready for work around 4am as normal. Finally when I was dressed i headed towards the front of my house and my camera alerted me of movement at my front door… most of the time it’s only the wind. But this particular morning that wasn’t the case. There a man walking around my house with his hands in his pants. Literally just pacing back and forth. I ran to my bedroom got in my closet and called 911. This is NO LIE I was on the phone with dispatch for 27 minutes. My friend happened to text me during all of this. And I told him what was happening. My friend made it to my house BEFORE the police did……. It’s not a dispatch problem it’s a entire police station problem and MOST of all a color problem that depends on how quickly the police responds to the caller.
@yolanda67782 жыл бұрын
true!
@ms.blackee76352 жыл бұрын
Damn I'm glad you are ok, blessing to your friend who didnt hesitate to get there 💪🏾. Hopefully you will be unlocked and loaded just in case something should try to come across you again with bad intentions.
@loracrafter76082 жыл бұрын
The dispatcher needs to be fired! Don’t question me when I tell you I need help! Her life could’ve been saved as with so many others!
@angeltaylor3052 жыл бұрын
They ALL killed that girl. They let her down. No way she made that many calls for help. This so sad.
@jdduval142 жыл бұрын
@angel Taylor but she continued to interact with him
@caramelkimmiekim82722 жыл бұрын
She did it the herself she been left that man alone
@Thee_A.Palmer2 жыл бұрын
@@caramelkimmiekim8272 HE BROKE INTO HER HOME!!! He’s the one who wouldn’t leave her alone.
@MzLuvyee12 жыл бұрын
@@jdduval14 u don’t know if she continued to interact wit him, or that he just wouldn’t leave her alone!
@towanahines78612 жыл бұрын
Yes so sad the system isn't for us
@aliciaking59732 жыл бұрын
That illiterate dispatcher should be held accountable. This is ridiculous!🤬🤬🤬
@Beautyshines19642 жыл бұрын
Exactly
@jackiehumphery3742 жыл бұрын
She need to be arrested
@fazfawl2 жыл бұрын
Absolutely
@LadyYella2 жыл бұрын
I know right
@SongbirdGLS2 жыл бұрын
This is becoming a daily occurrence. Ladies, if you can't depend on law enforcement (and in most cases you cannot) it's time to take self defense classes, or arm up and learn to shoot. I know what it's like to be in an abusive situation for many years, but I was a fighter and after the 1st arrest when he came right back home, I got serious about my own protection until I could get away from him with the kids. Even if all you have is a baseball bat and a butcher knife if you all are fighting, it gives you a chance. My condolences to this family! 😢
@alexandrajones21782 жыл бұрын
That is right. I been in one but I took him back for what. And ask for help please , if you take him back and he keep putting hands on you. Yes don't ask for him, from family, tha law ,or anybody , realize why you accepted that, kick ass and get the fuck out and never go back... I blame no one but self, I love self, have lord on my team, prayers to all women.
@meri6691 Жыл бұрын
I agree with you 100%.
@jamikajohnson5378 Жыл бұрын
Time to leave
@ali-ciafigous54572 жыл бұрын
They don’t care about us and it shows . This is so heartbreaking . I’d sue for wrongful death as well
@_cocosunny2 жыл бұрын
This is so sad. Since when are 911 dispatchers counselors? She should be fired. Don't blame the victim and now this young lady is dead. This is so frustrating and scary. We really are not protected at all! My condolences to the family.
@writtenhousesecurity64992 жыл бұрын
😂😂 Did you just come out of a coma ?
@kitingalla28262 жыл бұрын
But see these are the same people of that screen for help from the police are the ones they were screaming to defund them so make up your mind which one do you want you can't have it both ways
@CookieWoods.2 жыл бұрын
@@unknown-vh7uj no she shouldn't be! This young lady did everything she was supposed to within the law! How was she supposed to control him violating the protective order! They should fire her & lock her up! She went waaay above her $12 an hour @ss pay grade!
@CookieWoods.2 жыл бұрын
@@kitingalla2826 nobody in this situation have said anything abt defunding the police. So why assume such! You making that moot statement is like punching the air! 🙄 "the same people", cut it out now your racism is showing.
@JustAGrl0072 жыл бұрын
They're not counselors but to be honest she was being real and calling her out on her sheit. HTF you file a protective order then still hang around this man?
@FNJ7202 жыл бұрын
The mom needs to sue the county or whoever is in charge of the 911 system there. R.I.P. to the young lady.
@honeythomas28092 жыл бұрын
She will
@mybizness2472 жыл бұрын
I would sue the county and each dispatcher separately!!
@shawnreid61232 жыл бұрын
This is awful and very disturbing! These dispatchers need their lives checked, sued and training!! I'm appalled at the questioning during this women's time of need.😡🤬
@azaleabethea55342 жыл бұрын
What actions were taken against the 911 dispatcher who lectured the victim n never dispatched help???? She should b FIRED!!!!!
@MrQuintonp192 жыл бұрын
So sad , she needed help and nobody was there , rest easy sis 🙏🏿
@cbill78392 жыл бұрын
I know. Especially her neighbors and community. Hearing a rabid animal breaking into a house and no man in that community does anything. Thats sad.
@jackiehumphery3742 жыл бұрын
Horrible
@wildchild14272 жыл бұрын
God jams pistols.... Call 911, drop the phone, fight for your life!!!!!!
@merindaarvie282 жыл бұрын
That dispatcher is partially to blame! You heard her the first time!!
@baileybutterfly3202 жыл бұрын
Exactly!!!! That dispatcher has to be racist! I would sue the police department, the city and etc
@LizDaWiz2 жыл бұрын
911 DISPATHERS SHOULD BE IDENTIFIED CIVIL PROSECUTED
@tiffnym2 жыл бұрын
@@baileybutterfly320 here you go with this racist stuff. You look for that under every rock, it's tired!
@bonniewalker56522 жыл бұрын
Exactly I mean I can understand the first and second times but a third for no ma’am she shouldn’t of had to do that the cops while she was on the phone with the dispatcher should’ve already been on their way
@bonniewalker56522 жыл бұрын
@@baileybutterfly320 how do you know that the dispatcher was being racist Even if she won’t that’s no excuse not to do your job
@pootus92 жыл бұрын
These dispatchers should also stand trial. They’re incompetent and some don’t even care. Some are also motivated by racial prejudice and serve communities they don’t even care about …
@kemunapeace24412 жыл бұрын
Wow. That dispatch person gaslighting her after she was kidnapped by him. Wow. Disgusting. Bless her soul. I hope the family does get justice. She did everything in her power and was ignored and neglected. SMH
@yeenstr86202 жыл бұрын
I cannot fathom dialing 911 for assistance, only to be ridiculed & have my integrity & rationality questioned. Nor could I fathom the operator who is trained 2 listen & respond appropriately disregard & deviate from that task. This is such an important role 2 uphold. These two 911 operators took a judgemental and lackluster approach in their duties. Despicable... R.I.P. young woman... 🤨🤦♂️
@nowirehangers28152 жыл бұрын
She wasn’t ridiculed
@yeenstr86202 жыл бұрын
@@nowirehangers2815 She was verbally attacked with contempt... That my uneducated friend relates to *"ridicule"* ... 🙄
@fvfr62942 жыл бұрын
I would've cussed her ass out! 911 operator or not
@nowirehangers28152 жыл бұрын
@PiscesSun CancerMoon she shouldn’t have been inviting him round then
@yeenstr86202 жыл бұрын
@@nowirehangers2815 He invited himself around when according 2 the authorities, he forced her n2 a vehicle against her will. She then contacted police. You're digging hard aren't you???... 🤨
@myrtle70432 жыл бұрын
The 911 operator was so calm like "what did he do to your grandma"? No hurry no rush, Lord have mercy!
@tamikawiggins62302 жыл бұрын
That makes me so mad
@anetonettecowan33062 жыл бұрын
Over here BOILING!!!SMH
@AlmondJoie2 жыл бұрын
She was clearly in distress, yet the 911 operator acted more like she was listening to the details of a horror movie, rather than focusing on DOING. HER. JOB!!!
@rahra24832 жыл бұрын
right, "did something" is the key phrase. she didn't need to know what he did to the grandma, get the police and paramedics over there to find out!!!
@sandrawilson60312 жыл бұрын
Find out who the dispatcher was. Sure it's easy to do.
@kirahoward232 жыл бұрын
What’s up with these 911 operators acting like they’re in a freaking Call Center😡
@meganchelius59262 жыл бұрын
I really hope that dispatcher was fired! The way she spoke to jaquinsia is appalling and unacceptable… so disgusting 🤢
@andrebrown46692 жыл бұрын
Those 911 operators need to be arrested for assisting the criminals. They have the victim repeating questions that make no sense.🙄
@tammypegorch29542 жыл бұрын
I watched the abuse on my daughter
@tammypegorch29542 жыл бұрын
She being an adult I couldn't put the guy in jail ..very sad very ignorant dispatcher.prayers n rip
@LizDaWiz2 жыл бұрын
Elizabeth Williams 911 DISPATHERS SHOULD BE IDENTIFIED CIVIL PROSECUTED
@SilentBoss4442 жыл бұрын
Hearing her have my heart racing… That just broken when she said they should have been there 30 mins ago. 🙏🏾💔
@feliciaadams85452 жыл бұрын
Those dispatchers were to busy being FOOLISH to get the police enroute to her house.
@SilentBoss4442 жыл бұрын
@@feliciaadams8545 Right. They need to train them better
@fulanichild31382 жыл бұрын
So often dispatchers sound really cynical, almost like they think their job is a joke or they think the callers are a joke. I have a feeling it reveals the culture of their police department.
@pacific88ocean372 жыл бұрын
Them Demon's don't care about a piece of paper that's a Joke!!! Them types of Men laugh at that!! She Needed a Gun to handle him!! Point Blank Period
@mariahalexis_x2 жыл бұрын
fire that dispatcher immediately! so negligent. her life could've been saved. may she rest in peace.
@Introvertednailqueen2 жыл бұрын
The dispatchers were terrible. Especially the second one. She didn’t ask to be ridiculed. Just do your job and help the girl. Smh. The law didn’t protect her. So sorry she lost her life. 💔
@ridethewaves40342 жыл бұрын
First of all, that domestic violence counselor should have been fired or taken off the hotline and retrained. Who the hell blames the victim in domestic violence situations? Horrible! Anyone who clearly understands the cycle of abuse would responded in a different manner. Also, shout out to 911 for prioritizing this call, another failed moment, smdh. God help all victims of DV.
@jackiehumphery3742 жыл бұрын
Amen
@wildchild14272 жыл бұрын
God does protect victims of dv, it is called a handgun license & target practice! If he or she doesn't understand an Order of Protection they can be the 1st Target! The end.
@ridethewaves40342 жыл бұрын
@@wildchild1427 when it's your time to go, no gun, PO, or whatever can prevent your life from ending. All of our days are numbered. We just don't know who, how, what, or when.
@80Rush2 жыл бұрын
Stupid crazy fool, need to be fired and fined
@marewaltwms12 жыл бұрын
I can imagine if they've gotten there that day wouldn't have been her day to go
@JustJenRx2 жыл бұрын
I am so mad at this 911 operator. She said it 3 freaking times!!! 3 times!!!
@DCamp12712 жыл бұрын
I would've expected the dispatcher to direct her to find a locked room in the house, or at least one she could have barricaded, like a bathroom or closet. if she called an hour before that means she had enough time to do something like that. it is really the dispatcher's job to think objectively in these situations because the victim oftentimes doesn't have the presence of mind to act in their own best interests and needs simple, direct instructions on how to prevent themselves from further danger. it wasn't as if the victim was screaming, incoherent or belligerent - she was calm up until the moment of death, so it would have been a lot easier to hear her and to direct her. she was definitely failed by all involved in this situation.
@francesjenkins76612 жыл бұрын
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@TheGnken2 жыл бұрын
What in the hell was wrong with the 911 dispatcher’s 😭 this is heartbreaking
@lovelyone16752 жыл бұрын
It is very heartbreaking….but I have to say…..black women need to stop dating criminals!!! The man was in jail for a sex crime. This breaks my heart. We have to stop making these black men “victims of the system “ because what ends up happening is that women keep assuming that these men were railroaded or just need a good women to make them want to do better. She should have never gave this man the time of day. My ladies…..file an order of protection and get a gun!! We have to protect ourselves.
@Fly.Geek.Rose.Official2 жыл бұрын
Racist ...that's what was wrong with her
@BroNx88Jay2 жыл бұрын
A lot of women choose Good D*ck over a Good man
@pp3k3jamail2 жыл бұрын
@@Fly.Geek.Rose.Official that 911 dispatcher was a black woman. That didn't sound like no Caucasian women.
@CookieWoods.2 жыл бұрын
Do they train these dispatchers to just repeat what they hear! Listening to these calls are just heartwrenching & ridiculous!
@SirSmizzi2 жыл бұрын
I think they do that to keep them talkin
@CookieWoods.2 жыл бұрын
@@SirSmizzi oh okay, well now that makes more sense. It just seems that there's a disconnect somewhere being that either the police takes too long or don't come at all. These stories just breaks my heart to hear.
@jacquelynsmith68762 жыл бұрын
The dispatcher was telling the truth ..maybe it’s not her place .. my mom and cousin were both in abuse relationship… they call the police on their spouse then a few days later they are back with the abuser … keep others out of your business if you are going to continually go back …
@CookieWoods.2 жыл бұрын
@@jacquelynsmith6876 but she didn't go back. He came to her. So the disbatcher was loud & wrong!
@jacquelynsmith68762 жыл бұрын
@@CookieWoods. ok will that is different… but believe it or not a lot women go back over and over again …
@cymonemartin27862 жыл бұрын
They need to quit asking 100 fucking question before a cop is dispatched the only thing they really should ask is “WHAT IS YOUR EMERGENCY and WHAT IS YOUR ADDRESS”
@jordanwhite73002 жыл бұрын
So sad they failed her if they had NOT FAILED HER SHE WOULD BE HERE TODAY. MAY SHE REST EASY HER FAMILY HAS MY PRAYERS AND CONDOLENCES 💜🕊 💜
@AMBROSIA13202 жыл бұрын
This is why law abiding citizens need to get the proper paperwork and training, and then arm themselves. This was horrible, and there are too many stories like this. We have to defend ourselves like no one is coming, because sometimes they don't. God be with the family, and rest in peace to the woman. Be safe everyone 🙏💕.
@elinettelopez-dinkins23642 жыл бұрын
I absolutely agree 💯
@uwuiseeyouuwu28192 жыл бұрын
No need i can get a gun online
@malakahbanathyasharahla23022 жыл бұрын
Where do the women find these demons and why you accept evil/ wicked spirted monsters in your life? 🙄😏😲
@malakahbanathyasharahla23022 жыл бұрын
@@uwuiseeyouuwu2819 🤣🤣🤣 But there are laws in each state regarding having a gun without being licensed. Yep you are correct you can purchase weapons online. Please make sure you are legal to carry.
@cassandra29942 жыл бұрын
@@malakahbanathyasharahla2302 Because they don't act that way in the beginning.
@TroyP202 жыл бұрын
This is what happens when seconds matter, the police will not get their in time. You must save yourself, no one is coming to save you when seconds matter. You are your own best defense, get a gun learn how to use it and go practice at the gun range.
@keysaysassah2 жыл бұрын
Having a gun in the home increases your risk of being shot by the same gun, you can Google the stat. For someone like this who stalks you and is violent, police need to be involved ASAP and the person has to be locked up. They will hide, they will deceive, they will stalk and wait for the second you are alone, sleeping, off guard or trying to protect someone else to get you. Not saying self-defense is wrong but the whole 'get a fire arm!!' responses ignores several glaring realities that victims face
@tanganyikarichardson55882 жыл бұрын
I agree felonies or not get a gun
@kymberlipomerants55202 жыл бұрын
THERE in time
@gameova68972 жыл бұрын
Would've BEEN took him OUT a LONG time ago.😱🤫🤭🤔🙄😠😡💩
@kymberlipomerants55202 жыл бұрын
@@gameova6897 amen
@theeradiantgoddess2 жыл бұрын
That one questioning her need to lose their job immediately!!!
@carolamoore723 күн бұрын
I definitely agree that the dispatcher's should be fired or retrained, because they did not help her, but women have to stop allowing these kind of men into their lives. There are always signs that a man is controlling or abusive in some way, and at that first sign, you need to leave him alone. I went through this with my mom and step dad for the majority of my young life. No child should have to go through that. I have been married to my husband for 26 years and have never went through any kind of domestic violence. No one has the right to put their hands on you in any kind of way, so don't let them. 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
@faithinallthingsw40882 жыл бұрын
I've called 911 several times as a mandated reporter and they do ask a lot questions. Also, the professionalism is non existent in this generation. I'm thankful I was raised with old school family members. Courtesy, respect, and do an honest days work.
@verlania75392 жыл бұрын
They don't ask me a lot of questions. Soon as they start with that, I start yelling and acting beside myself. I show no respect to stupidity
@kemunapeace24412 жыл бұрын
That depends on what they are responding to. If it's an immediate threat or a break-in. Just because they ask a lot of questions sometimes does not mean that they delay sending the responders until they get answers to nonpressing questions. They should not do that. Asking a bunch of questions from someone in an immediate emergency is just dense. No way that, that is standard practice. She had called an hour before the call that was played.
@fulanichild31382 жыл бұрын
@@kemunapeace2441 Before they launch into a bunch of repetitive questions, they should tell the caller "I have police/fire/ambulance on the way. Let me get some more information from you." Is that so hard?
@beautifulbutterfly39392 жыл бұрын
I love being single for 8 year's now....I don't miss none of that drama in a relationship. No ma'am No ma'am No ma'am No ma'am. Thank you you lord.
@maxinehaynes43462 жыл бұрын
Speechless!
@tessiecoley11792 жыл бұрын
I have a daughter is going through something similar I pray that she makes the right decision and may God bless your daughter and family to get through it blessings
@confessionswithnikkiegsint63782 жыл бұрын
I experienced the same attitude from an officer as I entered the police station with my 2 children i had just escaped a night of physical abuse from my ex with visible bruises on my body but I was only "blamed" it was at that moment that I lost hope . I pray that this family gets justice and be able to help others whom may be in this situation.
@Better2Care2 жыл бұрын
Try being beat to within an inch of your life and stabbing the perpetrator but you’re the one arrested with visible cuts, bruises scratches yet not only are you arrested but the officers didn’t even take your statement or render aid just threw some handcuffs on you
@praxym92932 жыл бұрын
Same here.for me,it was an assault and rape from someone I didn't know. I went to the police after the hospital and as I was in a mask to cover my swollen face,they asked if I was drunk or not.i was mad
@franceseccher4092 жыл бұрын
Law enforcement doesn't take what an abused woman says seriously.
@michealtyler97022 жыл бұрын
They probably don't care and feel you picked him. Plus most women cry and holler then go back to the man. They probably get tired of getting in people's foolishness and personal problems...
@confessionswithnikkiegsint63782 жыл бұрын
@@michealtyler9702 The key word in your response is " MOST" not all women return. However, if someone CHOOSES a career as an officer then it becomes their responsibility to respond to criminal situations as instructed in provided protocols from their departments. It is not their responsibility to judge, assume or make their personal feelings known to the person.
@lovelythoughts88552 жыл бұрын
The dispatcher had no right to be questioning her. Just do the report! Her answers were vague because she was tired of answering.
@never4saken1652 жыл бұрын
That 911 operater should've been disciplined or fired. That young lady spoke clearly and shouldn't have had to keep repeating herself!
@Dirty_7302 жыл бұрын
Them 911 dispatcher should be fired. They must have been high off drugs.
@stacemo2 жыл бұрын
Right. Always asking questions cause it’s part of the job but ain’t listening at all
@delancebeane54652 жыл бұрын
The 911 operator was keeping it real and women that love thugs should listen to every word the 911 operator told this young lady it just might save their life why take out a personal protection order and you still hanging around the thug
@stacemo2 жыл бұрын
@@delancebeane5465 facts.
@leairetrent74862 жыл бұрын
Whoever those 911 operators were especially the one questioning her about being around him and allowing him to do this to her need to be fired!!! Her saying that to her when she's asking for help infuriates me. She had a restraining order the man grabbed her basically kidnapped her and the 911 dispatcher is saying why'd you allow it, I'm so infuriated right now because I've been in a position where someone is abusive. She was taking the right steps to protect herself!
@browneyes36992 жыл бұрын
I totally agree with you!!!
@8td8tr2 жыл бұрын
Some people get hired as 911 operators are not qualified. Hope she got fired.
@Inksplash522 жыл бұрын
I agree
@joycepriest59492 жыл бұрын
My deepest condolences to this godly family. God please help this grieving family heal , Amen.
@1QuietStormGaming2 жыл бұрын
This is so sad. I had a bad experience with 911 when i was a kid my older brother was having a seizure and the 911 operator told me stop playing on the phone and i was only 9 years old. So its been like this for a while now. RIP to that Queen and thank God the grandmother survived. He was a coward.
@Lucelife2 жыл бұрын
I’m literally cringing at the way the dispatcher spoke to her. Blaming her when he was the one who wouldn’t leave her alone. She should be fired.
@itsdriaworld51652 жыл бұрын
And charged with murder
@torri47772 жыл бұрын
Exactly! The ignorance of this dispatcher proves the position goes to anyone 🙄
@VILLAIN4LIFE602 жыл бұрын
The dispatcher was nonchalant seemed like she didn't care
@tonyafannings96022 жыл бұрын
Rest in peace to her beautiful daughter rest in paradise God angel I send my prayers to the family during this hard and difficult time
@amaized2no2392 жыл бұрын
That 911 operator should have been fired, was it her job to interrogate the victim. She should of been sending the police out immediately!
@sanaedillard66592 жыл бұрын
Period
@aliciacargile6862 жыл бұрын
Please firetht 911 operator she had no business asking personal question instead of sending help an hour she could have been alive wow so sad
@jomarshall79552 жыл бұрын
LADIES...ARM YOURSELF WHEN YOU KNOW YOU DEALING WITH A NUT
@limaflavio79262 жыл бұрын
Or don’t deal with a nut
@lavender84262 жыл бұрын
Thank you!!!
@313Gyrl2 жыл бұрын
THANK YOU
@darkchoklit63992 жыл бұрын
Or just don’t deal with nuts!!
@barbaracockrell6182 жыл бұрын
Ok I get that but why deal with someone with loose screws when their are tight screw's out their you got a choice.
@austinrichards66872 жыл бұрын
He should’ve spent time in jail instead of being a coward
@josephrobinson98246 ай бұрын
May that beautiful woman rest in peace.🙏
@LexyTheEbikeQueen2 жыл бұрын
I can not believe the dispatcher was talking to that lady like that wow she needs to be fired seriously
@tinawindham69582 жыл бұрын
He was no good for nothing! That girl couldn’t have known his history…he was a ticking time bomb. Mom, I see your grief and I’m so sorry he killed your baby.
@lward96752 жыл бұрын
yes, she could have.
@tanganyikarichardson55882 жыл бұрын
Thank you for not victim blaming lawyers and doctors killing they women and husband too
@jswann7212 жыл бұрын
Background checks on all BM. It’s too risky not too.
@thekaerichtexas2 жыл бұрын
Yes she probably knew it. I google everyone's name I meet and even my coworkers. I need to know who's around me. She just didn't care and she got what she got because she didn't care. Just wanted any man.....she knew he was a sex offender. You can Google anyone u want to find and sex offenders pop up immediately. It not hard to do.
@Reshme772 жыл бұрын
She couldn't do a background check they have that online not trying to victim blame but you have to be responsible and know who you are dating.
@mygreatescape96172 жыл бұрын
The police failed in protecting the women, as a domestic violence survivor my heart goes out to the victim and her family, this should never happen.🙏❤️
@deandreamurphy2166 Жыл бұрын
That dispatcher needs to be fired and charged with something dammit. She playing dumb like she can't hear. Emergency personnel should not be incompetent. You playing with people's lives.
@a.mouthfull49012 жыл бұрын
Dispatcher 🤬
@Vdub4812 жыл бұрын
They never do anything
@2bjjones2 жыл бұрын
This man had the background. Why was she dating him?
@stacemo2 жыл бұрын
Because these women to slow to run background checks on these heathens.
@truthserum4life1012 жыл бұрын
They have no morals, no standards & no values. They're no different than the males they born & Raise. 💯 Just leave them to their false god jesus christ & continue to watch their Sottish ashes disappear.
@taylorhaze86512 жыл бұрын
The government runs background checks on the same bm that bw date and bw are still being toe tagged. Running a background check is not always guaranteed.
@KIRKSHINTATURNIPSEED2 жыл бұрын
Daddy left and left broken women seeking a daddy
@SpousalPrivilege2 жыл бұрын
Dispatchers and officials like THESE are an embarrassment to the duty and public education! NEITHER of them handled their responsibility or the job according to reasonable protocol! VERY disturbing!
@Coreycolay2 жыл бұрын
SHE KEPT BRINGING THIS DEMON AROUND. LADIES WAKE UP!!!!!!!!!
@LadyYella2 жыл бұрын
I know right smh 🤦
@ladyprepper42 жыл бұрын
This man was a convicted sex offender. Why would anyone have a relationship with him? This is sadly how most of these relationships turn out. LADIES, DO A BACKGROUND CHECK before getting involved with a man.
@elbarain24402 жыл бұрын
Because women don't go looking at registries because should women be doing an extensive background check before dating? What happens if it's a fake name he gave her..... Because abusers manipulate. Because you need to understand that it is not her fault.
@SouthSideLadyWright2 жыл бұрын
@@elbarain2440 There's always warnings before destruction. Red flags always waving about but some women ignore them.
@shayj11712 жыл бұрын
The 911 dispatcher should be fired
@Dobviews2 жыл бұрын
The judge who allowed him out should be held accountable for this poor woman's death and attack on the grandmother.
@mees27512 жыл бұрын
When will they learn orders of protection don’t protect women. Putting these evil demons in prison and denying them bond will save lives.
@martinag22762 жыл бұрын
Why did it take the police so long to respond? I feel so bad for the family, this is a nightmare calling for help and police did nothing
@tanganyikarichardson55882 жыл бұрын
Because she is black they refuse to help brown people but looking for Dylan
@franwade40592 жыл бұрын
Virginia , because she was a person of color. Domestic violence happens in all ethnic groups, regardless of age, profession or even financial standing. My prayers go out to anyone that has endured domestic violence and have no real way out, or response, when they call 911. What happened to this victim was more than tragic . My condolences to her family and friends.
@dsmart20022 жыл бұрын
Ladies, these men are not playing with you all. ARM YOURSELF! These MoFo’s are insane! It’s better to be judged by 12 than carried by 6.
@elbarain24402 жыл бұрын
FKING great point. For me it's better to protect your child and yourself and if you pass you better have had a will with a guardian and have died or been jailed then to have a mofo abuser your baby and yourself. #dvWomenArmUp
@refugeofthoughts88702 жыл бұрын
True. Better to stay single.
@missandry2669 Жыл бұрын
Also males why don’t women trust us or like us or think we are predators of creeps? Surprised pikachu face 😮
@deloresjones64982 жыл бұрын
My Deepest condolences, Praying for her family🙏🏾
@ivyamaru95372 жыл бұрын
This is exactly why I don’t even wanna date anyone because this world we live in is way too evil & dangerous, like no one can be trusted ....if you really loved someone u could never hurt them, ppl who do this are very sick & cold hearted , like she didn deserve this or her grandmother smhh...I’m so sorry this happen to you Queen, I’m so sorry for the families loss, sending my deepest condolences & sympathy/ God bless the family , loved ones , friends & all who loved her , Rest In Peace Queen💔🥺❤️❤️🙏🏽👑.....
@halyak2 жыл бұрын
How incompetent can this police department and dispatcher be??!?
@truthhurtshuh54432 жыл бұрын
The long questions unreal
@lovingatlanta2 жыл бұрын
🙏🙏😭😭We all (women & men) need to consider more seriously who we are dating. 🙏😭😭😭
@yeenstr86202 жыл бұрын
This is minuscule when a person only allows you 2 see who they want you 2 see. You can be with an individual for 20 years & think you kno 'em. They can flip on you like a coin. She got away & sought help because the person she was really *dating* showed up...
@idontdohumans59502 жыл бұрын
These men were mask 😷 most of them have narcissistic personalities everyone loves them they protray themselves as nice guys even fooling the woman by the time they find out they have fallen In love that when the cycle of abuse starts love Is powerful
@@idontdohumans5950 women do to it ain't no sex thing.
@tararodgers36842 жыл бұрын
PRAYER GOING UP GOD BLESS THE FAMILY OF THIS YOUNG LADY 🙏HEARTBREAKING 💔
@lovethelighttruth83302 жыл бұрын
That dispatcher needs to be fired!!! How very sad..This woman should still be alive!
@glendapate19602 жыл бұрын
The 911 operators asked to many questions before the police can get to someone house. They need to be fried and that is not her job to asked these questions.😡
@sharpgirlsSerious2 жыл бұрын
I am so TIRED of THESE RUDE, STUPID, IGNORANT 911 DISPATURES. ! TALKIN JUNK ! WHEN SOMEONE'S LIFE IS IN IMMEDIATE DANGER. !.
@missdee19272 жыл бұрын
💯💯💯
@pamelajackson67302 жыл бұрын
My deepest condolences to her family and friends.
@synihu772 жыл бұрын
I remember my brother was having a mental illness crises. He had no idea who I was, he got into the house and wanted to hurt me. Eventually I got him out of the house. But I had to talk to him. But taking to him was crazy because he was not in his right mind. I called the police at 7:30pm..I was told there was no one. Between me and my family, friends, and the VA calling on my behalf, 27 calls were placed. I had to wait for a shift change. 9 police showed up at 12:45am...I literally had to keep talking to someone who lost complete touch with reality. It's was sad and scary, he use to be in the Marines stationed in Iraq. One dispatcher told me whatever you have to do to protect yourself do it.. And I could have, but it was my brother. I would have been devastated.. But this dispatcher failed to get her the help she needed..
@refugeofthoughts88702 жыл бұрын
I’m happy you survived. Sounds like my own brother. Mental health is real.
@kefilwelekuntwane84742 жыл бұрын
I don’t understand why dispatchers always interrogates callers instead of getting full address n make dispatch immediately . They just full of it . I remember I nearly died when calling for 911 & was interrogated .. I nearly lost my life on the 26 th March 2022 due to delay
@daintystar12 жыл бұрын
The April call dispatcher needs to be let go. Your responsibility is to assist in the event of emergency, not attempt your life’s dream of tough mom life coach. Completely unprofessional especially considering many abusers stalk their victims day in and day out.
@melodieperkins70802 жыл бұрын
Very true
@kweenkay7572 жыл бұрын
This is ridiculous. As a survivor of DV, getting the right support makes a huge difference.
@SHutchinson2 жыл бұрын
The 911 operator needs to be fired. Ladies also do a background search before you start dating these men. This is sad on so many levels.
@Love-ku6yc2 жыл бұрын
Every time I see situations like this makes me want to be single even more
@darkchoklit63992 жыл бұрын
I feel ya🙋🏽♀️🙋🏽♀️🙋🏽♀️
@AS-wj1du2 жыл бұрын
But stalkers can still not leave you alone even when you reject them. It's scary
@Love-ku6yc2 жыл бұрын
@Shablue I’m sorry you went through that in I pray for protection over your life
@Lioness14992 жыл бұрын
When you involved with abusive person you have to stay away from them. You can't be going back and forth with these people. This is so sad 😞.
@janetprice85 Жыл бұрын
Domestic abuse needs to be prosecuted more harshly because treating it like a private matter is like disrespecting women and kids.
@harvestnoelcrawford70262 жыл бұрын
911 emergency person should be fired
@SSJSadAf2 жыл бұрын
Yall better wake up. The dispatcher was having fun asking them same dry questions. No one is here to help anyone. It's only about money
@asanta20232 жыл бұрын
💯
@Badgyal_1012 жыл бұрын
Exactly she heard clearly what was going on.
@_dj_dubz_2 жыл бұрын
Best order of protection is a gun 🤷🏿♂️
@elinettelopez-dinkins23642 жыл бұрын
🗣️🎯💯
@kaykaywilliams40424 күн бұрын
That unprofessional dispatcher, better had been fired🤬
@MZZR2U2 жыл бұрын
911 dispatcher should be held accountable for this family loss. The system failed these ladies tremendously.
@bryanbeeman52562 жыл бұрын
Women PLEASE, PLEASE, PLEASE have at your disposal: 1. A pistol 2. Pepper spray or pepper gel 3. Some sort of knife or blade 4. Self defense training 5. Self defense insurance The law doesn’t protect you; you protect you. The police will RARELY EVER get there in time. You HAVE to be okay with protecting your life and other loved ones life at all costs.
@ievgpza2 жыл бұрын
This is what happens when we decide to defund the Police for the sake of saving Black Men. You all marched, protested a few years ago about Police brutality, and look at what is happening to Black women. Black men are a protected class, 1 because they are men, and 2. because of all the uproar of racism. And the newly bail bond laws that we as black women supported. Before defunding the Police, Officers would have been to her house in minutes. I am sorry for the loss of this woman.
@Praisekeeper2 жыл бұрын
I wish I could like this 1000 times. You are absolutely correct! Now all that foolishness is biting black women and the so called "black community" in the behind. They won't admit though!