@@Ht9ehtoom "It approaches. I watched it slaughter each and every one it came across. I won't be the first to fall, but soon I'll be the only *One* left. It comes for us all eventually."
@TheMoonsHalo3 ай бұрын
😂 RIGHT
@Deskora3 ай бұрын
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@KeganKirby3 ай бұрын
You see, I'm clearly not a 5 because I'm great at emotional stuff, I've gotten so good at understanding my emotions and others emotions that I don't need to worry about doing something wro- well shoot.
@blazebird4043 ай бұрын
how DARE you be so real
@godofthecripples12373 ай бұрын
For the first part of the video, I thought this was me. Then he got into the emotional part and it didn't make sense anymore. You have just made it make sense. Fuck.
@JasonBaumgardner2 ай бұрын
@@KeganKirby you can be a 5 and understand emotions. They may even understand them better than a 1,3,7 or 8. It’s just that 5’s have to step away to THINK about emotions to process them. 5’s just don’t TRUST emotions. Like a 2 thinks of emotions as Truth, 5’s don’t trust them at all. But they do have to process their emotions so they think about emotions more than the other numbers. So a healthy 5 should be able to help other people through their emotions.
@bogscholar6913 ай бұрын
Solution to 5-Fixation fear of helplessness and overwhelm: “Fuck it, we ball.” Genuinely changed my life
@isaacnykamp80833 ай бұрын
I got into existentialism. Kind of breaks the 5 personality gambit when the 'grand theory' of things is predicated on things never making sense
@RoyalFusilier3 ай бұрын
As a 6w5, I'm having the sinking realization that my direction of growth creatively will in fact be to pick a direction and fling myself at it without preparation, *trusting* that I can *handle it,* aka putting faith in my competency without needing to endlessly plan. In the past I've compared the act of actually writing to knitting a parachute while on the way down. Sounds great! Or at least... necessary.
@aguywithalotofopinions4123 ай бұрын
I don't think it's healthy to categorize yourself like that, like these are concepts that characters can sometimes fit into pretty cleanly, but real people tend to be more complicated, that's why the enneagram isn't recognized by the larger scientific community
@andyroobrick-a-brack93553 ай бұрын
@@aguywithalotofopinions412It's fine as long as you don't personally attach yourself to it. Officially recognized psychological categories are also not perfect, the totality of my personality is not informed by my ADHD or autism. I'm not saying the Enneagran is anywhere near as valid, but these concepts help people, so I think it's OK.
@savstinks68473 ай бұрын
@@isaacnykamp8083Lmao i literally just had that realisation recently. But now i must ball
@brass_seamstress3 ай бұрын
5-ness so accurately describes the almost primal fear of helplessness
@ZachScottB3 ай бұрын
@seagullspit6048 In 2010; I woke up from a three week coma as a quadriplegic. I stayed this way for about two months, while my brain reset. You're right. It is the scariest thing ever. To make it worse, I woke up with memory loss. This obstacle really prevented me from realizing the full potential of being the Type 5 personality, of ‘The Investigator... Not being able (not having the mental capacity) to explore this idea, I am sure stunted my growth and prevented a quicker healing. Wow... this video, and your comment, really made me think. Thanks
@Amaend83 ай бұрын
Hmm. Intresting way to put it
@andyroobrick-a-brack93553 ай бұрын
I think that describes all fear types: types 5, 6 and 7. All of them doubt the world and fear the worst, the five looks inwards for safety, the six looks outwards, and the seven prefers to drown it out with excitement.
@dragoknight5893 ай бұрын
Well it’s one of the ways you deal with it, yeah. Fives handle fear by becoming skillful, sixes might find strength in numbers it seems. Then sevens just try and forget.
@ursusludens71743 ай бұрын
Ah... that's why studying the blade seems so appealing
@dragoknight5893 ай бұрын
I KNOW, RIGHT?… maybe I was wrong about being a 7.
@mimi.sues.3 ай бұрын
“Thank you localscript man” we all say in unison
@leesnotbritish53863 ай бұрын
I wasn’t sure if I have a 5, but when you got to the growth part I was like “no, I will not invite in chaos I will *ponder* until there is no chaos” so maybe I am
@RoyalFusilier3 ай бұрын
That's probably a good way to get to your Enneagram type - compare things that terrify you and see what sounds like the least appealing of all. For example, very few people probably enjoy feeling unsafe and vulnerable to attack, danger, criticism, etc, but my particular bad Six brain would sacrifice justice, love, status, identity, competency, pleasure, strength, and harmony to *ensure* "a safe and secure [me]". Cue the Declaration of a New Order from Palpatine as ominous music plays.
@Atticus_Moore3 ай бұрын
@@RoyalFusilier probably a great story there a 6 character joining an empire to feel safe, but then has to deal with the fall out of the empire being destroyed and reconciling who they became while in the empire
@WarpSonic3 ай бұрын
that is EXACTLY what a 5 would say in response to that part of the video lmfao
@gianni206Ай бұрын
Welcome to the club bro, not all of us are high IQ lol
@SomeoneyeetedАй бұрын
Same exact thing, the first time I watched the video i was like "nah not really" but when i reached that part just imagining "letting my walls down and let the chaos in" just made me "FUCK NO i absolutely will not"
@qoseb3 ай бұрын
I think an important note is that the 5's obsession doesn't necessarily have to correlate with their fear or disconnect of the outside, it just needs to be something they can immerse themselves in to feel stable and worthy within it, to the point they don't want to leave it. so they end up avoiding areas they don't feel the same competence and can isolate physically or mentally from them. categorizing everything that doesn't have to do with their obsessions as mundane and worthless
@andyroobrick-a-brack93553 ай бұрын
With the Enneagran, the fear and insecurity of the type IS the type. The 5, 6 and 7 all do things in response to a fear of the world. The 5s hide from their fear by becoming competent and introspective, the 6s hide from their fear by taking steps towards protection from some outside force, while the 7s hide by drowning themselves in new, interesting, often pleasurable things and experiences.
@readonlymemories3 ай бұрын
I'm in this image and I don't like it. I don't like it at all.
@wiegraf9009Ай бұрын
We turn fear to anger like 8s but we use that anger to drive our introspection and maintain our barriers. We generally do not feel our fear as fear.
@okieethtsnice953112 күн бұрын
im writing a character thats very based on these aspects and have came to the conclusion that this character is a type 5 for sure, i will take your comment as trusted advice as well i like this it aligns well thanks alot!
@Signehart3 ай бұрын
I like the point about distinguishing between 5s and 6s. They both fear the world, but the way that fear manifests is different. 6s fear that the world is the problem and by fixing the world, they will be fine. They don't think the problem lies in their ability to engage or survive in the world, it's more about how the world harms them. 5s however are the opposite. 5s are afraid of the world as well, but the thing they try to "fix" is themselves because they see themselves as the issue, in the sense that they aren't "equipped" to survive in the world. It's like... A 6 and a 5 need to cross a pool of acid. Though they both fear the threat, the 6 turns outward and finds a way to drain the pool, essentially changing the world around them, while the 5 builds a set of acid proof armor, essentially changing themselves. The 6's mindset is "This acid is out to get me (or us for 6s with an army behind them)." While the 5 thinks "the problem is that I can't swim in acid." 6s also have the ability to accept external support. They can be "us vs them" if they can find a group that gives them that safe feeling. Since they build their safe space externally, that can mean either isolating themselves so threats can't approach (which is when they look 5ish) or surrounding themselves with safe things. In contrast 5s are always self-reliant. Nothing is trusted until it's understood and it's really hard to understand people.
@olindblo2 ай бұрын
As a 5 who grew up as a public scapegoat pariah and made it his life’s mission to be the strongest-fastest-most-jacked-educated-trained-hermitpilled-philosopher-wizard as a suit of armour against the world… I think this video might be on to something.
@galaxyvision4173 ай бұрын
An excellent, concise explanation. As expected, I felt attacked. I’ve seen far too many people glorify type 5 without understanding how exhausting the day-to-day is. The existential anxiety, search for meaning and understanding, fear-driven pursuit of competence, withdrawal, obsession, and detachment are no joke. They’re not ‘quirky’ or ‘cute’ labels to be tossed around for fun; they’re all-consuming and ever-present companions that demand energy and attention every single day. Thanks for putting these accurate and easy-to-understand enneagram videos out here for writers. As soon as you’re done with the series, I’ll be shoving them all in my writer friends' faces.
@genxer18243 ай бұрын
The worst part of it that I've had so far is when life pushes you to accept the unknowability of most of the world, you do so, and yet it doesn't work. You still feel lost in the depths of your own incompetence and you still feel unsafe: you just feel _fundamentally_ unsafe now rather than _situationally_ unsafe. So accepting the chaos isn't the end of the road: it's the beginning of something that might be a straight road to mental health, or might be a maze instead. I don't yet know what it'll turn out to be.
@heretohear18473 ай бұрын
Ive spent all of today in obsession. i dont really know life without obsession anymore. I'm getting better though, i think.....
@aguywithalotofopinions4123 ай бұрын
I don't think it's healthy to categorize yourself like that, like these are concepts that characters can sometimes fit into pretty cleanly, but real people tend to be more complicated, that's why the enneagram isn't recognized by the larger scientific community. And this is coming from a pretty big 5. Don't use the enneagram or anything else to label yourself like that, unless it's specifically to work on those issues, but not to categorize your specific flavor of suffering.
@jasonsomers82243 ай бұрын
@@aguywithalotofopinions412 real life is more complicated-and that's not a tendency, it is in the nature of the enneagram. Imagine the most accurate map of a piece of land. What is it? It is the land itself. Every map is a summary, every description is incomplete, and that's to say nothing of the data that is not physical: natural laws, memories, and all such patterns. The Enneagram is no exception, but, crucially, no model is an exception. For something to be useful and healthy, it need not be perfect. For me, the enneagram is a more precise language for thinking about and talking about my innate goals and the strategies on a high level. As a fellow 5, I've noticed I tend toward perfectionism. I've found myself acting similar to a 1 and a 9: like a 1 when I think there is a right answer and like a 9 when I'm not sure yet what the perfect strategy is, but both these are grounded in my need to know I am on the right path before I take a step. Here is why I use the enneagram, if you can, this is the thesis to refute: there is no better alternative; no mathematical proof to concoct, no experiment to run, and no spirit to question that could test the enneagram. It handles questions beyond the scientific method. You must take an act of faith, put on the lenses and see the inner world through them. When I do this, I see deeper into the same world I saw before and it gives me a language to communicate things which would otherwise be difficult to express. Or, don't use the enneagram, but don't count others as fools for choosing heads when you landed tails. (I have found a similar use for the Big Five Personality Traits system, (OCEAN) which was data driven in its conception, but it addresses different questions) Sorry, this got real long. Hazards of a YT comment section for me. Also, 5, so info dumps.
@aguywithalotofopinions4123 ай бұрын
@@jasonsomers8224 Well as for the alternative, I myself have found the 16 personality model far more useful. But also, I don’t think it’s a good idea to use so many labels at all. You are who you are and cannot be so easily categorized.
@ARandomerUser3 ай бұрын
cool vid. quick interview. the questions get more important as they go. 1. if the thing that separates 3s and 5s is the fact that 3s need people to know that they're competent, then isn't Waltuh a 3? his entire relationship with Jesse (we need to cook) is built on the foundation of Jesse being _the_ *Top 1 Meatrider.* also, more importantly, the dinner scene. Hank (pre-Gank) was fully ready to move on, but Waltuh needed his status as Heisenburger to be recognized. 2. What's the difference between 5 and Counterphobic 6? i get that 6s "look outward" but what does that mean for the cp6 specifically, and how is it different from the type 5 fixation? 3. before, you've said changing a characters Core/Fixation would make them a different character, which made sense when you posited that a persons Enneagram Fixation was the character, and couldn't change, but now that you're saying it can change (because the Fixations are meant to categorize problems, not people), how does it make them a different character? wouldn't they just be the same character dealing with a different issue? 4. what are your thoughts on the vape hotbox having ended? 😢 5. In the Type 8 video you say "revenge is a 10th type of bs that can stand on it's own narratively". what are some other motivations that you think can stand on their own that don't fall under the enneagram? 6. will you marry me?
@localscriptman3 ай бұрын
1: that’s not “the thing” that separates 3s and 5s, that’s just a comment I made. The three fixation concerns self esteem, the five concerns fear. Very different. But if a you make a comment that makes the five feel weak or incompetent, yeah that’s gonna hurt their ego. They’re not immune to social interactions. Jesse is a 2, his need to please Walter is his own problem. 2: it’s muddy, many sixes look fivey. But sixes will go out into the world and actively try to tear things down that they distrust. Fives are more or less happy to just know the truth. 3: I don’t mean a literally different character in some transubstaniative sense. I mean if the character is suddenly dealing with a new set of emotional problems that have no ties to the original, they might as well be a different character. 4: RIP 5: Well I think some stories are general enough that they fall into just the “self esteem” box. Which would be heart type coded, but kind of an amalgamation of all three. I think grief is another one. But even that & revenge can be tied into enneagram-level motivations if you want them to. 6: No I have a girlfriend
@DoctorCyan3 ай бұрын
How did you write all of this in the first 2 minutes of the video's release?
@ARandomerUser3 ай бұрын
@@localscriptman based take. i forgot one of my questions, i've since edited my comment
@ARandomerUser3 ай бұрын
@@DoctorCyan i watched the video at 5x speed
@isajohns87463 ай бұрын
@@DoctorCyanHe’s just different
@diazpayne20753 ай бұрын
As a 5, it's scary how much this video explains my own complexes. The world can be scary sometimes, and it has somehow become a priority for me to 'preserve' myself against the overwhelming nature of reality. I always feel the need to be prepared in facing the world. To be fully equipped to deal with it. Romance is also a daunting pursuit for me, because it inherently requires one to be vulnerable and trusting towards your partner. The first time I saw Good Will Hunting I got emotional about how much I relate to the main character. I'm also in the process of writing my first novel. This series has been really illuminating in how I analyze and flesh out my characters' motivations. I'm happy to say they turned out pretty consistent with their enneagram type.
@starlesscitiess3 ай бұрын
as an autistic non-5 dating an autistic probably-a-5 i do appreciate the little tangent about autism & the way it was explained here
@TeagueChrystie3 ай бұрын
As an autistic 5 yeah I thought it was very well handled.
@dragoknight5893 ай бұрын
as an autistic probably-a-7-which-likely-stems-from-also-having-ADHD I am inclined to agree
@Szystedt3 ай бұрын
As an austistic almost-certainly 9, I do agree!
@Somefellowhumanbeing3 ай бұрын
Autistic two, absolutely I do kind of resonate with five but I am aware I am not one.
@Alienrun3 ай бұрын
@@Szystedt I related pretty strongly with the 9 video but after watching this one and the 6 one now I'm not as sure if 9 is my strongest trait. It feels like I was a 5 for most of my childhood (and still have characteristics like that) but maybe I took other coping mechanisims along the way when knowledge just wasn't good enough. (Its hard to move on from past failures so being a 9 tends to suit well with dealing with that stuff I guess! lol :P) What about you? As a fellow autism/aspie what do you think makes you a 9?! :O
@debdebberton3 ай бұрын
8:40 i've also think there can be a kind of "threat display" aspect to the "eccentric five fashion sense". the compulsion to self-isolate can lend itself to a knowingly-off-putting/anti-social instinct, and if ones clothes can passively deter unwanted interactions, then that choice offers a measurable benefit to the five complex
@amanofnoreputation21643 ай бұрын
"Offical psychological classificaitons are also made up." THANK YOU!
@McMxxCiV3 ай бұрын
Yes, and yet the comparison with the enneagram is a bit problematic. One system of classifications is based on decennia of study and is often misunderstood as 'labeling' while the goal is to give indications for optimal treatment for recognisable sets of symptoms, while the other is based on a "just trust me" kind of ideology.
@miya12853 ай бұрын
@@McMxxCiV yeah, the enneagram is useful for the everyday person in their own lives, but it isn't nearly as substantial as psychological classifications, the enneagram doesn't change based on new evidence, unlike psychological classification.
@Caleb60003 ай бұрын
This is such a huge oversimplification.
@jimmycraig2213 ай бұрын
@@miya1285 the enneagram is already complete tho. psychological classification being entirely made up AND constantly changing is terrible.
@miya12853 ай бұрын
@@jimmycraig221 i mean if you prefer uniformity over accuracy why not just pick up the DSM 1 and decry all derivatives as blasphemous? what a wildly anti-intellectual take.
@kit8883 ай бұрын
5w4 here. It's not just about a theory of everything to understand how the world works, but also hoarding a massive collection of facts to know how the world is.
@juju106833 ай бұрын
5w4 is probably one of the most common fixations for authors and directors
@HP-mk2lw3 ай бұрын
I relate to this so much. The hoarding of knowledge… totally
@stephenbarrett53573 ай бұрын
They literally say that 3:20, my dude. Pay more attention.
@MirthCap3 ай бұрын
@@stephenbarrett5357 maybe they're too much in their own head Badum tss Edit: I'm sorry
@Clover-_-3 ай бұрын
Edit! At the same time, since we're the less socially awkward version of the 5 (not by much) it's also the theory of how people work and how to predict people. We are more socially aware, we like the psychology of things, less of the math side, if that makes sense. God I wish was more of the math side of the 5. Math is cool by the way, the thing that sucks most about being a 5 is feeling stuff tbh.
@Mellonote3 ай бұрын
this countdown is intense, i wonder what happens when we get to 0
@jonathansalvador50373 ай бұрын
The next one will obviously be negative one.
@debrachambers13043 ай бұрын
Say goodbye...
@Syz_gy3 ай бұрын
I was waiting for one of these types to resonate with me. Well, here it is. Funnily enough it also resonates with the main character of my writing project. I've realized I may be self-inserting more than I'd intended. Love your content as always, Man.
@zapp7703 ай бұрын
Accidental self inserts happen to me all the time lol. Also a 5 btw.
@isaacjg83 ай бұрын
I just had the exact same experience watching this video.
@Alienrun3 ай бұрын
Self inserting isn't bad, you kinda have to do it a little bit with every character you write, since the whole story is coming from you after all. Just make the story interesting and your all good basically! :P
@Syz_gy3 ай бұрын
@Alienrun See, I'm not so much concerned that it's bad as I am that I'd done it more than intended.
@vickypedia13083 ай бұрын
Found out which type I possibly am by figuring out the two types of my protagonist pair and then thinking of how I've been joking about them being self inserts for years
@VJ-Vice3 ай бұрын
On a side note: it's also interesting to think about what types of upbringings/backstories would result in the 5 complex. You mentioned the bullying part, but I could also imagine it would result from any scenario where the character is forced to demonstrate some degree of self-sufficiency. They're able to tackle the world by themselves, because they've likely had to tackle the world by themselves at some point where they're the only person they could rely on (or if they're supporting some dependent). On that note: there's an interesting parallel to be made between 5's and 8's. 8's exert their locus of control over their external surroundings to feel secure, but 5's exert their locus of control internally and on their own body and skill set to feel secure.
@Luipaard0053 ай бұрын
I am a 5w6 and can confirm your hypothesis. My moment of "self sufficiency" arrived when I was 11 years old. I fainted in school and when I was taken to the hospital they revived me and informed me that I was a type 1 diabetic, aka the type that is completely dependent on insulin to survive. I still remember arriving home from the hospital and how it felt when I decided that I was going to live no matter what. I wasn't going to get my limbs amputated, I wasn't going to have seizures, I was going to control my diabetes because I simply refuse to die to it, it's such a stupid way to go. If my personality had a crucible moment then it was that moment and I guess I emerged a 5w6. Have been a diabetic for 23 years now and have not had any seizures or any amputations. :)
@kosherkingofisrael63813 ай бұрын
@@Luipaard005 Not a diabetic, but that persistance to live is something that totally resonates with me.
@TheMightyKawama3 ай бұрын
I said to myself when you started this series that I wouldn't have that facebook quiz moment where I'm like "oh I'm such a 7" and yet after watching this I have never felt more called out than ever before - fine work Lucas
@loucarroll8303 ай бұрын
my type 5 fixation loves hearing myself and everyone else be explained in ways that are clear and easy to follow ❤
@Accel073 ай бұрын
Often I have noticed (both personal experience and external observations) thats 5s also often tend to try to create bonds and relations with others who share their interests and beliefs, like actively seek such people out, which i now believe is because it makes 5s feel secure, that there's someone out there like them and so they wont have to face the world alone.
@GweniswasntTaken3 ай бұрын
More than that, surrounding yourself with people with the same interests as you tints your perception even more with the color of whatever those interests are. So the world resembles more closely the things you're good at. So it is less scary. Also surrounding yourself with like minded people means you have new sources of knowledge at your disposition that further your understanding. If you're really deep in the maladaptive 5 hole, your relationships could be essentially drones that are there to go find information and relay it back to you
@Accel073 ай бұрын
@@GweniswasntTaken Thats a good point you make. So it's a cycle, where a 5 will surround themself with people that have similar beliefs which will then enforce their belief further leading to them going in even deeper.
@GweniswasntTaken3 ай бұрын
@@Accel07 Yep. An unhealthy 5 may end up in an echo chamber. Whereas a health 5 might look for other people with different expertises in an effort to broaden their horizons
@jasonsomers82243 ай бұрын
I was gonna say, yeah, no 5s don't care if their alone, but optimizedlaziness described well why 5s cluster. Other people are sources of information. Why reinvent the wheel?
@ko56863 ай бұрын
this is my dad to a T. he literally has a document on his computer that’s his Big Theory Of The World. we call it his manifesto lol
@ecxstasy3479 күн бұрын
What’s in it? I’m curious from one 5 to another.
@ko56869 күн бұрын
@@ecxstasy347tldr: there are four types of power; money, health, friendship and knowledge. there are three sorts of roles people can take: creators(those who use power to create) the masses(those who enjoy what the creators create) and barbarians(those who destroy with their power) the role can change throughout life (duh 😛)
@ecxstasy3479 күн бұрын
@@ko5686 I’m curious as to why he only limits it to 4 kinds of power? Friendship is mentioned but not romance for example. Also if there’s a type who enjoys what is created, how come there’s not one who dislikes what is created? And could you ask him for examples 😊
@ko56869 күн бұрын
@@ecxstasy347by “friendship” what is meant is relationships with other people. community, family and romance is included with “friends”, its just a general term in this case. by “enjoys” what is meant is not literal enjoyment, but the use and consumption of a creation(no comment on whether you like it or not)
@Diiby3 ай бұрын
That white line on the left whenever he cuts to the purple 5 is damaging my rigid worldview and I need to understand it
@sotha82033 ай бұрын
Cool vid. The point about how philosophy as a field is '5' coded and overlap with a lot of autistic traits such as hyperfixation and need for categorization is interesting. I was just in an Ancient Greek Philosophy lecture about the Presocratics. Thales, known as the first philosopher, came up with a unifying theory claiming that all is water, as in the earth drifts on water like drift wood. Same guy who was said to walk into a well while stargazing.
@kinolokki59533 ай бұрын
finally the sigma male enniagram
@andyroobrick-a-brack93553 ай бұрын
What makes Fives sigma males? I know: their social awkwardness and delusional self-confidence undercut by a barely hidden fear of absolutely everything that could be considered tangible and real.
@Patrykos_One3 ай бұрын
@@andyroobrick-a-brack9355 I think he said that, because he's a 5
@imstupid76143 ай бұрын
i think "sigma males" are closer to 6, they tie themselves to people like andrew tate, redpill groups (maybe out of inexperience?), and a 5 would probably take elements out of those but try to distance themselves from the groups (bcs they're dumbasses, the 5 thinks, they can't be fully right). could be wrong though, can't fully understand the difference according to local's system
@juju106833 ай бұрын
@@andyroobrick-a-brack9355I found the unhealthy counterphobic 6
@makesomeshit3 ай бұрын
If you watch the video abt 9 hè Days there theyre the sigma
@VJ-Vice3 ай бұрын
I don't know of a story example off the top of my head, but another cool 5 story concept could be about a 5 character, whose perceived feelings of security orbits around their self-perception of their own competence, who makes a mistake. Like a genuine, no external factors, lapse of judgement mistake that shatters their own perceived self-competence. Suddenly, they can't trust themself to navigate difficult situations, and they devolve into a state of panicky self-deprecation. It could be a story about learning to accept your own flaws (sort of like the opposite of Whiplash but internally driven rather than having a psychologically predatory music teacher pressuring you towards perfectionism)
@crediblesalamander80563 ай бұрын
sounds like a storyline i think i've seen in a tv show before. the hypercompetent detective fucks up for no good reason and someone else dies. they can't forgive themselves and their self-image is shattered.
@crypticcorvid3 ай бұрын
Isn't that Doctor Strange? I don't remember the exacts of the movie, but at least that first part sounds a lot like what I remember lol.
@GweniswasntTaken3 ай бұрын
When I was learning to drive, the school got a new car and the gas pedal got slightly stuck while I was maneuvering. The off feels it gave me + the engine slightly revving until we found out what was up shot down my ability to do anything meaningful for the rest of the session... Yeah I'm 99% sure I have a 5 fixation
@Alienrun3 ай бұрын
Bro your just describing me! Stop! :O
@bluepaint99233 ай бұрын
trey from sunshine (2007)
@amanofnoreputation21643 ай бұрын
An easy way to distinguish 5s form 6s is that 6 is afraid for his personal safety, whereas the 5's fear is more abstract: A 6 wears a tin foil hatbecause he doesn't want the aliens to probe his mind so they can abduct him unawares. The 5 wants to figure out how to speak Martian and by an Uno reverse card by abducting one of them instead because of the existential implications that the very presence of extraterrestrials has for the human race as a whole. The 6 has a thriller feel to it; following personal struggles, while the 5 can have a more setting-driven sci-fi feel.
@DDanteZ3 ай бұрын
I like to think of it as the 6 being afraid of external dangers (real or imagined as they might be), while the 5 is afraid of chaos and the unknown (more abstract, like you said). Their solutions are respectively different too, the 6 takes steps to protect themselves from danger, often by joining a community or cult (strength in numbers as it were), and the 5 deals with the fear by trying to understand it, and put it into a box of set and predictable algorithms. That's my interpretation anyway.
@macchupichu3 ай бұрын
How is this easy?
@jasonsomers82243 ай бұрын
9:05 Internal vs external seems like a great way to differentiate the 5s and 6s, in fact, I had made an inner type, outer type, and a counter type categorization for each of the three sections. Image Types: 3: inner type - focuses on internal goals as a way to impress 2: outer type - focuses on external goals as a way to impress 4: counter type - pretends to not be obsessed with image Anxiety Types: 5: inner type - focuses on making themselves capable 6: outer type - focuses on making their world supportive 7: counter type - pretends to not be chronically anxious Frustration Types: 8: inner type - focuses on fixing the frustrations of their world 1: outer type - focuses on making their world fix its frustrations 9: counter type - pretends to not be frustrated by the world
@WarpSonic3 ай бұрын
hmm this is similar to the "overdoes-suppresses-is in conflict with" subcategorization of every third
@jasonsomers82243 ай бұрын
@@WarpSonic I'm not familiar with those terms. What are they? Are they natively enneagramic?
@JohnDo-w4m3 ай бұрын
This actually seems spot on. Three problems and the only three reactions to those problems: fix the thing causing the problem, Fix myself to deal with the problem, Ignore the problem. And the big lesson for all is that they can't fix the problem, its always gonna be there, and it has to be accepted. I like this alot, thanks. I wonder if the three sections can be broken down into something more holistic. Like, fears of self, fears of others, fears of the world? I'd have to think about it more. maybe there's some truth about the nature of motivation at the bottom of this.
@JohnDo-w4m3 ай бұрын
Response to threats against Ego (234), response to the threat of the unknown/future (567), response to the threat of Pain (189). I'll have to wait on his vid for the 1. The 567 needs to be better defined and 189 maybe better refined but I think this is getting closer.
@jasonsomers82243 ай бұрын
@@JohnDo-w4m Fundamentally, wouldn't all fears exist in the future, whether a fear response to threats against ego as a (234) will feel or a less defined fear as with the (567). And responses to the threat of pain are responses to fear as well. Maybe we have different definitions of fear? When I think of fear I think of a potential situation that would be undesirable. (potential is necessarily in the future) Another possibility for misinterpretation is my bias. As a 5, an anxiety type, it is possible I am projecting fear or hope onto the roots of all choices. I can't really put it into words, but holding the motivations of the 6 and the motivations of the 2 or 3 in my head help to illuminate distinctions between anxiety types and image types. It's something like the 6 wants capability while the 2/3 wants attention. Perhaps the 2 or 3 cares about legacy while the 6 wouldn't. I don't know. I might be making meaningless categories here. It's not an easy task.
@ohwowitsme85483 ай бұрын
As a 5, who represses nerodivergence (not autism, the AD4K) as it equals emotion just for my own competence, and has the wardrobe of 80's among other things (hence 8:36) you really nailed it, its also thanks for this whole series, there like template characters and tools i can use for my own stories and character pairings, really effecint way of creating many
@hacim423 ай бұрын
I'm not someone with any level of familiarity with enneagrams outside of this channel, and I enjoy the feeling of "wait, is this one me?" Today was close.
@koibubbles33023 ай бұрын
If it’s close you might be the next one, that’s what I felt like in the 6 video. Although 5s and 4s are a bit different so mileage may vary
@Lzyboy493 ай бұрын
We used to pray for times like this.
@starlesscitiess3 ай бұрын
NEW LOCALSCRIPTMAN ENNEGRAM VID LET’S GOOOOOO
@andrewhahn23643 ай бұрын
This video helped me figure out that I don't actually have an 8 complex, but actually have a 5. It's just that my "specialization/focus of hyper-competency/theory of everything" instead of being about some particular narrow branch of academics, ended up being of study of a kind of meta-competency/control (i.e. how can I do every individual thing "right", to control all the variables), which I misinterpreted as an 8 characteristic. Basically, I ended up intellectualizing that I needed to intellectualize less/that 8-like characteristics were seen positively, and saw positive results from experimenting with that, and then just continued to pursue more and more 8-ness like a "number go up" thing. Crazy how good these videos are that it changed my entire perspective on my own core drives. You the man, script man!
@michaelsteiner52032 ай бұрын
This is where going deeper into the theory would clarify some things, because actual 5-ness is very rare. It comes from an object-relations dynamic of rejection, essentially cutting off any intrusions into one's own mind or personal space. Most of the examples given here are 6w5, not 5.
@SOL_NEKROS3 ай бұрын
Most fiveish thing I did was picking up art at 10yo and thinking "yeah i'm gonna dedicate to this professionally so I can avoid the real world even when i'm at work."
@notchristopherwalkenАй бұрын
Jesus christ dude what did I do to you
@gillian_honnАй бұрын
"Everything has to make sense, because if it doesnt, then suddently the world is scary again" Oh god, thats too accurate lol
@Asodym2 ай бұрын
I think the thing about 5s needing to accept that there are some things that are unknowable is an extension of a more general idea: 5s don't know when to quit; quitting means you're incompetent; quitting means you haven't covered your bases; quitting means you're vulnerable.
@notgucci58773 ай бұрын
i was literally foaming from the mouth waiting for this video, thank you
@turnerburton3 ай бұрын
The image types are next 😈
@vlc-cosplayer3 ай бұрын
Everybody gangsta until the sx 4 walks in ✋😔
@haiperbus3 ай бұрын
Fives also are far less likely to enjoy drugs or alcohol, they aren't comfortable with the feeling of "imparedness" that't so easily avoidable. Not to mention "plesure" isn't usually their priority.
@Venbirra75412 ай бұрын
Hey Local! I want to seriously thank for years I've interesting in storytelling but since I'm a pretty logical and strict person I've never allowed myself to write something for myself. But I've been watching since the avatar video and you inspired me to pick up the pen. And not only your teachings gave me the confidence for it, I've finally finished a 2 page story for an optional uni assignment And I Loved it! It even got me a girl's number. It's not my professional dream, but thanks to you I have finally allowed myself to explore confidently this passion. You gave me the logical and structured tools I was looking for to feel competent enough to start.
@IgneousExtrusive3 ай бұрын
I've been waiting for this one to help construct a character I suspected could be a 5. Thank you. Still figuring it out but these videos provide a neat roadmap, from which I can explore things more off the beaten path.
@IgneousExtrusive3 ай бұрын
@seagullspit6048I've more or less found it.
@okin5363 ай бұрын
I've been looking forward to this video as a "5". An interesting take, I never really thought that I wanted to know "the truth" of things. Like who cares if we live in a simulation, I'm trying to make the best of my life as is. But it's obvious by how much I yap about other things I think I know "the truth" of, so yeah checks out. That said, I'm obsessed with power fantasies. Even when they're awful, formulaic schlock, I can't get enough of them. When a main character exudes competency it tickles my brain in all the right ways. Have any thoughts on that?
@TheONLYFeli03 ай бұрын
what the hell, as a 5 I like badass characters too
@JohnDo-w4m3 ай бұрын
@@TheONLYFeli0I particularly like PHONK edits or characters with unshakable world views such as 40k space marines. This might be a collective 5 thing but I'm pretty sure most people like badasses.
@andyroobrick-a-brack9355Ай бұрын
@@JohnDo-w4m40k is particularly 6 coded IMO, but I can see space marines having 5 vibes.
@JohnDo-w4mАй бұрын
@@andyroobrick-a-brack9355 it wasn't necessarily about the story's coding and just about appreciation. I imagine types may have things they appreciate about other types. I'm pretty sure I mistyped myself though and am actually a 9 who has a lot of surface level 5 traits, which sort of explains why I like stories of highly motivated individuals who won't back down even in the face of logic. (It's really a question of "why" with these things. I have a lot of five type traits and thought patterns and such but internally it's because I use thinking and researching and dissecting ideas as a form of escapism to relax myself and I'm not actually compelled to do it by any sort of pathological fear response. Figured I'd explain it in case there's others like me who've mistyped)
@kickasterisk61553 ай бұрын
first time arriving without any comments on the video
@localscriptman3 ай бұрын
I fell off
@Not_a_Pro3603 ай бұрын
I’m late
@kickasterisk61553 ай бұрын
@@localscriptman love your humor, your comment alone made me laugh. Thank you for the video, I really like the enneagram videos.
@XiSirenDragon3 ай бұрын
You be the first one at the station
@sapheiron3 ай бұрын
That moment when I can finally place the pathologies for all the major characters in my story. I think this is a good tool for the box and I can upgrade my character writing for the little moments. Thank you!
@Wake643 ай бұрын
I realized that my type has changed and that moving to another type doesn’t = healthy. I have a 5 worldview now, but used to have a 1. In childhood I felt I needed to be perfect in order to be loved (religious upbringing). When I realized that this thinking was destroying who I wanted to be in my teens, I decided I didn’t need anyone’s approval, help, or opinion, and became 100% self reliant. This may have seemed like a healthy change (character growth), but I retreated into the world of thoughts and put up strong walls and boundaries to protect myself from everyone. It has been a lot of hard work tearing down some of those 5 walls. In some ways it is healthier as I’m no longer in denial about who I am, but on the other hand, I have a whole new set of challenges. Yay.
@ToqTheWise3 ай бұрын
On the point of emotions, I think it's more complicated than that. I know how you feel about wings but I strongly feel that I'm a 5w4 because I'm very much a 5 but I also have the need to be understood of a 4. I find that I'm highly emotional and dramatic as a person, something I get from my 4 wing. 4's are the drama. However, I think my 5-ness comes in with the fact that I tend to need to intellectualize my emotions. Part of the reason I think I can write characters is that I've developed an ability for psycho analysis. There are several possible origins of this, I am also autistic and I feel that autistic people need to develop a hyper-analytical mindset to survive. However I find that the most common patient of my armchair psycho analysis is myself. I'm very introspective and I tend to look for the root cause of my emotions. This seems like a 5 with too great of an emotional need to be ignored. So instead they integrate these emotions into their theory of everything. This is opposed to a 5w6 which is deeply adverse to emotions because they aren't logical and because their emotional need is such that they can push it away until it boils over.
@vinusundarv16483 ай бұрын
To say it in tamil: Sema Can't wait for type 1 video. This is the best enneagram resource for writers ever made
@c3phCD3 ай бұрын
i can’t wait to watch these again all together
@hayleyhistorynerd22113 ай бұрын
Loving these dives into the fixations. I think it's super intriguing and you brought up a physical honing and competency for the five. I the intellectual/nerdy five seems to be the immediate go to for examples, but I the idea of a five who is an athlete, muscular person, or fighter with extreme competency is great character fodder, love that. Hayley ^_^
@nicole-vs-everything3 ай бұрын
this video validates my Rustin-Cohle-Is-A-Five truthing. i am vindicated
@coffeefrog3 ай бұрын
I realized last week that I’ve been accidentally writing my mc as a 2 when he‘s meant to be a 4, so I’ve been pondering 4 story conventions and why they work the way they do. I’ve been getting anxious to see if my thoughts align with yours. Thanks for this series. It’s incredibly insightful!
@GweniswasntTaken3 ай бұрын
2s do things to please people, 4s do things to express their uniqueness/individuality. A 4 could spend their time helping people because they believe that being able to help is a core part of who they are whereas a 2 would help others to feel like they matter
@bheph7 күн бұрын
I was concerned about the nerdy stick figure not being enough intercut media clips but when you redrew them as a reclusive hilltop wizard with hoop earrings and a face tattoo I was somehow humbled
@flip12423 ай бұрын
As a type 5 myself yeah this sums it up perfectly. Hell I’m afraid of getting sick or injured because of how much I dislike being helpless. It’s just better to feel like a confident observer than a helpless participant.
@qualia7653 ай бұрын
it's uncanny how well this describes me - well described me last year. Then I started to realize I was trans and put so much effort into trying to understand & personally define what 'gender' actually means and then the optimal way to transition & come out and it all stressed me out to the point of depression. Then I started to realize that actually it's ok to not have a perfect answer to everything know things and my who world view changed mostly. That's crazy, how my experiences mapped so clearly onto the described 5 arc. I feel like I understand myself better now kinda after watching this video. I already instantly click on LocalScriptMan videos as fast as I can - but now I will double fast these are so good.
@leafesque88043 ай бұрын
i love your channel bro. this shit helping me lock in
@Baulx1383 ай бұрын
this series has been really interesting. cant wait to finish the entire thing
@duckduel58203 ай бұрын
It is worth noting though that this isn’t a perfect system, and that people stray from aspects of their type. I’m an extroverted 5w4, for example. If you’re watching this series for writing advice, try to mix in another enneagram types trait into the mix. Strong 4s, loud 5s, shy 7s, reckless 1s, etc.
@VJ-Vice3 ай бұрын
Well that's the main point he's been harping on in this series. The enneagram describes pathology, not personality. The way each number manifests in an individual can vary wildly from person to person, so personality is not a good indicator of a character's type (he talked about how Zuko is a 6 in the last video despite having the stereotypical personality of a 4 for example)
@ZXNovaBoom3 ай бұрын
You see this is one thing about 5s, all of the stereotypes about them, is that it's easy for people to get caught up in those stereotypes and assume that people who are ya know, doomsday preppers, knowledge hoarders, and the like are Type 5s. Even if there is in fact, a tendency for 5s to be this way. Like I look at myself and the things in my life and honestly if I were more shallow I'd probably type myself as a 5. I am a nerd who has fixations on gathering knowledge. I do have fixations on wanting to be competent. I'm introverted, though I'm definitely not socially awkward. However I've always felt that I never had the drive to be competent in what I think I should be competent in. I've often worry about being useless. Then when I think about the common negative emotion I have, and the actual negative trait, or rather I should say, the negative feeling that occurs with me when I'm in bad situations, I realize I'm a type 9. It's anger that I often feel, and I always try to forget about it. I am often a pushover and accepting things I should not. Just enduring things. I'm tough enough. Just a Type 9... with ADHD. What also helps is that I also feel I related to type 8 and type 1 fixations too, because 8s 9s and 1s are all Gut types. I almost wanna say ADHD is a Type 5 disorder. Sounds stupid I know, but maybe that's why I manifest some Type 5-like traits idk. But either way, I know I'm a 9 for certainty.
@Alienrun3 ай бұрын
I related to the 9 video when I first saw it but after seeing this one I'm questioning if I'm more of a 5 now (6 I also related to, but like Lucas said, that seems to be more of a 5 but externalized). I do have autism so that's probably why...and despite leaning more towards traditional autism as opposed to adhd...almost all my irl friends have adhd. Its relieving cause they can understand me well but also are able to do things easily that would be a bit harder for me otherwise. Very strange stuff nevertheless!
@tro_onk2 ай бұрын
I think the enneagram is pretty rad. From both a writing and social standpoint, it helps me understand how people react to things, their instinctual responses. I'm kinda predisposed to like it, since I'm almost certainly a 5, theory of everything, classifying stuff is satisfying for me, etc. but it feels like the only non-medical mental framework that is SUBSTANTIAL. A personality test that tells me I'm introverted or artistic isn't really going to tell me what I'd do if I got mugged. I can't introvert my way out of that. A 5 fixation though tells me I might try to figure out a plan to fix the problem based on something I've noticed. A lot of personality tests(not implying the enneagram is one) make you identify your symptoms, then give you a directionless label defined by those symptoms, which is worthless if you don’t value the label for its own sake(4-coded asf thing to do btw). As someone with a 5 fixation, I love labels, but only when they feel meaningful, useful. The enneagram feels meaningful. So yeah, it's cool I guess
@II00I003 ай бұрын
enjoying this series. the elegance of the system I am ambivalent about, but it sure seems like a neat tool for creating characters, as advertised
@KUREHA3D3 ай бұрын
as a 3 i can see this being something we identify with too. i love your breakdowns, good for people like me that take a lot of different types of explaining to understand anything lol.
@Mayo-ow5lb3 ай бұрын
I love you local you remind me of the voices in my head ❤
@kansasseitz22573 ай бұрын
What are your thoughts on the book "7 figure fiction" by t. taylor?
@Not_a_Pro3603 ай бұрын
5:24 new local cannon: clones
@StandardQuip3 ай бұрын
Long time subscriber. Love your vids. Love this new series. Could you do me a giant favor and go to youtube studio, settings -> Channel -> Advanced settings tab and uncheck the box that says "don't show potentially inappropriate words" ? Your auto-captions are totally cramping your style. Thank you and love you
@clemenza28323 ай бұрын
I like your way of deliniating between Fives and Sixes. The "Fives are introverted and Sixes aren't" always bothered me because I hate the western perception of intelligence being associated with introversion. (Not that being introverted is bad obvs.) I also like how you made a point that it's not necessarily intelligence they seek but competence. It just makes it feel less specific in a way that's helpful.
@Somefellowhumanbeing3 ай бұрын
Guys I finally noticed something, so repeatedly throughout the enneagram videos he reminds us that the system he's teaching isn't perfect, also he's probably done countless hours of research to figure out the enneagram based entirely on "the passions (or vices)" he's probably rationalized this so much in his head. I think this man is battling or has battled a 5 fixiation.
@GweniswasntTaken3 ай бұрын
Look up his video "what writers can learn from the enneagram (and Barry). Timestamp around 10:40 Should interest you
@rainydaze44093 ай бұрын
I've been looking for somewhere to post this and finally just decided to drop it off here. True to form this will be long. (5w4) If any of you here have ever played the game Genshin Impact, I think Raiden Ei is a great example of a 5 who is in major crisis. Which was surprising because it's true, you really don't see 5s as main characters going through major life changes (and this one was definitely not by her own free will alone lol.) I won't get into a long summary of her whole story because it's very complicated but she basically loses her entire support system, comes up with this wild plan to put the nation she rules over into a stasis to keep it safe, and locks herself away in a pocket dimension because she's convinced by her own overarching world philosophy that that's the only way to keep the nation (and herself) safe from erosion and decay over time. And then her friend and the main character have to basically forcibly drag her out of her own self-imposed prison by fighting with her and then challenging her view of the world. She's the most 5-coded character I've seen in media in a while, and although she's kind of controversial and some people don't like her, I resonated really strongly with her struggles. And just the fact that she gets (the start of!) a happy ending and gets the chance to be redeemed made me so happy because a lot of the time (when they're not side characters) 5s end up being purely evil, unredeemable villains. Just made me happy ;3; so like if you're looking for more examples of writing a 5, there's a good one. I think her story shows the terrible things 5s are capable of when under that level of pressure, when they are afraid and looking for security and control. Disregarding people's feelings and autonomy, refusing to connect emotionally with someone who was heavily relying on her, and abandoning friends all in a bid to keep them safe are all messed up things that she did, and I get why people dislike her. But I understand why she did them y'know? At their worst 5s can be cruel and cold, unempathetic and think they know better than everyone, and that they're doing terrible things for the greater good. She's viscerally relatable imo. Tl;Dr: Go play genshin impact, or go watch the Inazuma archon quest cutscenes on youtube. Ei is like, the biggest 5 ever, and is forced to go through a huge life shift so she's actually the main character for a little bit there. Also Yae Miko is a 4 I'm pretty sure, and despite whatever y'all think of her, she's an S-tier friend. Every 5 needs a Yae Miko around to keep em straight
@abbeyevangelou3 ай бұрын
Hello Mr ScrtiptMan, I hope this message finds you well. I would like to thank you for all the knowledge you've poured into me. You are a great teacher. If you would like to give your humble students some homework that would be greatly appreciated. A video on writing exercises, or little bits of homework at the end of vids would be amazing! Sincerely Student representative xD
@yunggolem46873 ай бұрын
I don't think it's so much that they're scared of the unknown while everyone else isn't... it's that they're aware of the many potential paths of the future while most others are not. They want to go down their path rather than be helplessly washed down one by the torrent of time.
@uwumarii23 күн бұрын
8:31 "What have you done to me father?" 🤣
@kokisautomaatti3 ай бұрын
love these videos, they make me sit down and think
@koibubbles33023 ай бұрын
I’m a mathematician at heart but the world is so big and confusing that I have seriously considered joining politics JUST so I can find out what is happening in that world. I need to know what’s happening so I can fix it, or at least explain it. Anytime something happens I feel that urge to find an explanation. When people are mean to me online I can’t help but ask why. Mean people are so interesting to me and I always want to dissect them and figure out why they are that way, because I don’t get it.
@justiceiria8693 ай бұрын
From my observations, they act like this because they think they are either a better or Worce person than you. How do they know?, they don't. They are merly projecting their views on you. They do this to reinforce their believes or to cope with their issues. I should note that these people are not always aware of the roots of their behavior. Calling them out is how they slowly become aware of it.
@dado84673 ай бұрын
New number dropped, new addition to my collection
@cocog5788Ай бұрын
Thinking, overthinking and constant intellectualizing is a 5 thing?
@tsunamiscientist568Ай бұрын
Yes.
@gianni2063 ай бұрын
The video I’ve been waiting for. Now I can leave the house.
@nethla3143 ай бұрын
yesss I've been hanging out for this one! got a MC that needs some refinement and this just hits it on the head. Thank you :D
@ecxstasy3479 күн бұрын
When you mention Altered States, I think the movie “Pi” is similar in the main character’s quest to have an answer to the universe, except he actually finds it. Maybe that’s why it’s one of my favourite movies.
@johnes0art3 ай бұрын
Been really enjoying these videos, it's nice to have some starting templates and things I can come back to when I'm confused 👍😎
@weird_mango423 ай бұрын
I've been waiting for the 5 video since you announced the E gram series!
@PeterPan-b7uАй бұрын
I'm an E5. Five years ago, when I was in senior high school, I met one of my kindergarten classmates whom I hadn't seen for twelve years. It was because I heard her name by chance, which sounded familiar to me, and got to know which class she was in during a meeting organized by my school, that I could find her. I went looking for her and met her in a P.E class. Her class and mine had P.E together. I was overwhelmed with strong and irresistible excitement. I felt it was so romantic to meet someone whom I hadn't met for so many years. It was a meet across time. I was so nostalgic for those days, my kindergarten days, which I'm still nostalgic for. It was a meet that connected my senior high school days and my kindergarten days.
@elouisemastandrea48733 ай бұрын
Thank you king
@TimMaxShift9 күн бұрын
2:20 “5” wants to achieve a sense of security and he needs to be competent to have a sense of control over the situation. And its in stories like this that such a character is often met with a loss of a sense of control through encountering something he doesn't understand, encountering something about which he doesn't have enough knowledge to have even a false sense of security. Or simply encountering something that cannot be defeated even with knowledge, i.e. if knowledge alone is not enough to defeat the situation. Man cannot be ready for every problem, so the feeling of security is always an illusion. But in his head lives an absolute worldview “forewarned is forearmed”. And not necessarily conscious, i.e. it may not be some philosophical basis or logical system, but the way a person feels this world on an intuitive level. It is a cliché to give all such characters a philosophical base, which they will necessarily tell in one of their monologues. 5:00 N5 doesn't have to be afraid of love. That they rationalize it is true. But each 5 has strengths in which they really understand something, and some in which they don't. In each story, different aspects of his life are tested. So it is quite possible that the 5 in the story will not have any problems with love. It is important to realize that 5 is not just seeking knowledge, but a sense of what he knows, understands, and for that reason controls. I.e. there could be a character 5, but who would be completely stupid at the same time. His confidence and security will be built entirely on unverified information about how the world works. He will consider himself competent and at the same time watch videos on KZbin about the world conspiracy of the government, about the Illuminati, about scientists hiding some information, about the harm of 5g towers. 5 it's not about real knowledge, it's about obsession in creating the illusion that you know everything and control everything, but not physically, but through having knowledge about something. Sometimes that knowledge is worth something, and sometimes it's not.
@jonathanlovelace5213 ай бұрын
...I definitely had a five-coded growth arc when I was younger. Trying to decide what, if anything, fits me now.
@Zz-_-Ай бұрын
Dayum the tisum break down tho
@verlorenjurlissia46133 ай бұрын
had to pause half way through the vid due to the amount of emotional damage 😭 what a great explanation
@genxer18243 ай бұрын
As a 5 who made bad choices early in life, I'd like to underline one more thing: 5s are fear-driven rather than competence-driven. So they don't go to the lengths required to build universal competence: they do the minimum to build situational competence that makes them feel safe in their current circumstances. --- UPD: In terms of how this can apply to writing, the implications I see are these: the 5's early life situation influences their earliest developed competencies, and if a 5 develops a new competency, the question to ask is "what change in their circumstances drove them to do it?". A situation that can't be fixed or avoided but can be escaped in your head (targeted bullying on the street, abusive household) will result in escapist competencies such as books, games or other addictions. A situation that can be fixed and can't be avoided (poverty, shamed by girls, beaten up by boys, zombies on the street) will result in the bare minimum of obsessive neverending work required to fix it (make all the money, ruin your health to look pretty, get beaten up routinely in a boxing club so you can beat up other folks better, be a prepper).
@poe.and.theholograms3 ай бұрын
07:06 to 07:25 the opportunity to cut to extremely loud and incredibly close or house md was right there!
@JasonBaumgardner3 ай бұрын
As a 5 to help others here, the biggest hurdles I have found is to realize 5’s find security in knowledge. They want to gather all the knowledge possible before taking action. Realize as a 5 you are going to research and know more than most other numbers so start taking action once you feel about 80% prepared cause you’ll never get to 100%. 3,7,8,1 will all jump into action at 5% knowledge base so know you are more prepped than most and start gathering “doing wisdom” and not just “textbook wisdom.” Also 5’s don’t trust emotion. 2’s think emotion is truth. So they actually don’t understand each other much. 5’s usually pair with 1’s in relationships most often. 5’s love the “free spirit” of 7’s and 1’s when healthy (or being social) behave like 7’s. Hope that’s helpful!
@ShandoGuardian3 ай бұрын
I think the enneagram offers a great insight into how people nurture affects their personality but im wondering how you square that with the nature side of personality.
@g_vost2 ай бұрын
9:08 who else thought he was gonna pull an OSP Red?
@decadesyearoldthingsreview65953 ай бұрын
Local don’t forget you are playing in the ballpark of future enneagram enthusiasts will find this video on a playlist and will be a series what people will moarn if it’s get taken down
@codtheseawing36093 ай бұрын
I can already tell when he does 4 it going to feel like a personal attack
@jonathansalvador50373 ай бұрын
Only complaint is that I can’t yet watch the videos for the remaining four types so I can understand the types in the context of one another and decide what fixation I actually have without getting prematurely attached to the wrong one.
@melpomenethemuse3 ай бұрын
This is going to be so helpful. The writing parasites are hissing now (positive)
@zixszixs38433 ай бұрын
A 5 type is more about emotions and control then anything else. We use the world as substitute for ourselves we need to understand the world so that we can understand ourselves so that we can properly process and understand our emotions. Admitting you can't understand the world is admitting we can't properly control our emotions. We are more about control then anything the idea of mastering somthing or being good at somthing is our wey getting control and feeling safe.